Tag: Sex

  • My First Threesome – Part II

    My First Threesome – Part II

    I held on tightly to Emma’s hand while she guided us out of the club, making our way along the deck and down the stairs back to our cabin.  It was quieter now away from the club, and as we walked, I could feel a sense of excitement building.  None of us spoke a word throughout.  Maybe it was the anticipation but my heart was racing as we approached our cabin.  Chris opened the door leading Emma and I in.

    For those who have been on a cruise and stayed in the normal cabins before, you will know that it is not exactly very spacious and comfortable.  Two single beds with space enough to walk in between with another hanging bed above one of them.  The setting presented wasn’t unlike the threesomes I had watched or read about where there was usually a large king size bed with plenty of room for all the manoeuvring.  If there is one thing I have learnt from experience, human beings are extremely adaptable to their surroundings when life presents itself with a golden opportunity for a sexual encounter.

    Chris and Emma wasted no time getting locked in a hot kiss, his hands having removed her top and bra while he played with boobs.  Emma beckoned me over with her hand and I slid behind Chris, unzipping his berms as they fell onto the floor and began caressing his dick with from the outside of his boxers.  Emma was moaning with delight as Chris sucked and licked her nipples.  She was holding his head and pressing his face down against her boobs, her head tilted back as she soaked up the pleasure.  Not wanting to miss out on the action, I took Chris’ dick out and started to play with it, stroking it faster while I rubbed by boobs against his back.

    We were standing and going at this, the three of us, and our legs were starting to feel the strain.  Even though Emma had since always claimed that it was her first threesome experience, she seemed like a season pro as she led the two of us through it.  Moving to the bed, she laid on her back and told Chris to go down on her which he duly obliged.  With that hard on he had, Chris knew that anymore of my handjob will cause him to explode soon and he needed to keep busy with something else to prolong the session for himself.

    “Come over here dear,” Emma whispered to me as she took my hand and pulled me over.  I moved closer to her and we started kissing.  She was indeed a good kisser.  It felt weird at first, kissing another girl and a good friend at that, but as I felt her tongue in her mouth, flicking and touching my tongue, the weirdness started to dissipate and I kissed her back aggressively.  I was kneeling on the floor while kissing her as she lay on the bed, her right hand finding its way inside my shorts, circling the area near my clit on the panty.  Emma suddenly stopped kissing and commanded me to get on top of her.  I stripped off my clothes and got above her on all fours.  Resting my thighs with her head in-between, I lowered my pussy and leaned forward with my hands resting on both sides.  I could see Chris holding her legs apart, eating her out with his eyes closed, while moving his tongue up and down.  I felt Emma’s breath against my pussy and her tongue began exploring slowly, tasting the juices and going inside occasionally.  I started to grind myself against her face, trying to push my clit to where her tongue was to meet it and hint to her what I wanted.  She moved her tongue around my labia, continually teasing me knowing that my clit ached for more action.  When her tongue finally met my clit, I let out a long moan of satisfaction.  Circling my clit, she inserted a finger (it could have been two, I wasn’t in a state to count) and thrusted slowly at the same time.  I was lost in the ecstasy, enjoying the masterpiece Emma was using her tongue to draw on me while her fingers worked their magic.  Her thrusts and licks started to quicken while I noticed her body was jerking to and fro.  I didn’t know when it started but I looked up and saw that Chris was already inside Emma, her legs raised against his shoulders while he got up to speed.  It was quite a sight I am sure, the three of us on one small bed with the room smelling of sex and sweat.

    Our rhythm was metronomic, Chris pumping deep inside Emma while she licked and finger fucked me.  I knew she was going to reach climax soon as her body started to convulse a little but never once did she slow down or drop her rhythm while satisfying me.  What a pro, gal.  She was the first to climax and letting out a shriek, pulling her hands out of my pussy and her mouth opened gasping for air in the process.  Knowing Chris had not come and I was on the verge of it, I wasted no time in crawling towards him.  No way was I not getting off in my first time.  While Emma rolled aside, I assumed the same position she did and let him enter me.  Emma and I were looked at each other while Chris upped his rhythm to a frantic pace, going as deep as he could with each thrust.  Emma reached her hand over to my pussy and played with my clit at the same time, causing me to come in seconds.  Chris came soon after, the exertions of the entire night taking a toll on him and he simply collapsed on the floor between the beds and just laid there staring blankly at the ceiling.  He was probably extremely worn out as the condom was still on his already flaccid dick as he drifted off to sleep.

    Emma and I remained on the small bed, our naked bodies touching and out faces close to each other, hair in an entire mess.  The bedsheets were soaked with sweat and our juices.  I could smell her, or most likely it was me I was smelling on her.  Her eyes were already closed while mine were starting do so.  I had just done it.  My first threesome.  It wasn’t like how and where I imagined my first experience would be but it definitely exceeded my expectations.

  • Sexual Fun Fact – Smartphone Sex

    A Match.com survey reveals which smartphone user is most likely to have sex on a first date. Well the night’s still young.

