There is no doubt, that relationships become routine fairly quickly. In the beginning, they cannot keep their hands off each other. Before they realize it, their relationship, including their sex life, is just routine. Do you have any idea what a routine sex life can do to a relationship?
Couples oftentimes take each other for granted. They expect their relationship will ensure the test of time even though the sex is routine. It goes without saying, the relationship will surely not end on a good note. The solution could be something as simple as role play. Learn more by reading the content provided in the article below.
Why Role Play?
It is simple, role play allows couples to temporarily change their appearance, personality, professional status, and career. There is no end to the possibilities for couples who role-play to spice up their sex life.
Role-playing gives couples something to look forward to. Think about it, missionary sex gets old over time. Once in a while, it is okay to have missionary-style sex. However, couples who desire so much more from their sex life should role-play.
Role play can be utilized in coordination for women, men, and other genders. For example, the woman can dress up as Raggedy Ann while the man portrays Andy. Couples can also dress up Homer Simpson And Marge Simpson; Prince Charming and Cinderella; Sarabi and Mufasa; and Li Shang and Mulan.
Improvisation Role Play
Another great way to incorporate role play into your sex life is through improvisation. This is a unique type of role-play that does not require any type of preparation. In other words, improvisation is role-playing without a script.
There is just something exciting about improvisation role play because you never know what will happen next. Role-play by ear without a script.
No Rules Role Play
Who needs role-play weighted down by tons of rules? It is unfortunate when couples set rules in the bedroom. With this said, no-rules role play is not for every couple. Some people may feel rules are necessary to ensure their partner does not try to go overboard. Rules are okay but no rules can be more exciting.
It is up to the couple as to how they want to approach their next role-play adventure. Lots of interesting videos to spice up the role play in the bedroom can be found here.
Role Play Exploration
Role play is a great way for couples to explore each other. Did you know there are people who do not know their partner’s body? It is true, some people have never taken the time to get to know their partner’s body. There could be a number of things holding them back. Maybe the individual is shy or afraid to look silly. Whatever the case may be, role-play exploration is a great way to get to know your partner’s body.
There may be just one specific body part that you want to explore. You can do just that and so much more through role-play exploration.
Start With The Basics
It would seem out of the ordinary for someone to fear role play. While some couples will dive in headfirst without giving it a second thought, others are more resistant. Not everyone is willing to put themselves out there, even for their partner. It is perfectly okay to start with the basics like a simple costume and ordinary sex.
Maximize The Experience
For those who demand the most out of their role-play, the basics will not cut it. In this case, the couple can jump right in with a more complex script. There is no normal or abnormal when it comes to role play. Wanting to maximize the experience is a good thing as long as you both are willing to give it all.
Summary
Role play for beginners can be a bit intimidating. Maybe you are a newbie and your partner is a veteran role player. Always remember, you are in control of what happens in the bedroom. Never allow your partner to pressure you into doing something that makes you feel uncomfortable. The thing with role-play is, it can be a wonderful experience. When approached in the wrong manner, it can leave a bad taste in your mouth.
Sex is like eating a cake – even if it’s sweet, it can pass out after a while. Hence, some people become fascinated by sexual perversions and, therefore, by role-playing.
What, in my opinion, is normal and healthy if people have inner consent for their implementation and the consent of the person (people with whom they carry them out). And as with everything in life – they are healthy if we are not so caught up in them that nothing else matters to us, which makes our life difficult.
Why I Love Role Play?
Role play really starts in the head. Why? Because our fantasies and desires are born there in which we become someone other than we are in reality. Some of us have fairy-tale fantasies, others based on quite modern archetypes. Fictional sex is about making fantasies come true and breaking down the resistance that we as “we” have.
Because I like to improvise based on someone else’s fantasies. Besides, we are more real than we actually are when we play.
What Is A Typical Roleplay Session Like?
Let’s take feminization as an example.
Men who want to become feminized take pleasure in being “made” into a woman. The more so because sometimes they have a dominant Mistress over them.
Interestingly, this fantasy mainly concerns heterosexual men who have absolutely standard lives on a daily basis, has partners, etc.
Let us continue to focus on feminization.
Princess, maid and even a prostitute. We associate these personalities with typically female activities. Hence, it often happens that the feminization of a man revolves around these roles.
For example: a princess must look beautiful and be able to act like a lady. I can make a prostitute in various poses, ways of walking, you can imitate ways of talking to the client, etc. It all depends on the imagination of the joint arrangements.
