Category: Sex Ed

  • A Courtesan’s Advice For Clients

    A Courtesan’s Advice For Clients

    Sex is something that is ever changing from having a deep connection to it just being carnal lust.  It can involve multiple partners whether it be another woman, a man, or even both. That’s why I love it so much! It is never the same experience.  The creativity of each intimate encounter is always unpredictable but my anticipation and excitement aren’t.  Growing up in a conservative European home, sex was considered taboo. We never spoke of it nor was it ever acknowledged. It wasn’t until I reached high school that I first discovered myself and sex. It was empowering as much as it was arousing. It became one of my favorite things to talk, write, and experiment. The intimate moments of ecstasy, the humorous orgasmic expressions, the droplets of lustful sweat, the secretive fantasies and kinks, the erotic whispers and moans, etc. Sex has endless possibilities of exploration bringing out a part of a person that isn’t publicly displayed.

    Types Of Clients I See

    Clients come in different ages, sizes, races, gender, and backgrounds. However, my preference seems to lean towards older men. It is not that I am not keen on men my age, it is just the majority have a strong attitude of self entitlement and lack mannerisms. Older men are finely aged and have an array of interests. I am quite selective of whom I see and I always favor a person who takes their time to send me a lovely email describing themselves. Discretion and safety is always of concern hence, why a screening process exists. This process is in place to keep both myself and the client safe. There are different methods of screening to accommodate everyone’s comfort. From employment verification, background checks, references, or verification services such as P411. As always discretion is of the utmost importance and verification information submitted is deleted after an initial engagement.

    What A Client Is Expected To Know Before Booking

    A smooth booking occurs after a proper screening. A mistake that is often made is when a client fills out a screening form incorrectly such as submitting a false name or information. Another common mistake is inquiring about detailed services whether it be with the usage of acronyms or not.  Both of these mistakes can easily land someone in the Do Not See list. Filling out the form correctly will assure for a smooth process. Clients should rest assure that their information is handled with discretion and will never be shared. Remember, discretion is a two way street.

    Mistakes Clients Make When Meeting

    To err is human and mistakes often occur.  A lot goes through someone’s mind when they first meet and without realizing they often forget to place down the envelope. I understand for I have also been taken by the moment our eyes met. To avoid interrupting the flow of an engagement it is best to place the envelope down as soon as you meet. If you are in a public setting it is proper to place it in a greeting card or in a gift bag. It is incredibly disrespectful to hand the envelope directly or having me wait until it is awkwardly brought up.

    Another frequent mistake is lack of consideration towards their hygiene. A lovely English gentleman once visited and greeted me with toothpaste kisses. He later explained that he had just smoked and ate some toothpaste to avoid tasting like cigarettes.  If you feel the need to freshen up please feel free to excuse yourself to the restroom. I take my time to be presentable and expect my date to do so as well. From time to time I encounter a gentleman who with good intent brings their own lubricant or toys. While it is a gesture with harmful intent I personally do not utilize it. I only utilize my own products that I know will not effect my body chemistry. As for toys if they are in an unopened package then I will gladly use them after cleaning them.

    Is Any Topic Of Conversation Out Of Bounds?

    I am lover of conversation and feel like a wide spectrum of topics helps get to know someone. Often, people say not to discuss politics nor religion for it can cause conflict. However, I have yet to have a problem arise from doing so. There is an art and beauty into the attempt to understand someone else’s point of view.  One of the topics that makes me cringe in the inside is when they talk about the similarities I share with their daughter. I don’t mind hearing about their children but it is a completely different thing to be compared. Aside from that the time spent together is a time to truly liberate yourself and share anything you desire.


    Claire Lamoureux – Originally from Southern France, this wanderlust debutante became a worldwide courtesan. She is an international companion who adores jet setting adventures and collecting books. Although she is only twenty two years old she has an appetite for culture and languages. Claire is a multilingual biochemist with an insatiable lust and true passion for opening others to new experiences.

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  • How It’s Like Being A Camgirl

    How It’s Like Being A Camgirl

    How Did I Start Camming?

