Category: Kink

  • What It’s Like To Date A Black Man (from A White Woman’s Perspective)

    What It’s Like To Date A Black Man (from A White Woman’s Perspective)

    I grew up in a semi-small town in Missouri where interracial dating was non-existent. If it did exist, it would have been discouraged, if not attacked outright. I dated white guys simply because it was what girls were supposed to do. But, I always had an attraction to Black men. My white boyfriends seemed to always carry some racist attitudes which in a way, made me even more curious.

    Of course, a teenage girl hears the rumors about Black men. That peaks our interest as well. Interracial dating is like an entirely different ballgame. It’s different. It has challenges because racism is still very prevalent, especially among white males who despise the competition. But, interracial dating is like joining a very elite club. Couples support one another and strangers very often ask me about it. Other women seem very curious and ask me about it.

    Why I Find Black Men Attractive

    I started dating white boys when I was 14. I dated four of them before I had enough. My best friend, who is white, knew I had an attraction to Black men, so she pushed me to go on a double date with her. She dated a Black man and set me up with her boyfriend’s friend who was also Black. I was 21.

    There are always exceptions with Black men, like anything else. Not everything I find attractive about Black men is not found in EVERY Black man. But, I have always found a Black man’s style to be attractive. His swag. Black men have a classy, sexy style that’s very alluring to a white woman. Black men naturally have a dominant presence. I love dark Black men. Their dark skin is very masculine especially next to my fair skin. The contrast is alluring. Black men typically have a stronger physical stature. I find that powerful and very attractive.

    And yes, typically Black men are bigger down there. I love a Black man’s penis and the way he uses it. Black men are better in bed. They have more stamina and they’re very uninhibited and passionate. Their style and swag; their physical makeup; their minds and attitude. Their “Blackness” is very sexy.

    My Experience Of Interracial Dating

    It’s generally very positive and exciting. There is still a lot of racism though. It seems mostly to come from white boys. But, other white women are very supportive. When I go out with my boyfriend, other girls often pull me aside and ask me what it’s like to be with a Black man. It used to embarrass me. But, I’m used to it now. I tell them the truth, “it’s amazing!”

    Is Interracial Dating More Open In Recent Years?

    It’s growing. Everyone knows that. Even racist white boys see that it’s becoming more and more prevalent. I think society is opening up to it because popular opinion is shaping that. Interracial resources are everywhere. In popular culture, interracial can be found out in the open. In the adult entertainment circles, interracial is among the top three most viewed search, behind “girl-girl” and “hardcore”.

    Sites like Deeper.com, Blacked.com, and Darkx.com are proof that interracial sex is hot and growing. The occasional resistance we get is pretty much reduced to angry white boys who don’t approve of the way things are going.

    Tips For White Women Who Want To Date Black Men

    Do it! There’s no time like right now! Don’t let friends or family frighten you or hold you back. Go with your gut and satisfy your attraction. It’s not “weird”; it’s not “wrong”. Society’s acceptance is growing; now is a great time to try it. If you can double date, that will calm some of the anxiety we face going into it for the first time.

    We’re strong and we can make up our own minds. If it’s what you want, you have the right to do it. If you’re just wanting to try it for the sex, go for it. No one has to know about what you do in your private life. “Don’t die wondering” is what my best friend told me when she introduced me to my first Black man.

    Differences Between Black Men & White Men

    Again, there are no absolutes. Not every Black man is this-way and not every white boy is that-way. But, from a general perspective I will say that there are some major differences. The penis is the one thing that comes up most often. Typically Black men are bigger. Not just in length but also in girth. Black men seem to hold an erection a lot longer which goes well with their stamina.

    The sex with a Black man is uninhibited and passionate. A Black man typically likes to please us before he pleases himself, which is very refreshing! There are a lot of physical and mental differences between Black men and white boys, most of which I went over previously.

    Would You Date A White Man After Being With A Black Man?

    Personally, no. I know that some women might go back and forth between black and white. But, I’m very satisfied with Black men. Not to mention, I’m more attracted to the style of a Black man. I don’t find white boys attractive.


    Andrea Dillinger – American made 25 year old scorpio with a taste for dark chocolate.

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  • Why I Believe In Female Superiority

    Why I Believe In Female Superiority

    As far back as I can remember I always felt that Women were superior to men and that their natural position is to rule over men. I’ve always had an irresistible need to serve and obey Women. To be slapped, whipped and put to work through protocol, to be guided, trained and disciplined by a strong Woman is natural for me.

    Once again, protocol is essential for I live to slave and must slave to live. The physical glamour, stilettos, and leather always represents superiority, strength, intelligence, and beauty.

    I think that kink and the alternative lifestyle serves as a tool to bring people together, allowing the savage within to come out and express itself as it may.

    How My Interest In Female Superiority Started

    Long before puberty, I looked up to Women and recognized their dominance, therefore I wanted to serve, obey, be disciplined and ruled by a Woman. So being submissive wasn’t forced but rather, alive inside of me. It was, and is natural. I am built that way and I recognize and accept the fact that it is who I am. It is a necessary component of myself, and that strengths me in my endeavours to submit to Women.

