Category: Sex Ed

What Guys Should Know Before Buying Used Panties

I honestly can’t remember how I initially got the idea to sell panties, but before I actually started, I wavered back and forth between whether or not I wanted to try it for several years. I’m sure a lot of people think that selling panties is “easy”, but there is a lot that goes into it. Which is why, in the past, I had always decided against it. I just didn’t have the time, energy or resources to do all of the research required before you start selling and the work that goes into it afterwards. However, several months ago I just thought, “Why not just try it? It could be fun.” I started looking into panty selling sites and found Panty Trust. I went through the application and verification process and became a Panty Trust verified seller.

The obvious answer to what I love about it is the money, but that’s not all that I love about. It actually is a lot of fun! I love taking the photos for the ads, marketing and promoting myself, and talking to (most) of my buyers. It’s always nice to feel desirable, and when people order my panties or I get positive feedback it’s definitely flattering. All of my panties come with ten pictures of me modeling the panties for the buyer and it’s also fun having a little photoshoot whenever I list a new pair. Most of the guys who email me about purchasing are perfectly pleasant to talk to, but of course you do get a few bad eggs who are very rude or just wasting my time. Overall the whole experience is enjoyable though. Everytime I get an email from a prospective buyer, I get excited!

Types Of Panties I Sell

I sell pretty much every type of panties that are sold at Victoria’s Secret. I sell boy shorts, bikinis, thongs, g-strings, “cheekini’s, “cheeksters”, hiphuggers, string bikinis, and brief styles. I have cotton panties, lace panties, satin panties, etc. I offer a variety of styles and materials so that everyone can find their perfect pair of used panties. I also accept orders for specific panties. Some customers are very particular about the panties they enjoy and I try my best to be accommodating.

What Happens After An Order Has Been Placed?

When I receive an order request from a customer, the first thing I do is ask if they want any extra days or other add-ons. Sometimes customers don’t read my whole payment terms page and aren’t aware that there are additional fees. Once I’ve given them the final price with shipping I tell them the ways that I accept payment and to send the agreed upon amount by whatever one of those methods they prefer. Once I receive payment, I will send the customer a confirmation email and send them the 10 pictures that are included with all of my panty orders (clothes and bras come with 5 pictures, socks, shoes, and pantyhose also come with 10 pictures). I also inform them which day I will be wearing them and plan to ship them out.

Sometimes I get several orders in a row so a customer may have to wait a bit for their turn. I fill orders based on when I received payment, not based on when I was initially contacted. When their order is up, I will start wearing the panties that morning. The standard amount of time is 24 hours, in which case I remove the panties the following morning and immediately seal them in an airtight bag. The air tight bag is then placed into a plain packaging envelope or small box, which I mail to the customer that day. Once I have shipped the order, I will send the customer a confirmation email with the tracking number and expected delivery date.

Guys, Don’t Ever Request For These

I have denied requests for bathroom trash and used toilet paper. It is VERY illegal to send bodily fluids through the mail. Anything that has a chance of leaking from the packaging is an absolute no-no. Also, I just generally feel grossed out mailing that kind of stuff. My bathroom garbage doesn’t make me feel sexy and I have no desire to package it for a customer. I have also denied numerous requests for pornographic and/or custom videos and photos.

I’m Kaylee, a young, sexy and love selling my used panties and other fetish items! I’ve been described as a “sexy librarian”, which is a description I absolutely love. I’m very approachable and easy to talk to, so don’t be shy! Feel free to email me with any requests or questions because if you don’t ask, you’ll never know.

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I periodically have sales and flash sales. I’m also always listing new panties and other fetish items. So just follow me on twitter and keep an eye out on my other sites for info on sales and new items!

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August 2, 2016
How To Role Play In Bed

Sex is freedom, it’s love, it’s acceptance, it’s safe; it’s permission to be vulnerable, a bit out of body but at the same time, you feel everything without thinking. It’s something that fulfills and triggers those things spoken and unspoken. It can be loving, dirty, naughty, erotic, sensual, emotional, and purely physical. Embracing sex as a regular part of life, like eating, puts you more in touch with yourself and ultimately with the experience of being alive.

