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  • What To Expect When Engaging A Companion

    What To Expect When Engaging A Companion

    I think companionship is something we as social beings all need. There are different types and levels of companionship and as humans we like to spend time with the people that ‘get’ us, that make us feel happy and comfortable with ourselves and that appreciate and support us.

    Personally, I love meeting new people. Sharing with others and learning different personalities and perspectives is one of the reasons that I choose companionship as my work. I enjoy spending time with people, and I am lucky enough to meet people who are well educated, have done well for themselves and have the time to enjoy some of the better things that life has to offer. They have diverse interests and I enjoy hearing about their lives, stories and engaging with them.

    How Popular Are Companion Requests?

    I would say fairly frequent! I love all the experiences that companionship opens up for me – I’ve traveled to places I wouldn’t have visited otherwise, I’ve gone hiking and trekking and fishing, and engaged in fantastic experiences. Frankly, even when back to the tried and true places, it’s the fact that I am with new people that makes those places new to me.

    I think the one thing I would say I love the most is that it allows me to step out of my comfort zone and do things that are not part of other people’s daily average life. I feel honored, humbled and truly excited by my experiences and it keeps me engaged more wholly.

    Advantages Of Engaging A Companion

    I would say if you are looking for an elevated, professional experience when it comes to sharing time with another person, you should engage a companion. Companions are punctual, well groomed, experienced, detail oriented, fun and outgoing people who love to get to know you! The time that you have together is yours and you can shape and curate that in any way you like. They are looking to craft experiences with you and share in your interests.

    I often see sides to my clients that their friends, family and business partners do not see. I can see who they are honestly, and sometimes, who they would like to be! It comes across in their communication and requests. I had one client who wanted to go for a hike with me since they missed doing that with their grown children. It was a teaching moment for them, and since I had never hiked before, it was a bonding experience for the both of us, and a wonderful learning experience for me. I had so much fun on that hike, learning from a professional and appreciating the time spent engaging in something that brings so much joy to another person.

    What You Should Know Before Engaging A Companion

    I think, like with everything else in life, doing your research and seeing who’s out there that matches you is the best way in which to make sure you’re with the right person. Learn about their personalities from Twitter and their website and understand that they have their own boundaries, as do all people. Communication with them is key to make sure you’re both on the same page.

    Do’s & Don’ts To Follow When Engaging A Companion

    I think a number of problem areas are caused when expectations on both sides are not complied with, or there is a lack of professionalism from either party.

    If people thought about engaging a companion like it was looking for a business partner with whom they would like to engage socially, a lot of questions get resolved. Companions are business people, and there is process and streamlining in place in order to ensure our safety, as well as the safety of our clients.

    I think clients also need to think about the reasons that they are reaching out to a companion. It is not just hooking up or ‘hanging out’, there are tons of dating sites for that. You’re looking for someone professional, well maintained, who will have respect for your time and your requests. If this is the case, acting unprofessionally will not get you the response that you seek from a companion.

    My simple tips are

    • Always respect the companions protocol, as they would respect your requests
    • Please be professional with all administrative dealings
    • Please read the website and feel free to ask questions, we will not bite you, (unless you request it!) but asking for anything above and beyond is at the discretion of the companion, much as you would expect from a business partner!

    Indiya Summer – An elite companion based in NYC. She loves travel, warm weather and meeting new people!

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    Indiya Summer is available in NYC, and worldwide for FMTY

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  • What Makes Interracial Sex Enjoyable

    What Makes Interracial Sex Enjoyable

    I feel that sex should show passion between the people who have it, everyone involved should feel that intense passionate sexual power during a sexual experience.

    Why Interracial Sex Is Appealing

    Interracial sex is appealing to me because the of intense passion and chemistry I get from it. I think the hype around them mostly comes from the size, in the majority of black men being bigger but I wouldn’t say it’s the size from my own opinion. I feel like it’s the amount of chemistry that gives passion to the way they handle me and the motion in the ocean matters too.