    Exploring Female Superiority

    In my adolescence years, I displayed humility to women when having the shit slapped out of me while subduing the feeling of getting on my knees and licking their boots And kissing their feet and how good it would have felt to be whipped unmercifully and left to worship them and being put to work.

    In my teens, I went to prostitutes to be disciplined, slapped, whipped with a belt and boot, and foot worshipped. But from there, I went to New York where I experienced a professional Dominatrix with a no sex protocol, Florentine Whipping, obedience training. And would continue to go to New York on a regular bases. All the way from Chicago.

    Why I Believe In Female Superiority

    I have a need for female authority to serve domestically, to be ruled and disciplined, to serve her and make her life easier. Her satisfaction is my goal. To honor, obey, love and protect.

    What I Have Done So Far For My Dommes

    Wait on her hand and foot, and domestic service. Giving myself, time dedication and devotion.

    What It Takes To Be A Good Submissive

    Willingness is the key along with protocol, and communication, a fervor to serve and a spirit to obey.

    Currently, I’m seeking to have a dominatrix in a Collared LifeTime Relationship 24/7. Someone special, and I am retired willing and able to relocate in the U.S. or abroad.

    Though communication is essential, as a slave I should be seen and not heard, my possessions are turned over to my Mistress. I will work diligently at my assigned task, and the luxury and pleasure goes to my Mistress and the chores and ass kickings goes to me. I will make sure that her boots and shoes are cleaned with saddle soap and shined properly at all times and strive to do her bidding.

    Currently I’m seeking to be collared in a 24/7 relationship


    Joel – I am a small, petit black male 510 ht, 165lbs, in my early 60s, kink wise I’m into servitude and corporal, hobbies are cooking, grilling, and barbecue, reading, book club, movies, music,, concerts, traveling, and entertaining cooking having people over, playing cards, interest language and martial arts. I’m fit in good health.


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  • The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 9) – Proven Results

    The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 9) – Proven Results

    Ever wondered what really happens on a hot girls’ night out? Meet Juliet Adelaide and her friends in The Secret Life of a Hotwife as they drive into the sassy world in this no-holds barred account of a hotwife’s lifestyle, and uncover all you’ve ever wanted to know, from the sensual and provocative to the risque and unspeakable.

    Based on the steamy real-life experience of Juliet Adelaide, author of The Mrs Sexy Chronicles, this exclusive first-hand account of her exploration of sexual freedom and insight into the life of a hotwife will leave you begging for more.

    Chapter 9 Teaser – Proven Results

    There are many variations of being a hotwife. The rules that are made within any couple’s relationship must be agreed upon completely or it would never work. Some hotwives do not allow their husbands any freedom and other couples may not speak of their outside relationships. The rules may vary but it is essential that they’re agreed upon. Scott and I spent many months discussing what rules we should have in place. The most important factor to us was to be open and honest about every aspect of extra-marital activities. No secrets are permitted.

    Since, in our setup, I have been given the most liberties, I had to find ways to keep it exciting for Scott. We talked about what he would enjoy. He has always been a kinky guy. I refer to him as a sado-sensualist. He likes to bind me and use floggers on me as a sadist would, but he is sensual and passionate about it which makes me one very lucky lady. Scott and I decided even before we got into the hotwife lifestyle that we would have to have some sort of activity where I would have to “pay” for my naughty behaviour. It was agreed upon early on that I would have to tell all of the details of my encounters. We decided on what seemed like a fun idea, reclaiming nights.

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    Juliet Adelaide has a Bachelor’s degree in Humanities and Culture from Arizona State University. She started dating her husband at the age of 17 and they were monogamous for 25 years. They are a devoted couple who only recently opened their marriage to new sexual experiences allowing Juliet to become a hotwife.

    “mrs Sexy” is the witty, erotic and true story of her experiences with this new polyamorous lifestyle. Juliet, (aka Mrs Sexy), takes you through the most personal moments of her romantic and sexual adventures.

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  • What Exactly Is EFRO? (Erotic Female Relieving Observation)

    What Exactly Is EFRO? (Erotic Female Relieving Observation)

    Hey we only live once! Whatever your kink/fetish is, I say enjoy it to the max, don’t be embarrassed or ashamed. We just need to understand not everyone is going to be open to it and that’s ok. Make connections with like minded people and enjoy yourself in a fun safe manner.

    What Does EFRO Involve?

    EFRO is very voyeuristic, it’s about watching someone in there most intimate bathroom moments. It was my husband that got me into it as it was his fetish from a young age. I started making content for his enjoyment and began to realize I liked the idea of knowing I was going to be watched and people would be getting off to it.

    Reasons Men Love EFRO

    It’s not mainstream at all, very taboo, and in a lot of social circles people would not ever talk about such a thing. I believe that drives the desire to want to watch and on the flip side it also makes girls want to be watched, knowing that men desire it so bad.

