Tag: Sex Toys

Kinky Ways To Masturbate

I’ve always been a free love type personality. I feel it’s healthy and natural to want to be with many people even at the same time. I also feel masturbation is necessary to know what you like. I don’t think other people can make you orgasm if you don’t know how to make yourself orgasm.

My First Time Masturbating

I started masturbating stupid young. I was in middle school. I think it was the 8th grade. At first I wasn’t sure what I was doing. I remember laying down in bed and having a tightening sensation and feeling tingly. I remember putting my hand in my panties and exploring. At first just out of boredom, not knowing I was masturbating. When I first touched my clit with my finger I was shocked at the vibration it made my pussy feel. My body jumped, I felt my toes go numb instantly.

I was so confused, I didn’t think i was doing anything wrong cause it made me feel so good. I was so fascinated with one tap to my clip… that I tapped again. Then I started tapping faster, and faster. I don’t think I made myself cum, because I was so young and inexperienced. After that I couldn’t keep my hands out of my panties and I found many interesting ways to touch myself, or use something I could find in the house.

With Or Without Sex Toys?

I like this question, very much. I feel like toys or hands call for different occasions. Touching yourself is intimate within yourself. Toys are more of a busting feeling. Kinda like when someone else touches you. The hands are soft and sensitive. There has to be a want… a need. When you use your hands, you’re using the only tools you have. Take your time and have a yearning for your fantasy, want it so badly that you’re fingers take over control.

Sex toys are for busting. When you’re just feeling dirty and want something foreign to do all the work. I’ve masturbated with many household items and with store bought sex toys. When you use a vibrator or dildo you want to fuck yourself and you want to cum hard and cum now. If I have to choose I would say sex toys , though the mind is powerful.

Places At Home To Masturbate

This one is easy, the shower! I love masturbating in the shower. There’s always two things I do in the shower. One, that’s Snapchat, or two is to use the water to help myself cum. I like using shower heads, I put it on low. Sometimes I lay down, I sit, or stand. The sounds of the water helps me block out any other sounds. The water makes me clean and dirty at the same time.

Recommended Outdoor Locations

The first place that comes to mind is the jacuzzi. If those water pumps are in the right position it makes your pussy feel amazing. You can pull back to give yourself more of a massage feeling and push in harder when you want to come. When you want to push forward to hit your clit harder you can feel the water pumps push you away, so you have to work. At the same time it’s so calming and relaxing because you’re in the jacuzzi. Definitely a masturbation act that would put you to sleep.

Why Every Lady Should Masturbate!

Loving yourself can be very therapeutic and beneficial. Learning to let go inside can improve your physical life. If there is a day when you don’t feel loved, you feel lonely, or you’re having a problem and can’t self indulge I would stop for a second. You could try and grab a fantasy novel, read an erotic short story on the internet, or lay on the couch and just fantasize about something you want or someone you need. Let yourself dream. If you can, try and take yourself to a different world and indulge in a fantasy. After you try that, then rest will come naturally.

