Category: Sex Ed

Kink Up Your Sex Life With Cosplay
What can I say about sex? Personally, I think sex is absolutely a satisfying and healthy experience. It’s one of my favorite past times and my overactive imagination is constantly spinning things in a sexual manner. You might even say I’m ‘obsexed’. But for all the hype I’ve built up around it, sex is an unusually casual thing in my line of work. That never causes it to get boring in my personal life though. I’m happy to try new things and diversify the abilities I have in my sexual arsenal.

How I Started Cosplaying

I’ve enjoyed making and wearing costumes since I was a kid and since I’m always looking for an excuse to dress up, I began attending California based anime conventions back in 2009. Something I like about anime conventions is that the focus of the con is on animated characters and those are my favorite cosplays to bring to life. The types of characters that you find in anime series are personality types represented in their extremes and so you get a lot of variety in the kind of cosplays you get to choose.

For instance, there’s the always demure, often chaste, secret-pervert type of characters such as Chii from Chobits or Maria The Virgin Witch. On the other end of the spectrum you have the sexually brazen girls like the sisters from Panty and Stocking with Garterbelt. Then you have the spunkier tomboy like Gaige the Mechromancer from the video game series Borderlands 2. You can see where I’m going with this, I like exploring all roleplay opportunities. The bratty as well as the submissive. Each of these are fun to cosplay as, in and out of the bedroom!

Combining Sex & Cosplay

I love to cosplay as Shimakaze from the Kantai Collection because she is a Japanese war vessel personified as a thong-flashing sexpot. She’s overly confident and so it’s fun to cosplay as her while she gets her ego put in check with a spanking. Another cosplay sex scenario that is in my highlight reel is incorporating tentacle play. You bust out a wriggling tentacle dildo dripping with lube and any character can be instantly transformed into a hentai wet dream. That’s what I’m always eager to do in the bedroom, fulfilling mine and my partner’s fantasies.

How To Cum Hard & Have Mind Blowing Orgasms

Mindset is key here! Roleplay can help put me in the proper frame of mind to achieve my horniest orgasms. Even if it’s a solo masturbatory session! Some of my preferred scenarios include: monster/fantasy, abduction, harem wives, deflowering, and taboo themes.

As far as physical stimulation goes, I’ve learned through experience that firmly pressing a Hitachi (or any type of powerful vibrator) against my clit while I’ve got my pussy stuffed leads to squiirt-inducing orgsasms, without fail. And if I want to cum my absolute brains out, I insert the end of a sharpie or a small butt plug into my anus. That bonus stimulation makes me cum so hard I see Jesus.

How To Make Sex Kinkier

The good news is: you can always make sex kinkier, thereby making it hotter! Without jumping to extremes too. Roleplaying is a naughty and super effective way to get a reaction out of your partner. It takes a little courage to come out of your comfort zone the first few times you attempt it but if you are going at it with a person whom you can expose that vulnerable side to, then you will have your foot in the doorway to a very titillating new world of pleasures. Plus it doesn’t have to cost a dime!

Imagination goes beyond costumes too. Tease your partner before you lay a smooch on them, make them ask out loud what it is they want. Linger on their erogenous zones and let them feel the warmth of your breath near their most sensitive bits before diving in. Lick between their toes while you watch them get themselves off. There are so many simple moves you can make to amplify everyone’s pleasure levels, I’m just rattling off the ones that come immediately to mind.

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September 9, 2016
Things To Know About Swinging

Swinging is sometimes our Saturday night. My husband and myself have been swinging for quite a few years. This December we will celebrate 10 years being married. Many of these years we have celebrated with adding some “strange” to our relationship.

Swinging is a positive way to express sexuality with multiple partners who want to join in the fun. Sometimes we invite others to our place. We’ve met at clubs, secret parties, and other countries. Swinging can strengthen a great relationship and it can rip to shreds weak ones.

Why Do People Swing?

