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  • The Secret Life Of A Manchester Escort Addict

    The Secret Life Of A Manchester Escort Addict

    Ever wondered what goes on behind the closed doors of a Manchester escort addict? Well, get ready to peek into the fascinating and secretive world of one individual who never expected to fall down the rabbit hole of addiction. In this article, we’ll explore the unexpected journey of a person who found themselves hooked on the thrill and excitement of the escort industry in the bustling city of Manchester. From the highs to the lows, buckle up as we delve into the captivating and clandestine world of a Manchester escort addict and uncover the truth behind their unforeseen addiction.

    The Beginning: Falling into the Rabbit Hole

    It all started innocently enough, with a friend recommending a discreet escort service in Manchester. I hesitated at first, but curiosity got the better of me and I made that fateful phone call. The allure of forbidden desire and the promise of ultimate satisfaction were too hard to resist.

    The Temptation of the Unknown

    As I entered the world of escort services, I was consumed by a thrilling adrenaline rush. Each encounter brought a new level of excitement and escapism from the mundane routine of everyday life. I found myself craving more of the thrill and the temporary escape from reality that these encounters provided.

    The Slippery Slope

    What began as a casual exploration soon turned into a full-blown addiction. I found myself unable to resist the temptation of scheduling more and more encounters, chasing that high that only the world of escorts could provide. Little did I know that I was falling deeper into the rabbit hole of addiction, losing myself in a secret life that I never expected to lead.

    The Thrill of the Chase: Escaping Reality

    Escorting provides a temporary escape from the stresses and monotony of everyday life. The thrill of meeting new clients and experiencing different encounters can be addictive. It offers a sense of excitement and adventure that is hard to find elsewhere.

    For many, being an escort allows them to step into a different persona, leaving behind their worries and responsibilities. The allure of being desired and wanted can be intoxicating. It’s a way to break free from the constraints of reality and explore a world of fantasy and pleasure.

    Overall, the rush of adrenaline and the feeling of being in control can be a powerful draw for those caught up in the world of escorting.

    The Cost of Addiction: Financial and Emotional Strain

    • Addiction can have a heavy toll, both financially and emotionally.
    • Financially, the costs of maintaining an addiction can add up quickly.
    • From funding the addiction itself to dealing with the consequences of impulsive behaviour, the financial strain can be overwhelming.
    • Emotional costs can also be significant, as addiction can lead to strained relationships, feelings of guilt and shame, and a sense of isolation.
    • Many addicts find themselves in a cycle of spending money they don’t have to feed their addiction.
    • This can lead to debt, financial instability, and a constant need to find ways to fund their habit.
    • The emotional toll of addiction can also be immense, with feelings of despair, hopelessness, and low self-worth.
    • Seeking help is crucial in tackling both the financial and emotional burdens of addiction.

    Caught in the Web: The Impact on Relationships

    • The addiction to Manchester escorts can strain relationships with loved ones.
    • Deceit and secrecy become the norm as the addict hides their double life.
    • Trust is eroded, leading to broken relationships and hurt feelings.
    • Communication breaks down, creating distance between the addict and their partner.
    • Emotional intimacy suffers as the addict prioritises their addiction over their loved ones.
    • The web of lies woven by the addict can be difficult to untangle, causing lasting damage to relationships.

    Seeking Help: Breaking Free from the Grip

    If you find yourself caught in the grip of an unexpected addiction, it’s crucial to seek help. There are resources available to support you in breaking free from this cycle. Remember, you don’t have to face this alone. Reach out to friends, family, or a professional for assistance.

    • Therapy: Consider seeking therapy to address the underlying issues that may have led to your addiction. A therapist can help you develop coping mechanisms and strategies to navigate through this challenging time.
    • Support Groups: Joining a support group can provide you with a sense of community and understanding. Sharing your experiences with others who are going through similar struggles can be incredibly empowering.
    • Self-Care: Prioritise self-care activities that bring you joy and relaxation. Engage in activities that promote your physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Taking care of yourself is essential in your journey towards breaking free from addiction.

    Moving Forward: Life After Addiction

    After overcoming addiction, it’s crucial to focus on maintaining sobriety and rebuilding your life. This process may involve seeking professional help, joining support groups, and making lifestyle changes. Surrounding yourself with positive influences and avoiding triggers can help prevent relapse.

    Creating new routines and hobbies can aid in filling the void left by addiction. Developing healthy coping mechanisms and practising self-care are essential for long-term recovery. Remember that progress may not always be linear, and setbacks are part of the journey. Stay committed to your sobriety and take one day at a time.

    Tips for Life After Addiction:

    • Seek professional help and support groups.
    • Surround yourself with positive influences.
    • Develop new routines and hobbies.
    • Practise healthy coping mechanisms and self-care.
    • Stay committed to sobriety and take it one day at a time.

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  • Why You Should Enjoy Amsterdam With A High Class Independent Escort

    Why You Should Enjoy Amsterdam With A High Class Independent Escort

    I’ve been an independent companion for a couple of years now, and I can honestly say it’s been one of the most amazing experiences of my life!

    When I first started, I for sure had the first time nervousness. But once I got over that hump of meeting someone new, the first time “nervousness” went away and I knew the industry was for me— there were so many other exciting things to think about! Like will we really match, do they have realistic expectations, and so on…

    But you know what? All those things have happened—and they’ve all been just fine. It’s great being able to explore your sensuality with someone who’s just as interested in exploring YOU, and clients don’t feel judged when being in the presence of a companion. And even better when that person is someone you might not encounter this close in your everyday life—someone who takes you out for dinner or dancing or whatever else comes up, and then on top of this also compensates you for your time. I figured out quite quickly that being a companion is not purely about sex, but also intimacy on different levels while building a connection and exploring your sexuality. 

