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  • My Experiences As An Escort

    My Experiences As An Escort

    Honestly, everyone should be having more sex then things would be more at ease with much less stress in our lives. It is a natural wonderful thing. I personally love it.

    How I Began Escorting & Why I Love It

    Oh boy, here we go….haha.

    I inadvertently got started, really did. I went on a sugar baby site and the first person I met, we had an arrangement. We saw each other for 5 months while his start up business started up. Unfortunately, his business never did start up, that was sad for him and me too, I liked him. The next 2 people I met was NOT like what I had initially. I didn’t know any different, and was wondering why are we not having an arrangement and started to question what was going on. Then low and behold I met one other from the sugar site and we did a lot of talking about how when he was younger he was in some very interesting situations and that he got so and so started in the escort biz and she makes blah blah blah. The more he talked the more I listened. I knew about escorts of course, but had NO idea how it actually was right there on the internet, that easy.

    So I went home and googled this woman, got the gist of it and put up some ad.

    The next day he calls and said “Summer what are you doing!” I said, “You did a lot of talking, I did a lot of listening”. He said, “If you are going to do this, you need to do it right” and told me about screening, website, reviews. I was blown away at how organized it all was. He started my review page, left the first one and I was off to the races. Crazy right? See, inadvertently.

    I enjoy how most people treat me, they are very happy to see me and I feel great about that. I learn different things from different people that I would have never learned had I not met them. Some bring gifts as their token of appreciation, so awesome. Some like to treat me like a princess, they go above and beyond. I am always smiling, wouldn’t you be if everyone was in awe of you!

    My Specialties

    Truth be told…my specialty is myself. I am genuine. I never had a game or an act. I was just me from day one and it has worked wonders. How easy it is just to be yourself! MANY, nearly everyone tells me how nice it is to be with someone who is chill and down to earth and can laugh at herself, they always use the word sexy. Pretentious is not me at all. I would be a very bad actress at this life. Just go with the flow, whatever company you may be in, you naturally go with the vibe

    My Off Limits

    I will not rim a man. Never, not happening. Weird, well it is a bit weird to be called mommy and tell him he is a good boy. That is indifferent, and he’s older than me. Regardless of who is older, it is weird. Mostly everything else is just people, with a fetish or fantasy. I love accommodating foot fetishes, that’s my absolute favorite. So far so good.

    How I Prepare To Meet A Client

    Well of course he is already screened and we have a date, time and place set. I always like to keep a tan, so I have a spray tan machine I do at home at least once a week.

    I look great with a tan, makes a difference to me. I always do my makeup and my hair is simple, long straight and blonde. Depending on where we are meeting depends on what I wear. If he is coming to me I am wearing something very sexy to open the door with equally sexy lingerie to match, and always the heels, always. If he had made an outfit request in an email I accommodate that. If I am meeting him out or at his location it is a combo of classic yet sexy, and again, always those heels. What happens is a flow of conversation to get to know one another, perhaps a glass of wine. Always Moscato wine, that is my favorite. I used to like vodka on ice but it catches up quick. Then what happens…. well, a lady never kisses and tells. xoxox

    Summer The One – Philadelphia’s Top 5 Consistently Rated Companions. Self described Tall Cool One, that oozes sex appeal and intelligence. Easy going, down to earth, sexy with a West Coast vibe…. The One. Lover of the Ocean, intricate artist and seasoned lover.

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    Twitter: www.twitter.com/summertheone99

    Preferred441: www.preferred411.com/p188300

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  • Top Tips For Hiring Your First Escort

    Top Tips For Hiring Your First Escort

    Hiring an escort for the first time should be exciting; regardless of why you are wishing to hire them. That said, if you have never hired an escort before, the likelihood is that you will feel very social awkward, and you might forget anything you have ever read regarding the correct protocol. Escorts will know if it is your first time or not and will generally try to make you feel very relaxed and welcome both on the phone and in person. After all, they are providing a service which you are paying for, and they want you to come back to them. That said, they do expect a level of professionalism and politeness from you, and there are certain unwritten rules that you must quickly learn and abide by at all times.

    Here are a few hints and tips for anyone who is looking to hire their first escort…

    Use A Trusted Provider

    There are so many different escort agencies, as well as independent escorts, if you are hiring an escort for the first time, using a well-known, and reputable escort service, such as Angels Of London, is the best way to avoid running into any trouble.

    If you are looking for something in particular from your meeting with your escort such as engaging in a particular fetish, it is beneficial to go through an agency, as they will be able to match you with an escort specifically catered to your needs. Ultimately, this will mean that you will get the evening that you are hoping for.

    Talk To Her Before You Meet Her

    It is only polite to talk to your escort before meeting up with her. This is for several reasons. It gives you the opportunity get a feel for the escort (pardon the pun!), and tell if she is right for you but it also gives you the opportunity to ask any questions that you have.

