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  • Supermom, Artist & Entrepreneur Anita Naoko

    Supermom, Artist & Entrepreneur Anita Naoko

    Hey! I am Anita Naoko and I am half Swedish and half Japanese. I grew up in Sweden but moved to Tanzania when I was 17 and lived there for a couple of years before moving to Japan where I currently live now. I am a mother to a two year old boy and I love to travel and just create things with my hands. Anything from baking a sourdough bread to sewing or painting!

    What inspires your fashion style?

    Oh, so many things! Nowadays the most important thing is that it’s comfortable and practical. Since becoming a mother I don’t ever wanna feel restricted by my clothes, I gotta be able to get down and dirty with my son or be able to pick him up when he asks for it.

    At the same time it’s still important for me to feel like myself and dress up though, so it’s all about finding that balance. Apart from the must of the clothes being practical, Tokyo, where I live, is definitely an inspiration. There are so many people with unique styles and cools shops to browse through so it’s almost hard not to get inspired.

    How did the idea of starting Shopsilkes come about?

    I have always loved to create things but it has always been something I just do for myself. When the corona situation worsened over here, I got a lot of time to both think but also to spend at home. I wanted to create something that could maybe one day be a stepping stone to turn my passions into businesses.

    I love fashion, I love vintage, I love luxury and I love to create things. Silkes is a combination of all that. In a time when we all should be more cautious with our fashion purchases and the impact it has on the environment, I decided that instead of creating something brand new, I will source authentic vintage high end scarves and repurpose them into hair accessories. This is a way for people to get something new and luxurious to wear but at a lower cost both for their wallets and the planet.

    What other hobbies and interests do you have?

    A big passion of mine is art. I love to paint and recently I created an Instagram called @BagTheBeast just for my art. I paint on vintage Louis Vuitton bags and who knows, maybe this can become another business of mine in the future?

    Do you have a sweet tooth?

    So boring but I don’t really eat too much sweets. Maybe some chocolate during that time of the month but otherwise I am more of a savory person.

    If you could have a superpower, what will it be?

    Hard one. It would either be something selfish like stopping time so I could enjoy my little boy for longer or I would choose something like reversing the climate crisis or something like that. Haha I realize that both these answers are boring, but I am pretty happy with who I am right now without any superpowers.

    What 3 fun things do you love to do in the city you live in?

    I’m a sucker for a good coffee so first thing I always do when I get into town is hit up one of the cafes! If not coffee, I also love to go for some bubble tea.

    Tokyo has some of the most interesting shops in the world so I usually narrow down to one of all the shopping districts depending on what Im looking for or feel like seeing and then I can spend hours there just browsing.

    I am also always on the lookout for a new good restaurant. Japan has the best food and the number of restaurants here is endless. I never head in to Tokyo without having a good meal!

    What do you not get about guys?

    Honestly, I kinda feel like I have them all figured out haha. Am I allowed to say that?

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Anita. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Confidence! Nothing is sexier than a confident person, but don’t get it wrong with arrogance, because that would probably be the least sexy thing.

    Follow the fabulous Anita Naoko on

    Instagram: @anitanaoko | @shopsilkes | @bagthebeast

    Webshop: https://www.shopsilkes.com

    Images courtesy of Anita Naoko

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  • What Can Ladies Expect A Date With A Male Escort To Be?

    What Can Ladies Expect A Date With A Male Escort To Be?

    I love being an escort! I’ve been lucky enough to have met some amazing clients and enjoyed some incredible experiences in this job. Hiring an escort is a great way to engage in physical intimacy in a safe manner without the hassle of picking up a complete stranger or having an unwanted emotional situation develop with a sex partner.

    What Makes Me An Ideal Male Companion

    I have a positive, outgoing personality. I really enjoy meeting new people, getting to know them and seeing life from their perspective. I’m an active listener, chatty and cheeky. I have a wide breadth of knowledge on most subjects so I can relate very easily to almost anyone. I’m also confident in any situation which makes me a great companion at events or in the bedroom.

