Gosh! What don’t I like about masturbation? I find that I’m almost always a bit horny so masturbation is a pretty common pastime for me. The fact that masturbation can help me in so many different ways is one of my favorite aspects of masturbation. It’s a great way to get relief from my sexual frustrations or to help me de-stress from a long day. Though I may enjoy masturbating in private, it just gets more enjoyable with an audience! ;P
Misconceptions About Female Masturbation
There are so many misconceptions about masturbation, but there are 3 main ones about female masturbation that bother me the most.
Misconception 1: Women don’t masturbate.
Whenever I find myself talking about female masturbation with men, I usually get the response, “Wait, women masturbate?” and I always reply with a resounding YES. Of course women masturbate, we may not do it as often as guys but oh boy does it happen!
Misconception 2: Women need a huge set up (candles, bubble bath, music, and wine).
Sure sometimes women want to be pampered and sometimes it takes a nice relaxing mood to get in the mood… but that doesn’t mean women need it every single time. Sometimes we just sit there in our desk chairs with our hands down our pants trying to conceal our moans from the people right outside. Mondays can be stressful, y’know?
Misconception 3: Women don’t watch porn.
Boy oh boy is this one off the mark. Some women do great using their imaginations, I’m sure some men do too, but others may need a bit of help. Whether it’s a dirty magazine, a sweet romantic sex scene, or a raunchy porno – women are looking at porn too when they want to get off.
The list could go on and on, but really when it comes down to it, female masturbation is something that happens and it’s not all rainbows and butterflies. It can be a naughty little release for when we’re feeling particularly horny or stressed out, or hell even when we’re just a bit bored!
How Often I Masturbate
When I first found porn, I also discovered how amazing masturbating can be, and I haven’t stopped since. I probably masturbate at least 3 times a week. Sometimes for a few minutes just to get the tingle and rush of being stimulated and other times I go all out for 20-30 minutes reaching multiple climaxes.
Sometimes all it takes is a nice breeze when I’m going commando in a cute new skirt or a sale on my favorite salty snacks (Sun Chips, yum!). Other times it takes a bit more. A particularly attractive man (or woman) can do the trick, but it’s not all about the looks. The idea of having my body caressed or my ear nibbled gets me going when I’m feeling delicate, but a good choking and spanking are what I’m looking for when I’m naughty.
I love the idea of having a partner watch me masturbate, but one of my biggest turn ons is knowing that someone else is getting off on something I’ve done. Whether that’s the smell of my used panties or watching me touch myself, it’s a great feeling. All this talk about turn ons is getting me going (hehe)..
My Masturbation Style
I have a pretty calm routine when I’m just trying to get some quick release – clitoral stimulation with a bit of penetration. When I’m really horny though is when I start experimenting. I have a decent sized naughty toy box in my closet where I keep all my sex toys. Although it is a limited collection (hopefully this will change soon), it does the trick. Toys aren’t the only way I experiment either. I’m a bit of an exhibitionist so I’ve masturbated in public areas quite a few times. Classrooms, park benches, movie theatres, house parties – very few areas are off limits to me. To add to the fun I even filmed my most recent naughty excursion at a local coffee shop!
What Goes Through My Mind When Masturbating
Usually I imagine what it’d feel like to have certain things (either from porn or my thoughts) to be done to me. I like to focus on what each action would feel like and what my partner would feel like if I weren’t going solo. Sometimes though I find myself getting distracted and thinking about errands that need to be run later in the day!
Maria – I’m a starving college student working my way to a career. I first heard about selling used panties in high school but was too young and shy to do something like that. After a few years in college I learned more about myself and my sexuality and finally decided to try it out. I’ve only been doing it for a few months but I’m in love with it! I love the idea of fulfilling someone else’s fantasies and the extra cash is definitely a bonus. Just the idea of someone else enjoying my scent as I do is a huge turn on.
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