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  • The Most Unforgettable 3 Days BDSM Experience of My Life Part III

    The Most Unforgettable 3 Days BDSM Experience of My Life Part III

    I woke up in a collar and leash tied up under the feet of her bed, and licked her feet to wake her up at 8am as instructed by her the night before. DF woke up and told me she needed her toilet, so I laid on the floor and she peed into my mouth and I licked her clean. I love my early morning champagne. This is the second day of my vacation and we have a CFNM, Humiliation party later in the afternoon. I served as a butler to the domes and prepared their food. As they were enjoying the beef steak I cooked, DF commanded me to get the dog bowl in with the big green bag in the cabinet. I put it on her feet and all the domes started to chew the beef and spat it in my dog bowl. I had a handful of chewed beef from all of them and DF told me enjoy my lunch. As I was trying to eat using my hand, she slapped me with her feet and scolded me for being dumb. “What kind of dog are you??? I have never seen a dog using his hands to eat. Use your mouth to eat or u will not eat at all!!” She ordered and all of them laughed looking at me. I still had a few more left on my bowl and DF stomped on my food and slowly fed me using her feet. This was the best meal I had in my life. The beef became more juicy and tastier from her feet and they spat orange juice in my mouth as my drink. At last I was full.

    Read Part I and Part II .

    It was 5pm. I was tied up again like the first time like a furniture in the corner and saw other slaves coming in. MR assisted the slaves in the room and the moment they came back in the living area, they were all naked, with CB on and blindfolded. Four male slaves including me and one slave girl were there in total plus four dommes who will make our life a living hell for sure. All of them started to examine us one by one with our locked up dicks and talked about who with the smallest dick would be punish. I was scared as fuck. Hahaha. They chose the local guy and told him he won the hall of shame for “RICE DICk Award” and he would be punish. DF grabbed his head and ordered him to kiss all the slaves feet and lick it clean for his humiliation punishment. It’s very humiliating for me even if it’s not me who is kissing the others feet. They announced as well that they will pick the biggest cock and have the chance to worship all the Goddesses feet as a reward. MP and ML starting to unlocked us while we were blindfolded. And they started to touched our bodies and teased us to get boner. And we received whipping and spanking as well. I got boner instantly. They choose the American guy for the biggest cock and I am so envious as he had the chance to worship the feet of the Goddesses. While we just watched. We were then put back again in CB to make us more desperate. We played another game like “roll the dice” where you had to do whatever was written on the dice like, lick, suck, pinch, kiss, nibble on the first dice while the other dice was nipple, butt, lips, ears, tits, ass. As I rolled it, mine turned up to “ lick ass” on the dice. Fuck, I had to lick the asshole of the other slave in front of me. All of them were laughing. I am red as a roast pig and I felt my face go warm and flushed. DF told me to licked it clean. I’m thankful after a couple of minutes that the game ended.

    The slave girl was talking to the French guy as if she’s saying something on him. DF heard it. “Oh really, you’re feeling horny?” She ask the girl. And the slave girl nodded. DF put her strap-on and grabbed the girl and fucked her doggie style in front of us. We were all shocked. This was the hottest scene I had seen ever. She told us all, to watched how she fucked this bitch, because our fucking cocks were all useless and will be remained lock up till we went out. I wanted to get hard just watching her as she nailed it! She was really good in her strap-on banging the girl, fucking her deep, and my cock was hurting because of the steel cage in me. I wanted to go crazy. But I had to behave, just being contented watching her like the others. She called my name and asked me to wear the strap-on she was using and fuck the girl. I can’t believed this was happening. I was locked up in CB and wearing a strap-on to fuck someone in her command and they gave me a whipping if I didn’t do well in pleasuring the slave girl. It was an amazing feeling but also very frustrating. The French guy was told to do so too, and he started banging the girl, missionary style. DF whipped him and said, “You loser, don’t make love to her. Fuck her like a slut or I’ll fuck you hard to death.” The party was over in no time and I was exhausted.   Other mistresses went home so it was just me and DF for the whole night. She told me it was my break in the meantime. We went out for dinner and had a nice vanilla time with her that night, and enjoyed a couple of drinks too. We went back in the condo and she put me back again in collar and leash. She told me I was really good today and that she will give me a reward for that. She unlocked me and let me wank in her feet and ordered me to lick it clean and locked me again. She asked for a body massage to let her fall asleep. When I saw her in deep slumber, I grabbed my pillow and slept under her feet.