    Not only are my clients great people who provide me with experiences I didn’t imagine were possible before on this scale otherwise, but it gives them an opportunity to also release some of their energy and let go of their everyday things. I’m very happy with being that escape whether that is in a more intimate and sexual fashion, a social aspect and them being heard, or just for some fun (wild) times.

    What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

    I like to think of myself as bubbly, kindhearted, and very sensual. I’ve heard that I tend to light up the room with my presence—and that it’s not just because of the way I look! But because I’m also outgoing and judgment-free, clients never feel judged when they are around me.

    When it comes to intimacy, I’m an adventurous soul who loves a good night in bed (or other areas of the room). I believe life is to be enjoyed and make sure it’s filled with laughter, passion, and connection. That and being the best arm candy in Amsterdam for any occasion…

    With all the above discretion for those who book me is very important. This is why clients often book time and time again and become great regulars. I certainly don’t take those experiences for granted—that’s why being a beauty with brains for sure is such an important part of what makes me a companion so special!

    The Best Duration To Spend Amsterdam Together With Me!

    I know that’s not everyone’s cup of tea, and I do cater to shorter bookings as they can sometimes be more convenient for many reasons. But I’ve also found that longer bookings are more fun for both parties—in fact, they’re my preferred type of dates! There’s just more room for connection and intimacy when you’re spending more time together. And if you’re looking for something really special? Well, then I think it’s worth it to invest in yourself by booking an extra couple of hours of time with me. So I’d say starting out with 3-4 hours (or much longer) and planning something fun makes a great recipe for a nice time together.

    Advantages Of Booking Me, An Independent Escort

    I’m sure there are some good escort agencies out there, but based on what a lot of clients have told me, High Class Independent Escorts are preferred.

    Agencies are probably great because they handle all of the details, and if you are a client you’d most likely would like to go out with someone real and reputable. But if you want to go on a date with someone who is just as excited about going out with you as you are about going out with them, then an independent companion is the way to go. The idea that someone else takes a huge percentage, and then knowing that there is no other form of seeing more of her besides a profile on the agency site, doesn’t always resonate well with clients.

    And that’s not all: when you book a reputable Independent Companion, you can get a feel for her before the actual deal. You’ll get to see her website and social media posts so that you can gauge who she is before booking her. And because she’s not working for an agency, she’ll be more invested in making sure her clientele is happy than if she were just another worker bee in an “office” so to say and the middle (wo)man not being included…

    Ps; Reputable independent companions are just as discreet as agencies if not more!

    How We’ll Spend Our Time Together In Amsterdam

    There are so many fun things to do in Amsterdam. I get requested a lot of times for dinner dates and occasionally get invited on trips as well. To me, this is so flattering, because not only are you choosing me as your companion for the date and to be your arm candy, but you truly value connection outside of the bedroom and love extended time together. The travel dates often happen once an initial connection has been formed of course. There’s never any pressure to book for such a long time and I also appreciate those that prefer shorter dates.

    Now with the longer dates I love exploring new places, and restaurants or just being a fun tour guide. in Amsterdam. I once went with a client to a kind of underground area where there is a lot of street art because he’s also into that like myself. Then other times I’ve suggested hotels where the tasting menu was very elaborate and we had a more posh kind of date.

    As you probably know Amsterdam is famous for many things and particularly our coffee shops. I once surprised a client with a red velvet cake from one of our famous coffee shops, because unlike myself he’s much more experienced with that. The “special” red velvet cake was a cute personal touch of my own, and let’s just say, the 24 hours we spent together were even more hilarious as we tried to go to a museum in the afternoon and couldn’t contain our laughter. After some fun private time in his hotel room, we switched it up and went to an upscale strip club which was the best and a perfect way to close off the night! The munchies were something else though…

    Etiquette Or Rules For A Good Time Together

    There are some guidelines to make sure we have a great time. Being respectful is common sense, as well as hygiene of course. Making sure any agreed-upon finances are out of the way preferably at the beginning of that date. I prefer not having to ask for it and rarely will, but luckily the type of gentlemen that I meet all understand that. Sometimes those things are handled either by them before the date or by their assistant for discretion. Other than the above, communication is key, so making sure that the desires and expectations line up is super important. This is why I’ve taken the time to craft my website, social media, and advertisement platforms so there are no misunderstandings. From then the fun can really begin!

    Tiffany Elease:

    My name is Tiffany Elease., and I’m so excited to be writing again for SimplySxy! I consider myself an ambitious, witty, and sensual exotic high class escort that is based in Amsterdam the Netherlands. Being born and raised in the Netherlands and calling Amsterdam my home has allowed me to explore different parts of Europe, however, there are so many more places to discover or better said explore with the right suitor.

    The discretion of those I meet has always been very important to me. I would describe myself as a genuinely caring person who is very warm and inviting and also have a true passion for what I do. I believe mutual pleasure makes things more intimate while also keeping it lighthearted and fun…

    Follow me on:

    Twitter: @Tiffany_Elease and @TiffanyElease1

    Instagram: @Meet.TiffanyElease

    Telegram: TiffanyElease 1

    Website: www.TiffanyElease.com

    Email: Contact@TiffanyElease.com or TiffanyElease@gmail.com

    Upcoming Works: I’ve been met with so much enthusiasm since my return to the industry, and I’m very much excited about my upcoming “Welcome back” photoshoot as well as my many travels to different parts of Côte d’Azur like Cannes, and Monaco. Perhaps I might also make my way to parts of Switzerland so stay tuned. And since Singapore has been calling my name, there’s a slight chance I’ll be persuaded to hop over in 2024… 

    Photos courtesy of Tiffany Elease

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  • Why You Should Enjoy Germany With An Escort

    Why You Should Enjoy Germany With An Escort

    Technically, I “only” work part-time as an escort. I study at a German university on the side. But my heart belongs to sensual escorting. It is important to me that a gentleman feels comfortable with me and can address his wishes quite openly. After all, it is about fulfilling the most personal fantasies.