Tips For Roleplay Beginners
Role play can be a great adventure and can expand the boundaries of the experience, but only if practiced safely and according to needs. The line between pleasure and pain in this case is very thin. Before the session, it is necessary to establish the boundaries of what is allowed in games and what is forbidden by the submissive person.
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What Are Your Views Towards Kink?
Well, I’m really in awe of kink because I think it looks to be very welcoming to everyone, well at least in a perfect world it would be. I think in kink, you could be having such different kinks and kink events are so open minded!
What Is Taboo Roleplay Fantasy All About?
Taboo is whatever is seen forbidden/prohibited in each culture, country, religion, by customs. Taboo in sexual life as we know it from the Bible, ethnology could be adultery, incest, etc. So, here we would have ‘cheating wife fetish’ and other fantasies.
When have I started exploring it? I wouldn’t even know it? Whenever I started exploring my sexuality and I will tell you I was a late bloomer, haha.
Why I Love Taboo Roleplay
I think when asking people why they have particular tendencies, it is good to ask for them to explain it but I also find it sometimes frustrating, because usually it just clicks for you from some long time ago and it just does for you – makes you hard or makes you wet and that’s it. Why do I love it? Because it’s hot, haha.
I could tell you what is popular in my expertise, what people choose to explore with me and as well, it’s because I do advertise it. Such scenarios like (step) brother-sister action, as well as uncle/step-daughter, also some other forbidden acts such as r*pe play and sleep assault play and I can tell you, in such role play it’s never too rough, or rough at all.
Of course, role play comes with action, but mostly it is about words, about interaction. In sleep assault, I would say it’s mostly about ignoring, letting clients to explore their fantasies, but obviously everything is done very safely, I rarely let clients bound me, never use an eyemask and for things such as sleep assault, I always check if protection is in tact.
Another taboo roleplay could be about power positions such as the headmaster forces to do something after school or perhaps your boss wants to take advantage, it can be just because or because your grades are low/you stole from work, etc. Maybe even daddy/daughter where daddy wants you to explore sexuality, maybe he brings some of his friends in his office and tells you what to do. Or a teen coming for a gynaecologist visit…
Misconceptions About Taboo Roleplays
I would say probably one of them is that taboo roleplay fantasies equals ageplay, but in role play scenarios, there can be so many different scenarios and variations about it.
Making Taboo Roleplays Realistic
As I mentioned before, yes outfits do help, and I myself have more clothing fetish and have at least three drawers of a variety of outfits. One thing I haven’t mentioned before, I do cater for adult babies/diaper lovers, for bottoming and topping and switching. I have a few diapers, baby bottles, etc.
For schoolgirl, daddy dom/little girl role play I have coloring books, gingham dresses, I also have such things as crop tops and frilly socks, which could be more of a babysitter teen vibe of outfit for such taboo role play. I have a genuine schoolgirl outfit, all my outfits are just genuine pieces, it’s not a sexy schoolgirl/nurse outfit from sex shop.
But really, it’s all about words, scripts, actions, interactions. It’s weird because I have never been in any drama class but now I think I’m such a good actress.
Tips For Beginners Into Taboo Roleplay
I would say do and don’t make elaborate plots in your mind because reality can be very different. For me, I would just ask what’s my character in the role play – is it slutty schoolgirl, or perhaps naive and shy girl next door.
And then we would get to roleplay which in the beginning could be more scripted but later it should just go by two or more people’s flow. Anyways, if any taboo role play is making you hard/wet when you are reading about it, it means it’s your thing and go try it at least once in your life 🙂
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I’m a very libidinous lady, I’ve always been fascinated by fetishes, intrigued by individual desires, titillated by toys, and tempted by the taboo…
I’m a big believer in clear communication, asking for what I want, listening to my partners to learn what they like, and laughing together. Yes, I said laughing. Sex should be fun, and when I’m having fun, you’ll know it!!
Why I Love Role Playing
Imagination takes over. We step out of our roles as mundane Monday-Friday breadwinners, or stressed out stay-at-homers, bill-paying, news watching, toilet cleaning humans…..we become our own choose-your-own adventure book, except instead of turning the pages, we are turning each other on.
Men love it because they get to be vulnerable. I lead them through the fantasy, they give me the starting point and I take it from there. They’re completely in my hands and I dive fully into character for our entire session. It’s playful, they get to do and say things they’d never dream of doing in real life. It’s a license to be silly or corny; are we hurtling through outer space captain??
My Favorite Sexual Fantasies & Role Plays
Nurse/Patient: I’ve got a checklist of symptoms to check and tests to perform on my patient to make sure he’s a healthy specimen.