    EFRO Videos I Have Done

    The video I have shared is a very simple concept. It is shot between the legs while sitting on the toilet, giving a nice up close view of the action. Videos can be shot many different ways and from many angles. This one is my go to when I am just trying to catch the action on a busy day.

    One thing I do that most others don’t that my fans like is I include a pic at the end of the video showing the finished product in the toilet before wiping and flushing.

    Misconceptions On EFRO

    EFRO is not SCAT, the line often gets blurred between the two. Scat is very hardcore and involves a lot of smearing, touching, and in extreme cases eating.

    EFRO is more about watching the act of going and can include going in locations that would be considered naughty, like on the floor or outside etc.

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    We are Piper Jones and Friends which consists of myself, Luscious Lucy, and Mr. Jones. We are your average married couple/family with vanilla jobs. We do this just for fun and of course the extra income doesn’t hurt. Lucy is our mutual friend with benefits that contributes content as well.

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  • The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 8) – Too Much & Too Little

    The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 8) – Too Much & Too Little

    Ever wondered what really happens on a hot girls’ night out? Meet Juliet Adelaide and her friends in The Secret Life of a Hotwife as they drive into the sassy world in this no-holds barred account of a hotwife’s lifestyle, and uncover all you’ve ever wanted to know, from the sensual and provocative to the risque and unspeakable.

    Based on the steamy real-life experience of Juliet Adelaide, author of The Mrs Sexy Chronicles, this exclusive first-hand account of her exploration of sexual freedom and insight into the life of a hotwife will leave you begging for more.

    Chapter 8 Teaser – Too Much And Too Little

    I start to talk about the uniqueness of each one of my lovers. I am still endlessly fascinated by the fact that meeting strangers can bring so much to your life. The guys I kept as longer term play partners all had some things in common. They could all make me laugh, make me cum, and I found them all to be very sexy. I had good chemistry with them even though their personalities were quite different. I do believe that there is natural chemistry between people. Nobody knows why for sure, but when you click with someone, you just click.

    I laugh but love the story that I tell them about how Mark used to smell me all the time. He insisted that connection is mostly about pheromones, unique to each individual. He would smell me and it seemed to make him more attracted to me somehow because of it. He was really tall and would hug me while smelling the top of my head. I don’t think he even realized how often he did it. It was cute actually. There are some scientific studies out there about it. Pheromones are chemicals emitted through the skin that are unique to each individual. Some studies have shown that certain people are drawn to the scent of other people

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    Juliet Adelaide has a Bachelor’s degree in Humanities and Culture from Arizona State University. She started dating her husband at the age of 17 and they were monogamous for 25 years. They are a devoted couple who only recently opened their marriage to new sexual experiences allowing Juliet to become a hotwife.

    “mrs Sexy” is the witty, erotic and true story of her experiences with this new polyamorous lifestyle. Juliet, (aka Mrs Sexy), takes you through the most personal moments of her romantic and sexual adventures.

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  • What To Know About Nylon Fetishes

    What To Know About Nylon Fetishes

    Let me start by saying that some years ago, I had absolutely no idea about many kinks and fetishes. However, being a cam girl really opened my eyes. I learned so much about the world we live in and about people in general, that I can almost say that I’ve discovered an entirely new and previously hidden world. I found out that nothing is as it seems on the surface and that people are a lot more complex than I had previously thought.

    In my line of work, I met all kinds of people, from various social environments, but I noticed that we’re pretty much all alike. We all have some kinks or fetishes which we hide from the world. Most of them have their origins in early childhood and as we start our life by being told what’s good and bad, what’s normal and what’s not, most of the time, we simply hide what we really like because we fear being judged and rejected from our social circles. For example, a man who enjoys wearing nylons will rarely tell anyone about it because he’ll be afraid of being labeled as a weirdo, a freak and he’ll completely smother and repress his true feelings and needs. That can end up causing serious problems in the long run, such as frustration, social isolation, depression etc.

    I live in a former communist country and people are still not very open minded about alternative lifestyles and kinks. Still, there’s hope with the new generations. Online, I met people from all over the world and though some societies are a bit more open minded, most of them are still hiding their true selves. The online environment has become their alternate life, where they can come and talk to people who do not judge them and who, on the contrary, are encouraging and supportive.

    In the beginning, Some are ashamed to tell me what they like, because they’re expecting to hear that it’s wrong and freaky and it feels absolutely amazing when they hear that everything is okay, as long as we do not cause harm to others. I always tell them that with me, they can remove their shields and armour and be themselves, because they’re in a safe place, maybe the only one where they won’t be judged. I really admire the people who manage to stand up for who they really are, be themselves, go out and show the world their true colours. I can’t think of anything more brave, but it’s extremely hard to do these days, without serious social consequences.