    Craigslist! No, really. I’m disabled and my disabilities got too crazy to sustain a “vanilla” job, so I was looking for another work from home job. I found a post on Craigslist about a site looking for girls to get naked on cam. I did some more research, found MyFreeCams (Corii_Siren is my username) and started within 12 hours. And here I am, 5 years later!

    Why Is Camming So Popular?

    I think it is so popular because of the convenience. There has been a WILD influx of girls in the past 6 months or so who think it’s easy money, etc. even though it isn’t. But, for those of us who do this as a career, it’s convenience as far as not being able to work because of illnesses or wanting to stay home with their kids or maybe just a love for exhibitionism.

    It’s a form of porn, so no, I don’t think it will. And with the not-so-desirable guys who record our shows, there will always, at LEAST, be amateur porn out there. However, mainstream porn is such a money maker that I don’t think it will ever completely go away and that’s totally OK.

    What Makes Me Unique

    You have to figure out a way to stand out. I’m not saying you have to have a talent or go sky diving on cam (although I’m sure it wouldn’t hurt), but you have to be able to connect with your clients. Camming is a lot about personality and individual attention these days.

    Misconceptions New Camgirls Should Know

    That it’s easy. By no means is this line of work easy. Guys and girls alike make this misconception. Most people don’t realize the amount of time we spend still working when we are NOT live on cam. Also, dealing with assholes and a lot of drama comes with the territory. You are judged by a lot of people. It’s definitely not easy.

    Common Mistakes To Avoid

    SELLING HERSELF SHORT. There are so many girls who actually do research before they become a camgirl and for one reason or another end up thinking that they need to sell their content and items super cheap. No matter what, a girl should always know her worth. Also, stay away from the drama, don’t bitch *too* much (which can be hard when things aren’t going well) and don’t lie. Just be yourself.

    Is Preparation Required Before Going On Cam?

    I literally don’t. There is a funny thing between a lot of camgirls that we feel like when we log on with no makeup, hair tied, pajamas, playing video games that we make more money than when we log on all dolled up. It varies so much, but then again, variety is the spice of life! Me, personally – I just wing it. Sometimes I get “cute,” sometimes I don’t. But, I do crank some music to get hype and in a really good mood before going live!

    I completely improvise. I never know what kind of mood my viewers will be in when I get online, so I check that out first and we see where things go! It has always worked for me. If there is some kind of big show I want to do, I plan for it and promote in advance.


    Corii Siren – I have been a webcam model for what will be 5 years in May of this year and a Pro Domme for 7 years as of August 6th of this year. I am a 5 time award nominated model. I have 80+ videos and am transitioning to mostly fetish clips as I expand my collection. Read the rest of my profile below!

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  • Make These Ordinary Sex Positions Extraordinary With A Bit Of Crossfit

    Make These Ordinary Sex Positions Extraordinary With A Bit Of Crossfit

    ‘Strong is the new sexy.’ Why do I like that trending phrase? Because it’s true! All of my girlfriends who started exercising a year ago, whether it would be running, athletics, powerlifting or CrossFit, they all look like they could compete for the number 1 spot on FHM’s 100 Sexiest Woman 2017.

    Speaking of ‘sexiest woman’, I’m pretty sure that every female wants to make love like a powerful Greek goddess.

    Furthermore, I’m sure that every female wants to impress their partners with their sports skills. They want their partners to know that they have the best girlfriend in the Solar System! That is why you do some math and make these ordinary sex positions extraordinary with a bit of Crossfit.

    By the way, I was inspired to write this article after one wild one-night-stand a few months ago. You won’t be able to find an article like this anywhere on Google.

    #1 The Sumo Squat Cowgirl

    If you include them in your workout, then you know the many wonders that squats can have on your tush. So, why not give a mundane sex position a boost and squat your boyfriend?

    The cowgirl can get boring for active couples and sex-fueled singles. Why? The only method of the cowgirl that you could think of doing is moving your hips up and down.

