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  • How To Become Big In Porn

    How To Become Big In Porn

    I love what I do and I love creating scenes for consumers of porn to explore their sexuality or simply get some kind of release. A lot of people can’t have sex for whatever reason, or don’t feel fully comfortable expressing their sexual fantasies to their partners, so I feel like porn can really help people with that.

    Pros & Cons Of Being A Porn Star

    I’d say the pros would be financial freedom, getting paid to have sex on camera is awesome (haha), getting to express myself in acting roles in adult feature films, getting to meet fans at the convention and attend the award shows to be recognized for all your hard work at the end of the year, etc.

    The cons would probably be crazed fans, and the scrutiny that adult performers can face from the outside world, which is crazy, but all you can do is deal with it and try to change the stigma/people’s thoughts on porn and the people that work in the industry.

    How I Started Into Porn

    I actually found my old agent on Craigslist, which I wouldn’t recommend doing. Haha. I was lucky not to end up on 48 hours later. Over two years later though, I can say I’m doing great. If you’re a female and want to get started in the industry, I would HIGHLY recommend reaching out to porn girls on Twitter. Ask them what their experience is with their agents and porn and how much their lives have changed/how they like it. Finding a good agent is really important, several of them are all too excited to add you to the roster and make money off of you, but I cannot stress how important it is to find an agent that is the best fit for you.

    And don’t sign anything longer than a year contract, if you even sign one at all. And if you DO, take pictures of it with your phone! That way you can always have the details of your contract. If you’re a male who wishes to get into the porn industry, I’d suggest contacting an agent then moving to LA or Miami if they say that they can get you work.

    Challenges I Faced

    I was faced with a lot of competition, getting my name out there, gaining traction in the industry, gaining a following, etc.

    Standing Out From The Competition

    I work really hard on my appearance, performance during the scene, and acting. I love acting and I always make sure to give 110% on set and check myself to have a stellar attitude, no matter what may be going on in my personal life. It did take some time, but I feel like that’s the standard, no matter what industry you’re in.

    Whitney Wright – Los Angeles based adult performer and actress.

    Follow Whitney Wright on

    Instagram: @whitneywrightxo

    Twitter: @whitneywrightx

    Websites: fancentro.com/whitneywright

    Photos courtesy of Whitney Wright

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  • Delaware Model, Taylor Christine

    Delaware Model, Taylor Christine

    It’s a pleasure to be featured. My name is Taylor Christine, I am 22 years old. I live in a small town in Delaware, very close to the beach!

    How did you get started into modeling?

    Well, I had never really thought about modeling until I was approached by a Delaware photographer. He loved my look and wanted to set something up. I actually cancelled on him two, maybe three times, before I had actually shown up. I would like to note that I am not normally a flake, but I was definitely nervous. After my first shoot, I realized how much I love being infront of the camera. So that definitely got the ball rolling.

    What do you love most about modeling?

    My favorite thing about modeling is the people I’ve met because of it. Some of my favorite people I’ve met while working. Traveling is a close second, I want to see the world.

    Do you have a beauty regime to look so beautiful?

    Yes and no. My beautiful mother blessed me with clear skin and pretty hair. I still definitely eat healthy, drink a lot of water, wash my face twice a day, never sleep with make up on.. .I also use witch hazel, weekly facials, and 24k bee venom. It’s never too early to start caring for your skin!

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    Someone once told me that I brightened up the entire room the second I entered it. That’s definitely up there on the list.

    If you could learn anything in this world, what will it be?

    I want to learn as many languages as possible. I love to talk to people so I don’t want there to ever be any sort of barrier.

    How will you describe an ideal date?

    As for dates, less is more. An ideal date for me is a cruise to the beach on a beautiful day. Windows down, volume up. Blasting metal and eating pizza!

    What is a funny or lame attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    The lamest thing is when a guy flashes his money my way to get my attention. I am very unlikely to give someone my time and attention if they’re starting off flashing wads of cash.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Taylor. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Yeah, no problem! Sexy, to me, is simply a state of mind. Sexy is a good level of confidence.

    Follow the beautiful Taylor Christine on:

    Instagram: www.instagram.com/tayylorchristinee

    Patreon: www.patreon.com/taylorchristine

    Images from David Heitur (www.instagram.com/davidheitur)

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  • What To Know About Gravure & Gravure Models

    What To Know About Gravure & Gravure Models

    Gravure modeling in Japan is akin to glamour modeling and pin-up modeling from print’s days of yore. Print media is chugging along in Japan, from things like Weekly Shonen Jump, a comic compilation magazine, to Flash Magazine, a softcore glamour magazine, available in most convenient stores. Most of these magazines have at least one full color spread, between 3 and 10 pages of adorable, whimsical, or playful pin-ups to help sell copies. Whether you love it or hate it, it’s all over the place.