    As a private escort, I want to create a space where the gentlemen can live out their lust openly and without prejudice. There is no service list that I work off. Every date is absolutely unique – how we meet, what we do together, where our evening ends. As an independent escort, I create my own rules. This makes the encounter personal and simply genuine. I have heart beatings and butterflies in my stomach before every date. And I hope that the gentlemen will feel the same way!

    How Is The Escorting Industry Like In Germany?

    Of course, I cannot speak for every escort in Germany. My colleagues are simply too different and diverse for that. For myself, working as an escort in Germany is a wonderful way to pursue my passion. I feel comfortable with my work and get to know many interesting people.

    For me, working as an escort is a very natural thing. Sex work is legal in Germany and regulated by certain laws. For example, I have to register and of course pay taxes. 

    What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

    I am very balanced and bring that emotional stability to our date. I manage the dance between social butterfly and sensitive companion. I manage this so well because on the one hand I am quite introverted and like to listen, but on the other hand I also have extroverted sides to me. Thanks to my empathy and social competence, I know exactly what is “required” and when – this enables me to adapt very well to my counterpart.

    I am also a very organised person. I love planning things – for example, a nice trip or a special outing. And if something goes wrong, it’s not the end of the world. Then we laugh about it and find another solution. 

    Enjoying The GFE With Me

    Experience shows that time passes very quickly with me. We need a little more time to have good conversations. And private time is also exciting and should be duly celebrated. That’s why I’m often booked for longer encounters. Even my dinner date is relatively long at five hours.

    GFE in Germany is a very popular concept and often designed for a longer relationship. I often hear that people can quickly relax in my presence and take a break from everyday life. It is important to me to build a relationship even before the date. Therefore, we stay in contact after the booking (if you want that) and a phone conversation before our date is also possible. I patiently answer all your questions and take away some of the tension before our first meeting. 

    Best Duration To Enjoy Germany With Me

    My favourite encounters are weekend dates and travel companions. Every major city in Germany can be reached within a few hours. That leaves plenty of time on a weekend for sightseeing together, for adventures and quiet moments. Are you more drawn to the countryside? Germany has many castles that are now home to romantic hotels. In a wellness hotel we can relax together and feel like lord and mistress of a castle. Or we can rent a vintage car and explore the area.

    The area around Frankfurt am Main is ideal for this: Around the metropolis there are numerous casinos, thermal spas and enchanted forests that we can explore together. By the way: Germany has some of the world’s best and most exclusive swingers clubs, for example Schloss Milkersdorf near Berlin.

    What Does A Gentleman Need To Know Before Engaging You?

     I like to keep things plain and simple in my everyday life. That’s also how I like to handle a booking. Of course, I’m very happy if you read my website carefully and maybe even take a look at my FAQ. But you don’t have to read every single word. It’s enough if you look at my picture gallery (and honestly – we all look at the pictures first, that’s perfectly okay) and fill out my contact form carefully.

    There you will find all the information you need to get an answer from me. If you do take the time to browse the website a bit more, I would be very happy. I am honoured that you are taking the time to get to know me better.

    Etiquette & Rules To Follow

    I believe that we all become the lovable person we are through our experiences, interests, hobbies, happy moments and mistakes. And I firmly believe that everyone is lovable. My experiences have shaped me into the person (and escort) I am today. Every journey that has broadened my horizons and every skill I have learnt on a course has changed and influenced me.

    So I enjoy the company of men who have experienced something, who have something to tell and from whom I can learn something. And who can take something away from me from the encounter – even if it’s just a nice memory. I’m interested in the rough edges, the vanilla sides and the kinky fantasies.

    In short: I want the gentleman to be able to be himself and to understand and respect my limits as a person and escort. 

    Maya Belfort is an independent escort in Germany and worldwide. A charming companion, kinky playmate and sensitive lover, she loves to explore the most beautiful sides of Germany with a gentleman. GFE and travel companionship on exciting weekend trips are her favourite disciplines. Besides the sensual escort service, she is studying in a big German city and gathers new experiences on her numerous trips.

    Follow Maya Belfort on

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/mayabelfort

    Website: https://en.mayabelfort.com/

    Article images courtesy of Maya Belfort

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  • What Is The High End Girlfriend Experience?

    What Is The High End Girlfriend Experience?

    I think that the search for companionship is the universal human experience. After our basic needs like food and shelter are taken care of, we all hunger to find the person/people who understand us and want our company in return. I am happiest when I have meaningful relationships with others. 

    What Makes The GFE Very Popular

    In the modern era, we are increasingly disconnected from other people. How often have you been on a date where the other person spents the whole night on their phone? Tried to catch up with friends only to have them be too busy with family and work? Had someone reach out to you, only to be too busy yourself? We have so many demands it’s rare to find time to be totally available for someone and have them reciprocate 100% in return. 

    GFE is all about that connection. It’s a beautiful thing to put the world away for an hour or two and have a companion devote all their attention on you. GFE means different things to different people (after all, no two girlfriends are the same), but I think a common thread that separates it from a more basic full service, is a more personable approach where talking, kissing and making a genuine connection are encouraged. 

    Misconceptions About The GFE

     “We get on so well, we should date in real life.” 

    Seeing an escort for GFE and dating one are two very different experiences. High end escorts are busy, messy, frustrating humans just like everyone else. We put all that aside during our time with you, because you because you pay us to. I enjoy the experience a great deal, but it’s not representative of what I’d be like to date. 

    “GFE is the best, all other services are seedy or cheap.” 

    Everyone has a different approach to sex work and different things work for different people. There can be a tendency to try and put providers and clients into a hierarchy, but what’s the point in that?What works for you is what’s best. 

