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  • What To Know About Foot Fetishes

    What To Know About Foot Fetishes

    The love for the feet, although it seems strange, is one of the most common and intense fetishes that can exist. The love for the feet is one of those passions that although they are not over exploited and overvalued, by the market, they are present in all the currents and slopes of art: literature, cinema, music, painting and sculpture.

    I remember that assassin for hire of Tarantino, in the saga of Kill Bill played masterfully by the sensual Uma Thurman, who invokes the force of the cosmos to move the toes of his feet, after a paralysis.

    (El amor por los pies, aunque pareciera extraño es de los fetiches más comunes e intensos que puedan existir. El  amor por los pies es una de esas pasiones que aunque no están sobre explotadas y  sobre valoradas, por el mercado, están presentes  en todas las corrientes y vertientes del arte: la literatura, el cine, la música, la pintura y la escultura.

    Recuerdo esa asesina a sueldo de Tarantino, en la saga  de Kill Bill interpretada magistralmente por la sensual Uma Thurman, quien invoca la fuerza del cosmos para mover los dedos de sus pies, después de una parálisis.)

    Photo: Adriana Rodriguez

    I understand that it is delicious and supremely common, it consists of kissing, caressing, touching, licking, smelling and masturbating. I have also discovered that its possibilities are as limitless as the imagination of those who enjoy it.

    (Entiendo que es delicioso y supremamente común, consiste en besar, acariciar, tocar, lamer, oler y masturbar. también he descubierto que sus posibilidades son tan ilimitadas como la imaginación de quien lo disfruta.)

    What I Love About Alternative Lifestyles

    My appreciations are diverse, as a human being in constant construction my sexual tastes vary, they are modified, they intensify and they evolve, as they also weaken at times. I definitely love to explore the foot fetish and all its exquisite possibilities. Sex and everything that surrounds it in the midst of complicity and without affecting the other, I consider that more than valid is strictly necessary. Just as we work the body in a gym, the mind in a University, we must work our sexuality in intimacy. A free and honest sexuality is the principle of true self-recognition and the starting point towards a full life.

    (Mis apreciaciones son diversas, como ser humano en constante  construcción mis gustos sexuales varían, se modifican, se intensifican y evolucionan, como también se debilitan en ocasiones. Definitivamente me encanta explorar el fetiche de pies y todas sus exquisitas posibilidades. El sexo y todo aquello que lo rodea en medio de la complicidad y sin afectar al otro, considero que mas que válido es estrictamente necesario. Así como trabajamos el cuerpo en un gimnasio, la mente en una universidad, debemos trabajar nuestra sexualidad en la intimidad. Una sexualidad libre y honesta es el principio de un verdadero reconocimiento propio y el punto de partida hacia una vida plena.)

    What Does It Mean To Have A Foot Fetish

    The foot is the phallus of the woman” defends, kicks, outrages, seduces, penetrates, dominates, and submits. I enjoy when my feet are the protagonists of male and female orgasms. I enjoy having a man at my feet and also “being at the feet of a man”. It excites me when I go out into the street and I feel that the eyes follow my footsteps fixing on mobile points seated on my feet.

    (“El pie es el falo de la mujer”  defiende , patea , ultraja, seduce , penetra, domina, se somete. Disfruto cuando mis pies son los protagonistas de orgasmos masculinos y femeninos. Disfruto tener a un hombre a mis pies y también “estar a los pies de un hombre”. Me excita cuando salgo a la calle y siento que las miradas siguen mis pasos fijándose en puntos móviles asentados en mis pies.)

    Photo: Adriana Rodriguez

    Why Are Foot Fetishes Very Popular?

    Since time immemorial, kissing the feet was a gesture of humiliation and submission, footwear and ornaments that have covered the feet are a symbol of power and adoration, always being the first to show and exhibit in dark and obtuse times, which led to all the desire and all the repression of then would find as Eden and oasis for the sexual impulse, the simple insinuation of a foot.

    In addition I must confess that very skilled feet can even overcome the skills of some hands, providing a forbidden and strange element, capable of maximizing desire and satisfaction.

    (Desde tiempos inmemorables, besar los pies era un gesto de humillación y sumisión, el calzado y los adornos que han cubiertos los pies son símbolo de poder y adoración, siendo siempre estos los primeros en mostrarse y exhibirse en tiempos obtusos y oscuros lo que llevó a  que todo el deseo y toda la represión de entonces encontrara como edén y oasis para el impulso sexual la simple insinuación de un pie.

