Category: Sex Ed

Useful Tips To Spice Sex Up On Your Wedding Night

Getting married!! You already have butterflies in your stomach. As the day progresses, the anxiety well starts to build up; more if you have not known your husband or wife for long before the wedding. The wedding night or first night is the most significant period in the couple’s life, what happens that night will be imprinted in your mind lifelong. So don’t rush.

Sex can happen or cannot, so go with an open mind. It’s more important to relax in each others company and to control your nervousness. Try and connect emotionally first rather than get physical. The husband should always make the first move and give hints to his partner that he is getting aroused in her presence and politely and passionately convince her that you will not cause her any pain.

It’s very easy for couples to get excited on their first night even if they have known each other for a long time. The trick here is to keep it slow, take time to understand each others body. Kissing, hugging, and fondling each other should be a kick start to have wonderful sex on your first night. Husbands should be more patient, unselfish and in control to satisfy his wife. Being pushy on the first night could lead to repulsion.

The first night act is not only the husband’s responsibility, but the wife also needs to be actively involved in it. Women feel shy in opening up about their body and feelings and many times resist having sex on their first night. These days girls are becoming more matured and listen to their body and don’t consider having sex as a mere duty to please their husbands, but would like to be a part of it. Exercising regularly and stretching the pelvic muscles will help reduce pain on the first night.

Taking a shower together, it will help you open up and also relax in each others company. It’s advisable to keep the lights off and have candles lit all around to create that perfect atmosphere and to explore each others body. Proceed once you are comfortable, step by step, which will build a great bond of trust and understanding. Husbands should understand his wife’s fear of having sex for the first time; it can only be less painful if there is good intense foreplay involved. At times you can also use artificial lubricants to relieve pain. After all it’s how much you love your wife and care about her.

It’s not necessary that you end up having an intercourse on the first night. You can try giving your partner a massage to relieve the pressure and when the time is right make your next move. There are couples who would like to take some time, just enjoy foreplay and sleep naked in each other arms till passion takes over them completely, because this is not the only night you are spending together, your first night will determine the pleasure level for all the coming years.

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July 19, 2016
Insights In The Life Of Montreal Escort Genevieve Marceau

My views towards sexuality are positively open minded, and I consider this act as an important form of self-expression. The bedroom (or any other room) is where the mask falls. It is during this exhilarating moment that we release the deepest side of our personality, the one that we keep from the general public. We enter a world of fantasy where we can truly be ourselves, without fear of judgement. To me, sex is a connection: an exchange of power and energy with the partners involved, between the mind and the body.

I have been an escort for 4 beautiful years now. I had this comfortable, safe 9 to 5 career in which at some point the free thinker that I am grew incredibly bored out of it. I simply needed more in life. I needed to grow and expand as a human being. I always did the right thing, following the right path as per the society’s standards, and one day, I decided that I could no longer take more of this polished and unchallenged life. I then reached out to my escort friend, and asked her to introduce me to this world of mystery and sensuality that is the companionship profession. To this day, this was one of the best decision that I made in my life.

I am unique, just like everyone else! On a more serious note, I don’t have competitive views on the trade. I see other escorts as my colleagues, a networking community where we exchange tips, ideas and from which friendship may thrive. We all have something different, special and unique to offer, and therefore it is impossible to compare to one another. At the end of the day, it’s only a matter of personal taste and chemistry.

My trademark would be my generous and all-natural hip to waist ratio, which is not so common for Caucasian women. More than my sensual skills and physical attributes, I also consider myself a great listener with a considerable general knowledge, and with an acute intuition for non-verbal cues. I am an INFJ personality type, which only represent approximately 1% of the population.

The requests that I would consider weird are usually received from time wasters who don’t have real intentions of committing to an appointment, therefore they are forgotten as soon as their demand comes in. As I have previously mentioned, I have a non-judgemental approach towards sexuality and for that reason, I would never qualify as “weird” a request coming from a serious client.

