Author: Kris Honeywell

5 Ways to Spice up Sex!
Every relationship hits that rut where sex becomes routine and you perform like you’re on autopilot. Gone is the frenetic love making that used to be where clothes would be ripped off and sex would happen spontaneously. Nowadays, you’re having sex every Sunday or, God forbid, every first Friday of the month. The opportunities are fewer and farther in between. You love your husband, boyfriend, or long-time lover and couldn’t imagine a life without this person, but the bedroom antics have gotten stale and predictable. It’s time to jazz it up, add some spice, and bring back sexy in your relationship. Follow one, or all, of the suggestions below and you’ll be glowing in no time:
1. Make homemade fun and creative coupons that can be earned and redeemed by your lover. For instance, if he does something sweet or accomplishes a task hand him a coupon that offers an, “30 minute full body massage”, “sex anywhere he wants”, or “the ultimate blowjob.” This will add spontaneity into your sex life that was previously lacking.
2. Invest in some sexy lingerie. It’s a known fact that men are visual creatures and are easily stimulated by what they see. Put your nappy sweatpants and stained college t-shirt in the hamper for the night and out of sight. Instead, couch your breasts in a lacy ensemble leaving nothing to the imagination. The element of surprise as you walk into the bedroom will add some cinnamon to your vanilla lifestyle.
3. Pick up the Kamasutra and learn some new, sexy positions to introduce into the love play. Trust me, there’s more than just your commonplace missionary, doggy style, or reverse cowgirl. I’ve tried a few and discovered new ways to climax with my partner. My personal favorite positions learned from the bible of sex is the Rowing Boat and the Star. Check it out and I guarantee it will be like having sex for the first time with your lover.
4. Introduce some adult toys. Using a dildo on yourself also works as great foreplay for all the heavy stuff as your man sits back and watches as you pleasure yourself, before he takes over. A little buzzing from a vibrator can titillate you and your man and can be used while having sex with some simulation to the clitoris.
5. The couple that porns together, stays together. Pick up a sexy adult DVD to watch with your lover. This is 110% guaranteed to spice up your sex life to another stratosphere and it’s a surefire way to get out of a rut. There is a wide selection of porn for couples, so go ahead and pick a few. You won’t regret it. The only thing you may regret is not doing this sooner.
These five easy tips will add the perfect ingredient to your stagnant love life. Whether you’re following one suggestion or several or all at one time, this will create the much needed momentum, excitement, and creativity into your bedroom.

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November 20, 2015
10 Signs of Great Sex
Every sexual encounter is different. There’s the guy you slept with that you wish you could delete from your memory bank. Everything about it was just wrong or just straight out icky for reasons that we don’t need to rehash. There’s also the one dude who was so boring in bed all you did was go through a list of chores you still needed to do after this chore was completed. Then there’s the one man you just rocked your world and made you feel like a sexual vixen, a sex aficionado, a pseudo-porn star. Here are 10 signs that show you’re having awesome sex just in case you were wondering:
1. You’re completely uninhibited and free from any reservations. You are confident with yourself, in your own skin, and you own that body like Beyonce with a pure lack of any insecurity. You’re working that booty, happily bouncing your tits and having fun with it. You feel like the sexiest woman on earth while you’re in the throes of passion, having sex with the lights on with all your imperfections (stretch marks, cellulite, pouches be damned) in sight.
2. You are open and willing to try new sexual positions. Reverse cowgirl? No problem! Saddle me up! Doggie style? Give me that bone! 69? Well, that’s my favorite number! Great sex means getting out of your comfort zone and losing up your inhibitions, not to mention how limber and bendy you get trying it all out.
3. You’re vocal about what you want or don’t want in bed. “Eat me now!” is not an unheard of phrase from you while you’re in the sack and neither is, “You want to put what where!?”, but because you’re having mind-blowing sex you may be willing to let him. Just make sure you grab the lube.
4. After sex, you text your friends with, “I’ve just had some bomb ass sex.” with a multitude of emoticons to fully convey just how good it was. You only wish you were ballsy enough to post it on social media (if only your parents weren’t your friends on Facebook), so the world would know you just got yours.
5. When you’re having great sex, let’s fact it, you walk around with a smug, shit eating grin all day long because you’re night of passion keeps replaying in your mind in a loop. So when you see someone walking around with a shit eating grin that matches yours, feel free to give ‘em a high five and a wink.
6. You’re lying in bed feeling horny, but instead of waiting for your horniness to subside you casually slip your hand down to your already moist nether region and masturbate using a vivid memory from your last ohh la la romp in the sack to pleasure yourself. It’s too hard to wait until the next time sexual encounter, so let’s daydream about the last time. It was that good.
7. You’re sweating like you just took a spin class or ran a 5K. Instead, you skipped the gym that morning and took a good 40-minute spin around his penis. A sweaty aftermath means a good enthusiastic partnership in bed.
8. You have a bird’s nest on your head. A hot passionate bout of sex normally means you’re left with a tangled mass of hair on your head from all the twisting, turning, shifting, and Cirque du Soleil acrobatics.
9. Your tongue gets serious action, too, and not during fellatio. Instead when the sexual chemistry is high, then there’s a lot of passionate kissing involved because you can’t get enough of his taste and want to devour him whole.
10. The orgasm no longer becomes the primary goal of every sexual encounter. Gasp! Stop the presses! Some may find this difficult to believe, but the bonding and intimacy with your partner is enough to make you feel complete afterwards even sans an earth shattering orgasm. Your aura will emit the I-just-had-awesome-sex illuminating glow that every woman wishes to achieve.
If you can relate to any, or all, the signs highlighted above, then this simply means the chemistry is high, the compatibility is unparalleled, and Wednesday isn’t the only hump day in your week. Enjoy this rare find because not everyone is out there having the kind of sex you are. Chances are you had to go through some major duds to finally find the firecracker you needed to ignite the sexual goddess within you. Keep it up ladies (and gents) and happy sexing!

