Sexy Reads – How to make wild, passionate love to your man
Every woman makes love to her man with her heart, but just where do you learn how to do it with your mind and body too? Here is a chance to peep into the sexy world between your man’s ears, and lots of practical advice on what to do to drive him wild. Now you can be the most skilful lover he has ever experienced…
Men Looking at Women…
What do men think looks sexy?
People as different as men and women are bound to have different ideas about what looks sexy. Men are believed to take in a whole-body image of a woman when they first see her. If she is interesting, they register an image of her sexual features – legs, butt, breasts – and then add hair and face. Interestingly, men find it difficult to recall details of what she was wearing or the color of her eyes. They retain a strong opinion of her attractiveness but often cannot tell you much beyond whether she was wearing a skirt or pants. It is as if they are more interested in the effect of her presentation than the details of the presentation itself. A woman seeing the same person is much more likely to be able to recall what she was wearing, perhaps because her mind is unclouded by the question of sexual attractiveness.
It follows that subtlety is probably wasted on men; it will be only the obvious that stays in their minds. There is not much point worrying about the color balance of the chiffon scarf you have wound about your neck to highlight your new blouse. He might remember that you had something around your neck but he will certainly recall that the cold had made your nipples stick out like thumbs.
Women look in acid scorn at the girl at the party who has the men hanging around her like dogs at a barbecue. She is dressed just like a slut, her skirt is too short, her breasts are halfway out of her blouse, and those heels are ridiculous. But hey, she is not sitting at home on Saturday night waiting for the phone to ring. She must be doing something right.
Men in bed dream about sex. Their minds are filled not with pictures of fashion statements but erotic images of women. Of succulent thighs, rounded hips, soft and swinging breasts, heavy feminine bottoms. And that is what they find sexy when they are awake as well.
Don’t Men care about Personality?
Nope. Not at first sight. An empty-headed bimbo will get as much attention as you do. Or probably more, because she survives by getting men to take care of her and she has had a lifetime of practice. But don’t be depressed; it doesn’t take much of a personality to catch a man but you will need one to keep him.
In the meantime, you must concentrate on understanding what men find sexy, so watch the bimbos and learn. It should not be too difficult. After all, you are smarter than they are, aren’t you?
Men are so Childish!
Well, yes, I can see why you might say that, but you would be wrong. Let me give you two reasons. Firstly, heterosexual men make up nearly half of the population. If they all have similar reactions to women (and they do, believe me) then you cannot call the reactions childish. They are part of the fundamental male spirit.
The second reason is that some of the very same men have painted masterpieces, created sublime music, ruled empires and written literature that endures for centuries. Nearer to home you have devoted fathers, solid carers and servers of the community, and quiet gardeners. Inside all of them, sometimes open for view and sometimes discretely hidden, is the same old Adam who would just love to reach out and caress the waitress’s bottom. It is simply the nature of the beast. You do not have to like the situation, just understand how it works.
Oh, and if you are ever feeling superior about it, run down to the newsagents or supermarket check-out and buy a gossip magazine or a Mills & Boon novel. Who looks shallow and childish now?
Are you a Sex Object?
Of course you are. You are a woman, so it follows that you are a sex object. In male eyes there are no alternative positions. The only question is how successful you are at it (in his eyes). Again, you do not have to like the situation but you will have to live it.
I hope you do not feel terrible and trapped in a world you cannot change. The best response is to quietly take control of your bit of it and even out the playing field. Perhaps it will help to think of the pig-board.
Have you ever used a pig-board? Do you even know what one is? Well, the story goes like this. If you ever meet a pig face to face, you will see a dense mass of muscle on four legs. Probably not much over knee-high but as heavy as you are. This pork bulldozer is controlled by a surprisingly intelligent brain behind those piggy eyes. You will realize in an instant that if this pig wants to walk right through you, there will be nothing you can do to prevent it. So how are you going to control him? Negotiate? Tell him that his piggy way of looking at you is out-dated and that his worldview must change? Not a chance. Instead you use a pig-board.
A pig-board is a rectangle of light ply or aluminium with a handhold cut into the centre of the top edge. It is wide enough to reach across the fenced races you find in stockyards and pig farms, and high enough that the pig cannot see over it. So if you want to close off a race and divert the pig into a neighbouring pen, you merely hold the pig-board in front of your trembling knees and close off the pig’s view of the open race behind you. He will then trot sweetly into the pen you have opened for him, instead of bowling you over and leaving hoof-prints over you and your little piece of ply. Magic!
Every species of animal has blind spots and the pig-board exploits the pig’s natural instincts. You have a pretty good idea of what your man’s natural instincts are concerning women; you just have to use your knowledge to get an even break.
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