Is it normal for a guy to not like receiving blow jobs? My friends rave about it but I don’t really enjoy it as much as they do.
Blow jobs are one form of sexual activity. What one finds pleasurable is unique and subjective to their sexual experiences and how they are wired to experience pleasure.
Sex is as varied as the food we eat. Liking blow jobs is the same as liking a certain cuisine. Some people may love pizza and others prefer Chinese food. It doesn’t mean one is better than the other. It all comes down to personal preference. Sexual positions and activities are the same way. It is absolutely normal for a man to prefer other forms of sexual activity over blow jobs.
The body may prefer other forms of stimulation and pleasure. It could also be due to the type of blow jobs and technique used by current or past partners. I would explore different types of stimulation and ways to receive oral stimulation that feel good for your body. Maybe your interest in blow jobs can change with the right stimulation and penis pleasing techniques.
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Dr. Shannon Chavez is a licensed clinical psychologist and sex therapist with an expertise in female sexual health. She works with women of all ages and backgrounds helping guide them from sexual concerns to sexual empowerment. Read the rest of her profile below and follow her on Facebook at Dr.Shannon.Chavez
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