I am grateful in life for not putting me in such situation yet to call off a date halfway into it. I did have rare occasions where I refused to see the client for a second appointment. Included in those reasons was a self-entitled attitude, or even a poor hygiene.

My name is Genevieve Marceau (pronounced Mar-sso), a Montreal based courtesan who takes pride in delivering an authentic, reliable and ethical experience of the highest standard. I am also internationally available by private invitation.

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July 18, 2016
A Guy’s View On What Makes Sex Amazing

I enjoy sex, of course. I like everything about it everything from foreplay to giving my partner orgasms to ensure both of us are satisfied equally.

Favorite Positions

Doggy style is my personal favorite, because I’m a butt man and I like to see the way her butt moves in that position; as well as spanking with some anal stimulation and hair pulling.

I do love cowgirl too. I like it when a woman jumps on top and rides me like there’s no tomorrow as well as me playing with her nipples.

Recently sideways while she’s on her back has been fun as sometimes I can stimulate the G-spot and we both have access to her clit (which is very important). Also, nipple play and choking (if she’s into it).

How She Reacts Is Key

Be vocal and active, talking to me during sex is a huge turn on. I like my head grabbed while I give her oral and I like her to be just as nasty as I am during sex, gyrating her hips and being equally aggressive is a plus.

Prolong Your Orgasm By Doing This

Change positions, take a break from sex to play with her clit. Suck her nipples and give her oral. Another way is to change the depth of penetration, as well as the speed in which you’re stroking.

Finish Off With A Bang

If it’s with my partner I like to go as deep as possible when I orgasm and push it all inside her and then keep going until I make sure every drop is inside her. Or sometimes she tells me to pull out on her so we can see how much I can release.

One of my favorites would be on her face or in her mouth. If it’s not with my partner, I would pull out and release on her face breasts or vagina.

Kink It Up A Notch

Of course there are things I like to do that make things more interesting such as sometimes sucking her toes while giving her oral play with her vagina. While you lick her butt, do things to test both of your limits. Use toys on her, foods such as chocolate or whip cream and blindfolds while letting her take control occasionally.

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July 15, 2016
Ways To Have Wild And Kinky Sex

I think sex is different for everyone. For me personally…. It’s freedom. Freedom to express myself, and to experience my own idea of pleasure. I also find it to be empowering. It feels AMAZING knowing I have all the power to do as I please with my body to achieve an orgasm, and to give another person one as well. In my opinion there is no better feeling than orgasm.

Outdoor Sex

When it comes to sex I am VERY experimental. I’m open to try anything at least once. I’ve experienced a number of naughty or wild sexual encounters. My most recent one being with my partner behind a wall of tires at a tire shop while waiting for the bus in Las Vegas. We were on our way home from picking up my check from the webcam studio I worked for. It was late. Around one A.M. We had been drinking at a bar after we picked up my check. We got off the bus to transfer to another one. I get really horny sometimes when I drink. We were making out, and heavily petting each other at the bus stop. I checked my phone to see how much of wait we had.

When I realized we had about 20 minutes until the bus arrived I told my partner to follow me. I knew he had never had sex in a public place before, and It’s one of my favorite places to do it! He was reluctant at the beginning. “Babe, where are you going?”. “what are you doing?’. Were just a few of the questions he asked me. I pulled him behind the wall of tires, pulled my pants down, and told him that he better fuck me right then, and there. Otherwise I was gonna be pissed. He then got very aggressive (as I like him to be). He bent me over, pulled my hair, and rammed his cock into my already soaking wet pussy. We fucked for about ten minutes. We had to be quiet, because as we were fucking a few more people showed up to wait for the bus as well. Once he climaxed inside me, we pulled our pants up, and returned to bus stop as if nothing ever happened. It was awesome, and we still talk about it all the time to this day!