    You can talk about pricing, where you are meeting, the protocol when you arrive – should you call her, or is there something else that she would prefer you to do? When you make this first contact, never do it from a blocked or private number. She simply won’t answer, and to be honest, who would blame her?

    DO NOT Negotiate The Price!

    Never barter or negotiate the price. Refer to it as a donation, not a fee, and do not be surprised if she asks for payment at the start of the meeting.

    Remember that you are buying a service and not coming prepared with the right money, or trying to change the price during the meeting will not go down well at all and chances are she will just end the meeting there and then. Not only is it very rude, but it also puts the escort in a very uncomfortable and potentially vulnerable situation.

    The same goes for offering to pay more than the agreed price for her to add a last minute extra on to the service. If you have not agreed to it beforehand, do not ask, or suggest that it happens. Instead, save it for a separate meeting.

    Although a lot will come with experience, these are three important things to remember when you are hiring an escort for the first time. The most important thing to remember is to find an escort who can meet your needs, and that way you will not run into any problems with the escort, and you will have an enjoyable first experience.

    Angels of London – If you’re looking for the sexiest escorts in London then check out Angels of London. Our high-class central London escort agency offers only the finest female companions for any occasion, public or private. We aim to provide you with extensive choice so you should have no trouble finding a stunning model to match your taste. Visit us now at www.angelsoflondon.com

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  • Experiences Of A Sex Worker

    Experiences Of A Sex Worker

    I love sex! I think sexual urges and fantasies are natural, and ever since fully embracing my own sexuality I’ve received so much more pleasure in life and through all the experiences that I’ve been able to have. I was incredibly shy throughout my teen years, and had the worst social anxiety. This actually led me to being homeschooled during high school. Despite my socializing problems at the time, I grew to really dislike the lack of being in a social atmosphere and/or stimulated by the conversation and thoughts of others. It’s made me appreciate the interactions that I now have with people much more. Homeschooling also gave me the time and opportunity to seek out my own interests and passions, subjects that never even stuck to me when attending public school.

    Once turning 18, and having been felt like a caged bird by the end of high school, I was ready to be on my own! I had a sugar daddy starting off when I first moved to D.C. During that, I discovered how much I loved the company of an older gentleman, and I found that I was able to really enjoy my conversations with them. I respected and valued the discretion, but did not like the feeling of it being more like a relationship instead of an open love that could grow and one that did not have to be defined. The sugar baby relationship lasted roughly 7 months, and I honestly just jumped into escorting. I started with an agency, and assumed that I would learn from them and from experience. I was fortunate enough to have a lady who helped and explained everything to me, and was really quite patient me. But by no means am I recommending that anyone jump right in! There are easy mistakes to avoid, and tips to learn; it would be much more beneficial to read and educate yourself beforehand.

    What I Love About Escorting

    My greatest passions are learning all I can about the world, and making others happy. This lifestyle has given me the amazing opportunity to do both! I’ve met some of the best guys, and made some of the greatest friends. I love the socializing, the intimacy, and the mutual happiness my clients and I bring each other – whether it’s only one encounter, or numerous! I meet the greatest dynamic of people; finding ways to relate to them is something that has not only furthered my social skills, but educated me on topics that my clients share through their own learnings  and life experience.

    I also love the traveling. I’ve always travelled even through my youth, and I don’t think I could ever call one place home forever. This lifestyle has allowed me to see some of the most beautiful places, all while doing what I love! This has become such an amazing opportunity helping me work towards future goals and dreams. The ability to support myself fully and to take care of any school debt in and of itself has been the most fulfilling feeling, but the people that I have met and the things that I have learned through this lifestyle are priceless.

    Screening The Clients

    There are various screening sites to further validate a client’s identity, but I would say one of the biggest ways I rely on deciding to see a client or not would be the trust amongst the SW community. I ask that clients provide at least two references (providers that will vouch for them saying that they are real, safe, and respectful). References and a screening handle is not enough to get through screening, however. I also require a photo of their ID prior to meeting along with their work information. All of this information is erased after screening is complete. Clients see enough of my presence online (through social media, my p411, and my booking site) to know that I am who I say I am, so me asking for the same validation in return should not be an issue for them and if it is, I don’t book. I value and respect discretion, and would not have the reputation that I have built if I ever abused a client’s privacy.

    Weirdest Client Requests I Have Received

    Well, one person’s weird is another person’s kink. But I’ve definitely had some odd requests – some that I agreed to, some I refused, and some I just couldn’t bring myself to do. One time in specific I remember a guy was just absolutely infatuated with my nose. The whole session he was staring at it, he was playing with it, and even in the middle of making out I’d feel two fingers in the shape of scissors slide down the middle of my face and just pinch my nose. The random nose pinches continued even during sex, barely making eye contact with me but instead staring at my nose; occasionally leaning in and putting his whole mouth on it as if he was giving my nose a sloppy kiss or something!

