How Do You Get Better Sexual & Relationship Satisfaction?

One night stands are wonderful, casual sex is wonderful, sex within the confines of a monogamous relationship is also wonderful. I’ll admit that my views and boundaries have become more opened as I’ve matured.

Relationship & Sexual Dynamics

I can only speak for myself. When it comes to a personal relationship, I prefer clear and defined roles.  I’m actually quite traditional in this aspect of my  life. I love it when a man leads and allows me to be a woman.

Does better communication lead to better sex?

I find sex to be most enjoyable when there is familiarity and you are comfortable enough to say what feels good (preferable not during the act) or ways to make certain things feel better. Also, when you know someone well, you often times can read the nonverbal cues.

Other Factors Leading To Greater Sexual Satisfaction

Other than communication and attraction?  Chemistry, confidence is very important. Being open minded is also wonderful.

Does greater sexual satisfaction lead to more satisfied relationships?

Absolutely.  I feel as much as we hate to admit, couples enter into relationships because of some benefit.  Usually good sexual chemistry, financial gains and shared interests. If  the sex is amazing , and there are shortcomings in other vital areas in the relationship, often times they are overlooked or seem unimportant.

This question reminds me of my makeup artist that I’ve grown close with.  She is in a five year relationship with a man who is financially unstable and keeps their apartment very untidy.

She complains to me about him whenever I see her.  One day I asked her why she chooses to stay with him, her response, “Can’t nobody hit it the way he does“.

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