    Why I Love It

    I love the passion most. I love that they are not afraid to tell me what to do to make them feel better but at the same time, letting you know you’re doing a good job and they always return that favor equally, If I suck a good dick, they always come back and eat the pussy just as good.

    Reasons Girls Love Being A Snowbunny

    If other snowbunnies are anything like myself, then I would say I love being a snowbunny because I simply love to feel good and they make me feel good.  I feel any color man is capable of making a woman feel good, and I just love the way black men make me feel. Always showing me love and assuring I am a good bunny by satisfying them so well and returning the satisfaction.

    What It Takes To Be A Good Snowbunny

    I feel like as long as you are satisfying to the max and doing everything you can think of to make him feel good, that would make anyone a good snowbunny. Only thing that makes a snowbunny bad is a bad alpha male because it still takes two to satisfy.

    Katiie Mae – I am 25 years old with 2 kids and an alpha male of my own who started my whole interracial fetish. I started working in the adult industry 3 years ago as a dancer in a few clubs but didn’t care for the feel of the clubs every night. So I got online to look up what was out there and came across webcam modeling and actually loved it. I still do it here and there but I ultimately wanted to have the hands on interaction with talented pornstars and now I am in love with what I do I enjoy making the men I work with feel the ecstasy of working with me and getting the chance to see my passion in action. For the last year I have been working on my own brand and working on some major projects for the future in interracial porn.

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  • The Number One Component In Oral Sex

    The Number One Component In Oral Sex

    Blowjobs are an art form, and I AM the Artist. I’ve had friends that are shocked that I am so passionate about always challenging myself to improve every time and adapt to the desires at hand. In fact, I am secretly shooting to be the very best blowjob that my date has ever had.

    I heard stories of teeth or just lack of interest or even repulsion by the female when giving a blowjob. I’m sure it would make the gentlemen feel good about wanting a decent blowjob. I know it would hurt my feelings.

    If I were asked what sets me apart from the mediocre blow jobs that are unfortunately given, is one simple concept. I have learned to communicate to my date, through my mouth and my tongue that I’m telling him how grateful and passionate I feel for him. I want my blowjobs to scream silently, “Right now. You and me...” I want my date to experience his own personal hour-long ecstasy.

    And I give all the love that I have for blowjobs and men in that wet, warm, loving, sensual blowjob.

    Why Men Enjoy Blowjobs

    There’s more than one reason men enjoy blowjobs. Of course the sensation is incredible. But the soft, sensual friction, the building to the peak… But also the other four senses are intrigued as well. My long hair brushes his skin, the sweet, delicious smell of my skin and hair, the taste of my mouth that lingers on his lips, and he hears the sexy sounds of me licking, stroking and the rapid breathing. All five senses are experiencing a heightened Blast Of Heaven.

    Common Blowjob Mistakes

    I hear from civilians and sex workers as well, that giving blowjobs are hard to do and they even think it’s disgusting. How unfortunate these ladies aren’t loving what they do! That’s the key! You have to take pride in everything you do. The harder you try to succeed, and are rewarded with trembling legs and gasps of air, perpetuates a cycle. If you enjoy what you’re doing, you’ll just get better and develop your own style.

    I’ve also heard men say that the failing blowjob often involves cheese. Yes, that’s lack of experience, but trust me, please don’t have to be a bad thing. In my experience, sensuality is the number one component to a blowjob Nirvana. You see, it is imperative that you don’t just dive in and start talking like a vacuum cleaner. No! The glow job starts with a passionate kiss on the lips and sensuality is taking that kiss lower to the neck, chest, upper legs, letting my hair brush him softly, and only after he is internally screaming for my mouth, I simply make out with his cock.

    I French kiss, and love on his favorite appendage until he’s ready for more direct contact and developing more speed, and more throat. Sensuality is the communication to relay the giver’s true desire to please.

    All of these things that I’ve mentioned, is an equation to a beautiful session of love that lasts one hour.

    I am visiting Austin on a regular basis for two hours as a minimum. And I’m extremely excited to announce that I will be in Boston Massachusetts next month starting from October 22nd through the 25th. Please pre-book now, and follow me on Twitter and read my biographies on my ads. I love a gentleman that does their research. Now that you know a little bit about me, I’d like to get to know you. I hope you’ve enjoyed this read. I enjoyed writing it!