Why I Love Role Playing

What I like about role play is that it’s a fantasy, that it lets you tap into things you might not get to do or be 24/7. I like that it’s a safe, non-judgemental (or it should be) space to let go of inhibitions and play. That play can be a release, a stress reliever, it can be cathartic, take the stigma out of good/bad ideas someone may have about what’s acceptable. I like that overall it’s fun, it’s exciting, you use your imagination, it’s a way to connect with someone in a space you might not otherwise have.

Since I do a lot of role play not in person (online as a WebCam Model, during a Skype show or in chat messaging), I love being able to allow someone else to experience whatever fantasy they have, for whatever reason they have it, need it or enjoy it.

Favorite Role Play Characters

I LOVE playing the little girl, fuck toy, flirt/tease roles. Someone else might see it as submissive, and in a way it is; but it can also be a control role reversal for me. I’m toying with you by allowing you to tell me what to do, I’m playing along; giving you permission to put me up to things, to demand I do this or that. I am still choosing to let you control me; so I am ultimately still in control.

Tips For Beginners

Have ground rules, including a ‘safe word’. With something like that in place, it can help you feel more comfortable to let loose. Enjoy yourself. Maybe start with re-enacting something from a movie, pretend to be a character you like, or fantasize about being more like in ‘real life’.

2 Ways to Kink It Up

1. Involve other people, and new settings?

2. Take something non-sexual and make it sexual?

4 Rules To Role Playing

1. Mutual respect, a ‘safe word’, even if you don’t use it.

2. Discretion. Again, a lot of mine occurs in cyberspace, privacy and confidentiality is very important.

3. Don’t do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable.

4. Have fun, enjoy yourself! Have no shame!!!

I’m Candee Minx, a WebCam Model/Entertainer and aspiring Alt Model. I am new to this industry. I’ve always had a fascination with prostitutes, pole dancers and strippers;women who are unapologetically in control of their sexuality, how and with whom they share it with. I’m at a place in life where I want to live with no regrets and have no shame about how I enjoy it and share that with others. In an unexpected way, I feel I have found my calling where I am able to combine my interests of entertaining, sexuality, helping others, connecting with people and am absolutely loving it.

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Tattoo Pool Party-Hell City/Arizona/Biltmore Hotel August 12-14

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I will be a part of this event, along with participating in a photo shoot.

AVN 2017 in Las Vegas

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August 1, 2016
How To Finger A Girl

My hands are my major sex organ. Human hands are capable of both finesse and power. I don’t approach “fingering” as some lower level sex act, but as fucking. My advice comes from a sample size of about 3500 women. No two women are the same, but they are similar. The actions that feel good fall within a range.

Be Attentive

Use your fingers to feel your partner’s body, eventually making your way to her pussy. Pay attention to the flow of blood into her lips, the pace of her heart, her breathing, her voice. Gauge her reactions, and proceed with what feels good. Most girls either want to be stroked vertically up and down the length of the clit, have her clit rubbed back and forth, or in circles.

I will sometimes ask a girl which of these things feel better. Don’t be afraid to ask questions in bed. One of the easiest ways I’ve found to get a woman off is to hold her from the back, kissing her or looking at her or kissing her neck, using one hand to rub her clit and the other to touch her breasts or another erogenous zone. From this position, you can touch her as she might touch herself.

How To Enter Her

If you want to use penetration, feel the entrance of the vagina. If she reacts well, put your fingers in. I tend to start with two, but with some partners one is more appropriate. If you’re inexperienced, start with one. Starting with more than two is an an advanced move and I don’t recommend using it without a lot of practice. Use firm pressure, but not necessarily hard. Direct your energy into your finger(s).

Many women like it when you curve your fingers toward her abdomen and feel for an area that feels sort of spongy (the“G Spot”) and then fuck that. Stroke in and out, but with that spot as the target, increasing your speed as her arousal increases. The vagina expands with arousal. When you start to feel a space inside, you can add more girth (fingers). The reason I’ve put my fist inside so many girls is that I know how to read this sequence.

