I, as most people viewed this world as a negative, being that I went to college for Criminal Justice/Psychology. It took me getting into the world of escorting to change my views on the industry. How I got into this business was not outta of jaded way, but I’ll save the whole story for once we meet.
I started going to dinner with men visiting Las Vegas and spending one night stands with them. Yes they paid me, but I was serial dating in my head. But once I fully embraced escorting as job, my life changed for better. I then built my website, along with a great reputation with reviews and regulars. Escorting can become a great avenue for women to be financially independent.
It is not all roses and champagne so please do your research. I made many mistakes in the beginning but I learned my lessons the hard way through trial and error. If you ever think about becoming an escort, do your research first, this lifestyle is not for the faint of heart.
Range Of Dating Options Available
When someone books an escort, they have several options from the length and time they want to spend with her. Usually the shortest time is an hour and the longest, well that could range from a week, a month or a year. So the much longer dates sometimes referred to are Sugar Baby arrangements but they are still the same thing, just different ways to approach sex work. An hour is very short and to the point.
The most common length of a date with an escort would be the dinner date. Which can range from 3-4 hrs and usually, half the time is spent socializing in public at dinner or a show. The escort will tell her preferences for a date, and she will list it on her website.
Why Extended Dates Are Better For Men
Now, my favorite dates are the extended dates or overnight dates. I have been on dates from 12hrs to two weeks long. The reason I love the extended dates is because I can really commit to the girlfriend experience and really bond with someone. You have to understand why men would choose an escort over just going out and getting a real world girlfriend. Because they can’t or choose not too.
I have seen men who socially could not hold a conversation with women hire me and after several years of dating me, build the confidence to get a real girlfriend. I have clients who were so burnt by women, through divorce, child custody issues, cheating and down right hurting and abusing them, that they are done with dating. Men who are done dating still need to feel connected to someone. This “Me Too” movement has driven more men to escorts, more than ever before. Instead of hitting on your assistant, hire an escort to play that role in your life.
Now you understand the why, now to understand the what, extended dates truly are – connection. When someone books an extended date, they are looking for a connection to another human soul. They want to feel appreciated, admired, loved, and cared for by someone. We hold hands, hug and kiss. We get know each other. I share my soul with them in hopes they can feel comfortable to do the same with me.
So when you book an extended date, try to find out what she likes – food, places to travel too etc
Second you will have to verify your real identity for an extended date with an escort. A lady will only book with you if she feels comfortable spending an extended date with you. For example, traveling to places for long periods of time with anyone, you need to feel safe and comfortable. Some girls say they need a separate room when you travel together, check their websites or email them for requirements. I usually prefer to stay with the client to help build stronger bonds that come from when you sleep next to someone.
Finally, once you’re on your date, whether it’s on Cruise Ship, Hawaii or just in a hotel in your city, remember to enjoy yourself. She should arrive with an overnight bag or suitcase. If you want her to bring anything, make sure you request this beforehand. Also, if you want her to have something but she doesn’t have it, buy it for her. This date should be about exploring new desires, new places, new people etc…But remember, we all know why we are here in the first place. The intimacy.
It will NOT be 24/7 bedroom romps, this is not what these dates are for! I m not saying you won’t have a blast, but it will not be in bed for two weeks straight if that’s what your thinking. Again, it’s building a connection for another human being and friendship that will reward both parties in end. Just relax and enjoy the ride, because when you book the right person for you, the outside world just got a little sweeter.
How To Impress Me
To impress me, just read my website and understand my rules, my likes and dislikes. Maybe send me a little gift before our date or when we meet. I expect everyone to be gentlemen or ladies when I see you. (I see single ladies too). I just want to be treated as you would want to be treated and kindness goes a long way.
Hazel Hayes Vip – Your Personal Private Assistant helping people get more outta their lives.
Challenging people out of their comfort levels, helping them in fun way to experience new things. Free to take off to some distant destinations at your whim…and living life like, everyone I meet will be great benefit to my life, as I WILL be to them. Looking forward to our future rendezvous.
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