Tag: Sex

  • What I Want In A Penis

    What I Want In A Penis

    Sex is great. Sex is amazing. In my opinion sex is where two people come together as equals to enjoy and please each other, teach each other how to love each others bodies. Sex is just one of the many things that is essential for the survival of the human race.

    Men That Turn Me On

    A man that is confident, has nice arms, and tattoos are a plus if I may be completely honest, and dominant men are a plus too. I like a man who can put me in my place and that’s really hard to find being a Dom myself. I’m into rugged men who also have their shit together, a badboy if you will, but without all that immature bullshit.

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    My Ideal Penis

    I’d prefer at least 6″ inches, nice and girthy. I like a nice thick dick preferably curved. Hits the G spot every damn time!

    Circumcised or Uncircumcised?

    I have experienced both and I gotta say I don’t mind either, but I do prefer him circumcised because its cleaner; less bacteria if you’ve done your research.

    Should He Shave?

    Not too hairy. I like it trimmed, but not completely shaved cause then it just looks like a shaved cat haha.

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    My Favorite Sex Position

    Doggy style. Hits the spot every time, and the position itself is a huge turn on for me cause I feel so helpless and I’m into that sort of thing.


    I’m Mistress Jackie Virus, former cam girl, current Freelance Dominatrix. Born and raised in San Diego, CA. My hometown by the sea is Imperial Beach, CA. I’m just a small town girl that likes to whip men for a living!

    I do offer RT sessions at the expense of the sub/slave. Usually they travel to me, get a hotel, and we hold our sessions in the hotel room. Depending of the session request is how I calculate the sessions worth.

    Follow me on Facebook (Mistress Jackie), Twitter (@JackieVirus), Instagram (@Jackie.virus) and my websites http://profiles.skyprivate.com/model/57706-jackie-virus?aff=18iy and http://jackievirus.modelcentro.com/home


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  • 3 Ways To Sex Things Up!

    3 Ways To Sex Things Up!

    My personal thoughts about sex is that sex is and should always be a pleasurable experience and should always be an open-minded experience.

    Sex On And Off Camera

    Sex on camera is very excitable, there is a rush of energy knowing others are watching through pure pleasure. Off camera sex is more private, like a slow passionate romance.

    Tips For Deeper Penetration

    Reverse cowgirl: The reason why this is so enjoyable is because I love when a woman can switch up a slow grind while I hold her from behind and she moans with passion.

    Make Standing Sex Kinky

    Role play. Improve a scenario and just go into it. Kiss her slowly, undress her and take her imagination to a place she never expected. Let it be an unexpected experience.

    Make Missionary wilder

    Reverse flipping and roleplay. Be open minded and try new pleasures to keep it exciting. Experience each others fetishes and let every experience be a memory.

    Love Her On Top

    One takes charge with an optimistic mind. Grinding, moaning, squirting all over till I’m covered in her love. I can feel her passion and desire.


    My name is Todd Jones and I have been in the adult industry for 7 years. In my experience, I have enjoyed every aspect of the industry and would love to hear back from my fans and answer any questions you have. Follow me on Twitter @toddjonesxxx


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  • Satisfy Her And Kink Up Your Sex Life!

    Satisfy Her And Kink Up Your Sex Life!

    I think sex is great – surprise! I’ve always been interested in sex, and most of what I know about sex I taught myself. I was raised in a Christian home, so kinks and sex were mostly undiscussed other than me being told to stay away from both. My parents are also doctors, so sex has always been approached as very medical and sterile, as opposed to messy and exploratory. Once I became confident with who I am, generally and sexually, I’ve been able to explore and find out what I like. Sex is normal to me now, be it kinky or vanilla. It’s part of life, full of experiences to be had.

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    My First Sex Experience

    It was about two months before my fifteenth birthday: I snuck my boyfriend of a year or so into my room for the third time or something. We were naked and I was curious as hell, so I suggested having sex, because why not? We fumbled through multiple positions for a little while and he pulled out since we didn’t have a condom. The only thing I regret was not using a condom. That was a dumb young thing to do, even though nothing bad happened.