    I am Jelly Beans oh, the sweet memorable treasure in San Antonio. I travel often and would love to visit you… In any City! I travel to Austin Texas whenever a 2 hour or longer appointment is set. Otherwise, you’ll find me in the medical center in San Antonio. Would love to hear from you!

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  • My Experiences As A Sex Worker

    My Experiences As A Sex Worker

    I’ve been a sex worker for three years now (the first year I’ve worked as an erotic masseuse only). I think it’s a great job that gives a lot of nice opportunities and has many advantages. I love meeting new people and visiting new places. It’s a very exciting and satisfying job for me. Actually it’s the best job I have ever had.

    Working as an escort can be empowering too in many ways and for many women, it can be a way to change their lives for better. However – just like in any other work – you should like what you do. Otherwise it will not be a good job for you.

    What I’ve Learnt After 3 Years In The Industry

    In October, it’s been three years since I started working as a masseuse and escort. During this time I’ve learned a lot about the industry and people in it. For example, I’ve learned that the industry is more diverse than I could imagine. Before I started working, I thought that you have to be a classic beauty to work and to have clients. Now I see that girls of every type, every age, every size will find their group of admirers. Every girl is different, every girl has something else to offer and that is great.

    Another thing that I’ve learned is that the SW community is really amazing. I discovered this after joining Twitter actually. I found out that there are many inspiring providers and clients that share their experiences, talk openly about SW subjects, that support each other and are super super kind to each other. That really surprised me. Being in touch with other sex workers is important. It’s good to have colleagues who have similar job and experiences as you.

    And the last thing I’d like to mention – surprisingly, sex work is not all about sex. Clients don’t always meet an escort just to have sex. Many clients (at least from my experience) meet girls mainly to spend the nice time together – go for holidays or have a weekend getaway, talk, go out, be close, hug and kiss a lot and sex is just a nice addition. I was surprised how many men want to meet me just to talk and to have someone that listens to them, that pays attention, that cares about them. Sex is not the only need that you can fulfill while meeting an escort.

    Things I Wished I Knew Before Going Into Sex Work

    When I started working, I didn’t know a lot about the SW. I wish I had someone to tell me to be more brave and assertive. And maybe someone who would warn me about all the mean things some clients might do, especially when you’re new to the industry (trying to lower prices, trying to make you lose your confidence and doubt about yourself, insisting on having some services done, although you don’t want to do them etc.)

    That would have been easier for me just to ignore those clients, if I knew that their behaviours are standard for this type of “clients” and that they have nothing to do with me personally. Anyway, bad clients are a tiny minority. Most of the men are wise, caring, supporting gentlemen who want you to get better, earn better and be happier.

    What Should The Industry Improve On?

    Sadly, there are still some people in the industry who don’t understand that we are stronger if we stand together. I’ve seen some sex workers who judge other girls for no big reason. I’ve seen some sex workers who are jealous and think they have to fight with each other to get clients and get money.

    It’s sad that in a SW community that has many natural difficulties just because of the work that we do, there are still some people who make it harder for the others. I wish things like these can change and I hope people like these can change.

    Biggest Misconceptions About Sex Work Today

    Although the sex work existed since always, there are still many misconceptions about it. I think it’s mainly because there’s still a sex taboo in us. People are shy or afraid to talk about sex. They still have problems with their own sexuality. They still perceive having sex or masturbation as something they should be embarrassed about.

    If people are afraid to talk about sex, they are just terrified to talk about the paid sex. And when they don’t talk about it, they have no opportunity to exchange information and evaluate their knowledge. That way, the stereotypes spread much faster than actual knowledge about sex work. That way we still have those huge misconceptions that everyone thinks or hears from time to time. Let me just show you a tip of an iceberg.

