At times, sex can be a metaphor for the human condition. There are moments of levity and absurdity but also of hurt and sadness. I seek to find the moments where those overlap. Where sex can at once help you work through hurt and sadness but can also be a source of pure joy through physical and emotional connection. Plus, being naked with someone is almost universally fun!
What Is Sensual Exploration?
To me, sensual exploration is the process of uncovering and exploring those desires that one may have been repressing. We live in a society that tends towards restraint of those desires and I hope to help people to explore that which they may feel they may not be able to.
Misconception Of Sensual Exploration
That it’s therapy. I’m not a licensed therapeutic professional, nor do I want to be. It’s also not just where a client dumps all their shit onto me and expects me to sort through it. It is a conversation where we talk more than we act. It is not boundary less; I hold firm to what my comfort level is and within that space is where the most joy can be found.
How Has Exploring One’s Sexuality Help Their Sex Lives?
I liken it to wearing heavy garments. It’s hard to have sex if you’re wearing a fur coat (though, you could try). Exploring one’s sexuality allows you to be nimble, emotionally flexible and open to possibilities.
Ways or Techniques To Help Clients Explore Their Sexuality
My favorite types of clients are men who are exploring their bisexuality. I derive great pleasure from helping those men who have desires that they’re unable to fulfill in their “everyday” sex life. Without giving away all my tricks, I think my favorite way to help men explore is to give “lessons”. That way, they’re safe to explore with me by their side but also with a caring individual handpicked by me to help them on their journey.
Aviva Anders – I like to think of myself as “Albert Brooks were a woman. And sexy”.
I offer traditional companionship as well guided sensual learning experiences for men and couples. My specialties lie in sensual connection and kink exploration experiences, and in helping you with overcoming inhibition. I also provide couples with intimacy instructional consultations.
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