    Por demás debo confesar que unos pies bien habilidosos pueden incluso, superar las habilidades de unas manos, aportando un elemento prohibido y extraño, capaz de elevar al máximo el deseo y la satisfacción.)

    Photo: Eliecer Santanilla

    Misconceptions About Foot Fetishes

    • The foot fetish is more common than most “ordinary” mortals imagine.
    • Pretty women have ugly feet.
    • It is not an exclusive fetish of men, many women love their feet, whether they are male or female.
    • Many underestimate this fetish, a foot fetishist is not a psychopath.
    • Homosexuality

    El fetiche de pies es mas común de lo que la mayoría de los     “comunes”       mortales imaginan.

    las mujeres bonitas tienen pies feos.

    No es un fetiche exclusivo de los hombres, a muchas mujeres nos encanta los pies, indistinto que sean de hombre o mujer

    Muchos subvaloran este fetiche

    un fetichista de pies no es un psicópata

    homosexualidad

    Incoporating Foot Fetishes Into One’s Sex Life

    I think the most accurate way to answer this question is to briefly tell an anecdote about my life as a couple. I want to tell you that my partner, even though he was older, had never determined his feet, and those of his partners in sex, which seemed absurd and not very exciting, and then I asked him to be patient.

    What did they believe? What would I tell you all about? I only tell you that now he is an absolute worshipper of feet.

    I would like to give all of you a piece of advice that not only has it got to do with our fetish, but also with all others, not because they are fetishes. These tastes must be destined for the shadows, so it is essential that there is sincerity, honesty and above all, complicity. To hide your fetishes from your partner is to deceive them and deceive yourself. A good relationship is given in the number of fetishes that you can share.

    (Creo que la manera mas precisa de responder esta pregunta es relatando brevemente una anécdota de mi vida en pareja. Quiero contarles que mi pareja aun siendo mayor jamás había determinado sus pies, y los de sus compañeras en el sexo, pareciéndole algo absurdo y poco excitante , después le pedí que tuviera paciencia.

    Que creyeron? Que les iba a contar todo? solo les digo que ahora es un adorador absoluto de pies.

    A todos les quiero dar un consejo que no solo tiene que ver con nuestro fetiche , sino también con todos los demás, no por ser fetiches estos gustos deben estar destinados a las sombras, por ello es fundamental que haya sinceridad, honestidad y ante todo complicidad , ocultar tus fetiches a tu pareja es engañarla y engañarte a ti mismo. Una buen relación se da en el numero de fetiches que puedas compartir.)

    Photo: Adriana Rodriguez

    Favorite Foot Play Ideas

    • Paint, write and masturbate.
    • Licking your feet with something sweet is supremely fun.
    • Feeling the hot air of the dryer on my feet.
    • Massaging with hot oils for more excitement.
    • Feeling a stone in the shoe while I run.
    • Smoking with the feet.
    • Undressing with the feet.
    • Using my feet as if they were hands.
    • Smelling sweaty and salty feet.

    – pintar ,escribir  y masturbar.

    – lamer los pies con algo dulce es supremamente divertido.

    – sentir el aire caliente del secador en mis pies.

    – masaje con aceites calientes para mas excitación.

    – sentir una piedra en el zapato mientras corro,

    – fumar con los pies

    – desnudar con los pies.

    – usar mis pies como si fueran manos

    – oler los pies sudorosos y salados


    Scarlet Bunny – Accounting assistant, financial administration student, adult content producer, videographer, photographer and artistic explorer.

    I make myself known as ScarletBunny: modeo petiff, I am white skinned, thin, of Colombian nationality with European characteristics, without leaving aside the Latin flavor that runs through my blood, I am dominant and submissive, I love dirty words, feet and the role plays. I can also be the character of your best fantasy. I produce, star and edit my own videos, taking care of every detail from beginning to end.

    (Auxiliar de contabilidad, cursante de Administración financiera, Productora de contenidos para adultos, videografa, fotógrafa y exploradora artística.

    Me hago conocer como ScarletBunny: modeo petiff, soy de tez blanca, delgada , de nacionalidad colombiana con características europeas, sin dejar a u lado el sabor latino que corre por mi sangre, soy dominante y sumisa, me encantan las palabras sucias, los pies y los juegos de roles. También puedo ser el personaje de tu mejor fantasía. Produzco , protagonizo y edito mis propios videos ,cuidando cada detalle de principio a fin.)

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  • An Introduction Into Femdom

    An Introduction Into Femdom

    Personally, for me, kink has been an outlet for a part of myself that I have not been comfortable showing to friends/family. I think it’s a great way to understand yourself, your nature, your motives. Kink has definitely been a life changer for me. It has opened me up to so many different ways of thinking and being. It has made me more knowledgeable about people’s behaviors and even my own.