    1. Escort girls do the job because they are not smart enough or qualified enough to do any other work.
      WRONG Many escorts do the job because they chose to do it. They’ve had some previous jobs (often government jobs or jobs where you need high qualifications and good education or often they had their own businesses) but after a while they decided that sex work is better for them and that is the work that they want to do for now or for life. Of course, there are women who have difficult life situations and offering sex for money is something that helps them live, something they don’t necessarily like, but they choose to do it, because they have no better alternative. But that is definitely not the case for all of us.
    2. Sex work = easy job, easy money.
      Many people think that sex work is an easy work, that you don’t have to know anything, you don’t need any skills and that you basically do nothing and earn a lot of money. That is of course not true. Sex work is not an easy work. Working with people requires a lot of dedication, understanding and empathy. Sex work is a physical work, for which you should have good physical abilities. And it’s an intellectual work too – you must know how to advertise, how to run your business, how to organize your schedule and bookings, you must know how much costs you can afford and how much you’ll be able to earn. You must organize your tours, your photo shoots. You must take care of your website, social media, emails everyday. And after doing all this, you just clear your mind and go for a date and give the client the best experience he can imagine. Working as an escort requires knowledge in many fields. Especially when you do something that needs some special skills, for example massages, BDSM services or when you are focused on working with disabled clients. If you’re an escort, you must be strong mentally, you must be smart, you must be hardworking and you have to be well organized just like every other freelancer. Being an escort is not only laying on soft pillows all day and waiting for a client to come as some people seem to think.
      Of course I’m not trying to say here that the work is super hard or not rewarding. If you like what you do – it’s nice, satisfying and easier. But just not as easy as people think.
    3. Being a sex work is something bad.
      This is the most common misconception that makes sex workers stigmatised. I know that everyone has their own morality, but I think some things are just bad or good in nature, no matter how you look at it. Let me put it this simple way:
      Cooking at home is good. Cooking for money is good too.
      Killing people is bad. Killing people for money is bad too.
      Having sex is good. And doing it for money doesn’t make it any worse. It’s just logical. If you have sex because you want to, with an adult person who also wants this, there is nothing wrong about it. Regardless if you do it for free or for money. You may not like the idea of being a sex worker – in that case just don’t be one and don’t hire one. I wish people were more open-minded about sex and sex work. It’s XXI century – it’s really a bit late to still stigmatise sex workers and criminalize sex work (in some countries)… Criminalizing sex work doesn’t make anything better. But maybe that is a topic for whole another article.

    Advice For Those Looking To Get Started Into Sex Work

    If you think about starting work as an escort, there are many things you should know. It’s hard to list them all here. There are many technical, business and personal tips every experienced sex worker could give.

    But from general things, I think you should know that sex work can be a great work. You should only remember to surround yourself with the right people (friends and clients), do only things that are comfortable for you. You should value yourself and not care about mean individuals that you might meet. And always, always, always put your safety first. Don’t lose your head for money. Be safe, have fun, make money, save some for later and enjoy the advantages of an escort life.

    Nicole Kaminski – I’m an independent, international escort based in Warsaw, Poland. My speciality are professional sensual massages and Girlfriend Experience dates. I’m an easygoing and friendly person, that you would enjoy spending time with. I love escorting and blogging.

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  • What To Expect From Long Dates With Hazel Hayes

    What To Expect From Long Dates With Hazel Hayes

    I, as most people viewed this world as a negative, being that I went to college for Criminal Justice/Psychology. It took me getting into the world of escorting to change my views on the industry. How I got into this business was not outta of jaded way, but I’ll save the whole story for once we meet.

    I started going to dinner with men visiting Las Vegas and spending one night stands with them. Yes they paid me, but I was serial dating in my head. But once I fully embraced escorting as job, my life changed for better. I then built my website, along with a great reputation with reviews and regulars. Escorting can become a great avenue for women to be financially independent.

    It is not all roses and champagne so please do your research. I made many mistakes in the beginning but I learned my lessons the hard way through trial and error. If you ever think about becoming an escort, do your research first, this lifestyle is not for the faint of heart.

    Range Of Dating Options Available

    When someone books an escort, they have several options from the length and time they want to spend with her. Usually the shortest time is an hour and the longest, well that could range from a week, a month or a year. So the much longer dates sometimes referred to are Sugar Baby arrangements but they are still the same thing, just different ways to approach sex work. An hour is very short and to the point.

