Category: Sex Ed

  • How To Enjoy The GFE In Warsaw With A Companion

    How To Enjoy The GFE In Warsaw With A Companion

    There’s an undeniable pleasure in a female’s life – and that is being adored. Working as a high class escort, I wouldn’t call my job just a something I do for money.  I feel excited every time I come to meet my client and when from the very first moment, I can see this big “wow” in his eyes. It’s my biggest motivation to do my best to leave him dazzled.

    How Is The Escorting Industry In Warsaw & Poland?

     A huge majority of escorts ads you can find in Warsaw (in fact in the whole Poland) are posted by agencies and just pretend to be private. Obviously, the lower the price is, the smaller is the chance to meet a nice girl, at least similar to the one on photos. But even if you’ve decided to accept a higher price – it may not save you from the agencies tricks, when they simply send to you their first available girl.  So if you’ll hear, “I can be at your place in 30-40 minutes”, you better be  careful.

    Still, not many girls in Poland decide work for themselves and  it’s quite easy to verify – independent escorts should have their own website or Twitter/IG profile.  It also takes more time to make a booking, as a deposit is often required and rates might be higher than average. Anyway – it reflects in the quality, as every escort works for their own reputation and prefers to meet regular clients.

    Reasons Men Seek The Girlfriend Experience

    A typical escort service is all about relieving  a sexual tension. Simple, quick and fair transaction. However, not for those gentlemen who expects some other kind of intimacy – together with affection and sensitivity, and who want to have a meeting with woman, not only for the woman’s body . At the same time, they want to keep things away from making a relationship.

    Choosing a GFE service is a perfectly safe option, as a “controlled date”. In addition, comparing to dating apps,  you don’t need to worry if it’s gonna end in your bedroom.

    What Makes Me An Ideal GFE Companion

    What I find best in the GFE is that it lets you to build a short-time close and sexy relation with the other person in a very natural way. I like people and I love to listen – as a bonus, my clients are usually fascinating people with amazing stories to share!  Conversation also gives enough time to find out more about my partner needs, and to seduce in the way that let him believes, that it’s him who seduced me.

    I called the relations “short-time”, but in fact there’s no need to rush. Personally I think, that one hour GFE meeting wouldn’t make any sense, so I don’t provide it.  My regular clients propositions are usually longer stays, like overnight, weekends somewhere far away from the city, or invitations to be their travel companion during a short holiday. I’ve been told its because I’m that smiling and easy to be with type of women, who can easily adjust to her partner.

    Best Duration To Enjoy Warsaw Together

    Dinner dates and overnight stays – that’s what I enjoy the most. Both time (evening) and place (restaurant or cocktail bar – there’s a really big choice of good places to go in Warsaw) are much more natural scenery for chat and flirt than a hotel room.

    Etiquette Gentlemen Must Follow

    I’m pretty lucky to meet on my way, mostly a 100% gentlemen. I really select my clients from the first message they send. It’s simply because if one’s behaviour will ever start make me feel uncomfortable, I would decide to leave from the date – it’s just not worth wasting my nerves. What I definitely don’t accept is the lack of discretion, being rude, loud or aggressive. Also asking about discounts or possibility to pay after the meeting.

    How To Impress Me

    As much, I want my clients to enjoy our time together, as much I appreciate effort they put into preparing a perfect date. Even the smallest things matters – flowers or following my cuisine preferences while choosing  a restaurant surely, then surely a romantic weekend in SPA or small gift, like piece of jewelry, can make me wanna go extra mile. But here’s the simple truth – if  you want me to be a woman of your dreams, then make me feel like I’m one.


    Bettie Golden – Polish high class companion, independent GFE expert in Warsaw, open-minded lover of both – gents and ladies. Question, that I hate the most as a SW is “Do you have any job?”. In my retirement I’ll be travelling even more, than I do now.

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    Website: https://www.marvelousbettiegolden.com/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/GoldenBettie

    In 2021 I’m available for meetings only till August 8th.


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  • What It’s Like To Create Your Own Content On AVNStars

    What It’s Like To Create Your Own Content On AVNStars

    This is always a funny question for me. Within my work I’m extremely fluid towards sex and enjoy exploring, as long as boundaries are always respected. Sex is art, passion, expression, sweet, playful and so much more. In my personal life, I adore the small and intimate moments, I’m obsessed with connections and being deeply present yet consuming.