    How My Interest In Femdom Began

    I started in 2015 as a webcam model. I got into Femdom by way of an ex-colleague. She was deeply into Femdom/fetish. When I first heard of Femdom/fetish, I was so uncomfortable because I didn’t understand why someone would want to be humiliated. However, as I started doing more of it, I realized that it was like therapy for me and the submissive.

    As a child, I suffered lots of verbal humiliation from my mother. Femdom allowed me to channel that experience and become the humiliator. It was a powerful experience. Through this I began to understand that it is how people deal with those hidden issues inside. Through kink, they are expressed.

    Characteristics Of A Good Submissive

    The best characteristic a sub can have is know thyself, be financially independent, have mental strength/endurance and do what I say! The rules a sub has to follow to be my bitch is very simple: DO AS I SAY, LISTEN, AND BOW.

    I am a Domme who enjoys control and gifts, so if they cannot pleasure me before themselves, I don’t waste my time. I am not into all the punishing, that’s not my style. You either do as I say, or I banish you.

    They always return.

    Why Subs Enjoy Being Humiliated

    Well as I have said before, humiliation during playtime is like therapy. They want to be humiliated partially because an experience or experiences in life have made them feel a way. It could be reinforcement of those negative beliefs. However, when channeled into something positive, by a Goddess who not only enjoys humiliating you, but also cares about you enough to bring you back down and remind you that you are not weak, is a powerful thing.

    I simply just love humiliating. It doesn’t matter what form it is. It makes me feel powerful and I have to say, I am very good at humiliating losers.


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  • What To Expect From Session Wrestling

    What To Expect From Session Wrestling

    I think kink is whatever you make it to be. I have had relationships that wouldn’t function or last without kink, but I’ve also had perfectly vanilla relationships. Kink can be a wonderful supplement to relationships, and I find that I definitely prefer kink to be a big part of it.

    What Is Session Wrestling?

    Session wrestling is when men pay strong women to wrestle them for an hour at a time. I love it because I’m a very physical person, and I love the adrenaline rush of a hard wrestling session, and I love the satisfaction of dominating someone who is supposed to be stronger than me.

    Reasons Subs/Men Love Session Wrestling

    Sometimes they’re submissive, sometimes they’re not. For submissive men, it’s clear why they enjoy it. They have a very Dominant woman that can overpower them in a very physical way. They are literally forced to be submissive.

    As for the non-submissive men, I’m not sure why they enjoy it. I ask them almost every time, and I’ve gotten a lot of different answers. Some just love wrestling. Some wrestle both men and women. Some like to have a girl sit on their face, or being smothered by breasts. Why not?

    Misconceptions About Session Wrestling

    I think people have all sorts of ideas about session wrestling. Some probably think it’s a sexual thing, or it actually is another label for escorting (it isn’t).

    Others likely think it’s pro-style, like you see on TV (it can be, but I’ve never done that). It can be just grappling, like what you did as a child.

    What A Typical Session Involves

    Typically the client tells me what kind of session he wants via email. He might request a particular outfit (like a bikini, or pantyhose), and tell me he wants either submission wrestling, fantasy wrestling, semi-competitive, etc. Sometimes he has a specific fantasy he wants to enact, and sometimes he’ll specifically request a certain type of smother or scissorhold.

    He’ll send me the deposit (usually about $100) to confirm the session, and I’ll give him my address, if we’re meeting in Chicago. I have wrestling mats in my basement, and he’ll come over and usually strip down to his boxers. I’ll be in whatever outfit we discussed. We’ll start on our knees facing each other, and then, I take him down, in whatever way we discussed. Again, and again. There’s usually lots of breaks, laughing, and talking.

    Tips For First Timers

    Remember that neither of us are out to hurt each other. This is supposed to be fun. Sometimes people can get hurt, especially if we’re doing submission wrestling, which is the reason that’s not my preference. Stretch a little before starting, and just making sure to be gentle.


    Bettie Brickhouse – Bettie Brickhouse is a session wrestler, Dominatrix, and adult performer based in Chicago. She’s been wrestling for 7 years, and constantly on the go for longer than that. She’s a constant world traveler, splitting her time sword fighting and meeting interesting people in the sex work industry.

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  • What Hardcore Bondage Involves

    What Hardcore Bondage Involves

    I’ve always been kinky. Also my parents, as it turned out later. And today, also my adult daughter. When I had my first boyfriend and he wanted to cuddle after sex, I thought he was not normal. I soon found out that I was a little bit different from him.