Boss/Secretary: I take great dicktation, let me help you straighten that tie, would you like a coffee sir?
Naughty Aunt or Stepmom/Innocent boy: He’s always lusted after her, little did he know she was tempting him on purpose all this time…
Captain/Sailor: Specifically when played on a real boat. This one has not happened yet, it’s still a fantasy, but I’m listing it here, for all the Captains out there to make my dreams come true.
Incorporating Sexual Activities Into Role Play
I’ll often turn something non-sexual into teasing and flirting, like bringing a cup of coffee to my boss, I don’t just put it down in front of him, I slide my hand over his shoulder, bend down so my breast touches his shoulder and he can peek down my blouse, my breath hot on his ear.
Offering to do something non-sexual that sounds sexual, like, “Captain, I need your help below deck, it’s so wet down here!“
Tips For Beginners Into Role Play
Have a general idea of your storyline, where are you? A spaceship? The office? Are you alone or are there imaginary voyeurs? Who is the instigator? Is the sexytary seducing the boss, or is the sailor the one tempting the siren?
Costumes are not necessary, but really does help spark the imagination. Go all out if you want, wigs and props, use what you have around the house, get creative!
Try to stay in character, it feels silly at first, but once you get going, it’s a lot of fun. Allow yourself to feel goofy. You’re playing a part, and it doesn’t have to be perfect, just have fun with it, and let the good times role….play
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In the modern world, people are discovering in depth what stimulates and satisfies their sexual desires. This goes without naming the different sex toys available in the market that spice up foreplay. To stretch a little, it’s time to indulge in cuckolding. Cuckolding is the act in which a man or a woman finds pleasure by watching their partner make love to another person. It has several benefits such as:
You can find pleasure and empowerment when you fulfil cuckold fantasies.
It can lead to an honest relationship where your partner is open about their sexual desires and needs.
You can build your relationship with effective communication. Talking about cuckolding takes guts and lack of shame.
It can result in a positive sexual experience that can lead to feelings of greater intimacy in a relationship.
A cuckold husband can enjoy watching his partner gain pleasure from another male who satisfies the wife till climax. If your wife enjoys cuckolding, isn’t it a good thing?
Take it to the Next Level
Even with an excellent partner, it will reach a point in life where your sex life becomes boring. There are various reasons this can happen which include health issues, mindset, physical issues and many others. Besides, people have different desires, likes, preferences and fetishes, which if not satisfied, can result in boring sex life.
It would be best to identify reasons as to why you aren’t having super fire sex with your partner. Physical causes include pain during intercourse, low stamina, and erectile dysfunction. Emotional causes can be depression, anxiety and stress which can lead to lack of focus. There are multiple ways you can treat boring sex, but if you want to spice up things, cuckolding is just the ticket.
How to Introduce Your Partner Into This Role-Play Fantasy
Choose a Time to Discuss
Cuckolding is a sensitive topic since it can be described as cheating. This is something huge that needs thorough thinking to ensure you make the right decision. Of course, no one wants to share their partner. However, if you feel that this sexual fantasy is the only way to spice up your sex life, go for it. Ensure your partner is on board and okay with it.
Research and Decide on the Right Person
If you are going to choose a cuckold partner, you should research and choose the right one in advance to familiarize yourselves with him/her. You could research on various platforms that offer cuckold services, or request a close friend who will be okay with the act. Besides, you will have an intimate experience with another person, so it would be best to know what qualities you are looking for.
Prepare Yourselves
Preparation is vital as it can help you avoid future problems. For one, you need to prepare yourselves mentally and know some cuckold outcomes such as jealousy, lack of trust and more. Try not to overindulge in cuckolding, but only do it when need be. Go for STI screening to prevent transmitting infections to your cuckold partner, and ensure they also do it to avoid contracting.
Don’t Be in a Rush
Rushing through sex can be an exciting experience especially if you are having a quickie in a bathroom. The anxiety of getting caught is what makes it spicier and intense that can lead to orgasm within no time. Nonetheless, cuckolding is another different thing. This is a new experience which can take time before you become comfortable so ensure you don’t rush things.
Tips for Making All Parties Enjoy
You can start by setting boundaries for everyone to know their expectations. However, you don’t need to have sex with another person. If your partner can find pleasure in you talking about having sex with someone else, it still counts as cuckolding.
Besides, you can practice cuckolding in a club where your partner flirts sexually with someone else. The best thing to do is to communicate and find out what will work best for your situation.