Use Sex Toys

I do enjoy using toys before sex as foreplay. As well as during sex! They can be used to spice things up a bit. I love using butt plugs while having vaginal sex. I also enjoy using a vibrator on my clit while taking it in the ass. I enjoy the butt plugs in my ass, because in my mind it’s dirty, and makes me a naughty little slut. I love being a naughty little slut for my man. I enjoy the vibrator on clit while receiving anal, because….. Well, I mean does that really need an explanation?! Hahaha I enjoy it because it’s a little bit of pain mixed with a whole lot of pleasure.

Double, Triple Penetration

I’ve never had 3 holes penetrated at once except for one time on cam. My partner and I do however use butt plugs while having sex. He enjoys being able to feel them with his cock. I enjoy having them in because it makes me feel naughty!

Be Rough

I think when having any kind of kinky sex, communication is key. I love when a man is rough! Choking, slapping, biting, hair pulling, and name calling! I suppose you could call me a masochist. Of course when engaging in activities like these, you should always have a talk with your partner first. Make sure you are aware of their limits. Once you have settled all that, Go crazy! Let go of everything else in your world. Forget what others see as right and wrong. Get what you want, while giving her exactly what she wants at the same time!

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July 14, 2016
Things She Wants During Sex

Sex is something that is often thought of as taboo. Many times we are made to feel embarrassed of our sexuality, our sexual preferences, our sexual partners, our bodies, and our sexual desires. And while sex is indeed a thing of intimacy, it’s also a very natural human desire. Having said all of that, I think sex and sexual desires should be embraced and enjoyed.

Be Experimental

My comfort level in terms of experimenting with new things sexually, is directly related to the level of comfort I have with my partner. I definitely consider myself to be an open minded person, but the moment needs to feel right for me as well. I prefer new experiences be enjoyable and spontaneous, not pressured or forced.

Get Naughty

Lol! Several years ago, I was dating a hot Cuban guy. To make a long story short, we were feeling frisky after a day of shopping, and ended up in the back seat of his sports car. It actually turned out to be an eventful night, as the cops showed up, asked us for ID’s, and he ultimately ended up driving off and dodging the cops. Lol..the good old days.

Turn Her On, Not Off

Hands down, the number one thing that turns me on, is my partner’s attraction to me. The more desired I feel that I am, the more aroused I become. As for satisfaction, I enjoy foreplay, dirty talk, and a little role play every now and then.

A major turn off for me is if my partner doesn’t interact during sex, or expects me to do “all the work.” I understand that not all people are loud and vocal during sex, which is fine, but I believe that since sex requires two people, both parties should engage. Some level of interaction from my partner (so I know he’s enjoying himself) makes things more fun for me. In terms of finding a remedy for this issue, I think understanding that what gets me going may not necessarily get his motor going is a good place to start. But at the end of the day, if you’re not sexually compatible with someone, you’re just not.

Sex Positions She Loves

Quite frankly, I love doggy and cowgirl, and I cannot decide between the two. My reason for enjoying these positions so much is mainly because both of those positions allow my lover to hit my G-spot. But the other reason I enjoy them is because I can stare my lover in the eyes during cowgirl and see his excitement, and doggy…well, I have a voluptuous derriere, and of course I love to see how having it perked up in the air gets him going lol.

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July 13, 2016
Ways To Tell If She Is Enjoying Sex

Sex is many things to me. I consider it to be a basic human need, like the need to breathe or consume food. Just as I prefer to eat delicious food and breathe crisp clean air, so too do I prefer sex to be more than just meeting a need (mine/my partners). Sex is the most intimate way to share yourself with another, and should always be enjoyed by both parties.

I have always loved exploring the bodies and minds of others-and let’s face it, in the most mind blowing sex the two are closely intertwined. In a sense, sex is everything boiled down to the basics: flesh, guttural sounds, and unbridled passion. At the same time, what brings you to that point of surrender is part physical, part mental; the mind is the greatest erogenous zone. It is a delicate game that, when played correctly, everyone wins.