    Plus, you can galvanise the cowgirl by adding in the sumo squat form. You spread your thighs apart, clench your buttocks, and move your hips up and down like you would if you’re doing the squats at your local gym.

    Your boyfriend will definitely love the view of you bouncing on him with your thighs apart, trust me, I know. Moreover, the more times you do the sumo squats in the bedroom, the less time you’ll need to do them in the gym.

    In fact, your partner may ask you to do your workouts at home, at a good spot where he can watch you do Crossfit all night long…

    #2 The V-Up Missionary

    If you’re like my girlfriends that aim to have washboards for stomachs, you work on your abs almost every time you exercise. FYI, crunches and planks will only strengthen the muscles; your rock-hard abs won’t simply appear after you’ve done 1000 reps in one session.

    If you do Crossfit, you may have heard of the ‘V-Up’ workout, where you lift your arms and legs up while keeping your butt on the floor. You know the missionary position, right? Well, who wouldn’t know that sex position? It was probably the one that you did when you popped your cherry!

    If you mix the v-up crunch with the missionary, it will make the missionary position more exciting than usual? How is that so?

    Well, you can alternate the pace where have to move slowly while lifting your upper body, and faster when lying on your back. You can even give your boyfriend a kiss, a slip of your tongue, or a bite on the lip every time you do a sit up. Personal tip: if you want to make the missionary awesome, make it kinky!

    #3 The Pull Up Standing Up

    When you want to show your partner how strong and sexy you are, It’s wise to jot some notes down from this section.

    To perform this sex position, you’re going to need something that you can swing onto like a spider monkey. Any sturdy bar would do, but I would recommend getting your own  pull-up bar so you won’t have to deal with any DIY fixing…

    It’s incredibly hard for a woman to gain ultra strength in their chest and arms, but it’s not impossible. It’s not good to over train one set of muscles. However, if you felt like you could have done your last arm workout better when you were at the gym, then hey, knock yourself out. Or, more so put, knock your boyfriend out with your killer triceps.

    Ok, having sex while standing up can be  pretty awesome if done right. But when you’re sitting duck and your partner is doing the work, it can get boring after a while. So, here’s a thought that  could spice up this sex position: why don’t you do the work and he just stands?

    Lift yourself up and down his shaft while you do a few pull-ups at the same time. The only thing your boyfriend will have to do it hold your buttocks in place and moan at the sheer delight of you mastering this sex position.

    Now, I know how tedious and aggravating going to the gym and working out can be when you have too much apathy for the hobby. But I  gotta tell you, if this advice blog doesn’t make these sex positions extraordinary and make you fall in love with exercise, let alone Crossfit, then I don’t  know what will!


    Zoe Jaspers has been writing about sex, porn, and the world of escorting for nearly two years, and she still continues to enjoy writing about all of those topics, along with her sexual encounters. Even though she is informative in her written work, she likes to include a bit of humour in it too, because she believes that sex can be both fun and funny. Follow her at:

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  • Techniques To Give Awesome Blowjobs

    Techniques To Give Awesome Blowjobs

    I absolutely love blowjobs! I love the feeling of a long hard cock pulsating in my mouth as a warm creamy load spurts down my throat! I love feeling empowered and in control and being able to completely satisfy my partner with a good blowjob.

    Tips To Use Your Tongue Well

    I always try to use my tongue in any way I can to deliver extra sensation as I’m giving a blowjob. I love to cup my tongue around the bottom of the cock and slide it across the underside while I’m pulling back and forth. I also find it drives a man wild to swirl my tongue on the head of the penis as I suck more towards the top of the cock. I listen to my partners’ reactions as I’m working him in my mouth and the way he reacts to where I’m placing my tongue, and once I find a pleasure spot, I just keep at it until I get my creamy cum load reward!

    Is Saliva Important?

    Yes! The more saliva the better. I love making a pool of saliva at the base of the cock and then I use it as “lube” to massage the balls while I’m giving a blowjob. I always salivate when I’m turned on and know my partner is too and the saliva just flows. I love pulling back and watching the strings of saliva hang from the tip of his cock all the way to my mouth..it’s just so erotic!