Safer Sex When Cuckolding
Like any other level of sexual intimacy, you should take precautions to avoid contracting and transmitting sexually transmitted diseases. You can start by selecting various types of birth control options to prevent pregnancy.
To prevent contracting STIs, ensure that you use condoms throughout. It is also advisable to use a new packet for each activity. Additionally, buy PrEP online to prevent contracting HIV from your cuckold bull.
Once you indulge in cuckolding, be keen on emotional risks that may present themselves once you get deep into it. In some cases, the cuck may end up developing feelings or becoming more jealous than your partner. All you ought to do is take extra precautions every step of the way.
We continue our Mistress Iceni feature on exploring spanking and discipline here!
What Goes On In A Session & Favorite Props To Use
First of all we decide pre-session if we will start on arrival or sit and have a chat first for you to settle in. Some role plays will begin at the front door, which can be thrilling – you have arrived home at your Aunt’s house to find her very annoyed about something/you are visiting your bossy new neighbour who suspects you have been peeping on her and have stolen her underwear from the washing line/you are reporting to the headmistress’ study after school for detention and so on.
In these cases, you will be led through to the study and usually given a thorough scolding and interrogation about your behaviour. I like to start my sessions with an over the knee hand spanking to warm up the bottom. This is a good way to forge a connection across my knee before we proceed, and to reduce any resistance: once the pants come down, so does the attitude, I find. Then we would move on to a variety of positions – over the school desk, lying face down on the red leather sofa, touching your toes, strapped to the Eton Flogging Block and so on, and I would use several of my implements.
My spanking sessions can be relentless, but I will also give you regular breaks maybe in corner time, holding a stress position, hands on your head and pants round your knees. If it is a scholastic/Governess/home tutor session I would incorporate tasks like writing lines/essays/prepare a presentation/memory tasks/tests. I absolutely love scolding so often I will scold you throughout and verbally tease you. I like some interaction and cheekiness, but some people are quiet and compliant all the way through which is also fine.
I like to end my session with an OTK spanking as well, to complete the circle, and depending on the visitor/scenario, will encourage the spankee to relax across my knee for a little while specially if it has been an intense session. Then I would offer a cup of tea or coffee and sit and chat for a while, making sure they do not leave until they are fully recovered!
With regards to props, the devil is in the detail. I ask a lot of questions before the booking and mull over the scene in advance so I can get creative. For example, I had a session booking where he wanted to be spanked for stealing sweets from the corner shop when he was a lad, something he got away with at the time. So I bought some old-fashioned-looking sweets and put them on the chair in the study. When I opened the door and took him through as his Aunt, claiming I had searched his bag after a phone call from the newsagents and discovered his stolen stash, he saw the sweets, gasped and turned pale and started trembling!
It was wonderful and a very powerful indication that just one or two appropriate props can really help with authenticity. He hadn’t expected to see that, and afterwards he said they looked just like the sweets he had stolen, and seeing them jolted him right back to being that young boy feeling the guilt of having done it. A perfect way to get into the right headspace!
Other props I love are my retro 70s phone with round dial and curly wiring, so I can call parents/authorities/the school. My custom-made Eton Flogging Block is a formidable piece of furniture that’s been nick-named ‘the Beast’ and is very intimidating. I am very fetishistic about items and implements so I could tell you about many more props, but there wouldn’t be time to cover them all!
What Should One Knew To Spanking & Discipline Prepare For Prior To Their First Session?
Firstly, do your research regarding who you visit. If you wish to experience purely a discipline/spanking session, I’d advise visiting a disciplinarian rather than a mistress (who would probably be good at it, but also does many other things, and does not specialise in this area). A disciplinarian/spanker solely focuses on this area and will have more experience and nuance.
Also research where they work from – do you want a domestic environment or a dungeon? Look at their online presence – things like Twitter, webpage, reviews, clips (so you can see how they work). Depending on location, people charge different rates so maybe you can find cut-price sessions that undercut some of the others, but you get what you pay for in life.
Approach with a polite and informative email, and communicate as much as possible before the session (not mailing 10 times a day! But it’s best to be clear before you start about details/background etc).
Consider whether you need a safe word or not. Remember ‘I can take a hard spanking’ is very subjective. You may imagine you have a huge tolerance for pain but not be able to handle what you thought you might. Or you may be too cautious and find once you get going, you love it and could take harder. So bear in mind if you think it might get too much, you can request a safe word before the session.
A great spanking session is about connection. The most important thing is to feel the right connection with this person in your initial contacts. It is about trust and instinct.
