My personal views on kink and alternative lifestyles is that everyone has kinks, which makes life more fun and interesting. Everyone should explore their kinks and do not repress it. For alternative lifestyles, I feel like it’s a beautiful thing everyone shows to be living their life to the fullest the way they want and however it makes them happy.
Even if others perceive it as weird or out of the norm. My mother always taught me that I shouldn’t care about anyone’s opinion, especially if they don’t pay my bills. LOL
What Constitutes Humiliation?
Humiliation can be considered verbal or physical and it can include insulting, making a submissive do embarrassing acts like dressing in woman’s lingerie, urinating, slapping, and the list goes on.
I love it because for me it is very empowering. I can’t just go to any man and slap him and call him a loser bitch LOL. When it’s received and given back with obedience and a “Thank you, Goddess” or “Yes Mistress“, it’s very satisfying and rewarding.
Is Face Slapping Part Of Humiliation?
Face slapping I feel is a preference but definitely a part of humiliation. For some, I know that they have had abuse in their lives at a young age and do not like to be hit in the face but do not mind their backsides. I have a submissive that enjoys being slapped followed by insults like bitch or loser.
Reasons Subs Love Humiliation & Face Slapping
The reasons I hear from Subs that enjoy humiliation or face slapping is that they enjoy it because of the feeling of helplessness and feeling below a powerful woman. Also, I see Mommy issues in play in some subs. Being degraded by a woman gives some pleasure and comfort.
What Goes On In A Humiliation Session
In a humiliation session, I start with a conversation that is paid to talk about their wants and needs. So everyone is on the same page and knows what to expect out of a session.
Safe-words and props are discussed also and how they want to be humiliated. The props commonly used can include floggers, collars, restraints like handcuffs and rope, whips, and even pee sometimes.
What Should One Know Prior To Being Humiliated?
For someone first getting into humiliation or face slapping, I feel that someone should do some soul searching. To see if it’s something that stimulates them in a positive way.
I’m here to help ultimately. I have a background in psychology and working on my Bachelors. I’m not here to ruin lives or mentally damage someone. Now let’s have some FUN 🙂
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Hello! I’m an Actuarial Science fresh graduate and I’m from Penang, Malaysia.
How will you describe your fashion style?
I would say I will pick whatever outfit that compliments my body shape and appearance. I personally don’t blindly follow fashion trends that are popular but are not suitable for me. To be more specific, my fashion style ranges from a hot and sexy look to a street style look.
Which beauty products or accessories are most important to you and why?
This is a hard one, because all beauty products are equally important to me. But if I had to pick my top 3, it would be moisturizer, eye cream and lip balm!
Yes, all of them are skincare products because I think having a better skin first is better and healthier. As for accessories, I would say a bracelet/watch and necklaces. I find bracelets tend to glamourize my entire look and necklaces will add a perfect finishing touch to my neck area as I do wear low cut tops often.
Is there any food or drink you don’t take?
I’m from Malaysia but sadly I do not take durian; can’t really stand its strong odor. As for drinks, I don’t really fancy black beer.
Which is the best compliment you have received?
“I like your mentality and the way you perceive stuff”.
To me, it will always be brains over beauty because an empty shell doesn’t bring you a long way. I remember someone complimented me on that after I shared a life motto of mine, “Yes I am an emotional person, but I’ll keep on reminding myself that feeling sad doesn’t solve the problem at all, if you wanna stop feeling this way, think of a solution to tackle it instead, that way your problem and your sense of sadness will all go away together.”
Another life motto of mine would be “See the good”, it means trying to see the good in every situation and hardship you go through, it could be a challenge from God and once you succeed in battling it, you’ll stand up stronger and better.
Is there something you’ve always wanted to learn or experience but have yet to find the time for it?
I would say scuba diving. First of all, I was in the school swim team in primary school and I really do love swimming. Because it just brings me to a state of mind that’s really peaceful and I can feel peace and quiet like the whole world is fast asleep.
I’ve always wanted to learn scuba diving because, can you imagine, being in a peaceful state whilst admiring the beauty of the underwater world. That is gonna be so damn mesmerizing!
Do you have any other hobbies or interests?
Yes of course! Weight lifting in the gym, taking nice pictures of myself and beautiful sceneries (sunsets to be exact), enjoying good food and traveling!