    One request I just couldn’t bring myself to do was a roleplay act. I initially should’ve known he had something up his sleeve cause he walked in with a Whole Foods bag. I was the innocent schoolgirl that apparently got caught blowing two guys in the locker room, and I was facing suspension. The only way to avoid suspension was to sleep with my principal..but first, had to “demonstrate what exactly I was doing to the two boy students”. He grabs his bag and pulls out a banana and a condom. He slides this condom so smoothly on the banana, I’m convinced his real job is a sex Ed coach. He then holds the banana out, looking at me. I am looking at him. We are just staring at each other for a solid minute before he again asks me to demonstrate how I gave a blowjob. I lean down, hovering over the banana, and all I am thinking is “I will never forget the time that I seriously gave oral to a fruit”, I licked the tip of the banana, then snapped away apologizing profusely saying “Sorry, I can’t! I just can’t do it, I’m a terrible actor! Can i just…. demonstrate on you?!” Not my sexiest way of denying a request… but looking back on the two stories now, it almost seems like the banana request should’ve been much easier to fulfill LOL.

    Preparing For A Date With A Client

    I am still a nervous wreck before every date, regardless of how many times I’ve seen someone. The whole time getting ready is me telling myself to not be weird. The nerves are every time, but I’d never want to feel indifferent or bored. The anxiety and build up is what makes the meet so much sweeter. I am typically sitting on my sink counter getting myself pretty..even if there is a vanity, a sink counter always seems to be a girl’s zen place. After the getting ready process, it’s an extensive amount of YouTube video watching that I always end up regretting, a minimum of 30 pictures taken all of which ended up getting erased anyway, and Mariah Carey karaoke. I also make sure everything is in place, and that my date doesn’t go without supplies! Once I meet my date, my nervousness eases and I’m filled with joy and excitement to see them. Every time is a new experience.

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  • Push Your Sexual Boundaries

    Push Your Sexual Boundaries

    (Note: Play the video below whilst reading this post, it’s relevant;)

    We all live in the physical realm where we believe in what we can see with our eyes and touch with our hands. But as soon as we scratch beneath the surface our other senses allow us to glimpse the beauty of the intangible. Even in today’s world where we have evolved to rely less and less on our senses, we still have an innate ability to be captivated by the sound of music or the intoxicatingly indulgent realm of scent.

    As I journey through life I become increasingly aware of the realms that co exist along side the physical but are often muted by our reliance on what we see with our eyes. “Seeing is believing” is a mindset that it based on pragmatism and logic but what was true today can be false tomorrow so I embrace the discomfort of uncertainty in pursuit of conscious evolution.

    In my line of work as a male escort I meet people from all walks of life and the one thing that I have learnt is that as special as we think we are, and as complex as our minds may be, that invisible person passing me in the street is just as wrapped up in their head as I am in mine.

    When I meet a female client for the first time, our worlds collide with an over flow of mixed emotions and desires, excitement and fear. My aim is to understand her emotions and provide peace of mind in an environment where she is free to embrace the realms that co-exist beyond the physical.

    A lustful exploration of senses that once lay dormant are now alive and racing. When open minds embrace masculine and feminine counterpoints, uncontrollable attraction and desire enables us to tune in to the intangible.

    We all posses the ability to travel to places yet to be explored in a world that attempts to stigmatise those who chose to live beyond the expectations of an Orwellian state of mind.

    They once believed the world was flat, and as ridiculous as this may seem, in years to come they will be laughing at us too for the perceived logic we currently hold dear. A wise person knows that they know nothing.

    Video link: https://youtu.be/UA5Y3xNCoHo

    Madison James is a degree educated 37 year old international male escort from London with a keen interest in BDSM, Tantra and massage. He has an aptitude for intellectual conversation, an inquisitive mind and a genuine desire to help women embrace their sexuality one orgasm at a time!

    This article was originally published at https://www.madisonjamesescort.com/single-post/2017/03/15/Worlds-beyond

    Follow Madison James at http://www.thefiftyshadesofgreyexperience.co.uk/

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  • 3 Cords Of Orgasm To Satisfy Any Woman

    3 Cords Of Orgasm To Satisfy Any Woman

    Being the inquisitive soul that I am, I’m genuinely fascinated by the way a woman reaches her orgasm. I’m not talking about the standard early morning romp when she climaxes, rolls out of bed and hops in the shower to get ready for work. I’m talking about the teeth grinding, face slapping, pussy clenching, body quivering orgasm that causes her to wail like a banshee.