    “$550 an hour, that’s $4400 a day! You make over a million a year.” 

    I often see logic defying math applied my my earnings. Generally this is an attempt to shame me into a discounted rate, but sometimes it’s genuine confusion based on a few assumptions:

    1. That we see back to back clients all day, every day. I generally see 1-2 clients a week – less work ensures I’m excited to see everyone I meet – you’re paying for exclusivity.
    2. That we don’t have expenses or pay tax. I put aside half of my earnings to cover insurance premiums, tax and compulsory contributions to the government retirement scheme. After that I still have to pay rent for my incall, advertising, transport to and from appointments and for all the hair products, make up, lingerie and clothes I use for work. 
    3. That we earn a salary. My hourly rate is only paid when I’m face to face with a client. All the prep work and administration is unpaid, as are sick leave and holidays. 

    What Makes Me The Perfect Companion

    I love connecting with people: finding things in common, new things to love, listening and learning. I’m confident, but quietly so. I put my clients at ease while letting there be space for their ideas and desires. 

    But I think the most important part of my success in the industry is that I am comfortable with who I am and am good at communicating that. I can’t possibly please everyone, but my advertising and screening ensures that those people are looking elsewhere, while I’m with those I can show the time of their lives. 

    Tips For Clients To Truly Enjoy The GFE

    1. Research your escort. I put a lot of effort into my advertising copy and Twitter to ensure that you can get a good idea of my personality and physical presence before we meet. Doing your research means you have the best chance of meeting someone you click with first try. This is also a good time to check if they are reputable- presence on established advertising sites, social media presence, reviews and length of time in the industry are all good signs. Most high end escorts will require screening information and/or deposits. Make sure you are comfortable with this before you reach out. 
    2. Make the booking process smooth. When you contact your chosen escort make sure you follow any guidelines she gives. Be prepared to provide a deposit and/or screening information. Do not haggle about these requirements or about price. Most escorts will simply stop replying, but some may be pressured into seeing you – they will then be on edge and stressed after your interaction. A smooth and polite booking process puts us at ease and in the best mood to show you a wonderful time. 
    3. Just book! After you’ve done your reading and got the funds together, it’s time to reach out and make a time to meet. Waiting too long can build anxiety that will make it hard to enjoy your time together. It can also lead to disappointment if you build up too many expectations in your head (there’s only so much you can do in one session!). Or, worst of all, while you delay the escort of your choice may leave the industry. So take a deep breath and reach out before it’s too late! 

    Amelia Appleby – Amelia is a high end, independent escort in Wellington, New Zealand. Her approach to sex work is based on the idea of genuine human connection being an essential part of a healthy life. With over 10 years in the industry, Amelia prides herself on bringing passion and calm confidence to every meeting. 

    Follow Amelia Appleby on

    Twitter: @AmeliaWLG

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    https://nzpleasures.co.nz/advertisers/amelia-appleby/

    https://tryst.link/escort/amelia-celeste

    Amelia is available in Wellington city and the rest of NZ by appointment!

    Images from Amelia Appleby

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  • How Does Open Communication Lead To Better Sex?

    How Does Open Communication Lead To Better Sex?

    Well apart from loving it, I think sex is a really powerful way to explore different aspects of our identity. I think sex is as varied as music is and it can mean something different every time we choose to participate. Sometimes it is fun and silly, sometimes it is intense and passionate, sometimes it is hot, dark, pounding and sweaty and sometimes, it’s deeply intimate or romantic.

    I wish that sex and sexuality wasn’t as stigmatized and that more people felt comfortable to express and explore their sexuality, fantasies and desires without being burdened by feelings of shame.

    The Importance Of Communication

    Communication is soooo important and hugely underrated! Working towards feeling comfortable enough to express what you want in the bedroom is a huge step to opening up your sexual encounters and experiences. The most important part of communication is learning how to listen and respond! After all is there anything hotter than when you really start listening to the breathing and moans of someone else in bed and responding accordingly?

    As someone who has lots of sex with different people, it has taught me how different everyone’s bodies are! Without open communication, how can we expect our bedfellows to know exactly what feels good! So, create a space where honest dialogue is encouraged but also listen out for those non-verbal cues that come with slowing things down, speeding them up to try to lock into you playmates reactions. I think we can all learn more from the BDSM community and the conversations they engage in before any type of play. To see where each other’s head is at that day and what sorts of things they would like to explore!

    If you are wanting things to get a little bit kinky in your sex life, there are a few things you can do to help move things along. 1) Be brave – If you are brave enough to share your desires with a lover/play pal, it will give them permission to do the same. 2) Timing – Bring things up at a time which is relaxed and intimate but not sexual – this will give them time to think about things and not feel pressured or tricked into something. 3) Be ready to take no for an answer. Sex is only fun when both parties are actively enthusiastically consenting. It is also ok to try things and decide they are not for us! That doesn’t mean we are boring or vanilla.

    Why I’m An Ideal Companion To Be With

    I think it is my natural curiosity about people and my love for learning from varied perspectives of the world. I am a really empathetic and optimistic person so it is really easy for me to find qualities I find attractive in people and am able to form connections quickly.  There is something I can find to admire in almost anyone so my warmth and interest is always genuine. I think *hope* my dates can sense that.

    I am also intelligent and articulate and can seamlessly fit into most environments. Intimacy, friendship, desire and human touch are a hugely important part of the human experience and I feel really thankful that I get to engage in such an important and intimate time with so many people. I spend a lot of time listening and learning about people’s lives.  I also think I know how to keep things light hearted and fun.

    Reasons For Seeking Companionship

    Firstly, I want to clarify that it is not JUST men who seek companionship. But it does form a large majority. As humans, I think at our core we all really just want connection both emotionally and physically. Physical touch can make us feel so alive and cared for. There are so many different reasons someone would seek a companion to spend time with.