    A lot more play happened on my third day as other domes arrived. It was my anal day today. DF told me they were going to gangbang me. I was blindfolded while stroking someone’s strap-on. My blindfold removed, and I saw that they looked stunning in their hot sexy outfits. The two TS wearing black tight pvc with their strap-ons. MR is wearing her black short leather skirt with leather corset with her pink dong. While DF looked ravishing in her full leather catsuit and leather boots with her massive strap-on. I felt I was dreaming and I didn’t want to wake up anymore. It was a dream come true. They started abusing my body, my mouth and my ass. I was on my back. MR was inserting her fingers in my ass to loosen me up. While DF sat on my face controlling my breath in her leather catsuit trying to pass me out. While the two TS played with my nipples. I passed out twice and was catching my breath as they counted up to where I could hold my breath and they laughed evilly. I was fucked doggie, missionary, on top and at standing position by them and they couldn’t get enough of my ass and they made me beg for more pegging and begged like a real bitch, such a real slut I was. I was totally abused and used by them simultaneously, I felt in deep subspace and I just let go. I loved it, and I wished it was endless.

    Three days just seemed to fly so fast as I had to leave late afternoon. They gave me a warm hug as they dropped me off to NAIA AIRPORT. I gave DF a goodbye kiss and promised to be back again if I had the chance. I thanked her so much for such a wonderful unique experience with her and her friends they gave me. I will treasure this for the rest of my life as I continue my slave life journey with her in the near future.

     

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  • The Most Unforgettable 3 Days BDSM Experience of My Life Part II

    The Most Unforgettable 3 Days BDSM Experience of My Life Part II

    This is it, I have to fly today to Philippines and I feel like I am walking on cloud nine while heading to Changi Airport. As I am boarding the plane, I can hear my heart beat and the tick of the clock, three and a half more hrs to Manila. Oh fuck, it seems ages. I arrive at last. I grab my bag and walk fast to overtake all the people walking towards the immigration. Alas!! I pass the immigration, needing to find exit gate and I can’t breathe. I feel like I am hyperventilating or maybe I’m too anxious on what will happen as I’ve waited for this for too long and I can’t believe it will happen now anytime soon. From the exit door, I already see DF with other girl standing next to her, and recognize that she is Mistress Regina from her pictures. I pass through the door and both of them are smiling back at me, and give me a warm hug. I stand in amusement seeing both of them in front of me. DF says to me “Welcome to Philippines bitch, now kneel down and kiss our feet hello!!” The moment she said that, I get an instant boner and the last thing I remember is I was on my knees, kissing both of their feet while they are giggling to each other, enjoying it. This is it, I love it!! After that, she hands me a small black bag, and instructs me to go to the toilet and wear everything that’s inside before we leave. I anxiously open the bag, and see one black collar, a vibrating wireless bullet vibrator and a pair of pink thongs. I immediately put everything on. She asks me if the vibrating plug fits well. The moment I say yes, she signals to Regina and she presses something in her hand. I am in shock when something vibrates in my asshole. Oh fuck! I forgot that it’s the wireless vibrator plug. They are both laughing out loud as we head out to get a cab. DF tells me that there will be more things happening and to be ready.

    Read Part I here

    We reach the building, and I follow them to the room. The moment we arrived, DF told Regina to strip off the bitch naked, while she prepared some bondage toys. They tied me on the chair, put a dildo gag, hood, blindfold and I was put in a steel chastity belt too. DF said “ slave wait for us here. You are now our captured prisoner bitch, be ready in few minutes.” And I hear the door close. I see nothing, but my other senses are at its peak. I hear my heart trembling, my breath, I can even hear the slightest movement of the smallest creature underneath that building. I try to move but I am totally fucked up. They tie me making sure I can’t escape. Oh I am really scared, I am almost pissing on the chair. Few more minutes pass. I hear the doors open, but no one is talking. I feel someone touching my nipples, while someone’s breath is on my ears, starting to bite and tease it. I moan and moan and my willy wants to get out of the cage and feels like breaking it. I’m so desperate to get hard and I can’t as the teasing become more intensified. Someone is scratching my back using her long nails. It gives me goose bumps. All of these makes me go crazy and wild. DF removes my blindfold and starts slapping me hard to get my attention and starts stroking the dildo gag in my mouth with her hands. I am shaking and want to explode even in CB. There are already four domes abusing me. Two TS Mistresses where added in the group. I know this as Mistress Paloma and Mistress Linzi from her website. They alternately stroking the dildo gag with their hands. And finally to my surprise, DF started licking the tip of the gag and teasing me. I moaned as she finally sucked it to almost the base of the dildo gag and almost touching my lips. Then she gave me a firm slap again while laughing how pervert I am for her. The 2 TS removed the rope and put a black thick collar and leash on me. MR (Mistress Regina) commanded me to walk like a dog as she sat on my back while I was commanded to crawl on my legs while DF was pulling the leash walking me about on all four corners of the room. ML (Mistress Linzi) is flogging me if I crawl too slowly and MP(Mistress Paloma) is kicking me gently on balls.

