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  • Sukki Singapora – The World’s First Burlesque Artist from Singapore

    Sukki Singapora – The World’s First Burlesque Artist from Singapore

    Sukki Singapora, the first international burlesque performer from Singapore, is a global star who has performed in world class shows around the world.  She has been recognised for her efforts and achievements worldwide, having been nominated for London’s Asian Women of Achievement Awards for being a role model to all Asian women and men in the Arts scene.  Sukki has been featured on FHM India and Esquire Magazine, and was the first ever Burlesque performer to receive a Royal Invitation to Buckingham Palace.  SimplySxy takes this unique opportunity to interview Sukki on her amazing costumes, her role as the founder of The Singapore Burlesque Club and the Sexhibition cinema commercial.

    SimplySxy: Hi Sukki, we are really pleased to have you on SimplySxy. We have watched a number of your splendid performances on YouTube and are intrigued by the eclectic mix of indie Bollywood that you have injected into the classic Hollywood glamour that is synonymous to burlesque acts. Who and where do you draw your inspiration from?

    Sukki: When I first found out about burlesque, it was via the old American stars—as Asian burlesque performers were few and far between!—so much of my inspiration came from that old style “bump and grind.” However being the first burlesque performer from Singapore, I felt it was important to portray my heritage in my acts, and pay homage to Bollywood and Chinese performers such as Barbara Yung, so as time went on I began to develop my own style. Much of my inspiration comes from my cultural upbringing—I literally wear my heart on my sleeve when it comes to my costumes!

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    SimplySxy: You have some of the most amazing stage costumes! Do you work exclusively with any designers in particular?

    Sukki: Every stage costume starts with an idea or an emotion which I turn into a sketch on paper. I draw out how I imagine the pieces to look like, and then work with different people to help turn those sketches into a reality. Most of my outfits are created with the incredibly talented Kiku Boutique, from the UK, who are the best in the world at turning my dreams into reality!

    SimplySxy: What are the common stereotypes in burlesque and in light of your recent victory in legalizing burlesque in Singapore this week, do you think the Asian community in general is ready to accept burlesque as a mainstream performance?

    Sukki: I think many people expect every burlesque performance to be a carbon copy of the American style—there’s a stereotypical Hollywood silhouette in burlesque, and as an Asian performer, although I do hark back to traditional burlesque costuming, I like to challenge it, and put my own twist on it. In terms of acceptance, it’s never going to be easy to go up against traditional values and ideas, however I think the more understanding there is for it being an art form, the more countries will follow the example of Singapore this week.

    SimplySxy: As the founder of The Singapore Burlesque Club, can you share with us more about it as well as the type of burlesque events and workshops that are conducted?

    Sukki: I founded The Singapore Burlesque Society in 2012 when I was approached by many other Singaporean women (and men!) who were interested in burlesque, but were too afraid to try it or didn’t know how to go about it. It started out as a community to support each other creatively, and then workshops and shows were introduced when it grew to become The Singapore Burlesque Club. Until this week, however, full burlesque performances and tuition in Singapore were a legal grey area, and so many of the workshops were conducted in secret or outside of the country by my incredibly brave members—those were some pretty challenging times for me! All of the shows also had to be held internationally, however members and students knew that if ever they wanted to make a career out of burlesque, that the Club would always be there to support Asian burlesque talent.Sukki Singapora burlesque My Boudoir A

    SimplySxy: I am sure our readers are very interested in your upcoming projects. Could you share with us some of these and also let us in on the sexhibition cinema commercial?

    Sukki: Of course! This August, I’ll be headlining my Henna Diamonds burlesque act at Sexhibition—The Erotic Event of the year—and in the run up to that I’ve just finished filming my debut UK cinema commercial for it which comes out on Friday 13th February. This year I’ll also be returning to New York to co-produce my 3rd annual run of the largest Asian burlesque event in the world, The Asian Burlesque Spectacular on May 30th as well as returning to Singapore for some extremely special events, which I’m both emotional and excited about, I can’t say any more than that! But if you want to see me sooner, I’ll be debuting the first peek of my Henna Diamonds act in London at the Café de Paris on Saturday 21st and 28th February this month, which is going to be my biggest, most elaborate act yet. I can’t wait!

    SimplySxy: Burlesque is associated with sexiness, performing hot dance moves with alluring outfits. Do you have any tips for our readers who wish to bring burlesque into the bedroom to spice things up but have no clue how to start?

    Sukki: Burlesque is all about body confidence and feeling sexy about you. Instead of thinking what will the other person like? I think it’s important to ask: what do I feel great in? Because at the end of the day, if you feel sexy and confident, then you will exude sexiness.

    SimplySxy: One last question before we sign off. How do you define “sexy”?

    Sukki: For me sexy is a mindset – feeling confident in your own skin. There’s nothing sexier than a person’s smile when they’re feeling great!