Don’t be late! If you’re running late, inform her/him. Follow reconfirmation instructions to the letter. This shows attention the detail and a level of respect.
Arrive clean and tidy, above all clean. We are dealing with your bottom – need I say more? Nice underwear is also much appreciated. Often you may bring a gift if you like but it’s not compulsory. If you do choose to turn up with flowers/chocolates/a bottle of wine etc you will probably be remembered as very thoughtful and considerate.
Be prepared if it’s your first time – the effect of discipline may not be what you expect. Some people can experience strong emotions during a spanking as it can bring up unexpected repressed emotions. It might make you feel rampantly horny!
Equally, it may send you into sub-space where you feel floaty, serene and peaceful. You can become quite discombobulated – forget your wallet or pick up the wrong pair of glasses, or try to leave via the boiler cupboard (all of these have happened after my sessions!) so make sure you have gathered yourself and your faculties before leaving.
Mostly know this – it might be an intense experience, and some of it may be painful, but if you have been thinking about getting a thrashing for some time, and are not sure whether to try it, I’d say if it’s often on your mind then it is for you, and it will be a liberating experience and the start of a whole new chapter to your life.
You are never too old to go across my knee either – I have one lovely visitor who is 85 and took his first spanking at 75. It’s never too late to start this journey. But be warned – once you pop, you can’t stop!
Mistress Iceni – London-based disciplinarian specialising in spanking and role plays with a distinctly vintage style. I may remind you of your old school-teacher, Mum’s friend, strict neighbour or Governess, but whichever female authority figure I represent for you, a visit to my study will usually result in a sore bottom and a marked improvement in your behaviour. I am a firm believer in old-fashioned discipline and you will find it may hurt at the time, but it is ultimately for your own good.
I am currently working on several projects to collaborate more with women as I have enjoyed filming so much with Anty (@Anty851 on Twitter, follow her, she’s wonderful) and Ana, and before that, the wonderful films for Miss Elsa Svenson (wellsmackedseat.com) as Miss Ashbrook. I am planning to film some clips and content with a lovely young lady Dilan (@OhdearDilan on Twitter- you really should follow her too) Also I have Emily Jane now available to join me in sessions and film with me as a spankee. I’m currently in discussions with another lovely young lady to offer exclusive custom clips as mother and daughter. So watch this space and follow me on social media if you want to see me spanking some pretty bottoms!
My other project which I worked on extensively during lockdown is my retro spanking novel: Set in 1979 in provincial England, it’s the story of Andrew, a permanently horny 17 year old who is sent to live with his strict Aunt while his parents divorce. She takes him on a roller-coaster journey of discovery with help from her equally assertive lady friends. It is a coming-of-age story that examines self-acceptance, kink-shaming, gender identity, spanking, age play, petticoat punishment and the psychological and emotional pull of corporal punishment. I have pitched it somewhere between ‘Harriet Marwood, Governess’ (which was a huge inspiration, and this is a kind of updated homage) and the saucy ‘Carry On’ Films of the 1970s. The working title is ‘Aunty knows best’ and I have just finished the first draft, so while it is not available just yet, I will promote it as soon as I have it ready for my eager readers! The plan is to publish as a paperback, e-book and possible audio version, narrated by myself.
To me it is perfectly normal to be kinky. One of my greatest joys in this work is to encourage and allow people to deal with their deep-seated shame around their kinks, and to allow them to express themselves fully with someone who makes them feel safe and accepted.
I believe kinks to be a very healthy expression of our shadow selves – the darker, quirkier recesses of our souls. If you deny something, it is like pushing a beach-ball under the surface of the water. It will pop up again somewhere else, you can’t keep it under. As long as it is safe, sane and consensual I do not judge anybody.
Exploring a kink with someone on the same wavelength has something innocent about it. Together you can regress to that space you naturally inhabited when playing with your friends as a child: lost in your boundless imagination, totally immersed in the fantasy world you have created, going on a magical mystery tour. I find people who are kinky to be the most grounded, self-accepting, and self-aware people.
What Does Discipline Constitute?
Most people think ‘discipline’ means punishment, and it often is, but its original meaning is ‘to learn or teach’ from the Latin ‘disciplina’ (as in ‘disciple’). I love it because it is ultimately good for people and it has so many facets: role-play, endorphin-release, trust, power exchange, regression and so on. You might think it would get boring or repetitive, but for me it never does. I find it endlessly fascinating.
Is Spanking Part Of Discipline or A Totally Independent Kink?