    What Does Hardcore Bondage Involve

    Hardcore bondage is for me really tight and brutal ropes, cable ties, belts, tape etc. Very uncomfortable and painful positions. Long and painful endurance in such situations.

    I love the tightness and I love not having a chance. To be completely delivered. Also applies with my life. It makes me suffer and no longer be able to move in the slightest.

    Misunderstandings About Hardcore Bondage

    1. That it only occurs in western bondage. Also, with the Shibari technique, hardcore bondage is quite realizable.

    2. That we are crazy and accept health damages.

    Favorite Hardcore Bondage Experiences

    That’s difficult because there are so many of them. I love to captivate and play in front of an audience, that makes me bear even more than alone with my partner. I like being on stage etc less, rather than in the small circle of spectators. I love to go beyond my limits. To dive away, to fly, to totally lose reality. To cry, tremble and then arrive again sometime later.

    Getting Your Body Ready For Hardcore Bondage

    You have to love the pain and the absolute narrowness. You should know your body exactly and you should also have basic anatomical knowledge.

    Have a lot of practice as a bunny and know what can lead to damage and what can not. To be able to give the Rigger feedback, even if you are so far away. The same applies to the Rigger and it needs a very pronounced empathy for the often also brutally gagged opponent.

    In this scenario, there is no safe word to pronounce or display.

    Safety Precautions To Adopt

    A lot of experience on both sides, good basic medical knowledge, knowing your counterpart very well and being able to react correctly in an emergency and never panicking.


    We are a couple that have lived together for several years and have tried and learned many things. Minuit is rope horny, dirty and extraordinarily masochistic. Sasori is absolutely fixated on bondage and BDSM in the old INSEX style. We live polygam on the stable base of a rock. From time to time we also switch. We are both extreme, but we know what we are doing.

    For some years we were the regular crew of BoundCon Munich. From 01.06.2019 the BoundCon Minuit belongs and the scene can look forward to a new era BoundCon with the passion of a true rope lover and masochist, coupled with imagination and entrepreneurial spirit.

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  • Addressing Your Kinks: What Sort Of Things Turn you on

    Addressing Your Kinks: What Sort Of Things Turn you on

    When it comes to the spectrum of human sexuality, one thing that is undeniable is how vast it truly is. Whilst it would be easy to say that there are only a few categories that sexual interest falls into, this is just not the case. There is a whole range of kinks and sexual activities that can heighten the intrigue of any hot-blooded individual. Whilst some of the activities may make you feel a little uneasy, there are others that may suit you and your sexual partners perfectly. Instead of feeling embarrassed about your sexual interests., which honestly would be a complete waste of time, why not just embrace it?

    Your sexuality and fetishes are something that is personal to everything individual. They are completely natural and should be celebrated instead of hidden away. You will always be able to find a like-minded individual out there who is ready to accept you for who you are. You just need to find them! Take your time in getting to know your kinks and your own body. With a little self-love and a little respect from others, you will find yourself feeling more and more confident about yourself and what genuinely can make you feel excited.

    Why Are Kinks Actually A Bad Thing?

    It is strange that in a world full of different tastes in romantic preference, that there is still an overriding feeling of negativity when it comes to discussing different sexual kinks out in the open. People feel too embarrassed to discuss their interests due to an overriding sense of shame. They feel like the world will judge them for their interests. Although this is something that you may hear in everyday conversation, whether it is an insulting jest about someone’s porn preference or perhaps a negative reference that is made in a classic book, it is something that should not be tolerated.

    As long as you are not hurting anyone through your kinks, and it is entirely consensual between you and another person, then what you enjoy doing in your privacy should not be the concern of anyone else. The reason why people tend to classify kinks as inappropriate or negative is due to their hidden stigmas attached to the idea of being dirty or rude. That is why appropriate conversation just is not fit for handling such a sensitive topic. Because of this, even if you are approaching a sexual situation or are merely discussing the ideas of what you like, for instance with a beautiful London escort with Foxy Babes Escorts, you may still feel embarrassed about the situation as a whole. What matters is that you should judge the conversation based on how well you know the person, rather than sexuality being an impossible subject to include in a normal conversation.

    Although you cannot bring up the idea of kinks and sexuality in all conversations, they should certainly not have the stigma attached to them that they do right now. So dispel the stigma, for it is time to consider what sort of kink would best fit you and your own passionate interests.