Weight lifting?! Yes! Because after a long day or whenever I feel tied up or stressful, letting it out through lifting weights is super effective and de-stressing for me.
What turns you off on a date?
The lack of confidence in a man or being impolite. Even if you are very good looking, like a supermodel but you disrespect people, say waiters, sorry we can’t even be friends.
Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Michelle. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
I would define sexy as having an attractive mindset that makes people want to engage in further conversations with you, other than being physically good looking and hot.
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Since I have become a sex worker, I have come to understand sex as a genuine means of expression. A craft if you will, that improves and expands, and makes everybody unique. It can be used to express emotion: love, happiness… It can even serve as a refuge for sadness.
My Understanding Of Sex Work Before Going Into It
I have always been curious about it, because I was aware of the power of female sexuality.
I was especially enticed after reading the book King Kong Theorie by Virginie Despentes, who used to be a sex worker herself, and who was at the time the partner of Queer philosopher Beatriz Preciado. Thanks to these authors, I began to see sex work as a means of female empowerment, as it was related to sex-positive feminism.
Why I Love Sex Work
I got initiated to sex work by sugaring. I like the thrill, the ability to meet people I would otherwise never meet, and of course the financial freedom it provides.
Misconceptions About Sex Work
I think a lot of people think sex workers are shallow and materialistic. There are shallow and materialistic people everywhere. But some of the escorts I know are amongst some of the most intelligent, cultivated and creative people I have met.
What Is The Sex Work Industry Like?
This is a really broad question. There are many branches of sex work: high end escorting, escorting, camming, sugaring, BDSM… Then inside those categories, there are the individuals that make each business (the business being: the person) unique in it’s own way. It’s an industry where you are allowed and encouraged to use your creativity.
Advice To Aspiring Sex Workers
I think it’s important to consume as much material as you can on the subjects. As an escort, I consume books, YouTube videos and podcasts about escorting. This is to know about the craft, but also in order to feel like I belong somewhere and what I do is legitimate work. It’s very easy to feel alone in this business or to feel that you are doing something “wrong”, if you don’t have the right support system.
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Julie says that she likes the Magic Wand. It’s not my favorite type of vibrator, but I don’t say anything other than to ask her what she likes about it. She likes the large surface area. Kristen blushes as Julie continues to tell us that she can rub it on her wet pussy and then slide it up to her clit without ever losing the touch of it against her. She bites her lip, winks at Kristen and giggles. I tell her that I get that but sometimes I don’t think it focuses enough direct contact on my clit. Julie fesses up that she does have her fingers too when she needs direct contact. The ladies are all laughing like schoolgirls as I turn to Michelle and ask if she’s allowed toys.
She laughs a little and tells me that she has a few items that she plays with occasionally with her husband. She has the large rabbit style vibrator but rarely uses it. She said that she really loves the way it feels but is embarrassed, even with her husband, to use it. She wished that her husband would use it on her but he tried once or twice and was a little too rough with it.
I nod and understand because I’ve had lovers try to use a vibrator on me and they have pushed too hard or moved it too fast forgetting that the tool itself does the work. I like it just gently grazing my clit to start and let the vibration do the work. There shouldn’t be too much effort. Michelle laughs and says that she wished she could teach her husband how to use it but doesn’t want to hurt his feelings.
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We continue our Mistress Iceni feature on exploring spanking and discipline here!
What Goes On In A Session & Favorite Props To Use
First of all we decide pre-session if we will start on arrival or sit and have a chat first for you to settle in. Some role plays will begin at the front door, which can be thrilling – you have arrived home at your Aunt’s house to find her very annoyed about something/you are visiting your bossy new neighbour who suspects you have been peeping on her and have stolen her underwear from the washing line/you are reporting to the headmistress’ study after school for detention and so on.
In these cases, you will be led through to the study and usually given a thorough scolding and interrogation about your behaviour. I like to start my sessions with an over the knee hand spanking to warm up the bottom. This is a good way to forge a connection across my knee before we proceed, and to reduce any resistance: once the pants come down, so does the attitude, I find. Then we would move on to a variety of positions – over the school desk, lying face down on the red leather sofa, touching your toes, strapped to the Eton Flogging Block and so on, and I would use several of my implements.