    Being Inspired To Cam & Create My Own Content

    I worked as a web tester for Hotmovies and developed a huge passion for the adult industry, that lead me to being a phone sex operator and then cam model, but I still ached for more creativity. After working for a few porn studios, I wanted a way to control my own image, narrative and sexual experience which I found via content creating. Being a creator really allows freedom as well as the ability to create opportunities for myself.

    Why I Chose AVNStars

    After being nominated as The Fan Favorite BBW for the AVN Awards, I was very familiar with the empire that The Adult Video Network has created. AVNStars is created for our industry, they are Sex Worker friendly, offer competitive payouts and for me personally, they bridge the gap of being an independent artist while staying connected to the professional studio realm.

    Advantages Of Creating My Own Content

    When I first started in porn I went straight to studio work, I was so disheartened at the way the industry limits opportunities for curvy artists of color, so I did my homework. I discovered some amazing talent that kept their future in their own hands by creating their own content.

    This has allowed me endless ways to control my income and connect directly with fans while fully expressing myself in a way that is true to me. Most importantly, there is nothing hotter than giving my fans real orgasms and real moments from my sexy escapades!

    Genres I Love Creating Most

    I’m a major anal queen, so any chance I get to do an anal clip I’m in heaven. Blow jobs, twerking and fun lingerie are a pleasure. I also adore creating photo sets, posing has taught me to love the curves and angles of my body and the softness of my face.

    Plus, dressing up is such a blast! Requests are fun as well, discovering a new kink can be a fun rabbit hole to fall down LOL.

    My Video Creation Process

    I actually keep a list of ideas and will add to that as they come. What I film first depends a lot on if that idea requires a partner, special background or outfit. Once I do settle on a clip idea I will film and take photos on day one, the next day I will edit that content and create a trailer for social media to post or select a teaser photo from the set.

    On the third day I will post photos first and the film is scheduled for the next day. My goal is always to shoot an additional photo set that same day which will be edited and posted within 24 hours so there’s more than one post coming that week.


    Aylah Kroy – Multi Award Nominated Porn Actress and Entertainer. Started  her career in 2017 as a featured Dancer, Content Creator, DVD Cover Girl, Print Model and Professional Companion. When not performing you can find her supporting her passion for animal advocacy and fine arts.

    Follow Aylah Kroy on

    Websites:

    Aylahkroy.com

    Stars.avn.com/Aylahkroy

    Sextpanther.com/aylah-kroy

    allmylinks.com/Aylahkroy

    Twitter: Twitter.com/Aylahkroy

    Upcoming Projects:

    Spotlight Feature in AVN Magazine (Jan)

    Featured on MelonJuggler.com

    Currently Available for FlyMeToYou Dates/Bookings to all major cities


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  • How To Introduce Sex Toys Into Your Relationship

    How To Introduce Sex Toys Into Your Relationship

    Sex is an integral part of any romantic relationship, and while frequent sex can help you bond, sex therapists say that focusing on the quality of your sex life is more important than how often you get intimate. Moreover, sex should be enjoyable, and it should not be something that causes more stress than pleasure. To improve your sex life, you need to explore your sexual desires and try something new, such as new positions or sex toys. Introducing sex toys into the bed room can revitalize your sex life and make it a lot more fun in the long run. If you’re thinking about spicing things up in the bedroom, here’s how to introduce sex toys into your relationship.

    Talk about it

    If you’ve never used sex toys before, the prospect of using one can be somewhat daunting. However, sex toys have a rich history, with the earliest dildos dating back 30,000 years. At one time they were as viewed to be as essential as food, clothing and water. Today, sex toys are not only used for solo play, but they’re also used to enhance the partnered experience. Many people worry that using sex toys may be offensive to their partner, but keep in mind that toys aren’t going to replace your significant other: nothing can ever replace human contact and intimacy. 

    To introduce sex toys into your relationship, talk about it in an open manner. If you’re nervous, try opening the conversation with a neutral statement, such as, “What do you think about trying to use a dildo/vibrator/fleshlight together?” You can also reiterate how you love having sex with your partner and that it might be fun to try something new together. Frame the conversation around your shared pleasure so that using toys won’t seem like a chore or like something that you have to do. 

    Get into the specifics

    Once both of you are onboard with the idea of using sex toys, talk about what you want to try or how you intend to use them. For instance, women may want to have a more dominant role in the bedroom, and may want to try a strap-on, while men may want to experiment with orgasm delay and use a cock ring. Being specific about what you want to gain from using sex toys can help both of you know what to expect so you’ll have a pleasant experience using them in bed.