I’ve never been asked that before! I think they are linked because you usually spank someone in the context of a disciplinary scenario. I can give you an example of how they are independent: I can carry out, for example, a long discipline session which involves very little actual impact play – say an intricate school scene with lots of role play and activities like corner time, writing lines, stress positions, scolding and so on, and only deliver 12 cane strokes near the end.
Sometimes people ask for this type of more cerebral and psychological session. But I would rarely spank someone outside the context of them being disciplined in some way. Sometimes I spank my ‘nephew’ Andrew purely for the fun of it and because his pert little bottom is irresistible but usually it involves a play-acting theme where he has done something wrong or ‘needs’ it.
Reasons Subs Are Into Spanking & Discipline
First of all, I don’t really like the generic label ‘sub’. I think mostly for real spankophiles, it’s understood that many people are not even natural submissives. I prefer to call them ‘bottoms’, ‘spankees’, ‘nephews’ ‘naughty girls’ etc.
I hear many reasons: being spanked as a child or witnessing spankings at school or in a domestic environment, therefore being ‘hot-wired’ to like it. The release of endorphins afterwards and the floating sense of calm. Being embarrassed or humiliated, or being objectified sexually by having to strip in front of me and/or my lady friends (from men, not women). A need to regress to a younger age/return to a child-like state. Being put in their place to balance ego in a dominant, high-status line of work. Giving someone else power over them and being able to let someone else make decisions for them.
The complete focus it takes to experience the physical sensations of impact play – it brings you into the present moment and away from the stress outside in the rest of your life because you cannot have your mind filled with anything else during the experience. It turns them on: for some people, it’s just their kink. The comfort of being across someone’s lap and being held in an OTK position. I’d say it’s 50/50 with people who are into spanking because they were spanked as a child, and those who weren’t.
Mistress Iceni – London-based disciplinarian specialising in spanking and role plays with a distinctly vintage style. I may remind you of your old school-teacher, Mum’s friend, strict neighbour or Governess, but whichever female authority figure I represent for you, a visit to my study will usually result in a sore bottom and a marked improvement in your behaviour. I am a firm believer in old-fashioned discipline and you will find it may hurt at the time, but it is ultimately for your own good.
I am currently working on several projects to collaborate more with women as I have enjoyed filming so much with Anty (@Anty851 on Twitter, follow her, she’s wonderful) and Ana, and before that, the wonderful films for Miss Elsa Svenson (wellsmackedseat.com) as Miss Ashbrook. I am planning to film some clips and content with a lovely young lady Dilan (@OhdearDilan on Twitter- you really should follow her too) Also I have Emily Jane now available to join me in sessions and film with me as a spankee. I’m currently in discussions with another lovely young lady to offer exclusive custom clips as mother and daughter. So watch this space and follow me on social media if you want to see me spanking some pretty bottoms!
My other project which I worked on extensively during lockdown is my retro spanking novel: Set in 1979 in provincial England, it’s the story of Andrew, a permanently horny 17 year old who is sent to live with his strict Aunt while his parents divorce. She takes him on a roller-coaster journey of discovery with help from her equally assertive lady friends. It is a coming-of-age story that examines self-acceptance, kink-shaming, gender identity, spanking, age play, petticoat punishment and the psychological and emotional pull of corporal punishment. I have pitched it somewhere between ‘Harriet Marwood, Governess’ (which was a huge inspiration, and this is a kind of updated homage) and the saucy ‘Carry On’ Films of the 1970s. The working title is ‘Aunty knows best’ and I have just finished the first draft, so while it is not available just yet, I will promote it as soon as I have it ready for my eager readers! The plan is to publish as a paperback, e-book and possible audio version, narrated by myself.
Obviously I love sex. I have always been a sexual person without acting on it until later in life though. It is just a beautiful thing and can change your life in many many different ways.
The Appeal Behind Taboo Mom Roleplay
A mother’s love is something that we as humans crave and for some of us, our mom is the first person that we have ever loved. Mommy roleplay is certainly not black and white when it comes to why this is so popular. There are various reasons as to why a person fancies mommy roleplay. I know many submissive females who enjoy a “daddy” who is able to to take care of them and fuck them good. I think men are wanting the same thing, a “mommy” to care for them and also to fuck them good. This is very sexy power exchange dynamics.
It is the same as with video games as it enables us to experience fantasies without acting on them in real life. I personally like this roleplay because that is just how I am wired, taboo can range from soothing bed scenes with lots of whispering to hardcore dominance and rough sex. I am naturally a very nurturing person, I enjoy starting as the sweet prude mom and escalating to full blown sex-crazed. I think there is something very sexy about that progression.
