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  • Learn To Squirt Once And For All

    Learn To Squirt Once And For All

    I was raised in a healthy (at least I think so!) atmosphere where sex was certainly not pushed, but my parents never said anything to make me feel like sex was bad either. They were matter-of–fact about the birds and the bees. I think that made me comfortable with it. I also got into weight training and competitive bodybuilding at an early age and taking care of my body has definitely paid off. When I am in shape, I feel much sexier.   I think these two things have made me comfortable in my own skin. So in the end, my personal view is: have a healthy outlook, take care of yourself and enjoy who you are!3

     

    I never even heard of squirting until 3 years ago. I knew about golden showers but had never seen anyone squirt or talk about it. Then it seemed like overnight squirting got popular and was all over the internet. I was totally like, “What’s that? I want to do it!”

    Basically I was never exposed to it, so I had no clue what I was missing. Once I started seeing it, I began to imagine how I would have to tense my muscles to make it happen. I started to get a little trickle but nothing big yet.

    My Very First Squirting Experience

    I met a new lover who was very good at making women squirt. He was patient, fun and got me all worked up with tons of oral sex! Once he began to work my g-spot with his fingers the floodgates opened! We were both amazed when this huge stream shot out!

    The sensation of building up towards squirting and orgasms is very similar. Biggest difference is how I tense my muscles (for squirt I push with my muscles, for orgasm I tense my muscles in).  I tend to squirt first, which feels like a light orgasm, but I am not done yet!  I love to soak my lover down which I think is sexy as hell. That makes me feel even hotter and that’s when I go for a huge orgasm.

    Tips To Finally Squirt

    Patience and practice! A good lover is very helpful too! I also like to use visualization as a tool, if you can imagine it, eventually you can train your body to do it.  Oh, yes…drink lots of water, you can’t squirt if you are dehydrated. I guzzle water prior to filming squirt scenes and rehydrate often.

    Amanda Verhooks (aka Mandyvixen) is a 3 year veteran of the adult industry. She was the June 2015 Cover for Scores 40SomethingMagazine and her video was one of the top-rated for 2014. She has her own clips4sale.com/66443 and co-owns FlexRx Studio. She just launched her own website: mandyvixenxxx.modelcentro.com and can be followed on Twitter: Amanda Verhooks @mandyvixenxxx. She is available for shoots, customs & skype shows, for more info email her at mandyxfit@gmail.com

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  • How To Have An Awesome MFF Threesome

    How To Have An Awesome MFF Threesome

    I’m an extremely sexual person, always have been one so no surprise that I started my career in the adult industry from my early adult days and have continue doing it for the last 12 years successfully. I have no limits nor rules in my sex life whatsoever, everything goes as long as both parties agree of course. Threesomes – no exception of course. I think that’s where more sexual exploring starts from the threesomes, just to add an extra person, that bit of spice isn’t? It’s great, because that third person brings excitement, different feelings, energy to the whole play game. I personally, would always choose to have a threesome over a standard twosome sex.

    Why I Love Threesomes

    MFF threesomes from men’s perspective is very appealing, as two women making out in front of a man has always been a very big turn on for all men for ages! I guess the sensuality that women have, the touches, and of course the double pair of women’s best assets! And just imagine everything double is better!

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    Give Him The Ultimate Blowjob

    Oh yes! Sharing is caring! Lots of space down there for two tongues for sure! Never neglect the balls while your partner is working her way up and down that lollypop! Or if you are even more open minded, there is a very sensitive part just a bit further away the balls! Yes, men love rimming! Don’t be surprise if he’s gonna suddenly spill his beans out a bit sooner than expected! Power of those two tongues at the right places! 🙂

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    Favorite Threesome Positions

    When all three partners have pleasure at the same time and are connected at the same time.

    It could be the “train” position; all in doggy style or just cowgirl for one and facesitting for another and both females touching each other while being penetrated by a man at the same time!