    Sex for me is like a really good fragrance, so if a quickie is the Eau De Toilette then an intense and passionate encounter is more like the Eau de parfum, a Tom Ford Tabaco Vanille perhaps. And like any good fragrance a quality orgasm has 3 ‘cords’ – The ‘Head cord’ which gives you the initial hit, the ‘Heart cord’ which comes through after half an hour or so and the ‘Base cord’ which subtly captivates you days after when you catch a whiff as you open the closet door. These fragrances are skillfully mixed together by a keen nose and layered on top of each other to create that harmonious scented orgasm with the richness that will ring out for days.

    Let’s unpack this a little further…the ‘Head cord’ for me is foreplay, this is when I start to push her buttons and tune in to her frequency. This is a sensory exploration from head to toe – sniffing, licking, biting, scratching, slapping and teasing the life out of every curve and every bump until she’s flush with sexual frustration. Her thigh twitches as she feels the sudden coldness of my tongue flick, the stomach tenses as I breath deeply around her mid section, the eyes squint as I come in growling like a dog hovering around the side of her neck about to sink my teeth in – hard. Any moment she could find my hands wrapped around her neck like a hangman’s noose or my tongue between her legs swirling around her clit while she juices up in anticipation of the cords yet to come.

    Amidst the aroma of extreme sexual tension the ‘Heart cord’ starts to ring out.  The strength of which dominates all her senses as she inhales deeply when I enter her universe. She needs time to recalibrate, the ‘Heart cord’ is deep and strong, full bodied and intense so she prepares her mind to embrace. Every stroke is timed and considered as I watch closely for the involuntary reactions that guide me towards her orgasm. A certain angle that strokes her clit, or the position of my hands around her waist sinking in deep above her hipbones. Her pussy starts to clench up and I know she won’t be able to control it for much longer; this is when I bring her back. She let’s me know how close she is to climax on a scale of 1 to 10 so my aim is to keep her in a perpetual state of ‘imminent orgasm’. I bring her back and forth whilst relishing the beautiful sound that signifies she’s about to erupt uncontrollably. At this point it’s like fanning the flames and enjoying the warmth, as it grows in to something wild and untamed. Finally I give her permission to cum and without hesitation the flames erupt as if doused with gasoline. She’s kicking and slapping and thrashing around as I calm her by stroking her body. I channel the energy of her orgasm by massaging her body outwards from her center and she regains her composure. Have you every seen anything else like it? Who made this creature?

    Now the beauty of the ‘Base cord’ is that it lives on long after the other cords have faded. But unlike the fleeting realm of sent the mind holds on to memories and feelings for much longer. The mind has a way of unapologetically interrupting the mundane routine of everyday life and whisking you away with memories of past encounters. These memories are intense and vivid, full of colour and raw emotion masked by the need to compose oneself for fear of judgment. Imagine if we could all embrace what’s buried deep inside openly and freely like our ancestors did many moons ago, what a fucking trip that would be.

    Madison James is a degree educated 37 year old international male escort from London with a keen interest in BDSM, Tantra and massage. He has an aptitude for intellectual conversation, an inquisitive mind and a genuine desire to help women embrace their sexuality one orgasm at a time!

    This article was originally published at https://www.madisonjamesescort.com/single-post/2017/03/15/3-Cords-of-Orgasm-To-Satisfy-Every-Woman

    Follow Madison James at http://www.thefiftyshadesofgreyexperience.co.uk/

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  • Sexual Preferences & Tips With Draven Star

    Sexual Preferences & Tips With Draven Star

    Ultimately, sex is fun and is supposed to be that way. You can’t really control what turns you on and as long as everything is safe and legal and consensual; I’m all about exploring that. There is a lot of pressure put on sex, both in the act and how the individuals should or shouldn’t be connected, but I think that is getting a little better. At least I hope so! Maybe that’s why I enjoy porn so much. So many people that I’m able to interact and work with are very open about what they like or don’t like, what is or isn’t okay in their relationships. Because of that I feel that the friendships I make are able to be more open; which ends up making for deeper connections and a more fulfilling life experience.

    One Common Mistake Men Make During Sex

    I think a lot of men may not need a lot of foreplay, but that’s really important when it comes to getting a woman wet and ready. I think a mistake a lot of people, men and women alike, make is not communicating before the act itself. It can be really fucking hot to hear what your partner is super into; and if you already know what NOT to do, you won’t run into any awkwardness or boner issues.

    Favorite Sex Positions

    I really couldn’t give a shit if people think it’s boring, but missionary is awesome. I really love watching myself get fucked, I can scratch their back and pull their hair, and they can watch me play with my clit until I cum. Its rad. I also know a lot of other performers who feel similar! Other than that I like spooning. Doggy is cool but sometimes it can be a little painful if whoever is fucking me has a big ol’ dick.