    Visit Sukki Singapora to find out more about her at http://www.sukkisingapora.com/blog/ and follow her on Facebook http://www.facebook.com/SukkiSingapora and Twitter https://twitter.com/sukkisingapora

    All images courtesy of Sukki Singapora
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  • Interview with Roc Solid on Interracial Sex, MILFS and BBWs

    Interview with Roc Solid on Interracial Sex, MILFS and BBWs

    Roc Solid is an up and coming male pornstar from Philadelphia, PA who loves interracial sex, MILFS, and BBWs.  SimplySxy takes this unique opportunity to find out more about his interests!

    SimplySxy:  What do you think is behind the phenomenon of interracial sex involving a BBC that makes it so fascinating?

    Roc Solid: Well for me I truly believe that colour contrast is largely behind this phenomenon between a black male aP1370270nd a white, Asian, or Latina female. Not only is it a wonderful sight to see but the fact that black males have bigger dicks is what I think really turns a lot of women on. I have gotten plenty of compliments on that and also that our stamina is better than other males. Women love the fact that we can go for long hours at a time. For me, I love to add that dynamic in my films because people enjoy seeing a women getting pounded relentlessly. I also think that porn has had a lot to do with turning peoples attention to interracial sex, some good and some bad. I would say the common misconception is that everyone thinks that all black men are very well hung and that is NOT true. You see in porn films black men that are 10” and more, and plenty of women will tell you that taking a dick that size does not feel good all the time. I truly think that it’s how we fuck that women love so much.

    SimplySxy:  What is it about the Swingers lifestyle that turns you on?  Can you give our readers who are keen to host a swingers party, tips to have one that does not disturb the neighbours or rooms next door?

    Roc: The swingers lifestyle has been very good to me these past couple of years. I have been able to meet plenty of ladies who would be considered your “next door neighbour” but when they get behind closed doors turn into freaks. I also think that the “Hotwife” dynamic has played a huge part in how I am able to meet so many wives. Lets face it.  Husbands love seeing their wife fucking a black man and are very happy with them doing it. Nothing turns me on better than seeing a husband sitting and watching me fuck his wife and her cumming so many times because of it.

    Well the huge tip that I would give is that if you’re going to host at your place, to do it at night and in a place where your neighbors won’t hear it. Also if the woman is a screamer, then playing music in the background is a great option.

    SimplySxy: Can you share a kinky and memorable sexual experience and how it came about?

    Roc: Well for me, it would be finally meeting Creampie Cathy last year when she came to visit Philly. We had been talking for quite some time and she does these road trips a few times a year. Now going into this, I had no idea what to expect since seeing her movies she goes all out. When I finally did arrive to shoot our scene, I realized that she is even more beautiful in person, and man can she FUCK. I am able to say that I ROC’d her for sure and giving her a signature creampie that she loved. If any of you ever get the opportunity to meet her during her travels, please do so because you WILL NOT regret doing so.

    For more information on Roc, check out his blog at http://rocsolidxxx.blogspot.com/. He can be reached anytime at bbcrocsolid@yahoo.com and follow him on Twitter at https://twitter.com/RocSolidXXX

    Images courtesy of Roc Soild.

  • Interview with xSync

    Interview with xSync

    Hi Alan, you’ve got an interesting product here. Tell us more about it.

    Hi there SimplySxy, I’m enthused to tell you more! And thank you so much for having us! xSync is a wireless technology that hyper-synchronizes your favorite vibrator to precise sensory cues in adult videos and all other media. When one watches porn by themselves, the typical “self pleasure” routine can get a bit, well…mechanical, and rehearsed over time. What I mean by this is, it can gradually lapse into a mundane routine lacking in true sexual fulfillment.

    But xSync changes the game. Instead of you fiddling with buttons, xSync lets you enjoy the experience while allowing you to deeply immerse yourself directly in the peaks and valleys of the hottest scenes. It really is about as close as you can get to experiencing your favorite porn scene fall right into your lap, all without having to leave your own room. (Or office. Or car. Etc.)

    So how does that immersion feel?

    According to our beta testers—little short of mind-blowing! In fact, let me share a little anecdote about one of our first test users, we’ll call her ‘Sarah’.

    Sarah was nestled cozily in her room while checking out our first demo flick, accompanied by her favorite vibrator. Scene 1: a blow job. Now, I’ve been told by numerous times that women often “skip” or fast forward blowjob scenes so they can get to the “good parts”, so to speak. Keep in mind, it’s not that they don’t like giving blowjobs, it’s just that watching them on video simply fails to turn them on like real life sex.

    But here’s the plot twist for Sarah when the blow job scene started…

    Her jaw literally dropped to the floor. The sensations hit her—in real time, and she found herself planted in the exact moment, enjoying every single detail of every single second. The afternoon she relayed this to me, I knew in that single moment that we’d built something that was not only sensational and realistic, but could change the way porn was viewed and experienced for everyone.

    And one more interesting detail about xSync. It can control multiple vibrators at the same time, as long as they are near the wireless signal. That’s it! So now you and a friend, or even a group, can put on a sexy adult flick and simultaneously enjoy the delicious details. Talk about a party! Or you can go on a solo adventure and play with multiple toys at once. Either way it’s a brand new experience that’s never been available before.