My spanking sessions can be relentless, but I will also give you regular breaks maybe in corner time, holding a stress position, hands on your head and pants round your knees. If it is a scholastic/Governess/home tutor session I would incorporate tasks like writing lines/essays/prepare a presentation/memory tasks/tests. I absolutely love scolding so often I will scold you throughout and verbally tease you. I like some interaction and cheekiness, but some people are quiet and compliant all the way through which is also fine.
I like to end my session with an OTK spanking as well, to complete the circle, and depending on the visitor/scenario, will encourage the spankee to relax across my knee for a little while specially if it has been an intense session. Then I would offer a cup of tea or coffee and sit and chat for a while, making sure they do not leave until they are fully recovered!
With regards to props, the devil is in the detail. I ask a lot of questions before the booking and mull over the scene in advance so I can get creative. For example, I had a session booking where he wanted to be spanked for stealing sweets from the corner shop when he was a lad, something he got away with at the time. So I bought some old-fashioned-looking sweets and put them on the chair in the study. When I opened the door and took him through as his Aunt, claiming I had searched his bag after a phone call from the newsagents and discovered his stolen stash, he saw the sweets, gasped and turned pale and started trembling!
It was wonderful and a very powerful indication that just one or two appropriate props can really help with authenticity. He hadn’t expected to see that, and afterwards he said they looked just like the sweets he had stolen, and seeing them jolted him right back to being that young boy feeling the guilt of having done it. A perfect way to get into the right headspace!
Other props I love are my retro 70s phone with round dial and curly wiring, so I can call parents/authorities/the school. My custom-made Eton Flogging Block is a formidable piece of furniture that’s been nick-named ‘the Beast’ and is very intimidating. I am very fetishistic about items and implements so I could tell you about many more props, but there wouldn’t be time to cover them all!
What Should One Knew To Spanking & Discipline Prepare For Prior To Their First Session?
Firstly, do your research regarding who you visit. If you wish to experience purely a discipline/spanking session, I’d advise visiting a disciplinarian rather than a mistress (who would probably be good at it, but also does many other things, and does not specialise in this area). A disciplinarian/spanker solely focuses on this area and will have more experience and nuance.
Also research where they work from – do you want a domestic environment or a dungeon? Look at their online presence – things like Twitter, webpage, reviews, clips (so you can see how they work). Depending on location, people charge different rates so maybe you can find cut-price sessions that undercut some of the others, but you get what you pay for in life.
Approach with a polite and informative email, and communicate as much as possible before the session (not mailing 10 times a day! But it’s best to be clear before you start about details/background etc).
Consider whether you need a safe word or not. Remember ‘I can take a hard spanking’ is very subjective. You may imagine you have a huge tolerance for pain but not be able to handle what you thought you might. Or you may be too cautious and find once you get going, you love it and could take harder. So bear in mind if you think it might get too much, you can request a safe word before the session.
A great spanking session is about connection. The most important thing is to feel the right connection with this person in your initial contacts. It is about trust and instinct.
Don’t be late! If you’re running late, inform her/him. Follow reconfirmation instructions to the letter. This shows attention the detail and a level of respect.
Arrive clean and tidy, above all clean. We are dealing with your bottom – need I say more? Nice underwear is also much appreciated. Often you may bring a gift if you like but it’s not compulsory. If you do choose to turn up with flowers/chocolates/a bottle of wine etc you will probably be remembered as very thoughtful and considerate.
Be prepared if it’s your first time – the effect of discipline may not be what you expect. Some people can experience strong emotions during a spanking as it can bring up unexpected repressed emotions. It might make you feel rampantly horny!
Equally, it may send you into sub-space where you feel floaty, serene and peaceful. You can become quite discombobulated – forget your wallet or pick up the wrong pair of glasses, or try to leave via the boiler cupboard (all of these have happened after my sessions!) so make sure you have gathered yourself and your faculties before leaving.
Mostly know this – it might be an intense experience, and some of it may be painful, but if you have been thinking about getting a thrashing for some time, and are not sure whether to try it, I’d say if it’s often on your mind then it is for you, and it will be a liberating experience and the start of a whole new chapter to your life.
You are never too old to go across my knee either – I have one lovely visitor who is 85 and took his first spanking at 75. It’s never too late to start this journey. But be warned – once you pop, you can’t stop!