    I truly believe that we should explore various things in life and not repress our needs. My job makes me really happy because I can help people do that, encourage them to live the moment and embrace who they truly are. I believe everybody would be much happier if we all be more tolerant and we wouldn’t have to hide what we like as often as we are at the moment. So my advice is, go out there and be who you are, keep close to you the people who like you for who you really are and wear the damn nylons!

    What Is A Nylon Fetish Exactly?

    The nylon fetish is basically the sexual arousal derived by seeing someone wearing nylons or by wearing them yourself. It usually involves pantyhose and stockings, but also nylons socks, bodysuits, nylon layers (wearing more than one nylon at a time), nylons masks, nylon encasement, where you cover yours or your partner’s entire body in nylons and many more. It can include wearing the nylons during sex or just observing someone else wearing them. I can honestly say that it is by far my favorite fetish, since I m a huge nylon fan myself.

    I do love everything about nylons: how they look, how they feel and I also enjoy the complexity of the fetish. You can always try on new things, discover something you didn’t know you previously liked, mostly because it literally gets all five senses involved. Most of the nylon fetishists I know like the look of nylons and how they define the legs so much better. They like the sound the nylons are making when you rub them together, they looove how the nylons smell after being worn for a while, they like how they feel to the touch and how they taste!

    So, there you have it! Complex and sensual, what more can you ask for?

    How Pantyhoses Are Interrelated With Nylon Fetishes

    Pantyhose is definitely the most popular item with the nylon fetishists. A lot more than stockings, I’d say. Stockings are also enjoyed by people who do not have nylon fetish and who simply like sexy lingerie. On cam, many people who are not really into nylons, ask me to remove the pantyhose and wear panties and stockings, because it’s sexier that way and “they want easier access” 😉

    Well, that s something you’ll never hear from a nylon fetishist. They’ll never want easy access. The more nylons available, the better! What makes pantyhose so special? It simply has it all. You can enjoy the silky smooth feeling on the legs (but not just on them), they look incredible, they always make the legs look better, covering all flaws and giving them that sexy shine we all love. Also, pantyhose, unlike stockings, cover the crotch area. Many guys are turned on by how my ass looks in them and they can just stare at it and “worship”, while others enjoy watching me play with myself, under and over the pantyhose. For most, I never have to take it off. They imagine how the gusset and feet smell after an entire day of wearing them, without panties, of course! 😉

    Also, most guys love nylon foot tease too, so they can imagine how my feet smell or taste. Some like to be humiliated and I have to set on their faces in hose or shove my nylon covered feet in their mouths. I have to say that many pantyhose fetishists like wearing nylons as well and enjoy imagining rubbing our nylon bodies together. Many of them want to purchase my worn pantyhose, so they can feel my scent on them, which of course makes the experience even more intense. There’s so much to explore about it, I don’t think we’ll ever find the limits. All we can do is try and have fun while doing it 😉

    Are Nylon Fetishes Popular?

    The nylon fetish is so popular, that it cannot really be called a fetish anymore. I think it’s normality, when so many people like it. Saying “I like nylons” is almost like saying,”I like breasts” or “I like long legs”. Of course, there are still fetishist parts of it, the one which usually go beyond looking at them and touching them and also, I consider fetishists the people who are truly obsessed by them and can no longer be sexually aroused by anything else. I strongly believe that there are more nylons lovers there then we know.

    Most people I meet tell me that they’re keeping their love for nylons private but that they really wished women wore them more. Some of them complain that women are getting too “casual” and that you can only see them in nylons when they’re going to work. They are kind of right, so there’s never a lack of nylon fans to keep me company on line.

    Misconceptions About Nylon Fetishes

    I think that there are too many misconceptions about fetishes in general. As I previously stated, when we hear fetish, we think “weird”, “freaky”, “dirty” and the last thing we want is to be around a person with fetishes. What’s sad is that sometimes results in jokes and stigma. Well, that’s why I called them misconceptions…Nothing could be further from the truth. After all, a fetish is basically a fascination for a part of the body or one or more objects.

    For most people, the object or body part of desire has a very deeply rooted meaning, usually connected to the childhood years. What we should be open about is that most of us have at least one fetish and yet we keep judging others for theirs, just because they’re more “colourful” or simply because they’re not afraid or ashamed to show it. Also, there isn’t a specific type of people who are fetishists. We’re all in it, all races, colours and nationalities, so there are no “freaks”, we are simply different, and I find beauty in diversity. If we weren’t so complex, we’d live in a dull world. We just need to be more tolerant and just spread some love.

    Regarding nylons, the most common misconception I encounter is the one about men who enjoy wearing stockings or pantyhose. They’re afraid to tell anyone for fear of being judged and they’re mostly right. I know some who told their wives or girlfriends that they enjoy wearing nylons and they ended up breaking up and being called sissies or even gay! I’ll state again that the best part of my job is telling people that hey, you’re safe here, do your thing, nobody will judge you. My chat room is really an oasis for most, an alternate reality, where they feel comfortable and they can be themselves.