    “グラビア” or Gravure is a Japanese Wasei-eigo (or Japanese-use-english, as the word comes from no english word despite sounding english) word that references rotogravure. Rotogravure is a printing style that was popular for making newspapers and magazine for a time. It is still used commercially for postcards and such, but the word gravure is referencing the method in which the photos of these models would be distributed, via magazine. These days gravure modeling has has become a style, disconnected from magazines specifically as models appear in photo books, magazines, dvds and on blogs. The term gravure now has come to mean the playful, innocent style of modeling that has become popular in Japan.

    A gravure model is sexy, but not in a way that confronts the viewer or speaks of an aggressive attitude. Instead of the image reaching out to the viewer, it gives a feeling of innocence and intimacy that invites you in. It’s more soft spoken and less gratuitous than Western pin-up and softcore like Playboy or Penthouse. Gravure models are not often nude, in fact many are fully clothed, as genitals are always censored in Japanese print and digital media. It’s meant to be easy on your eyes. More attention is given to creativity in poses and atmosphere.

    This is gravure.

    Popularity Of Gravure

    It’s literally all over the place, in magazines, in commercials, on advertisements hanging from the ceiling in trains. Its popularity is spoken for. But why? I think it comes down to the old adage: sex sells. And with gravure, it’s packaged in a gentle, inobtrusive style.

    Misconceptions About Gravure

    I think it’s probably the same with all forms of sensual or erotic art, there’s the misconception that the model and the artist are some how intimately involved. That the model and artist sleep with each other.  I would say that this is the most annoying misconception I’ve personally run into. We are all working professionals with personal lives completely separate from art-making. For anyone who is serious about their craft, this misconception is simply not true. Artists and models do not get physically involved. For professional artists, this kind of misconception can be damaging to our public images. Especially since I’ve heard about photographers taking advantage of young or inexperienced models, forcing them to do inappropriate acts.  In the industry, we call these people “a guy with a camera”.  Because they are simply that, a guy (most often) trying to pick up a girl.

    I would say that the most important piece of advice I can give to aspiring models is to always ask for a business card. If a guy on the street tries to pick you up for a photo shoot, always ask for a business card and check their social media right there. If they don’t have a website, don’t shoot with them. And always ask if you can bring a friend. If the “photographer” seems wary about having a third party at the shoot, definitely don’t shoot with them.

    Prepartion For A Gravure Photoshoot

    Aside from finding a model, making a theme and deciding wardrobe and getting your kit ready, finding a location is paramount. You can’t just shoot in the street! The most common location to use, I would say even more common than studios, is love hotels. Proper studios aren’t often furnished and, at least in Tokyo, are expensive. One hour in a studio could cost you 5,000円 ($50), whereas three hours in a fully furnished love hotel will cost you the same. I can have up to 6 photo shoots a month, so for cost efficiency’s sake, I usually use love hotels. Some of them are decked out in crazy themes or designs, complete with suits of colored lights and I’ve even heard that they have a hotel with a  train car for a room in Osaka.

    So the first thing I do is decide what size room I want to use for a shoot. Shinjuku has big rooms but nothing too exciting, Shibuya has small rooms but more variety.

    On set, the next most important thing for me is to relax and have fun. Make tea and chat while I set up. If it’s my first shoot with a new model it’s important to help them relax, so I usually play the model’s favorite music. I think it’s important to get to know the model, it helps me find the best way to make their portrait.

    Are You Considered A Gravure Photographer?

    I wouldn’t say that I’m a Gravure photographer; I’d say what I make often tends more towards fine art erotica. However I do like to use some of the Gravure motifs, such as gravure style posing and gentle sensuality. The central theme of my work is to bridge the gap between viewer and subject, so I would say that Gravure’s inviting themes influence my work. But where my work diverges from Gravure is in my end goal. Gravure is primarily a commercial style, whereas I am working to capture the soul of the moment with my images, so I’m not concerned with the commercial aspects of image-making.

    My Favorite Gravure Shoot Experiences

    I would say that one of my favorite experiences on a Gravure style shoot was with Mia Valentine (@miav.me on Instagram). We connected on social media and set up a shoot  at lightning speed as she was only visiting Tokyo. We settled on shooting in Shibuya’s Dogenza, a Love Hotel Alley. We searched high and low for the famous love hotel, Beat Wave, only to find it sequestered behind residences and surrounded by a construction team repairing the street.

    After sneaking through the construction and into the building we found out that the hotel was under new ownership and the rooms were nothing close to the stylish, music themed rooms that were espoused on the many blogs that mentioned the hotel. We decided “fuck it” and picked a room and made some awesome pictures anyway. We had a blast all in all and the experience was a learning lesson in Tokyo’s ever-changing landscape.