    How My Sex Life Has Changed

    I’ve become a lot more confident because I’ve learned so much. With enough lube, determination, and confidence, you can handle basically anything you encounter in your sex life. I’ve made a fair share of mistakes, and I’m young so I know I have a lot more to make. The most important thing I found out is that you learn from experience and communication with sex. Every partner is different, and hands-on is going to be a lot different than reading sex tips or watching porn.

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    What I Love A Guy To Do During Sex

    Take his time. A sensation’s usefulness is doubled if you build up anticipation. That way, my brain can get all dizzy and excited for a spanking, and the spanking is amplified because it was built up so much mentally. I’m bi, so this goes for women as well! I also love when my partner takes his time to touch across my whole body, not just where you’d expect. Involving your whole body in sex is super satisfying. A nice balance of touch, rough and soft, across my body is my favorite (sex) indulgence.

    Kinky Sex?

    Hell yeah! I recently met @sugarhixcup and they introduced me to a few things I wanted to try, specifically gags. When they left, I bought myself a gag! I like rough sex, choking, spitting, bondage, slapping, force-play, dirty talking, drooling, spanking, some rare DD/lg, and I just bought myself a collar that I love. And then of course there are things I still want to try like waterboarding, an MMF threesome, a gangbang. There’s always something new!

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    Tips To Kink It Up!

    I think the best advice is to try as much as you can, slowly and safely. Always be sure you have enthusiastic consent from all participants! A safe word is a great way to make sure everyone’s comfortable with the situation (mine is “red”). Personally, I think buttplugs, handcuffs, and blindfolds are great places to start. They all provide a new sensation without overwhelming the senses. Start small, and when you find something you like, dive into it. I can’t stress the importance of research here enough.


    I’m Eva Celeste and I’m a passionate college student and camgirl. Check my links below to follow me and find out what’s up in my little life!

    Twitter: https://www.Twitter.com/18bbabygrl

    Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/xoevaceleste

    Chaturbate: https://www.Chaturbate.com/p/18bbabygrl

    ManyVids: https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/362936/Eva-Celeste/

    I’m working on multiple videos for my ManyVids account and some photosets for Chaturbate, so keep watch!


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  • Why I Love Sharing My Wife With Other Men

    Why I Love Sharing My Wife With Other Men

    Fucking LOVE sharing my wife. The site and sounds of your wife fucking other man while you watch (jerking off) is the biggest turn on. The woman you love, married, and will spend the rest of your life with being pleasured by others. The smile on her face while she looks you in the eyes… moaning.. cumming.. and wanting more.

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    How Love I Have Been A Hotwife Husband

    The first time I shared my wife with others was about 8 years ago, summer of 2007. Like most men that share their wives, I had fantasized about it for years. Bringing up the idea to her ever so often, sharing her pictures with others online, and using toys on her… while imagining it was another man fucking her.

    Dee (my wife) finally agreed to me posting on ad on Craigslist. Yes, I said Craigslist. Luckily for us, that led us to a local swingers website. Once we posted there, a ton of good looking guys hit us up. It was summer and Dee was a teacher at the time. She’d chat with some of them during the day, getting horny as fuck. I’d come home and we’d fuck like crazy.

    After a couple of weeks of her chatting, we invited one of the guys over that she connected with. That night, I watched another man fuck my wife for the first time…and it was FUCKING HEAVEN! Since then, she’s been “addicted” to big dicks.

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    Why Hotwifing Is Popular

    Like most alternative lifestyles, the internet has a lot to do with it. Couples would stay “low key” about their kinks and not sure who else did the naughty things they did. Now, we can talk to others and see that what turns us on it’s so “out there” as most would think.

    What Men Attracts A Hotwife

    This is like asking what type of men do women like in general. I’m sure it varies depending on the woman. One constant, if any, is that they all seem to like big dicks. Guys that can fuck them as good, or better than their husbands.