    How To Keep Those Teeth Away!

    I’ve always been told to wrap my lips around my teeth to avoid scraping the penis (ouch!) while giving head but that doesn’t come naturally and feels weird. I purse my lips around the cock (almost like a kiss) and that helps force my lips forward so my teeth don’t touch the cock at all. It works like a charm every time.

    Good Positions To Give Blowjobs

    Besides the standard giving a blowjob while on my knees with the guy standing or sitting (which is cocks up my favorite!).  I love giving a blowjob in the 69 position or lying beside the guys’ body. My mouth is upside down on the cock and I can get it deeper in my throat in that position. I also love lying down face up on the end of the bed and laying my head back. I’ll relax my throat and let the guy basically throat fuck me. It’s a little tricky if you have a strong gag reflex which I don’t, and it is loads of fun.

    Ways To Finish Him Off

    I prefer taking his cum into my mouth and deep in my throat so I can swallow it. I love the way it tastes, the sensation in my mouth and on my tongue. I think that shooting it on my face, boobs, or pussy, is such waste of yummy cum! I guess I’m what you would call cum addicted and honestly can’t get enough of the taste, feeling and swallowing as much as I can!


    Hi guys, I’m “Little Oral Andie!”  I’m 24, originally from the Outer Banks of North Carolina, and now living in Upstate NY. I fell into the adult entertainment business a year ago by becoming a Pornhub Verified Amateur and sharing a few homemade videos there to help bring in a little extra money. My first year so far, I now have 85 videos to my credit, I have won Newcomer Of The Month, won Video Of The Month several times and won Pornhub Newcomer of the Year for 2016! I‘m having a blast and have enjoyed the support of the community as a whole, because the fans are amazing and I have made quite a few great close friends with some of the other amateurs on Pornhub.

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    Want more? Come check me out on Pornhub, Manyvids and Twitter for updates about my upcoming projects and current events. For comments, questions, and/or custom video requests, email me directly at: littleoralandie@gmail.com. Thanks!


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  • Sex Work & Feminism

    Sex Work & Feminism

    For me, and for all the sex workers I know, sex work is work. That means that it is a job that is just as valid as any other job, with its definite pros and cons, and some people love their job while others hate it, just like in any other field of work. A lot of people who are not familiar with the sex industry tend to confuse sex work and sex exploitation.  The former implicates a choice to be in this line of work, while the latter implies coercion. All sex workers are opposed to sex exploitation.

    With that being said, my personal way of seeing sex work is one of exchange, connection, and intimacy. We all need to be touched and desired from time to time. What I am selling is not my body, but my time, my companionship, the way someone feels in my presence, and a true connection on a human level – all of which are key elements to intimacy. I like to describe myself as a professional fairy: I create a multi-sensorial bubble in which my partner and I are free to discover one another, and, sometimes, a little bit of ourselves.

    Misconceptions About Sex Workers

    One of the biggest misconceptions about sex work is, as I already mentioned, the fact that people don’t differentiate work from exploitation. In that line of thinking, there is a widespread theory among some types of feminism that states that any money transaction in a sexual context takes away the person’s ability to consent to said sexual activities. The problem is that kind of thinking denies all agency to sex workers, who are grown women who are otherwise perfectly able to think and decide for themselves. There is just as much violence in denying a person the ability to consent, as there is in not respecting that consent. (As a parenthesis, I just want to add that the vast majority of the sex workers I know are especially intelligent, strong and grounded people, able to stand up, speak, and provide for themselves, usually better so than most people.)

    Another misconception that is often encountered, is that sex workers have necessarily suffered abuse, or live with mental health problems. The thing is, some sex workers have had traumas in their lives, while others have not. Some sex workers do live with a mental health condition, but then again a lot of people who are not in the sex industry do too. It is also important to mention that we, as a society, tend to judge more severely women when they make a choice that is considered “risky,” and associate it with emotional instability, instead of bravery as we would naturally do with men.