    Adam Landis – A fine art erotica photographer living in Saitama, Japan.

    Follow Adam Landis on

    Main Instagram: @art_landis

    Black & White Instagram: @pleasant_easeful_boi

    Twitter: @art_landis

    Vero: art_landis

    Email: contact.art.landis@gmail.com

    I can’t exactly say what, but I have big plans for the new year. Please continue to follow my social media for updates!

    Photos courtesy of Adam Landis

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  • Japanese Kinbaku Model & Performer Aimi

    Japanese Kinbaku Model & Performer Aimi

    Thank you for giving me the opportunity to talk. Thank you for your interest. My base of activity is Japan. I do not belong to a specific office, I am active in freelance. I usually do expression activities focusing on models of swimwear and lingerie.

    How did you get started as a model?

    I opened a Twitter account and started by uploading photos taken with my smartphone.

    What do you love about shibari and kinbaku?

    Shibari is a traditional Japanese technology. I feel charmed in the history. Also, I consider tying as an art including erotic parts. As a kinbaku model, I feel that it is attractive to be able to express myself as part of the beautiful world that a kinbaku creates (緊縛師) through a tie.

    How do you prepare for a shibari photoshoot?

    Prepare costumes and make makeup according to the theme of the photo. Stretch and soften your body for difficult poses.

    Which is the sexiest item in your wardrobe?

    Lingerie and red lipstick from “Aubade”.

    (“Aubade” is a French underwear manufacturer.)

    Where can we catch you partying on weekends?

    I go to the store where my friend stays. If you strongly desire, you will meet me.

    If you could learn anything in this world, what will it be?

    I will learn the meaning and value that I live in this world.

    Do you get guys approaching you often to get to know you?

    Start by getting to know your existence. I will study his ideals and strive to get closer to it.

    It is a pleasure to feature you Aimi. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    “Sexy” is a weapon that can be worn in the process of living

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    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aimi_feti/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/aimi_feti

    Official Site: https://www.aimi-feti.com/

    Contact: info@aimi-feti.com

    New Gravure DVD released on May 20 (http://www.i-one-net.com/item/1400)

    Images from Aimi

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  • How The Adult Industry Has Changed In The Last 15 Years

    How The Adult Industry Has Changed In The Last 15 Years

    I support sex workers of all types and I think it is valid, important work.  I think pornography is an important medium that benefits a lot of people physically, mentally, and emotionally.

    Challenges Facing New Adult Stars Today

    When I first started out about nine and a half years ago, it was still possible to make a complete living just shooting scenes for other companies without the necessity of producing your own content for clips stores, a website, and the various apps that allow fans to subscribe directly to performers’ profiles. The rates for scenes has decreased since I started and the requisite skill sets to thrive as a performer have expanded.

    The upside to this is that today’s adult performer is far more industrious and typically has knowledge and practice in many parts of production: shooting, lighting, editing, writing, etc. They are brand managers, marketers, salespeople, and they frequently collaborate with their peers to generate content. They have more control over their image, own their own content, and have more contact with their fanbase.

    Things That Never Change About The Industry

    There will always be people who love you and people who hate you, simply because of the work you’ve chosen for yourself. There will be people who adore you so much that they disregard the boundaries you set up to protect yourself. There will be people who hate the concept of pornography so much that they deny your agency and vilify you; sometimes painting you as a monster who is destroying society one innocent mind at a time, other times projecting victimhood on you and insisting that you must be rescued.

    There will always be new stars coming in and established stars stepping down. There are people turning 18 every day and deciding to throw their hat into the ring of adult stardom. It’s important that we support each other and help guide new performers through their first steps into the industry. Sometimes, other performers are our only line of support because we understand the unique challenges we all face.

    How To Stand Out As A Performer

    There is no trick to standing out and being popular or successful. Sometimes you can try your hardest and still not succeed. But I think if you find the things that are unique about yourself, the things your fans pick up on and cherish you for, and focus on those aspects, you’ll be more likely to thrive in this industry. The divide between fans and adult stars is smaller now than it has been in the past. Listen to them, be as authentic as you can or care to be, and find your niche.

    I think a mistake some make is doing scenes that they don’t enjoy or actively dislike because they want to keep up with other performers. You don’t have to accept scenes that make you uncomfortable just because that’s what’s offered to you. Shoot the content you want to shoot, even if you produce it yourself. When you own your own content, you can profit off of it in perpetuity.

    How The Industry Will Change With Technology

    As a pioneer in the VR porn space, I definitely think that Virtual Reality is going to have a great impact on porn consumption. As VR adoption increases and the ability to create compelling, well produced content becomes more accessible, I think we will see people retreating to virtual spaces to enjoy content more and more.