    Quickies Or Long Lasting?

    I’m greedy. I like everything. It depends on the situation, too. If I’m at like a theme park or some shit, a quickie is the best bet. If it’s a special occasion, long lasting is the jam. I’m into all of it, honestly.

    Does Sex With or Without A Condom Feel Better?

    Ugh. Okay. Condoms are very important. They are your best bet against STIs, babies, all the things you don’t want. I will shoot with condoms no problem when it’s necessary for whatever reason (there are a lot). With that said, I am super not a condom fan. I have a sensitive pussy and they fuck with my pH as well as can irritate me if I’m not dripping waterfalls during the entire bone sesh. I also get tested every 13 days, only have sex with my partner, other people tested in the same time frame and am very safe; so I don’t like to use condoms, personally.

    Kink The Sex Up!

    I really think kinky can be kind of a relative term. I know some people who think I’m straight up out there with what I like, and I know people who make me look like some kind of minister.

    Myself, I like things to be on the rough side. I like to be bound, blindfolded, choked, smacked and spit on. I like to be flogged a lot more than being spanked, I like my hair pulled, being called names as well as positive reinforcement and being told what to do. Again, I know a lot of people who see this as basic, and I’m sure there are some who wouldn’t be into it. That’s whats really cool about exploring your and your partners sexuality ;D

    Draven Star is a goth girl that’s more than just a phase. Also known as The Doom Doll, she is the MC of the Inked Awards as well as a multiple award winner and nominee. She has been on the covers of some magazines you’d keep under your mattress, and some you’d keep on the coffee table. Half of The 288 Podcast, shes bringing Baltimore Filth to LA, inside and out. Follow her at

    Twitter – https://twitter.com/thedoomdoll , https://twitter.com/288Podcast

    Website – dravenstar.bigcartel.com , 288podcast.com

    Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/thedoomdoll/ , https://www.instagram.com/288Podcast/

    Draven Star will be in Axel Braun’s Inked 3, through Wicked Pictures – stay tune for the release date. The 288 Podcast comes out every Thursday at 12pm PST and is hosted by herself and her buddy, Matt Slayer. Each week is a different bottle of whiskey, a guest, and them – it’s the conversation you have at the end of the bar with a lot of laughs that is absolutely NSFW.

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  • The Appeal of Faux-Incest Porn

    The Appeal of Faux-Incest Porn

    Sex is for everyone. It’s for people of all different ages, mindsets, and orientations. I think sex can be something that is a special, shared experience between two people or it can be casual and fun with no strings attached. It all depends on the people involved, what their comfort levels and intentions are, and what they expect out of having sex with another person. Sex is natural and wonderful and, I believe, at the center of human experience.

    Photo: Cherry Pimps

    What Exactly Is Fauxcest?

    Fauxcest is a large part of the pornography industry because it plays on people’s natural sense of wanting something that is highly “taboo.” Fauxcest – for those of you who may be unfamiliar with the term – is fake incest, and is more commonly step-cest than “biological incest”.

    The vast majority of studios clarify that the relationship is a step relationship before any sex happens, and then drop the “step” as sex ensues. Other studios push the envelope and use bio-incest in their plot lines. Either way, no actual incest is occurring because the performers involved are never related, which is why we call it fauxcest and it is huge in our industry. Looking at the record of all the scenes I’ve done, about 1 in 4 involved fauxcest.

    Photo: Erotica X shot by James Avalon

    Popular Roleplay Scenarios

    I’d say that mommy/daughter and daddy/daughter scenarios are most in demand, rather than anything involving a sister, brother, aunt, or uncle. They certainly happen, but they are far less common than parental situations.

    Photo: EroticaX shot by James Avalon

    Why Fauxcest Is So Popular

    The fascination definitely comes from the shock value of the taboo. Cheating on your spouse is very taboo, and for many people, that’s arousing. An even more extreme “no-no” in our society is incest. I believe this is the reason that fauxcest is so appealing for viewers. It often combines infidelity and incest, which gets people off because it’s “not allowed.”

    But. Have you ever noticed how in step-dad scenes, they always establish that they are step-daughter and step-dad, but then, throughout the rest of the scene, the female talent is calling him “Daddy”? Realistically, I think people get off on incest, but because the thought of actually fucking a family member is so cringe-worthy for a lot of people, step-cest in porn allows people to fantasize about it without feeling icky.

    Now, don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying that viewers of fauxcest subconsciously want to have sex with family members, or anything like that. What I am saying is that when something is forbidden, it peaks a person’s interest. Much in the same way that telling someone not to push a red button makes them want to push that button, telling someone that some parts of sexuality aren’t okay, makes them all the more curious, which is why there is such a huge fascination with fauxcest in my opinion.