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November 9, 2015
How to Use Sex Toys like an All-Star – No Experience Required!

Maybe a new partner brings it up in conversation, or (perhaps worse) springs a surprise on you in the middle of the hot and the heavy. Maybe you’re curious about how to bring a current sex partnership to the next level, and you think sex with toys might be just the elevator you need.

Whatever the incentive, there’s no reason you shouldn’t be able to join in the fun, and feel confident doing it. We’ll give you some basic, ahem, assisted sex education to teach you how to use the most popular sex toys online today, so the next time someone brings up sex with toys, you can really get excited.

Do Your Research

Even assuming that you’re close to a brick-and-mortar adult toy store, asking the shopgirl at the local sex toys shop exactly where to put what (and in which situation!) can be pretty embarrassing. Save yourself the trouble and research your interests, then buy sex toys online. Established sites like Adult Force One: Porn toys provide a wealth of information that will undoubtedly come in handy when you’re sitting in a hot tub and wondering if that vibrator is waterproof.

This is doubly important when you’re considering testing the limits of your new sex toy – will you need lube, an extra set of batteries, or a condom over top? Don’t risk what you don’t have to, either in wasted time or in bodily harm. Reading the descriptions and the reviews of sex toys online before your first encounters help to ensure that every experience is a fun one.

Know Thy Toy

Clit stimulators serve a different master than G-Spot stimulators. A vibrating ring will help a man get to the point, and palm-sized, squishy vibrators fit lovingly between two down and dirty bodies. When you’re confused about which of those online sex toys will make you the real-life star of the bedroom, first consider where you most keenly feel emptiness in your sex life, and then buy the toy that, well, fills the hole. 😉

Know Thyself

The best way to learn how to use a new sex toy is to try it on yourself – yes, we are officially, enthusiastically encouraging you to masturbate! See how different types of silicone feel in different places; note your special spots (left side or right?), and your preferred methods (vertical or horizontal rubbing?).

Know Thy Partner

If you know already know that your partner is thoroughly into sex with toys, it’s time to experiment with their bodies, too! If you’re not comfortable explaining that you just learned how to use sex toys by reading about differences and usages of sex toys online, feel free to pretend it’s a game of discovering your partner’s specific preferences. After all, one person’s dream of vibrating anal beads is another’s nightmare, whereas the latter might enjoy soft nipple stimulation with them.

The best advice is to go slowly, be respectful, enjoy yourself – and never shy away from reading the directions!

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October 19, 2015
5 toys to make Sex more Exciting – With your Partner!

Are you and your partner losing intimacy in the bedroom? And these sex tips aren’t ‘spicing things up’? Well, here’s a suggestion: introduce your real man to your battery operated boyfriend! What have you been waiting for?! With an array of sex toys and products out there vibrators, dildos, sleeves, and more have come a long way since the days of Dr. Granville’s crank operated “electro-mechanical vibrator” back in 1883. Now, twenty-first century gals have taken things into their own hands and beyond, but maybe it’s time we pass the torch, or at least share it, with our partners. Whether you’ve explored the galaxy of women’s sexuality alone, or with partners, we have five sex products, tools and toys ahead to send you both into cosmic orgasm together.

We-Vibe Touch

For those who don’t have a boudoir packed with XXX toys already, the We-Vibe Touch is the perfect new sex toy to bring into the bedroom with your partner. This thick slick silicone toy radiates vibrations, leaving no sensitive part untouched. The center’s shallow ice cream scoop slides perfectly along your clit, and you or your partner can up the ante by controlling the settings to bring you both to star-bursting nirvana. Use alone, for foreplay, or slide inside and try it together for pleasure all around.

Lelo: Ida

A new toy from Lelo’s much loved sex tools, the Ida is designed for perfect partnered foreplay and then some, with a g-spot targeting arm and vibrating pad. Think of it as a mechanical finger stroking inside of you with enough room to accommodate your partner’s shaft and share the fun, while the pulsating base covers your clit and entire pubic mound for even more fun. To make things even better, Ida comes with a remote so, your partner can take the reins and leave you begging for more or shivering with ecstasy.

Zini Deux

Like yin & yang, this sex tool splits into equal opposites, a convex vibrator to target your clit and a concave one to hold his testicles. Ergonomically designed to comfortably fit your hand while operating the intensity controlling side buttons, the Zini Deux can be moved anywhere along your man’s member while he returns the favor. Whoever said sharing’s no fun?

Je Joue Mimi

Don’t let it’s subtle power and simple approachable design fool you, the Je Joue Mimi will revolutionize your shared sex, or solo experience. Versatile with a rounded shape for external stimulation on anyone’s body, you can hold it between you and your partner or in the palm of your hand. Get creative.

Jimmyjane Form Two

Couples love it! And why wouldn’t they with its simple and dare I say cute design? Small, manageable and easy to grasp thanks to smooth silicone, the Jimmyjane Form Two fits perfectly on your clit while having sex so, there’s no awkward bulk between you and your partner. Enjoy the adjustable settings and go as fast or slow as you please. Warning men report giving their ladies next level orgasms with this baby in hand.

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October 5, 2015