    Why Is Sex Work Stigmatized In Society?

    As developed by Gail Pheterson in “The Prostitution Prism” and “The Whore Stigma,” the oldest form of prostitution is marriage.  Historically as societies, we have used marriage to keep women in line and we have put on them the whole burden of sexual, domestic, and emotional labor, expecting them to care for everyone in the household without any form of compensation. Nowadays, marriage has been replaced by the traditional monogamous heterosexual relationship, but the expectations towards women have barely changed. That is why, when a woman takes control of her own sexuality, and chooses to sell her sexual and emotional labor, we collectively feel like what she is doing is inherently wrong. We keep sex work as a taboo, we ostracize sex workers and clients (thus making their work even more dangerous), because on top of not offering all that labor to a single man, the women who choose to do sex work get an immediate and direct financial compensation for the work they do – how dare they, right?

    What I Love About Being A Sex Worker

    I especially love the freedom that sex work gives me. I am an independent courtesan, so I get to make my own schedules and choose the clients that I see. I am also a full time student and a writer, so a job that gives me both free time and a lot of inspiration is the best for me!

    Another positive side of sex work to me is the fact that it forces you to set limits for yourself. Surprisingly, I found that having to word out those limits in a professional environment made setting them in my personal life easier, thus making my overall sexual life healthier.

    Can Sex Work Be Empowering?

    Absolutely! As Virginie Despentes writes in her essay “King Kong Theory,” it is all about the mind state and the consciousness of what one is doing. For example, dressing up in a sexy way and wearing high heels, when done strictly to please men, or when done without thinking about it, can be considered a symbol of female oppression – because society forces that look on women and tells them that it is the only way to be beautiful and desirable, and the subtext of that tells women that being desirable to men should be their main goal in life at all times. But, from another perspective, if a woman is wearing heels and lingerie in order to get a direct benefit from it (such as money from a client) and she is conscious of it, the choice of clothing switches from being oppressive to being subversive. The same goes for body hair removal, makeup, or having phallocentric sex. When you are a woman, the act of consciously complying to a societal sexist imperative in order to make money off of it is in itself an act of rebellion, and should be celebrated as such. 🙂


    Léonie Stein – A professional fairy and independent courtesan from Montreal. Free-spirited, curious, and adventurous, as a full time student and writer I thrive on art and literature, as well as on pop and internet cultures. I am both easygoing and sophisticated, and human beings fascinate me. I consider myself a radical feminist and a sex workers’ rights advocate.

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  • Tips For Having A Threesome

    Tips For Having A Threesome

    I’m a great fan of sex. Not only does sex feel good (which is great), but I also believe that people have an innate need for intimacy and physical contact. A lack of touch can make anyone feel depressed or anxious, and the right touch – like sex – can help both your physical and mental health. For me, sex is all about open communication and finding beauty in every person (and about exciting adventures of course)!

    How My Interest Began & Why I Love Threesomes!

    I have loved threesomes since I realized I was bisexual and fantasised about being with a man and a woman at the same time. I have been lucky enough to have had more than my share of threesomes (and more-than-three-somes!) with people of all genders in all combinations, and I have loved all of them.

    I adore giving pleasure to people, and for me one of the great things about a threesome is the chance to pleasure more than one person at the same time! I also love making people’s fantasies come true, and thankfully I often get to do that by introducing people to threesomes.

    One thing I love about threesomes is that sex with more people tends to be extra sensual – it is impossible to keep track of who is doing what, so at some point you just give in to sensations and stop thinking altogether. That is such a great experience!

    Difference Between MFM & MFF Threesome

    I don’t think there are specific differences between MFM and MFF threesomes, but I do think there is a massive difference between threesomes where everyone is into each other (so an MFM threesome where the men are bisexual or an MFF threesome where the women are bisexual) or a threesome where everyone is straight. I find that threesomes where everyone is straight often makes the pleasure of one person the central focus, and that can be an incredibly hot thing! I personally love being the centre of attention in a threesomes, but it is also great to lavish someone in all the attention and pleasure 4 hands and two mouths can give..