    Photo: Dylan Snow playing Alison Rey’s step-brother for Fantasy Massage shot by Barrett Blade

    Personal Favorite Fauxcest Scenarios

    One of my personal favorite fauxcest scenarios is the daddy sneaking into his step-daughter’s room early in the morning while she sleeps. Every morning, he wakes her up for school and fucks her before anyone else in the house has woken up.

    Another fun scenario is a sister/step-sister thing. I like thinking that the two girls have known each other for years, having been classmates since middle school. They grew up together and never really got along. Then, their parents got married and they were forced to hang out. During one of their hang-outs, they start opening up to one another. One of the girls admits she’s always wanted to have sex with a girl, and the other girl has had similar feelings. From that point on, the girls start secretly dating, always fucking when their parents aren’t home or late at night when they won’t get caught.

    Alison Rey – Is a 21-year-old porn performer and has been appearing in adult movies since August 2014. She is currently working full time in the industry while also attending school. She has a passion for understanding fetishism and helping others overcome the distress they may feel over various paraphilias. After graduation, she plans on attending graduate school, where she will study psychology with a focus in human sexuality. Alison aspires to be a therapist that can teach people about their own sexuality and promote sex-positivity within society through her work. Follow Alison at

    Twitter: @AlisonReyxxx

    Instagram: @AlisonReyxoxo

    SnapChat: AlisonReyxxx

    Clips: AlisonRey.ManyVids.com

    OnlyFans: onlyfans.com/AlisonReyxxx

    FanMail: alisonreyxxx@gmail.com

    Catch Alison at her upcoming works:

    Showtime and Twistys: A Criminal Passion

    Wicked: Stripped

    Sweet Sinner Feature: The Babysitter (working title)

    PlayboyTV: TheRub Halloween Episode

    Featured image courtesy of Alan (Elexis Monroe plays Alison Rey’s step-mom for Girlsway.com: Mommy’s Girl)
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  • Techniques To Give Awesome Blowjobs

    Techniques To Give Awesome Blowjobs

    Blowjobs, to me, mean showing your significant other, lover, hookup, or whatever they may be, you’re willingness to submit to them and desire to please them. Blowjobs are an extremely versatile act of lust. There are many different ways you can utilize blowjobs, or oral sex for that matter, as a transition point during a sexual encounter – be it the start, between positions, or the ending.

    Do These Tricks With Your Tongue

    The main way you can use your tongue is while you are catching your breath from going down on your partner. One way is to move your tongue erratically, in circular motions, or up and down in a flicking motion, around the tip of your partner’s penis while simultaneously stroking it.. Another way is to lick from the base of the shaft all the way up to the head while gently cupping, massaging, or caressing their balls. You can also use your tongue to lick your partner’s balls while stroking their penis. For those more experienced, while deepthroating your partner, try to move, pulse, or press your tongue along the bottom-side of their penis to add an extra sensation.

    Use Your Saliva

    I use a generous palm-full, and might increase the frequency of which I use some if I have smoked prior. It’s never a bad idea to add more, unless your partner doesn’t want you to get “sloppy with it,” which is usually not the case. I add more saliva whenever I notice the saliva is starting to dry out. You’re more likely to run into this situation the less time you spend down on your partner. Ultimately, the less saliva you use, the greater your chances are of potentially causing pain or discomfort for your partner(s).

    Do Not Bite

    Be conscious of where your teeth are and how wide your jaw is open during blowjobs. After some practice, you’ll have successfully conditioned your mouth to accompany the size of your partner’s penis in a way that maximizes pleasure for them as well as comfort for yourself, enabling you to perform your best. I highly recommend practicing on phthalate-free toys that are relatively the same size as your partner(s) to avoid the possibility of potentially giving your partner any pain or discomfort.

    Kink Up That Blowjob!

    I recommend learning to give blowjobs without your hands. This enables you to utilize your hands in various ways such as, massaging your partner/their prostate (if they’re clean and into that!), lightly running your fingers along their skin, caressing their balls, stimulating yourself or another partner, etc. to simultaneously add another sensation to the mix. I recommend investing in a remote-controlled toy to let your partner use on you while you give them a blowjob (or you could just have a plug or vibrating toy in). Some positions I enjoy are 69, being on all fours off to one side of my partner while they’re sitting and having them play with my body while I give them a blowjob, setting up a suction cup dildo against a steady smooth surface to use on myself while I give them a blowjob.

    Lexi Minoa is a transfemale adult performer and multimedia artist from Northern California currently based in the Pacific Northwest. With over five years of experience camming, Lexi continues to pursue her passion for making people happy and satisfying their lustful desires. Lexi is sure to captivate any viewer who appreciates an extraordinary woman with elegant, sexual prowess and a warm, uplifting personality. Follow Lexi at

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    Lexi is currently in the process of planning shoots and live shows with male talent. The final videos will be available to purchase on her clips4sale store. Go check it out!