    The most common length of a date with an escort would be the dinner date. Which can range from 3-4 hrs and usually, half the time is spent socializing in public at dinner or a show. The escort will tell her preferences for a date, and she will list it on her website.

    Why Extended Dates Are Better For Men

    Now, my favorite dates are the extended dates or overnight dates. I have been on dates from 12hrs to two weeks long. The reason I love the extended dates is because I can really commit to the girlfriend experience and really bond with someone. You have to understand why men would choose an escort over just going out and getting a real world girlfriend. Because they can’t or choose not too.

    I have seen men who socially could not hold a conversation with women hire me and after several years of dating me, build the confidence to get a real girlfriend. I have clients who were so burnt by women, through divorce, child custody issues, cheating and down right hurting and abusing them, that they are done with dating. Men who are done dating still need to feel connected to someone. This “Me Too” movement has driven more men to escorts, more than ever before. Instead of hitting on your assistant, hire an escort to play that role in your life.

    Now you understand the why, now to understand the what, extended dates truly are – connection. When someone books an extended date, they are looking for a connection to another human soul. They want to feel appreciated, admired, loved, and cared for by someone. We hold hands, hug and kiss. We get know each other. I share my soul with them in hopes they can feel comfortable to do the same with me.

    So when you book an extended date, try to find out what she likes – food, places to travel too etc

    Second you will have to verify your real identity for an extended date with an escort. A lady will only book with you if she feels comfortable spending an extended date with you. For example, traveling to places for long periods of time with anyone, you need to feel safe and comfortable. Some girls say they need a separate room when you travel together, check their websites or email them for requirements. I usually prefer to stay with the client to help build stronger bonds that come from when you sleep next to someone.

    Finally, once you’re on your date, whether it’s on Cruise Ship, Hawaii or just in a hotel in your city, remember to enjoy yourself. She should arrive with an overnight bag or suitcase. If you want her to bring anything, make sure you request this beforehand. Also, if you want her to have something but she doesn’t have it, buy it for her. This date should be about exploring new desires, new places, new people etc…But remember, we all know why we are here in the first place. The intimacy.

    It will NOT be 24/7 bedroom romps, this is not what these dates are for! I m not saying you won’t have a blast, but it will not be in bed for two weeks straight if that’s what your thinking. Again, it’s building a connection for another human being and friendship that will reward both parties in end. Just relax and enjoy the ride, because when you book the right person for you, the outside world just got a little sweeter.

    How To Impress Me

    To impress me, just read my website and understand my rules, my likes and dislikes. Maybe send me a little gift before our date or when we meet. I expect everyone to be gentlemen or ladies when I see you. (I see single ladies too). I just want to be treated as you would want to be treated and kindness goes a long way.

    Hazel Hayes Vip – Your Personal Private Assistant helping people get more outta their lives.

    Challenging people out of their comfort levels, helping them in fun way to experience new things. Free to take off to some distant destinations at your whim…and living life like, everyone I meet will be great benefit to my life, as I WILL be to them. Looking forward to our future rendezvous.

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    Twitter: @hazelvip
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  • Ways To Enjoy A Date

    Ways To Enjoy A Date

    A good date starts from the moment an admirer sends me an email. That initial correspondence sets the tone for the rest of our interactions. If he starts it off by simply saying when am I free or how soon can we meet, with no thought put into the email, then I know he just found the first person who caught his eye and reached out to them.

    However, if a gent sends me a thoughtful note sprinkled with flattering compliments, has taken the time to read my website, browse my Twitter and on top of that, wants to plan a date that we both will enjoy, then I know he will be someone I will want to see again. I would be lying if I told you I didn’t like gifts or going to Michelin star restaurants, but that isn’t what makes a good date per say.

    It’s the thought. Did he take the time to ask me what type of food I like or what are some restaurants I’ve been dying to go to. I had a gent take me rock climbing recently based off a previous date where we talked about some of our hobbies. Now, that was what I would consider a fabulous date. It’s really the thought that counts!