    They laughed and told me how stupid I was and I am nothing but a slave that exists to please them all. It’s so humiliating. They are all looking down at me and started spitting on the floor and DF commanded me to lick all the spit on the floor clean. I do as told. As a reward, I have the privilege to lick their feet like a puppy on the floor while they sitting on the couch sipping their drink. DF called to me if I was thirsty and I said Yes. She waved her hand and signaled me to open my mouth and she started spitting out the wine. That’s the best wine I have tasted from the last 32 years of my life. The last sip was spat on my face along with a hard slap. After, I was instructed on my back and they started to put all their feet on my body and face and I felt DF rubbing her feet on my cock in CB teasing it. MR is gagging me forcefully with her feet. Oh man, I can spend my life like this forever. I was in ecstasy. I was begging to be unlocked and cum, and after a few more times begging DF unlocked my CB and as soon as she remove it I was rock hard. They put all their feet in my cock and rubbed it while two more feet was on my mouth licking and sucking their toes. I was about to explode and needed to ask for permission. DF instructed she will let me cum but it had to be ruined and I needed to clean my own mess and eat my own cum. I had no choice, I would have gone wild if I didn’t cum and in my desperation, I said YES. They all laughed and she told what a perverted horny bitch I was. She instructed me to tell her if I was about to explode, as they rubbed my dick and I could cum anytime. As I came, they removed their feet in my cock before I was about to explode like a volcano in their feet, I just erupted without any stimulation and I didn’t feel anything. I licked all their feet which was full of cum. It didn’t taste good at all but licking their feet clean was the best thing I could do to make them proud of me. It’s been a long day, I’m so tired, still horny but with no energy.

    Find out what happens on Day 3!

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  • The Most Unforgettable 3 Days BDSM Experience of My Life

    The Most Unforgettable 3 Days BDSM Experience of My Life

    When I thought about sharing my experience, I was not sure how to begin as I am not a writer..probably introducing myself would be the most apt way.

    I am a 32 years, actively into BDSM for some time now. My journey into BDSM is like a typical movie script. I was born and brought up in a place where BDSM is considered taboo. You cannot talk about it openly. I was always intrigued by the idea of Female Domination. It always used to turn me on and I started reading and following it but could never experience due to social restrictions.

    I moved to Singapore few years back and my life changed completely as I had the freedom to pursue my desires. I still remember trembling in my first session. I had many sessions with different doms, who are quite good at it but still didn’t get what I was looking for as every sub has different preferences. I am a hardcore sub and like to completely surrender myself and want a Dom to take complete control of me.

    As I was still looking for that inner satisfaction, I had an opportunity to have a session with DominaFire, who was visiting Singapore. When I met her for the first time she came across as a very warm and open person. We spoke at good length as she wanted to understand about my experiences and expectations before we started and I knew she was different from others. Next two hours into the session were amazing…she took complete control from the word go. It was like a roller coaster ride for me…I enjoyed every second of it and knew I found my kind of Dom.

    She spoke to me at length after the session to understand whether I enjoyed or not…I did fully, wholeheartedly…during our discussion she mentioned that she also hosted 3 day BDSM vacations in Manila and at that very moment I decided to experience it.

    I told her I will be planning to experience it the soonest and need to sort things out first from my work. We stayed connected online discussing things on what to experience and expect during these 3 days and each time I got a boner. I wondered if all subs who went there and experienced it felt the same way too. She told me it’s a normal reaction from a pervert like me and laughed evilly. DF asked a few more questions like my fetishes, other experiences with other domes, desires that I longed to fulfill, any medical conditions that will inhibit other play, my pain tolerance and my hard limits. Told her I was up for anything that pleased her and her dome friends, wanted to feel and experience being treated like a real slave life, without rights, with no safe words and at her disposal. As long as my hard limits that I have discussed beforehand will be respected, I was all in to her kinky ideas. I’ve learned from her that she’s a Registered Nurse and I felt relieved and much safer. In the back of my mind, I think it’s too hot when your Mistress that you worship, torment, abuse, hurt, and humiliates you and at the end of the day, takes care of you and nourishes you. And after you recover, she will use you again for her pleasure.