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    Popular Hotwife Fantasies

    To be the center of attention. The one thing I’ve found about all Hotwives is they love the attention. They don’t like being left on the sidelines to watch. They want to be part of the action. Either with another man, woman, or group … if there is playing going on they need to be involved.


    Wayne Siren, husband to HOTWIFE & PORNSTAR Dee Siren. Owner & Producer for Siren XXX Studios and all around perv. Follow him on Twitter (https://twitter.com/SirenXXXStudios), Tumblr (http://mrsiren.tumblr.com/) and www.SirenXXXStudios.com


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  • 3 Favorite Sex Positions To Try

    3 Favorite Sex Positions To Try

    I think sex is great and I think everyone needs it and that it’s a really healthy way to express someones’ true self. I know some people tend to think that sex is supposed to be strictly between just 2 people or that it’s immoral, but I personally feel that sex is a part of nature and it’s to be had. I think what people confuse about sex is that just having sex because it’s healthy and having sex with a person you love is the same thing…I completely disagree. I think morality, sex and making love are all very different creatures and should never be mixed together in the same boat.

    Try Different Positions!

    When it comes to different positions with sex I’m always open to trying something new because you never know what you’re going to fall in love with! Besides, who wants to just stick to all the traditional when there are SO many different positions to try out?! I mean, once on vacation for my birthday in Australia, I managed to bend myself over a railing out of a hot tub and basically hung upside down for my spouse at the time. New is FUN!!!

    What Turns Me On

    I almost always am submissive in my sex life. Because that personally is what turns me on. There have been times though where I can get carried away and take control and do my own thing. But if I have a good dominant man there’s never a lack of action for me to even get the chance to.

    Try This Position for Deeper Penetration

    There’s a couple of different positions you could try for that. I happen to really enjoy doggy style but you have to spread your legs out as wide as you can and keep your chest to the bed or ground wherever you’re at so your back is arched as much as possible. It makes for deeper penetration and also I think it’s more fun for the guy to admire the curve of your body and grip your hips and ass better.

    I also really like going from missionary to my legs up over my head almost bent into a pretzel position, because with the right movement, a guy can hit your g-spot, NO PROBLEM and it feels amazing.

    A Great Position To Give Blowjobs

    I actually think it’s best when the guy is sitting on the edge of a couch or loveseat leaning back.

    I think you can get the most movement out of that position. It gives you access to his entire shaft and balls which is ideal for a great blowjob! What I like most about that position though is that it’s not too hard on your body or joints so you can stay there FOREVER giving your man the best head he’s ever had. I’ve easily given hour long blowjobss that way!

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    The Most Challenging Sex Position Ever

    Hmmm… the most challenging position would have to be doing anything covered in baby oil!!! In theory it looks amazing and it’s great when you’ve got some way to brace yourself. But if you’re on a smooth surface, you get no traction and you’re all over the place! Hahaha. Great workout though!


    Axis Evol is an adult performer from Las Vegas, NV who has been in the industry for just over a year and a half now. Covered in tattoos and piercings she works mainly with BurningAngel.com taking advantage of her alternative look. She’s a full time mom & leads a pretty normal life in the Vegas Valley working at one of the local adult boutiques. Follow her on Twitter (@Bitemebarbiexxx), Instagram (@axisevol), Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/AxisEvol.BA) and Burning Angel (http://www.burningangel.com/en/user/Axis+Evol/787604)


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  • How To Have Sex In A Car

    How To Have Sex In A Car

    I love sex and think of it as therapy in preparation for the day ahead or a little bonus (strange as it may sound) for both myself and my partner after a hard day’s work. My opinion of sex changed when I met my present partner. I was brought up in a very conservative home and society where there’s a lot of misconceptions about sex, that sex was for procreation only and not recreation. As I began learning to be confident in my own skin, experimenting with new things, understanding my body, being totally relaxed and finally submitting to the ecstasy of enjoying sex and also being enjoyed, leading to mind blowing orgasms. I was able to shed every notion that enjoying sex was dirty and rather became liberated in my sexuality and femininity.