Mistress Iceni – London-based disciplinarian specialising in spanking and role plays with a distinctly vintage style. I may remind you of your old school-teacher, Mum’s friend, strict neighbour or Governess, but whichever female authority figure I represent for you, a visit to my study will usually result in a sore bottom and a marked improvement in your behaviour. I am a firm believer in old-fashioned discipline and you will find it may hurt at the time, but it is ultimately for your own good.
I am currently working on several projects to collaborate more with women as I have enjoyed filming so much with Anty (@Anty851 on Twitter, follow her, she’s wonderful) and Ana, and before that, the wonderful films for Miss Elsa Svenson (wellsmackedseat.com) as Miss Ashbrook. I am planning to film some clips and content with a lovely young lady Dilan (@OhdearDilan on Twitter- you really should follow her too) Also I have Emily Jane now available to join me in sessions and film with me as a spankee. I’m currently in discussions with another lovely young lady to offer exclusive custom clips as mother and daughter. So watch this space and follow me on social media if you want to see me spanking some pretty bottoms!
My other project which I worked on extensively during lockdown is my retro spanking novel: Set in 1979 in provincial England, it’s the story of Andrew, a permanently horny 17 year old who is sent to live with his strict Aunt while his parents divorce. She takes him on a roller-coaster journey of discovery with help from her equally assertive lady friends. It is a coming-of-age story that examines self-acceptance, kink-shaming, gender identity, spanking, age play, petticoat punishment and the psychological and emotional pull of corporal punishment. I have pitched it somewhere between ‘Harriet Marwood, Governess’ (which was a huge inspiration, and this is a kind of updated homage) and the saucy ‘Carry On’ Films of the 1970s. The working title is ‘Aunty knows best’ and I have just finished the first draft, so while it is not available just yet, I will promote it as soon as I have it ready for my eager readers! The plan is to publish as a paperback, e-book and possible audio version, narrated by myself.
Hi, I am Pei Hsien (but you can call me Pei), from Malaysia! A lil bit about me – I’m a pretty spontaneous, outgoing and adventurous person. I love meeting new people, seeking for new things to do or new things to learn.
Most people that know me call me sunshine (because I’m usually happy go lucky) or hamsap (because I like making dirty jokes lol).
Do you have any hobbies or interests?
I really like making silly, funny videos. You can view them on my Instagram @peiday.
I also really like anything to do with arts and craft such as canvas painting. I recently painted a portrait (I can send over a pic if you want). I love dancing as well. If you ever find me at a club, I’ll be dancing away and pulling you along to join me, haha.
A more expensive hobby would be travelling the world!
What inspires your fashion style?
I usually pick out my outfits by picking colours that I like and look good in (love pastel colours. Sometimes, I get inspiration online, from people like @imjennim – love her style! I also check out online blog shops and pick out trendy outfits that I like.
Which is the best compliment you have received?
I guess when someone said to my boyfriend (now ex), “Wow, you’re really lucky to have her as your girlfriend”. Not sure why they said that, but it was an ego boost haha.
How will you describe a typical day like for yourself?
I wake up feeling like I’m still lacking sleep haha, go to work in my PJs (because of the current Covid-19 WFH situation). The only break I take in between work is when I have my lunch and dinner. I finish my full-time work (social media manager) around 7-8. After my dinner, I continue with my freelance work (content marketing) till around 11. Netflix or read a self-help book and SLEEPING around 12-1.30am!!
For weekends, when I have more time… I meet up with friends, paint, or shoot some videos/ photos to update my IG feed (sometimes for sponsored posts when I get lucky).
Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?
I guess it would be hand painting the walls of a room, but because I don’t really have the time to plan it out…I haven’t gotten started on this.
Another major thing would be to start a blog where I talk about my experiences – relationship advice, self-help and development, thoughts on career paths, etc (talking about life in general to help people feel like they’re not alone).
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What turns you off on a date and do you have a bad date experience to share?
A few things haha (you can pick one). I would say ego or bad tempered would be one. I do not like it when someone shows off intentionally. It is not sexy at all.
Or a bad smell! I once sat next to a guy in the cinema. He crossed his leg and his upper feet was facing my direction – I could smell his stinky feet! Had to cover my nose almost throughout the show, LOL kill me.