    We set up a date, a few weeks after meeting her. She informed me that she had an upcoming CFNM party (Clothes Female, Naked Male party) on the second day of my vacation. So expected that I will be a part of it as well together with her slaves stables in Manila. This built more excitement and nervousness on my part as I have never tried to be in a big crowd before or a party especially with the other slaves playing together. It scared but excited me as I didn’t know what to expect but knew it would give me a new experience and push my boundaries . I was sure this would be a lot of fun and I was ready. The time seemed so endless and it passed slowly as Judgment Day drew near. I had sleepless nights, and a very good nightmare that built up more as the days went by. DF instructed me not to wank off one wk prior to my arrival. The thought of controlling my orgasm by her in the other side of the world was so hot that it gives me a hard on every time I thought of it.

    Next up, the first day

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  • What I like about Ageplay

    What I like about Ageplay

    So when I’m asked the simple question, “What sparked your interest in becoming an adult entertainer,” though the answer might not be so simple, it is certainly a strong and passionate one; the desire to educate society about age-play and show the world that not only is it not immoral, but that it has the capacity to encompass one of the strongest and purest forms of love a person can fathom. The scarcity of age-play related media due to societal misconceptions was not only disappointing to me, but was somewhat jarring as well.

    Part I on How my interest in Ageplay came about

    Part II on The difference between Ageplay and Pedophilia

    Part III on Various role in Ageplay

    By tiptoeing past or ignoring this kink/lifestyle choice, or in som7e cases even aggressively excluding it, the adult entertainment industry has not only silently reinforced the misconceptions surrounding age-play, but they have also caused only a small sliver of the age-play spectrum to be visible, making age-players who don’t fit the porn industry’s idea of what an age-player is feel further isolated. I wanted to create adult content that didn’t revolve solely around the marginally-tiny themes that are regarded as “more acceptable” by our closed-minded society. There are so many facets to age-play that are entirely ignored in the industry’s portrayal of it that I simply had to fill the gaps. My goal was to represent age-play in the most honest, real-world light possible so that other unrepresented Littles didn’t feel as though they had to fit a standardized set of guidelines to “earn” the title of “Little”.

    Being Little isn’t a body type; it isn’t the inability to be attracted to individuals of athletic statures or of a similar age; it’s not an inclination toward a specific set of sexual kinks; being Little isn’t only being allowed to like certain activities and clothing pieces; above all, being Little is not pedophilia.

    Being Little is a frame of mind; it’s the willingness to entrust your well-being to another person; it’s a deliberate effort to grow as a person; it’s dedicating yourself to a certain set of values. Hopefully one day the current misconceptions surrounding age-play will sound as absurd and contradictory to society as a whole as they do to age-players. I have faith that by bearing it all and showing the world, un-apologetically, what age-play is really about we can get there.

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  • Various roles in Ageplay

    Various roles in Ageplay

    There is a certain catharsis that arises from the act of age-playing. While age-play is not inherently related to BDSM, the catharsis felt from it is not unlike the catharsis described by dominants and submissives in the BDSM community after a “play session”. Not only is age-play itself not a direct cause of negative feelings, it can also act as a form of therapy. It generally requires a very calm and tranquil atmosphere, and can also incorporate the participation of individuals that you care for and trust immensely. Age-playing allows one to show their most vulnerable side to another human being who is under a silent, understood oath to value that vulnerability rather than abuse it. Age-playing is about unconditional love, nurturing, patience, extreme kindness, and simplicity. These aspects are most easily achieved through (in general terms) a “Little/Caregiver dynamic”.

    Part I on How my interest in Ageplay came about

    Part II on The difference between Ageplay and Pedophilia

    “Little” can be used as a blanket term that describes any individual age-playing as younger than their biological age, or it can be used as a more specific term to describe one classification of age-player. Some of the major categories under this term are “AB/DLs”, “Littles” (as a specific classification), and “Middles”. While there are no hard-and-fast rules and guidelines as to what exactly constitutes each of these terms, there do exist a few large, sweeping themes generally present in each category.5

    Broadly speaking, an “AB/DL” (adult baby/diaper lover) in relation to age-play is an adult who role-plays as a toddler or infant. On the surface, this appears to simply be the use of infant and toddler paraphernalia by adults (diapers, bottles, bibs, pacifiers, adult-sized infant clothing). In actuality, the core of AB/DL style age-play is more dependent on the activities and intentions involved. For most individuals, the attraction to this style of age-play is the amount of tender love, care, and attention it requires. When one is role-playing as someone who would be completely dependent on a caregiver, there is a tremendous amount of trust involved. To participate in this activity and have that trust honored, as well as to be cared for in such an intense and pure fashion, is incredibly rewarding to the parties involved.