Step It Up

Look at your partner. Pay attention to her. Fuck faster and harder when she’s ready, not when you are. Most women do like to get fucked – they just want to be fucked right. You have better control with your hands, so not only can you pleasure your partner you can learn skills that you can transfer to intercourse. Have fun and treat your partner with love.

Lily Cade is “Porn Valley’s Gold Star Lesbian” and a veteran adult performer and director. She’s known for her strap-on skills, her aggressively passionate sex scenes, and her characters such as “Officer Cade” and “Kristen Grey.”

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Evil Lesbian Stepmother, coming soon from FillyFilms.com, is my latest movie. In my first “Milf” role, I tackle the popular incest genre in my own delightfully twisted way. The movie stars Bianca Breeze, Piper Perri, Mona Wales, Lana Lovelace, RenéeRoulette and Summer Day.

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July 29, 2016
3 Tips For A Successful MFM Threesome

We feel that sex between consenting adults is a wonderful thing. We also truly enjoy sharing each other with others. We find it very erotic to be “swingers” and we love to bring that sort of fantasy into the world of companionship and escorting.

We enjoy watching porn and we found we kept on turning to MFM porn and it turned us on so much we both agreed to make the fantasy a reality. The first time was amazing, and as we get increasingly more comfortable with our sexuality it just keeps getting better and better!

Tips For A Successful MFM Threesome

1.     Make sure your girlfriend is a consenting partner. If she is on the fence or not sure, don’t push her to experiment. It will only hurt your relationship.

2.     Make sure the male you invite into the bedroom is respectful of your relationship and your boundaries and fantasies.

3.     You can have better sex sober than drunk or high on hard drugs.

Favorite Position & Equal Play

Doggy-style so she can suck one of us while the other takes her from behind.

If your relationship is secure and you have a good understanding with your +1 male friend, than it shouldn’t be too hard to have the experience without anyone feeling left out.

We are a sexy, open minded bi-sexual couple based in NYC, and available to travel worldwide. We love to meet with Single Males/Females as well as couples. This is our lifestyle and we wouldn’t have it any other way! Follow us on our website www.newyorkeroticcouple.com or Twitter @sexynycouple

We are based in NYC and would love to meet you here in Manhattan. We are interested in getting involved in porn. Anyone know any good porn contacts?

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July 28, 2016
What Is The Girlfriend Experience?

My sexual self is a big component of my identity, and one that I love to indulge in. Sex for me can be a means of receiving intimacy and comfort, a form of release and stress-relief, or simply a fun way to pass the time. My work is an extension of my sexual identity, and one that satisfies me on a number of levels. Of course, in a work context I am catering to whatever purpose sex serves for my clients, whether that’s one of learning and experimentation, of overcoming fears and insecurities, or of receiving touch and human-connection. But I think that there’s a general misconception that sex is always special or significant and ends (or should end) in a raging orgasm. There needs to be more of an acknowledgment that sex is never always or even ever this for some people, but that open communication and great consent practices are vital if we wish to strive towards positive sexual experiences for everyone.

What Is The Girlfriend Experience?

The girlfriend experience centres on intimacy, and I think a major tenant is ‘authenticity’. Clients want to know that you’re enjoying yourself just as much as they are, that you’re not there just for the money, and that you truly care about them in that moment. My GFE includes deep French kissing and mutual oral – most of my clients adore giving head and will do so for most of the session. My body is very sexually responsive and this enables my clients to experience the interaction as a mutually pleasurable experience, which certainly isn’t a necessity for me to enjoy a session but is something that my clients value. They love to know they have made me come. My sessions also commonly include extended make-outs and cuddling, and my clients often share personal feelings, insecurities and other concerns, especially related to their sex life and relationships.