Swinging is a couple experience of adding to their relationship. Swinging is about adults being able to enjoy each other without the fear of attachment from the new individual. A single guy looking for a couple doesn’t play well. Swingers respect relationships. Many swingers we know are looking for friends. Like every real relationship, many look for like minded individuals they can see casually and maybe fuck. We meet new people each time we travel to new cities. Some swingers are in REAL LIFE Master & Slave Relationships, while some are voyeurs. We’ve been to parties where those of us having sex were also on display for the entire party.

Swinging Helps Relationships!

Yes. I believe it can. But swinging isn’t for everyone. Trust is very important. The original couples must trust each other in their actions as to why they do them. Sometimes I like to be blindfolded and a friend comes over. Other times I want to watch a woman be my husband’s little fuck toy. Full trust takes away the fear of cheating or worrying. The permission and delivery of new individuals for your play are key parts. If one doesn’t have permission, they could end up tearing their personal relationship apart. By allowing and encouraging your partner to experience their fantasies, you can reach a new level in your relationship. Experience your fantasy with your best friend.

Do’s & Don’ts Of Swinging

Hmm. That’s a hard one to answer. Each couple will have to figure out what they want from swinging. Swinging experiences are all different.

Talk to your partner.

Make your own rules first. Develop trust in your new game by setting guidelines.

Make your list of Do’s and Do Not’s. Most times, we have already established what others do not like for fun before we have met them. Normally, contact is through texting. For example, I do not like pain. I also bruise easily. I do not let those I do not know spank me. Sometimes others like to be spanked until red. Some ladies request it.

Make a list of what you want to experience. Try to make it happen.

Don’t forget if you don’t like something to speak up.

Do not do anything you do not want to do.

Getting Yourself Ready To Swing

Start researching. Use the internet. Look for parties to attend. Then plan a date night with your partner and whoever else you can take home.

Get tested. Make sure you are being safe. Bring Condoms and lube. Grab your confidence and have no expectations. Things might get crazy.

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September 8, 2016
How To Have Amazing Sex

Some people enjoy watching football on television, other people like reading books, I enjoy sex. I enjoy other forms of entertainment of course, but sex is fun and is there to be enjoyed and explored.

I’ve heard people take sex very seriously, and it is a very personal experience that everyone has different views about, but when you’ve met someone who you connect with and you start laughing at each other’s jokes, the sex can be amazing.

Sex is fun, and it’s there to be enjoyed. Don’t feel pressured into doing it, but don’t be scared to embrace it either. Don’t feel guilty about getting home at 7am after a night out with someone who has pushed all of your buttons in the right way, be proud that you had an amazing experience (and don’t be scared to tell your Uber driver all about it, haha).

Meeting people, whether they are strangers over an app, friends at a bar, or even if you’ve organised a meeting with a professional, it’s all about making connections. Smile, laugh, tell stories, and get to know each other. If you know each other, you’re more in sync with who they are, what they are about, and that definitely transfers into the bedroom.

Don’t get me wrong, I’ve been no stranger to a crazy night out screaming over loud music at some sexy guy before giving up and just kissing him. There are many ways you can make a connection, with the way you both dance, that look you swap from across the room; every little thing lets you know what a person is like.

Trust your feelings when you meet someone, don’t feel pressured to do anything you don’t want to do, and enjoy yourself. Many women I know don’t take the time to feel liberated with their sexuality, that they will be branded as cheap, or slutty, if they want sex. Sex is natural and nothing to be ashamed about.

Be honest with yourself, be honest with other people. Don’t be afraid of your fantasies and fetishes (if they don’t hurt anyone), and if you’re curious to try something out, there are so many people you can talk to about them these days. God bless the internet!

Most Memorable Sexual Experience

I wasn’t always this open about sex, and for many years I was terrified to try anything different or adventurous. One day I met someone who made me feel safe, and encouraged me to explore what I wanted, rather than pushing his own “sexual agenda”. It felt liberating to talk about sex and not having anyone looking at me like I was some kind of pervert. To this day I remember how scared I was doing things that now just seem so, natural?