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January 13, 2016
5 Ways to Spice up Sex!
Every relationship hits that rut where sex becomes routine and you perform like you’re on autopilot. Gone is the frenetic love making that used to be where clothes would be ripped off and sex would happen spontaneously. Nowadays, you’re having sex every Sunday or, God forbid, every first Friday of the month. The opportunities are fewer and farther in between. You love your husband, boyfriend, or long-time lover and couldn’t imagine a life without this person, but the bedroom antics have gotten stale and predictable. It’s time to jazz it up, add some spice, and bring back sexy in your relationship. Follow one, or all, of the suggestions below and you’ll be glowing in no time:
1. Make homemade fun and creative coupons that can be earned and redeemed by your lover. For instance, if he does something sweet or accomplishes a task hand him a coupon that offers an, “30 minute full body massage”, “sex anywhere he wants”, or “the ultimate blowjob.” This will add spontaneity into your sex life that was previously lacking.
2. Invest in some sexy lingerie. It’s a known fact that men are visual creatures and are easily stimulated by what they see. Put your nappy sweatpants and stained college t-shirt in the hamper for the night and out of sight. Instead, couch your breasts in a lacy ensemble leaving nothing to the imagination. The element of surprise as you walk into the bedroom will add some cinnamon to your vanilla lifestyle.
3. Pick up the Kamasutra and learn some new, sexy positions to introduce into the love play. Trust me, there’s more than just your commonplace missionary, doggy style, or reverse cowgirl. I’ve tried a few and discovered new ways to climax with my partner. My personal favorite positions learned from the bible of sex is the Rowing Boat and the Star. Check it out and I guarantee it will be like having sex for the first time with your lover.
4. Introduce some adult toys. Using a dildo on yourself also works as great foreplay for all the heavy stuff as your man sits back and watches as you pleasure yourself, before he takes over. A little buzzing from a vibrator can titillate you and your man and can be used while having sex with some simulation to the clitoris.
5. The couple that porns together, stays together. Pick up a sexy adult DVD to watch with your lover. This is 110% guaranteed to spice up your sex life to another stratosphere and it’s a surefire way to get out of a rut. There is a wide selection of porn for couples, so go ahead and pick a few. You won’t regret it. The only thing you may regret is not doing this sooner.
These five easy tips will add the perfect ingredient to your stagnant love life. Whether you’re following one suggestion or several or all at one time, this will create the much needed momentum, excitement, and creativity into your bedroom.

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November 20, 2015
How to Use Sex Toys like an All-Star – No Experience Required!

Maybe a new partner brings it up in conversation, or (perhaps worse) springs a surprise on you in the middle of the hot and the heavy. Maybe you’re curious about how to bring a current sex partnership to the next level, and you think sex with toys might be just the elevator you need.

Whatever the incentive, there’s no reason you shouldn’t be able to join in the fun, and feel confident doing it. We’ll give you some basic, ahem, assisted sex education to teach you how to use the most popular sex toys online today, so the next time someone brings up sex with toys, you can really get excited.

Do Your Research

Even assuming that you’re close to a brick-and-mortar adult toy store, asking the shopgirl at the local sex toys shop exactly where to put what (and in which situation!) can be pretty embarrassing. Save yourself the trouble and research your interests, then buy sex toys online. Established sites like Adult Force One: Porn toys provide a wealth of information that will undoubtedly come in handy when you’re sitting in a hot tub and wondering if that vibrator is waterproof.

This is doubly important when you’re considering testing the limits of your new sex toy – will you need lube, an extra set of batteries, or a condom over top? Don’t risk what you don’t have to, either in wasted time or in bodily harm. Reading the descriptions and the reviews of sex toys online before your first encounters help to ensure that every experience is a fun one.

Know Thy Toy

Clit stimulators serve a different master than G-Spot stimulators. A vibrating ring will help a man get to the point, and palm-sized, squishy vibrators fit lovingly between two down and dirty bodies. When you’re confused about which of those online sex toys will make you the real-life star of the bedroom, first consider where you most keenly feel emptiness in your sex life, and then buy the toy that, well, fills the hole. 😉

Know Thyself

The best way to learn how to use a new sex toy is to try it on yourself – yes, we are officially, enthusiastically encouraging you to masturbate! See how different types of silicone feel in different places; note your special spots (left side or right?), and your preferred methods (vertical or horizontal rubbing?).

Know Thy Partner

If you know already know that your partner is thoroughly into sex with toys, it’s time to experiment with their bodies, too! If you’re not comfortable explaining that you just learned how to use sex toys by reading about differences and usages of sex toys online, feel free to pretend it’s a game of discovering your partner’s specific preferences. After all, one person’s dream of vibrating anal beads is another’s nightmare, whereas the latter might enjoy soft nipple stimulation with them.

The best advice is to go slowly, be respectful, enjoy yourself – and never shy away from reading the directions!