    Reasons Ladies Seek Male Companionship

    Generally, the clients I see are recently divorced or separated and need help rediscovering their confidence and sexuality. Women in high pressure jobs who are time poor and don’t care for a relationship. They know exactly what they want and are happy to pay for it.

    Some clients are couples who wish to flesh out a specific fantasy of theirs with an unrelated third party that won’t interfere in their relationship. Occasionally, I’ll be just a platonic companion or plus one at an event. One client that was a virgin and thought an escort would be a great way to lose her virginity.

    Common Misconceptions Of Male Companions

    That we’ll do anything for money. I have boundaries that are non negotiable, regardless of any amount.

    That we’re unclean. Hygiene is very important to me and as such, I practice safe sex at all times and get tested regularly.

    Also, that we’re all party boys. I don’t drink, smoke or take drugs and really enjoy keeping myself fit, healthy and focused on my goals.

    Tips For An Enjoyable Time Together

    Expect to be the focus of all my attention. We can chat and get to know each other first. Then, share a kiss and move things to the bedroom. Apart from that, just shower, groom and dress in your cutest outfit! I’ll take care of the rest and make our experience one you won’t forget.

    Hope to see you soon.

    My name is Andrew. I’m an athletic 35 year old male that enjoys meeting new people. I am a naturally curious person which makes me a great listener, enthusiastic companion and confident conversationalist at social events. I believe in balance in all things and train in weights, mid distance running and yoga. I also enjoy playing guitar and riding motorcycles. I have strong hands, possess a great sense of humour, a humble nature and a warm smile. My goal is to make you feel amazing, sexy and wanted.

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    Twitter: @EscortAndrewH

    Websites:

    https://www.brisbane-male-escorts.com/male-escort/premium-male-escort-andrew/

    https://https://scarletblue.com.au/male-escort/andrew-h?city=Brisbane

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  • California Influencer Julie Dau

    California Influencer Julie Dau

    Hi everyone! I am a social media influencer and content creator from California. My goal is to share snippets of my everyday life and interests, which ranges from fashion, travel, food, etc.  My content is inspired and curated by my own personal experiences.

    Do you have any hobbies or interests?

    I love music, art, cafe hopping, traveling, reading, creating content, and meeting new people! I also enjoy spending time with my family and friends.

    What inspires your fashion style?

    I try to keep up with the current fashion trends on social media. My mood of the day is another factor that inspires what I decide to wear that day.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    A compliment that I’ve received since I was little is my handwriting, haha. I think that counts!

    How will you describe a typical day like for yourself?

    Grind and work hard during the week, and play on the weekends!

    Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

    I’ve been wanting to start streaming again, as well as start an online shop.

    Have you been in an embarrassing situation before that is funny now when looking back?

    Oh all the time! I’ve just learned to laugh it off and not take myself too seriously!

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    I’m gonna have to go with the good old love notes and letters!

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Julie. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Two words: Self confidence.

    It starts with loving yourself and not letting anything stop you from achieving your goals and dreams.

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    Instagram: @simplyjulieee

    TikTok: @simplyjulieee

    Twitch: @simplyjulieee

    Images courtesy of Julie Dau

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  • Advantages Of Undergoing A Coaching & Discipline Programme

    Advantages Of Undergoing A Coaching & Discipline Programme

    My personality and style as a professional disciplinarian is really no different from my own. I am told I have an assertive style, and that I exude a natural air of authority. I am perceptive generally, and enjoy a meeting of the minds – I love to unpick a person and to find out what really makes them tick. I am firm but fair, very honest, and love to be engaged in interesting conversation about pretty much any topic; I am insatiably curious about people, and the world we live in. I approach people from a place of kindness and a desire to meet their needs (not always their ‘wants’!). Sometimes (often), kindness means a very sore bottom. 🙂

    I have a bit of a wicked sense of humour and will often laugh with my bottoms in session. Depending on the type of session, you might catch a little joyous gleam, an evil laugh, or at the very least a mischievous twinkle in my eye. I absolutely adore my work as a disciplinarian.