Arouse Her

Physical attraction is a funny thing, particularly to a sex worker. We are bound to come across people who may not initially spark a physical desire within us, and yet we aim to provide a genuine service. Let’s not underestimate the seductive power of willingness to exchange money for time; before any date starts, I am already slightly aroused by the fact that the client is paying for my time and fantasizing about what our time will be like. In my experience, there is always something that ‘attracts’ me initially, be it a smile, a shy blush, or (my weakness), broad shoulders.

Exceptional hygiene goes a long way as well. Booking a long enough date to allow for some banter and possibly a glass of wine is essential too as this builds upon the initial attraction. After some subtle flirting and a few shared laughs, I am usually noticeably flushed and aroused even before hitting the sheets, and things flow easily beyond that point. I would say I am quite easily aroused!

Turn Her On With Foreplay

Foreplay begins before we meet. The anticipation, the pampering before our date, the long bath, and selection of lingerie and what to wear are where it all begins for me. Once we’ve gotten to know each other a little bit, I can’t say it enough: gentle, sensual foreplay is where it’s at for me. Every lady is different, but I am very sensitive everywhere. Passionate kisses that build slowly in intensity, gentle kisses and nibbles on my neck, back and everywhere else, soft stroking and teasing will have me begging for more!

Who Takes Charge During Sex?

This depends on the situation, the person, and the mood…I am quite comfortable taking the lead (and can find it very arousing), but I can also be sensually submissive and enjoy letting my partner take the lead to start in general. This way I can get a sense of his (or her!) pace, and what they enjoy. Often I find the take-charge role is one that is given and taken throughout a session, which I find extremely hot!

Signs She’s Enjoying It

For me, there are many indicators of enjoyment; for one, I get VERY wet when I am really turned on, and my face and neck get flushed. During sex, I tend to moan and whisper things to arouse myself and my partner, and when I climax it is quite obvious!

I also tend to get a bit grabby (in a good way) when I am into it, and will find myself burying my hands in a gent’s hair or latching on to his back while I arch into him.

Don’t Ever Do This Guys

The number one mistake men make is sticking with something that is not working, usually because it worked for someone else. If you pay attention to body language you will have lots of indication as to enjoyment. For example, if I am not enjoying something you are doing I might pull away instead of pushing into you, or I may suggest we do something else or switch positions. If this is lost on you then I will have to ask you to stop outright, which may be a mood-killer for some. Every woman is different and what works for one may not work for another, so don’t be afraid to ask and to listen if you want the experience to be mutually enjoyable!

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July 12, 2016
What Is The Best FKK Sauna To Spend A Day-Off In?
FKK Sauna is a place where one can feel safety and pleasure. It was designed to make it possible to get in touch with males and females ready to meet.

What Are the Features Proper FKK Saunas Offer?

Proper FKK sauna is the best place to have a good time for males. Once you get inside that kingdom of pleasure and fun you will never want to leave. It is very easy to find an FKK resort near you, however, the best one is situated on Flussstrasse, 1 in Hohenthurn near Villache. It is called Wellcum Spa resort and to check whether it is really the best, follow the link wellcum.at.

These are the following features a proper FKK sauna should possess:
- Wide area – Inbound and outbound facilities should be in place and a facility caring about guests would make sure that even if one would like to have a walk outside (unusual desire, though) it will have space enough to provide such an opportunity
- Outstanding interior – When having a rest, guests want everything to be perfect, that’s why a proper resort will provide a unique design compelling to intimacy
- Hotel – A proper rest should last no less than 24 hours, that’s why having some rooms for guests is necessary for a high-quality resort
- Restaurant and bar – No comments. However, some resorts are against alcoholic drinks, – what kind of day-off is that without a glass of 12-year alcohol?
- Beautiful females – It is the most important demand as women are the main reason men attend FKK saunas. Actually, women are the reason FKKs were created.
So Where Should One Go?