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    A Memorable Car Sex Experience

    Car sex to me is very exciting and risqué and having enjoyed quite a few frolics in the back seat (and the front) I urge everyone to try it a few times in their lives. My most memorable car sex experience happened when my partner and I were on our way to the airport to begin our European trip. I was driving, he was seated in the front seat next to me. He placed his hand on my upper thigh as is his habit when I’m in the driver’s seat. He then proceeded to sensually massage my thigh moving closer and closer to my crotch. This was very distracting considering we were running late. He finally concentrated his fingers between my legs, lifting up my dress as far as he could to reveal my panties, which by now we’re getting very soaked from him rubbing my clitoris.

    I tried to make him stop so I could focus on driving but that’s when he reached over to get something out of one of the luggages on the back seat. When he spun around he was holding my pink studded 7 inch vibrating dildo. He knew it was in there as we’d joked about it when he saw me packing it. I couldn’t understand why he was holding it but the cunning grin he had gave it away. He turned it on and put it between my legs, pressing it gently against my clitoris, I squirmed so much and drifted from side to side on the road. Eventually he moved my panties to the side and began penetrating me with the toy, I wanted to pull over but he insisted that I kept driving. The adrenaline rush of trying to stay on the road while being sexually aroused was intoxicating.

    Three explosive orgasms later, we arrived safely at the airport.

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    Giving A Blowjob While Driving?

    I think the element of spontaneity and danger are what make giving and getting a blowjob while driving is oh so sexy. The allure of having limited control while doing something possibly illegal that leads to wild eroticism can be maddening and become addictive. Giving your guy a blow job while driving is a great way to demonstrate your adventurous side and sexual prowess. It can be exhilarating foreplay, not to mention an exciting way to keep things fresh – your guy would thank you for it.

    Front Or Back Seat?

    For me, sex in the back seat of a car is most comfortable making it very enjoyable and intimate. Every now and then however, I like to spice things up a bit by having sex in the front seat. I especially love the thought that we could be seen through the windshield and get caught at any moment.

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    Ways To Make Car Sex Comfortable

    Considering the space constraints in a car, having sex can get tricky. I have three favorite positions I’d recommend to anyone, reverse cowgirl, cowgirl position and doggy style.

    Reverse cowgirl: This position is ideal. You both can just sit back and relax or lean forward holding on to the head rest of the front seats and ride your way to ecstasy.

    Cowgirl: This is my favorite position when having sex in a car, it truly allows for intense intimacy, allowing you to exchange passionate kisses and become lost in the moment.

    Doggy style: Doggy style I’d say would be for the wilder ones at heart. There’s something about doing it doggy style in a car that unleashes your most carnal desires which leads to steamy windows and screaming orgasms.

    I’d recommend using a thick blanket to cover leather seats as leather usually feels very cold and not very comfortable against bare or sweaty skin.

    A word to those new to car sex, the key to enjoying it is being totally comfortable. Put the seats back if you need to, plant your feet on the doors, find your own style, whichever way you choose just have fun with it.

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    Good Locales To Have Car Sex

    Having sex in public is an offense in many countries so I’d urge anyone wishing to have car sex to do so in a hidden area and especially away from areas where there might be children. I’d say the best time to do so would be at night where the visibility is very low and stay out of heavily lit/ trafficked areas such as car parks. You can try parking near the beach (if you live near one as I do) as there’s little to no one about when it’s dark. Parks may also be a good option after dark, it’s very hard for someone to see into a dark car from outside if the windows are mostly closed.


    I got into webcamming as a means to express and share my sexy fantasies with others and also help them realize theirs’.

    I’m Victoria, 22 and I’ve enjoyed my online journey being a webcam model and content producer. It’s led me to meet amazing people and build strong friendships. I won’t trade it for the world. When I’m not camming, producing videos or updating my profiles, I’m always travelling or simply having fun… and that’s the way life should be!