    Expectations I Have Of My Date

    Yes, first impressions are everything. I have expectations of my admirers. They are pretty simple and easy, but you’d be surprised how difficult some people make it for me and for themselves. Screening and not wasting my time are some of the biggest issues I initially face with gents. If you can’t properly fill out my contact form, then we can’t meet. Simple as that.

    Common Mistakes Men Make During A Date

    Disrespecting me. Some men either take advantage of how nice I can be and try to push the limits of what they can or can’t do. Whether that’s intimately or in not being considerate of my time.

    Or when a guy tries to prod too much into my personal life. I love conversation and connecting with people, but there are certain topics that are just off limits. My love life for example, is one of them. Asking if I’m seeing anyone is a huge turn off. Mainly because it makes me uncomfortable when I’m spending time with a guy and he’s more interested in who I’m dating than us having a good time. LOL.

    Enjoying My Date

    I always make sure to express my gratitude and thanks when I’m having a good time during a date. And I always thank them when I’m getting ready to leave. If you see me smiling, it’s probably a pretty good indication that the date is going well.

    Tips For Dates Who Might Be Nervous

    Be yourself! I never want anyone to feel uncomfortable around me, I try to make you feel as at ease and relaxed as possible. I want this to be an enjoyable time for us both. I know it can be somewhat nerve wracking for people sometimes and so I always like to start off with some small talk to lighten the mood up a bit, maybe even throw in a little humor.

    Laughter always makes people feel more at ease or sharing my experience as well. Truth be told, I get nervous sometimes too! It’s a totally naturally thing and nothing to feel bad about. Music is also a great way to set the mood too. I always love asking people what their favorite type of music is. Great conversation starter too!

    Emma Andrews – SF based hedonist and coquette. Ardent fashionista and world traveler.

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    Upcoming tours:

    Minneapolis & Chicago: November exact dates TBD
    NYC: Decembers, dates TBD

    “There are two ways to reach me: by way of kisses or by way of the imagination. But there is a hierarchy: the kisses alone don’t work.” – Anais Nin

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  • Advantages of Seeing A Cougar

    Advantages of Seeing A Cougar

    I think sex is necessary in every intimate relationship and plays a huge part. Everyone wants to feel desired and wanted by their partner or another individual. Sex is that way of showing the person how much you desire and want them. Even if it’s only for that moment in time or longer.

    For some of us, sex is constantly a driver for things we do in our day to day life. It’s something almost everyone thinks about and hopefully wants! I personally have not found a balance yet in dating and being a companion at the same time. I am a man stuck in a woman’s body in that I think about sex every hour of every day.

    Does Age Matter To You?

    Age does matter to me. I personally have had some of the best sex of my life with much younger men as they want to fulfill that hot mom next door fantasy. There is usually role playing involved and that can lead to some incredible and very explosive dates.

    Benefits Of Seeing A Cougar

    Women are like fine wine and become better in all ways with age if they take care of themselves. Males sexually peak much sooner than females. By the time a female is in her 40’s, she is more confident than she was in her 20’s. She knows her body much better and has discovered her likes and dislikes and what needs to be done to achieve an orgasm. She is usually much more vocal and gives direction about what she wants and how to pleasure her.

    What To Know Before Seeing A Cougar

    I wouldn’t say there are any rules. I would say the male should be prepared for a Cougar to be more confident in her skin and know how to pleasure you as well as herself. She is skilled in a wide variety of techniques and wants her own pleasure just as much as she wants to give pleasure to you.

    Tips To Have A Successful Cougar Experience

    Do your research on the woman you desire to spend time with and don’t be afraid to ask for any special requests. We are not mind readers and the more open you are, the more you will get out of the experience.

    Riley Blonde – I am the epitome of sensual sophistication while being down to earth, playful and fun! I find it truly thrilling and can guarantee that our rendezvous will be as pleasurable for me as it is for you.I consider myself an ideal choice for those who seek and appreciate the finer things in life.