For some reason, mommy dirty talk comes very naturally to me. My mommy fans like it when I am a mommy with a filthy vulgar mouth.
Preparing For Taboo Mom Roleplay
I go over my script prior to filming and rehearse as I do my hair / makeup. I try and really channel and prepare my role. I like to really deliver a story within my videos.
How A Typical Taboo Mom Roleplay Session Goes
It is most important I believe to try and catch the essence of the script. Does he want to dominate the mother, does he want to feel safe and catered to? And what does that mean for the mood of the video, will the camera have to be super up close to me or would a different angle work better? If there is no customer script I try and just shoot what I feel like my customers COULD like.
There are many trigger words within this roleplay. It is mostly me either having a moral dilemma / self conflict within myself and it progresses to me then needing nothing but my sons cock. Mommy roleplay is also very centered around breast play. From experience, most orgasm to “mommy riding the sons cock and my boobs bouncing up and down” part.
Misconception About Taboo Mom Roleplay
That every person is then secretly in love with their own mother, I think it is more about what a mother in general represents: security, shelter, closeness.
Tips To Try It Out
Get a feeling for what exactly it is that turns the partner on about it and how you can enhance the experience for the both of you. There are many different layers to this roleplay. Communicate throughout as much as you can. Porn is not real life sex. There is no right or wrong way to do it. As long as it is ethical and consensual let the roleplay bring you as far as your heart desires. Don’t be embarrassed to include the word “mommy” in your dirty talk 😉
Annabelle Rogers – Classy gal with a dirty mouth. “The Meryl Streep” of taboo. Camgirl, content creator and Snapchat model.
Whether between a heterosexual or homosexual couple, sex is sex. Beyond that however, sex is an addition to body language as it’s a way of communication through touch and sound. You can learn to know someone’s interests through the arch in their back or moans of satisfaction. Even with sex by yourself, you’re able to understand your body better. Some find sex to be a dirty thing and in actuality, it isn’t all about a sweaty race to orgasms. Sex can help with sleep, reduce tension and ease stress. It’s healthy, natural and best between consenting safe playing partners.
I genuinely love sex and would have it every day if I could. Whether it’s in a committed relationship or a no strings attached one, it’s best when we’re both interested in mutual satisfaction. Selfish lovers aren’t welcome here. I like to switch it up by having sex in different positions, places and even acting as someone other than myself. As a matter of fact, at the age of 19 was when I roleplayed for the first time. Using my baseball player Halloween costume, I enhanced the look with heels and surprised my boyfriend at the time. You can say I took one for the team and had many hits out of the park.
Why Roleplay Is Popular
Roleplaying is popular for spicing things up because new additions are being brought into the bedroom. In some cases, sex and most importantly foreplay, can become quite of a routine resulting in a diminishing desire for intimacy between couples. Roleplay allows for an escape and exploration into a new world while having the ability to try new things. Imagine coming home after a long day of work to your partner laid back on the couch. A note for you reads “Congratulations on your new Dreambot! Kiss, lick and squeeze. Yes, I’m ready to please”.
Favorite Roleplay Scenarios I Love
Two of my favorite scenarios are daddy/daughter and teacher/student roleplaying. Though both consist of a couple elements within BDSM which include the “DS” being dominant/submissive, they are different in their own way.
Acting as daddy’s girl, I generally portray two types of personalities. One being somewhat naïve and innocent, I hesitate but don’t resist. I’m compliant and unbeknownst to me; ready to please.
The other is boldly ready and willing with an “I won’t tell” type attitude. I don’t take control but I’m easily seduced. When it comes to acting as a schoolgirl, I’m sweet but I could be bratty. I don’t care for much and always in trouble. That is, until I get my one on one lesson.
Is Roleplay Difficult The First Time?
When trying roleplay for the first time, it shouldn’t be difficult to act like a character outside of yourself but it may be challenging to take things seriously. You may find your partner and especially yourself fighting away the giggles as you go through a series of dialogue and that’s ok. Burst out laughing, continue or start again.
Don’t expect perfection the first few times because it will be a bit awkward. There are the few that will feel comfortable in roleplay while their partner may be nervous or shy. If your partner stops, don’t break your character in starting over but use that role to help them ease into theirs.
Do’s & Don’ts When Engaging In Roleplays
DO:
Participate with a willing partner. No one likes to partake in anything they’re not truly interested in.
Discuss the storyline. Who has what role? What are you interested in and looking to explore?