If your main goal is having a good time in a quiet and respectable place, Wellcum Spa resort is the choice you have to do. Why? Well, it has everything to satisfy even the most demanding needs. Also, the entrance fee is reasonable, just 85 Euros per person for a whole day stay – and that fee includes everything one may need, except having time with women and alcohol.

Once you enter the gates, you will see the hotel which is likely to become one’s place where the night will be spent. An outdoor pool is designed for one to have a swim in if it is too hot inside, and not because of conditioning issues though.

Wellcum FKK Sauna Services

The main resort service is providing an area where males and females can meet each other. There are numerous beautiful women from Austria, Italy and all over the world waiting for a meeting. One has to discuss all the details with the woman he likes and the resort will provide a suitable place, atmosphere and so on.

As you see, Wellcum FKK makes it all for providing a proper vacation or a day-off for males with specific needs. Contact our customer service to book a number or write us an email for further information at office@wellcum.at.

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July 11, 2016
How To Satisfy A Woman During Sex

All things sex related have kept me very curious since I was a teen. Sex is one of life’s many pleasures but it is definitely a pleasure than we should indulge in. The way I view sex is a not only as a normal biological need and drive but as an activity that everybody should enjoy without any attached shame nor should we shame others for things they enjoy. I understand why some may feel bashful about their deepest desires but we all have them and they need to be embraced. I think it would be a shame for a person to miss out on trying something they fantasize about due to lack of opportunity or embarrassment to express their needs. The only real boundaries I see are the law and consent.

Where we differ as individuals is in the activities, fantasies and people that really get us going. Personally, I am very open minded when it comes to all things sexual. I’ve explored many different sexual acts and feel like there’s nothing I could hear about that could really shock me, although I’m sure I’m wrong. I appreciate all types of relationships; monogamous, open, same sex, just do what feels right for you. Personally I view sex and love as two separate entities but obviously the two worlds collide.

What Turns Her On

What really turns me on is watching a man really enjoy the things I’m doing to him. Watching his face, hearing the moaning and sounds that he makes – that turns me on incredibly. Many different things turn me on and it can vary from day to day. I enjoy a sensual experience, passionate kisses, feeling a man’s lips slowly caress my body and inner thighs before eventually making his way to my sweet spot. Occasionally I like to be submissive and be told what to do or have things done to me but often, I like to be in control and dominant and take the lead. Role plays can be a lot of fun as well. Right now at the top of my list would be the “Secretary & Boss” scenario, which turns me on just thinking about it. “Doctor & Patient” hits quite high on this list as well.

Neck kisses, ooohhhh I love neck kisses. I have a few spots and it gets me good, real good! I think the deciding factor on what type of interaction is the chemistry and dynamic between two people. The relationship I have with my sister and best friend are different dynamics even though both are females and of the same age, the dynamic and connection with myself and each man is unique.

One thing I really would like to try personally and am yet to fully explore is bondage and submission. I’ve watched some porn movie clips in the genre and it turns me on incredibly. BDSM seems to range from the quite mild to unbelievably extreme and as a first timer I would keep it fairly mild as a starting point and could only enjoy it fully with someone that I know very well and have a lot of trust in. I think it would help if the dominant had a little experience under their belt as well.

When I think about it, the role plays I mentioned are almost dominant/submissive roles. I think I’m a closet sub!

Know When To Be In Charge

I think an ideal scenario would start with me in control, playing with a guy and really turning him on and teasing him until he can’t handle it anymore and then he takes over and has crazy, hard sex with me because I’ve turned him on so much. There’s something about being at the sexual mercy of the right man that is making me flushed just as I write it.

I have been dominant to men before (Mistress, although I prefer princess) and I have gotten some deep satisfaction out of being in that role. It is a very powerful feeling to have a man on the floor completely at your mercy and willing to do whatever you ask, and it scares me how much I enjoy it! I guess I should consider myself lucky to have experienced so many things.

Mistakes Men Make During Sex

One mistake that anyone at any time can make is the lack of hygiene, and when you are intimate with someone this problem is amplified. I could never have the heart to hurt someone’s feelings so I just ride it out, albeit gritting my teeth.