I never saw myself as being an object of sexual attention growing up; in fact I had very few boyfriends at school. But now I found myself brave enough to attend a swingers party with my new friend, and I remember being so terrified and thinking that I was fat, ugly, the usual things that go through your head.

But for the first time, I was in a space where people were honest, open and willing to explore. I felt like a kid in a candy shop with so many people approaching me, though to this day I don’t remember the sex, but I do remember how amazing it felt to be wanted.

Since then I’ve had a lot of sexual experiences, many of them have been amazing, but the one thing that sticks in my head is that first party. The way I felt welcome, how we connected, and how everyone got along. Each memorable sexual experience since then, whether it was with a man or a woman (or several at the same time) was special because we took the time to know each other and didn’t rush into anything.

Aside from that, there was this threesome in Vegas I had with two men….wow. Sometimes you just get lucky!

Things Men Don’t Get!

Guys love sex, we get it. Sometimes I think that guys are expecting us girls to lay them on the bed, take off their pants, do a sexy little tease, and then tell them that we’re not interested anymore. Men can treat sex like a race, they rush into it because they think that their partner will suddenly cut off their “sex privileges” and leave them high-and-dry.

Either that or the guy is amazed he’s even there, and decides he’s going to make the most of the situation as fast as possible. There’s a difference between passion and urgency, so just relax guys! If your partner is standing at the end of the bed shaking a little booty at you from beneath a tiny skirt, enjoy the moment. The tease is a part of it, and it makes us feel sexy too.

One typical question I get from guys is: “Did you orgasm?” Men can think that they’ve not pleased me, or done their job, if I’ve not had an orgasm. Perhaps they feel that they’re not very good in bed? But in truth, sometimes we girls just don’t orgasm during sex. Maybe it’s performance anxiety or perhaps we only orgasm in particular ways, but that doesn’t mean we don’t like sex.

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September 7, 2016
Tips For Beginner Camgirls

When I first started camming, I didn’t fully realize the potential of this industry. I felt excited, ashamed, and nervous all at the same time. I didn’t even know whether I would actually be receiving a paycheck, or if I had just sold my soul to some website I’d never heard of, that would take advantage of me, and leave me broke. But I took a chance.

Three years later, I am so glad that I decided to make that decision, and to take that chance. The vast majority of my customers are loyal, friendly people, that are excited to see me on a daily basis. I have become fully self sufficient, I pay all of the bills on my house that I paid for with cash, I support my family, and I do it from the privacy, and comfort of my own home. The only regret I have is that I didn’t start camming sooner.

How I Started Camming

I was at a low point in my life when I decided to start camming. I had just left my home state, and moved to another with my boyfriend, and we were living in a small trailer with his mom. I worked in the morning while everyone else went to work at a restaurant down the road, where my boyfriend was only making about $60 a week. Things quickly changed though, and as I figured out the basics of camming, I quickly realized that I would be making twice as much a day as my boyfriend did, and it would actually cost us money for him to keep working at the restaurant.

Challenges Faced

When I first started camming, I dealt with a lot of different problems. Trying to explain to people that I have a job, but I don’t ever leave the house was a major one. I’ve learned that it’s better to just avoid the question, “I’m not at liberty to discuss my work with you” or “I’m not really supposed to talk about it” sounds much more official than,” I work online”, or “I’m a cam model”.

Things You Should Know Before Starting!

Camgirls are considered self employed! This means that your site isn’t going to take taxes out of your pay check, you have to file, and pay the taxes owed yourself. This is simple to do if you use a tax software, but it can be very confusing if you’re trying to keep your job title a secret from your family. Be smart, do some research on how to file self employment taxes, be prepared to talk to the IRS, and don’t be afraid, this is your business.