    The PVR Iris headset is a huge step forward in this regard: an affordable standalone headset that is incredibly high quality, easy to use, and specialized for adult content. I think it tackles the big barriers for entry  we’ve seen with VR in the past: it doesn’t require a computer with an expensive graphics card or a cell phone to operate it, it makes the process of watching VR porn incredibly easy, and it’s discreet.

    I truly think that this headset and PVR’s K1Pro camera for shooting VR video will help advance the production and consumption of VR porn.

    Ela Darling – An adult film performer and a pioneer in both porn and live broadcasting in Virtual Reality. As the cofounder of the first ever live webcam platform in VR, she is known as the world’s first VR camgirl and has spoken at conferences all over the world about her work, including a TEDx talk. She is currently the Chief Marketing Officer of PVR.fun, a VR technology company in the adult industry.

    Follow Eva Darling on

    Instagram: @eladarling

    Twitter: @eladarling

    Website: www.pvr.fun and www.pvrmall.com

    Photos courtesy of Ela Darling

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  • French Alternative Model Louise Ethel

    French Alternative Model Louise Ethel

    Hi ! I’m Louise, I’m 30 and I live in Lyon, France. I’m a teacher, writer and an alternative model since nearly 4 years.

    What is your fashion style like?

    I like to mix style when I dress! I never wear pants, I don’t like that, but can’t go out without makeup! I love the retro pinup style, I like to be classy too, but above all sexy and original. I buy all of my clothes in UK or US, French style is too boring sometimes but you have some crazy clothes!

    Do you have any hobbies or interests?

    My main hobbies are reading, I love old classics but also thrillers or horror books. I like to cook also and I love to adorn my flat! I must confess I’m a geek too. I love to play, now I’m on my retro gaming period, all about PS1, Super Nintendo and Game Boy 🙂

    How do you like to spend your weekends?

    I like to have calm weekends as weeks are quite noisy (yes, kids…). My favorite weekends start with a day of shopping after a long night and a Sunday with a hot bath, a good book and a cup of tea! If I can order sushis, and play my video games all night it’s the best weekend ever for me!

    If you could learn anything in this world, what will it be?

    If I could learn anything I want? I’d love to be able to speak all the languages of the world… I love to learn foreign languages but it takes time!

    What is the best compliment you have received?

    The best compliment I got is that I’m a good person and help people getting better with my pics and words. It’s awesome…

    Which flavor best describes you?

    If I had to chose a flavor to describe me, I’d chose a mix of rose and orange, simple and sweet.

    What turns you off on a date?

    On a date I have several things that turns me off, like vulgarity. I like honesty, but I think everyone deserves to be respected! It’s also important to me to see that my date made some efforts to come, like being dressed up, as I’m the kind of girl who tries about ten outfits before going out with the first one LOL.

    Last thing but not least, I don’t really care what people look like physically, I don’t mind a bit of belly, or bald man (which I think is sexy :D), or whatever, the kinky factor in fact is the conversation, I fall for a brain not a body!

    I also love to see interest in the eyes; eyes mean a lot of things to me.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Louise. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Finally, for me sexy is above all in the head, if you don’t feel comfortable with yourself, you can be the sexiest lingerie model ever, you won’t feel like you are. Sexy is not a question of boobs, naked or else, I just have to feel happy, comfident, and can feel sexy, desired, in a simple top with a skirt… When I shoot, if poses and outfits fits me well, then, I’ll be sexy! Men looking at me and writing to me also helps for confidence, for sure.

    Follow the beautiful Louise Ethel on:

    Instagram: @louiseethelsgh

    On 500px: https://500px.com/louiseethel

    And on Suicide Girls: https://www.suicidegirls.com/members/louiseethel/

    I have shootings to come, I work hard for Suicide Girls and hope I’ll be able to show you soon some pics of the amazing urbex project I’m preparing!

    Images from Louise Ethel

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  • How To Have Safe & Enjoyable Anal Sex

    How To Have Safe & Enjoyable Anal Sex

    It has been said that anal is the new oral as more and more people are starting to give it a try and I think that this is fabulous. One of the great things about anal is everyone has an ass so no matter your gender identity or sexuality, you can enjoy the pleasure of anal. Anal is something that I really enjoy for many reasons, other than the fact that it’s fun!

    For me and my partner, anal is something we can both enjoy together no matter who’s on the giving end and who’s on the receiving. It’s something different that we can do to keep things different and interesting, especially when sex can start to feel repetitive even; in the same position, a different hole means a whole new experience for both of us!