Or bad hygiene!! I was once on a Tinder date with a guy I met for a few times. He picked me up with a car that was old (the door had problem opening) AND was filled with BIRD POO all over the car. I felt so bad I couldn’t say anything and I stepped right in as he opened the car door for me. After that, I dropped by his place for a while as he needed to pick something up. While waiting, I decided to used his toilet. As I stepped foot inside, I felt the floor was really moist and slippery. It felt really gross (imagine stepping on moss type of slippery)!
Once again, I didn’t learn LOL – I made my way to the toilet bowl and sat down to pee. I looked down and I realised WTF, there were a few brown moist things on the floor. Immediately, I thought they were poo. I went out and quickly asked my date what it was. And he then explained he hasn’t cleaned the toilet for a while and it was moss. SO DAMN NASTY. And yes, safe to say, I never saw him again. HAHA.
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Which flavor best describes you?
Flavour? Not sure what you mean but I guess I would say salty. My name has “Hsien” in it haha, which already sounds like salt in mandarin.
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Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Pei Hsien. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
To me, I use sexy when I find someone that’s attractive to me i.e. someone who has substance, is confident (but doesn’t purposely flaunt it), and knows how to handle different situations.
To me it is perfectly normal to be kinky. One of my greatest joys in this work is to encourage and allow people to deal with their deep-seated shame around their kinks, and to allow them to express themselves fully with someone who makes them feel safe and accepted.
I believe kinks to be a very healthy expression of our shadow selves – the darker, quirkier recesses of our souls. If you deny something, it is like pushing a beach-ball under the surface of the water. It will pop up again somewhere else, you can’t keep it under. As long as it is safe, sane and consensual I do not judge anybody.
Exploring a kink with someone on the same wavelength has something innocent about it. Together you can regress to that space you naturally inhabited when playing with your friends as a child: lost in your boundless imagination, totally immersed in the fantasy world you have created, going on a magical mystery tour. I find people who are kinky to be the most grounded, self-accepting, and self-aware people.
What Does Discipline Constitute?
Most people think ‘discipline’ means punishment, and it often is, but its original meaning is ‘to learn or teach’ from the Latin ‘disciplina’ (as in ‘disciple’). I love it because it is ultimately good for people and it has so many facets: role-play, endorphin-release, trust, power exchange, regression and so on. You might think it would get boring or repetitive, but for me it never does. I find it endlessly fascinating.
Is Spanking Part Of Discipline or A Totally Independent Kink?
I’ve never been asked that before! I think they are linked because you usually spank someone in the context of a disciplinary scenario. I can give you an example of how they are independent: I can carry out, for example, a long discipline session which involves very little actual impact play – say an intricate school scene with lots of role play and activities like corner time, writing lines, stress positions, scolding and so on, and only deliver 12 cane strokes near the end.
Sometimes people ask for this type of more cerebral and psychological session. But I would rarely spank someone outside the context of them being disciplined in some way. Sometimes I spank my ‘nephew’ Andrew purely for the fun of it and because his pert little bottom is irresistible but usually it involves a play-acting theme where he has done something wrong or ‘needs’ it.
Reasons Subs Are Into Spanking & Discipline
First of all, I don’t really like the generic label ‘sub’. I think mostly for real spankophiles, it’s understood that many people are not even natural submissives. I prefer to call them ‘bottoms’, ‘spankees’, ‘nephews’ ‘naughty girls’ etc.
I hear many reasons: being spanked as a child or witnessing spankings at school or in a domestic environment, therefore being ‘hot-wired’ to like it. The release of endorphins afterwards and the floating sense of calm. Being embarrassed or humiliated, or being objectified sexually by having to strip in front of me and/or my lady friends (from men, not women). A need to regress to a younger age/return to a child-like state. Being put in their place to balance ego in a dominant, high-status line of work. Giving someone else power over them and being able to let someone else make decisions for them.
The complete focus it takes to experience the physical sensations of impact play – it brings you into the present moment and away from the stress outside in the rest of your life because you cannot have your mind filled with anything else during the experience. It turns them on: for some people, it’s just their kink. The comfort of being across someone’s lap and being held in an OTK position. I’d say it’s 50/50 with people who are into spanking because they were spanked as a child, and those who weren’t.
Mistress Iceni – London-based disciplinarian specialising in spanking and role plays with a distinctly vintage style. I may remind you of your old school-teacher, Mum’s friend, strict neighbour or Governess, but whichever female authority figure I represent for you, a visit to my study will usually result in a sore bottom and a marked improvement in your behaviour. I am a firm believer in old-fashioned discipline and you will find it may hurt at the time, but it is ultimately for your own good.