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  • How To Select An Escort For The First Time

    How To Select An Escort For The First Time

    I tend to meet a lot of first-timers. That is, gentlemen who have never been with a companion before. I’m always incredibly honoured not only because they chose me for their first date, but that I have the opportunity to introduce them to this wild, wonderful, and complex world.

    Nerves is almost always an issue, but it’s not always exclusive to first timer gentlemen. It’s relatively often that when I’m meeting my date for the first time, it’s apparent that he has spent a lot of time anticipating, imagining, and sometimes stressing about our encounter.

    Is It Normal For First Timers To Feel Nervous?

    Absolutely, first date jitters is completely normal. Given the nature of our encounter, I understand the source. Not only are you meeting someone that you’ve likely admired from afar for months (which is nerve-racking in itself), the stakes are high!

    There’s a significant investment on the client’s part, which I try not to take for granted. He’s investing his capital, of course, but also a chunk of his time that’s irreplaceable. In addition to both of these things – there’s also the anxiety provoking stereotypes about escorts that first timer’s sometimes have in the back of their mind. Is she enjoying herself? Is she here because she wants to be?

    I encourage my clients to remember that these thoughts are normal and valid. You’re about to enter completely new territory, and your body is reacting, physiologically speaking, in a normal and expected way. It’d be amiss if I didn’t mention that If something feels off, acknowledge that. If there are red flags, take note of them. We should both be doing this in the days leading up to our encounter.

    That being said, don’t underestimate the importance of research, and ultimately, trusting your provider. You’re in good hands.

    Importance Of Choosing A Good Escort For Your First Time

    Researching your provider, and the industry that you’re about to dabble in is important, and comes in various formats.

    Firstly, you can peruse various advertising platforms. It’s not just about photos. I always advise reading numerous provider’s copy – their website, and bios. What resonates with you? Who leaves you curious, and wanting more?

    Does this provider have social media? Do they promote themselves in a way that’s attractive to you? Do you have similar interests – is your intrigue mounting? Furthermore, do you sense a level of professionalism? Does she appear to have a verifiable reputation?

    I think it’s necessary to remember that while physical attractiveness is of course important (and subjective), try not to neglect emotional attractiveness. A name and a photo won’t give you clues about the kind of person you’re meeting, and the experience you’ll have.

    My best clients are the ones that paid attention, and did their homework. They read my website in its entirety, took note of my likes and dislikes, followed me on social media, and eventually got to the point where their gut instinct was: “we’re going to get along.”

    How A Good Escort Can Calm A Clients’ Nerves

    I think a good escort is somebody who has a high level of EQ, and a high sensitivity for empathy. Most of us in this business got into it in the first place because we adore fostering connections. She’s here because she understands people, and all the idiosyncrasies that come along with them, nerves included.

    Chances are, we already know you’re nervous.

    The beauty of this business is that all of us, while similar in some ways, operate in a completely different fashion. My approach when meeting a nerve ridden client is to somewhat ignore the problem. I personally find that hyper focusing and dwelling on nervousness isn’t the most effective.

    Also – I treat my dates like any other first date. We’re here to get to know each other, and we’re both a little nervous. I try to be authentic, transparent, and give genuine compliments if they’re due. I’ll ask thoughtful questions and give you my honest opinions.

    As the night progresses, your shoulders might lower, your jaw might unclench, and we might find ourselves laughing and flirting. Usually before the evening’s over, we’ve found a way to connect in a real and sincere way, and all of a sudden, the nerves that we both felt at the beginning are no longer an issue.

    Last Tips For First Timer Clients

    My biggest tip: trust her.

    Nerves are normal, and totally ok. However, that chemistry you’re feeling? It’s very real and palpable.

    Try your best not to let anxiousness, self-doubt, and internal worries override the experience you’re having… because it just might turn into something wonderful.

    Madison Winter – Madison Winter, Canada’s self-proclaimed ‘girl next door’ is a high-end companion who lives and works out of Toronto, ON.

    She’s left a career in finance to become a provider, and now specializes in long engagements and relationship-based dates. In her spare time, she’s usually collecting passport stamps, or at home with her two dogs jamming out to 80’s rock.