    Follow me on Twitter (@Victoria696), my website www.victoria69.xxx and webcam site victoria696.cammodels.com


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  • Sexual Preferences Of A Camgirl

    Sexual Preferences Of A Camgirl

    I think sex can be a form of self expression, pleasure and freedom.  If you feel comfortable with yourself, you can enjoy a lot of positive experiences.

    My First Time

    I was 17 years old, it was casual sex, so I didn’t know the guy. I cant even remember his name, it was like “Now I am free” hahahah. It was painful but good.

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    What Turns Me On

    BDSM, passionate sex, golden showers, daddy/babygirl roleplays.

    How To Get Me To Orgasm

    Be natural, loving, caring and gentle. I really love oral and anal sex.

    Naughtiest Place I Ever Had Sex

    In a classroom with my boyfriend or in a square, I don’t know, haha. In the classroom it was perfect, I was really horny and students could open the door anytime.

    Kinky Places To Have Sex

    Well, I love having sex in a comfortable place. To have sex is great at camping trips, with nature, at the beach, on the road, or any outdoor places are the best!

    Don’t be afraid to try new things with someone you trust.

    Being nude in nature is the most beautiful experience ever, it is magical!!


    Crystal Fairy, 22 years old camgirl, Brazilian, exhibitionist, nature lover, I love cakes, açaí, candles, crystals, witchcraft, a mystic soul. Follow her on Twitter (@pornwitch), http://crystalcam.com.br/ and watch her videos at https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/428091/Crystal-Fairy/


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  • Why I Love Gangbangs And Bukkakes

    Why I Love Gangbangs And Bukkakes

    My name is Dee Siren. I am a pornstar and a real hotwife that loves fucking other men, women, and myself while my hubby watches and films it to share. Gangbangs, blowbangs, orgies, big toys, gaping, anal sex, public sex, and of course playing with my girlfriends.

    I love gangbangs because I love the attention and love playing with multiple big cocks at a time.

    My First Gangbang Experience

    I have had many MFM experiences but my first gangbang was set up by my hubby for a video. The video is on my website, http://mrssiren.com and is called “My First Gangbang”. Four of my fans met me at a local swingers club that agreed for us to use it during the day to film. We had a great time playing on one of their big ottomans and I squirted all over the place. It was awesome.

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    Ideal Gangbang Size For Enjoyment

    I would say the ideal gangbang size is at least 4 guys. That way, there are several cocks to play with at one time and all my holes are filled. It also allows the guys to take a break and watch and jerk off while others are playing. I am very insatiable and can keep going and going so all those involved are always having a good time.

    Is Preparation For A Gangbang Required?

    I don’t really prepare unless the gangbang will include anal sex (which will always need preparation). Otherwise I just show up and converse with the guys for awhile and then get going. I am a major squirter so I don’t ever need lube but others may need it so it’s a good thing to have. It’s really about letting go and just having a good time.

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    Rules In A Gangbang

    Depending on the day, I may or may not want to include anal in a gangbang. It also depends on how big the guy is. I can take a lot more in my pussy than in my ass. I will discuss what I like and what I don’t with the guys. All girls are different, some like spanking, some like gagging, etc. Rules are very specific to the girl and what they are comfortable with.

    The Everlasting Appeal Of Bukkakes

    Bukkakes are all about exhibitionism and voyeurism. It is always fun to be able to show off and play with my toys in front of a group of eager guys but also having the control and knowing that it is not about fucking. It is about mutual masturbation and watching each other orgasm. Of course, in the end I love being covered in the guy’s cum after squirting all over myself.

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    Is Cum Good For Skin?

    It is high in protein so I have heard but I’m not an expert.

    And When They Start Cumming…

    I normally continue to masturbate while they are cumming on me. Sometimes I will decide to give some a blowjob or jerk them off but if it’s a true bukkake, I watch them jerk off while I masturbate.