Common Misconceptions About Camgirls

I hear a lot that I should have went to college, or that I’m only a camgirl because I didn’t go to college. However, I am 22 years old, I have a house that is completely paid off, I pay all my bills on time, and I have a lot of downtime to pursue other hobbies/things that I really love to do.

My sister is 8 years older than me, she graduated from college and owes a very large amount of money to that college. She is still renting, and will probably have no other choice but to rent for quite a while; she works 5/6 days a week, and has very little downtime. You tell me who’s happier.

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September 6, 2016
Client Etiquette Tips And Advice When Booking An Escort

Most of what occurs during sex is in the mind, the anticipation of meeting a client can heighten the experience. I think open mindedness is a common attribute of many providers, more importantly, is living in the moment. Ticking off a list of sex tricks and positions is not nearly as sexy as connecting with a sexual partner. Having tried a range of sexual practices, the affairs I recall most are always those that are more natural, personal, intense and therefore erotically charged.

Photo: Louise

Expectations Of A Client

The laws are different in the UK but the screening process is vital, it’s impossible to feel sexy if I am nervous about the meeting. To lessen these nerves, the client should offer details of his essential personal information such as his name, full details of the location, with booking references. Many times, clients have naively asked to meet in a public space but for me this sets alarm bells ringing for many reasons. I have no guarantee he will arrive and there’s always the potential for mistaken identity. A client should always allow enough time and privacy to make a call to learn more about the provider. Regarding more intimate questions, if providers are being vague, it could be because they are concerned about falling foul of US laws. Be considerate and don’t push too much, you’ll get a clearer view of a provider’s service by reading reviews. I don’t add all my services in order to be tasteful.

Photo: Louise

Mistakes Clients Shouldn’t Make

The worst is saying hello and not introducing themselves. Or better yet, failing to take a note of the provider’s name, age, look details and donation. Asking these obvious questions again makes you look like a time waster. Once it is clear to me that a prospective client does not have the essential details correct, I tell them to go back to the site and read it again. Aside from that, I don’t want to talk about finances unless negotiating a longer date and time that could be better spent learning about each other.

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Is Prior Experience Important?

I think the main difference is in how apprehensive the two sets of clients might behave. The screening process can seem invasive for new clients. The idea is not to cause offense but to first and foremost ensure my safety, only then can I unwind and be at my best.

On the other hand, newer clients do try to make more of an impression with the arrangements such as the restaurant and the choice of hotel. For that reason, a date with a more experienced client tends to get off to a smoother start, the focus being on the date proper rather than all the arrangements.

However, we all have to start somewhere, my favourite clients are in fact those who are not especially experienced, and actually very nervous during the first date. Over time, the nerves subside and I appreciate the attention.

Photo: Louise

Do’s & Don’ts During The Date

Just be yourself. If you don’t normally wear a suit and eat at five star restaurants, then don’t do it. You’ll come across as uptight and this can be sensed, possibly leading the provider to feel uncomfortable. Naturally it is important to make the right first impression and treat each other well. If you are arranging a longer date, find an activity that is unique rather than one that makes you uncomfortable. Some of the wonderful activities I have enjoyed with clients includes walking, horse riding and reflexology.

My name is Louise, I am a British provider based in London and available for international affairs with advanced notice. I am an English rose with rosy cheeks and a view on life to match. I continue to work in my professional career because I believe it helps to maintain an appealing balance between sex and brains. This also means I am selective about who I choose to date so you can rest assured I have a joyful attitude to the opposite of sex.

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September 5, 2016
Why I Love Giving Blowjobs

Blowjobs to me are an artform, it is a way of sexual expression you can put your own technique on. Whenever I used to hear a woman hated to give or doesn’t give blow jobs I am always saddened, it is an intimate experience all by itself or a part of foreplay. Not opening yourself up to the experience keeps you from being able to see if you enjoy it and let your sexual creativity show.

Giving My First Blowjob

I had lots of guy friends growing up so always heard about oral sex and thought it meant having phone sex, orally reciting sexual things. As a woman who enjoyed porn though in my teenage years, I quickly learned all the different styles of blowjobs and learned that there are motions and sensations you can make with your hands and mouth that the vagina simply cannot replicate.