Popularity of The GFE

The GFE is very popular because people want and need intimacy and human connection. I don’t wish to construct or support a hierarchy that puts the provision of intimacy above the provision of sex, but I think that the act of sex is perhaps more accessible to clients (through sex work or other means) than access to intimacy, making an ‘authentic’ intimate service one that is highly valued. Sometimes it has been a long time since my client has felt sexually valued or capable, or they haven’t ever had an opportunity to express what they want and take their time without the anxiety of performing for an expectant lover. The GFE can be a safe container in which people can be vulnerable in this and even work through their hang-ups.

GFE Rules

There is a fine line between fantasy and reality, and I think GFE (or at least the way I approach it) blurs this line. Connecting with a person is connecting with a person, but it is important for clients to understand that it is still a service, and that our relationship exists within the confines of the session for which I have been paid. Other workers might construct a clear distinction between a GFE and PSE (porn star experience) service, but although I would describe my service as exclusively GFE it also includes tenants of a PSE should my client desire it. Often my clients and I have very energetic sex, with multiple positions including those that are less face-to-face, body-to-body intimate (for example, doggy style). For this reason I sometimes describe my service as a ‘sexy’ or ‘dirty’ girlfriend experience to flag that this kind of sex is also on offer. I don’t offer anal penetration or natural services, but these are personal boundaries that do not only apply to my GFE but to all of my service-styles and sessions.

Preparing For An Intimate Experience

I experience the time spent with my clients as a container in which everything in my personal life falls away. This is important to ensure I am in the moment and can truly devote my focus towards my client and the sexual experience at hand. If I am very stressed or sexually exhausted this becomes more difficult, but that comes down to self care and whether I am managing my own emotional and physical needs in a personal context. I need to cultivate my own mental health and gather my ‘spoons’ in order to be able to give in the capacity that I do with my clients, as it takes a lot to be so sexually and emotionally vulnerable with people who are essentially (or at least begin as) strangers.

Marina Lee is Melbourne’s most authentic escort experience, porn performer and sexual politics geek. She has a penchant for hair, hedonism and kink, and adores connecting with new people.

Stay up-to-date with Marina’s session availability, porn scenes and general antics by visiting her website www.escortmarinalee.com or following her on twitter at www.twitter.com/MarinaLeeX.

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July 27, 2016
Hentai vs Porn – Which Do You Like More?

I have liked anime almost my whole life. Hentai was a sort of gateway for me into sexuality. It started when a friend showed me some hentai games and then I started watching hentai on my own. So I watched hentai long before I even thought about watching traditional porn. I probably didn’t even look at traditional porn until college. Hentai seemed like more fun to me. The stories are more interesting, you can do more, the outfits are prettier, and the girls are hotter!

What Is Hentai

Hentai is basically just Japanese made animated porn. So mostly, it is of course in Japanese. Since I speak a little Japanese I don’t care very much for subtitles and usually turn them off if I can. I think hentai is popular for the same reason anime is popular. There is just something about anime girls that is appealing to people like me. The sounds they make, the things they say, and the way they look is so different from traditional porn. And although hentai is censored because of Japanese censorship laws, the things people do in hentai has no limits. There are more fantasies played out in hentai than I can even list – most of which can’t easily be done with traditional porn.

How Real Is Hentai

It depends on the hentai, really. Hentai can be either completely out there or based in the real world. I’ve seen hentai about girls on trains, in classrooms, or in their own bedrooms. I’ve also seen hentai where warrior girls are kidnapped by tentacled aliens. The great thing about anime is it has the ability to make even porn scenes that seem mundane become more than they could be in normal porn. You can achieve impossible angles, sounds, and inner dialogue. You can’t do that in normal porn without it seeming cheesy or off. But elements like that are perfectly normal in hentai.

Difference Between Hentai & Porn

I can’t say that I know for sure. Most people I know that are open about watching porn sway more towards hentai. So I don’t have very much experience with lovers of traditional porn. I’d say that hentai lovers are the same as anime lovers. Not everyone is in love with anime, so naturally anyone that isn’t would prefer normal porn. In fact, people who prefer traditional porn may even find hentai weird – but I think those are the same people that find anime weird. You have to be open-minded to like hentai. You have to be alright with absurdly large breasts and even more absurd plots.

