For us we enjoy swinging, maybe not the title so much as it seems to be a bit outdated. It is amazing to meet so many people that share our non-judgmental thought process. Swinging has brought us closer together and taught us how to communicate effectively in all aspects of our lives.
How We Got Into Swinging
Jen had started questioning her thoughts towards women, after being raised to believe it was taboo to have an attraction towards the same sex. So we ventured out to a swingers club for their Bi-girl night. A few of the ladies asked if they could help her out and see if this was for her. This was the night she realized that she was definitely Bi.
How Swinging Enhances Our Sex Lives
We love the people and the relationships that we gain from it. We love the fact that it has taught us to communicate in ways we never thought we could. Through this new level of communication it has allowed us to try new things sexually, which has totally enhanced our sex lives.
One Common Swinging Myth
Swinging does not mean it’s a giant orgy, or that people are just running around naked touching you.
Tips For Couples To Get Into Swinging
Communication is the key here, make sure to discuss any boundaries before and understand that at any point you can say no. For us we found a couple that basically help guide us, answered questions and help us learn the ropes.
Ben and Jen Escapades – We are Ben and Jen Escapades, we have been married for 27 years and in the lifestyle for around 7 years. We host a lifestyle podcast about our escapades in the swinging lifestyle!
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