    Lot’s of people are too busy to maintain a relationship, are working through different elements of their sexuality, want to lose their virginity in a safe space or haven’t had the opportunity to engage with someone physically in a while.  Also, I think there is something really great about how defined the time spent with a companion is.

    There are clear boundaries I expect to be respected from my dates around emotions, time and physical elements. This brings a real sense of clarity to the time we spend together and creates an environment which I think tends to bring out the best version of most people. They also know that I am not going to judge them for their bodies or desires so it can be a space that is free of any insecurities around their bodies or sexuality that they may be holding.

    Ways To Engage Someone Who Is Shy

    Finding joy in all aspects of my life is something I really strive for. I try to make my interactions playful and no pressure. Although I am long-legged with a cute butt, I am also really clumsy and an enormous dork. I honestly really just believe that bodies are bodies. Sometimes in sex, things make funny noises, or I fall over when I take off my underwear, or one of us burps. I like to meet my dates as a human first and a fantasy second.

    Which is a relief because it takes the pressure off both of us that we have to “perform” and we can just enjoy each others’ company. Although having said, that I think I give a pretty mean blowjob as well which can’t hurt someone’s nerves.

     I also really try to gauge both in the lead up to meeting and the first part of our date what sort of experience they are after and then focus on that.

    My Ideal Date & Expectations

    My ideal dates are always longer bookings so we really have time to get to know each other. I would love to meet first over a bottle of wine and some delicious food. Somewhere cosy and atmospheric. Increasingly stealing excuses to brush each other’s bodies throughout the meal in a slow lead up to spending some alone time together. I have never been on a holiday for a booking and I hope that someone decides to whisk me away to a tropical island or cosy cabin at some point!

    I would expect my dates to be polite and respectful from the very first message or email interaction until the end of our time together. Because I have a full time civilian job, I only see a handful of people and am very selective about who I will meet. I don’t think people realise how many messages companions can receive and how quickly we will make our judgements around if we want to spend time with someone.

    Also, hygiene. We make the effort to look our best for you and it is always appreciated when people do the same. Also, again, for the people up the back. Hygiene.

    Charlie Grace – My name is Charlie Grace and I am an Australian touring companion. I offer an amazing Girl Friend Experience and pride myself on always being articulate, intelligent with a down-to-earth warmth during my encounters. I’m always excited to hear from prospective dates around Australia and only engage with people who are polite, respectful and treat me like a human from the first time they message me. When I’m not working my civilian job or having exciting encounters I’m either out in nature or at an art gallery. 

    Follow Charlie Grace on

    Twitter: @CharlieGraceXOX

    Scarlet Blue: https://scarletblue.com.au/escort/charlie-grace/charlie-grace-touring?city=Sydney

    Dakota Dice: https://dakotadice.com.au/escort/charlie-grace

    Article images courtesy of Charlie Grace

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  • Why You Should Enjoy Tokyo With A Companion

    Why You Should Enjoy Tokyo With A Companion

    As you know, Tokyo is a large, lively city with many people. However, it’s not always easy to make connections, especially if you’re new to the city. Exploring Tokyo with a companion who knows the local language and culture is like having a perfect partner in crime. Instead of feeling alone in the crowd, you will feel electrified by the city’s energy with me by your side. Exploring together is always more exciting than exploring alone.  

    For me, companionship is really all about connection. We are often so busy that we forget to stop and appreciate what it is like to connect with each other. There’s something so special about being truly intimate and sharing yourself with another. If you feel like something is missing in your life, connecting with a companion can reignite your desire.

    The Japan Escorting Industry

    Japan has many escorting agencies, just like many other countries do. However, it seems that Japanese agencies often avoid foreign clients because of the language barrier. For that reason, if you visit Tokyo for the first time, I would recommend booking a private escort who also speaks your language. Tokyo is a large, lively city, so I’m sure you’ll be able to find just what you’re looking for!

    What Makes Me A Great Companion

    To be honest, I’m a little shy! But this certainly doesn’t stop me from being passionate. I genuinely enjoy getting to know the gentlemen I meet, and I can tell that they feel that. I love hearing their stories and learning what makes them tick.

    Ways We Can Enjoy Tokyo Together

    I grew in central Tokyo, so perhaps I’m biased, but I feel that there are endless things to enjoy about the city. If you are thinking of visiting, one of the best seasons in Japan is Spring – it’s the perfect time to walk through the park and enjoy the beautiful sakura (cherry blossoms).

    In other seasons, there are plenty of good restaurants to enjoy – the food here is amazing! Some locations might not look fancy from the outside, but I guarantee they are worth a try. Whether you’re visiting Tokyo for a few hours or a few weeks, I’ll happily be your guide. 

    What Gentlemen Should Do Prior To Meeting

    As I said, the connection between the two of us is the most important thing to me. For this reason, I ask that you read a little bit about me, and also include a little bit of information about yourself when you send a date request. This helps me figure out if I am the right companion for you – I want to ensure that you have a great time. 

    It’s also important to know that I am rarely available for same-day dates as I have a busy life and want to ensure I can take the time to properly prepare to meet you. So, if possible, I ask that gentlemen enquire in advance where possible. I request a deposit to cover my transportation costs, but we can speak about this more if you choose to book a date with me.

    What’s Important To Me

    Overall, the most important things to me are simply manners and genuine care. I can’t deny that I love it when a gentleman meets me with a hug and a smile. 

    If gentlemen are especially curious, I have a page on my website that covers etiquette (https://www.belbell.com/terms). 

    Miss Bel – Your exclusive passionate girlfriend and travel guide. Located in beautiful Tokyo. Trilingual book lover and coffee addict.

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  • Why You Should Enjoy A Week in the UK With A Companion

    Why You Should Enjoy A Week in the UK With A Companion

    Luxury and discretion feel very natural to me. A person’s private indulgences should be private. It is only when we feel truly safe and secure in comfortable surroundings that we can really open up to another person, sexually or emotionally, and that’s where the fun and excitement really begin.