    I continuously shoot video for my website and there is a weekly release for my members. I have a “fuck me” form in my members area so as a fan you can apply for a chance to participate in one of my video shoots. I do have fan events and meet & greets which I promote and announce on my website and social media. Follow me on Twitter (@mrssiren), http://mrssiren.com and http://sirenxxxstudios.com.

    Here are some links to catch Dee Siren:
    Wife Gangbanged on the Couch – http://mrssiren.com/tour/trailer.php?id=69
    Vegas Bukkake – http://mrssiren.com/tour/trailer.php?id=108
    Dallas Bukkake – mrssiren.com/tour/trailer.php?id=390
    Adult Theater Blowbang – mrssiren.com/tour/trailer.php?id=84
    Gangbang in Austin – http://mrssiren.com/tour/trailer.php?id=78


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  • “The Future of Sex” – Closing Insights from Sarah Calleja

    “The Future of Sex” – Closing Insights from Sarah Calleja

    The future of sex has arrived

    Have you explored virtual sex toys that promise ‘interactive sex’ with another person over the Internet? Would you consider sex with a robot? What about ‘Smart insertables’ which help women train their pelvic floor muscles with games? Have you heard US regulators have just approved the release of “female Viagra”, a drug known as Addyi?

    Welcome to the future that’s customizing individual sexual options.

    The New York Toy Collective believe that consenting adults should be able to have whatever kind of sex they want, with whoever they want, regardless of the body they or their partner were born with. They specialize in self-affirming products for all forms of sexual expression and are the first and only company to use 3D scanning technology to allow consumers to create sex toys modelled after their own bodies.

    For those who own a 3-D printer, the site MakerLove offers all types of free sex toy designs for downloading for people who want the freedom to privately own their own                                                                                          pleasure. 

    For those wanting more than the standard sex robot, at between $US6,000 to $US60,000 Hermaphrodite-doll enthusiasts can order removable genitals so they can go back and forth between genders. A Pew Research Centre report claims that by 2025 robot sex will be “commonplace.”

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    HappyPlayTime’s Mascot!

     

    Apps like SexPositive, developed by the University of Oregon, teach safe sex practices though a fun, nonjudgmental interface. The cartoonish app HappyPlayTime tries to take the stigma out of female masturbation by guiding women through the process.

    Dating apps can provoke anxiety with users when people are unsure how to best manage protocols like writing their bios; including photos; being honest about age; exaggerating positives or considering outright lying.

    Some people worry about being shamed when on various dating sites or exposed by hackers on sites like Ashley Madison. It would be interesting to have a discussion why up to 31 million on Ashley Madison alone are not so concerned about internet privacy and will pay for the opportunity to explore sexual fantasy with a random stranger and not their partner.

    Technology can also be used to enable healthy sexual expression. Safe sex apps are readily available to facilitate a healthier sex life.

    Award winning educational apps like Parents, tweens and sex app enable and empower parents and their tweens to improve communication and advocacy when discussing confronting sexual issues.

    Explore Women’s sex allows users to appreciate the clitoral anatomy and how they are involved in sexual arousal.

    Dating IRL (In Real Life) anymore?

    In the recent past, lengthy surveys designed to figure out who you are made predictions for compatibility. Now, intuitive technology learns your preferences based on your actions. Online dating trends reveal almost a quarter of online daters find a spouse or long-term partner through online dating but, women get a ton more attention than men.

    While in the past we met prospective partners through work, family or a shared interest, the new wave of ‘meet ups’ which are independently-run and based on single people’s quirks and interests are responding to people’s desire to meet IRL.

    When people meet IRL, they can read facial and body cues when interacting with other people. Grooming, hygiene, socio-economic status and capacity to communicate are also considerations for people when assessing a prospective partner.

    IRL separates digital fiction from reality.

    Does technology help relationship sex – you know the type between live, consenting adults across the sexual spectrum? Or, is technology the new ‘secret affair’ that demands our attention and disrupts, corrupts and interrupts love?