Some women think that a blowjob is a replacement to sex, but it is a completely different experience that shouldn’t seem like one is better than the other; they are all great just different sensations for him and different ways to show off your sexual appetite and skills! I waited until I had sex at 16 to give my first blowjob because as with sex I knew once I started I wouldn’t be able to stop. After being a star student in my Sex Ed class I automatically swallowed knowing the vitamins and nutrition that can come from semen.

The guy was shocked and couldn’t believe that was my first blow job and that I swallowed with no hesitation. To me spitting never made sense, if you’re going to put their dick in your mouth, might as well take advantage of the natural multi vitamin and avoid a mess!

Giving Blowjobs Turn Me On

I get so turned out from giving a blow job I have an oral fixation that I have sucked my thumb since childhood, so sucking a dick is comforting and natural to me. When I start deepthroating and gagging, my nipples get so hard, my pussy gets wetter, and my ass tightens. The only thing I am concentrating on is remembering to breathe through my nose so I can keep the dick in my throat for longer.

Favorite Penis Types

I love all types, always nice to find one that goes along well with your throat but as well not thick enough that it blocks your throat and gives you the challenge of avoiding teeth as well as loosening your throat even further than it has before.

My Speciality Moves

My classic move that everyone seems to enjoy is, while you’re going down on his shaft, stick your tongue out and keep it moving the whole time as you go up and down, including some hand twisting as well. It gives him the wet warmth of your mouth with the extra stimulation of a large muscle massaging and rolling all over his cock, something that the vagina or ass cannot simulate.

As well if you are going to do include your hands, put your hand up to your mouth and wrap around the cock with both your hands with lots of spit and slobber to keep from any uncomfortable friction and use your hands as an extension of your mouth and keep both hands constantly moving in opposite directions while you go up and down on the cock. It helps simulate deep throating as you work your way down and add more sensations that can only be done during a blowjob.

Finishing Him With A Blast

I prefer to swallow it or have a facial and then eat it from there. I enjoy to play with the cum but never waste it as it is low in calories, no carbs, and high in protein. Naturally occurring vitamins and minerals that most people pay $10 a bottle for at the drug store, I’ll just swallow some loads instead.

Bobbi Dylan is a 19 year old kinky girl next door. Usually you can find her online playing video games, posting new photos to fetish websites, or adventuring around the US on her adventures in porn. From main stream modeling to live on fetish websites. She has been in the lifestyle of BDSM since before even having sex. She is the peoples porn star and always loves to try new things and build her fan base with all types of fetish work. Bobbi may look innocent girl next door, but she’s also the girl who secretly wants to screw the cute guy in the library bathroom stall.

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September 1, 2016
Things To Know Before Becoming An Escort

My personal thoughts about sex have grown since being raised to believe that sex should be between a man and woman, and should not be done until marriage. Since working in the sex industry and becoming sexually active two years ago when I was 16, I believe that sex can be whatever you want it to be. Our society has grown from the stigma around sex, and the “logic” that sex is not sex without penetration is fading makes me more open to talking about sex, and not keeping it a secret that sex work is my career choice. To me, sex in the industry is currency, and sex in my personal life is emotion.

Starting Out Into Sex Work

Stepping into the sex work industry began with my aspirations to become a porn star at a very young age (probably too young) and I found a decent looking producer who had worked with a couple of big names. After shooting a few scenes, the producer introduced me to the escorting agency that he owned, and offered me a job. My perceptions of sex work before becoming part of the industry was based on everything I have seen in the movies, on TV or reading articles on “How to become a porn star”. I thought that the industry would be easy to deal with mentally, and it was at first, but after only 6 months being a sex worker, I learned otherwise.