    How Popular Is Companionship In UK?

    Friendship with benefits is popular the world over, isn’t it?! Certainly here in the UK it’s very popular. Sex is great, but have you been on holiday with your girl, dining at the finest establishments, seeing her all dressed up for the theatre, meeting her fun, happy friends in cocktail bars and having threesomes with them later, been skydiving and wine-tasting and sunbathing and played golf with her? Sometimes even taking a nap with someone can be as intimate as sex.

    What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

    I am an elegant, affectionate, sensual hedonist and elite, discreet dating companion… a blonde, ultra-feminine and authentically kinky English rose. I have a big, adventurous heart, and look for the same in others. I particularly enjoy sharing ideas, jokes and friendly conversation over dinner and cocktails after we have got to know each other more intimately in private.

    I know that most people like to do dinner first, and then sex, but I’m the other way around! I feel so much more able to chat to someone over a plate of oysters when we have seen each other naked and worked up an appetite.

    Our Ideal Itinerary To Spend UK Together

    I’m the kind of girl who enjoys a lavish getaway in thoughtful company every once in a while. After a few days at a 5* hotel, it starts to feel like home and the staff start to feel like friends. In order to avoid this, you can stay at two different places over the course of a week, maybe in different areas so you have more to explore.

    I’m a real foodie. I like to take the opportunity to visit the best restaurants wherever I’m going; in London of course, the list is practically endless, although I do have a good list that I’ve put together on my website. I like to go to the ballet or opera or to see a really good play, go to any interesting exhibitions that are on – there’s always something at the V&A, and usually at the National Galleries too. The National Gallery also does interesting little arty events and tours that I’ve always enjoyed a lot. I like art but I don’t know much about it so I like to have a knowledgeable person show me round the pieces and explain them to me.

    Nightclubs and parties like Torture Garden can really spice things up and are a fun excuse to get really dolled up in the most scandalous outfits – the sort of thing I would normally only wear in the bedroom!

    The most unique thing I’ve ever done on holiday with a client was a sponsored skydive over Stonehenge for charity. To my own surprise, I actually loved it and would definitely do it again. We both had to go and have a lie-down afterwards, though! Sometimes it’s nice just to grab a coffee and go shopping or for a walk in the park.

    What You Can Expect From My GFE

    They can expect me to always make them jump out of planes. Kidding. I’m always warm and friendly because I love connecting with nice people. It’s romantic. I look for a genuine connection, not lukewarm, robotic hook-ups. A fling can be fun but the chemistry that builds up over a series of dates can’t be beaten. It’s powerful and exciting.

    If I’m hosting a first date or a tenth date in my hotel room, I like to light scented candles and have the champagne on ice ready for my date’s arrival. It’s a nice way to show you care and create a mysterious and seductive little world to enjoy for a couple of hours.

    We Can Kink Things Up Too!

    I have a “bad girl” side to me, as well as the “good girl” side you see in public. My favourite personal fantasy is the idea of a nice, normal, well-dressed man who seem respectable to the outside world but has a naughty secret or two he keeps private.

    Maybe he likes to wear lingerie, or be tied up and spanked, I don’t know. Anything, really. I just love that it’s something that not everyone knows about. That really gets me going. So if someone wants to share their kinky secret with me over a bottle of Dom, I’m all ears.

    My name is Lilly Watson, and I am a lady of leisure and upscale companion for friendly meetings and adventures in London and beyond. Interests include vintage glamour, cinema, fine dining, the theatre, shopping, history, playing golf (very badly) and socialising with friends in opulent hotels and restaurants. I also have a particular passion for threesomes.

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    I will be dating again just as soon as lockdown restrictions are sufficiently eased.

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  • How To Enjoy The GFE In Warsaw With A Companion

    How To Enjoy The GFE In Warsaw With A Companion

    There’s an undeniable pleasure in a female’s life – and that is being adored. Working as a high class escort, I wouldn’t call my job just a something I do for money.  I feel excited every time I come to meet my client and when from the very first moment, I can see this big “wow” in his eyes. It’s my biggest motivation to do my best to leave him dazzled.

    How Is The Escorting Industry In Warsaw & Poland?

     A huge majority of escorts ads you can find in Warsaw (in fact in the whole Poland) are posted by agencies and just pretend to be private. Obviously, the lower the price is, the smaller is the chance to meet a nice girl, at least similar to the one on photos. But even if you’ve decided to accept a higher price – it may not save you from the agencies tricks, when they simply send to you their first available girl.  So if you’ll hear, “I can be at your place in 30-40 minutes”, you better be  careful.

    Still, not many girls in Poland decide work for themselves and  it’s quite easy to verify – independent escorts should have their own website or Twitter/IG profile.  It also takes more time to make a booking, as a deposit is often required and rates might be higher than average. Anyway – it reflects in the quality, as every escort works for their own reputation and prefers to meet regular clients.

    Reasons Men Seek The Girlfriend Experience

    A typical escort service is all about relieving  a sexual tension. Simple, quick and fair transaction. However, not for those gentlemen who expects some other kind of intimacy – together with affection and sensitivity, and who want to have a meeting with woman, not only for the woman’s body . At the same time, they want to keep things away from making a relationship.

    Choosing a GFE service is a perfectly safe option, as a “controlled date”. In addition, comparing to dating apps,  you don’t need to worry if it’s gonna end in your bedroom.

    What Makes Me An Ideal GFE Companion

    What I find best in the GFE is that it lets you to build a short-time close and sexy relation with the other person in a very natural way. I like people and I love to listen – as a bonus, my clients are usually fascinating people with amazing stories to share!  Conversation also gives enough time to find out more about my partner needs, and to seduce in the way that let him believes, that it’s him who seduced me.