    A “Little” in relation to age-play is an adult who role-plays as being older than diaper-wearing ages, yet younger than teenage years. The lines between AB/DLs and Littles, as well as the lines between Littles and Middles are quite easily blurred because a Little, in simple terms, role-plays somewhere in between AB/DL and Middle styles of age-play. Littles generally do not use infant or toddler paraphernalia, although the use of these items by a Little is not unheard of. Typically, Littles gravitate more toward older activities and clothing styles, such as grade school associated clothing, dolls, higher level coloring books, stuffed animals, dress up, action figures, toy cars and trucks, etc. Being a Little generally involves a slightly more verbally sophisticated level of communication with the caregiver and provides for more boundary testing. Littles are usually more independent than AB/DLs while role-playing, and this can in some cases provide a situation that involves even more patience on the part of the caregiver.

    “Middles” are adults who role-play as teenagers. Some activities enjoyed by your average Middle include going to parties and concerts, skateboarding, going to the mall, listening to music, reading, writing, and creating art. Middles typically still play with toys whilst age-playing, but rather than dolls or pacifiers, these are generally older toys such as suction-cup dart guns, paint-ball guns, skateboards, etc. There is often an increased interest in electronic devices such as laptops, MP3 players, tablets, cell phones, and digital cameras. Some Middles cite craving structure while still enjoying their freedom as being their reason for enjoying this particular role.

    The term “Caregiver” or “Big” is granted to those who play roles that are traditionally given to adult role-models and authority figures. Some examples of these roles might be as specific as teachers, parents, aunts and uncles, grandparents, babysitters, or nannies, or as general as “designated adult”. Littles and Caregivers do not always define their dynamic with specific titles. Caregivers sometimes create rules for the Littles designed to help the Littles achieve their dreams and goals, grow as a person, and gain life-perspective and confidence. These rules may be as simple as telling a Little not to jump on the couch to teach them respect for personal property and patience, or as specific and fine-tuned as instructing a Little who is an aspiring writer to write at least one paragraph each day as practice, or even telling a Little with body-image issues that they are to say ten things they like about themselves in the mirror each night before bed to boost their self-confidence. Rules can be enforced through various methods, but by far the most popular is spanking. Other examples of repercussions for breaking the rules might be time out, being denied dessert, having a favorite toy taken away, or canceled trips to fun places.

    Caregivers are not only there to punish. They are also there to reinforce good behavior by rewarding their Little. Rewards range from physical affection (hugs, kisses, piggy-back rides, massages, etc.) and small gifts (crayons, accessories, foil stars, stickers), to large gifts and trips. Caregivers help to build a Little’s confidence, teach them not to base their self-worth on others’ opinions, teach responsibility, respect, independence, and personal accountability, as well as provide them with a safe place to vent their frustrations and the knowledge that they have someone they can trust fully and rely on in any situation.

    In return for this special love, care, and attention, the Little makes the Caregiver feel appreciated, helpful, and loved as well. Many Caregivers want to feel needed and have a long-lasting, positive effect on the lives of those they care about. Age-play gives them a paradigm in which that can be accomplished and properly appreciated. Caregivers fulfill Littles by providing a sense of security, stability, and unconditional love, while Littles fulfill caregivers by helping them to appreciate the small things in life, making them feel instrumental in the positive growth of another individual, and providing them with unconditional love and trust. Put simply, Little/Caregiver dynamics are symbiotic relationships that provide for a deeper emotional satisfaction than could otherwise be achieved by these individuals through a more generic relationship..

    The final part on What I like about Ageplay is next!

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  • Sexy Reads – Punished by the House Guests

    Sexy Reads – Punished by the House Guests

    My husband Dan and I have one of those relationships where he rules the roost, and I obey him or suffer the consequences. I know, it wouldn’t work for everyone, but it works for us. When I make too many snide remarks about Alison, the bitch house guest from hell, Dan not only disciplines me for being a poor hostess, but, to my horror, he also allows our two guests to watch and join in my humiliating punishment. But it turns out, he knows me better than I know myself, because it seems, humiliation is exactly what I crave…

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    I thought I was quite good at concealing my irritation so it did no more than bubble to the surface every now and again in a mild way, and then something bad just slipped out of my mouth.

    I couldn’t help it.

    We had an open-plan house, so I could see Alison on the couch from the kitchen where I was frantically getting a meal together by myself as usual, and she decided she was having trouble unscrewing the top off her nail polish bottle, so she asked Dan for help.

    I couldn’t help repeating under my breath in that simpering way she had “Dan, could you help me with this please,” and I added to the effect by waggling my tits as she had on the sofa and adding “because I want to show you all I’ve got.”

    Of course, they both chose that very moment to look my way, and Alison gave a little shriek of protest, while Dan just said “Bedroom, now!” and I didn’t think I could do anything else but go there and wait.