    The Kink Catalogue

    Domination/Submission

    One of the most common forms of sexual conduct between partners is in relation to the domination and submission. Whilst you may think this is a more gentle kink, it certainly can fire up the loins if it is experienced in a more intense form of BDSM or humiliation/pain play.

    The dominant partner will enjoy taking control of the submissive partner through different sexual activities. It can either be in forms of physical activity, such as through handcuffs and bondage or through mental requests, such as through obeying commands, humiliating nicknames or even through disobedience training (such as slapping or spanking.) The submissive will accept this behaviour (as long as they are comfortable with it) and feel sexual liberation through the idea of being dominated. This is why they will consent to the humiliation play because it provides them with a sense of freedom. They allow someone else to take control, and thus, this provides both parties with the power play that allows them sexual release they both desperately crave.

    Domination and submission can suit all sorts of relationships. Whether you enjoy vanilla dom/sub play through just a blindfold and handcuffs or want something more intense with straps and humiliation, there is always something that will be able to allow each partner to release themselves. What is most important about this sort of kink/relationship is the communication needed to maintain it. As long as you discuss what sort of sexual activities you want through this place, and come to a consensus on what you want, as well as to who will be the dom/sub in the play (as you can also have a switch relationship), then you will always have a happy outcome in the bedroom.

    Roleplay & Costumes

    Another kink that you may find commonly in the bedroom is roleplay and costume play. After all, vanilla sex can only get a couple so far without them getting bored. Sex is about erotic fantasies and bringing them to light. For Joshua Klapow, PhD clinical psychologist,

    Role-play is simply an opportunity to escape our own reality. By labelling it in a formal way we are giving permission to act, speak, feel, and think in a … way that may be dramatically different from our true selves.

    For couples trying to lose themselves in fantasy, whether that is something to do with superheroes, fairy tales or perhaps even a more in-depth plot, there is nothing wrong with this indulgence. This sort of roleplay can truly allow of an intimacy that you may not experience with your partner. After all, you are playing someone completely different to who you usually are. roleplay can allow you to experience a whole variety of partners that you may not have thought you would meet in your life.

    With costumes added to the mix, then this can allow you truly get into the character that you want to experience intimacy with. Costumed roles usually include people with power and those who are more sexually innocent. This means that if you are looking to indulge in being a naughty policeman for the night, you can get a costume that suits you, especially if your submissive partner has the costume of a naughty criminal. Costumes and role play can truly bring us out of our comfort zones and show our partner the sort of things we truly like. This means that it is far easier to become intimate with your partner.

    Non-Monogamy & Swinging

    For some people, it just isn’t enough to have one partner. The monotony of a daily sexual schedule just is not enough to satisfy a sexual palette. After all, for some people, it is just not a reasonable expectation to remain completely loyal to one partner. Whether this is due to their attitudes towards sex and fidelity, or whether they just are not ready for a relationship, an “open relationship”, or practising sexual intercourse in “threesomes” or in group sex activities is the perfect thing to ignite a flame.

    Having more than one partner is something that can actually help a relationship keep its passion alive. We all want to indulge in a little sexual variety, whether that is on our own or in a pair, thus if you and your partner are ready to experience intimate attention from others, then you may want to consider either swinging or inviting other people into a “polyamorous relationship.”

    It does not matter whether you want to experience sex with only one person or in a group of swingers. What matters is that you do not base your sexual interests on someone else’s expectations of what you should want. If you feel like you can only become satisfied with more than one person’s attention on you, then why not try looking into Swinging Parties? They are parties that invite swinging couples or singles into a social event where intimacy is the focal point. The experience involves getting to know other couples through talking and dinner, as well as pairing off to experience intimacy altogether. As long as you are comfortable with this, then there is no harm in trying it out!

    Fetishism

    When it comes to Fetishism, this is one of the most common forms of sexual arousal. It focuses on the obsession of an object, this object being in relation to the desired person. This can range from their lingerie to a masturbatory aid or even to a specific form of material (such as spandex, rubber or balloons).

    What matters to the kink owner is the sight, touch, taste, sound or even the interactions that the user can have with the object. These objects can allow the user to indulge in fantasies, to the point where the sensations actually allow them to entertain an erotic scenario. For instance, if turned on by the sensation of rubber, this may be due to the costume providing a “second skin.” It allows the sexual indulger to become someone else, someone who has a different personality in comparison to how they usually act in society. It is a release of pressure and allows them to act in any manner that allows them sexual release.

    Fetishism of objects is one of the most common sexual kinks. One look at the internet and you will see millions of drawings and videos dedicated to this sort of kink. Some of them are even in relation to the fetishism of sounds, such as ASMR, also known as “The Whisper Fetish.” For Aurora Snow, writer for the Daily Beast.