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    Equal Play For All

    Don’t wait for your turn! Just join in, share everything and keep switching in between. Be spontaneous and find empty spots to work on! 🙂

    Great Locations For Threesomes

    Anywhere you feel you want to have sex, as location doesn’t matter really when there is an urge! Some adult VIP clubs could be a source to find that extra partner for your threesome or it could just be your best friend that never dared to ask her to join in!

    Tina Kay – International Porn Performer / Penthouse Pet / Adult Model for the last 12 years. No limits, No rules, No regrets, Do what makes you happy, Live life fully and Love yourself! Follow me on Twitter @TinaKayxxx

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  • Why is defining sex so damn complicated? Sarah Calleja kicks off SEXtember!

    Why is defining sex so damn complicated? Sarah Calleja kicks off SEXtember!

    SEX….well, it’s inspiring, thrilling, pleasurable, awkward, painful, embarrassing, confusing and provocative – it’s complicated!

    The Merriam-Webster definition defines sex as ‘the state of being male or female’ and ‘physical activity/touch that is related to and often includes sexual intercourse.’ However, a study from the Kinsey Institute found that no uniform consensus existed when it came to defining sex.

    As the pioneering sex researcher Alfred Kinsey put it, the only universal on human sexuality is variability itself.

    In response, I have invited the sexologists who are contributing to SEXtember, to include their definitions to reveal the diversity of cultures and opinions.

    Feeling acknowledged as a sexual person contributes significantly to our sense of well-being and our identity so it is significant that we are now inclusive of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transsexual, intersex and queer (LGBTIQ) people. Many organisations now provide an Ally support service which affirms the experience and rights of these diverse sexual identities. We also acknowledge Asexual people as part of the sexual spectrum.

    As a Counselling Psychologist and Clinical Sexologist, I wanted to clarify individual sexual perspectives to avoid confusion by re-framing the discussion of sexuality in the context of informed consent.

    To avoid confusion, I respect my clients and colleagues by asking them their personal definitions of sex, then I have clarity and I can proceed to work with that understanding.

    My VISION is to take control of sexuality away from the extremists and profiteers and create an awareness and respect for sexual diversity, curiosity and experimentation. We want adults to role model to our children the concept of Sexual Integrity – when equal privilege embraces equal responsibility with curiosity and humour.

    My intelligent, insightful clients have shared with me their wisdom and reflections:

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    ……..It’s a matter of perspective isn’t it?

    So, my personal definition of sex?

    “Touch that is joyful and sensuous between consenting adults who celebrate mutual responsibility and privilege”

    At the end of the day, healthy sexual relationships are about connecting in real life – touching that special someone’s body and heart to create warmth and intimacy. It is creating romance and investing in companionship where you equally feel desired, valued and safe. Sex is fundamentally the difference between a friendship and a relationship.

    What I share with my clients about sex is “If you’re not having fun, then you’re not doing it  right!”

    Sarah Calleja is a Counselling Psychologist and Clinical Sexologist, media consultant, author, and app developer.

    When Sarah isn’t hard at work as a counselling psychologist and clinical sexologist, or consulting for the media, she loves being a trendsetter in the field of sexology. Sarah regularly presents at international conferences and creates training sessions for health professionals.  She writes opinion-editorials for a variety of media and personal blogs can be viewed on her website.

    Sarah’s new app, ‘Parents, Tweens and Sex’, a first of its kind app for the iPad designed in collaboration with Swinburne University and featured as a finalist in the digital design category of the 2013 Premier’s Design Awards. This interactive app empowers parents and tweens with the necessary resources to make informed choices to be mindful, comfortable, respectful and responsive when they choose to engage in sexual relationships.

    Sarah is also a wife, mother, mentor, friend and the proud owner of laugh lines!