    Inspiration For A Coaching & Discipline Programme

    I have always seen the potential of corporal punishment and discipline to help those with the requisite wiring to achieve their goals. While I conduct many different types of sessions, including role play and cathartic release/relaxation, I found increasingly that as I got to know my bottoms, there were areas in their lives that they wanted some help with. It made sense to use my role as an authority figure to help keep them accountable with the changes and goals we’d agreed on.

    Creating programmes for them to hold these goals together, and to create a path to success was an easy extra step. I have a pretty broad and deep knowledge base in a wide variety of disciplines, including personal training, health, coaching and lifestyle change, so it was an absolutely natural fit and an extension of my existing skills and expertise to link these to discipline.

    Reasons Clients Take Up The Programme

    They are incredibly varied, but I’ve worked with clients to help them with stopping smoking, weight loss, various fitness goals, dietary changes, reducing alcohol consumption – even helping with unpacking shame around kink, and helping bottoms to feel more comfortable with who they are.

    The scope is pretty much limitless – I create a framework with the person, break those goals down into realistic and achievable  chunks, and then track them. Consequences for failure, and rewards for success depend on the individual’s preferences – and ultimately, of course, are at my discretion.

    Does Being Punished Create An Incentive?

    That’s always a bit of a minefield to manage. I have certainly had experiences with masochists who have attempted to engineer a punishment purposefully. However, this can be managed with creating punishments that are absolutely not fun for the individual (for example, corner time, non-spanking or refusal of session time, line-writing etc).

    I will always remind an individual that ultimately, it is their goal, and their wish to achieve it that provides the motivation – they only sabotage themselves in their desire for punishment. For a masochist, therefore, a reward can be a punishment-themed session. It’s complicated, but it works as long as I have a grasp of the psychology of the individual – happily, to date, this has been an arrangement that works well.

    Advantages Of The Programme

    The advantages are the same as any vanilla coaching programme – the client has a coach in their corner, working with them to keep them accountable, with the added bonus of being able to leverage a predilection for punishment to drive change. For someone with a spanking or corporal punishment fetish, the underlying drive is wanting to please, and absolutely never wanting to disappoint the person they allow to wield authority over them. This is incredibly powerful and effective. You get the best of all worlds; a coach helping you, an authority figure motivating you and inspiring you to keep your promises to her, and a corporal punishment session that will either align with deeply-held fantasies, or provide the sharp and unpleasant shock required to get you back on track. The combination of goals with corporal punishment really is a match made in heaven.

    In terms of choosing to do a programme with me – well, as I’ve alluded to previously, I’ve got an excellent and highly relevant knowledge base that gives me the ability to give clients specialised input. Additionally, I have my own gym which I will use for clients for fitness testing etc for that extra level of accountability. From a corporal punishment perspective, I’ve got a reputation for not taking prisoners. You’ll get disciplined, and you’ll know about it.

    What To Expect Prior To Starting The Programme

    You need to be realistic – if you actually just want to be punished, then apply for a session and we can do that. If you genuinely want to change one or a few aspects of your life, then apply for a programme. I invest in your well-being and success, so it’s important that you do too. You need to have a clear idea of what you want to achieve, and for those goals to be based in reality.  You also need to be able to attend the sessions regularly to make the programme work. Generally, I work on the basis of a monthly session for programmes. How you report in will vary with your budget and the types of goals you’re pursuing.

    While you may have a fantasy of a super-strict disciplinarian who will mercilessly thrash you for any indiscretion, that really isn’t the best way to achieve change. I’ll work with you to make sure you are consistent. Punishments and consequences will be discussed and made very clear. I will encourage you, support you, and respect you as a human being who cannot be perfect, but I will also hold you accountable. I’ve helped many people achieve things they didn’t believe they could; you are no different! 

    Miss Haldane – A highly educated, intelligent and intuitive disciplinarian. Based near Birmingham, UK, she offers both in person and online sessions, providing a professional disciplinary service for suitable applicants; a safe space for them to be who they want to be, and to explore and express their long-held disciplinary needs and fantasies. Sessions vary from role play, to cathartic release, to structured goals and accountability coaching programmes – whichever direction they take, they are tailored to the individual, and crafted at the hands of a lady who truly ‘gets’  – and loves – CP.