Popular Hentai Genres

Oddly enough, I think the most popular hentai genre is the rape fantasies. I have no idea why. But you can’t visit a hentai site without being overwhelmed by hentai about that. Another popular genre is school girls and virginity. There is a fixation on school girls because they are innocent and easy to take advantage of – especially in Japanese culture. In Japan, even holding hands is a slightly inappropriate public display of affection. So there is something extremely erotic in Japan about a school girl having her virginity taken, either by a classmate or an older man. Other fantasies I see a lot in hentai are teachers or other people with authority and way, way too much incest. Like I said, hentai is weird and you have to be open-minded to get into it. I am definitely not saying some of the hentai topics are okay. I usually steer away from things like incest, but it is hard to avoid it.

Momo Koizumi – I’m goofy, nerdy, and love to laugh. You can usually find me nerding out about anime, video games, or sci-fi! I’m just getting into the cosplay scene and am almost always in cosplay on cam.

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July 26, 2016
Try A Prostate Massage For Powerful Male Orgasms

My once conventional views on sex have definitely been altered since becoming a sex worker. Once an underutilized tool, it now stands central to my business. Sex is more than the process of intercourse. For me it encapsulates an entire myriad of stages, from the tiniest of details during preparation, the development of anticipation and the unfolding of foreplay. I’ve just made it sound all so mechanical, but I assure you I savor every element.

What Is A Prostate Massage

The male prostate gland is the like the female G-spot for men. It’s sometimes called the P-spot. Stimulating the prostate can give (some) men intense pleasure. It’s not for all men though, and sometimes it takes a little practice. I prefer using my index or middle finger when massaging, as I can feel for the correct spot and know how much pressure I’m giving. Alternatively I use anal toys, vibrators and strap-ons too.

Why Men Love It

It’s another level of sensation. Not having my own prostate, though I can only compare to anal play on myself, a pleasurable yet more intense feeling than vaginal play. Prostate massages are often an accompaniment to a hand-job or blowjob, and results in a heightened experience. For those men who haven’t tried a prostate massage yet, or who are apprehensive about it, I would suggest having your perineum massaged. This area between your package and your anus responds well to gentle and firm massages. Often while giving a blowjob, I will caress the perineum with my thumb, and the reactions are nearly always positive. In other cases the man has no idea what I’m doing, they just know it feels good!

One Thing To Do Before A Prostate Massage

It seems obvious, but use the toilet before you plan on receiving prostate massage. Then a good clean is appreciated. You can place a condom or glove on your finger and insert it into the anus, swirling it around to remove any ‘debris’. Have a hot, soapy shower and wipe down the area thoroughly.

Why I Love Giving Prostate Massages

I’ve never thought about the answer to this question in such detail. Usually, it’s because I enjoy watching the fierce pleasure the man receives. I guess it also has something to do with it not being mainstream for a lot of men, as it’s something a little different. I enjoy being the one to take a man’s ‘anal virginity’. It’s about having that power and watching them relish in the experience, they’re almost vulnerable in a way.

On To The Deed!

No matter if the gentlemen I’m offering a prostate massage to is experienced or not, I would start of slow, with lots of gentle touching and rubbing of the sphincter. Of course with plenty of lube! The more the anus is aroused the easier it is to insert a finger. I would never shove a whole finger into the anus at once, even on an experienced player. Slow and steady is the way to go, with regular reapplications of lube. To increase pleasure, I may use my thumb or alternate hand to massage the perineum simultaneously, or to caress the penis, either via a hand job or blowjob.

Enjoy The Moment

It can last anywhere from a few minutes to an entire session depending on the man receiving the massage. Sometimes the pleasure is just too intense and you need to slow down or stop completely. I alter between caressing the P-spot to just relaxing my finger inside their anus, this gives him time to take a breath and feel the difference in sensations. How do I know if he’s enjoying himself? Well I’ve known men who make zero sounds during a blowjob or sex, that you could hear a tumbleweed go by. It does make you question if they are enjoying themselves. It all comes down to communication, watching the changes in facial expression and the contractions of the anus.