    I called the relations “short-time”, but in fact there’s no need to rush. Personally I think, that one hour GFE meeting wouldn’t make any sense, so I don’t provide it.  My regular clients propositions are usually longer stays, like overnight, weekends somewhere far away from the city, or invitations to be their travel companion during a short holiday. I’ve been told its because I’m that smiling and easy to be with type of women, who can easily adjust to her partner.

    Best Duration To Enjoy Warsaw Together

    Dinner dates and overnight stays – that’s what I enjoy the most. Both time (evening) and place (restaurant or cocktail bar – there’s a really big choice of good places to go in Warsaw) are much more natural scenery for chat and flirt than a hotel room.

    Etiquette Gentlemen Must Follow

    I’m pretty lucky to meet on my way, mostly a 100% gentlemen. I really select my clients from the first message they send. It’s simply because if one’s behaviour will ever start make me feel uncomfortable, I would decide to leave from the date – it’s just not worth wasting my nerves. What I definitely don’t accept is the lack of discretion, being rude, loud or aggressive. Also asking about discounts or possibility to pay after the meeting.

    How To Impress Me

    As much, I want my clients to enjoy our time together, as much I appreciate effort they put into preparing a perfect date. Even the smallest things matters – flowers or following my cuisine preferences while choosing  a restaurant surely, then surely a romantic weekend in SPA or small gift, like piece of jewelry, can make me wanna go extra mile. But here’s the simple truth – if  you want me to be a woman of your dreams, then make me feel like I’m one.

    Bettie Golden – Polish high class companion, independent GFE expert in Warsaw, open-minded lover of both – gents and ladies. Question, that I hate the most as a SW is “Do you have any job?”. In my retirement I’ll be travelling even more, than I do now.

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    In 2021 I’m available for meetings only till August 8th.

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  • How To Get Started Into Swinging For Couples

    How To Get Started Into Swinging For Couples

    In the last 20 years, alternative lifestyles and relationships other than  traditional ‘monogamous heterosexual’ marriage has gained acceptance and popularity. Adult porn stars, such as Jemma Jameson, have become household names. Movies such as Eyes Wide Shut was a box office hit, and the 50 Shades of Grey series started an entire movement, where people felt free to openly discuss subjects once thought of as taboo. The internet has a never ending supply of access to free porn, and the content has shifted from big budget productions, with actresses that 90% of the population cannot relate to, and replaced with amateur and reality porn. 

    Sex is no longer such a taboo topic,  and people are now comfortable enough to share their desires without the fear of being judged. We have so many different types of relationship dynamics today, and it would be foolish to think that traditional, monogamous relationships are ideal for everyone.  For some, exploring the options outside what is considered the ‘norm’ can teach you things you never knew about yourself or your partner by opening up the channel for communication,  challenging perceived sexual and personal boundaries, and strengthening the relationship with oneself and your partner. 

    How My Interest In Swinging Began

    Several years ago, I shot about a dozen adult films in LA and Miami. I became good friends with one of the male actors, who happened to live in Dallas, and we quickly became close friends. He was a bartender at several venues, and one was the upscale swingers club in Dallas. I was asked to promote/host one of their events. 

    I was brand new to the industry, and I was met by a packed club of  half naked people, waiting in line for my autograph. I became fast friends with the owner and his wife and several other couples, but there was one couple in particular, that developed into a deep, loving relationship. I was their girlfriend for almost 2 years, and we shared a very special friendship. I am still good friends with them, the club owner, and several of the same couples I Initially met 10+ years ago. 

    Reasons For Couples Who Explore Swinging

    Well, there are the right reasons, and the wrong ones LOL, and I have experienced couples in both situations. 

    The lifestyle is not a bandaid for a failing relationship. If your relationship does not already have a strong foundation of trust, mutual respect, and open, honest communication, you are setting yourself up for failure. Both parties must be willing participants and should never be forced or guilt tripped into this scenario. Ground rules and boundaries MUST be discussed, agreed upon, and upheld, and the line of communication should always maintain open.

    If you are scared or uncomfortable openly communicating with your partner or others your needs, desires, and boundaries, a counseling session with an intimate coach would be a better course of action for self improvement and strengthening your relationship. 

    How Does One Bring Up The Idea Of Swinging To Their Partner?

    Again, honest and open communication is key. One way to bring up the subject to gauge interest is to watch an adult film together, involving a scenario with more than two participants.  Comment to your partner how much the scene turns you on and why…..ask if this is something they would ever be open to trying together to gauge interest. 

    If you need to convince your partner to engage in adding an additional person/persons to your bedroom, then you should not pursue this lifestyle. Both you and your partner must be willing participants.

    3 Tips For New Couples To Try Swinging

    1. Open, honest communication: I’ll say this again, because I can not stress enough that this is KEY to a positive experience 

    2. Set clear rules and boundaries: Have a discussion of your ground rules for what each of you is comfortable with, and what is off limits

    3. Take your time: Many couples new to the lifestyle make the mistake of attending a lifestyle event with the mentality they need to hook up. They create unnecessary pressure on one another,  as well as creating an aggressive vibe that most will find off putting. Relax, really take the time to talk to people and get to know them before thinking about taking your clothes off. There are several lifestyle websites where you can create a profile, and get an opportunity to chat online. For first timers, I highly suggest hiring a professional such as myself, with years of experience meeting with nervous couples.

    Hayden Hightower – A petite blonde playmate based in Dallas TX.  Hayden is a TER Dallas TOP 10 provider available for luxury Companionship and VIP Concierge services for men, women, and couples. She is highly regarded for her Couple’s encounters and her authentic NURU Bodyslide encounters, in addition to her one on one girlfriend experiences. Hayden is an avid fitness enthusiast and works in the health/wellness industry helping others achieve a healthier lifestyle.  In her free time, she enjoys working out, relaxing at home, and spending time with her boxer, Tank. 