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October 19, 2015
Sex Toy Review: Iroha Uma-Anzu and Iroha Midori by Tenga
Iroha Midori and Iroha Mini Uma-Anzu are both manufactured by Tenga, a sex toy manufacturer based in Japan. Representative of Japanese design, all their toys have clean lines, are thoughtfully made and entirely researched. I love how there’s a lot of love that has gone into these sex toys.

Tenga is well-known for its flip hole and egg-shaped sex toys for men. This is their first foray into female vibrators and I have to say I love these two toys that I have. Watch these videos for more!

Iroha Mini Uma-Anzu
- Come with one tester triple AAA battery inside
- Battery lasts for five hours
- Palm-sized and fits easily into any handbag
- Even though it is small, it is actually quite a strong vibrator
- Can use the noob for more focused stimulation on the clitoris or any part of the body that feels good
- Subtle button
- Quiet
- Waterproof
- Made of body-safe silicon material
- Other colours: Fuji Lemon and Sora Mikan
Iroha Midori
- Magnetic docking system
- Dust resistant and waterproof
- Made of body-safe silicon material
- Comes with a control panel which just has two easy-to-use buttons (Press Plus to increase or turn it on; and Minus to change/ turn off the toy)
- 3 speeds (from subtle, stronger to strongest) and 1 pulsation option
- Unique soft cushioning
- Quiet
- Sister models to check out: Iroha Yuki and Iroha Sakura
When I tried using these sex toys because they are actually quite powerful so I was able to obtain orgasm quite easily. So that’s the personal bit that I have to share.

Reminder: Use a water-based lubricant instead of silicon lubricants when you have silicon sex toys because silicon lubricants can erode silicon sex toys. And so you just want to remember that you want to be using water-based lubricant instead.

I hope you enjoyed this video. And in the meantime, keep loving, live life fully and stay lovely.

This article has been republished with permission by Dr Martha Lee. To view the original post and the links to buy the Iroha Uma-Anzu and Iroha Midori, read it here

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October 12, 2015
5 toys to make Sex more Exciting – With your Partner!

Are you and your partner losing intimacy in the bedroom? And these sex tips aren’t ‘spicing things up’? Well, here’s a suggestion: introduce your real man to your battery operated boyfriend! What have you been waiting for?! With an array of sex toys and products out there vibrators, dildos, sleeves, and more have come a long way since the days of Dr. Granville’s crank operated “electro-mechanical vibrator” back in 1883. Now, twenty-first century gals have taken things into their own hands and beyond, but maybe it’s time we pass the torch, or at least share it, with our partners. Whether you’ve explored the galaxy of women’s sexuality alone, or with partners, we have five sex products, tools and toys ahead to send you both into cosmic orgasm together.

We-Vibe Touch

For those who don’t have a boudoir packed with XXX toys already, the We-Vibe Touch is the perfect new sex toy to bring into the bedroom with your partner. This thick slick silicone toy radiates vibrations, leaving no sensitive part untouched. The center’s shallow ice cream scoop slides perfectly along your clit, and you or your partner can up the ante by controlling the settings to bring you both to star-bursting nirvana. Use alone, for foreplay, or slide inside and try it together for pleasure all around.

Lelo: Ida

A new toy from Lelo’s much loved sex tools, the Ida is designed for perfect partnered foreplay and then some, with a g-spot targeting arm and vibrating pad. Think of it as a mechanical finger stroking inside of you with enough room to accommodate your partner’s shaft and share the fun, while the pulsating base covers your clit and entire pubic mound for even more fun. To make things even better, Ida comes with a remote so, your partner can take the reins and leave you begging for more or shivering with ecstasy.

Zini Deux

Like yin & yang, this sex tool splits into equal opposites, a convex vibrator to target your clit and a concave one to hold his testicles. Ergonomically designed to comfortably fit your hand while operating the intensity controlling side buttons, the Zini Deux can be moved anywhere along your man’s member while he returns the favor. Whoever said sharing’s no fun?

Je Joue Mimi

Don’t let it’s subtle power and simple approachable design fool you, the Je Joue Mimi will revolutionize your shared sex, or solo experience. Versatile with a rounded shape for external stimulation on anyone’s body, you can hold it between you and your partner or in the palm of your hand. Get creative.