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    Website: www.misshaldane.com

    Twitter: @misshaldane

    Article images courtesy of Miss Haldane.

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  • Singapore Model & Content Creator Claire Lim

    Singapore Model & Content Creator Claire Lim

    Hey there! I’m Claire and I’m a freelance model as well as a fashion and lifestyle content creator based in Singapore! I look intimidating at first sight but I’m the total opposite when you get to know me.

    I’m always on the go looking for new adventures and meeting new people. I absolutely love fashion, travelling, good food and alcohol, and a killer pair of boots!

    Do you have any hobbies or interests?

    Definitely! I have a quite a few hobbies but my favorite hobby would be singing, so you’ll find me hitting the karaoke with my friends/ recording covers with them in my free time.

    Otherwise you’ll find me doodling or busy creative shooting somewhere. I’ve recently taken an interest to cheerleading in the last few years so I’ll pop down time to time to work on stunts with my cheerleading friends.

    What inspires your fashion style?

    I would say my fashion style is inspired by a mix of K-pop fashion, high fashion and street styles. To put it together simply, it has that edginess and classiness while retaining that youthfulness and cheekiness.

    More or less, I would say my style could closely be described as the LA street style as I take a lot of inspiration from LA style influencers.

    Which beauty products do you use regularly?

    I have to admit, I’m not a huge beauty/makeup fanatic and I’m absolutely lazy so I’m pretty minimal when it comes to makeup unless I have a big night out. My regular beauty products would be the usual foundation, powder, blush, eyebrow pencil (really important!!), highlighter (gotta sparkle like the sun hunny!) and the occasional mascara (if we’re feeling extra).

    For my skincare routine, I like to keep it quick and simple: Toner, essence, serum, rosehip oil (an absolute skincare savior) and sunscreen. Pop on the occasional masks on the weekend and we’re good to go!

    How will you describe a typical day like for yourself?

    I’m currently in my last year of study in the National University of Singapore so my weekdays are pretty much swarmed with classes from morning to evening. However, on the weekends, that’s where the real fun begins – I’m mostly shooting on the weekends or partying/chilling  with friends.

    Is there a place or city you have always wanted to travel to for a visit?

    Definitely, one of the places that has been on my bucket list for the longest time is the Salar de Uyuni in Bolivia which is absolutely stunning after a rainfall, because the entire salt flat transforms into a giant mirror. The reflection of the sky on the salt flats is a sight that is unbelievably beautiful and out of this world.

    Do you believe in any superstition?

    Not really, I’m not one for superstitions or horoscopes. I believe that nothing governs your life but your own choices, thus you make your own destiny.

    What is an ideal first date to you?

    Wow, that’s a really tough question. I guess an ideal first date for me would be one filled with lots of laughter, good food and alcohol, along with a fun activity that my date and I could bond over to get to know each other better!

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Claire. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    To me, being “sexy” isn’t just about looking hot or pretty, but having that confidence and intelligence to own up to who you are and what you do. I think that “sexiness” should be more than just appearances but rather focus more on loving yourself and how you empower others with that confidence and belief in yourself.

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    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stxrsescapes/

    Tellonym: tellonym.me/stxrsescapes

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  • “Kissing is Sensational”. Kissing & COVID-19

    “Kissing is Sensational”. Kissing & COVID-19

    Kissing (cheek to cheek or lips to lips) always seemed as a very natural process which is essential and important in people relationships. Kissing is present in most people cultures since ancient times. We can read kissing in historical documents, look at the ancient drawings even hear from the songs. Kissing has different types. Parents and children kiss each other to express care, love or devotion. People also kiss in religious reasons and of course kissing is very often used for romantic reasons to express affection, sympathy and pleasure. There are also many ways in which people kiss. Some kisses are plain touching lips to something, some kisses, mostly erotic, involve tongue. However, now everything has changed one hundred and eighty degrees when the Covid-19 pandemic spreads almost all over the world.