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  • The Stigma Of Sex Work Part II – How It Compromises Sex Workers

    The Stigma Of Sex Work Part II – How It Compromises Sex Workers

    The vast number of people I see and speak to are very respectful and they appreciate the time I give them. There are people that feel they have a right to waste our time, maybe because they don’t feel sex workers should be respected; they will ask for you to send free pictures or videos, as if it is our job to encourage their business by giving them free services. I usually ask them, “would you go to work if your boss wasn’t going to pay you? So why should I?” There can also be complete disrespect for your work/life balance as they feel you must work 24/7.

    I have a very strict boundary around my work and my personal life and my work does not happen at my home. If I had £1 for every time someone asked if I could do a video call in the bathroom whilst I’m at home with my family, I’d be a millionaire!!

    There is also the nastier side to the stigma around sex workers, that make some people feel like they have paid for us so our body are theirs to use as they wish, regardless of our own personal boundaries and limits. I am very fortunate that I have never seen anyone like this and I truly feel that organisations like Client Eye and National Ugly Mugs help identify these individuals and ensure escorts have a better understanding of the people they will potentially meet, but I am aware that not all sex workers have been as lucky as me.

    It is not just clients we have to be cautious of. The police are also a cause for concern. These are the people who are supposed to protect every citizen, the people I pay my taxes to ensure they are defending our streets. There should not be bias or prejudice and yet some of them are.

    In 2013, 25 premises in Soho, London were raided by the Police. The police invited members of the media to take pictures and document the raids. It was stated that the raids were to look for stolen goods, drug dealing and to tackle trafficking but sex workers were removed from their flats, some dragged out half naked into the street and arrested. Their money and possessions were confiscated by the police. This was all done to ‘save’ the sex workers from this life but the way they were treated was disgusting. Any migrant sex worker was turned over to the UK Border Agency under the assumption that they were victims of trafficking.

    Many of the sex workers stated that they were not being forced to work, but were handed over regardless. The officers during this raid did not care about the safety of these women or the effect it would have on their personal lives. The media and the general public who posted pictures of these women online didn’t care for their safety or the effect it would have on their personal lives. Sex work is legal in the UK. There are elements that aren’t, such as no more than one sex worker in the same property. There was no evidence that any of the women from the raids were in that situation yet they were all treated as criminals.

    When the people that are in the position of holding up the law, treats sex workers like vermin and allow the press to be part of it, how can we possibly break down the walls of stigma and prejudice.

    Is This Situation Due To A Lack Of Education Or Ignorance?

    I think it’s both. Generations have looked down on sex workers. Families have educated and continued to embed these same false stereotypes to their children but thankfully, the current young generation are questioning all they are being taught and as a result have become more open, liberal and accepting, to the groups of people that for generations, have been tarnished with these stigmas and stereotypes. The young are starting to make change possible.

    Mainstream media does not help at all. Just a few months ago, there was a show broadcast in the UK that had me screaming at my TV because they portrayed the sex workers in the show in a very negative light. I believe they wanted the nation to think all sex workers are ‘broken’ but that isn’t the case. Sex work empowers both men and women to take control of their sexuality. This work has empowered me and so many others; so many sex workers choose this profession over regular jobs. I have never been as enthusiastic and passionate about any other job than I am about my work right now.

    How Can These Stigma Be Removed Or Reduced?

    Why do newspapers, TV, media feel that showing sex workers in a negative light is the right way to portray us? I am sure they think that they will encourage a whole generation to become sex workers but that would not be the case. The same way that I could not be a carer in a nursing home wiping faeces from pensioners arseholes, is the same way not every person could be a sex worker. It takes a special kind of person and it’s not for everyone.

    I know there are many men and women in the sex industry that have had horrific experiences and I don’t wish to disregard what has happened to them and I don’t wish the media to overlook them either but until the media starts showing sex workers from every angle, the good, the bad and including male sex workers, who never seem to get a mention, then people won’t be able to see the full spectrum of sex workers, from street sex workers to high class escorts and everything in between. Every one of us has stories to tell about our experiences, whether positive or negative but we need a non-judgmental, non-biased format to do it. Not a TV company knowing how they want the end production to look like, but an open-minded production that allows the stories of everyone to naturally progress rather than twisting them.

    We live in a world that makes it very difficult to change people’s opinions. Even though society has progressed massively with regards to sex, sexual orientation, gender identity, race and religion, those changes have not been quick and are still nowhere near eradicated. The stigma and stereotyping around sex workers will not disappear over night.

    In all of the cases, to quote the late Whitney Houston, “I believe the children are our future”. They are the ones who will question the bigots and the uneducated. They are the ones who will demolish those walls, but there are many things we can do in the meantime.

    We all need to do our bit to start removing the bricks from those walls. Portray the image that we want for sex workers, demanding the respect we deserve, call-out the media when they are negatively portraying us. We can make a difference, even if it’s only small because if we aren’t willing to fight for the equality we deserve, who else will.

    “Be the change that you wish to see in the world.” – Mahatma Gandhi

    Sadie – I am a sexy, sensual British SSBBW, UK size 32. I’m an escort, a Webcam model and a Content Creator. I am very down to earth and my clients say I’m very easy to talk to and to open up to. My main escort service is GFE (Girlfriend Experience) as I love kissing, touching and caressing and my clients really enjoy that with me. I am also part of the Rose Talks Sex debate team, which you can follow on Twitter @rosetalkssex .

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    With COVID, all escorting is on hold but I am working very hard to create more content for online and give my subscribers and buyers what they want. I’m looking into setting up my own website although that will take a while. I am also making contact with other sex workers so that we can collaborate on some work once it is safe to meet up after COVID. So watch this space!!

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