    Needless to say, the range of experiences one can have with xSync are vast and varied. And we know that when our customers get to experience what it can do for them sexually, they aren’t going to go back to the old traditional way of watching porn with their vibrators buzzing monotonously ever again.

    Does it work with all porn?

    Yes, it sure can! But one thing I’d like to point out is that we don’t host any of our own videos. Instead, xSync actually powers the syncing technology behind existing websites. Many sites are already fully compatible with xSync, so it’s a piece of cake for us to add new and exciting websites as our service continues to grow.

    A very common misconception is that we sync merely the sound in the videos. Sure, this may work well in some situations, but when it comes to syncing with adult videos and porn, it’s limiting and frankly—not a complete picture of the scene.

    Instead, we have an awesomely elite team of engineers who run our proprietary software to analyze specific on-screen actions and sync them to the precise intensities and patterns of the vibrator. Then it’s in our library.  Users can enjoy it all immediately.

    We’re also thrilled when we receive requests from our users. In fact, our entire library is built around our users’ favorite adult videos. If any user wants to try xSync with their favorite adult video, we welcome them to hit up  www.xsync.com and we’ll get them set up on our pilot program. That’s it!

    By the way, it’s crucial that I point out that ALL of the videos we support are sex positive. I think that’s pretty self-explanatory. My fiancé, team, and I, are outspoken advocates of the sex positive movement, and it doesn’t matter if you’re gay, straight, lesbian, BDSM, hardcore, or a little in between. We plan on having you covered on all levels and tastes!

    Now tell us, what inspired you to create xSync?

    For a long time in the making, I wanted to be able to re-create the natural spontaneity of sexual stimulation in an intimate encounter. A few years back I started to closely examine all the sex toys available in the market and, honestly, there wasn’t much that really filled that “missing gap” that I was looking for. I finally began my research, and several months later I finished the now patent-pending design. And the results couldn’t have been any better!

    Shortly thereafter, I met my fiancée, Kathleen, and since then, she and I have been jointly helming xSync. While I handle the technical aspects, Kathleen has this uncanny, intuitive ability to connect with people. She’s had that gift all her life, and it’s like nothing I’ve seen before. She lovingly gave xSync a character and identity that resonates with people. It truly has been an intellectual labor of love and fun for us…and I’d like to quip that we’ve experienced first-hand just how easy it can add to a couple’s intimate life.

    Our #1 inspiration for xSync has been to help women, couples, and our friends in the LGBT community to explore their own sexuality by completely immersing themselves into the erotic fantasies from their favorite videos. These videos can range from your run-of-the-mill sex flick, to the mainstream 50 Shades of Grey. We truly feel we’re only getting started, and that the future applications for xSync to help and entertain people will only continue to grow.

    We’re seeing a ton of new and innovative toys come out on the market, from the We-Vibe Couples Vibrator, the Revel Body Sonic Vibrator and now the xSync. It’s like Sex is going high tech. As a toy designer, do you think that it’s just human nature to find new ways to get off?

    Yes. Absolutely. I do think that it’s human nature to always be seeking something new and exciting. People love to be entertained. People love to feel good. People love to explore, to be sexual, to push the boundaries and have mind-numbing orgasms. Why wouldn’t they? It’s exciting, it’s liberating…and it’s great for the mind and body!

    As for the sex toy market, sure, there are always new sex tech products coming out and we’re thrilled to see this. We aren’t actually toy designers, we’re instead filling in the gap between technology and toys. To do this we’ve created xO—our wireless remote for LELO vibrators. It’s a cool little piece of technology that jumpstarts your existing sex toys.

    In short, we are a sex-positive technology team vividly syncing up your favorite videos.

    Thanks Alan, before we close off, tell us, how do you define “sexy”?

    Oh, that’s a fantastic question! A part of me wonders if the word “sexy” could even be defined. Or should it? “Sexy” is such a subjective word, and over analysis potentially subtracts from that “je ne sais quoi” that keeps it secretive and alluring.

    But if you ask me personally what you think my definition of sexy is, I think it comes down to being truly authentic, being confident in yourself (and even your body and sexuality), and your own unique, magnetic spark. We can’t fake being sexy. It doesn’t work that way. It has to be truly felt. When you feel it at the core of your being, it radiates around you, and other people sense it.

    When you take the time to explore your sexuality, you unlock what it means for you to be sexy.
    It’s been a pleasure. Thank you for having us, SimplySxy.

    Image courtesy of xSync
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  • Interview with Dr Shannon Chavez

    Interview with Dr Shannon Chavez

    CBP-265-EditHi Dr Chavez, thanks for taking the time for us to get to know you better. So tell us, what made you decide that you wanted to be a sex therapist?