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  • What It Is Like To Be A Male Stripper

    What It Is Like To Be A Male Stripper

    Stripping has always been just a job to me. Far from your typical 9-5 job but nevertheless, a job. To me it’s an act, when I walk out I am ‘Brodie Banks’.

    A completely different person to who I really am.

    In saying that, I absolutely love my job. The rewarding feeling you get when you walk out of a room with everyone smiling and laughing and sometimes gasping is amazing. The way I see it is, ladies only ever have one Hens night (touch wood) which means they’re going to remember it for the rest of their lives. Don’t half ass it or come in with a chip on your shoulders. Make it unforgettable and be polite once the show is over, take some photos and wish the lovely hen all the best for her wedding day.

    The industry is misunderstandood I guess. Majority of male strippers are respectful men and not sleazy jerks.  The company I work for, Magic Men prides itself for being extremely professional and hiring only the best of the best.

    Photo: Japs Rodriguez Photography

    How I Got Started As A Male Stripper

    I got started through an old tennis mate of mine. He was the MC for the stripping company I now work for. He messaged me one day asking if I had ever considered getting into the male entertainment industry…..and well…2 years later here I am.

    What I love about stripping is the excitement you receive from your clients and their initial reaction when seeing you! Walking into a job, you never know what to expect and sometimes you have strips back-to-back and you’re flat out making it to the next one on time after doing 6 or 7 beforehand but to the girls, you’re the highlight of their night. It’s extremely rewarding to see the smiles and laughs from everyone, knowing I tried my hardest to make their night memorable.

    Photo: Japs Rodriguez photography

    Important Characteristics Of A Stripper

    Having a good physique and looking after your body is unquestionably a very important characteristic of a male stripper. However, even though your looks and body are incredibly important and will ultimately get you booked by new clients; charisma is equally as important. You can have the best body walking around, and be a splitting image of Brad Pitt….but, if you can’t charm your clients or simply hold a conversation then they won’t go out of their way to suggest or talk you up to their girlfriends.

    If you put in effort to ensure everyone at the function is comfortable whilst being flirty and fun, then you’ll leave the party with the girls saying “he was hot AND nice” instead of just “good looking”. I can’t tell you the amount of times I’ve been told by clients they expected me to be an arrogant tosser and are completely shocked that I am the total opposite. A good reputation in this industry is extremely important.

    Photo: Matt Ruderman

    Crazy Party Experiences

    Haha to be honest, most of those stories are probably a little too R rated to publish.

    I try to keep the actual performance as professional as possible. But there has been times when I’ve not been able to complete my act and basically had my clothes ripped off me by the girls. My very first strip was actually one of those exact scenarios. Baptism by fire you could say.

    Having girls try to push their way into the room when you’re changing back into your clothes and sleep with you is a pretty common occurrence.  I think I’ll end that question by saying mixing alcohol and a group of rowdy females egging each other on makes for some very interesting campfire stories. I’ll leave the rest up to your imagination.

    Dealing With The Overzealous

    Depending how out of control, sometimes you do have to cut the performance short. I always tell people that one of the most important skills of a male stripper to have is people skills. Being able to talk your way out of sticky situations is your best weapon.

    In saying all that, it’s generally the males (if there are any present) you need to worry about. Oh….and having the soon to be husband walk through the door as you are naked on top of his lovely bride, that was a rather interesting scenario.

    Photo: Matt Ruderman
    Female Model: Poppy Frances

    Misconceptions About Male Strippers

    I think the biggest misconception still to this day is that male strippers are all sleazy jerks who sleep with anything that moves and party 24/7. It’s far from the truth. Some of the guys I work with have been in committed relationships for years and work in professional industries during the week.

    I won’t deny that some guys do fall into that sleazy category. But most of us are respectful. I myself, must admit I am a party boy, I do love to get a little rowdy and let my hair down. But during the week I model full time and need to keep a lid on the partying. I saying that, the sleazy attitude I cannot stand. It reflects poorly on all of us and something that I pride myself on NOT being.

    Follow Adam on Instagram @AdamLukeTaylor and Magic Men at http://www.magicmen.com.au/

    Featured image courtesy of Matt Ruderman
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  • Achieving Multiple Orgasms & Orgasm Control

    Achieving Multiple Orgasms & Orgasm Control

    I hold a liberal attitude towards sex and for me it brings immense pleasure, both physically and mentally. It can vary from a brief fun encounter to a deeply profound experience. Ecstatic happiness and very occasionally even sadness. I love the variety and am constantly surprised by experiences I encounter.