It may sound strange after mentioning rough sex above but being rough in the wrong ways doesn’t equate to a good time. An example is biting the clitoris, just no, please no never. Ouch! I’m going to say most biting isn’t great for most girls most of the time. I try to ride through bad experiences, they happen and you learn.

Once I had a girl (yep a girl!) scratch deep inside of my vagina with her finger nail, it was incredibly painful, she was aiming for my G-spot and slipped. So basically I’d say if it may draw blood it’s a no. Females are like delicate flowers, we can like it rough but in ways that make us say mmm, not ouch!

Does Size Matter?

No, definitely not. It really is true, it’s the motion in the ocean. Personally most of my pleasure and orgasms come from my clitoris. Normally while I rub it and I’m being fingered so if a finger can do it.. point proven. Some lucky girls can climax from penetration alone, and I have perhaps on two occasions ever but the ratio isn’t very good, so just trust me on that one. All penises are beautiful and fantastic as long as they are clean and healthy.

3 Favourite Positions For Sex

I’ll start with doggy, it’s sexy, it’s deep it feels good it looks good and both parties can access the magical clitoris.

Reverse cowgirl is great. Again it gets nice and deep and the guy has a lovely view, or so I hear. Reverse cowgirl can be a lot of fun to watch if I’m facing a mirror.

Lastly, it may sound boring but I really like a man on top. I like to put my legs over his shoulders and if I rub my clit while he fucks me this is how I can orgasm during sex and I love it. Once I had a guy tell me to hold my legs open while he was on top, it was an incredible turn on, just recalling the fact is an incredible turn on.

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July 11, 2016
How To Play With Her Breasts

I love sex, whether it be solo or with a partner. In my line of work, I often find myself with two partners or more. Sex is a healthy and very enjoyable part of life. I have always felt this way, despite my religious upbringing. I was raised to believe that masturbation was a shameful thing, and that sex should only be done when one is married.

Be Confident

I’m very turned on by confident and men who take charge. Pull me in for a long passionate kiss, toss me on to the bed in the heat of the moment. Specifically oral sex is a huge turn on for me. If a guy knows what he is doing down there, I immediately like him more.

On a scale of 1-10, 1 being not easily turned on and 10 being very easily turned on, I would give myself an 8 or 9. It depends on my mood, and chemistry with my partner or partners.

Foreplay Foreplay Foreplay

I need about 10 minutes of foreplay. Kissing, touching, teasing and mutual oral sex. When it comes to touching, I prefer guys who stimulate my clit, rather than fingering. A finger in my vagina, just doesn’t do it for me. Rubbing my clit in circles, and kissing on my breasts is an easy way to get me wet and ready. However oral sex is still my favourite foreplay activity.

Do These To Her Breast

When it comes to breast play, I like my boobs fondled lightly. Do kiss and tease my nipples with your tongue or fingers. My nipples are very sensitive in a good way and are almost always hard.

Avoid Doing This

Don’t bite or smack a women’s breast, unless you know for sure that she enjoys that. I’ve had someone bite my nipple unexpectedly, and all I can say is ouch! Be gentle with boobs, don’t grab or squeeze too hard.

2 Great Breast Play Positions

I like lying on my back and having my partner on top kissing from my neck to my boobs repeatedly. When my breasts aren’t being kissed, I still want my partner’s hands all over them. (Rub and tease the nipples by gently pinching).

I also enjoy straddling my partner, and shoving my breasts into their face. It’s more playful, and I sort of smother them with my boobs. A client of mine once said that it would be a good way to go.

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July 8, 2016
Sex Magic: Try It For A Better Sex Life

Sex is one of the more interesting ways in which we communicate with one another. It’s a type of interaction that transcends the limitations of language and exposes entirely new levels of meaning. There is a type of universal rhythm that we encounter when we have sex; a language of motion, sweat, breath, moans, instinct and chemistry that if we are listening, we all understand. It is the way in which we, in our current moment, entwine with one another to experience the feeling of the spark of the first fire created by man, cells silently dividing, and the universe expanding, our own little big bang!