    Shop for toys together

    Part of the fun of introducing sex toys into your relationship is shopping for them. If both of you are shy, you can go online and look for a variety of toys that both of you can use. Just make sure to check the reviews so you’ll know that you’re getting the best toy for your budget. You may also want to add some lube into your virtual cart, especially if you’re buying a sex toy that’s used for penetration.  

    Using sex toys can enhance your sexual pleasure, and it can bring the spark back into your sex life. Try these tips to introduce sex toys into your relationship, and have more fun with your partner in bed.   


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  • Three Tips To Help You Get More Comfortable Talking About Sex

    Three Tips To Help You Get More Comfortable Talking About Sex

    For some people, discussing sex is as easy as breathing, and as natural too. Some people can dive into conversations about all the glorious messy details of their sexual encounters, or those of others, while they’re queuing for their morning coffee. For others, it’s a little trickier. Now, of course there are people who are quite happy not getting into the nitty gritty of their sex lives with other people, and there are those who are perfectly fine with not having conversations about adult-rated material with their friends.

    However, talking about sex can be one of those issues which can become a bit of a neurosis if we’re not careful. Some of us become incredibly tense, awkward and anxious when the subject comes up in conversation, and it can feel like you’re suddenly cut off from your circle of friends. Like you’re the odd one out, and that everyone knows about it.

    First of all: there’s nothing wrong with feeling uncomfortable talking about sex, and if you do, you’re far from alone. But just as with anything that we feel uncomfortable or anxious about, it helps to address the issue, or at least take a closer look at it, before it becomes something you can’t stop worrying about. If you’re looking for ways to feel more relaxed when it comes to talking about relationships, sex, and everything that comes with it, here are a few things you can do to help.

    Try To Relax

    OK, so we’ve just spent a couple of paragraphs talking about the fact that you’re not relaxed, but as glib as this header sounds, remember that it’s a process, not a switch that you just flick on and off. No one’s saying that you should treat your next drinks with friends as an opportunity for a Fleabag-style confessional if that’s really not you, just remember that you’re only going to get more comfortable if you take things at your own pace.

    If you’re feeling like you want to be more open when it comes to talking about sex with your partner, remember to treat it as a conversation rather than a bombshell. If you want to not freeze up every time there’s a conversation about sex with a group of friends, start small, and start with a small group, or even one friend, that you feel comfortable with.

    Get Comfortable With The Idea Of Sex Being Discussed

    If you’re not that comfortable with diving into a conversation about sex in person, then why not give listening a try? A lot of the anxiety around conversations about sex stem from the idea that this is something that is somehow shameful, something that shouldn’t be talked about, that we’re doing something wrong if we do. We don’t need to tell you that this is not a healthy attitude to have towards sex, but it is one that can change with a little patience and work. Listening to podcasts about sex could help you to start that journey of getting more comfortable talking about it.

    And we’re not talking about anything overly serious, or indeed psychological for that matter. Talking about sex should be something that is natural and liberating, and that’s why podcasts about sex are so much fun. There are a host of sex-related podcasts out there to discover, from shows that made from people who want to talk frankly about their sexual encounters to shows created by sex workers who want to bring their profession out of the shadows and get rid of all that age-old, old-fashioned stigma. For example, the BBC podcast Brown Girls Do It Too recently featured a guest appearance from Alicia Sweets of Babestation, who talked about her experiences in UK sex chat and some of the stigma around sex in the British Asian community.

    Try Talking About It Online

    If you’re finding talking about sex in person to be a bit of an uphill struggle, then why not start by broaching the subject online? There are loads of anonymous blogs out there written by people who want to talk about their sexual experiences without compromising their identity or those of their partners or other people in their lives, or you could create a social media account or forum profile under another name to allow you to discuss the issues that are bothering you (or exciting you!) without any of the pressure that comes from doing it face to face.

    This may not be a long-term solution to helping you join in that conversation with you friends at the pub, but it’s a good starting point and will help you to develop the vocabulary you need to express yourself. It’s also a good reminder that you are not alone, and that there are many people out there who need a bit of help when it comes to opening up.


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  • Why Should Men Hire A Sex Coach? (Part II)

    Why Should Men Hire A Sex Coach? (Part II)

    I will tell you that being a tantric sex coach has taught me that there is no stereotype. All seekers who feel called to a higher level of conscious sexuality needs support!