    Sex and sexuality are highly individual and fluid states that change from day to day, week to week and year to year, influenced by a vast array of intrinsic and outside factors. For me it feels like a necessary and healthy part of my daily life and I’m lucky to get to devote a significant amount of attention and intention to the joys of seduction.

    Getting Multiple Orgasms

    I am very lucky that even when I started having sexual experiences in my teens, I found them extremely pleasurable. I remember being able to have quite intense orgasms. I probably have a mix of the right anatomy and the ability to focus on being present and connecting with the person. I actually have multiple orgasms on a very regular basis and have had clients be initially surprised and probably even skeptical about the waves of ecstasy that encompass me. They soon realise that my reactions are genuine (and probably a bit on the loud side much to my annoyance LOL).

    Techniques For Orgasm Control

    Controlling orgasms is only a recent interest of mine and it’s not what most people would expect. I’m trying to hold off and to be more present, especially early on in a ‘love making / fucking’ session. A tantric friend stared this journey of building me up to the point of orgasm and not letting me release – initially I was majorly annoyed as my body wanted the endorphin rush of the orgasm. But I found out that by holding off, the intensity and level of connection when release did come was often heightened even more. I didn’t think THAT was possible. LOL.

    Techniques for orgasm control are the same techniques used in meditation and require a shift of focus and attention to the sensations that surround you. For example, as an orgasm becomes imminent, directing your attention for example on the shape of your lover’s body and really looking at their specific curves may shift your focus enough to stop your orgasm. Often of course you have to slow movement right down to decrease stimulation, otherwise your excitement will likely be too much. For men, adding pressure at the base of your cock (and squeezing your pelvic floor muscles) can be a good way to start exercising control.

    Powerful Orgasms Through Orgasm Control

    Sometimes the process of “holding off” can shift your focus so much that your arousal level drops and you need to build it up again. For men, this can occasionally mean losing your erection. With a bit of time and space to recover, it generally comes back.

    Alternatively, holding off on an orgasm whilst maintaining a high level of arousal has led to the most earth shattering orgasms  I have ever had, with waves that seem to roll over and over again. The first time can be a bit of a ‘what the hell was that?’ moment, especially for gents that have suffered with premature ejaculation issues. A prolonged orgasm that takes over your whole being and feels like it takes you to a higher level of consciousness – who doesn’t want to experience that?!

    Practicing Orgasm Control

    For solo travellers.

    Masturbation is a good place to start with orgasm control as it can be trickier to do in the heat of the moment with a partner.

    Be careful of over-stimulation: For guys this means choking your cock too hard as you masturbate and for women this can be an over reliance on vibrators. By using these methods of overstimulation, you desensitise the nerves around your erogenous zones and there is a feedback loop created where you can’t cum without this kind of heavy stimulation. As hard as it may be, you have to stop these techniques and get your body to re-learn what it is like to find pleasure in more sensual and gentle techniques.

    Edging: When getting yourself off, as you feel your first orgasm getting close, suddenly stop and apply pressure at the base of your cock (if you are a guy) and squeeze your pelvic floor muscles.

    Surfing: This is where as you get close to orgasm, you reduce the intensity / speed of your strokes / rub and allow yourself to remain at a higher level of intensity without ‘going over the edge’

    Both edging and surfing can be repeated multiple times during a masturbation session and lead to stronger and more intense orgasms.

    With a partner, the gist is generally the same except you are stimulating each other (and often yourselves). The beauty of having a partner present is that you can revel in the wonder of each other. I find my orgasms are always way more intense when shared with someone else. By myself I tend to cum once and I’m done. With a partner, the sky is the limit for me.

    Tips To Make Sex Kinkier

    Lets face it, sex begins with the mind, so starting the mental build up way before you get to the physicality of touching each other is paramount. Being open and willing to try new things with each other but with total respect for boundaries.  Any specific kinks a person may have are best discussed well before a session. I sometimes like to ask a partner to write it down in a short story – it helps me figure out how they tick and to be honest I get off on reading about it.  Writing it down takes away the feeling of being judged, so you tend to be a bit more honest.

    Being open and willing to push your boundaries in a safe and trusting environment where both parties understand the meaning of stop when asked is imperative.

    On my kink wish list is a sex swing complete with a stand. If anyone out there can recommend a good one please let me know.

    Anya Sonder – I am a 30 something year old Adelaide based escort who is happy to travel upon arrangement. I provide a sensual, fun, intimate girlfriend experience with a kinky twist. I am deeply attracted to an intelligent mind and people who are passionate about life. I love working with clients who are new, shy, have had issues with sex and those who just love to indulge in pleasure. Take me out for dinner and let me explore your deepest fantasies. Follow Anya on

    Twitter: @anyasonder

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    Email: anyasonder@gmail.com

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