Category: Sex Ed

Bondage & Sex

I think fetishes, kinks, and BDSM lifestyles are an integral part of my personal sexual identity. I believe other people should at least give things like this a chance in order to explore their sexuality and possibly improve their sex lives along with their general happiness.

How My Interest In Kink Started

From a young age I was lucky enough to have internet access. Before I discovered pornography, I accidentally stumbled across some non-sexual videos of heavy rubber fetishists wearing latex outfits online, and although I was confused, I couldn’t help but touch myself anyway. I was intrigued by the idea of being restrained and enclosed in a small space.

Favorite Form Of Bondage

My favorite form of bondage involves being wrapped in chains, fastened to cold metal bars.

Favorite Bondage Positions

I like having my body in compromising positions like crucifixion (I love anything sacrilegious), and I especially love being upside down.

Orgasms From Bondage Play

Bondage is great for orgasms because the act of being physically restrained is very mentally freeing. The best orgasm I ever had was on the set of Kink.com’s Device Bondage, where I was restrained upside down by metal pipes.

Difference Between Bondage And Vanilla Sex?

Bondage orgasms add an extra edge and a thrilling psychological element. The word vanilla means different things to everyone, and what I consider vanilla could be considered extremely kinky by someone else so I don’t feel it’s fair for me to comment on that.

Tips To Try Bondage Sex

Find an experienced professional or watch instructional videos. One reason I got into BDSM porn was to explore that element of my sexuality in a safe environment with people who know what they’re doing. I recommend watching videos from Kink.com’s Kink University or the Kink School series from Severe Sex.

Charlotte Sartre is a 21-year-old BDSM porn performer from California. She is a lifestyle submissive and is passionate about fetishes. She wishes to educate people on how kinks can improve their lives. Follow her on her website www.charlottesartre.com, Twitter @gothcharlotte and Instagram @gothcharlotte

The DVD (featuring me getting ass fucked on the cover!) Kink School: Tips from a Master by Severe Sex comes out August 29^th. And I will also be attending Exxxotica in Edison, New Jersey November 4^th-6^th, where fans can meet me and buy DVDs, prints, get autographs and spank me.

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September 26, 2016
Sexy Travel: 5 Great Countries Where Hiring an Escort Is Legal

Many people get really excited when planning a trip. What will the food be like? Which sites should I see? Where can I find an escort to really spice up my trip?

Okay, so the last question certainly isn’t on the mind of every traveler but it is a valid one. Every country around the world has its own unique laws regarding sex workers and while most of those laws are in place to prevent exploitation and human trafficking, other aspects of the laws actually help women (and men in some cases) work safely as an escort if they choose to.

Other aspects of these laws relate to promotion. In most of the countries where it is legal promoting it illegally by outside parties is not, so it’s wise to keep this in mind when you’re on a travel high and looking to hire an escort for the night (or two).

These are five incredible countries where hiring an escort is legal, and they’re also incredible places to explore, even outside the bedroom.

1. Great Britain

With the exception of Northern Ireland, escort services are legal in Great Britain. However, street solicitation is not. One of the most popular and safe ways to hire an escort is through a reputable escort agency. The women who work for these agencies are thoroughly vetted and, as is the norm, the client has his choice of body type, ethnicity, hair color, and even an escort’s specific sexual skill.

Incalls and outcalls are the most popular forms of escort services in England. During an incall, the client goes to the escort’s apartment. During an outcall, the escort comes to the client’s home or hotel. It’s easy, safe, and completely legal.

2. Argentina

Who isn’t captivated by the exotic beauty of Latina women? Who wouldn’t love to take a trip to Argentina and meet one of them? Argentina is famous for its legendary BBQ, salsa dancing, wine, and women. While Argentina is a popular destination for all types of travelers, those who want to hook up while there can do so with ease.

As with Great Britain, the best and safest way to find an escort is through a reputable agency. In larger cities like Buenos Aires and Mendoza these agencies are everywhere and it’s not hard to locate them. Most agencies advertise that their escorts speak a variety of languages such as English, Portuguese, German, and French.

3. Greece

An easy flight from most cities in Europe, Greece has long been a popular holiday destination due to its gorgeous islands, delicious food, and low costs. It’s also one of the European countries where escort services are absolutely legal.