    Why do I coach men? 
    MEN ARE HURTING⁠

    There were decades of patriarchy, still, there are no ROLE models for the men in the 21st century. ⁠

    Think about how you been raised up.⁠

    What stories you have been fed by your parents, the media, your religion, your friends, your ex-lovers. ⁠ All a big B.S, as there is a huge double standard. ⁠

    Your favourite woman teach you how ⁠
    “not to be too sensitive” ⁠
    “not to cry or show emotions” ⁠
    “run the household and just work your ass off” ⁠

    Then another woman ( your girlfriend, wife, lover) will complain that you are not sensitive, present, feeling enough. ⁠BUT it’s not your fault. It’s the society we live in. ⁠Think about growing up – how and where did you learn how to be intimate? Show emotions? Make love? Create a balance between work and play? ⁠

    NOWHERE!⁠

    Everyone talks about the divine feminine, rising of QUEENs, but who will support and heal the KING’s? If no-one teaches the KING’s to be, there won’t be Queens or equality either. So we need both polarities within and around us for ultimate sexual FREEDOM.

    Learning Sex Mastery & Skills For The Bedroom⁠

    One of the biggest cravings for women is the question⁠
    – CAN HE HANDLE ALL OF ME?⁠

    If I let go, go absolutely crazy, wild and deep in orgasms… can he just be there to look into my eyes and hold me in his arms while giving me space and care to surrender into divine feminity?⁠

    A woman wants to know:⁠

    Can he show up and just feel with HER?⁠
    ⁠Can you?⁠

    I’m teaching men how to embrace divine masculinity and use their sexual energy for creating deeper connection, intimacy and presence, so YOU CAN!⁠

    What Is The Truth About Men & Sex? ⁠

    In my years as a mentor and coach to men, I have come to realise that one thing is absolutely clear. ⁠

    Sex matters to men. ⁠No, I mean REALLY matters. ⁠Men crave sex. Men think about sex every few minutes. ⁠

    Men fantasise about sex. ⁠Men do crazy and irresponsible things to get sex. Men like to watch sex. ⁠Some will even pay for sex. ⁠

    Some men demand sex or even take it by force.⁠But, the reality is that for most men, sex can be a source of unending tension. Men are ruled by the three “E’s”, the three sources of men’s sexual tension.⁠

    • Enough⁠
    • Erection ⁠
    • Ejaculation ⁠

    Which of the 3 E’s speaks to you the most? ⁠

    What was the craziest thing you ever done to have sex? ⁠

    A great number of men come to see me because they instinctively know that there is more to sexuality, intimacy and connecting than they are currently experiencing.

    Sex Coaching and Sexological Bodywork can help you to fully inhabit your body, accept yourself with your own unique sexual preferences and needs, learn to overcome shame and communicate about your desires, and acquire tools and techniques to be a better lover, both for yourself and for your partner(s).

    Tantric Sex Coaching welcomes to your new YOU, fully alive, open to pleasure, and thriving. These sessions may be hugely positive for ALL areas of your life.

    What Can We Work On?

    Ultimately, it is YOU who needs to have the choice.

    Mindful Masturbation Coaching and Porn Addiction

    We need to be good lovers for ourselves and with ourselves and explore our own preferences before we can be good lovers for partners. If your masturbation practice is merely a functional release, we look at how to turn it into lovemaking sessions with yourself, involving all of your body in its arousal. Porn addiction may be situational, e.g. very exhausting and soul-destroying shift work. The approach will aim at finding healthier balances rather than cutting out porn altogether.

    Premature Ejaculation & Orgasmic Choice.

    Ultimately, it is YOU who needs to have the choice when to ejaculate. Premature ejaculation is defined as ejaculating sooner than you want. Like all with all performance issues, we would first of all look at your personal history with sexuality and intercourse, when premature ejaculation first showed up, and work on body and arousal awareness, engaging the entire body in your arousal via breath and movement, and being able to be fully relaxed while fully aroused. We would also look at shifting your view of sexuality to process rather than goal-oriented, and pleasure rather than performance.

    Delayed or Voluntary Ejaculation

    A number of men find it difficult to achieve ejaculation, particularly with a partner, or in the presence of a partner. We would look at underlying factors, work on relaxation while aroused, body and arousal awareness, and gradually cultivate the feeling of ejaculatory choice. We would also look at shifting the focus on being present in each moment, rather than anticipating ejaculation, or the lack of it.

    Read Part I here


    Alexandra Holovitz is a tantric sex coach & hypnotherapist. She is known for her honest, passionate and authentic coaching style. 

    She works with high achieving men in their 40′ helping them to heal, express and empower thought tantra, mindset and self-compassion. 

    She believes in holistic healing (mind-body-soul) and by awakening sexual energy to thrive in life and business with deep connection, love and sexual liberation! 