Review From A Very Happy Customer

“She (Jordan) started off sensual and pampering, slowly turning the erotic dial up as she went, culminating in an amazing prostate massage. I enjoy prostate massage because I can experience several orgasms without actually coming, or losing arousal. I also find the prostate massage magnifies the intensity of sensation when coming for several days afterwards.

Jordan read me like a book. She coaxed half a dozen prostate orgasms out of me before taking me over the edge with her hands. Hands down (excuse the pun) the best experience of prostate play I have ever had.” – John* (Name changed for privacy)

Miss Jordan Quinn is a 25 y/o brunette, who recently completed a degree in Science and works as a companion/sex worker full time. She is a lover of travel, an appreciator of good food and an enthusiastic giggler. Repeat clients enjoy her company due to her natural smile, down to earth personality and probably her bum. She is from Wellington, New Zealand and was voted “Overall Sex Worker of the year – 2015” by the NZ punting community.

Follow and contact her at www.missjordanquinn.com and on Twitter @Giggly_Jordan

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July 25, 2016
5 Things You Didn’t Know About Escorts

I love sex and everything that’s related to it. I view sex as a great source of fun, relaxation and endorphins 🙂

I’ve always been very sexual and a bit promiscuous. Already at quite a young age, I realized I’m attracted to older boys/men and that monogamous relationships don’t satisfy me. So when I first got an offer to have sex for money, it didn’t take me long to decide to go for it. I did the math and came to the conclusion that having lots of sex with various guys and getting paid for it is even better than doing it for free 😀 So I became a prostitute.

At first, I had some lovers who gave me “pocket money” and then I started to advertise as an escort and meet clients on a daily basis. After a short time, I found out that working abroad is more lucrative and adventurous, so I started to travel for work to richer European countries. Nowadays, I mostly work in Scandinavia, France and in Prague, where I live, but I consider visiting other European countries in the future.

1. Popular Requests From Clients

Most people want to meet me for an one hour long encounter and their popular requests are kissing, blowjobs without condom, CIM and girlfriend experience in general. I also get requests for longer appointments and overnights, which are more about companionship than about sex, but most of my meetings are the combination of both.

Concerning the requests for specific services, most of my clients want a GFE, because that’s what I specialize in. Or better said, it’s the way I normally treat them, unless we agree on something else. Kissing, cuddling and a lover-like attitude is what feels natural for me. My website and ad is targeted to the men seeking for this kind of experience, therefore the GFE is the most common request I get. Many people also ask me for anal sex, prostate massage and giving them golden showers.

2. Preferences For Certain Clients

Age and looks are the least important things for me. In general, I prefer men who are experienced in terms of how to please a woman, but the inexperience ones can be fun too. I like to teach them. I’ve met quite a many virgins and in many cases, I didn’t want to believe them that they really had no experiences.

If it is about penis size, I don’t like anything extreme. Apart from that, I don’t care whether it’s small or big, thin or thick. It’s more about the technique.

I only have preferences about the clients manners and behavior. I like to meet people that are polite, respectful and who want me to enjoy the meeting too. Since I’m careful and selective about who I meet, I rarely have clients who aren’t like that.

3. Establishing A Good Connection

I think it’s all about being relax. So I just keep myself in a good mood and it seems to be working 🙂 I just act naturally, wear casual clothes (unless they ask me to wear something specific) and I treat them like my lovers. Then in most cases, the clients are relax too and the chemistry and the connection just shows up. What clients don’t like are the girls who are stressed out and the robotic professionals who act like they think they’re the best girls in the world.

4. Falling In Love With Clients

I see romantic love that people write poems about as a set of chemical reactions, just like happiness or sadness. The sensation of feeling in love is given by the same set of hormones that are released when doing sports or eating chocolate. So to me, falling in love is something that can be controlled or even avoided, if I want. I sometimes feel that kind of emotion when spending time with some clients. I’m even able to feel “in love” a couple times of a day and with various people 🙂 I always enjoy that feeling, but I don’t let it fool me. First and foremost, I love my freedom.