    A threesome where everyone is into each other is often an enthusiastic mix of giving and receiving pleasure all around – with the added advantage of the occasional moment when your two partners are pleasuring each other and you get to watch the most sexy show of your life. So there is definitely an advantage to all types of threesomes.

    My favourite type of threesome is an MFF threesome with a couple where the women wants to try being with another woman for the first time. It is such a special honour to be invited into an established relationship like that, and I adore seeing two people who love each other explore sexy adventures together. Plus, I love being a woman’s first Sapphic adventure – every woman who is bi-curious should get to try sex with another woman!

    My Favorite Threesome Positions

    I recommend going down on someone together – it is a unique sensation for the person who receives it, and it is very hot for the people performing oral sex. Another great sensation which you can only get in a threesome, is oral sex while you fuck. In an MFF threesome I would recommend one woman sitting on the man’s face while the other woman rides him. But of course in any threesome you can also go down on whoever is being fucked – this causes some of the most intense orgasms I have ever witnessed.

    But my absolute favourite experience in threesomes is to go down on someone while being fucked (I recommend partner 1 to lie down on their back, partner 2 be on their hands and knees going down on them, and partner 3 to fuck partner 2 from behind, which gives everyone a fantastic view). I once had the pleasure of being in the middle of that and making both partners come at the same time – it was the hottest thing I have ever experienced!

    Threesome Etiquette For An Enjoyable Time

    I would always recommend having a chat together about expectations and boundaries. Like anything to do with sex, the first time is probably not going to be perfect, and good communication will help with that. It’s great to know what everyone involved is looking for, so find out if your partners would like something sensual, or kinky, or any other preferences they have. You will also want to talk about safer sex and condom use, and make sure to switch condoms between partners

    For an established couple, a threesome can sometimes bring up feelings of jealousy or insecurity. It is important to know that this is very common, and I’d recommend talking about it both beforehand and afterwards. The best way to prevent jealousy is to pay equal amounts of attention to both your threesome partners, so neither of them feel left out. Another solution is to invite a professional to join your threesome, so you are sure you can have the best experience without the strings attached!


    Anna Williams is a sex-educator and professional escort in London, UK. She specialises in threesomes, new experiences, and safer sex education. She believes strongly that natural beauty, communication, intelligence and feminine curves are sexy. She also believes that everyone should have the threesome of their dreams at least once in their lives!

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  • Tips For A Beginner Camgirl

    Tips For A Beginner Camgirl

    Camming is all about female empowerment and I see it as a form of entrepreneurship. For someone like me who had life changing, alarming and physically draining experiences with the opposite sex, camming gave me that control, self-love and safety I had once lost from a young age. I see camming as an enjoyable and educational job.

    How I Began Camming

    I ultimately became bored of escorting and I wanted to do something that would still allow me to feel in control of my body and ultimately my life. I found that cam work would give me that independence and power that I wanted. I also had a sense of excitement when I spoke to a new client on cam.

    Challenges I Faced At The Beginning

    No-one tells you that camming is time consuming and that in the beginning you won’t be speaking or engaging with plethora of people. It starts off slow but you have to trust the process – regularity means that more people will recognise when you’re online and they’d want to communicate with you.

    Things I Wished I Knew

    Taboo fetishes are so popular and common on cam. I find that taboo fetishes on cam can be really disturbing and I didn’t know that there was such a demand and desire for such fetishes. For example, as an ebony girl, I receive a lot of “Black Slave, White Master” and “HIV and Murder” taboo fetishes. I always tell myself that these are simply fetishes and clients are simply communicating with me because they know that they cannot fulfil these types of fetishes in reality.