    Certain audio triggers a sensory response that users describe as orgasmic in a cerebral sense. This is not physical. ASMR artists use words and sounds to create a soothing image. Most users claim the videos help ease anxiety and reduce insomnia. They call it a brain massage.”

    If we take this sort of reasoning and apply it to fetishism as a whole, certain materials and objects can provide this “brain massage” to the kink holder. It allows them to relax and ultimately let go of any inhabitations. This is why this sort of kink should be allowed to blossom in the company of like minded-individuals.

    Lesser Known Kinks & their Ordinary Occurrences

    Although a kink may not be always out in the open does not mean that it something that love-making couples do not encounter during their moments of passion. These kinks are usually things that are encountered during the bedroom but they never really have a name put to them.

    These include:

    Katoptronophilia: Having sex in front of a mirror

    Trichophilia: Being attracted to the touch or appearance of someone’s hair.

    Knismolagnia: Sexual Arousement from tickle-play

    Pictophilia: Sexual Arousement from watching Pornographic Imagery or Videos

    Podophilia: Sexual Arousement from Feet

    Urophilia: Sexual Arousement from Urine. This is also known as “Watersports”

    Agalmatophilia: Sexual Arousement from Mannequins or Sexual Dolls

    Accept Yourself!

    We all have fetishes and they deserve to be celebrated. What you may fear to appear to be weird or sexually may actually be a commonly indulged practised. When you meet a new partner or are becoming sexually intimate with them, never be afraid to share your fetishes with them. Sharing your sexual interests is a sign of trust, and your partner will be appreciative if you are honest with them and it will surely strengthen your relationship.

    Happy Love-Making!


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  • What To Know About Cum Eating Instruction (CEI)

    What To Know About Cum Eating Instruction (CEI)

    Really, kink and fetishes are just a release, it’s what we like and what we find pleasure in. It gives us excitement and pleasure in different ways. Its Disney Land in a cage for some. A lot of people spend all day being trapped by clothes or an attitude and this is their true freedom.

    What Constitutes Cum Eating Instruction?

    So Cum Eating Instruction is a bit fun for me and I try to get creative with each sub. Essentially, it’s a release of cum that the sub is forced to consume. Normally the sub will masturbate under my instruction and they will be instructed and prepped on how and where they must cum and can only eat it while I watch.

    It may be in a shot glass, frozen in ice cubes, in a bowl of strawberries, on twinkies, or a public bathroom wall. It all depends on my mood. I enjoy CEI simply for the control aspect and the majority of subs like doing it so it’s really not looked at as a punishment.

    Reasons Subs Love CEI

    I have a few who want to humiliate themselves by lapping it up like a dog because they enjoy hearing me laugh at them. Others like for me to be forceful again, almost like a punishment they enjoy. They cum, lick it up, and thank me. It has to make them feel dirty.

    What A CEI Sessions Involves

    My sessions are wild and none are like the other. I’ve made subs cum on balloons and lick it off. Beg with their knees in rice after edging for an hour to lap their cum from the floor like a dog.

    I have a sub who simply likes to eat desserts, smothered in cum of course, but we have tried sushi once. Legs over head is probably my favorite because these men look like complete idiots trying to align their dicks with their mouth and cum everywhere else instead. You can’t help but to laugh.

    What To Know Before Trying CEI

    Practice makes perfect; if you’ve never done a CEI session, you should try tasting your cum on your own time. I don’t deal with disobedience at all. If you’re told to eat your cum your only response should be “Yes Mistress”. Again we will laugh at you A LOT and I always ask, “how did it taste?”


    Carmen K – I’m really a sweet person just a complete kinkster who loves control. I am originally from California but reside in Florida. Yes I do have a real job for those who are wondering. I am 90% an online Dominatrix and there are very few who have the pleasure of doing real time with me. Relinquish your will power and your wallet subby. Lusting over me and obeying my every command is the only way.

    Follow Carmen K on

    Twitter: @carmenkvista

    Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/8281467

    Websites:

    https://iwantclips.com/store/233069/carmenvista

    https://www.sextpanther.com/Carmen-Vista

    My private c2c sessions are normally requested via email:  carmenkvista@gmail.com


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  • What You Should Know About Forced Intoxication

    What You Should Know About Forced Intoxication

    I think kink and alternative lifestyles are incredibly fulfilling and should be more openly discussed. If I hadn’t stumbled upon BDSM videos online, I probably would have never discovered most of the fetishes I now partake in on a daily basis. I believe kink should no longer be a taboo subject among adults.