    COVID-19 spreads mostly from person-to-person contact through  coughing, sneezing, laughing, singing or talking. In the distance scale, people can be infected if the particles of coughing, sneezing, laughing, singing or talking reach their mouth, nose or eyes within 1.5 metres. This virus can also spread by touching surfaces or objects where the virus is present and then touching your mouth or face. But what about to have sex with kissing?  If you are having sex with someone, you are going to be in close contact with them. Although COVID-19 is not an Sexual Transmitted Infections (STI) but obviously, it is transmitted during sex because of the virus is present in the mouth and it makes sense that kissing will pass on COVID-19.

    “Like it or not I have to hold back from kissing my partner. Actually I don’t like it. What’s so good about having sex without a kiss? Kissing is sensational for me but since the COVID-19 pandemic I have had to endure it“, said Mekar, 25 years old (not her real name). Mekar is a private employee and has a partner.

    Most think that kisses as an essential part of any romantic relationships or sex and that real passion is very difficult to be achieved without kisses. Some see it as a proof of love and proof of sympathy and probably think of it as very important part of reaching intimate pleasure. But can you have sex in the times of COVID-19? The answer is yes you can but how?

    The obvious answer is to masturbate. Masturbation will not spread COVID-19, in particular if you wash your hands for at least 20 seconds before and after. Or at least if you want to kiss and have sex, do it with your safest partner. Having sex with your close contact helps prevent spreading COVID-19. In the mean times, you should limit close contact with anyone outside your circle. But if you do kissing and have sex with others outside of your circles, you have to talk about COVID-19 risk factors, just as you discuss condoms, and other safer sex topics.

    I met Ayu (27 years old) and Deni (31 years old) (not their real name) in the virtual website. They are couple and they do have sex and kissing at least four times a week. As Deni is hypersexual, Ayu ask Deni to not to kiss her but they have sex.

    Ayu said, “I asked my partner not to kiss during the pandemic. It’s tough because my partner is hyper.  He always ask me to kiss. I said “No”. He continued to force me. Then I said go ahead if you want to kiss me but if I catch Covid-19, you will also catch it. My partner occupied me for almost two weeks. At that time I had given up if my love life with him ended here. After two weeks, my partner called me and he said that he was hopefully strong enough not to kiss but he said that the sex would continue.” Deni nodded his head in agreement with Ayu. Deni said that it is their agreement.

    “Like it or not I have to obey my partner. Currently the number of people without COVID-19 symptoms is getting higher in our city, Jakarta and we don’t want to be people without symptoms. My partner knows that I am hyper. I have to refrain from kissing before sex. It feels bland but I have to,” said Deni.

    We are all currently fighting the COVID-19 pandemic. This pandemic is very dangerous because it can cause sudden death. Couples who want to have sexual intercourse by kissing should be avoided. Kissing is not something you have to do in a relationship. Love your partner and their family.

    Dr. Wisnu Adihartono – He received his Ph.D in sociology (gender studies, migration studies, family studies, and Southeast Asian studies) from École des Hautes Études en Sciences Sociales (EHESS), France. He wrote the articles for journals, the book reviews and the short articles for the website. He is the author of the book Migration et Soutien Familial. Le Cas des Gays Indonésiens à Paris (French version only). You can contact him at wisnuadi.reksodirdjo@gmail.com or wisnuadi.reksodirdjo@outlook.com

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  • Sporty & Adventurous Ema Lešnik From Slovenia

    Sporty & Adventurous Ema Lešnik From Slovenia

    Hi! I live and study economics in Slovenia. Communicative, outgoing and energetic are the adjectives that would describe me. In my free time, I like doing any kind of sports and I am in love with healthy food, which means I spend a lot of my time in the kitchen.

    What is your fashion style like and where do you love to shop from?

    I would describe my style as sporty-elegant. I like to wear comfy clothes but I also like to dress elegant for nights out or having drinks with my friends. I don’t have a favourite shop, I just go to all available stores and pick the clothes I like.

    Do you follow a regular beauty or exercise regime?

    No, I think that there isn’t a specific regime that works for everybody.  Every person needs to find a fit to herself. So my answer is no, I don’t follow any regime.