As is the norm, your escort should be hired through an agency and most of these agencies are located in Athens, Mykonos, and other popular tourist sites. The Greek government has taken things a bit further than some other countries: All sex workers must be registered and carry a medical card that is updated bi-monthly.

4. Mexico

Mexico is a little different than the other countries on this list in a few ways. First of all, sex work is legal in Mexico but only 18 of the 32 states officially regulate it, meaning that sex workers in those states are registered and undergo required health checks.

Most of Mexico’s larger cities like Mexico City and Guadalajara have a red light district and escorts are available on the street. Other cities operate legal brothels. Of course, most of the brothels are located in the more touristy areas like Cancun and Playa del Carmen. These brothels offer both incall and outcall services.

5. Spain

Spain is one of the most beautiful and most visited countries in Europe, but it’s not always for the wine and tapas. Spain’s sex business is booming as people from all over the world come to meet with some of the country’s most beautiful women.

The legality of sex work in Spain is somewhat muddled, but the escorts or their clients are rarely bothered by law enforcement, who instead focus on those that illegally promote these services. Escort agencies aren’t as popular here, but there are several that provide high-quality incall and outcall services, especially in Barcelona.

Sex tourism is big business but it’s always wise to be well aware of the laws regarding escort services before you visit a country. So keep yourself safe by using a reputable escort agency when you travel and be prepared for one of the best vacations of your life.

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September 25, 2016
Why I Love Interracial Sex

Sex never meant anything to me until I fell in love which was just over a couple years ago. Since I lost my virginity at 14, it never meant anything. I never needed a connection with anyone to have it. I never really needed to even like that person. I almost felt obligated to have sex at one point in my life. Then I started porn and sex meant money after that. Never needed to feel anything with that person. It’s all just acting and doing your job. Then I fell in love… sex with that person was the first time sex had any meaning to me. I guess I kinda felt like that is what sex is for… that right there. That feeling. All in all, I think sex is something fun that everyone does. And it doesn’t have to mean there are any obligations or strings attached. It could be just something to do.

How I Started Loving Interracial Sex

I have always liked black men. I really liked Usher and Nelly when I was like 10. And my first black boyfriend, I was 15. Sex with a black man had always turned me on more then a white guy. Maybe cause I am attracted to them more.

How Is Interracial Different?

Well it really depends on what the interracial sex is. Because it could be a white person and a Hispanic and that is considered interracial. I’ll talk what I know best about, and that is black and white sex. I feel like it is different because I am more turned on by black skin. I am more turned on by their hair. Pretty much by everything about them. And not to stereotype that typically black guys have bigger dicks. And that is my favorite part.

Why I Love It!

BBC! Haha no but seriously. I’ve already got it set in my mind that sex with black guys is better then whites. A lot of people may get upset about that statement but everyone has their preferences. It’s just what I like, can’t change it.

Tips To Try Interracial Sex

Well, if you don’t like the person of the race you are going to fuck, I wouldn’t do it. But if you are attracted to the person then what is the hesitation? I know some people were raised differently and some people may be scared of the BBC but honestly if you are curious, then fucking do it. Just wear a condom, ALWAYS.

If the dick is bigger then what you are used to, then I suggest using a lot of lube. I had a scene with Mandingo and I was so nervous. But I got there and the excitement got me super wet and lubed. Fit like a GLOVE.

Sheena Rose – Raised in Cali but resides in Vegas. Been doing adult work for almost 3 years now. And likes to smoke weed. Follow Sheena on Twitter @SheenaRose92, Instagram @SheenaRose92 and Snapchat @SheenaRose92

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September 23, 2016
How To Finger Her & Give Her An Orgasm

I think people should have sex when they want to, as long as they want to do it and they aren’t pressured into doing it. They use protection if they don’t want to get pregnant or catch some sickness!!

A Memorable Sexual Experience

It was when I was 17, I had a boyfriend and after one month we thought that we were ready! He was gentle with me, we didn’t know what we were doing and I cant say that was perfect but I cant say it wasn’t bad either! After that, slowly I start to feel more pleasure and learnt how to have the perfect orgasm! Now I love it!!!