    This article has been republished with permission by Sarah Calleja. To view the original post, read it here

    Images courtesy of Nina Calleja
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  • Japanese “erotic” game shows are not what you think

    Japanese “erotic” game shows are not what you think

    So the Web has been abuzz about the novelty of Japanese erotic game shows. The girl in the above picture, in example, is an Idol no ana contestant doing her best in one of the many licking tryouts in a show whose title literally translates as ‘The hole of an idol’ – where ‘idol’ is the Japanese term for a talentless but good looking girl catapulted at a very early age into a career of singing, then softcore modeling followed by harder and harder porn videos and, rarely, a second run as a minor television celebrity.

    Girls fight off for a chance to become next year’s biggest idol, and they are subjected to many allusive tests among which the aforementioned lickings, sucking stuff from tubes, disrobing mannequins without using their hands and openly changing into cosplay costumes – freezing mid-gesture whenever they are told to, to allow a lecherous cameraman to better expose them.

    The other video is even more shocking. That’s the highlights reel from Orgasm wars: a 40-minutes long contest to see whether a fat, male gay bar owner can manage to get a male porn star to come using all his secret fellatio techniques. Even if the crotch area is hidden by a small screen it is as graphic as you are imagining (not to mention the veryweird sounds of it all), with a commenter giving a moment-by-moment account of the action.

    I’ll spoil this for you: the bar owner wins and the star reluctantly comes. Just like contestant number three in this older game show about… er… sucking off microphones while hidden brushes stimulate the contestants between their legs? That’s not even half as bizarre as the ass-kissing show in the third clip, or the quiz show where people give their answers while whipped by a dominatrix, or… well, you get the idea. But what does it all mean?

    Japan has many unusual customs to westerners’ eyes, that’s true. But equally true is that it isn’t half as crazy as our media paint it – especially when it comes to sex. It’s just a matter of context. To understand three quarters of it you just have to remember that it is a Shintoist and Buddhist country, blissfully free of the absurd sense of guilt and shame the Christian, Jew and Islamic religions impose on sex and sexuality. As soon as genitals are just another body part and sex is just a common, everyday activity, approaching it playfully and publicly appears much more reasonable. Shows like Idol no ana do receive some flak by moralists, but most people see them as nothing more than one variation among many – on the same plane with cooking, fitness or music shows.

    The second important aspect to consider is how Japan remains a very formal society. Just look at the beginning of the Orgasm wars clip: a differently-oriented stranger comes up to forcibly suck you off before cameras, and the normal reaction is to politely exchange business cards, bow and very quietly state that you won’t succumb to his techniques. Most American males would have run away shouting insults, terrorized they had “turned gay” just because they were in the same room as one. Most game shows are not about skill, but about not losing face – that is, keep your honor and your family’s high even in the face of adversity. Accepting any challenge, no matter how weird, is a big part of it.

    Knowing all of this, eastern kinky shows take on a very different meaning. They can be shocking, controversial and ridiculous, but not as alien as they look at a first glance. After all, it is just a matter of remembering that everybody lives sex in a different way – and until they remain safe, sane and consensual, no interpretation is “better” than the others.

    This article has been republished with permission from Ayzad

    Please visit Ayzad’s website  to view the original post and more of Ayzad’s works.

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  • I fantasize about my girlfriends’ best friend

    I fantasize about my girlfriends’ best friend

    Have a question on your mind about sex or seeking advice? Ask us on any topic and we’ll provide you with the answers from an expert. Send them in to editorial@simplysxy.com. 

    For today’s questions, we’re delighted to have sex educator Darleen Proud share her answer below.

    What should a guy do if he fantasizes about having sex with his girlfriend’s best friend?

    This is dangerous territory, fantasies should stay just that when this is the fantasy. Guys, do not let this one through your lips, nothing good can come of it.

    Find something about her best friend you do not like and breed those negative thoughts as fast as you can. That’s it on this topic, really simple.