    Misconceptions About Camgirls

    1. Not all cam girls have Daddy issues. For some apparent reason, I receive emails and comments from people saying that I “should resolve” my Daddy issues and leave this industry which makes me laugh because I have an incredible relationship with my father.
    2. Not all cam girls do this job to fund a drug addiction or any type of addiction for that matter. I don’t drink, I have never done drugs and I wasn’t forced into webcam work. I enjoy what I do and I reap the benefits of my job.
    3. I often get told that I should be ashamed of myself because I am essentially selling my body providing a type of sexual service. If I was ashamed, I would not be doing such an empowering, amazing and entertaining job like camming.

    Tips For Beginners

    1. Using a HD webcam camera – You ultimately want to make sure your virtual client is able to see you clearly. A HD webcam camera really helps to create a better experience for the cam girl and the virtual client.
    2. Your setting is totally important as it can create a particular mood for a webcam show. I do my shows in my living room on my white sofa. I love using a lot of light so my shows are clear and the focus is always on me.
    3. Get to know your virtual client before “showing them the goods.” A conversation can actually make a cam show fun and very intimate. Additionally, you’re keeping the client for a longer time period which means MORE MONEY for you so it’s a great skill.
    4. Great Wifi connection – There is nothing worse than a webshow ending abruptly because of connection issues. You need to have the best wifi.
    5. Eye contact with your camera makes the experience for the clients a lot better. The client will feel special because all your focus is on them
    6. Dress to entice and impress – If you look great, the client will want to have fun with you.
    7. Be open minded and enjoy your shows – I have numerous orgasms on cam because I’m always relaxed and I always try new things (afterall everyone has different fetishes, desires and thoughts).

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  • 5 Reasons Straight Women Should Consider Yoni Tantric Massage

    5 Reasons Straight Women Should Consider Yoni Tantric Massage

    Whether you’re new to yoni tantric massages or not, this highly satisfying sexual practice is a magic elixir for many stresses and strains of daily life. I highly recommend tantric massages to many clients and they’re always pleasantly thrilled by the experience. A yoni tantric massage can give you the confidence boost you’ve been looking for, or put some fire back into your relationship. If you want to explore this wonderful, sensual act, here are 5 reasons why straight women are paying money for yoni tantric massages.

    1. Uncover your sexual desires

    Yoni is Sanskrit for vagina and this delicious massage is perfect for women who want to uncover their sexual desires. When we’re new to certain experiences, we can feel self-conscious and full of doubt. A yoni tantric massage in the presence of a qualified professional is the ideal opportunity to enjoy a fulfilling treatment in a private environment. Learn what sensations feel good and what techniques stimulate you. Grow your sexual confidence so you can feel more relaxed in intimate situations with a partner. Bring contentment into your love life by becoming aroused with sexual pleasure.

    2. Share an experience with the same sex

    A yoni massage is perfect for sharing a sexual experience with a member of the same sex. Yoni massage is all about honouring a woman and treating the vagina with love and respect. You can confidently explore your sexual side and reach orgasm in a safe, relaxed environment. Dimmed lights, romantic candles and soothing sounds of music are the best way to unwind as you reach climax with waves of pleasure. This sensuous way of exploring the sacred side of a woman’s sexuality is a practice I recommend to many women who want to enjoy the touch of a female in a discreet way.

    3. Relieve stress

    Relax and relieve stress with a yoni tantric massage. Experiencing erotic bliss in the hands of another can help to relieve the strains of daily life. Become more confident with your body as you enjoy the sexual energy that a yoni tantric massage arouses. A trained masseuse who is skilled in practising erotic massage will help you to unwind in the best way possible. Whether you want to engage in the practice of yoni tantric massage after a hard day at work or at the end of a busy week, your desires will be warmly taken care of. I always ensure women that they can take part in a massage at a private location or in the comfort of their own home – whatever works best for them. Your requirements are always taken care of, so don’t be afraid to have a little chat with your masseuse beforehand to let her know if you have any likes or dislikes, or if you’re new to the art of yoni tantric massage – a great professional will always make sure you’re feeling 100% comfortable.