    Essential Preparation For Anal Sex

    Anal is something you should never just go straight into, especially if it is your’s or your partner’s first time. This is one of the things that you need both foreplay and separate preparation to make sure you’re ready. Personally, I think at least a little foreplay should be included in all sex but it is especially important for anal as “you’re not supposed to stick things in your ass” so you need to get it relaxed and ready or you can seriously hurt yourself.

    Which brings me to my second point, preparation: EVERY TIME you have anal sex you need to prepare yourself and your partner both with a very generous helping of lube, if you think you have enough then double it because you can never have too much lube! If you’re planning ahead of time to do anal or it’s something that you do regularly, you might also consider anal douching to clear everything out and make sure you’re all clean and ready for fun but it’s not 100% necessary (some may disagree and say you should always do it).

    Common Anal Sex Risks

    Unfortunately, anal comes with quite a few risks so it’s something you have to approach slowly and carefully. The biggest and most obvious risk is anal tearing where you rip open the tissue inside your anus or rectum which as well as being painful, can be even more dangerous if not properly taken care of, so if it happens, you should go to a doctor. (Most of the time they are small and heal on their own but you can never be too careful.)

    A secondary risk, which is basically the same problem, is that whenever something enters your anus, you get what’s called microfissures which you can’t see and usually won’t even feel but are breaks in the skin which leave you susceptible to not just STI’s but also any other diseases, germs or bacteria that can find their way in.

    There is also another risk that comes when you are using toys for anal sex, losing them. Unlike the vagina, toys can go much higher into the rectum and have the potential to get lost inside you if you’re not careful with them.

    Tips For Safe Anal Sex

    Like I already said, my biggest tip for anal sex is to drown you and your partner in lube; when it comes to anal, there is no such thing as too much lube. Start by using lube to massage the anus to help relax the muscles and get everything nice and wet, then cover whatever is going into your partner’s ass in another generous helping of lube.

    There are different lubes so make sure that you use one that

    1. Shouldn’t be flavored

    2. Is safe to use with your toys/condom if any

    3. Be VERY careful using anal numbing lube because, trust me, the work and the problem with that is if you tear or hurt yourself you might not feel it and will end up making it worse.

    When it comes to toys, if you’re going to put them in your ass, you have to make sure they have a flared base (narrows and then becomes wide again at the bottom) like a buttplug and make sure it has a big enough flare.

    Also, condoms while not mandatory, are a huge help whenever you’re having any kind of anal sex; they provide extra lube, reduce the risk of spreading diseases (and there is a very very very very teeny tiny chance of pregnancy if sperm goes from the anus to the vagina) and makes clean up easier for you and your toys.

    Does Anal Sex Hurt?

    I am a strong believer that sex should never hurt unless you want it to, unfortunately, things don’t always work out the way we hope and it can be hard to avoid pain during anal sex, especially in the beginning, but that doesn’t mean that you should expect it or suffer through it!

    The anus doesn’t work the same way a vagina does so you need to treat it differently, first off being you have to work to get it ready to take something into it, especially if you are well endowed below the belt. If things hurt immediately, start to slow whatever you’re doing (no matter how into it you are) and if it still hurts, stop all together and make sure everything is alright. You might not to be able to have “anal sex” right away and may need to just work with your hands at first or look into getting an anal training set to help stretch your ass before you’re ready to actually start fucking each other.

    I can’t promise that it will stop hurting or that if you follow all my tips you’ll never hurt yourself or your partner again but I can say that if you are having safe, consensual sex with open communication you will be able to make it happen a lot less often as you get used to each other’s needs and wants. This is the 21st century, we should know by now that all sex should be safe, sane, consensual and enjoyable for everyone involved and that includes not having pain during anal!

    Making Anal Sex Enjoyable For First Timers

    The first time that I had anal sex I wasn’t really prepared for it and even though we used lube it still hurt, a lot. To my partners’ credi,t he didn’t know at the time that I had never had anal before but that’s exactly where all my advice comes from, experience.

    If you’re thinking about anal, the very first thing you need to do to make sure you enjoy it is talk to who you’re wanting to have anal with (even if it’s just minutes before the act) to make sure they are comfortable with it and know what’s going to happen; not everyone is okay with every aspect of sex and that’s okay, but it’s best to know before you pull your pants down. Keep the communication going the whole time too, just like you ideally should be doing for regular sex, to make sure your partner is still enjoying themselves and not hurt.

    I know I probably sound like a broken record but I cannot stress this enough LUBE LUBE LUBE, before and during any activity that involves anal no matter how wet you think it is down there. Make sure to go very slowly, I know this can be hard when you’re in the moment and just wanna cum but every time you have anal sex, you should start with slow and shallow strokes and work you way up from there, your partner should be the one to tell you when they are ready for more.