Do your best at staying in character. Even if you mess up, try again. Encourage each other to continue in the role.
Write a script. This allows for the scenario to flow rather than the delayed responses when thinking of what to say.
Add props and costumes. Sometimes having the full illusion can increase enjoyment.
Have a safety word if your scenario includes elements of BDSM (restraints, infliction of pain etc).
Talk about your likes and dislikes once the scenario has finished to decide what can be changed for a better experience next time.
DON’T:
Don’t perform acts without prior permission. The fastest way to ruin the mood is having something done to you or another that wasn’t expected.
Don’t assume that just because you initiated a surprise scenario that you could perform anything on your partner.
Don’t expect perfection at the beginning. It will take some time to ease into the roles and especially become quick-witted with your dialogue.
Don’t become upset if your partner doesn’t catch onto the hang of things as fast as you. Patience is key.
Don’t talk out of character. While you may be doing a great job paying off the debt to your “pizza deliverer”, there is no need to remind them at that point that their mother called earlier.
Tips For An Unforgettable Roleplay Experience
To make the experience of roleplaying an unforgettable one, communication should be top priority. You and your partner need to discuss the type of scenarios that will be explored and whether or not the two of you are comfortable in it.
If you’re really looking to step things up, take your scenarios outside of the bedroom. While at work, send an email or a text in character. Not only are you sexting but you’re building up anticipation through extended foreplay. You could also try picking each other up at the bar or grocery store. Acting like strangers meeting for the first time can make for an exhilarating experience.
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I’m the type of person who wants to monetize anything I can, especially things that I enjoy. Sex work gives me the choice to do both at the same time. As long as what’s going down is between two consenting adults, sex is a beautiful experience.
Hell, I had my first time on cam! It’s fun, it’s an experience, and it’s different with every person. I’m attracted to anyone regardless of gender or sexual orientation as long as I’ve gotten to know them and vibe with them as a person. I love making content with people for the same reasons.
Photo: Kit Kendal
How Popular Is Cosplay In Porn?
I find the cosplay genre is getting more and more popular, it’s basically a branch off of roleplay. There’s always a demand for new content of a character doing all kinds of things and the possibilities are endless. Every time a new movie, comic, anime, manga, etc. comes out, the demand for more cosplay porn goes up too.
Current Seasonal Anime – Kakegurui – Character: Yumeko Jabami set by @xxjalbxx Twitter
Why I Love Cosplay
I love cosplay because it gives me not only a hobby, but a career where I can express myself and challenge myself in many different ways. Every single cosplay I do involves some degree of creativity. Some cosplays I buy are pretty much pre-made, some I thrift and modify parts, some I make 100% from scratch. That’s only the start of it though! Getting to embody a character that I like and having other people enjoy it as well is a super good feeling.
Ramona Flowers from Scott Pilgrim vs. The World. Shot by @Zhuntsai Twitter
Misconceptions About Adult Cosplay
A lot of people think that cosplay is inherently a sexual thing or over sexualized. While it is a popular subgenre of cosplay, it’s not all about sex appeal. Some adults get sexual pleasure from doing things in cosplay, be it the fantasy of being with the character, or being that character.
Not every adult though is cosplaying or looking at cosplay sexually. It’s not like that for the majority of people. It’s mainly about having fun.
Photo: Kit Kendal
Does Cosplay Make Porn More Enjoyable?
If it’s your fetish, definitely! For me personally, I enjoy making porn as characters more than solo stuff where I’m just me. Figuring out the cosplay, lingere, set, toys, context and type of actions I’ll do as that character is really enjoyable and way more of a challenge. I love watching cosplay porn because seeing others bring characters I like appealing to my sexual preferences is always hot!
Brigitte – Overwatch Shot by @Zhuntsai Twitter
Choosing The Type Of Cosplay Content
There’s two main factors in how I choose what character I’m going to make cosplay content in.
First one would be popularity or demand. If I see a lot of my followers or a lot of people in general crushing on a character I like to hop on the hype and deliver some cosplay content of them. I usually look out for seasonal or trending series and what I see getting lots of social media attention.
The other way I decide a character is per commission. A lot of my content is per request of others, and most of the time if someone wants a specific character doing a specific sex act, they’ll commission a video or photoset of what I do as the character chosen is based off their personality and context of the source material. I’ll look into the character personality, events in the series, and even search for popular fan made art or animations to see what the audience would like. It’s definitely a fun process.
Kit Kendal – I like to cosplay, play video games, take my clothes off, and fuck hot people in that order >;3c
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