    This video has been published with permission from our contributing author, Dr. Jennifer Gunsaullus. Please visit Dr. Jenn’s website to view more of Dr. Jenn’s works.

  • Nails

    Nails

    Meeting a guy for the first time, one of the things I will look out for are his fingernails.  Long or short, bitten or not-bitten, clean or dirty, fingernails condition are one of my top priority list of items in a guy that has the potential to be an absolute deal breaker.  How a guy looks after his personal hygiene and cleanliness determines how he can treat a girl.  And if those fingers are going places, there are certain standards which I require to be met before they are allowed any entry.

    Red Flag 1 – Long nails

    I don’t think this applies to most of the guys I know and have met.  But nonetheless, long nails are a no no.  I’ve never had a guy with long nails enter me and never will.  I can imagine the finger inside my pussy, but instead of feeling the tip of the finger rubbing against my g-spot, it will be the nail scrapping against it and my inner walls.  Not a good feeling for any lady out there.  So guys, no long nails please, you aren’t digging for gold or collecting DNA samples down below.   For girls like me with long nails, we use vibrators.

    Red Flag 2 – Dirty nails

    Need I elaborate?  I am looking for an orgasm, not a yeast infection.  Do ensure that your nails are clean and free from dirt trapped underneath the nail.

    Red Flag 3 – Bitten nails

    I had the unfortunate experience of being fingered by a guy who bit his nails regularly.  All was going smooth when we were kissing and his fingers were rubbing around my clit and the entrance of my pussy.  But when he slid his finger in me, I felt a small sharp pain as the nail poked against my skin.  Once the finger was inside, I thought it was done as I no longer felt his nail.  However, he started thrusting his finger in and out of my pussy thinking it will bring me to an orgasm.  Instead of enjoying being finger fucked, I felt as if I was having sex with a satay stick.  I was pissed off with the experience and he didn’t lucky that night.

    Short and Simple

    So guys, we girls are not looking for you to go out and do a manicure.  Keep your nails clean, short and clipped with no sharp edges, and we can assure you, the whole experience will be so much more fun.  Imagine me sucking your dick and using my teeth to scrap on the skin.  Now that’s something you won’t want to happen right?

  • Singaporeans and sex – are they or aren’t they??

    Singaporeans aren’t having much sex. No two ways around this – all research done on this topic points towards this conclusion.

    Going back a little bit into history to the 2003 Durex Global Sex Survey, Singapore had the lowest sexual frequency in the world, with Singaporeans having sex 96 times a year, with the next two lowest countries being Malaysia (100/yr) and Sweden (102/yr). In the 2005, Singapore’s figure was 73 times a year, with 58% of those surveyed unhappy about their sex lives. Last year, a Straits Times survey found that this sexual frequency had been reduced to an average of 5 times per month – roughly equated to 60 times annually. The respondents were also asked what their ideal frequency was (8 times/month).

    Some conclusions can definitely be gathered from these various surveys. Although the parameters around each were different, common themes that come out are that

    1. Singaporean’s aren’t having much sex (and the frequency keeps dropping); and
    2. Singaporeans aren’t satisfied with their sex life (or lack thereof) and want more sex.

    Two thoughts stem from these results. First of is why this is so. Why are Singaporeans having so little sex? Why are so many Singaporeans unhappy with their sex lives? Is it a given that these two questions are interlinked, or could they be separate? I’ll think on this, and hopefully you guys reading think on this, and perhaps we’ll deal with this in a separate article.

    This is the second thought arising from the results – is this really true? Are Singaporeans really having so little sex? From the multiple surveys cited earlier, it does seem so. But let’s look at some other evidence (these are just the more prominent ones that I can think of).

    1. The underage prostitute and the 51 very rich and powerful men implicated in the saga
    2. Underage Vietnamese prostitutes – I think 9 men were charged for this
    3. Sex for Contracts scandals with top Civil Servant(s) involved
    4. Sex for Grades with a University Law Professor
    5. Multiple cases between teachers and students (don’t we all fantasize about a teacher we had)
    6. Psychiatrist with a married patient

    These are all cases from the news. In the course of my professional and personal life, I’ve also come across many people whom I know to be having sex outside their relationships. Therefore it does seem that there’s lots of raunchy stuff going on in Singapore – just not with partners/ spouses.

    There are many reasons to explain this, if it is indeed the case.

    At this point, let me just say that being morally ambiguous, I make no judgements, nor am I in any position to do so. If I could posit a theory as to why this is so, perhaps it’s because relationships become stale, or specifically, that sex in a relationship becomes stale. I truly believe that couples need to make effort to spice things up in the bedroom in order to rediscover themselves, each other and push the boundaries of what they think they’re comfortable with. Break routines (don’t do the ‘Saturday is bonk-day’ thing), be spontaneous. Try new places, new positions, and you know what – new toys. I truly truly believe that they key to a better sex life is experimentation and adventure – whether or not you’re in a relationship or not. But please, please – remember safe sex, an unwanted pregnancy or a STI really ain’t no fun.