How I Like To Be Fingered

Of course this is one of the best way to get orgasms! I prefer him to start me slowly, and kissing me gently then going to my clit and getting some wetness of course on it. After a few minutes, I love to get faster and faster and this is what makes my vagina wet! Of course he must keep paying attention to me to see how I feel! When I get super wet I love to first put one finger inside me, pushing in and out slowly and keep rubbing my clit with the other hand! Then to put the second finger inside and getting faster, keep rubbing my clit and like that, I can cum very fast and very powerful!!!

Favorite Positions

I LOVE missionary cause like that I can control myself and move my back up and down when I feel that I have to!!

How Will A Guy Know I Am Reaching Orgasm?

First my breathing gets faster and deeper, and I start to move too much and of course I start to scream sometimes!!!

Kinky Places I Love To Have Sex

There are no kinky places when u enjoy it! But I like it in the cinema, on the beach, in the car, sometimes in the pool or in the sea!!!

What A Guy Must Never Do When Fingering

Push it too hard or have dirty fingers. I hate this!! And dont stop till I get the orgasm!

Inna Sirina – is an Adult Actress and 2016 DDF award nominee. She is a brunette Greek Goddess witch who likes to have fun and enjoy life. So be happy no matter what! Follow her on Twitter @inna_sirina, Facebook https://www.facebook.com/Inna.Sirina/ or Instagram @innasirina2

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September 22, 2016
What She Thinks About Your Penis

My thoughts on sex, have always been one of interest and open mindness. I don’t just love sex, but I NEED sex just like any human being or animal on earth. Sex is a bond you can create with someone where it is pure bliss, comfortable atmosphere, and an instinct to reproduce. This is not something that is supposed to be evil, or should ever be frowned upon a society like we have in america. I consider sex necessary for human emotional development when you are ready and learning how to care for someone. Sex is a beautiful thing and I want to spread it around!

What Attracts Me

That he respects my time, and can hold his own in a conversation. I love a witty person, more than looks. Honestly, I will always choose personality over good looks. Why? Someone with a heart warming personality will have me thinking about them forever and will always look better in my eyes than physical attributes. Besides, I don’t agree with societies’ attraction schemes. I go off my own instincts and want to feel safe around the man I am with, and emotional safety factors into that as well.

Does Size Matter?

For my tastes, no, it has no say in my head when it comes to that. Personality is everything and when you have that, you have the best dick in the world.

Ideal Size?

For my preference, if I HAD to pick, I like an average size because I do not want to feel like I have something in my stomach, and I like a little width.

Tips To Enjoy A Dick

You can always make sex enjoyable and fun when the dick is not ideal! I love sensual touches, a man with a good mouth or someone that can take direction, and I always have my lovely mouth as well when something isn’t working out.

Keiki – A Hawaiian enticement any man should add to his fantasies. Visit her website http://keikipacificmuse.com/ and follower her on Twitter @keiki_GFE

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September 21, 2016
Anal Sex Tips

I tried anal at an early age and I have always been adventurous in the bed room. I was just very curious to what it would feel like, I was a little bit nervous though as expected as it is something which can be regarded as gross and potentially painful. But I’m very glad I tried it for myself.

My First Anal Experience

I do remember it. I was with a boyfriend at the time and it was actually me who suggested we try it. We just took it slow and it was great! It was much more sensitive then vaginal sex.

Does Size Matter?

I think its easier for people who don’t do anal very often or who want to try it for the first time, with something smaller. But once you get into it and relax, anything is fine. My preferred is larger sized with a nice girth.

What If He Is Too Big?

There has never been a penis too big but there have been toys that have been too big. But I have used smaller toys and slowly used bigger and bigger ones until I could fit what I wanted to use.

Preparation For Anal

If its spontaneous, there’s no prepation lol. If I plan it or am really in the mood for lots of anal, I use an anal douche. It just makes sure everything is clean and there is no interruption. Also, l always make sure I have my favourite lube on hand. Dry anal sex isn’t pleasant.

Favorite Positions

I like being bent over for anal, it’s the best or on my back with my legs up.

Making Anal Hotter

I like adding toys so having something in my ass and pussy at the same time. Also when on my back, it’s sexy when I rub my clit while being fucked.