    “That was unspeakably rude,” he said. “I can’t let that pass. You’ve been less than welcoming to Alison and Tom the past few days, but that was too much.”

    He pulled me over his lap, lifted my skirt and pulled down my panties to my knees. And then he walloped me hard six times. I knew Alison would be able to hear those smacks, and presumably he knew it too, but he was so annoyed he didn’t care.

    And it was all the more humiliating to know she would be aware of exactly what was happening to me. That spanking hurt just as much as it ever did, but the surprising thing was that, despite the shame of it, I felt excited by feeling Dan’s hand on my bottom more than ever before, knowing that bitch could hear everything.

    “Now pull your panties down and take them off. You can stay like that all evening. Go out there and apologize to Alison.”

    I humphed a bit about having to apologize, but I went out there anyway.

    Alison was as ungracious as I expected her to be, when I said “I’m sorry, for being rude, Alison. Tough day at work, you know.”

    She just smirked at me and looked pointedly at my behind, letting me know she knew I’d been disciplined like a child. I could feel a blush creeping over my face, and there was something else as well. I was getting wetter as she looked down her nose at me.

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  • Know the difference between Ageplay and Pedophilia

    Know the difference between Ageplay and Pedophilia

    Pedophilia is classified as a psychiatric disorder, while age-play is classified as a fetish, orientation, or lifestyle choice. Pedophilia is defined as “a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children, generally age 11 years or younger.” [source: Wikipedia] Pedophiles are, by definition, sexually attracted to children while age-players role-play strictly with consenting adults, and this role-play can and often does take place on an entirely non-sexual and even platonic basis. By definition alone, the two are somewhat contradictory. When examining the differing motivations and aspects of pedophilia and age-play, it becomes extremely clear that not only are the two unrelated, but that it would be highly unlikely that a pedophile would term themselves as being interested in age-play.

    Read Part I on How my interest in Ageplay came about

    Pedophilia is “self-discovered, not chosen” [Source: Wikipedia] and pedophiles generally have a difficult ti3me being sexually attracted to adults. To put it into perspective, I like to use the following example: Joe enjoys seeing his 25 year old girlfriend wear a snakeskin mini-skirt. Joe would not suddenly find a child sexually attractive simply because someone put the child in the same snakeskin mini-skirt. Joe is a cis-gendered heterosexual male who enjoys seeing his girlfriend in lacy bras and thongs. Joe would not suddenly be more willing to have sex with a cis-gendered male simply because that male was wearing a lacy bra and thong. Pedophiles will not suddenly become attracted to adults simply because they are wearing clothing traditionally worn by children in the same way that Joe would not become attracted to a child simply because that child was wearing garb traditionally donned by an adult. If Joe’s girlfriend puts on a onesie and wears pigtails, it will not change the fact that her physical appearance differs greatly from that of a child; it will not change her mental development and life experience. In short, age-playing or not, Joe’s girlfriend is an adult, and pedophilia by definition is sexual attraction to children. This makes it impossible for any attraction to Joe’s girlfriend to be used as an indicator that an individual may suffer from pedophilia, regardless of what she is or isn’t wearing.

    A pedophile who wishes to avoid suspicion would never claim to be interested in age-play for the same reason that a homosexual man strongly wishing to be viewed as heterosexual would never claim to want to be an interior designer. Being an interior designer has absolutely nothing to do with homosexuality, but society nonetheless stereotypes gay men as always being interior designers; therefore, a gay man wishing to be viewed as straight would never mention interior design, actively avoid the subject, or even ridicule other males who were pursuing that field to appear (in society’s eyes) more likely to be heterosexual. Following the same logic, a pedophile wishing to avoid detection would never claim to be interested in a kink or lifestyle that was illogically associated with pedophilia for fear of being discovered.

    In general, pedophiles have observable structural differences in the brain, slightly impaired coordination, average to low IQ, poor social skills, a higher rate of left handedness than society as a whole, as well as a higher rate of trauma resulting in unconsciousness during childhood. Pedophiles are thought to be attracted to children because they are smaller and less intimidating than adults; they also tend to have social skills that are closer in level to the pedophile’s own, making them easier to communicate with than adults. Almost all pedophiles actively recognize that their sexual attraction to children is immoral and that it is unacceptable and wrong to attempt to engage in any sexual activity with a minor under any circumstance. Over 60% of diagnosed pedophiles are suicidal at any one time, 48% attempt suicide, and 12% succeed. This high rate of suicidal thought is believed to be the product of overwhelming guilt, anxiety, and depression caused as a direct result of their sexual attraction to children.