    Favorite Nylon Fetish Content My Fans Love

    Haha I don t think there’s such a thing as a nylon fetish content which my fans don’t like! Basically, everything goes and of course, some people like more clips than others. It really depends on their specific desires. Some (very few) are not at all into feet. They enjoy teasing and sex in nylons. Others tell me “I do not need pussy when I’m able to sniff your sweaty nylon feet!”

    I try to keep my posts diverse, so everybody can find what they enjoy seeing without looking too hard. Also, I like to go that extra mile and combine the “guilty pleasures” For example, sometimes, instead of wearing a normal top, I wear a ripped or open crotch pantyhose and add some oil over it! No proper nylon fan is going to say no to that one 😉

    I do a lot of foot teasing, also shoe play, layering and humiliation, which always brings a lot of nylon fans. They just love being punished with some good foot worshipping 😉 What makes things easy for me is that my followers always tell me about their ideas and what they’d love to see, so I get a lot of help and support from them. After a while, it just comes naturally.

    Advice For Nylon Fetish Beginners

    Newbies, welcome to my world! Haha! What can I say, it will be a hell of a ride and honestly, you’ll probably end up a nylon junky like me. Just enjoy it, let go, forget about misconceptions and take it one step at a time, but try it all! What better way to find what you like? Explore! Find someone who likes the same thing or who s at least understanding and willing to try new things with you.

    Have fun! There are no boundaries to this fetish. The only limit is your imagination and since you’re here, I guess you love using it 😉 Look at the nylons, touch, grab, pull, sniff, taste, wear them, do it all.

    Thank me later 😉


    Annelyce – Hello, everyone! I’m Anna from Romania and I loooove nylons and nylons fetishists! I’m a former teacher and call center consultant who discovered that being a cam model is a lot more fun 😉 I love everything about camming, but I must admit that the nylon games are my favorite! Look me up and lets get to know each other better.

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  • The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 7) – Friends, Lovers & Play Partners

    The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 7) – Friends, Lovers & Play Partners

    Ever wondered what really happens on a hot girls’ night out? Meet Juliet Adelaide and her friends in The Secret Life of a Hotwife as they drive into the sassy world in this no-holds barred account of a hotwife’s lifestyle, and uncover all you’ve ever wanted to know, from the sensual and provocative to the risque and unspeakable.

    Based on the steamy real-life experience of Juliet Adelaide, author of The Mrs Sexy Chronicles, this exclusive first-hand account of her exploration of sexual freedom and insight into the life of a hotwife will leave you begging for more.

    Chapter 7 Teaser – Friends, Lovers And Play Partners

    It seems a bit easier to chat via text, pictures can be sent back and forth. I usually ask for face pictures right away. There are scam artists in the world. I make sure a more recent picture, usually a selfie is taken. I can compare their profile pictures from the app with whatever they send me. It helps to make sure you are chatting with someone who is the same as their profile. I have had guys never respond after I ask for a recent selfie. I figure these guys used fake pictures on their profiles or used pictures of themselves from ten years ago. It’s an extra precaution that I recommend. Most guys send me the requested pictures right away. If they want me to chat or go out with them, I require it.

    I chat with a guy a week or so usually to get a feel for their personality, level of interest in me and my level of interest in them. Some men I have chatted with for months and eventually met up with and others I chat with for a day by text and realize that I’m not interested. I try to make sure by the time I give my number to someone, I feel that there is no danger. I don’t give out any personal information. I even use a fake name until I meet someone in person. Safety is the top priority.

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    Juliet Adelaide has a Bachelor’s degree in Humanities and Culture from Arizona State University. She started dating her husband at the age of 17 and they were monogamous for 25 years. They are a devoted couple who only recently opened their marriage to new sexual experiences allowing Juliet to become a hotwife.

    “mrs Sexy” is the witty, erotic and true story of her experiences with this new polyamorous lifestyle. Juliet, (aka Mrs Sexy), takes you through the most personal moments of her romantic and sexual adventures.

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    Twitter: https://twitter.com/mrssexybook

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Mrs-Sexy-469306166570252/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrssexybook2

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  • The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 6) – Feeling Sexy & Other Benefits

    The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 6) – Feeling Sexy & Other Benefits

    Ever wondered what really happens on a hot girls’ night out? Meet Juliet Adelaide and her friends in The Secret Life of a Hotwife as they drive into the sassy world in this no-holds barred account of a hotwife’s lifestyle, and uncover all you’ve ever wanted to know, from the sensual and provocative to the risque and unspeakable.

    Based on the steamy real-life experience of Juliet Adelaide, author of The Mrs Sexy Chronicles, this exclusive first-hand account of her exploration of sexual freedom and insight into the life of a hotwife will leave you begging for more.

    Chapter 6 Teaser – Feeling Sexy And Other Benefits

    Before I started seeing other men, I would sit home at night and watch TV or play on the computer and eat. Since I am going out a few times a week now, I don’t have that bad habit any more. I may have other bad habits but a bag of chips or cookies is no longer what I crave. There is the fact that sexual activity burns calories as well. I like to be on top, so I have built up strength in my legs because that takes some effort. I am often complimented on my legs now because it keeps them toned. Riding on young men is no easy task.