    How do you like to spend your free time?

    As I said earlier I like doing sports, mostly going to fitness or hiking.  But more than that I like food, especially the eating part!

    Is there a place or city you have always wanted to travel to for a holiday?

    Ohh yeah, I really like travelling and I always wanted to go to Bali!

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of an adventurer are you?

    I would say I am a solid 9. I always like experiencing something new.

    If you could have a superpower, what will it be?

    I would definitely love to fly!

    What is a funny or lame attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    Ohh there are many. Most of all I hate someone showing their wealth and think I would instantly be in love.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Ema. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I don’t think sexy is all about looks. I give a lot on energy and I think that is an answer.

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    Instagram: @ema.lesnik

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  • The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 13) – Sex Brings Emotion

    The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 13) – Sex Brings Emotion

    Ever wondered what really happens on a hot girls’ night out? Meet Juliet Adelaide and her friends in The Secret Life of a Hotwife as they drive into the sassy world in this no-holds barred account of a hotwife’s lifestyle, and uncover all you’ve ever wanted to know, from the sensual and provocative to the risque and unspeakable.

    Based on the steamy real-life experience of Juliet Adelaide, author of The Mrs Sexy Chronicles, this exclusive first-hand account of her exploration of sexual freedom and insight into the life of a hotwife will leave you begging for more.

    Chapter 13 Teaser – Sex Brings Emotion

    Julie brings up a friend of hers that is in a polyamorous relationship. She thinks it sounded like things were going well for a time between me, Scott and Mark, we almost had a polyamorous thing going on. She says that her friends seemed quite happy. They are a two-women and one man set-up who all live together.  Sometimes they have sex together but not always. They’re also very honest and open with each other about their sexuality. Julie tells us that she thought it was weird at first, but they have fun parties and seem to care about each other more than most couples do these days.

    I agree with her and really think polyamory, more than two people involved in a sexual relationship, can work. It has to be the right people. I thought Mark would be the one it would work with. That was my mistake. He knew from the beginning that I would never be “his”. We had such amazing times that he pretended he was fine with being in second place, but in the end I think he wanted to be a couple, perhaps marriage, with just one devoted woman. I couldn’t fault him for that, but he didn’t have to be such a dick to me at the end after I had done nothing but loved him and was always good to him. He couldn’t talk to me. He wasn’t honest with me and that’s what ultimately kills any relationship. That’s why even though I have had other lovers, my relationship with Scott remains so strong, it’s the communication.

    Purchase and read the rest of this amazing book by clicking here: The Secret Life Of A Hotwife 

    Juliet Adelaide has a Bachelor’s degree in Humanities and Culture from Arizona State University. She started dating her husband at the age of 17 and they were monogamous for 25 years. They are a devoted couple who only recently opened their marriage to new sexual experiences allowing Juliet to become a hotwife.

    “mrs Sexy” is the witty, erotic and true story of her experiences with this new polyamorous lifestyle. Juliet, (aka Mrs Sexy), takes you through the most personal moments of her romantic and sexual adventures.

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    Website: https://mrssexybook.com/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/mrssexybook

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Mrs-Sexy-469306166570252/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrssexybook2

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  • How To Explore Smothering & Breath Play

    How To Explore Smothering & Breath Play

    I have always had a want to understand people’s deepest darkest desires. At first, this led me to read philosophy, and later to BDSM. There is a combination of curiosity, trust and connection that makes exploring kink the most intellectually and physically exciting parts of my day. 

    What Is Smothering & Breath Play?

    Smothering and breath play are extremely intimate, you’re literally trusting your life force with me. It’s for this reason that you should only engage in these activities with trained individuals, and never push it too far.

    Breath play can be quite dangerous and your practitioner needs to be completely in control and monitoring your body language and pre-arranged mercy signals at all times when it comes to heavy bondage breath play scenarios. 

    However there are also lighter smothering scenarios that can be a lot of fun, in this case I like to use my body. I have been gifted with large natural breasts and an ample bottom that is ideal for queening (sitting on your subs face) or breast smothering (pushing my subs face between my breasts).

