Sex is freedom, it’s love, it’s acceptance, it’s safe; it’s permission to be vulnerable, a bit out of body but at the same time, you feel everything without thinking. It’s something that fulfills and triggers those things spoken and unspoken. It can be loving, dirty, naughty, erotic, sensual, emotional, and purely physical. Embracing sex as a regular part of life, like eating, puts you more in touch with yourself and ultimately with the experience of being alive.
Why I Love Role Playing
What I like about role play is that it’s a fantasy, that it lets you tap into things you might not get to do or be 24/7. I like that it’s a safe, non-judgemental (or it should be) space to let go of inhibitions and play. That play can be a release, a stress reliever, it can be cathartic, take the stigma out of good/bad ideas someone may have about what’s acceptable. I like that overall it’s fun, it’s exciting, you use your imagination, it’s a way to connect with someone in a space you might not otherwise have.
Since I do a lot of role play not in person (online as a WebCam Model, during a Skype show or in chat messaging), I love being able to allow someone else to experience whatever fantasy they have, for whatever reason they have it, need it or enjoy it.
Favorite Role Play Characters
I LOVE playing the little girl, fuck toy, flirt/tease roles. Someone else might see it as submissive, and in a way it is; but it can also be a control role reversal for me. I’m toying with you by allowing you to tell me what to do, I’m playing along; giving you permission to put me up to things, to demand I do this or that. I am still choosing to let you control me; so I am ultimately still in control.
Tips For Beginners
Have ground rules, including a ‘safe word’. With something like that in place, it can help you feel more comfortable to let loose. Enjoy yourself. Maybe start with re-enacting something from a movie, pretend to be a character you like, or fantasize about being more like in ‘real life’.
2 Ways to Kink It Up
1. Involve other people, and new settings?
2. Take something non-sexual and make it sexual?
4 Rules To Role Playing
1. Mutual respect, a ‘safe word’, even if you don’t use it.
2. Discretion. Again, a lot of mine occurs in cyberspace, privacy and confidentiality is very important.
3. Don’t do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable.
4. Have fun, enjoy yourself! Have no shame!!!
I’m Candee Minx, a WebCam Model/Entertainer and aspiring Alt Model. I am new to this industry. I’ve always had a fascination with prostitutes, pole dancers and strippers;women who are unapologetically in control of their sexuality, how and with whom they share it with. I’m at a place in life where I want to live with no regrets and have no shame about how I enjoy it and share that with others. In an unexpected way, I feel I have found my calling where I am able to combine my interests of entertaining, sexuality, helping others, connecting with people and am absolutely loving it.
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Tattoo Pool Party-Hell City/Arizona/Biltmore Hotel August 12-14
I will be a part of this event, along with participating in a photo shoot.
AVN 2017 in Las Vegas
I will be there representing for MyFreeCams
Images courtesy of Candee Minx
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