    Michelle laughs a bit and asks why riding on my husband doesn’t have the same results. I tell her that it does have the same results but I’m having more frequent sex with younger guys so maybe I try a bit harder. They seem to all have different favorite positions as well, so I work out more problem areas. The ladies laugh. Mark seemed to enjoy me on top, good for the legs, Scott prefers me on my knees which builds arm strength, and Jack would want me in a half dozen positions for an all around workout. They all agree that I do look like I’m in better shape but Michelle insists if I just stayed home and fucked my husband, I would have the same results.

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    Juliet Adelaide has a Bachelor’s degree in Humanities and Culture from Arizona State University. She started dating her husband at the age of 17 and they were monogamous for 25 years. They are a devoted couple who only recently opened their marriage to new sexual experiences allowing Juliet to become a hotwife.

    “mrs Sexy” is the witty, erotic and true story of her experiences with this new polyamorous lifestyle. Juliet, (aka Mrs Sexy), takes you through the most personal moments of her romantic and sexual adventures.

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  • An Insight Into Interracial Sex

    An Insight Into Interracial Sex

    What comes to mind when you think about the term “Interracial Sex”? By textbook, it means sex between people of different races but while I might be wrong, I think a lot of you would agree with me that when we think of interracial sex, we generally think about sex between a black man and a white woman or a black man and a white man, whatever you’re into. Now why is that? Why does that thought come to our head so instantaneously, so easily? Are we programmed to think that way or has media and the internet programmed US to think that way? So in a way, we programmed ourselves.

    My name is Damian Anya, a 28 year old mixed Nigerian-English living in London and throughout my childhood I grew up believing sex and/or marriage should be between people of the same race (All thanks to my strict African household and my strict VERY stereotypical African grandparents enforcing that custom upon us). My fellow African brothers and sisters will know exactly what I am talking about. But all that changed when I started high school. I lost my virginity at 14 to a white girl who was a senior at my school and I had just started school as a freshman. That in itself is a story. But that’s when I fell in love with the concept and ART of interracial sex. While that doesn’t mean I don’t have sex with women from my own race, it just means that sex between a black man and a white woman just seems so natural and fluid (for lack of a better word).

    I’ve been bigger than my peers my whole life, in height, shape and maybe even dick size who knows? (Not like I went and checked my mates dicks to confirm this innit). I am currently 6”4 95 kgs (210 lbs for y’all Americans) and not to brag but built like I live at the gym. I mean I kind of do given that I am a personal trainer. This has been a huge plus for me in terms of sexual relationships or relationships in general especially with white girls. It feels like they’re drawn towards you even harder like a magnet when you’re my shape and size. And thankfully I am blessed in other areas too so that’s also a plus. Although, the looks I get at the gym are sometimes a little too bold, you’re not gonna see me complaining. But hey, sometimes your boy just wanna be able to wear comfortable gray sweats to the gym without y’all staring like you saw an alien you feel me?

    So all that combined, I’ve always thought that I was built for white girls and they’re built for me. Because with black girls, they’re more or less used to this because on average, black men are generally built bigger than white men (hey, its just statistics) and black girls are used to THAT. But with white girls, it’s different. They are not used to your size and/or your style and I might be wrong here but they do anticipate it which makes the sex even better cause you know damn well when you slide her panties to the side she already gonna be dripping from all that imagination. The mind is a powerful thing isn’t it.

    The Perceptions Of Interracial Sex

    I think the perceptions about interracial sex is mixed, to say the least. Because on one hand you have people who LOVE interracial sex and on the other you have people who literally barf at the thought of it, as it is with many other things. Because generally, emphasis on the word GENERALLY, sex is confined within people of the same sex. And some people can’t even fathom the thought of something different. I have known girls who got shunned from their family just because they had sex with someone from a different race, girls who lost friends and got humiliated because of it. I believe this is especially prevalent in the black and white community and there are so many reasons why. And men and women are thus scared to explore outside their own race thinking about the potential backlash but the most important reason might be because I think these two races have always been thought of as opposites. But hey, opposites attract, so suck it racist dads.

    Now on the other hand, you have people who LIVE for interracial sex and can’t think of anything else. I think the disapproval of it contributes to this because as humans we are generally draw to forbidden things. (Hello, Adam and the apple?) I know white girls who only fuck black guys and vice versa and nothing else gets them going. Some like it because they see it as being progressive in society and some like it because they can’t have it (I am looking at you straight demasculinized white boys). So the views towards interracial sex is very mixed.

    Now the appeal behind it, the most mentionable one would be the contrast. Many people find the contrast of black skin on white skin sexy and love the idea of a black dick pounding a white girl’s pink pussy.