Not What I Expected

After being a sex worker for 6 months, I started to realize that although movies and TV shows may document sex work, they either showed the horrific and traumatic side, or the luxurious glamour side, there was no in-between. I started noticing that I was conditioning myself to be able to mentally deal with going into work every day, and my patience with clients was decreasing every day.

When I decided that I did not like escorting anymore, the dollar signs that blinded me made me realize what I was missing, girls being manipulated to work on their periods, or seeing agency owners try and take advantage of the girls started to disgust me. My reality check didn’t really hit me until I found some forms at an agency’s location. The form listed services, and choices to select, one being “dislike but will do”. It confused and repulsed me to think of how somebody left an option to check that lets girls perform services like “fantasy rape” “rimming” and “slapping” even though they do not like to.

The saddest part about these forms, was that the girl who had filled it out, selected “dislike but will do” on way more than one service. I expected there to be negative parts of the industry, I just didn’t expect for me to work for and be associated with those types of agencies.

Be Independent Or Join An Agency?

Being an independent escort means booking your own clients, posting your own ads, and exposing yourself to a higher danger risk. Almost all of these agencies are not owned by your average John Doe, and even if they are, I am almost certain that they are associated with the type of people who can provide a high degree of “security”. The only benefits of being an independent escort, include not having to pay your boss a cut of what you make, and not having to be pushed or persuaded into doing services you don’t feel comfortable doing or working more than you want, and even then, there will ALWAYS be at least one client that insists on not using protection, paying the full price, or being aggressive with what they want. Ultimately, the pro’s and con’s of escorting with an agency vs. independent balance out. Neither are safe.

One Important Tip

Many of my friends, and even strangers, male and female call, text, email or message me through my social media accounts asking for advice on becoming an escort; my advice always stays the same. You need to be at peace with the fact that at any given moment your family or friends could and most likely will find out that you are a sex worker. Anybody who has second thughts about going into the industry, should not pursue becoming an escort.

I don’t waste my time explaining the dangers of escorting to people to ask me about it, because it’s common sense, that being a prostitute (and yes, I used the P word) is dangerous. I thought being an escort would be my career, and that I could last as an escort. Ultimately I changed paths, while still a sex worker I now work at a spa, where I am free to do whatever service I am comfortable with or no service and just a massage if I please.

I recommend finding an agency that is women owned and operated; it may not make a huge difference for other girls, but it sure did for me. At the end of the day it is a person’s decision whether or not they will be sucked into the sex work industry and it will not take long at all for anyone to realize if sex work is for them or not.

Cece Richwood (formerly known as Cici Stiff) is an 18 year old rising porn star and former escort from Canada. Cece dropped out of high school after 2 years leaving her passion for playing American football behind. Knowing she would enter the sex work industry and some day make it big, Cece kept her stage name true to what she is known by in her personal life (Cece/Cecilia); her family and friends are all aware of her choice to be a sex worker and supports her. Currently Cece works at a health center as a day job and is striving to shine in the porn industry while taking her experiences as an escort to guide her through the sex work industry. Cece has an upcoming episode airing on MTV called “MTV True Life: I need Danger Sex” documenting her life as a sex worker, and discovering the category of “Dangerous Sex” porn.

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August 31, 2016
Tips For Your First Time
The first time we make love to another person should be special. Note that I use the words “make love”, not fucking, screwing or any of the other hundreds of words that could be used.

All societies in one form or another say that we should do it with the person we love and preferably be married too, but in reality most of us don’t live up to that standard.

My first time was a bit of a disaster. At the time I was in England attending a boarding school and I really liked a guy in the small town where the school was located. We dated for a few weeks during the spring, walking hand in hand and stealing kisses when no one saw us. I was sixteen at the time and he was a couple of years older, and more experienced.

One sunny day he took me to a field and we sat down by a little creek and began making out. One thing led to another and before I knew it I was naked and he was on top of me.