    Many subs are attracted to these elements of my body when they find my profile, and I like to use that to my advantage. I love creating scenarios where subs are ‘forced’ (consensually) to perform certain tasks for my amusement in order to try and win my favour, and perhaps have the honour of experiencing this total submission. 

    Reasons Subs Love This Kink

    I had a sub once say, “when you control my breath it’s the ultimate submission, it’s like you have my life in your hands” 

    For many, this form of kink is the most they could offer their mistress. Equally, I hear from some subs that this kink feels extremely comforting, particularly for those who are starved in other parts of their lives – they are being engulfed by the femme. 

    What Goes On In A Typical Session

    Well, it pairs very well with bondage and restraints for obvious reasons. Usually we’ll start with some more ‘active’ play like task domination or discipline, then I’ll tie them down for their smothering reward – if they have performed to my liking. 

    What To Expect Before Trying Smothering & Breath Play

    Again, they should do their research and make sure their playmate is engaging in safe, sane and consensual practices. They should establish a way they can communicate their boundaries with their dominant before the session begins – eg a fast tapping of the hand. They should start slow and I would advise no longer then a few seconds of complete breath deprivation – it only takes four minutes to cause permanent damage. If they are considering choking type play, they should make sure to approach the grip from the sides of the throat and avoid crushing the wind pipe from the front. 

    They should expect to feel some light headed-ness, and make sure their body is in a supportive and comfortable position. I wouldn’t advise breath play for those prone to fainting or with other pre-existing medical conditions. It is important to practice strong communication with your dominant before, during and after the session.

    Mistress Christine – A Sydney based dominatrix, she loves travelling the world and exploring every avenue of fetish when that’s possible. 

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    Email for booking sessions: mistresschristinexxx@gmail.com

    Twitter: @miss_christinex

    Instagram: @cityofladychristine

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  • Malaysian Online Entrepreneur Karen Thew

    Malaysian Online Entrepreneur Karen Thew

    Hi guys, My name is Karen. I am currently a student and I also have my own online business selling skin care. By the way, I am from Selangor. You can follow my Instagram and you can learn some things about my life from me hahahahah. 

    Do you have any hobbies or interests?

    My hobbies are swimming, taking pretty photos, cycling and outdoor activities.

    What inspires your fashion style?

    Good taste will never go out of style. It is better to regret the things you wear than regret the things you didn’t wear. Do not mind other’s people perception on you, and just be yourself. Wear anything you like and am comfortable with. Style is a form of expression and also a way to share your information to people around you.

    For me, I like to wear a short t-shirt and a pair of long jeans. Mostly I like to wear black, white, sky blue, and pink. These colours make me feel simple, easy, tidy, and beautiful looking!

    Which beauty products do you use regularly?

    For me, I love my skin so much and I really protect my skin so I have more variety of beauty products. My beauty products, some come from Beauty Salons, which isn’t sold on the market, and some are from the market. My favorite beauty products are brands such as Clarena, Cellbone, Am Skin Care, EGF, Clinelle and others. 

    How will you describe a typical day like for yourself?

    I try to stay positive always and read more about positive things, so I will be positive and always remember to smile to the mirror and smile to all your friends, family and others.

    Is there a place or city you have always wanted to travel to for a visit?

    I would like to travel to Taiwan. Taiwan is the best place for me to communicate. The Taiwanese are so kind and they’re so lovely. There are more night markets and it something all teenagers would like. Taipei is the place most people would like to go. There is so much fun there. Hopefully, one day I will travel over there for a holiday. 

    Do you believe in any superstition?

    No, but in Chinese tradition, there are some who do believe. Such as my grandma, she believes in superstition.

    What is an ideal first date to you?

    My ideal first date would be to have dinner with a beautiful scenery with my loved one. 

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Karen. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I find those who are brainy sexy! Although looks play quite an important role, but I feel that the way a person carries him/herself is more important!

    “Sexy” comes from personal confidence, passion, kindness and intelligence. Personal confidence can be shown through eye contact, a strong and purposeful walk, and a welcoming smile.

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    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ktteamboutique/

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