    It’s aesthetics but also science. And then there’s the analogy that black men are being the most masculine men and white girls are the most feminine women and thus, sex between them is natural and fluid. And science backs it up.There have been numerous studies conducted and results showed that on average, black men had more strength and stamina in and out of bed and they were also the most fertile. And females (straight ones) resort to the most alpha men in the society and thus, that analogy kind of makes sense. Other than that, modern media and porn definitely contributes to the appeal of interracial sex.

    Stigmas/Taboos Associated With Interracial Sex

    If I start talking about all the stigmas and taboos associated with interracial sex, this would be a PHD Thesis paper. So I am gonna talk about the ones which I have had experience with. With the rise of high quality porn and companies getting into the interracial sector along with rising statistics of a black man’s gifts, the stigma and taboo around black men are on the rise like Apple’s stocks in February. With porn now showcasing huge black dicks with tiny white chicks and it being available for more or less free on the internet, the thought that black guys are bigger is now more prevalent than ever. And with so many white girls tuning in to it and going “Black Only”, labeling themselves as a Snowbunny and Queen of Spades, it’s raising the curiosity of many other girls regardless of race.

    I can’t tell you how many times I have been with a girl, especially white girls who have told me how much they’re into BBC (Big Black Cock) and how they cannot get turned on by anything else and how being with a black man is better than a white man etc etc. And while all this is VERY VERY good news for a well endowed blessed black man such as myself, it is simply not the case for many of my brothers. People forget that the average dick size is well, average and it applies to all races. Not all black guys are well endowed and not all black guys fuck like pornstars and this is putting a huge mental and even physical pressure on my fellow brothers to be something they are not.

    Because, now when a girl goes to have sex with a black man, in the back of her mind she’s thinking, “Oh he’s black so he is going to be huge and fuck me good” but that simply isn’t the case with all the black men out there. And while it is a big number, not all black men are born with BBC and not all of them fuck like Blacked or BlackedRaw stars in bed. Another taboo worth mentioned is cuckolding, being a hotwife, whatever you call it. I don’t understand why but some men, especially white dudes LOVE to watch their pretty girlfriends and wives get drilled by hung black men like yours truly and frankly, while it can seem somewhat controversial for many, I am all for it. I am a pussy addict so the more the merrier, you won’t see me complaining.

    But what I don’t support is the fetishizing and objectification of black men. Black men are seen as a sex symbol so much right now that many girls refer to them as sexual toys and objects and I know many white girls who even go to the point where they start using the N word to refer to you just because it’s their fetish. That is modern racism at it’s finest and that sort of mentality needs to stop. There is also this thing called “Black breeding”. It’s the fetish of being impregnated by a black man just to bear a black child as a statement and that in my opinion is on a whole another level of fucked up. I mean if you want a mixed baby it’s all good and perfectly normal, they’re cute as fuck but to get creampied by black men as a statement is weird to many, to say the least.

    Also, the phrase “Once you go black you never go back” is widely misinterpreted. It’s not always that the girl doesn’t want to explore other races, it’s that men of those other races won’t accept them back just because they’ve been with a black man. And many girls to this day are scared about being with a black guy just because of that social disapproval and stigma.

    The Popularity Of Interracial Porn

    Interracial porn is HUGE (No pun intended) right now more than ever. With the rise of high quality interracial porn channels such as Blacked, there’s literally a whole archive of interracial porn on the internet and according to statistics, people are loving it. I believe I saw “Big Black Cock” and “Interracial” being one of the top searches of Pornhub. Social media contributes to it as well. With influencers and celebrities such as the Kylie Jenner, Kim Kardashian, Kendall Jenner, Niykee Heaton openly and strictly only into black guys, it’s influencing young white girls to follow in their paths.

    The proof is the latest TikTok trend where white girls go on about how much they love black guys (fetishizing). These are literally teenage white girls already into black men (No wonder white dudes are so racist towards us LOL) There are whole Twitter and Instagram pages dedicated to showcasing pretty white girls with black men (notoriously run by white boys??) which just goes to show the support and fetish behind it. I believe Niykee Heaton even said in one of her infamous tweet that she can’t even think of sex with a white guy.

    Photo: @Niykee/Twitter

    And it’s not just her. Many pornstars have openly declared on Twitter that sex with a black man is better than sex with a white man and for some, it has taken a toll on their porn career. If you go on Twitter and search hastags such as #irmovement #bbcslut #queenofspades #snowbunny you will get an array of accounts dedicated to that statement and an array of verified “Goddesses” humiliating fragile small penis white boys by comparing them to a “Big black cock”. That in itself is a whole segment of Small Penis Humiliation and Domination. If you don’t know what those are, you’re probably a little too young.

    I have had DMs from white guys confessing about how they cannot get hard without thinking about a black dick beside the girl they are looking at and how whenever they see a PAWG (Phat Ass White Girl) they can’t help but think about a BBC. It’s the insecurity that we can give those girls something they never can and they succumb to it. I know many girls who make bank monetizing this insecurity and making these guys pay for literally everything. It’s getting so mainstream you can sometime see it in public. I believe recently there was a viral video of a white woman withdrawing money from an ATM with a leashed white man on his knees beside her. You bet it was his card and he was paying WILLINGLY just because it gets him aroused. Interracial porn has gotten so embedded in these guys minds that its’ all they can think about. That’s the level of popularity and intensity that IR porn has reached. And many women are fed up with such insecurity.