I am currently working on several projects to collaborate more with women as I have enjoyed filming so much with Anty (@Anty851 on Twitter, follow her, she’s wonderful) and Ana, and before that, the wonderful films for Miss Elsa Svenson (wellsmackedseat.com) as Miss Ashbrook. I am planning to film some clips and content with a lovely young lady Dilan (@OhdearDilan on Twitter- you really should follow her too) Also I have Emily Jane now available to join me in sessions and film with me as a spankee. I’m currently in discussions with another lovely young lady to offer exclusive custom clips as mother and daughter. So watch this space and follow me on social media if you want to see me spanking some pretty bottoms!
My other project which I worked on extensively during lockdown is my retro spanking novel: Set in 1979 in provincial England, it’s the story of Andrew, a permanently horny 17 year old who is sent to live with his strict Aunt while his parents divorce. She takes him on a roller-coaster journey of discovery with help from her equally assertive lady friends. It is a coming-of-age story that examines self-acceptance, kink-shaming, gender identity, spanking, age play, petticoat punishment and the psychological and emotional pull of corporal punishment. I have pitched it somewhere between ‘Harriet Marwood, Governess’ (which was a huge inspiration, and this is a kind of updated homage) and the saucy ‘Carry On’ Films of the 1970s. The working title is ‘Aunty knows best’ and I have just finished the first draft, so while it is not available just yet, I will promote it as soon as I have it ready for my eager readers! The plan is to publish as a paperback, e-book and possible audio version, narrated by myself.
When I stand on stage using my music to control the crowd; music is a wonderful thing to control your emotions. I think life would be boring without music so DJ-ing is a work I choose to be able to live and work with music.
Which was your first ever gig and did you feel nervous when you went on stage?
Yes, of course I was very nervous. The first performance when I started out was the hardest, I was not allowed to have any musical incidents on stage, the audience was so crowded and they just watched the DJ so that made me tremble a bit and feel shy. But once I got used to the stage and work, I confidently stirred every stage I go through, and that’s so great.
Is there a story behind one of your tattoos?
My first tattoos were about my mother and my sister, the people I love and cherish the most. Then there is the tattoo about myself, “born for music”is the tattoo I say about myself, I’ll live my life in music.
I love my tattoos and have never regretted owning it, but sometimes having problems with it, a lot of people won’t like girls who have tattoos and they won’t stop judging…hmm But it’s important that my family always understands me and supports me.
What is your favorite drink to order at a club?
Beer is my favorite drink at the club, 1-2 bottles will be fun but I can’t drink too much and get drunk, as no one knows what they are going to be after, right? ^^
If you could learn anything in this world, what will it be?
That will be the violin. The Violin is a very difficult instrument to learn and I hardly have time to learn it.
Have you ever been in an embarrassing situation before that is funny now when looking back?
There was a time when I was performing a show at an event in Indonesia, there were many cameras facing me, and. at that moment my bra broke out.. OMG I panicked and sat down to adjust, but my bra was broken. Then I had to pull my hair down and cover up the sensitive parts, fortunately my hair was long at that time and the camera was not able to shoot behind the stage.
What turns you off on a date?
That’s promiscuous. Love is so beautiful when it’s only for one person.
Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions DJ TynTyn. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
For me “Sexy” is seductive, body building beauty. Women who are confident in their bodies will like to wear sexy, and in my opinion it’s pretty.
Upcoming Works: In the future, after the countries reopen their routes, I will continue my show journey in Asian countries, and I also hope to have a chance to conquer countries in other continents. During this time you can also watch me live at Bigo Live (my Bigo id is NguyenTyntyn)
I did my first modeling shoot in 2016. My mom gave it to me because I was really insecure because I got bullied. She hoped that through that way she could show me that I’m beautiful. I liked it so much that I did three other shoots back then. I think that in 2017/2018, it actually became something that happened more often. More photographers asked me to shoot with them and well like that, I rolled into that world.
What I love the most about it is the contact between the photographers and the models. I learned a lot from them what I can pass on to others.
What kind of modeling genres are you into?
I actually do everything except nude.
How do you keep up to date with the latest modeling and fashion trends?
Through social media and other photographers and models!