What Is Sex Magic?

Sex Magic is an alchemy of sorts, the way we can transmute the simple matter of carbon, oxygen, hydrogen, etc. that the singular human body is composed of, into metaphorical gold when we unite two (or more) sexual energies together. It is essentially a method in which we can see ourselves simultaneously as human and “Divine.” Sex Magic is a way of revealing this power and learning to intentionally navigate the combined energy of a sexual encounter and channel it into other aspects of your life.

How I Got Started With Sex Magic

A teacher of mine once said, “We are doing magic all of the time regardless of whether we know it or not, so let’s hone in on these skills.” I entirely agree! I think we are all very powerful, magical beings, that have the ability to interact with and influence our reality, and doing this intentionally, as opposed to accidentally, is so much more potent.

The same goes for sex magic! I started noticing a certain energy shift would occur during and after sex. There would be times when my hips would be moving and I would feel a serpentine like energy slither from my sacrum all the way up my spine, radiating throughout my entire body… and that was before I even came! I would carry this energy into other facets of my life and noticed powerful shifts in the way in which I accomplished my goals.

A Life Changing Experience

Sex becomes its own distinct realm of euphoria, I literally feel like I’m entering my own dimension of blissful reality when I have sex. It’s as though the lower, more earthy bodily energies and the higher energies of the mind and spirit are converging in this sexual cyclone. However, Sex Magic is more than just amazing, mind blowing, earth shattering sex. One I realized I could channel that energy into the rest of my life, my spellwork (to clarify for those of you who don’t practice magic or are afraid of the idea of spellwork, I essentially mean intentions I set for myself and the ways in which I go about achieving my goals) got significantly more effective. I found myself exploding with creativity, excelling in business ventures, and did I mention having mind blowing sex?

Do What You Feel Suits Best

I personally don’t have a specific routine when it comes to Sex Magic. I don’t think it would be fair to implement a “one size fits all” approach to the practice. I’ve done everything from guided meditation to a BDSM scene in which I spanked my partner into the “astral realm” as he worshipped the “L’Origine du monde” (if you catch my drift) on his knees.

One consistent theme I practice is deciding upon a Telos, or intention, before the act. Concentrating on what, exactly, you would like to bring about in your life with that energy, letting it slip into the back of your mind, and then having it explode into consciousness as you come. You can get complicated about it and create a Sigil and charge it with sexual energy by leaving it in the room while you have sex or masturbate if you would like but I personally like to let things evolve more organically as the chemistry ensues.

Tips For Beginners

Don’t be afraid of your own sexual power! I think the terms “witch,” “magic,” and “spellwork” have a lot stigma associated with them that stems from the ways in which history and the media portrays magic. Casting a spell doesn’t mean throwing an eye of a newt into a cauldron and cackling. It is, very simply put, being attentive to how you engage the world around you and being intentional with your desire. Practicing Sex Magic puts you deeply in touch with ancient, primal, forces within and outside us, that manifest into tangible occurrences once you acknowledge that they are there. Essentially, you don’t have to do anything too different than you are already doing in bed aside from accepting the magic that is already occurring and allowing it to permeate your life.

I also LOVE talking about magic in all its forms so those of you who have a mischievous grin creeping across your face or a twinkle in your eye after reading this interview should feel free to contact me to discuss sex magic further!

Mya Midnight is an escort based out of Denver Colorado, a restless traveler, practicing Sex Witch, part time farmer, poet and activist. She lives for passion, mystery, and eroticism. Mya loves what happens when two people meet, alone in a room together, to watch magic unfold. Follow and contact her at http://www.myamidnight.com/ and on Twitter @MidnightMya

Her upcoming tour is posted on http://www.myamidnight.com/ under Wanderlust.

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July 7, 2016