    You can learn more about her work at www.alexandra.guru and connect with her via  Instagram.

    Follow Alexandra on:

    Work with me: https://www.alexandra.guru/work-with-me/

    Instagram: www.instagram.com/alexandra_guru

    Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sexyliberation

    Promo: https://www.alexandra.guru/sex-master-hypnosis ( this is a self-study Hypno bundle for more confidence) 


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  • How To Explore & Enjoy Taboo Role Play Fantasies With An Escort

    How To Explore & Enjoy Taboo Role Play Fantasies With An Escort

    SimplySxy has the pleasure of featuring Pure Lily from London, a premier escort who specialises in taboo role play. Read on as we find out what taboo role play is all about, how to make them realistic and why Pure Lily is the perfect companion for you to explore with!

    What Are Your Views Towards Kink?

    Well, I’m really in awe of kink because I think it looks to be very welcoming to everyone, well at least in a perfect world it would be. I think in kink, you could be having such different kinks and kink events are so open minded! 

    What Is Taboo Roleplay Fantasy All About?

    Taboo is whatever is seen forbidden/prohibited in each culture, country, religion, by customs. Taboo in sexual life as we know it from the Bible, ethnology could be adultery, incest, etc. So, here we would have ‘cheating wife fetish’ and other fantasies. 

    When have I started exploring it? I wouldn’t even know it? Whenever I started exploring my sexuality and I will tell you I was a late bloomer, haha. 

    Why I Love Taboo Roleplay

    I think when asking people why they have particular tendencies, it is good to ask for them to explain it but I also find it sometimes frustrating, because usually it just clicks for you from some long time ago and it just does for you – makes you hard or makes you wet and that’s it. Why do I love it? Because it’s hot, haha. 

    I could tell you what is popular in my expertise, what people choose to explore with me and as well, it’s because I do advertise it. Such scenarios like (step) brother-sister action, as well as uncle/step-daughter, also some other forbidden acts such as r*pe play and sleep assault play and I can tell you, in such role play it’s never too rough, or rough at all.

    Of course, role play comes with action, but mostly it is about words, about interaction. In sleep assault, I would say it’s mostly about ignoring, letting clients to explore their fantasies, but obviously everything is done very safely, I rarely let clients bound me, never use an eyemask and for things such as sleep assault, I always check if protection is in tact.

    Another taboo roleplay could be about power positions such as the headmaster forces to do something after school or perhaps your boss wants to take advantage, it can be just because or because your grades are low/you stole from work, etc. Maybe even daddy/daughter where daddy wants you to explore sexuality, maybe he brings some of his friends in his office and tells you what to do. Or a teen coming for a gynaecologist visit… 

    Misconceptions About Taboo Roleplays

    I would say probably one of them is that taboo roleplay fantasies equals ageplay, but in role play scenarios, there can be so many different scenarios and variations about it. 

    Making Taboo Roleplays Realistic

    As I mentioned before, yes outfits do help, and I myself have more clothing fetish and have at least three drawers of a variety of outfits. One thing I haven’t mentioned before, I do cater for adult babies/diaper lovers, for bottoming and topping and switching. I have a few diapers, baby bottles, etc.

    For schoolgirl, daddy dom/little girl role play I have coloring books, gingham dresses, I also have such things as crop tops and frilly socks, which could be more of a babysitter teen vibe of outfit for such taboo role play. I have a genuine schoolgirl outfit, all my outfits are just genuine pieces, it’s not a sexy schoolgirl/nurse outfit from sex shop.

    But really, it’s all about words, scripts, actions, interactions. It’s weird because I have never been in any drama class but now I think I’m such a good actress. 

    Tips For Beginners Into Taboo Roleplay

    I would say do and don’t make elaborate plots in your mind because reality can be very different. For me, I would just ask what’s my character in the role play – is it slutty schoolgirl, or perhaps naive and shy girl next door.

    And then we would get to roleplay which in the beginning could be more scripted but later it should just go by two or more people’s flow. 
    Anyways, if any taboo role play is making you hard/wet when you are reading about it, it means it’s your thing and go try it at least once in your life 🙂 


    Pure Lily – London’s premier Submissive Escort, Kinky Taboo Role Play companion. Independent London (UK) based Fetish Escort offering ageplay, dd/lg & kinky GF experiences. Redhead darling & cute as button companion for Dinner Dates & Travel Companionship. Some Asia, Middle East, Europe tours from 2022.