Even though some of my regular clients are more like my friends, I always keep our relationships professional. We meet up, have a good time and conversation, and that’s pretty much it. I enjoy the time we spend together, but I refuse all the offers for unpaid encounters I get from them. I have a lot of good time with my clients, so I don’t have a need to go for dates that aren’t part of my job.

5. Challenges Of An Escort

I sometimes have to deal with prejudices and stupid questions, but I believe that’s something what everyone who doesn’t go with the flow faces from time to time. When having to communicate with people, that are prejudiced or negative, I always try to remember that what they’re saying is not about me, but about them and their lack of information.

Another challenge are various legislation about prostitution, which are said to be settled to protect the escorts, but do the exact opposite. That would be a topic for a longer article, I guess.

The challenges people often talk about, such as bad customers or sexually transmitted diseases can be easily avoided by not taking the risks, being well informed and by simply following my intuition.

Escorting is as safe and fun as I make it. And I love to have good fun 🙂

Hi, I’m Coco and I’m an independent escort working in Europe. Few years ago, I decided not to waste a minute of my life by doing things I don’t enjoy and by doing what others expect me to do. So I turned my passion for sex into a profitable business. When not spending my time with nice gentlemen, I love doing sports, educating myself, traveling around the world, relaxing and doing whatever makes me happy at the moment 🙂

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July 22, 2016
Facials & Swallowing – What You Should Know

I believe that sex is a pleasure for the majority of us and can be very healthy in many ways!

Sex itself is a form of exercise, resulting in released endorphin’s, blood flow, and energy! All good for the brain!

A Choice Between Facials or Swallowing

I prefer to receive a facial. I like to watch orgasms happen and feel how big the load is that’s being drained on me!

One Tip For Guys When Giving Facials

Guys, do be so kind and ask the beautiful lady to close her eyes when receiving facials and don’t risk her eyes getting irritated!

Why Females Don’t Enjoy Swallowing

The gag reflex, and texture of the “juices.”

I would say, “Take one for the team to overcome this hesitancy!”

Ejaculation Etiquette For Men

Some men do and some don’t warn before ejaculating, so “Expect the unexpected!”

The “rules” every guy should follow: Discuss Do’s and Don’ts with the lady and don’t push any limits.

How To Enjoy Swallowing

My tip is to swallow immediately if you can’t stand the taste…

Ensure an enjoyable experience by going out of your way to PLEASE YOUR PARTNER!

Katy Kiss – A true Southerner and Redhead! I always expect the unexpected during sex. Consider me a pervert but all in good fun!

Katy Kiss will play the role of “Poison Ivy” for “Suicide Squad XXX.” (My first film with Axel Braun!) STAY TUNED!

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July 21, 2016
Know Her Clitoris And Give Her An Orgasm

I love sex, I think it brings two people as close as they possibly can be together.

Importance of Clitoral Stimulation

I think as with anything, it depends on the person. However, for me it’s very important.

How To Use Your Mouth

A guy should kiss softly and hard maybe some slight nibbling. Mix it up and not just do the same thing the whole time that he is down there. Thigh biting and kissing are a must.

I think for must nots, it depends on the woman. But for me I only like his mouth on my clit and not actually in me.

Toys For Clitoral Stimulation

My absolute favorite is the Hitachi. However during sex, I like a less powerful Hitachi ( I have a few lol).

One Tip To Satisfy Your Lady Better

My biggest tip is to talk to her and see exactly what she wants. Also don’t be afraid to try new things, you may find something you both unexpectedly enjoy.

Ivy Wolf – A 22 year old cam girl. I have been camming since Feb of 2016 on MFC. I have a cat named Bucky and a geck named Geckanalious (Geck for short). I have a passion for makeup, reptiles, and tattoos. I have a half sleeve and tattoos scattered all over. I am currently saving up for my next tattoo which is going to be an octopus on my hip (I currently have a fund me on my many vids site towards this).

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July 20, 2016