    As long as you are being safe and aware of your partner’s needs as well as your own there is no reason that both of you shouldn’t have a great time, even if it is your first!

    YoungandFun21 – I am just as my name implies; young, fun and as of March 2019 I’ll finally be 21! I’m a college student, panty seller, findomme, clip maker and much more but most importantly I’m someone who really enjoys sex! I started out selling my panties when I was 18 and I have been loving taking photos, making videos and most importantly being paid to do it ever since!

    Follow Y&F21 on

    ManyVids: YoungandFun21.manyvids.com

    Twitter: twitter.com/youngandfun21

    CashApp: cash.me/$youngandfun21

    Wishlist: $20+- deliverycode.com/wishlist/16066

    Wishlist: $20 or less- deliverycode.com/wishlist/1771

    I have a lot of things in the works right now with my new toy review videos taking up a lot of my filming time and summer break coming up; however I hope to get a lot more filming done before moving on to projects that would keep me off camera. Unfortunately I will be taking a brief hiatus to be with my family this summer but it won’t last long and the rest of the summer will be dedicated to content creation. After that I will be entering my senior year of college and will be focusing more on my panty selling, marketing and planning for Halloween and Christmas videos since I’ll have less time to be on camera.

    Article images courtesy of Y&F21

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  • Instagrammer, Influencer & Model Julia Wild

    Instagrammer, Influencer & Model Julia Wild

    I was born and raised in Los Angles California, USA. My parents took me on camping and rock climbing trips every summer growing up so I had traveled to 46/50 states but never left the country until I met my boyfriend. I was 17 when I graduated high school early and started traveling. We had been living in Hawaii for four months when my boyfriend got a call from Cirque du Soleil and we ended up spending two years on tour with the largest circus company in the world.

    Living with such incredible athletes was an amazing experience and of course I wanted to learn, so while he was performing ten shows a week under the big top, I learned aerials and was able to perform in the largest nightclubs in Canada. When people ask me “what I do?” I always laugh because whether I say “circus performer” or  “Instagramer” I never set out to be either of those things, they just kind of happened.

    How did you get started into modeling?

    I first started modeling around the age of 15 in my home town of Los Angeles. I walked in a few fashion shows and did a bit of print modeling but I really hated working in the industry and always being told to change. The first and only agency I ever signed with convinced me to cut off 15 inches of my hair. (big mistake). I still regret that I let them pressure me into that.

    Is being on camera a lot harder than it looks?

    Definitely, haha. It takes a lot of trial and error to find your angles and be comfortable enough in front of the lens to relax the muscles in your face and not look like a Teletubby. For every photo I post on Instagram, there are usually about 300 that didn’t make the cut.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    I love hearing that I’ve inspired someone to make positive changes in their lives like becoming plant-based or taking their first big trip.

    How will you describe a typical day like for yourself?

    My boyfriend and I have been traveling full time for the past five years, so what we do each day can change a lot depending on where we are in the world. That being said, I spend the first 30 minutes each morning doing a quick workout and stretching followed by some journaling. I’ve noticed that I’m far more productive when I make clear goals and lists of things I want to accomplish that day.

    If it’s a shooting day, we wake up around 5 am to shoot the sunrise and if possible, make it to two other locations that day including a sunset shoot. Editing days mean spending 10+ hours sitting on our computers sorting footage and creating the content people see online.

    Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

    I would love to spend more time learning French. It’s such a beautiful language. At the moment I use duo lingo every day but that feels like a pretty low bar LOL.

    Have you been in an embarrassing situation before that is funny now when looking back?

    Oh man, so many times.. Posing for photos in public places can already be a bit awkward when people are staring at you. But two summers ago, we were in Canada at this beautiful old abandoned ruin build on the side of a waterfall. We wanted to take some artful nude shots and since we were in the middle of the Canadian wilderness we figured it was fine.

    So I’m up there, completely naked hanging off the side of this crumbling building when all of a sudden a group of like fifteen Chinese tourists come around the path and just stared at me… there wasn’t really anything I could do other than wave, laugh, and wait for Rikki to throw me a jacket.

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    Every once in a while when I’m shooting my boyfriend doing big parkour stunts or cliff jumping (he’s a professional parkour athlete so he knows what he’s doing) guys will try and copy what he’s doing or show him up to get my attention and they end up hurting themselves. #notcute

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Julia. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    To me, “sexiness” is more about attitude than physical appearance. It’s sexy when someone knows who they are and doesn’t need validation. They own their flaws unapologetically and know what they want in life.

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    Website: Chasingjuliawild.com

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    I’m in the second faze of editing my first Bali travel guide for the Instagram lifestyle! It has all my secret photo spots, editing tips and much more. It’s been a super fun project to work on and I can’t wait to share it with you guys.