What followed can only be described as disappointing. It was not what I had expected. He wasn’t as exercised as I had thought and was in a hurry. I knew how “things worked” and what I was supposed to do; spread my legs, kiss him and hug him. But my brain froze ones he was inside me and I just lay there like a dead fish. He didn’t last for more than a few minutes before he pulled out and came on the grass. I hadn’t felt a thing, apart from a little pain and his weight over me.

Things didn’t get much better during the following months and when I left school in July I had only done it three times, and none of those times were the earth shattering love making that I had expected.

So, what went wrong?
- I was too shy to talk about what I liked.
- I had no idea what I liked.
- We didn’t use protection.
- We were on a field, not in a bed.
- I was nervous and so was he.
My tips for those of you who are thinking about having sex for the first time are the following:
- Get to know your body. If we don’t know what we like, how can we tell our partners? Spend some time exploring your own sexuality, it is OK to masturbate and learn what turns you on and what doesn’t.
- Talk to your partner. I don’t mean have a meeting, but when you are in the bed and the light is turned off, whisper in his ear what you like. Using sounds will let him know what he is doing right, or wrong.
- Use a bed. Outside or in a pool might sound like fun, but it is not the best place for your first time.
- Use protection. You don’t want to become pregnant or catch a STD during your first time.
- This one is for the guys. Be patient with her. Sex is not like in the porn movies. Girls don’t have instant orgasm as soon as you put it inside them, we don’t moan loudly the first time. Be gently, use your fingers, kiss her, touch her, make her comfortable and feel secure.
- Another for the guys. Don’t try all the positions available. Start with something simple like the missionary, or with her on top. Many women like to be in control, and it might help them relax knowing that they decided how fast and how deep you penetrate them.
- Oral sex is a great way to please each other before penetration. Either you can take turns or use the 69 position. The hornier the woman is, the easier it will be to penetrate her.
- This is for the women. Not all men can last for thirty minutes, most don’t last for more than ten. It is normal if your man comes faster than you, and that’s why it is so important that you both enjoy foreplay before he enters you. The closer you are to an orgasm before he enters you, the more likely it is that he will make you come with his penis.
- Have fun together! Sex is fun and should be enjoyed on equal terms.
I hope this short article has helped you in some way or form. After my disastrous first times, it took me a year until I did it again, and that time was fantastic!

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August 26, 2016
Spice Up Your Sex Life With Boudoir Photography

We absolutely love sex and we know how important it is to a relationship. Sex should be something you explore together, trying new things and never letting things get “stale” or boring. We always talk and are honest about what we like and want to try. We are very into trying new things and having sex in fun and adventurous places. This is what led us to try couple’s boudoir.

How Our Interest In Boudoir Photography Began

Samantha had done a few boudoir shoots and they came out amazing. We love trying to push our sexual adventures to new lengths and decided to try out doing a shoot together. Something that most see as private but sharing our passion as if someone was watching us. That taboo of someone seeing me with my hot wife is exciting as I love showing her off.

Why We Love It

I love seeing the passion in our photos. I have so much pride showing them off to people. I love our passion as a couple and I love showing people that you don’t have to ever become an old boring married couple. I love posing and making love to her while the moment is captured forever on film. The passion burns through. The photos are a great reminder of how hot you two can be.

One Way To Spice It Up

We just make sure we haven’t seen each other naked in a few days so when we do on film, it’s a genuine surprise haha

Go For It!

Absolutely go for it and try it out! Let your inhibitions go and try something new! It’s a very sexy feeling showing off for a camera with your other half. Show everybody out there why they should be jealous of you. It’s a lot of fun!

We are a married couple who love to be passionate. We are proud of our love and have always just embraced sexuality and love and passion. Sex isn’t only for the bedroom. Follow us on @beardedillusionist and @emerald_siren_clothing and www.emeraldsirenclothing.jimdo.com

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August 24, 2016
Ways To Last Longer During Sex

To me sex is a language where the body expresses what the mind feels. Which means that the “conversation” can only be as good as the connection between the sex partners. And it’s also the only universal language anybody and everybody can understand regardless of your age and where you’re from.