    I believe sex is one of the most fascinating and diverse topics that exists and affects every single human being. I also learned from very early on that sex caused the most pain and pleasure in one’s life. There are so many mixed messages about how much one should know about sex, how to behave sexually, and when and how it’s acceptable to be sexual. Sex is how we all got here and becoming empowered and informed around sexuality can change someone’s life forever. I knew I wanted to be a part of this change and to help bring awareness to the importance of sexual health to overall health and well-being. My mission as a sex therapist is to break down the barriers that hold individuals and couples back from experiencing their full sexual potential, help resolve sexual concerns that cause distress and pain, and encourage sexual self-exploration and discovery at any age.

    So what exactly is the mind-body approach which your work focuses upon and how does it translate to the variety of programmes that you offer?

    The mind-body approach that I use incorporates the connection between our thoughts, values, and beliefs around sexuality to our sexual functioning in the body. This approach looks at the brain as our biggest sex organ and how understanding our sexuality helps to alleviate problems we may experience in sexual expression. I use techniques of mindfulness, somatic experiencing, cognitive-behavioral therapy, and sex therapy to create an integrated treatment modality for different sexual concerns. My goal in using a mind-body approach is to give each client a sense of control over how their body functions and to reduce stress, anxiety, and trauma that gets locked up in the body and becomes a barrier to sexual satisfaction. At the end of my work with clients, it is my hope that they feel more sexually empowered, reconnected, and informed.

    Is the Big ‘O’ something that’s crucial for sexual success?

    Every person’s experience to orgasm varies and it is not a crucial factor in experiencing sexual pleasure. My goal for every client is to learn to give and receive pleasure. I want my clients to experience sex as a whole-bodied experience and to not get lost in the focus on performance or the outcome. Orgasm is a reflex and learned response that can be incorporated into treatment for specific sexual concerns, if indicated.

    What’s the most important sex tip you can share with our readers?

    The first relationship you should work on is the one with yourself. Get to know your body, how it works, and what your needs are. This is crucial before you can share and communicate sexual desires with a partner.

    Self-stimulation is also important for sexual health. Break down your taboos about “masturbation” and know that self-stimulation has mental and physical benefits and can improve sexual self-esteem and confidence. Give yourself the pleasure you deserve!

    In your opinion, what’s the most game changing sex toy on the market today?

    I am a big fan of the We Vibe 4. It works great for direct clitoral stimulation, has a new design that can stimulate the internal clitoral shaft, or G-spot, and can be a couple’s device that allows for penetration—with a remote. It has a comfortable fit and is made from 100% medical-grade silicone. Great form, design, and fun for individual or couples play.

    One last question before we close off, how do you define sexy?

    Sexy is all about attitude. I like to think about the word as “sex-e” or “sex educated”. The more we know about sex, the better we feel about our sexuality and sexual expression. Becoming sexually educated and informed creates sex-positive attitudes that can improve confidence, appeal, and awareness.

    All images courtesy of Dr. Shannon Chavez
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  • Sex as a slutty MILF

    Sex as a slutty MILF

    SimplySxy: What do you enjoy most about sex now as a slutty MILF as compared to sex before?

    Classy Eve: Definitely more exciting, for sure! If I was 25 years younger and acting and doing what I’m doing right now, everyone would treat me like a real slut. With totally no respect! Just a girl that guys only want to fuck and that’s all! That’s tough, I guess, for a young girl today to explore and discover her sexuality. She can’t dress the way she would like, take control in bed, etc. She will be considered a dirty and nasty girl that she’s only good to suck cocks but not to hang out with at a restaurant.DSC00244

    It’s the opposite now as a MILF. Guys want to go to a restaurant, hang out, be seen with me in town. And they’re waiting for the thing—to have sex with me. That usually won’t happened because I’m controlling the situations. And that’s the fun part of it. I give them what they want, glimpse of my tits and legs, tease them, good times. It often doesn’t go further because it appears in a business relationship context. But I may organize to make things happen if I want. That guy I jerked off under the table at the restaurant, make him cum in my hand, take a spoon, take the cum, put it in my coffee and drink it while I looked at him directly in the eyes. I gave him an heart attack because he didn’t see nothing happen. Just because I thought he could have something to tell to his colleagues and nobody would believe him. Next, I resumed my night out with my husband and we started a photo shoot. Lol!

    SimplySxy: There is something sexy and alluring about MILFs which attracts men. What is this sexiness which guys love that makes MILFs so attractive?

    Classy Eve: I think it’s a question of maturity and confidence. Men tend to believe that older women have more sexual experiences. That’s possibly true sometimes. I observed from the emails I received from my website, that guys are searching for approvals from older women. That’s why they like us MILFs so much.

    They’re always asking if they can cumtribute my pics, which they don’t ask when they’re talking to younger women on Twitter, asking about the size of their cocks, etc.

    And sophistication. The way we dress, how we take our glass of wine, walk in high heels for example. I understood all these pretty fast and apply them everyday. At work, because of my position, I use it to smoothly make people around me grow in confidence. Femininity, maturity and sexiness— those three words are constantly in my mind as a MILF.