    Age-players have not been, and cannot be, generalized as a group in this way because having an interest in age-play is not indicative of a condition, disorder, or illness. Age-players are of varying IQ levels, varying social skills, and varying childhood backgrounds. To date, there has been no link proven between an inclination to age-play and traumatic upbringings. While age-players who don’t realize that they aren’t alone may feel isolated from society and may suffer depression or anxiety in relation to that isolation, there is no data supporting the idea that age-players have a higher rate of suicide or suicidal thoughts. Furthermore, unlike the depression and anxiety pedophiles suffer from due to guilt stemming from their attractions, there is no evidence to support the idea that any anxiety or depression is caused by guilt over the desire to age-play. In fact, there are statistics proving that age-players who are not able to express their “Little” side or “Caregiver” side are at a much higher risk of depression and anxiety than those who are not suppressed in that manner. This situation can be easily compared to the depression and anxiety that a non-gender-binary individual may feel due to the oppression and lack of acceptance they receive from loved ones or society in general.

    Coming up, Part III on Various roles in Ageplay

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  • Exploring Impact Play in BDSM

    Exploring Impact Play in BDSM

    Impact play in my experience, is an activity where an implement is used to strike with force on a part of the body. I keep away from high risk areas such as joints, kidneys and any areas that are not protected by fat or muscle and mostly target the upper back and buttocks. An object used for this type of play could be a paddle, strap, flogger, cane, baton, whip or even a fist or foot. An implement can be made of a variety of materials including wood, rubber, leather, plastic, carbon, rattan, etc.

    Impact play is definitely one of my favourite activities and popular amongst my regular clientele. For most of those who visit me requesting heavy impact play, it is more a need than a fetish. One of my goals is to fill that need, and for my clients to leave feeling better than they did when they entered the dungeon, regardless of how much pain I have inflicted during their stay!

    A typical Impact Play process

    I aim to customize each session to suit what the client has asked for. There is no point whatsoever in having a set style for every impact play request, unless it’s a first timer. If I am seeing a client who has never experienced impact play, I will start with a warm up and increase the intensity throughout the session. I will stop on occasions to check in with the client. The first time with a client is never typical so I am careful and take things slowly.

    When a session involves impact play I will get information from the client about their past experience, reasons why they wish to receive, if they have any injuries, medical conditions, any medications , and if they wish for marks to be left on their body etc. A safe-word is put in place so that a client can halt a session if he needs to.

    There are many BDSM scenarios where impact play may be applied. Just to name a few: Head Mistress and student role play, Sadist and masochist session, slave training, general discipline to keep a wandering mind in line, and many more!

    In my opinion, the mind is the most important part of the play!

    Safety is the priority if you are trying it at home

    There are so many books and educational sites on the internet. On some of those sites there is access to skill shares and workshops run by BDSM practitioners. If you want to try Impact Play, attend workshops or skill shares, go to events and munches. There are always kinksters about who are happy to share skills or watch over you on your first time trying something new. Read from reliable sources and communicate well with your partner before play begins. Be sure that you understand what limits are, and just as importantly, what yours and your partners’ are. Communication is of great importance. With time comes experience so don’t rush things!

    I specialize in Corporal punishment, Latex and Medical play. I also indulge in many other activities so let me know your fantasies! Keep an eye on my site for my regular travel dates to Adelaide and Sydney. Read my profile below and visit my links!

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  • How my interest in Ageplay came about

    How my interest in Ageplay came about

    During my career as an adult entertainer, I’ve received all kinds of questions. “What are your hobbies,” “What’s your bra size,” “What turns you on the most,” “What do you like to do on weekends,” are just a few examples, but by far the most common question I receive is this; “What sparked your interest in being an adult entertainer?” While this may seem to be a simple question, the answer is not so plain.

    Growing up, I was always regarded as being unnaturally mature for my age. I was often trusted with tasks that one would only trust an adult with; among these were handling the household finances, balancing the budget, doing the grocery shopping, running errands, driving my siblings to appointments, and other such responsibilities. By the age of 10, many of my teachers proclaimed that if it weren’t for my appearance, they would be hard-pressed to tell the difference between myself and a 20 year old.8

    Why was it, then, that even at age 16 all I wanted for Christmas was a children’s party dress with a full skirt and some stuffed animals? Why was it that after a particularly difficult day, I would calm down by burying myself in a pile of stuffed animals and read myself children’s books? Why did I become inexplicably enthusiastic when browsing the toy aisle at stores? Why did my idea of a perfect date consist of having a tea party at the park and perhaps playing tag? If I was so mature, self sufficient, and capable, why was I still holding fast to childhood interests with no serious intention of letting go?

