Sex, in my opinion starts before physical contact ever even ensues. It is a passionate exchange between two consenting adults! Sex no matter who is committing the act, is most always an act of passion. The beauty in that speaks volumes! When two people set their sights on each other, something positively magical happens in both of them. Indulging in foreplay is sometimes the kickstart to a raunchy evening, and in the same breath skipping the rubbing and touching can lead to a sensual, lasting stroke that only a passionate lover can deliver. Sex is an event, an act all on its own. For many of us, it is the only time we are able to truly release.
What I Look For In A Partner
By far the best way to get me going is an intelligent conversation! Like most women, sexual arousal begins before physical contact. The most attractive quality I seek in a sexual partner is the ability to have a conversation. You find in this age of technology that it is becoming a rare gem to have someone’s full attention. Even at the dinner table, families and partners are so disconnected with each other! It was always a wonder to me how couples keep their sexual lives in tact, when they hardly ever even speak to each other?
Personal Hygiene Is Crucial!
As any adult, I would expect for a man to be clean kept. After good conversation, the best thing you can do to arouse me is smell wonderful! Luckily for me I have not had many experiences with men who did not understand the importance of hygiene as an adult, although there have been one or two times when I felt a shower was mandatory for the guy…but just not my shower, ya know?
Mood Killers That Turn Me Off
Being outright rude and/or arrogant! One thing I cannot stand is a pompous, egotistical idiot in my face having the NERVE to insinuate any sort of sexual relations with me. I truly cannot comprehend how any man thinks that having a jack*ss attitude is going to get him laid.
Mistakes Men Make When Having Sex
Probably the biggest mistake is not taking the time to learn her needs, or even pay attention to them. Men have a funny way of being selfish lovers a lot of the time. I know for me, I am keen on body language. If my partner is not really enjoying what’s going on at the moment, I can usually pick up on that by their body language. It is a huge mistake not tuning into your partners body language! In turn, you will never truly know if they were satisfied. And they probably weren’t.
After Sex Etiquette
One thing I have always been fond of is when my partner is not hasty to get up and wash off the pheromones of our sex. It might just be me being over sensitive, but I enjoy basking in the glory of what we just did.
Trina Redd – Hi, I’m Trina. An upscale companion, who steps into her own Queen Domme from time to time, who adores being a spoiled sugar baby! Be prepared to be totally uninhibited, and experience bliss you have only fantasized about.
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Upcoming Tours: I will be embarking on an extended tour to Chicago, Illinois starting March 22,2018! Pre-booking is recommended. I will be offering a discrete and elegant location to host new loves, as well as traveling the city to meet. I encourage dinner dates, indulgence of the fine arts and anything that involves three 😉 Providers are also welcome to contact me to meet up and introduce ourselves, I love meeting my sisters!
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