    Follow Lily on

    Website: https://www.purelilylondon.com/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/PureLilyLondon

    Email for bookings: daterequestpurelily@gmail.com

    Paid private members page with role play video clip store: https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/179465/pure-lily-taboo

    Tour info: Singapore & Hong Kong short tour 2022 end of September.
    Then based in London, UK, available for FMTY


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  • Why Should Men Hire A Sex Coach?

    Why Should Men Hire A Sex Coach?

    A sex coach is more of a facilitator than a therapist – talking about future solutions versus the past and traumas.⁠

    Reasons you need to see a sex coach:⁠

    1. You don’t understand sex.
    I mean you get it, but you don’t “get it!” When you see it in all the movies, it looks super juicy but in real life is not the same…⁠(the most common issue you can’t relax fall into body shame or guilt about your body or pleasure)

    2. You are out of ideas.
    You remember when the sparks used to fly in the beginning! But you don’t feel the same way anymore. You find yourself in what looks like a routine transactional exchange. You feel a peak tweak kinda orgasm… but you don’t feel orgasmic daily.⁠

    3. You spend way too much intimate time with your phone instead of on your own love life.⁠ (What are you trying to avoid? Being vulnerable is sexy)

    4. You feel there is more out there…
    You know we made of energy.
    You know that sexual energy is healing life force energy, but you can’t activate it nor use it for creation (just yet!)

    Sex coaching isn’t just for the sexless.

    We talk through potential approaches. I offer a holistic healing method – coaching, hypnotherapy, breathwork or other tantric practices – to resolve your challenges in all aspects of your life. As sexuality is just a place where you can’t hide anymore. But most certainly other aspects of your life as a carrier, health would benefit if you could have more energy, wouldn’t it?

    The cultural narrative suggests that only a certain type of person would go to coaching and therapy.

    Part II to follow…


    Alexandra Holovitz is a tantric sex coach & hypnotherapist. She is known for her honest, passionate and authentic coaching style. 

    She works with high achieving men in their 40′ helping them to heal, express and empower thought tantra, mindset and self-compassion. 

    She believes in holistic healing (mind-body-soul) and by awakening sexual energy to thrive in life and business with deep connection, love and sexual liberation! 

    You can learn more about her work at www.alexandra.guru and connect with her via  Instagram.

    Follow Alexandra on:

    Work with me: https://www.alexandra.guru/work-with-me/

    Instagram: www.instagram.com/alexandra_guru

    Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sexyliberation

    Promo: https://www.alexandra.guru/sex-master-hypnosis ( this is a self-study Hypno bundle for more confidence) 


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  • How To Explore & Enjoy Shibari

    How To Explore & Enjoy Shibari

    Those who practice BDSM have the pursuit of pleasure as their goal and during the session, it is possible to carry out this search with the most disparate tools. Within the practice, we can explore our desires and share them with the person we play with. We can feel ashamed, cry, relax, enjoy, be afraid, let go of control in total freedom, without worrying about the judgment of who is there with us at that moment. This allows us to get closer, to get more intimate with your partner.

    I do not share only my body with you but I open a window on my secrets and allow you to see things about me that on other occasions I do not show. In addition, as individuals, practicing BDSM leads us to ask ourselves what we are looking for in a relationship (whether it lasts in the time of a session or whether it is the relationship with our partner), who we are, what we want. In short, from my point of view, it is a full-blown self-determination tool.

    Ropes by Alithia Maltese; Model Momo Usagi; Pic by Vazkor

    How My Interest In Shibari Developed

    As a child I loved to tie things up. I used what must have been a jump rope: chairs, tables, bottles, nothing could stay in its place. I built forts, tents, castles. Upon reaching sexual maturity, I started fantasizing about bonding people. In a short time, the fantasy became reality. I felt, however, that something was missing. Using scarves and belts wasn’t that satisfying. Playing with wax and having extreme sex with the people I dated didn’t tell everything about me. Also, I needed to talk to someone who had my same instincts, I needed confrontation. So I asked for advice from a friend who I knew had the same interests as me and she suggested that I join FetLife, a social network dedicated to BDSM that has nearly nine million subscribers around the world. Here I discovered the existence of a community in Turin, the city where I live, of parties and bondage workshops.

    I am a curious person and as soon as I approached bondage I began to explore the various existing styles, to research the most famous masters, and so I discovered shibari and chose who I wanted to study with. The further I went along my path, the more I realized how relevant this was becoming in my life, how ropes had become one of my favorite communication tools and certainly my favorite BDSM practice.