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  • How To Have Amazing Sex

    How To Have Amazing Sex

    Sex is a great part of life… Sex is different for everyone; their personal view on how, when and who they may or may not have sex with. Sex has changed throughout my life. When I was young, I was taught that sex is also linked to religious beliefs, and someones’ morals. I feel a personal sexuality does not make the person! Not having sex does not make you a good person nor does having sex make you a bad person. As long as both parties are consenting adults, it does not makes the person. The number of people you may or may not sleep with doesn’t make you a good or bad person, to me it just means you may be a sexual person!

    I have found that I am pretty open with sex.. I believe in talking, finding out what each other likes and doesn’t like is very important. I am pretty selfish and choose to only do what I enjoy!!

    A Great Sexual Experience To Me

    Great sexual experiences begin with the first connection and hopefully doesn’t stop there. To have a good sexual experience, one must have an open mind to have fun, relax and orgasm a lot. Exploring your partners’ body and enjoying as much as they are makes for a great experience.

    A Memorable Sexual Experience

    I have many good memories of great sexual experiences, one of the good memories was the first time I squirted during sex. The passion was awesome…He knew not to stop to get me to the biggest orgasm. I was wearing a black lace teddy to start the night out, candles were light, music was playing. Having my neck kissed, my body savaged. He didn’t stop when I started to cum, my legs up on his shoulders, and I soaked us both!!

    What Do Men Not Get?

    Why do they stop when a woman starts an orgasm?? I prefer the sex to continue so that I may cum even harder…Every woman is different… I hear a lot of woman complain of men not going down on them….well that is not something I complain about as I don’t require that to have great sex. I prefer giving oral over receiving. So to each their own. Everyone can learn what their partner likes if they want to!!!

    Ingredients To Make Sex Great

    Ingredients to make sex great is a connection of any kind… after that, an open mind to pick up on your partners’ sounds and movements. Finding those pleasure spots that drive the person crazy. Don’t be scared to add toys!!

    Kink Up Sex Further

    I like to experiment a lot. I have a whole cabinet of toys and accessories for my sexual pleasure! I am a heterosexual person, so I only experiment with the opposite sex. I tried more open relationships in my younger years and found that I am not attracted to woman.

    Betty Boobs – Hi, just a little about me…a Pornstar and adult magazine model for the late 90’s and 2017/2018. 40somethingmag, Mompov, Milfpov. Don’t let me forget super chill hehe. I do also enjoy 420! Gluten-free highly allergic to gluten. So alcohol is limited wine champagne or vodka, very much a light-weight. Love making new friends..

    College educated… nursing(13 yrs) getting more into the fitness side of health….

    Fun times, drama free, judgement free zone!! Fetish friendly….open minded …

    Catch me in Las Vegas til Mid-November relocating to Cincinnati…. or catch me in the Midwest!

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  • What It Takes To Be A Hotwife

    What It Takes To Be A Hotwife

    As long as sex is between consenting adults, anything goes. I view sex as purely pleasure, much like eating a very decadent dessert or having a nice cocktail or glass of wine. Sex is an amazing mental escape and release of tension.

    What Convinced My Husband To Allow Me To Be A Hotwife

    Convincing him wasn’t necessary because in our entire time together, I’ve never been monogamous.  In other words, he married me this way.

    Misconceptions About Hotwives

    According to dictionary.com “A hotwife is a married woman who has sexual relationships outside of her marriage, with the full knowledge of her husband“. This definition is accurate in my situation.  We are not all swingers or have our husbands watch us when having sex with our bulls (some hotwives do, I do not). We don’t just fuck anyone. Like most people, I have preferences and select my lovers based on them.

    Characteristics Of Bulls I Look For

    Age 18-30, well endowed, fit, sexually open.  I usually gravitate towards the edgy punk rock types, although a few sexy brainy types have caught my attention.

    What To Know Before Becoming A Hotwife

    Just make sure that the primary relationship with your husband is strong and that he’s on board.

    Hotwifeviv – Sex blogger who writes about her online dating experiences!

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