Jimmyjane Form Two

Couples love it! And why wouldn’t they with its simple and dare I say cute design? Small, manageable and easy to grasp thanks to smooth silicone, the Jimmyjane Form Two fits perfectly on your clit while having sex so, there’s no awkward bulk between you and your partner. Enjoy the adjustable settings and go as fast or slow as you please. Warning men report giving their ladies next level orgasms with this baby in hand.

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October 5, 2015
Sex Toy Review: Zini Zook V.2
It’s been a while since I released a sex toy review, and this is one which I am happy to talk about because I looove the design.

Zook means Bamboo in the Korean language and as you can see, Zook does resemble the Bamboo!

It comes in three different colours, and the version two I am holding in this video is Dark Wine/ Brown. Zook is also available in Green/ White or Red/ Black.

Product Features:
- Dual motor harmonized system
- High performance, powerful and silent motors
- Synchronization pulse with sensual illumination
- Water proof for perfect cleaning
- User-Friendly Interface System
- 15 different pulses with 15 different colors
Product Details:
- Materials: Body safe silicone, PC ABS
- Size: 202(L)x31(W)x33(D)mm
- Weight: 165g
- Number of intensities: 5
- Number of pulsation modes: 15
- Frequency (MAX): 160Hz/s
- Sound level: <49db
- Battery type: Li-Polymer
- Voltage: 100-240V
- First time Charge – 4h
- Next charging time: 2H
- Operating time: 2H
- Lube: Water-based Only
- 1 Year Warranty
- Comes packaged with a charger, storage pouch, and user guide
- Curved to a 23.5 degree angle for easy insertion that follows the body”s natural contours
This article has been republished with permission by Dr Martha Lee. To view the original post and the links to buy the Zini Zook V.2, read it here

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September 14, 2015
Sex Toy Review: Vesper by Crave

What if your sex toy was so beautiful it could be worn as a necklace?

There is now one product that is both elegant and functional. Watch my video review here!

Features of VESPER include:

• USB rechargeable with the supplied cable
• Stainless steel body + tip + chain
• Whisper quiet
• Splashproof for easy cleaning.
• Multi-speed: low, medium, and high + pulsing
• Intuitive design – just one button to turn on, change speeds, and hold to turn off
• Free engraving on all pre-orders
• Product Dimensions: 3.8″ long, .3″ diameter (.5″ diameter at cap)
• 26″ nickel-free stainless steel chain
• Nickel-free plating – as with all CRAVE products
• Designed for external clitoral use only. Not for insertion.

This article has been republished with permission by Dr Martha Lee. Do view the original post and the links to buy the Vesper, read it here

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August 24, 2015
These Apps will spice up your Sex Life

Looking to spice up your sex life? Here are some suggested apps by Carvaka Sex Toys to try out!

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August 5, 2015
Masturbation tips for Women

Aaliyah Suarez shares her views on masturbation, what makes her horny and in the mood, and masturbation techniques to reach that mind-blowing orgasm.

Can you tell us a bit about yourself and where you’re from?

I am Aaliyah, a 23 year old panty seller from the UK. Since the beginning of the year, I’ve been selling my worn panties, socks, thongs and custom nude pics online – something I have been wanting to do this for a long time and am so happy that I finally started. For me, it’s all about making the service as personal as possible, so I socialize with my customers a lot through email and twitter, and have made some great friends in the process. When I’m not selling panties I love to take photos, bake cakes and go out dancing! One day I would like to become a model and design my own range of lingerie.

What are your personal views towards masturbation?

I find it strange that in today’s society we openly talk and accept male masturbation as something of the norm, but female masturbation is rarely discussed and is still seen as taboo by many people. I think that masturbation in women is just as important as it is in men – it’s one of the best ways to find out what really turns you on and how to get to know your own body. There’s something so alluring about finding a way to unlock your most inner ecstasy, and we shouldn’t feel ashamed of wanting to find it. Over the past few years I have bought dozens of new sex toys and books so I can try out new things in bed but with someone I am truly comfortable with – myself!