    Photos courtesy of Julia Wild

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  • What To Know About Findom

    What To Know About Findom

    I am myself a kinkster, and love exploring different fetishes and kinks. Leading a dual life is fun. Usually vanilla life is mundane and not so spicy, but when it comes to the kinky alternative lifestyle, where one doesn’t need to restrict his or her desires, is simply stupendous.

    I really love leading a dominant lifestyle, 24*7 but apart from that when I have a little me-time, I don’t mind exploring different fetishes myself and exploring my sexuality and being really adventurous!

    Why I Enjoy Financial Domination

    Financial domination for me is the real exchange of power. In today’s materialistic world, where everything is ascertained in terms of worth or monetary value, when a submissive surrender his finances to me, that’s the ultimate submission! No D/s relationship or bonding would be complete, unless it has the element of financial domination in it.

    Simply put, financial domination or findom is a fetish where a submissive will give away his money to financial dominant, in the form of gifts, tributes or just cash. Findom is just money fetish, wherein one can find the exchange of money and power, which immensely turns a submissive on. We call the submissives in a findom relationship paypig, cashcow, human atm, finsub to name a few. The submissive gives away his money and power, without getting anything in return.

    I certainly love and cherish the power exchange, the submissive giving in and letting me control such an important aspect of his life – finances! That’s really something which I love about the entire financial domination concept.

    Why Findom Is Popular Today

    With time, submissive men are really understanding the concept of domme-sub relationship. It is no longer confined to punishment tasks and dungeons and infliction of pain. A dungeon is not the only place or set up where men would like to lose control, underneath a latex clad domme’s high heels! A man would also like to lose control of himself to the hot brat next door, in casual outfits or something skimpy like bikini, who will just take all of his money, drain him dry, and not even touch his body once.

    The fact that a findom relationship can be tried just virtually/online without the need to meet the domme, unless it’s a cash meet which is done physically, is a great way to just test out the water before venturing further. Many paypigs are actually powerful and respected people outside this findom world, so some might even be wary of meeting on the first go, so findom is the perfect choice overall.

    Misconceptions About Findom

    There are many many misconceptions about financial domination. I am going to put down a few which i think are absolutely myths, with no truths in them whatsoever.

    It’s so easy for a young lady to pose as a findomme and earn money, since many men are so weak to give her money – It’s not at all so. Even today, though financial domination is gaining popularity, men like to masturbate to the fact that a powerful woman is taking away his money, leaving him powerless, but would not really go ahead and give it a shot in real life by exchanging money in reality. I still get many ‘roleplay’ requests to play findomme-paypig, without them really doing anything which would fall under the category of true financial domination.

    Manipulating a person’s mind and really making him a paypig is nothing but hard work and requires skill.

    Findomme training courses – That’s utter rubbish! There is no one way of becoming a findomme. There is not even one method of gaining or acquiring paypigs. Different submissives will have different preferences, so if one tries to copy another famous and successful findomme thinking they will succeed, it would not be long, that he or she would fail! Originality is the key.

    Fan following matters – Not always. Some of the best paypigs I had previously, were when I really had very less fan following on the social media. A submissive will not notice how popular you are or how many people liked your pictures or posts, if your approach of domination seems right to him, no matter how less of fans you have, he will give in his wallet. But definitely when a lot of people are following a domme, the chances of having more paypigs in the list of fan following are high.

    You can lead a lavish lifestyle based on just financial domination – Not always true! People who are real paypigs, are less, very less in number. So unless you really have some other avenue to earn from, you can’t really lead even a decent life just by financially dominating men. Yes, there might be a few findommes who claim to lead their lavish lifestyle on findomme alone, but still there would be some sort of side business like providing sessions in real time or skype, or even content creating.

    Overnight rags to riches findomme stories – That’s what we call findomme bragging. Not true! Success does not come so easy, and never over night. Years of hard work has to be put in, to really be successful as a financial dominant. The overnight success stories, will have some other big story behind the black screen, so never go by what you see online!

    The younger you are, more successful you are – Not always. There are many findommes who are matured and not in their early twenties, but yet laughing their way to bank. Age is just a number, what matters is her presence. Also the unique way of communicating with her fans and submissives and getting them under her control – that’s usually a skill and requires bit of time to develop.

    Findom is no work – Financial domination is actually a lot of work. May not be when you actually get a paypig to rinse, but you have to put in your time, effort and be consistent in order to get paypigs to actually contact you. Supply exceeds by million times, when it comes to demand of findoms, so there is a lot of competition definitely. If one is not working at all, and thinks findom is all play and no work, is definitely relying only on luck and that may not eventually turn out to be good luck until some one puts in all the effort.