I’m Kimberlee Rose, I’m 23 and an up-and-coming Aussie porn actress and escort. I’m easy going with a bubbly personality and I love to fuck. I may look like your sweet girl next door but don’t let that fool you, I love to fuck and I love most things sexual. Follow me on Twitter @kimberleerose10 and website http://www.privategirls.com.au/kimberlee_rose.php

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September 19, 2016
Is It Fine To Have Sex Before Marriage?

Does being sexually active needs to be only inside a marriage relationship? What happens if you have sex before you get married? This is a very controversial topic. A lot of things go into deciding what is ok and what is not.

For everyone, sex comes with responsibilities. It does tend to emotionally bond you to the person you are physically active with, especially if you’re a woman. Women easily get emotionally attached on matters if that person is right or wrong. Once sex enters the equation, the relationship between two people, will be never the same.

Sex plays a big role in marriage. Just like married couples may want to discuss children, religion, and where you both want to live after tying the knot, sex is too an important part of a relationship and it cannot be left to a by-chance situation. Having a sexual desire is normal and healthy; however it isn’t a good idea to not satisfy it and to wait until you get married. Many times, couples rush into marriage just to have sex as they do not want to indulge in premarital sex, which is a very bad idea for them. Things like proper use of birth control, self-respect, and respect for each other is a must.

A person cannot be considered a bad person, just because he or she had sex before marriage. Not everyone is great in bed, and most people do not start out good at all but gradually learn with time and experience. Wanting to have a good sex life would only be possible if you listen to your partner and are able to respond accordingly. Not every newly married couple will be open about their sexual desires, fearing of what the other person may think of them. Meaningfulness in sex is a psychological matter, and related to the stability and happiness of any relationship and not only married life. Sex needs to be fully consensual and focused on pleasure for both the partners, whether married or premarital. Sexual compatibility matters a lot in married relationships, and bad sex, for many people, may lead them to think about ending their marriage. .

While women are bold and empowered today. They are ready to embrace their sexuality, whereas the male mindset has hardly changed. The need of a virgin bride still holds on. In the earlier times, getting married was all about finding the right partner with a stable financial security with a respectful social status. These rules are not relevant any more. Today, men and women are experimental and want to be compatible with their partners in every way, emotional, physical or sexual. Young couples are more westernized, and do not find it to be incorrect to indulge in casual sex.

The most important thing to keep in mind is that your sexuality is your own personal choice. Nobody should be allowed to give you directions on whom you should love and why. For just rushing into a marriage out of desperation to have sex that isn’t seen as sin, at times, may then lead to divorces.

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September 16, 2016
Ways To Spice Up Sex

I’ve experimented in everything that I’ve been interested in trying. There are definitely somethings that I’ve never been interested in, and I’ve known that from the start. I’ve been asked to star in adult films in the past, which I turned down (I’d hate for a friend to accidentally Google me), and I’ve avoided any of the more…interesting…toilet play fantasies.

It seems that BDSM is a common gateway into exploring sexuality, which I tried early in my sexual journey. I learned quickly that there are a lot of men that fantasise about strong women in corsets with whips, and I remember dressing as a headmistress with a bamboo cane one night. Those things can cause some serious damage!

More often than not I get requests for threesomes from guys with other girls, and occasionally I get to enjoy a threesome with two guys (being spoilt is an indulgence of mine). I’ve explored exhibitionism, group sex, toy play, partner swapping, cosplay/uniform play, roleplaying, and “anonymous sex”.

I’m not sure there is a name for it, but “anonymous sex” included a very trusted friend organizing a playdate for me with someone I had never met before. I was blindfolded the entire time, he never spoke, and we rolled around on the bed for hours. Not a fantasy to try unless you trust whoever is setting it up for you, but it was very exciting!

What would I suggest to other couples? Well, to start off most with, no one knows you better than yourself. “Experts” like me can hold your hand and tell you that what you are feeling is natural, and that everything is ok, but you need to be honest with yourself, and your partner.

The most terrifying feeling you will have is the moment before you awkwardly blurt out, “I know I’m a heterosexual but I really just want to try a threesome with someone of the same sex because I think it would be hot, please don’t judge me I love you, what are we having for dinner? Hahaha, threesome? I didn’t say anything about a threesome…”

It will be awkward, and even if you both agree that you want to try something kinkier, you won’t know where to start. Adult films are terrible at teaching you how to explore your kinks, you’re better off having a frank discussion with someone at the local adult shop, someone online on a fetish site, or read a lot of articles. It won’t be as sexy as watching your favourite fetish film, but you’ll learn more about it and be more prepared when you try.