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  • 10 Signs of Great Sex

    10 Signs of Great Sex

    Every sexual encounter is different.  There’s the guy you slept with that you wish you could delete from your memory bank.  Everything about it was just wrong or just straight out icky for reasons that we don’t need to rehash. There’s also the one dude who was so boring in bed all you did was go through a list of chores you still needed to do after this chore was completed.  Then there’s the one man you just rocked your world and made you feel like a sexual vixen, a sex aficionado, a pseudo-porn star.  Here are 10 signs that show you’re having awesome sex just in case you were wondering:

    1. You’re completely uninhibited and free from any reservations.  You are confident with yourself, in your own skin, and you own that body like Beyonce with a pure lack of any insecurity.   You’re working that booty, happily bouncing your tits and having fun with it.  You feel like the sexiest woman on earth while you’re in the throes of passion, having sex with the lights on with all your imperfections (stretch marks, cellulite, pouches be damned) in sight.
    2. You are open and willing to try new sexual positions. Reverse cowgirl?  No problem!  Saddle me up! Doggie style?  Give me that bone! 69?  Well, that’s my favorite number! Great sex means getting out of your comfort zone and losing up your inhibitions, not to mention how limber and bendy you get trying it all out.
    3. You’re vocal about what you want or don’t want in bed.  “Eat me now!” is not an unheard of phrase from you while you’re in the sack and neither is, “You want to put what where!?”, but because you’re having mind-blowing sex you may be willing to let him. Just make sure you grab the lube.
    4. After sex, you text your friends with, “I’ve just had some bomb ass sex.” with a multitude of emoticons to fully convey just how good it was.  You only wish you were ballsy enough to post it on social media (if only your parents weren’t your friends on Facebook), so the world would know you just got yours.
    5. When you’re having great sex, let’s fact it, you walk around with a smug, shit eating grin all day long because you’re night of passion keeps replaying in your mind in a loop.  So when you see someone walking around with a shit eating grin that matches yours, feel free to give ‘em a high five and a wink.
    6. You’re lying in bed feeling horny, but instead of waiting for your horniness to subside you casually slip your hand down to your already moist nether region and masturbate using a vivid memory from your last ohh la la romp in the sack to pleasure yourself.  It’s too hard to wait until the next time sexual encounter, so let’s daydream about the last time.  It was that good.
    7. You’re sweating like you just took a spin class or ran a 5K.  Instead, you skipped the gym that morning and took a good 40-minute spin around his penis.  A sweaty aftermath means a good enthusiastic partnership in bed.
    8. You have a bird’s nest on your head.  A hot passionate bout of sex normally means you’re left with a tangled mass of hair on your head from all the twisting, turning, shifting, and Cirque du Soleil acrobatics.
    9. Your tongue gets serious action, too, and not during fellatio.  Instead when the sexual chemistry is high, then there’s a lot of passionate kissing involved because you can’t get enough of his taste and want to devour him whole.
    10. The orgasm no longer becomes the primary goal of every sexual encounter.   Gasp!  Stop the presses!  Some may find this difficult to believe, but the bonding and intimacy with your partner is enough to make you feel complete afterwards even sans an earth shattering orgasm.  Your aura will emit the I-just-had-awesome-sex illuminating glow that every woman wishes to achieve.

    If you can relate to any, or all, the signs highlighted above, then this simply means the chemistry is high, the compatibility is unparalleled, and Wednesday isn’t the only hump day in your week.  Enjoy this rare find because not everyone is out there having the kind of sex you are.  Chances are you had to go through some major duds to finally find the firecracker you needed to ignite the sexual goddess within you. Keep it up ladies (and gents) and happy sexing!

     

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  • Can I have sex during pregnancy?

    Can I have sex during pregnancy?

    Have a question on your mind about sex or seeking advice? Ask us on any topic and we’ll provide you with the answers from an expert. Send them in to editorial@simplysxy.com. 

    For today’s questions, we touch on a topic related to parenting and sex ed from you and we’re delighted to have sex educator Darleen Proud share her answer below.