    SimplySxy: Share with us, a recent memorable slutty sex experience you had with our readers

    Classy Eve: I have a couple of hot stories to tell but this one could be fun and reflects pretty well how we deal, as a couple my husband and I, in real life.

    A couple of years ago, for a business convention in Houston, Texas, I really love this place though, we had this great dinncl22x007er with all the executives and bosses. I was sitting between my husband as well and an older guy on my left, with his wife sitting on his left. Get the picture? We have a tradition my husband and I. When we’re at a restaurant, he’s constantly playing with my pussy during the meal to make sure I’m always wet.

    Coming back to the story. The older guy on my left, accidentally I guess, rubbed his knee on my legs. It’s okay to me as it happens a lot of time during these soirées as we’re too close to each other. But I noticed that he came back more and longer each time. So I thought: “Why don’t I gave him back what I’m best at? Jerking guys under tables.” I gently began to play with his cock over his pants while my hubby kept teasing my pussy.

    The guy put his hand on my nylons and I unzipped his pants and began to play with his cock under the table while we were eating. Next thing, he tried to reach my pussy, stopped and freaked out. He had touched the hand of my husband on my clit. Didn’t matter totally to me! I took his hand and put it back where he was supposed to put it, in my pussy. So my husband and the guy were finger-fucking me under the table at the same time. Four fingers in and out of my wet pussy. It was Heaven on Earth! I sipped my glass of wine and bit my lips because I was on the urge of cumming right there in front of 10 executives with their wives.

    I made the guy finally came on my nylons, wiped it all over my legs, biting my lips to not scream while having four fingers in my cunt. My hubby kept entertaining people as well, while the guy on my left was sweating as I put his cock back in his pants.  His wife didn’t notice anything BUT the guy in front us, likely aged around 60 years, couldn’t understand what was happened in front of him.

    As I told you, grab the opportunities, baby! That’s the reason for moving from a classy wife turned into a slutty MILF as a way of life! And I like it!

    If you haven’t read Part I of the interview, you can check it out here http://simplysxy.com/articles/2015/01/11/interview-with-lady-classy-eve/

    Images courtesy of Lady Classy Eve
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  • Interview with Lady Classy Eve

    Interview with Lady Classy Eve

    SimplySxy: A very good day to you Classy Eve. Could you give our readers at SimplySxy an introduction of yourself?

    Classy Eve: Thank you, the same for you! Well, I’m 49 years old and I’m from Canada. My first photo shoot was in 2007. My hubby asked me to do this for a while, always showing me some amateur website telling me that I was “hot enough” to send some pics of myself. That wasn’t easy at first even if we were looking through porn mag and videos. I had to work hard to find a look that I was happy with, the pose, etc. I’m not a natural, you know. By the way, I admire those women who do this professionally. Boy! They’re really good. After a couple of trials and errors, I sent my first set, corset, boots and a glass of red wine. Something between sweet romance and a naughty bad girl. A concept that we had in mind and still using today. DSC00851

    Maybe I was lucky enough I don’t know but with this first photo session, we did the cover of an amateur’s website. Got a lot of nice and really hot comments from the readers. So I finally conclude that “maybe I was cute enough to do some more”. And we did!

    Seven years later, I have my own website trying to find new ideas and keep posing for you, which I love to do. But because of my professional life, working in the financial domain, I’d wish I could do it on a regular base but I can’t. Maybe one day!

    SimplySxy: How did the name Classy Eve come about?

    Classy Eve: I’ve been always attracted by the 50’s fashion, the movies, the music. I found, one day, in my father’s drawers a really beautiful picture of Bettie Page. Thanks Dad for this! I think I have it somewhere in my things at home again because I stole it from him. Don’t tell him, please, lol! I was 10 or 11 years old and it changed my life! I knew that one day, I‘ll be wearing those tight skirts, dresses and really high heels shoes.

    When I started modeling, it was so clear and evident in my mind that that was the look I was searching for, a classy one mixed with this little edgy side, you know! The “I’m a good housewife but I’m also a…” look!

    SimplySxy: Did you always have a high sex drive from a young age or did it come as you got older?

    Classy Eve: Boy, no! As a teenager, I wasn’t the hot ticket at school. I have big tits and especially my nipples, were always hard! A fact that I admitted later was an advantage as a woman. They’re long and pointed. At that time, I was shy to have those long nipples. I was always trying to hide them, using big sweaters, etc. even if Bettie Page was my number 1 hero.

    I had a moderate sex life, a couple of boyfriends, casual sex, BJs. No anal even if they asked me for it. No lesbian sex though. Strangely, I wasn’t into lesbian sex at first. A strange story happened one day to my hubby that got me into lesbian sex. He’s really into older woman and I caught him with his boss’s widow. That’s turned me on so much that I couldn’t resist to play with this beautiful lady instead of my husband. Now I considered myself a total bi-woman and I’ve some really memorable sex sessions that way. One day, if you want, I will tell you the whole story. Pretty amazing!

    I met my hubby at university and got married, nothing special, even if we were experimenting in new areas, such as using toys, anal sex and flashing. It was like “OK let’s do it to see if it turns both on”. If you’re into porn videos, there were a lot more hard things than we were experimenting in those movies at that time.