    4. Experience orgasm

    For women who have never experienced an orgasm, yoni tantric massage can be highly beneficial. You can explore your body like never before in a loving and cherished manner. If you’ve only had single orgasms, tantric massage can be a great way to experience multiple orgasms. Your masseuse will reassure you, so even if you’re feeling nervous beforehand, you’ll be able to relax and relish the experience. For women who have suffered from sexual trauma, yoni tantric massage can be beneficial in helping the healing process by practicing sexual pursuits in a warm and tender environment.

    5. Bring benefits to the bedroom

    If you’ve been having problems in the bedroom with a partner, yoni tantric massage may be just the tonic you need. You’ll feel empowered and much more self-assured in your lovemaking skills and in your relationship as a whole. If your sex life has become lacklustre, undertaking tantric massage with a person outside of the relationship can help to ease your frustration. Indulging in new techniques and finding new ways to stimulate your sexual desires can put the spark back into your love life. Teach your partner new found ways of stimulation and let him explore the erotic feelings with you. An enjoyable sex life will heighten your whole life and booking a professional masseuse is the perfect way of learning and indulging in pleasure without relying on alternative methods, such as booking an escort or asking a friend.


    Erica Suarez-Hillingdon is the UK’s leading authority on all things concerning tantric and erotic massage. Her articles offer insight into the sacred arts of tantra, coloured by her experience and tantric inspired travels around the world. Her studies into relationships and sensuality have helped shape the modern understanding of tantra and how it can be utilised. She is also proud to be the editor of the Karma Tantric Magazine.

    Article republished with permission of Karma Tantric Massage London 


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  • What Guys Must Know Before Buying Used Panties

    What Guys Must Know Before Buying Used Panties

    I first started selling my panties after a conversation with a girlfriend and I had when reading an article in a magazine together. At the time we both joked about doing it but after giving it some more thought later that week, I decided to give it a go! At first I didn’t take it very seriously as I wasn’t sure how successful I would be, but now I love it! Making my clients happy is very important to me and I always try to accommodate all of their needs, wants and desires. There is just something so satisfying about knowing someone is getting off over you.. and to be honest the thought of that gets me off!

    Types Of Panties I Sell

    I do my best to always offer a wide variety of different types of panties. G-strings, thongs, Brazillian cut, full briefs, high waisted, boy legs etc. If there is every and anything a client would like that I don’t have on offer, I am more than happy to purchase the item they would for them before wearing and sending it.

    Most Popular Panties Requests

    My lace thongs or anything crotchless are the most popular. I get all different types of requests, different wearing duration, panty stuffing, panties worn during sex, period panties, pee, skid marks, anything you can think of! I love that my clients always feel comfortable enough to request whatever they want to me and know that there will be absolutely no judgement involved.

    What Happens After They Receive It

    A lot of my clients love to chat afterwards, or will contact me once they receive the panties so I can help them get off. I also offer my clients custom videos and photos as well, which is always fun!

    I have yet to reject a request. I am pretty accommodating! Certain requests may cost more but I am generally more than happy to fulfill any of my clients wants.


    Ella Lacey – A young, fit, Aussie girl selling my panties from “down under!” I have been selling my panties professionally for about a year now and am loving it. There is something so satisfying about knowing how much I turn my clients on. I am always up for some fun, will you join me?

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  • Favorite Sex Positions & Kinky Places To Have Sex

    Favorite Sex Positions & Kinky Places To Have Sex

    Personally, I love sex! I like it at home and I love it in front of camera!

    Be Experimental!

    I would say, very! I’m open for all kinds of ideas on shoot and at home with my partner too. I love gangbangs and in my personal life I have tried swingers parties.

    Favorite Sex Position

    That is definitely me riding on cock. Obviously because I can be in charge and do whatever I want with the cock.

    Other Positions I Love

    With my partner I enjoy the spoon position. That is very intimate.

    Kinky Places To Have Sex

    Well, night club bathrooms are exiting. There are always people and a risk to get caught is huge. I love it!

    Most Memorable Sexual Experience

    I have had quite a few, but if I have to mention one I would say that it would be the time I had sex with my ex on a train. That was so exiting!


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