Techniques To Give Awesome Blowjobs

Blowjobs, to me, mean showing your significant other, lover, hookup, or whatever they may be, you’re willingness to submit to them and desire to please them. Blowjobs are an extremely versatile act of lust. There are many different ways you can utilize blowjobs, or oral sex for that matter, as a transition point during a sexual encounter – be it the start, between positions, or the ending.

Do These Tricks With Your Tongue

The main way you can use your tongue is while you are catching your breath from going down on your partner. One way is to move your tongue erratically, in circular motions, or up and down in a flicking motion, around the tip of your partner’s penis while simultaneously stroking it.. Another way is to lick from the base of the shaft all the way up to the head while gently cupping, massaging, or caressing their balls. You can also use your tongue to lick your partner’s balls while stroking their penis. For those more experienced, while deepthroating your partner, try to move, pulse, or press your tongue along the bottom-side of their penis to add an extra sensation.

Use Your Saliva

I use a generous palm-full, and might increase the frequency of which I use some if I have smoked prior. It’s never a bad idea to add more, unless your partner doesn’t want you to get “sloppy with it,” which is usually not the case. I add more saliva whenever I notice the saliva is starting to dry out. You’re more likely to run into this situation the less time you spend down on your partner. Ultimately, the less saliva you use, the greater your chances are of potentially causing pain or discomfort for your partner(s).

Do Not Bite

Be conscious of where your teeth are and how wide your jaw is open during blowjobs. After some practice, you’ll have successfully conditioned your mouth to accompany the size of your partner’s penis in a way that maximizes pleasure for them as well as comfort for yourself, enabling you to perform your best. I highly recommend practicing on phthalate-free toys that are relatively the same size as your partner(s) to avoid the possibility of potentially giving your partner any pain or discomfort.

Kink Up That Blowjob!

I recommend learning to give blowjobs without your hands. This enables you to utilize your hands in various ways such as, massaging your partner/their prostate (if they’re clean and into that!), lightly running your fingers along their skin, caressing their balls, stimulating yourself or another partner, etc. to simultaneously add another sensation to the mix. I recommend investing in a remote-controlled toy to let your partner use on you while you give them a blowjob (or you could just have a plug or vibrating toy in). Some positions I enjoy are 69, being on all fours off to one side of my partner while they’re sitting and having them play with my body while I give them a blowjob, setting up a suction cup dildo against a steady smooth surface to use on myself while I give them a blowjob.

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