    And one day, we found it by accident. It started at home as some kind of a joke, my husband began to talk dirty to me, told me I was his fucking bitch and would used me as his whore in the streets. And that was it, we found a way that stimulated our sex life so much. At home, I was his personal whore and he was my pimp! We were hooked to that lifestyle. Serious by day but dirty and naughty at home. 24/7.

    SimplySxy: Please share with us your journey from being a classy lady to a slutty MILF today

    Classy Eve: I’m with my husband for more than 20 years and am 49 now. At the beginning, I wasn’t, as I said, into sex that much. We had some good hot fucking sessions as you know. Remembered this one time in our car while I was driving and jerking him off at the same time. I would pretty much do everything with him but the sparks wasn’t really there. You know, THE thing.

    I knew that my husband liked to watch porn movies and read magazines, like every guy on earth. 12 years ago, he showed me an amateur porn site and I was blown away. I don’t know if I can tell you the name of the site here but let me tell you that the woman I saw was the hottest woman on earth. She’s from Hawaii. You probably know her very well. And she’s now, I guess, 60 or something years old. Her style was so awesome. She influenced us to find our look and style. I’d do everything to meet her. Anyway…DSC01658

    At the beginning, my hubby bought a lot of kinky outfits like boots to enhance our sex life and he began to call me a slut, bitch and whore when we were doing our role plays. That was strange but after a while, I discovered that when he wasn’t there I was thinking about those fuck sessions.

    So, I asked myself why guys were looking at porn so much. And I understood that they’re always looking for new excitement, probably because they think that they’ve missed something because they’re engaged, married and whatever …

    So I said: “Let’s do it this way!” And I remembered how awesome was Bettie Page the first time I saw her. So I transposed it in a real life situation easily. A new slutty attitude. From the bedroom to the boardroom. Lol!

    One day, I went to see my hubby at his office dressed like a real lady, more like a whore actually. Nylons, 5 inches heels, tight skirt, etc. Even the secretary didn’t recognize me at first. I entered the office and he was finishing a short meeting with his younger employees. I played the game, sliding smoothly my heels on the floor to get a glass of water, the way which I sat down, and I played the total slutty MILF. And when I began to play with my heels, dangling them, the guys stopped talking and began to take a glimpse at me. That was it!

    After that, it was a part of our sex life, teasing, flashing, etc. My hubby pushed me more and more in this direction. Only grab opportunities was our motto!

    We’re not into the swinger’s scene but if we had a chance to have some fun, why not? Guys wanted to flirt with me in bars? I could play with their cocks while my hubby was sitting beside me drinking; go to the restroom flashing off my tits and letting them play with it. We haven’t had a properly threesome, we were only aware of those moments to tease people and see how they would react. And we talked a lot to put things really down and clear. That’s really important. Bottom line, it definitely glued our relationship together really.

    Read Part II and find out what is Lady Classy Eve’s most memorable slutty sex experience here http://simplysxy.com/articles/2015/01/11/milfs/

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  • How My Book Came To Be

    How My Book Came To Be

    There is one thing I’ve done above all else this personal retreat, and that’s: Write!

    This week (Sept 24 to Oct 1), I am on my fourth of four personal retreats in Bangsar, Kuala Lumpur in Malaysia. The intention of my retreat was to meditate, write, read, study and do whatever I fancy – including sleep, except for seeing people.

    What I’ve Written So Far On This Trip:

    1. What I’ve learned about relationships through cats here.
    2. How I overcame my fear of cats here.
    3. How I rediscovered my love for the rain here.
    4. Reflections on Emma Watson’s speech on the F-word here.
    5. What’s in the groceries bag of an Eco-sexual here?
    6. Find out why I cried on the bus on my way up to K.L. here.
    7. Why I am on my 4th week-long retreat here.

    This is pretty amazing, if I say so myself, because it’s been four out of seven days of my retreat – and the most writing I’ve done all year!

    I’ve attained one of my intentions of writing at least one blog post a day, and I’d be attempting to contribute articles onto other platforms after today. I’m learning that writer’s flow as opposed to writer’s block can happen when all distractions such as life is eliminated! Perhaps it’s about catching the updraft!

    On My Writer’s Block

    I am a fast reader but a slow writer. This is a list of books I’ve read so far in 2014.

    I am a slow writer!

    It takes me at least an hour – often a whole evening, to write any one piece. My latest one, 9 Things I Learned About Relationships Through Cats took the whole of this afternoon. That’s about five hours, if not more! The one on hives took me more than three hours (more like five with editing too).

    I’ve discovered myself to be a major procrastinator when it comes to writing. This procrastination to writing works so well that I can accomplish thankless tasks I’ve been avoiding for months – clean out my wardrobe, change the bedsheets, reorganise my filing system (you name it!).

    When I actually sit myself down and get down to writing, it can be painful. I often feel like I am pouring my guts onto the keyboard. I don’t mean answering media questions on the top ten tips, tricks, or techniques kind-of article.