    Ropes by Alithia Maltese; Model effe.emme; Pic by Vazkor

    Is It Easy To Learn Shibari?

    It all depends on what is the goal you want to achieve.

    You can start playing safely very quickly. The important thing is to know what your abilities are and not to overdo it, not to try to do things that have not yet been learned. Those who want to learn to suspend have a longer course of study ahead of them but the duration depends on several factors, for example on what is the goal of the people who are studying and how much time they dedicate to practice and training. For those who, like me, love shibari and decide to cultivate it and perfect (and to perfect/refine) technique and aesthetics, the path can last a lifetime.

    What I Love About Shibari

    I’d like to say that I love everything about Shibari! I love tools, aesthetics, technique, communication. The most important thing for me I think is the relationship that is created between rigger and rope bottom. Trust, communication, understanding, eroticism are essential components for me in my practice.

    Sometimes I play as a bottom with my partner. In that case, I love to feel his desire for me. As I said before, ropes have become one of my favorite communication tools, it’s amazing how much they can amplify what rigger and rope bottom want to say to each other.

    GyakuEbi Ropes and Pic Alithia Maltese; Model effe.emme

    Safety Precautions Before & During A Session

    Based on their experience, everyone develops their own personal security strategies. The advice I can personally give are: to know what the health conditions of the rope bottom are (for example if they have had joint problems, if they suffer from claustrophobia or low blood pressure), to gradually increase the intensity of the tying to give way to the rope bottom to feel what is happening (both to enjoy the moment more and to communicate if there is something wrong), to read the signals of the rope bottom’s body to understand if everything is okay, be aware of your abilities and not overdo it, not to try ties that are not mastered during a session, especially when if you are a beginner.

    Alithia Maltese pic by Vazkor

    What To Expect As A Beginner

    I recommend starting with a workshop held by a reliable teacher. Look at the photos, follow people on social networks, ask for feedback from those who have already studied or done Kinbaku with them, ask someone who is part of the community. This also applies to those who want to be tied up.

    The sensations experienced in Shibari are very intense. If you are looking for something comfortable, Shibari is not for you. If instead you want to start a journey, perhaps together with your partner, if you are ready to share your deepest emotions with this person, then give it a chance.

    Maybe there will be times when studying will seem boring or frustrating, but if you are willing to overcome them you will be rewarded and you will discover a new world, something you didn’t even know existed before.


    Alithia Maltese is a rigger, an alternative sexuality educator, a kinbaku teacher. She lives in Turin, Italy.

    Alithia organizes events about consent, meetings for people interested in BDSM, classes on non-verbal communication and bondage workshops. Her main interest is interpersonal communication and she has found in ropes the tool that allows her to express herself at best. She is convinced that BDSM can be a great way to learn to communicate through our body, so she studies its potential.

    Follow Alithia Maltese on

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/alithiamaltese/

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    Twitter: @AlithiaMaltese

    Telegram: https://t.me/bdsm_alithiamaltese

    Website (for Italian speaker): https://www.alithiamaltese.com/


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  • A Good Way To Get To Know Paris At Night Is To Contact An Escort Girl

    A Good Way To Get To Know Paris At Night Is To Contact An Escort Girl

    There’s no better way to get to know a city like Paris than by visiting it with someone who lives there. That’s why anyone’s best bet is always going to be hiring a Parisian escort to show them around. These women have been in every club and walked down every street. They’ve tasted the finest cuisine that the city has to offer and visited every attraction. In fact, any escort that you can find on a site like Panamescorte.com will know the ins and out better than any travel agency ever could.

    Escorts get preferential treatment

    On top of knowing the best places to visit, these women are almost certainly regulars of the best places in the city. That means they know the people who work there and have relationships with them. Having an escort who knows the doorman at an exclusive club is almost always the best way to make sure you get into it. She’s been there many times before and get you through the security on her personality alone. She’s practically a pass to all of the excitement you’ve always wanted to experience.

    They know which places are overrated

    There’s nothing worse than visiting a place that you’ve heard great things about only to find out that it doesn’t meet your expectations. You’ve been looking forward to a place for a very long time and, once you get there, you’re simply let down. That’s where your escort comes into play. She’s already been to these places. That means that she’s going to know which ones are actually good and which ones are a waste of your time. If you ask her for advice on where to visit, you can be certain to get an educated recommendation from her.