    Incorporating Findom Into My Lifestyle

    I am a dominant woman always. So be it my vanilla life, or alternative lifestyle, I like to manipulate men to give in to me and submit themselves totally which would also include their finances. Personally, I can’t think of any relationship with a man which would not be based on money. I love the way I take money away from a paypig and giving him nothing in return. Sometimes. I also love controlling orgasms of a man, based on his spending towards me.

    Favorite Findom Ideas

    We, financial dominants have different ways of dominating and controlling wallets. All are unique and I think all the ideas that I previously had, changed over time. I really believe in working hard and putting in effort on all the avenues of earning, rather than relying on paypigs. Usually paypigs have the tendency to cut contact after a period of time and they might even relapse, but the focus should not be on the paypigs or submissives, but on myself, always. That’s what I do, and keeps me going.

    Princess Pramila – I am a financial dominatrix from Kolkata, India. I am also a fetish and femdom clip and content maker, and provide femdom sessions and prodomme services. Being naturally dominant and very kinky really helps me to lead a dominant lifestyle 24*7 even outside of sessions. I love taking money from men, and teasing them, leaving them with nothing. My biggest fantasy is to ruin a man so well that he would have no point of return. I love watching big grown up men cry. Besides findom, I also enjoy humiliating, degrading men. I also like to play blackmail games with some of my submissives, and i believe in total power exchange and complete enslavement of men.

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  • Cosplayer & Anime Fan Gia Sanrio

    Cosplayer & Anime Fan Gia Sanrio

    Hi, I’m Gia and I am from “the city of brotherly love,” Philadelphia, PA!  I love to cook and work out, but most of all I love to watch anime.  When I am not doing these things, I am either training my Pokémon, spending hours on my skincare routine, or taking care of patients where I work, in the field of family medicine.

    What do you love about cosplay?

    The reason why I cosplay is because I get to be the characters that I have spent so much time watching, thinking about, admiring, and analyzing.  I also really enjoy going out and meeting other people who enjoy the same series and appreciate the same characters.  I have also met many friends that I usually only see at conventions, so it is always nice to see familiar faces again too.

    Which is your most fun or unforgettable photoshoot experience so far?

    “Fun” and “unforgettable” are two different things! The shoot I had the most fun doing was when I shot for winning Philly’s Hottest Cosplay Girl with photographer Alison Dunlap.  The make-up artist, Victoria C., was there to help fix any wardrobe malfunctions (which there were plenty when I was dressed as Molotov.)  But they were a great team to work with – probably the first and only time I’ve worked with a fully female team, which I think made me feel much more comfortable and relaxed.  Alison also certainly did her research, and had tons of poses planned out for me too.

    The most “unforgettable” shoot had to be at one particular shoot where I had to stand very still for so long that I got dizzy, which led to queasiness that I could not hold back.  Lucky for me, only about a hundred people or so were watching me.

    Do you have any other hobbies or interests?

    Oh of course!  I am very interested in health and fitness, skincare, and medicine.  I am also very into craft beer, and I love to try as many new breweries and brews as my schedule can allow.  Recently, I’ve also gotten very into trying new hot sauces, too.

    If you could learn anything in this world, what will it be?

    Complete understanding of the human body, so I could always have the best answers to give my patients.  Also, I taught myself code starting in 4th grade and fell out of it sometime before high school.  I’d love to take computer programming classes and see how well I’d do with coding now.  I know so much has changed, but memorizing and recognizing code has always felt natural to me.

    What is the best compliment you have received?

    This is very difficult to say, mostly because you are asking me to choose which quality about myself that I am the most proud of when someone recognizes it.  If I had to choose, I think a great compliment would be of my own taste – for example, someone complimenting my taste in anime, music, beer, wine, etc.  Oh, or maybe complimenting my cooking, since I always seem to make everything too spicy for most people to handle.

    Which flavor best describes you?

    Going off my answer from your last question, spicy!  There’s no fun in eating something hot if it doesn’t give you at least a little bit of pain!

    What is a funny or lame attempt a guy has tried to get to know you?

    I have heard tons of pick-up lines, most terrible and some surprisingly good.  Sticking to the cosplay theme though, the worst line I’ve ever heard while in costume was when I was dressed as Edward Scissorhands, and some guy said, “I still wouldn’t say no to a handjob.”  I thought it was hilarious.

    But when it comes to lame, the only thing I don’t like is when someone pretends that they’re interested in the same things as me to get closer to me.  If you don’t share the same interests as me, that’s fine, be honest about it.  I am willing to take the time to explore your interests if you’re willing to take the time to explore mine.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Gia. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I would have to say that it is feeling comfortable and happy with yourself, while still leaving something to the imagination for others.

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    Images from Gia Sanrio

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