    During pregnancy, how can a couple continue to have sex and satisfy one another’s needs?

    Sex during pregnancy is no different to sex at any other time. In fact it can be quite liberating… if you have used contraception your whole sex life and made a decision to have a baby… you no longer have to worry about an unwanted pregnancy… the baby is now on its way, it’s a done deal!

    Many women actually feel quite horny as the hormones make some adjustments during pregnancy. We can also feel more of a need to connect with our partner as the birth gets closer. The need to share the experience with the one who helped create this new human can be intense.

    As the pregnancy progresses, and her body changes you may need to adjust your positions to accommodate the belly, use this time to experiment with some new ones. Be gentle, take your time. Once the baby escapes it confides, your sex life will never be the same again!

    There will be the occasional instance when your doctor may advise against sex or a specific action, always follow your doctors instructions. Once the water has broken sex is definitely a no no, as there is nothing to stop the baby getting an infection as the seal has broken.

    There are many old wives tails about pregnancy, don’t take too much notice of these. If you doctor says its ok, and it feels ok, go for it. If you are past your due date there is a belief that a good orgasm or two can bring on labor… always worth a try if you are done with the whole pregnancy thing! At the very least these may be the last orgasms you have for a few weeks.

     

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  • More at what cost?

    More at what cost?

    Last week it was announced that the US had approved Flibanserin, the drug is the so-called “female viagra”.

    In theory, it would make a lot of women want to have more sex… even if marginally more.

    Here are 7 things You Need to Know…

    1) What is it? – Flibanserin (pronounciation here) will be sold under the trade name Addyi (pronounce “add-ee”), is a medication approved for the treatment of pre-menopausal women with hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD). Why it doesn’t work on menopausal women, I don’t know.

    2) Stop calling Addyi the female Viagra! – While a Viagra pill treats erectile dysfunction by improving blood flow to the penis, flibanserin was developed as an anti-depressant and boosts sexual desire by balancing chemicals in the brain.

    3) Passed on third attempt! – It’s also been rejected twice! What changed, exactly, between those two rejections? The most obvious answer is good public relations. Also it is believed the benchmark for success changed along the way.

    4) Severe side effects! – Addyi can cause side effects like fainting, dizziness, and low blood pressure, many of which were found to be exacerbated by alcohol and hormonal contraception. Extremely low blood pressure was another, less common side effect. In short, you have increased risk of injuries such as concussions, and consequently death due to possible accidents.

    5) Are you really sick? – Women face low sex drive for numerous reasons, yet since low sex drive has been pathologized as a mental illness – hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD), there has to be a “cure”. This drug raised complicated questions about the nature of female desire, sexism in drug research, and what ought to qualify as a disorder. Even the term HSDD is problematic. HSDD was recognized as a distinct sexual function disorder for more than 30 years, but was removed from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders in 2013, and replaced with a new diagnosis called female sexual interest/arousal disorder (FSIAD).

    6) An Apple a Day? – Unlike Viagra, you have to take Addyi daily! This drug will cost between US$30 and $75 a month for women with insurance, and this nightly pill takes ‘weeks or months’ to properly work!

    7) Are you born lucky? – According to an FDA analysis of flibanserin, between 8 and 13 percent of women who take the drug will see some improvement over placebo. That’s a pretty small number!

    Women’s sexuality is more than just taking that pill and then all of a sudden the lights go on.

    Read the history of Flibanserin here!

    Listen to Dr. Amy Marsh and I discussing about Flibanserin in last week’s Eros Evolution here.

    Here are 7 things You Could Do….

    1) Make having a satisfying sexual relationship a bigger priority in your life – Your partner and your own happiness depends on it. The one with the lower sexual desire can become more creative and proactive for making things better.

    2) Get a medical checkup – Eliminate physiological causes for your lack of desire with a trip to your family physician or gynecologist may be in order. Side effects from medications or medical conditions need to be considered.