Alex legend w Alix Lynx and penny Pax Spoon

Ways To Maintain An Erection Longer

First it takes some serious stamina, the best way I found to build some is by keeping up with a serious workout routine and also prolonged fuck sessions in my personal life. The reason for that is simple, you need the muscles and core from working out but then there’s a kind of endurance that you can only build with long and sweaty sex seshs.

Eating right and taking vitamins are also big part of it since “you are what you eat”. So I would definitely recommend to have a good meal a few hours before attempting a marathon fuck session cause no one would start a road trip with only a gallon or two left in the tank and your body is no different. The choice of food and amount is different from one person to another so the best way to learn about your body is trial and error so you can figure out what works best for you.

And last but not least, the girl or girls you’re shooting the scene with can change the vibe a great deal between having an “easy day” or a long one cause ultimately it takes (at least two) to tango and there’s only so much one of the partner can do without the help of the other one(s).

Doggy Alex Legend Vyxen Steele

Tips To Delay Orgasms

For me there are positions where I can come pretty easily and some where it probably only happened once or twice so I would say if you feel you’re getting close trying switching position to something where it’s usually hard for you to come and go back to the easy one when you feel that it’s the right to pop.

Also it’s always nice to switch to some pussy eating / ass licking anytime during sex, either because you’re getting close to come or because you need to take a little break and the best part about that is that your partner is gonna appreciate that much more having sex with you if she can sit on your face in the middle of a pounding marathon.

Alex Legend w Aubrey Gold Standing Reverse

Exercise To Have More Stamina

Yeah totally, sex is a full body workout so be sure to remember that while at the gym and not skip leg day cause you need your legs just as much as anything else. So yeah, a full body workout is the best, doesn’t need to be all in one gym sesh, it can be split up during the week, it all depends of how much time you have to work out.

A good way to find a routine and track it down is to use a free app anyone can download called Bodyspace, there’s a lot of really good routines on there. One muscle group probably more important than any other one when it comes down to having sex is your core, so make sure to incorporate 10/15 minutes of core / abs at the end of every workout, it doesn’t have to be the same exercises all the time, switch it up, make it fun!

And for that, planking is probably the best core / abs exercise you can do. Alternate front plank with side plank on each side, use a timer, you can start with only 15 seconds segments and build up from there, try to not take any break and do a few sets of front, left, right back to back so you can feel the burn!

Alex Legend w Natasha Nice and Penny Pax Missionary

Sex Positions To Last Longer

I think for guys in general, it’s always good to alternate positions where the guy is doing most of the work with positions where the girl is doing more, so you can have a little bit of that push / pull dynamic. So for example, doing doggy then cow girl then missionary then reverse cow girl… Spoon is also a good one to start slowly or to take it a little easy in the middle if both partners need a little breather, but for that as I mentioned earlier, you can also do a little pussy eating or 69. Once again, all that really depends on both partners preferences and I think the key to any fun fuck session is the level of communication and understanding between the sex partners cause ultimately everybody is in the same team and the goal is for everybody to come!

Alex Legend is a French male performer who’s been in the adult industry for 2 years now. He’s easy to remember with his tattoos and abs of steel. With his side kick Penny Pax he has been performing, directing and producing for their upcoming sites! Follow him on Twitter @AlexLegendxXx, Instagram @TheRealAlexLegend, Snapchat @AlexLegendxXx, and website www.AlexLegend.com

Alex is gonna have a new website launching in a couple months, www.AlexLegend.com so be ready for that. Meanwhile he has been busy working on Penny Pax’s new site www.PennyPaxLive.com which is launching this week and is in a lot of her scenes for anyone who can’t wait for my site to be up. Also he wrote the music for her site trailer and is back in the game of writing and producing music so for more infos about that, check his twitter and instagram. And last but not least Alex likes to thank all the fans supporting him, without them none of that would be possible so Thank You!

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August 23, 2016