    I discovered forced intoxication play after exploring female domination and realizing my true role as a findomme. I had a sub message me on Twitter requesting a forced intox session. After researching and watching several videos of forced intox sessions online, I knew this kink would become one of my favorites.

    What Is Forced Intoxication?

    Forced intoxication is a type of play in which a domme forces a sub to drink alcohol and/or partake in a drug activity. Personally, I love forced intoxication because it combines physical and psychological control. It goes much deeper than the act of drinking alcohol or using drugs. Forced intox becomes a manipulation of the mind.

    What Does A Forced Intox Session Involve?

    In a forced intoxication session, a domme will typically tease and degrade the sub while commanding him or her to drink and/or use a drug. When the domme deems the sub is intoxicated enough, she will usually begin “taking advantage” of the sub. This can include a variety of scenarios, such as restraining and sexually dominating the sub or forcing the sub to perform humiliating tasks, which are sometimes filmed for blackmail purposes.

    Forced Intox Misconceptions

    Although forced intoxication may be used in a vanilla setting as a means of hazing or initiation, this is not the reality in the BDSM community. Forced intoxication is a real kink that is practiced consensually for arousal purposes.

    Why Do Subs Love It?

    The arousal factor for subs in forced intoxication comes from the fact that they are giving up all control to their dominant. The sub enjoys obeying the domme’s orders and anticipating what the domme will make him or her do next. Forced intox play allows subs to lower their inhibitions and become more willing and eager to obey and please their dommes.

    Ensuring Safe Forced Intox Play

    Safety is of utmost importance in forced intox play. The domme must be well aware of the sub’s intoxication habits, limits, and tolerance before beginning a session. The domme must actively keep track of how much the sub is drinking/using and never push a sub past a safe amount.

    However, this type of play can be dangerous even when a domme is being careful, so the domme should also know the effects of any drug the sub will be using and know the warning signs of an overdose. Finally, the sub must be able to fully trust the domme, as not everyone will have good intentions.


    Goddess Bailey – I am Goddess Bailey, a findomme with a variety of kinks including degradation, blackmail, humiliation, sissification, foot worship, homewrecking fantasy, and more.

    Follow Goddess Bailey on

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/goddessbaileyx


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  • What You Should Know About Femdom

    What You Should Know About Femdom

    I love kink, I love that there are a lot of different fetishes, and everyone has his own fetish. I heard them all from ear fetishes to ignore fetishes. It lets me be creative with sessions and that’s what I like.

    How My Interest In Femdom Began

    It all started with the question of a man, if I could dominate him…I thought okay, I can try it out with a girlfriend sometime. So we did. He gave us a nice amount of money and we tried our first Femdom session in real life, and we giggled a lot, and had fun. After the session I was looking on the internet to find more about domination and fetish and I saw it was a real big world…and that’s where it all started.

    Favorite Domination Activities

    I love to do CBT and Ballbusting, I’m a little sadist and I enjoy when other people are hurting. I put my boots on and just kick them in the balls very hard. But also online, I love it when a sub is open to do a lot for the cam.

    Characteristics Of A Good Submissive

    Don’t email me non stop, if your clip is ready, or with tons of questions. Make sure he reads my whole website, watches some clips so he knows who I am before he books a session. And on Skype, don’t let me walk to the pc for nothing… Never ask to see me naked, there are enough other girls who offer that so don’t ask me….

    Why Subs Love Being Humiliated

    It’s a certain feeling they get from it, and the feeling turns them on in some way. I love to humiliate them, I love it when they have a small dick I can laugh at. Most of them already look like losers, so it’s not very hard to have a good laugh!


    Elite Rose – A Goddess who is into a lot of fetishes, Femdom and Findom. Love to do custom clips, Skype sessions, Kik sessions, real life sessions and sell my worn items. Drop on your knees and start worshiping.

    Follow Elite Rose on

    Website: www.eliteladyrose.com

    Twitter: @eliteladyroses

    Instagram: @elite_ladyrose 

    Tours: Next year I’ll be in Rome and Bali.


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  • What Does The Watersports Fetish Constitute?

    What Does The Watersports Fetish Constitute?

    I came onto the fetish scene when I was 18 years old. I had always been a big fan of fetish photographers like Peter Czernich and Martin Perreault so naturally I wanted to be a fetish model. Alongside regular model networking sites, I came across a well known fetish social network which I joined to pursue photographers. I quickly realised there was an entire community of weirdos that I could be a part of so I immersed myself into the London fetish scene, and even ran a munch in the little town I lived in for a while.