Trust me, if your kink is anal and you think you’ve watched enough videos that you can figure it out yourself, you may just scare your partner off it forever!

Chasey Devil is a curvy, cheeky Mediterranean private escort with a passion for life, adventure and exploration. She has a great smile and an infectious personality, and has had many years’ experience helping others explore their sexual fantasies. Follow her on

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Chasey Devil specializes in the Girlfriend Experience (GFE) and enjoys meeting new people, easing them into new experiences and providing fun and passionate encounters. Go check her out!

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September 15, 2016
Insights Into An Escorts’ Life With Hope Morgan

Sex to me is a natural thing, a thing we cannot control. Each person has a different libido, and I have to say my libido is extremely high.

For all of us, it’s important to recognise that we are all different, and the things that are right for us are different to the things that are right for someone else. We should be respectful and positive about people’s sexuality or sexual relationships, and support their right to explore their sexuality in a safe, consensual and responsible way.

How I Began Escorting

I have worked in the adult industry for many years now; I started working as a stripper and this had led me to explore the industry more by becoming an escort. I have been escorting now for around 12 months and love it. It really has changed my life and opened my eyes to a whole new world.

What Makes Me Unique

I am easy going, well educated and get along easily with all kinds of people. I am your companion with good looks and without attitude.

Common Misconceptions About Escorts

So many people have a negative view of escorts and the men that see them. We need to remember, it is the oldest profession.

A misconception is that escorts are unhygienic and diseased. Escorts who have sex for money will rarely, if ever in most cases, have sex without protection.

Another is that there is something immoral about women who get paid to have sex, women who escort or get paid for sex are usually very strong willed women who know what they want and are not afraid to get it.

One Tip To Dating An Escort

Since working as an escort I have not dated anyone as it’s not an easy thing for a partner to accept.

I think I would like being open and honest within the relationship and talking about issues as they arise.

Hope Morgan – Elegance and Charm without the Attitude. I can walk into a room full of strangers and before long will be laughing like old friends. Follow Hope Morgan at her website www.hope-morgan.com and on Twitter @miss_hopemorgan

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September 14, 2016
Why I Love Being A Camgirl

I worked in the Thailand prostitution industry for two months, when I was 18 years old. My first sex in life was with a customer from America that I had known only for 10 minutes… I got to do things to old guys that I wish I had not done. However, I like sex… I then met a 22 year old French man who was more than a customer. He found me Chaturbate.com, learnt everything about it for me, and then explained to me how everything was working.

At first, I couldn’t believe that I would get more money from just staying on my bed ALONE. While I was having real sex for ridiculous small amounts of money. I was young. That was a mistake. Maybe. However, I love sex. And this alternative of camming is perfect for me. I get a good pay. And my boyfriend isn’t jealous and doesn’t leave me 😉

What I Love Doing On Cam

I can do almost anything. I’m very open-minded.

Personally, I love to cum. I cum a lot. I can have six or more orgasms in the same session. I’m almost always excited, everyday. Very wet. A lot of “white cream”… Guys love to see it. Many guys love different parts of me. They have different preferences. So I adapt myself with the person who is watching and what they want.

I can do almost any sexual thing, but NO dirty things. I mean, I’ll never poop on myself… so I just block those guys…

Preparing For A Cam Session

I make up for about 20 to 30 minutes before a session. I choose a sexy outfit according to my mood of the moment. Sometimes, I makeup while I’m live on cam so people start talking with me and asking questions while I’m preparing for the show.

I also set up some basic lights… a single LED bulb on my level and the ceiling lights…

That’s pretty simple 🙂

What I don’t Do

As I said, I’m very open-minded. But I don’t accept doing anything with urine or pooping on myself… Forget about eating it!!!

Mia is a camgirl and goes by the name Mia Thai Girl. Check her out at the following links:

Website: http://miathaigirl.pw/ (to getMia’s personal Skype ID)

Twitter: http://twitter.com/miathaigirl/

Chaturbate: http://chaturbate.com/miathaigirl/

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September 12, 2016