    To be the best lover, you must be ‘present’ and ‘in the moment’ with your partner, to activate all your senses, smell, touch, sight, sound and hearing. This allows you to be fully present, in thought, word and deed. It isn’t about sex toys; it’s about connecting, being curious, reaching out, experimenting, tuning in and responding in kind. It’s about being desired and validating your capacity to be pleasured and to do the pleasuring. It’s about getting off on the chemistry.

    Or, we could choose to have sex with (compliant) robots and a future where sex devices interact with a movie or a computer avatar.

    Or both….

    My personal and professional experience has been that we all value physical and emotional intimacy too much to give that up. It seems like the future trend is IRL, because a virtual relationship isn’t sustainable. Playing with technology helps us to engage our curiosity, play and experiment with our casual or long term partners in ways that were never possible in the past, but –

    If a time came when a robot could give us more pleasure than a human, then we humans should be trying harder!


    Sarah Calleja is a Counselling Psychologist and Clinical Sexologist, media consultant, author, and app developer.

    When Sarah isn’t hard at work as a counselling psychologist and clinical sexologist, or consulting for the media, she loves being a trendsetter in the field of sexology. Sarah regularly presents at international conferences and creates training sessions for health professionals.  She writes opinion-editorials for a variety of media and personal blogs can be viewed on her website.

    Sarah’s new app, ‘Parents, Tweens and Sex’, a first of its kind app for the iPad designed in collaboration with Swinburne University and featured as a finalist in the digital design category of the 2013 Premier’s Design Awards. This interactive app empowers parents and tweens with the necessary resources to make informed choices to be mindful, comfortable, respectful and responsive when they choose to engage in sexual relationships.

    Sarah is also a wife, mother, mentor, friend and the proud owner of laugh lines!


    This article has been republished with permission by Sarah Calleja. To view the original post, read it here

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  • Be A Tease And Turn Him On

    Be A Tease And Turn Him On

    Sex is awesome, to put it simply. I never really got into my sexuality until just recently, and I thought to myself “I’ve been missing so much this whole time!” I mean, what’s not to love? Between the different positions, outfits and places you can experience this pleasure, there is literally nothing not awesome about anything sexual.

    Why I Love Being A Tease

    I’ve been known as the tease for as long as I can remember. There’s just something about being flirtatious and sensual that really turns me on, because it’s so hot knowing I have the upper hand.

    Teasing turns men on because men are naturally drawn to something they feel like they can’t have. So, when you tease it’s like showing the man that maybe they can have you but maybe they can’t. They’re drawn to this chase.

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    What I Wear

    Honestly, I don’t usually get too dressed up in elaborate lingerie when I striptease for a man. Sometimes I’ll wear a short skirt without underwear and a short crop top that shows underboob, and there are other times where I’ll wear little boyshorts and a loose fitting cami that I can play around with. It’s all about the tease. It’s about playing the game.

    Also, I’ve come to find that most guys prefer the “All American Girl” look.

    Strip To The Music

    Usually, I like to play certain music when I strip. Something that’s fun to dance to, but also sexual.

    For example, I love to move to The Weeknd because they produce music that everyone wants to have sex to. I bite my lip a lot and make lots of eye contact, but in the actual strip tease itself, there’s not a lot of dirty talk that actually goes on. Before and after, sure! You know, I make sure I call the guys’ baby or babe before I start dancing though for sure.

    Even saying their name if they tell you their name. That’s hot.

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    Flaunt Your Body!

    There’s not really a way you can move that won’t keep a guy interested, as long as you at least know what you’re doing a little bit. I’m personally known for having a great butt, so I flaunt that aspect. I move it, shake it, and slap it.

    Guys LOVE a girls’ behind… It’s like kryptonite.


    My name is Madi and I’m a cam girl on MyFreeCams. I’m 20 years old and a junior in college. I’m a chill girl who likes sports, the beach, and going out on the weekends. Becoming a cam girl is probably the most fun and eye-opening thing I’ve ever done, I love it! Follow me on MyFreeCams (profiles.myfreecams.com/madimoon) and Twitter @missmadimoon!


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