    I meant writing about matters close to my heart, saying things that actually mean something to me, and needing to be written – whether it is my soul seeking to express or to help others. That can hurt – digging up memories, bringing fro emotions, formulating words to my feelings, and giving form to thought.

    2014 09 27 20.27.32 1024x576 How My Book Came To Be This quote comes to mind, and sums up my love-hate relationship with writing:

    “Writing is easy. You only need to stare at a blank piece of paper until drops of blood form on your forehead.” – Gene Fowler

    So Why Do I Write?

    I’ve already hinted as much above. I write because I need to. It’s my soul seeking to express. It also stems from my belief that what I have to say or share will help another person or several people – when/ if the time comes.

    I recall now how many years ago when I was seeking spiritual guidance on my decision to pursue my sexological studies, I was told that I would help many people to come. And whilst I would help many through in person contact, I was destined to help many more through my writing and other forms of communication. The psychics (I went to more than one) told me that no matter what: I must write.

    So, write, I did. I had no big advertising budget, but I had a fire in my stomache burning from a passion and desire to spread the message of sex positivity. I wrote… and wrote… and wrote, especially in the first two years of starting Eros Coaching, the only sexuality and intimacy coaching company in Singapore, and still the only one of its kind. My writings appeared on as a weekly column on The Online Citizen for a year, then later PublicHouse.sg before I stopped for the past three years.

    My Journey to Becoming a Published Author

    The one-year anniversary of my first book Love, Sex and Everything In-Between will be coming up soon – October. My journey towards becoming a published author came about by a complete fluke.

    I met the publisher of Marshall Cavendish at the book launch, The Last Great Strike by a friend, Clement Mesenas late 2012. Coming out of a difficult relationship, I was at one of the lowest points of my life. I did not even approach the publisher, but left after received my autographed copy of the book and having said all the usual pleasantries.

    Few months later, an esteemed colleague of mine in the United States asked if I knew of an Asian publisher who might be interested in republishing his book within Asia. I looked up the publisher on LinkedIn, found his direct contact, and tried my luck in adding him as “friend” so as to help this colleague. I did not expect that the email response asked if I would be interested in publishing a book! Of course, it had been my dream since before I was a sexologist.

    We met for a tea end 2012, and I received confirmation that Marshall Cavendish was indeed keen to publish my first book. Through 2013, I worked with Managing Editor of Marshall Cavendish, Melvin Neo, who met with me a few times guiding me through the publishing process. We confirmed and edited my past articles which eventually went into Love, Sex and Everything In-Between. He held my hand and went above and beyond the call of duty when it came to my book. Along the way, I came to regard him as my friend.

    As it happened, the first copy of my book was in my hands on my birthday! It was a special one! More on my reaction here (scroll down)!

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    My Publishing Process

    Through 2013, well-meaning friends and counterparts asked how my book was coming along. They would talk about how lucky I was, coo about how envious they were, and lament how much they ought/ should/ would like to have a book to call their own too. I am not sure where the difficulties they keep harping about laid for me, because my difficult part had already been done – the writing.

    I don’t mean to sound arrogant or be callous about it, but I paid the price of experiencing birthing pains long before my book came into existence. My book came to be because it’s time had come, and it was meant to be born. And I am grateful to have had a smooth and painless delivery.

    Through my involvment as an associate member of Asia Professional Speakers Singapore, I have learned many good practices for not just being a speaker and trainer, but also for aspiring authors. They include:

    For me, the practices that work the best and continue to be: Meditation and Exercise. When I am strong, then everything else gets clear. You may wish to check out my second of three videos in the Jumpstart series talking about the importance of exercise for me here. 

    Let me know if you have any best practices about writing and getting a book published. I really ought be working on my second one!

    Once again, I like to invite you to view my posts:

    1. What I’ve learned about relationships through cats here.
    2. How I overcame my fear of cats here.
    3. How I rediscovered my love for the rain here.
    4. Reflections on Emma Watson’s Speech on the F-Word here.
    5. What’s in the groceries bag of an Eco-sexual here?
    6. Find out why I cried on the bus on my way up to K.L. here.
    7. Why I am on my 4th week-long retreat here.

    This article and all associated images have been republished with permission from Dr Martha Tara Lee.
    Please visit Dr Martha Tara Lee’s website to view original post and more of Dr Martha’s work.

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  • An Interview with Lee Rene by Kristin Aragon

    An Interview with Lee Rene by Kristin Aragon

    I recently connected with writer Lee Rene.  Lee Rene is the nom de plume of a Los Angeles-based author of erotic romances and New Adult novels.  Although Lee has attempted writing romances in the past, she finally found her voice in the world of erotic literature.  Lee has authored the new erotic romance – The New Orleans Hothouse, and was quite enthused to talk about her maiden voyage into erotic romance, a journey that took years.

    Kristin: Hi Lee, it’s great of you to find a moment to chat about your upcoming novel, The New Orleans Hothouse. Tell us a bit about yourself?