    Even in my personal life, I have been with SO many white girls who have told me how much they despise sex with white men and how they cannot fuck or how much they love black men and how they are never going back to fucking white men etc. Stuff like that always leaves me wondering like, “Damn what are all these white boys doing so wrong for so many of their women to be fed up like this”. And then I receive pathetic DMs from white dudes offering to pay me to fuck their girls and begging me to humiliate them and shit and I’m like, “Oh now I see why”.  I think the popularity of interracial porn along with dominatrix and snowbunnies taking advantage of that popularity to monetize the masculinity of white men have impacted them so hard that they’ve turned into full on sissies. And this popularity is not stopping here. With society easing up about racial matters and being more open to interracial relationships and marriages, interracial porn’s popularity will go up by a LOT in the coming years.

    Final Thoughts On Interracial Sex

    I am all for interracial sex and I think it’s a necessary step to break the chain of social stigmas surrounding black and white relationships or interracial relationships in general. I am proud to be black and proud to be bold. Many girls are now realizing what they are missing out on and curious about interracial sex. And it’s not just the size and the aesthetics about a black dick going in and out of a pink pussy but also how us black men fuck. We have our own style and confidence and I think that hits different especially with white girls. I personally am proud of myself on being a giver. I love to make a girl cum. I legit make it my mission to make her cum when I’m with her and prioritize her orgasm over mine.

    And I love to tease as well so that contributes to my VERY positive results. And I think a lot of my brothers think the same way too. We fuck with passion and with intent. If you’re wondering what the fuck I am talking about, go watch an interracial scene and a regular vanilla scene and compare the moans, passion and rhythm. That, paired with an above average dick has definitely made us black men into sex symbols. So much so that I have had girls I fuck BEG me to cum inside them and give them my kids just because they want this experience for the rest of their life.

    But while I can be proud myself of having a dick in the double figures, not all of my brothers can say the same. And thus, while I absolutely support interracial sex, I absolutely do not support the fetishization of black men and think some light needs to be shed on that.


    Damian Anya – An exhibitionist mixed Nigerian-English. Financial Analyst by day, personal trainer by night. Shedding light onto things unspoken.

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  • The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 5) – It’s Not For Everyone

    The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 5) – It’s Not For Everyone

    Ever wondered what really happens on a hot girls’ night out? Meet Juliet Adelaide and her friends in The Secret Life of a Hotwife as they drive into the sassy world in this no-holds barred account of a hotwife’s lifestyle, and uncover all you’ve ever wanted to know, from the sensual and provocative to the risque and unspeakable.

    Based on the steamy real-life experience of Juliet Adelaide, author of The Mrs Sexy Chronicles, this exclusive first-hand account of her exploration of sexual freedom and insight into the life of a hotwife will leave you begging for more.

    Chapter 5 Teaser – It’s Not For Everyone

    I tell them a few stories about the fun times that I had with Mark . He was only 31 when we met and was pretty much a deadbeat. He worked a low paying job, was an alcoholic who was always broke, he shared an apartment with a friend when he was lucky enough to afford rent and didn’t have to stay at his mother’s house (which had happened). There was something between us though. He was tall and handsome, he made me laugh, and when he looked me in the eyes or kissed me, it just felt amazing. We were passionate about one another, I suppose at dangerous levels.

    We would fight more frequently than my husband and I ever did. We would break up and get back together several times. I would get jealous of him with other women even though I was married and seeing other men. He would act like he didn’t get jealous and then get annoyed with me if I didn’t say I loved him too when he would say it to me. We had very little in common. When we were together though and things were good, it was amazing. I felt young and sexy with him. He was proud to have me around and he made me feel special.

    I tell them how Scott asked me a few months after I had started seeing Mark if I loved Mark . I denied it but knew that I did. I admit to the ladies that this is one of the few times I had ever lied to Scott. I thought that it would only hurt him and didn’t really see the point. I knew that Scott knew that Mark meant a lot to me, however we labeled it. I did eventually admit it after several more months and a couple more break ups. I knew that my relationship with Mark was hurting Scott, yet I continued. Scott even said to me once, “you know, you weren’t supposed to fall in love with another man.” That one hurt, I tell the gals. I was in too deep though and didn’t want to lose either one. I was in love with two men and that gets complicated.

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    Juliet Adelaide has a Bachelor’s degree in Humanities and Culture from Arizona State University. She started dating her husband at the age of 17 and they were monogamous for 25 years. They are a devoted couple who only recently opened their marriage to new sexual experiences allowing Juliet to become a hotwife.

    “mrs Sexy” is the witty, erotic and true story of her experiences with this new polyamorous lifestyle. Juliet, (aka Mrs Sexy), takes you through the most personal moments of her romantic and sexual adventures.

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