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What It’s Like To Be A Swinger

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What It’s Like To Be A Swinger

I think swinging can be a great thing, if the privilege is not abused. It is not something to be taken lightly and should be talked about extensively by both parties involved. You can not be a jealous person and you have to trust your partner 100%. Make sure that your rules, if you have any, are understood and agreed upon.

Now that the not fun stuff is out of the way, swinging can be fun and a way to let loose. Cheating can be an big issue in many relationships and is one of the leading causes of divorce. I think swinging can help with that, why cheat if you don’t have to? Makes sense I think. It can also help with body image. A lot of women, in particular, struggle with their body image. Most swingers are very accepting and friendly people.

How I Got Into Swinging

Many years ago I dated someone who told me they did not care if I were to have sex with others. He told me this after he asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him I needed variety and I didn’t want to cheat on anyone. He was not into it for himself but was totally cool with me having sex with others. He didn’t care, who, when, where and how many different people I was with. Fast forward, we broke up and everyone I met after him was not into it at all, yet some ended up cheating. That made no sense, like I said above, why cheat when you don’t have to.

I ended up just basically fantasizing about it after that. I met my fiancé a few years ago and he was into it and said he wanted to do it but could not find anyone else who was into it. So we have been into the lifestyle pretty much since the start of our relationship. Our rules we made in the beginning have since been relaxed a bit. We were told that would probably happen and it did.

How Popular Is Swinging?

I think it has always been pretty popular but not as accepted as it is today. Don’t get me wrong, we still have a long way to go, but it is more accepted now than ever before, However, it does seem to be more popular in the past couple of years, as many so called alternative lifestyles have.

Ways To Explore The Swinging Lifestyle

Do your research. Talk to others in the lifestyle. Visit a swingers club. You do not have to do anything, just go and watch, most swingers do not care. Speak to people there, most are very open and honest will answer any questions you have. It is a big decision so be as informed as you can.

Research! Only do what you are comfortable with, never be scared to say no. If someone is not respecting you, most clubs are very good at taking care of things and kicking people out if need be. Join swinger friendly websites. We joined SLS and met a really nice couple who helped us transition into the lifestyle quite a bit, they were also our first swap.

What You Need To Prepare Before Swinging

Like I said above, just know what you are getting into. That is the most important. Research, research, research. Be ready to watch your partner with others. If you don’t think you can watch then you don’t have to, you can always play in separate rooms. Be ready to for a lot of feelings that you may have never experienced before.

If you go to a club, you will probably see lots of other people having sex or being sexual and at the very least, naked. If you are not used to that, it can be quite a bit to take in at first. Just keep an open mind no matter how you are feeling. Once the shock is gone, you will see that it can be a very hot and sexy time. Last, but certainly not least, make sure others are aware of your rules and boundaries.

Use protection and get tested!!!!!


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Educated and smart Milf, BBW, Bi-sexual swinger with pink hair! Sarcastic and sweet. Still not sure if I like all the attention I get, but I do secretly loving showing it all off! Please come and check me out.

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