    Today, most of my friends are from the fetish scene in some capacity. I’m not shagging them all, but they’re open minded, authentic people, and for that reason the friendships I find within the scene are extremely valuable.

    What Are Watersports?

    Water sports (noun):

    1. Sports that are carried out on water, such as waterskiing and windsurfing.
    2. Informal Sexual activity involving urination.

    For the purposes of this article – we will be discussing the latter. I can’t say I have a lot of experience on a surfboard, but I have considerable experience of being fucked with my face in a puddle of piss.

    – Modelling, make-up and hair by: Bethanrory
    – www.fingglez.com – (c) MGC (Fingglez) 2017

    Why Watersports Is Popular

    Water sports is one of those fetishes that can be used as a vehicle for other fetishes – such as degradation, humilation or any Dominance/Submission dynamic. It might not always be due to a physical arousal of piss or pissing. In fact, it might be arousing because the submissive hates it, but they are super into degradation and consensually want to be pushed into that with their partner.

    Maybe they get super horny over being embarrassed in public – so being told to piss themselves whilst out is a wet dream come true. However, at home, it just doesn’t tickle their pickle.

    Then of course, there are people who are just genuinely into piss, as a shower, as a beverage, the smell, the taste, the act, the relief.

    Although my sexuality is constantly evolving, I think I fall into both categories. I’m an absolute sucker for degradation and being fucked with my head in the toilet, but when I’ve drunk a wine glass full of piss at a civilised cocktail party, I really quite enjoy the taste.

    – Modelling, make-up and hair by: Bethanrory
    – www.fingglez.com – (c) MGC (Fingglez) 2017

    Do’s & Don’ts When Engaging In Watersports

    DO: Have fun! Try things, see if you like it. If you don’t, do something else.

    DON’T: Piss in anyone’s mouth if you have recently taken Penecillin (or vice versa) because it tastes really bad. Or get piss in your hair if you have plans which require not smelling of piss for around 24 hours after.

    How To Enjoy Watersports

    Take it easy, stay hydrated and do gross things in a safe, sane and consensual environment.


    Estella Bathory – Hi! I’m an adult performer who also produces for adult sites. I mostly do everything kink and hard B/G and G/G scenes. This year I won at the BBW Awards show and was also the first performer to win ‘Best BBW’ at the TelevisionX SHAFTA awards!

    I hope to continue doing what I’m doing and spreading the filth 🙂

    Follow Estella on

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/estellabathory

    ManyVids: www.estellabathory.manyvids.com

    OnlyFans: www.onlyfans.com/estellabathory

    My upcoming website estellabathory.exposed check it out!


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  • What It’s Like To Be A Japanese Pro Domina

    What It’s Like To Be A Japanese Pro Domina

    I am Mistress KIRA, beautiful, sensual, strict and Sadistic. An experienced fetish and BDSM professional with 10 years experience, ready to take you on a unique journey to help you explore your deepest darkest desires. Where fantasy will become reality and where submitting will come easily.

    It’s been a journey for Me too, where I have cultivated My skills and built upon them over the years, evolving along the way giving Me an innate ability to tune into physical and mental, as these are in unison and paramount. So…

    Whether you are a novice, or experienced player, I will take into account your needs and desires, to structure the session appropriately.

    I will pay extra attention and understanding to the needs of the novice, as I can understand this can be a daunting time and want nothing more than for them to have a pleasant and stimulating experience.

    What I Love About Being A Pro Domina

    I liked the game of controlling people since my childhood. It does not change even now but BDSM control is part of my life.

    Learning About Japanese Kink

    Through the internet you can freely know Japanese BDSM. For example, Japanese Rope and Dominatrix and BDSM films.

    Favorite Kinks

    It changes with my mood, but many anal torture, bondage and stepping, spanking, rubber vacuum bed, legs and shoes fetish a lot.

    Expectations Of My Subs

    I expect the growth of slaves. If you are comparing with the beginner ‘s slave anal’ s anal, I’m happy that my hand, fist and feet will come in.


    Mistress Kira – Dominatrix Kira Japanese Mistress in Osaka, Japan

    Follow Mistress Kira on

    Website: https://www.krdomination.com/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/FetishismKira

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/krdomination/

    Short Weblog: http://mistresskira.blog41.fc2.com/

    The session with me will be in Osaka only in Japan. Please make a reservation from the mail form. https://www.krdomination.com/e-price

    My new BDSM film will be released in the year of 2018 or the beginning of 2019. https://www.krdomination.com/sm


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