    She’s happy to have real fun in public

    Of course, what you have to realize is that you’re enjoying the city with a paid sex worker. That opens up a whole new realm of opportunities to you. You don’t have to limit yourself to what the location has to offer you. You can sneak away at any time that you want for an adult experience in the middle of the fun. Just imagine being at the finest club the city has to offer, only to duck away into a private room for an oral sex session that leaves you smiling for the rest of the night.

    She’ll always look great on your arm

    Aside from being able to show you the most fun that you can have in Paris, your escort is always going to look beautiful on your arm. You’ll be able to hold your head high knowing that you’re with the most gorgeous woman in the area and everyone wants to be in your shoes at that moment. You’ll want to spend as much time as you possibly can out in public with her just so everyone can see how amazing she looks with you.

    Find an escort now

    You can find an escort any time that you want to. Whenever you want to head out for a night in Paris, you can find an escort to guide you through it and make sure that you find the very best places to visit with her. She’ll know all of the hottest locations and let you experience the city in the very best way possible. Find an escort today and you’ll be able enjoy more of Paris than you ever thought possible. One night is all it takes to fall in love with it.


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  • What It’s Like To Build Your Own Home BDSM Dungeon

    What It’s Like To Build Your Own Home BDSM Dungeon

    I got into BDSM very young. I used to sneak and watch clips from the kink factory as a youngin’ LOL! I love it! Honestly, I go into just as much of a euphoric state, as my subs, when I’m having my way with them and holding every bit of power over them and their bodies in my tiny hands.

    Getting The Inspiration To Build A Home BDSM Dungeon

    It came from a friend of mine. Hers is at her home; small and intimate like mine. And I just loved the thought of not only having my own space for sessions and playtimes, but also for an office space and cam/clip studio. The Dungeon will have multiple uses.

    Considerations When Designing My Dungeon

    Honestly; with it being four walls, it was more of what’s going INSIDE for me. But insulation for temp control. Re-anchored beams for weight bearing toys. Lots of hooks everywhere cause I session like a monkey haha. And last, but not least: the firepit and bar area – the whole reason I call it “The backyard BDSM Lounge”

    What My Dungeon Is Equipped With

    My smotherbox and St. Andrews cross are almost built. But a stripper pole, spanking horse, sexchair with custom restraints. ceiling suspensions. Lots of mirrors and my favorite art pieces. My cam equipment and moving desk…plus for some added aesthetic… My whips, gags, toys etc.. hanging on all four walls.

    Are There Rules & Boundaries?

    Not too many. I don’t show my vagina. Never touch me unless it’s a demand. Pay first before playing; always. No un-collared men in the dungeon; EVER! I only touch the male genitals in hedonistic ways, never sensual or sexual. If a session includes a man finishing…He does it himself. But that’s about it… I’m pretty wild!

    What To Expect From Your First Visit

    I’d say lay out your boundaries clearly. Shower first so you feel confident. stop by an ATM – we only like cash! Decide if you wanna use my color system or a safeword. Have a clear idea of what you hope for and communicate it with me, don’t be shy. I never let a slave leave un-happy with their experience.


    Goddess Ana – I most enjoy the psychological aspects of BDSM & Femdom, The mind-fuck, if you will… I enjoy the anticipation on a mans face during one of my delicious teases. I will make The build-up as you wait & wonder what may happen; excruciating . The goosebumps,…the desire that starts as a slow burn, but with me kindling it, it builds in intensity until it consumes my men; whole. I love the Cat & mouse type-play. But; Make no mistake, when you are with Me,….you will be both My property to play with …and My prey.

    Not a thing pleases Me more, than once Ive penetrated My way inside Your psyche, learned what kinky things makes you tick,…and then I use your mind & body  as My personal playground . 

     I love sadistic & Sensual Domination. 

    I naturally lean toward bratty seductive aspects of play, and twisted aspects of punishment. 

    I can be a real brat at times,…but My greatest pleasure is making you squirm and whimper under My hand, while you also throw your lifes saving at my feet.

    I enjoy getting to know My submissives …..and using what I learn “against” them,…for my pleasure. My pro-Domme journey began over 6yrs ago, and my experience shows in My interactions with the submissives lucky enough to be chosen to spend time with Me. Come, indulge yourself to all My wicked whims…

    In person; in my Fully equipped Fetish Dungeon Studio Or Online.. I can make all of your fantasies come true.. 

    Contact me via my two Twitters (https://twitter.com/brattyMistressA)

    Also, have 2 clips stores on C4S & IWC. I livestream 3xs a week on cam on chaturbate & streamate; as well as my of- Onlyfans.com/mistress_anam & My email (paygoddessana@gmail.com) for bookings


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