    3) Schedule an appointment for you and your partner with a therapist who is trained and experienced in the area of sexuality – Such as myself!

    4) Care about your spouse’s feelings – Don’t just say no. Would you be open to outer play instead? There are other options to let your partner know you still find them selves and this can an important part of keeping passion alive.

    5) Better health – We are what we eat. Your health does affect your well-being, as does exercise. When you are tired and stressed, you would not want to over-exercise and release more stress hormones into your body. Instead, regular and moderate exercises is advisable.

    6) Make time – Spontaneous sex may be a thing of the past when you’ve added children to your lives, you certainly can plan for some spontaneity. Call the in-laws or close friends, have them take your children overnight. Plan a weekend getaway. Make time for sex to happen.

    7) Experiment with novelty – Sex can become routine and boring in a long-term relationship. Decide to become adventurous and try things you haven’t tried before to see if you find them enjoyable. From back rubs, hot baths, sexy lingerie, certain kinds of touching, some positions more than others, moving slowly or speeding up, the possibilities are endless.

    Don’t wait until the issues in your marriage get resolved before you start putting energy into restoring your passion. If you’re the one wanting more sex, take a deep breath, do something rather than nothing!

    This article has been republished with permission by Dr Martha Lee. To view the original post, read it here

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  • Should we have sex before marriage to see if we are sexually compatible?

    Should we have sex before marriage to see if we are sexually compatible?

    Have a question on your mind about sex or seeking advice? Ask us on any topic and we’ll provide you with the answers from an expert. Send them in to editorial@simplysxy.com. 

    For today’s questions, we’re delighted to have sex educator Darleen Proud share her answer below.

    Should a couple have sex before marriage to see if they are sexually compatible?

    Absolutely! No one gets married thinking ‘Hey I’ll give it a go for a year or two and see how I feel’… Why would you go into any long term agreement without knowing what you are getting into?

    Sexual compatibility can make or break a relationship. In the old days couples did not have sex before marriage very often, it was forbidden. And surprisingly, very few divorces back then either. But how happy were the ladies? Did many of them enjoy sex? Did they have orgasms? The movie Hysteria suggests orgasms were something they went to the doctor for, to relieve hysteria…sexual frustration!

    Sexual compatibility can be tricky, sometimes the tiniest thing can tip a new partner the wrong way… perhaps one of you is a clean freak, and requires both parties to shower before sex. Maybe one of you hates oral sex and the other one loves it. What if you are into anal play and you find out your new partner will not go there? There is an endless list of differences and preferences that can make a massive impact on sexual satisfaction. Life is way too short for average or awful sex for the rest of your life!

    So yes, absolutely we should be taking the “try before you buy” approach to sex before marriage.

     

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  • I think about other men when I have sex with my husband

    I think about other men when I have sex with my husband

    Have a question on your mind about sex or seeking advice? Ask us on any topic and we’ll provide you with the answers from an expert. Send them in to editorial@simplysxy.com. 

    For today’s questions, we’re delighted to have sex educator Darleen Proud share her answer below.

    A female reader wrote in saying that she thinks about other guys whenever she has sex with her husband and feels guilty about it. What can she do to remove these thoughts?

    This can be difficult… firstly, do not mention this to your partner, fantasies are a very personal thing and some are best kept to yourself. If you tell him, self-doubt can eat away at him and could potentially destroy your relationship.

    When you first met him, what was it that attracted you to him? Was it an all over admiration? Or more specific like beautiful eyes, a great smile, toned shoulders…? Are there things you have grown to love about him?

    Close your eyes and concentrate on those things so they generate good feelings about him in your mind.

    When you are having sex look at or touch those things that you love. We have all heard that we have to be ‘in the moment’ as much as we can, it is especially important now!

    Failing that, accept that you think about other guys and stop feeling guilty. Life is too short. If the sex you have with your husband is enjoyable and you have orgasms and feel loved and satisfied, enjoy it and fantasize away!

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