    Shortly after my 18th birthday, I made a discovery that was nothing short of Earth-shattering; suddenly the interests I’d been confused about for so long began making perfect sense. What I had discovered was a unique activity known as “Age-play”. “Age-play”, as I had read, was “a form of role-playing in which an individual acts or treats another as if they were a different age, sexually or non-sexually.” [source: Wikipedia]

    Immediately, I began absorbing as much knowledge on the subject as I could. I had a seemingly infinite number of questions on the subject, but the most important question on my mind was, “Does this mean I’m attracted to pedophiles?” Fortunately during this period of unending research, I stumbled rather quickly upon a decent amount of articles written by highly regarded psychological associations detailing that age-play and pedophilia are entirely unrelated.

    Part II on the difference between Ageplay and Pedophilia to follow

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  • Pet Play fetish – Bring out the animal in YOU

    Pet Play fetish – Bring out the animal in YOU

    Hi naughty ones, I’m Nancy! I started selling my panties online a few months ago after wanting to try it out for over a year. I started receiving emails from clients to do sexy chat not long after, which I really enjoy, as it gives me more of a connection with my client. I have always been quite dominant in relationships and have been very curious about pet play, so when a client asked if I did that, I was very excited to give it a go!

    What is Pet Play?

    Pet play is play that involves at least one of the participants dressing or acting like an animal. To be clear – this is in no way a form of beastiality! Pet play is about enjoying animalistic behaviour with a human partner, not engaging in sexual activity with an actual animal.

    Pet play is usually a form of dom/sub relationship, with one of the partners being dominant – most often the partner who is remaining human. Pet play is not always sexual; I have done pet play scenes with clients who simply enjoy submitting and giving over control of even their basic needs, so that I care for them completely in the same way as I would with a pet in real life. Others enjoy pet play of a more sexual nature, in which their lack of control over their needs is used to humiliate and torment them.

    Another element of pet play is feminisation. I often find that partners enjoy being made to look pretty and cute, in that way being made into a pretty pet for my enjoyment (if they enjoy humiliation) or for their own enjoyment (if they like being feminised). This can include anything from a collar to a tail and ears or panties and stockings and make up.

    Personally, I enjoy pet play in all of its forms. I like having that level of control over my partner, but as I am quite a maternal and nurturing person, I love caring for my pet and establishing that level of trust in which they are comfortable in giving over total control.

    Ultimately, pet play is a fun way to play with a partner that just involves taking on the characteristics of an animal – maybe a playful puppy or a mischievous kitten – and bringing those to your playtime, sexual or otherwise.

    Safety concerns in pet play

    As with all dom/sub play, being the dominant partner is about so much more than issuing commands. In the same way that a dom must always care for their sub, it is important that a dom in pet play never abuses the level of trust and control that their pet has given them. The damage caused by an abuse of trust can range from destroying the mood of the scene to psychological harm for the pet.

    When engaging in pet play in real life – as opposed to online – there are other safety issues to keep in mind. For example, please do not go eating animal food! It was made for animals (whichever you may choose to play as/with) for a reason. A nice alternative would be to feed your pet mashed up food in a pet bowl, which doesn’t spoil the fantasy but is also safe for your pet to eat.

    Another concern is the psychological impact of being an animal for extended periods of time. Some partners like to have their speech restricted to only animal noises. Whilst this is fine in the odd scene, if you are engaging in pet play all day every day, it is damaging to the sub to be so restricted. I would not recommend this level of play in real life, your sub always needs some time to come back to their human self mentally to allow their mind time to recover.

    Preparation for pet play

    Before I enter into any pet play scenario, I always have an honest discussion with my client about what they want from the session, what their likes and dislikes are and what their limits are. As I mentioned above, it is so important to establish and keep that trust, particularly as I am offering a paid service.

    I find it’s always best to do this before starting the scene, first so I understand what the client wants, but also so that I can check it will be something I am comfortable with too. I can’t stress enough how important it is for both partners to respect each others boundaries and stick to the limits they agree to.

    A typical pet play process…

    Every pet play session is different, but a usual session will involve dressing my pet up as the animal they most identify with – usually a kitten or a puppy – and preparing them to play. I sometimes do training with a pet, to teach obedience or tricks. After that, it generally depends on the client – some prefer to be fed, watered, made to use the toilet and washed, then cuddled and stroked before being put into their pet bed. Sexual pet plays obviously differ greatly from client to client, so I won’t go into those here!

    Email nancysknickers@hotmail.com for all panty enquiries and to book online role play sessions, sexy chat or pet play at http://pantytrust.com/nancy . I now have openings for long term clients too. I’d love to hear from you x

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