    Lee: I’ve been writing since I was a kid. I had a poem published in an anthology at fourteen, but though I had the knack, I didn’t have the discipline or the will it takes to become an author. Not only must a writer learn the rules of his or her craft, but writers also have to be selfish with their time. I just couldn’t do it. The muse tapped me on my shoulder in New Orleans, and I began writing in earnest, first working for a lifestyle magazine, then writing movie reviews. Fiction remained difficult and although I always wanted to write romances, they eluded me until I entered the world of erotic romance, then everything came together.

    Kristin: Romance versus erotic romance? Would you mind explaining a little about the differences?

    Lee: Erotic romance versus standard romances allows a writer to explore all elements of a romance including the carnal. I could let me hair down without censoring myself, use stories my friends had told me about their relationships and their erotic lives. Since my protagonist, Danny Rothstein, was a young guy, it allowed me to examine how men view sex as opposed to women.

    Kristin: As a person who has gotten to know you over time, I’ve learned you love to stage your novels in the 1950s. Is there a particular reasoning behind the period?

    Lee: The fifties was a turbulent time regarding sex. Feminism had emerged, women were working outside of the home, and sexual attitudes were changing. Still, the concept of sexual harassment was an alien one and girls who loved sex were still considered whores. I love New Orleans and had read a great deal about New Orleans in the 1950s when the New Orleans went through a growth spurt, and exotic dancers were the queens of the city. I threw in a bit of Mad Men and The New Orleans Hothouse was born. I have another manuscript set in the 50s New Orleans that involves gangsters and police corruption; afterward, I want to switch focus to contemporary romance.

    Kristin: You made your protagonist a young man and rather sexist from contemporary views. Tell me a little about that?

    Lee: I loved writing in the male voice. I found it freeing. Not only did it allow for variety, but I could also make the language a bit cruder than it would be from a young woman of the same period. I found it liberating to get into a man’s head, be as raunchy as I liked yet show the humanity underneath. Danny is at heart a terrific guy, but he’s been spoiled by women and never heard the word “no.”  He meets a girl who uses him for her own pleasure in the same way the way men often use women and it shocks him. Danny isn’t ready for a truly liberated woman, it is the 1950s after all, and immediately labels her a slut. Later he realizes what a fabulous girl she is and his arc as a human begins.

    Writing as a male allowed me to explore the double standard that was so prevalent during that period. I didn’t make Danny wrong for some of his views, i.e., nice girls don’t do “that”, just misguided. It was also important for me not to “slut shame” Yvette, my female character, or any of the other female characters either. I wanted them to embrace their sexuality and not be totally dependent on a man for their sexual pleasure. It’s a theme I hope to explore more fully in the future.

    Kristin: How would you compare this with other popular erotic romances?

    Lee: I really got into “pillow talk” and tried to make it as explicit as possible. Perhaps it’s been my own experience that dirty talk turns people on when they are making love. I remember a friend saying she had to have a man who “talked that talk.” Look at the success of that song, Talk Dirty to Me. People, male and female, love it.

    Kristin: I, personally, cannot think of a better place for an erotic romp, but why did you choose New Orleans?

    Lee: New Orleans is so sexy— the music, the mystery, the history. I remember staying in the Quarter one year and not being able to sleep from all the sexual activity around me. It truly is Erotic City, a dark, dangerous, and romantic place.

    Thank you, Lee, for answering some of our questions. You have given us some insight into your experience writing your novel, which is much appreciated. Good luck with sales, and I hope to hear more from you soon. The New Orleans Hothouse goes on sale December 30, 2014. ONLINE ONLY! Get your copy HERE.

    Stay tuned for an exclusive excerpt from The New Orleans Hothouse tomorrow!

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  • Dr Martha’s last video for 2014

    Dr Martha’s last video for 2014

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  • Martha’s Rain Dance – Full Version

    Martha’s Rain Dance – Full Version

    It’s Sept 29 as I write this, and I just made another video of me dancing in the rain.

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    The first one was interrupted because of not just thunder, but also lightning!

    It was an good effort for an amateur dancer like myself. I hope you recognise it’s not about the show-womanship, but the intention.

    What I really wanted to was to complete the dance – regardless of how it looked or how I looked.

    Sept 26 – Partially-completed rain dance video released.

    Sept 27 – As you would have it, it did rain the next day, but the door slammed on the camera twice. Also I didn’t like the angle of the camera.

    Sept 28 – Only day since I’ve been in Kuala Lumpur where there was no rain!

    Sept 29 – Dizzle. I waited, and waited, and could wait no more. It’s funny how this is one of the few times I wait for, will for, and pace around asking for more rain! I decided to go for it instead of problems with the tripod.

    And this is the result…

    A friend reshared this with me. Hope you love it as much as I did.

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    Check out my previous video of me doing a rain dance (which was interrupted by the lightning!). I have one of me doing the Chakra Dance here. There is actually another video of me doing an Ecstatic Dance. Check out my other blog posts here! 

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