Do you have a favorite cocktail or drink?
I have an favorite cocktail. It’s called purple rain. It’s made with flugel, blue curaçao and 7-up.
Which 3 things do you enjoy doing most in the city you live in?
Going out for drinks, dinner and enjoying the nature around with my friends.
If you could learn anything in this world, what will it be?
Hmmm that’s a difficult question. I never thought about it and I don’t think I have a direct answer for it. But I think if I take the first thing coming up in my mind, it is curing cancer.
What is a cringey or funny attempt a guy has tried to know you?
Thinking that opening a conversation with a dick pick would be a good idea. I blocked him directly.
Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Juulke. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
Honestly I don’t think sexy has anything to do with looks. In my opinion every size, skin tone, sexuality or whatsoever is sexy in their own way. For me it has to do with personality. And as long as you love yourself, you’re definitely sexy in my eyes!
Kink and an alternative lifestyle should be normalized just a little bit more because more people than you realize actually live life that way or have some interest in kink, but since it is so outcasted by society, people don’t accept it.
It would be nice if people were able to just express themselves and be into what they are into and not have to fear judgement. The kink society is a very welcoming community and a really good support system for people who need a way to express themselves differently than what society considers the norm.
What Is Inside A Dungeon?
Generally, a dungeon has some equipment that you can tie a person down to, usually a St. Andrews Cross, a bed of some sort, or a cage. All dungeons are different, but typically hitting implements (whips, paddles, floggers).
I bring my own equipment for electrical play, strap ons, and sounding kits that I am comfortable using and have a lot of experience working with. I keep my things separate and every girl usually brings their own equipment well. They are so many different things you use in the genre of Femdom and kink, it’s never going to be a limited list. I am constantly being brought new presents and toys that are fun to use.
The list can really go on forever, but some of the more popular ones are ropes for bondage, cuffs, blindfolds, clothespins, and sensory deprivation tools.
What Is Your Dungeon Of Choice?
I choose Mystique Chamber because it is the closest and most convenient for me to go to, and it is the only dungeon in the San Fernando Valley area. I was happy to find that all the other Domme’s are very similar to me, and we have all ended up bonding, connecting, and becoming very good friends.
There is not a caddy element there, and since I have been there for so long I let myself in and out, it’s comfortable, it feels like home, and I really enjoy it there. Femdom is a very broad topic so all my sessions vary, but some of my most popular sessions involve foot worship, bondage, financial domination, ball busting, corporal punishment, and strap on/sissy play.
Misconceptions Of Dungeons
People usually hear the word “dungeon” and they get all freaked out that it’s a “Big Scary Place.” This is not the case, it’s a safe and fun place to play where people can express themselves and their kinks.
Most people can share their darkest secrets without worry that they normally can’t share with anyone else and truly feel free. It can be quite cathartic and therapeutic for most people who visit.
Rules & Boundaries In A Dungeon
Every Domme has their own set of rules and set of boundaries that they instill with their clients, as each Domme is independent and does not work for the dungeon.
In general, we keep the dungeon safe and sanitized. We like to keep the privacy and safety of the dungeon, we do not provide the address of the dungeon until immediately before the session to any new clients until they have paid a deposit and have valid references.
We try our best to keep the dungeon a safe, consensual, hygienic, and private location for the benefit of everyone who visits.
How Can A Sub Prepare For Their First Dungeon Experience?
A sub should do their research, and research the Domme they want to have a session with beforehand to see if their styles will mesh well with one another. Send a respectful e-mail with a list of interests and boundaries so they can collaborate with the Domme for the best possible experience.
A list of general interests is best, as all the Dommes are all professionals and can provide a very natural flowing session from the sub’s interests expressed to them. All of the Domme’s are very talented and inspired, so a sub should keep in mind to let the Domme do what they do best and follow her lead at all times. Give the Domme free reign, but still set their own personal limits and boundaries.
Clear communication from the beginning of the session and during is the most important aspect for an enjoyable session. The more respectful a sub is, the better their chance is to book a session. Tipping is in everyone’s best interests.
Sorceress Bebe – LA based pro Domme, findomme and fetish clip artist. I am fierce when it comes to psychological domination and once you fall under my spell, there’s no going back. You’ll be hooked, spellbound and begging for more. The way I get into your head becomes an addiction from which you will never recover, but why would you want to?