I masturbate whenever I feel the need, I have a couple of weeks each month where my sex drive is incredibly high so it’ll be every day since no one can keep up with me! The rest of the time I do it less frequently, often in the morning to perk me up a little for the rest of the day and put a smile on my face.

What gets you in the mood?

Usually whenever I start to get bored!! When my mind wanders, it seems to get dirtier and dirtier the more I think, and trying to repress it can make it worse. Also, after a glass of wine when my partner is at work and I’m home alone and just can’t wait long enough for him to get back. When I’m doing nude/porn photos I like to be in this feisty, raw horny state of mind so that you can really see it in the images, I think that’s a turn on for others in itself. I prefer to read erotic fiction than watching porn, I have a great imagination and can picture myself in the story, or if I do look at porn I prefer photos to videos. The same again, with pics it’s your imagination that makes the fantasy, nothing has been decided for you, you can make it your own setting and own story.

Do you always reach an orgasm each time you masturbate?

No, not always, but that’s because sometimes I don’t want to! I love bringing myself ridiculously close to orgasm, but then stopping and going about my day as normal. All of that time I’ll feel a small flutter inside myself, knowing that the tiniest little thing could send me into overdrive but even better, I like to wait until I can have a private moment to myself later on. Feeling so sexually wired after the whole day of wanting, when I come I have to make sure I’ve got something to bite on to hide my screams! There’s just something about being teased that drives me insane with lust and passion.

Please share with us some masturbation techniques with our female readers?

I have a secret sexy box under my bed full of toys, if I can’t sleep or need some alone time then I’ll go through it when no one’s around; even the best vibrators can still be pretty noisy! I really love smooth, extra small vibrators with a range of intensity you can build up if you want. Starting off gently I stroke my outer lips and between my thighs to tease myself a little, then I like to put on a bit of pressure and make downward strokes over my pubis bone and clitoris, intensifying the pressure and the vibration every few strokes. Once that has worked me up a bit, I allow myself free reign to touch my clit at different angles, pulling back the hood and softly massaging it. This makes me go weak at the knees and become so moist; I really want deep pressure inside of me to fill me up so to speak. So when I feel on the very edge, I slowly slip a long smooth vibrator into my pussy for double stimulation.

Use a butt plug, preferably a vibrating one, after you insert the vibrator causes a feeling of fullness that I love and a feeling of being deeply stimulated on the inside as well as out. After inserting a butt plug, you still have both hands free to stimulate your pussy and clit, either one by one of at the same time to have triple stimulation.

Another thing you can do to make masturbation even more pleasurable, is to wear nothing but satin panties (or if you’re really in the mood, don’t wear anything!) and lie on smooth satin sheets for a silky sensation all over your body, stiffening you nipples and caressing all your curves whenever you move. It’s an amazing feeling when you’re turned on and so sensitive to touch, stimulated by the sensation against your skin, I’d highly recommend it.

I like masturbating in this way because it builds up sexual tension slowly, yet is still very intense at all stages. The feeling of wanting something inside of you and the teasing make orgasms explosive when you finally let them go, it’s about keeping it in as long as you can. It’s great because if you’re in a relationship, you can also do it while your partner is out and you’re waiting for them to come home. Pleasuring yourself to the brink of orgasm then leaving yourself begging for more – a real sexy surprise when they get back in! It’s awesome if you’re single too, a simple way to achieve earth shattering orgasms by yourself, feels almost empowering!

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July 4, 2015
The Amazing Story of the Vibrator

Did you know that in 200AD, genital massages were given to treat hysteria? Or that the vibrator was introduced into Pornography in the 1920s? Carvaka Sex Toys, the Number 1 choice for Adult Toys in the UK, shares this brilliant interactive storymap which takes you through the journey of the Vibrator from its creation and how it has evolved to the phenomenon it is today.

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June 9, 2015