It’s really hard to get out and meet new people right now with the pandemic still going on. Social media is a great way to start. Simply expanding your Instagram and following pages that are focused on Black men, mixed couples, interracial dating, etc can really help.
Then, of course meet a Black man (or if you’re a Black man, meet a white woman). Then let the exploration begin! It’s a wonderful journey!
How Has Interracial Sex Changed One’s Sex Life?
For me, sex requires a lot of passion and connection. When I dated white boys, I personally wasn’t finding that. I could easily say that Black men are better at sex, because for me they are. But, that’s because I’m very attracted to Black men and the style of sex they offer. When you find someone that really excites you, the sex is going to be different and better.
In addition, Black men have a certain sexual characteristic. Typically, Black men are more passionate and uninhibited. And typically, they do have larger penises. Those elements can really step up your sex life and change it forever. That’s why we say that once you go Black, you don’t go back!
Is The Topic Of Interracial Sex Taboo?
Unfortunately, interracial sex is still taboo. Not as much as it used to be though. It’s still taboo because of racism, particularly from the side of white males. Having sex with a Black man certainly isn’t racist. Being sexually attracted to Black men is no more racist than preferring a certain hair color or body type.
Interracial sex is taking off and interracial relationships are growing faster than conventional ones. The people that think interracial is racist are a very small minority and they’re shrinking more everyday.
Misconceptions About Interracial Sex & Dating
There is a lot of anger and jealousy that comes primarily from white males. The misconceptions that they share such as Black men will get us pregnant and leave, Black men are rapists, and Black men will abuse us. They’re all misconceptions that are part of an attack rooted in jealousy and racism. It’s easy to fall for them, but they’re not true.
Ways To Explore Interracial Sex
If interracial sex is something that you’re thinking about, have fun doing the research! Visit some of the interracial porn sites such as Blacked.com Darkx.com and Blackedraw.com among many more. Let your inhibitions down and have fun!
Follow interracial pages on Instagram or Twitter and meet like-minded people. From there, indulge in the sex. If you’re new to it, go in with an open mind and leave your hang ups at the door.
How To Prepare For An Interracial Sexual Experience
When I first expressed an interest in meeting and having sex with a Black man to my best friend, she gave me a gigantic black dildo and said “you better practice first”. It was obviously a joke, but it also woke me up to reality: Black men do sex different and it feels different. Not every Black man is enormous, but most of them are on the bigger side. Getting used to the size difference if you’ve only dated white boys before can be challenging.
So, practicing with a larger toy isn’t a bad idea. Black men typically have more stamina as well and that can take a toll on your body if you’re not prepared. Don’t be afraid to tell him to take it slow. If the passion becomes too much, he’ll understand if you have to take a breather. It’s common for a Black man to take sex seriously.
For most Black men, sex is a connection and it should mean something. A Black man will work hard to please us and it rarely seems to fail. So, get psychologically ready as well!
Andrea Dillinger – 26 year old Scorpio. Interracial for over four years and counting!
Ever wondered what really happens on a hot girls’ night out? Meet Juliet Adelaide and her friends in The Secret Life of a Hotwife as they drive into the sassy world in this no-holds barred account of a hotwife’s lifestyle, and uncover all you’ve ever wanted to know, from the sensual and provocative to the risque and unspeakable.
Based on the steamy real-life experience of Juliet Adelaide, author of The Mrs Sexy Chronicles, this exclusive first-hand account of her exploration of sexual freedom and insight into the life of a hotwife will leave you begging for more.
Chapter 11 Teaser – Varieties Of Play
The other ladies were surprised that there is another hotwife in the bar. Louisa said she doesn’t get to talk about it often but she would be happy to answer any questions we had about her hotwife lifestyle. She turned to me and asked if my husband is a cuckold. Michelle asks what that meant and Louisa replied with a smile that it’s another game that can be played by those actively taking part in a hotwife lifestyle and while she is permitted to have lovers but Nate is not. I then chipped in (to Michelle’s benefit) that a woman plays a more dominant role when her husband is a cuckold.
With a laugh, Louisa told us how her husband wanted sex so much that she thought it would be fun to make him wait for extended periods of time, with her teasing him. Louisa added that while her husband had no qualms about her taking on lovers, she really wanted to be dominant as Nate had almost always been the sub in their relationship anyway. And they both liked it that way. Louisa leaned forward and whispered that she even went to the extent of bringing home a cock cage from a local adult store one day.
Julie nearly spits out her Margarita and laughs. She had seen cock cages before but had not known anyone that had used one. With a twinkle in her eye Louisa told us about the available on the market these day. They come in a variety of metal, plastic or silicon. Some of them have small gaps so you can touch different areas of the penis, while others allow no access at all. They have to be put on a non-erect penis, but otherwise they just kind of fit snugly around the whole cock. The purpose of these cages is the same: they make it impossible for a man to get an erection.
Juliet Adelaide has a Bachelor’s degree in Humanities and Culture from Arizona State University. She started dating her husband at the age of 17 and they were monogamous for 25 years. They are a devoted couple who only recently opened their marriage to new sexual experiences allowing Juliet to become a hotwife.
“mrs Sexy” is the witty, erotic and true story of her experiences with this new polyamorous lifestyle. Juliet, (aka Mrs Sexy), takes you through the most personal moments of her romantic and sexual adventures.
In the last 20 years, alternative lifestyles and relationships other than traditional ‘monogamous heterosexual’ marriage has gained acceptance and popularity. Adult porn stars, such as Jemma Jameson, have become household names. Movies such as Eyes Wide Shut was a box office hit, and the 50 Shades of Grey series started an entire movement, where people felt free to openly discuss subjects once thought of as taboo. The internet has a never ending supply of access to free porn, and the content has shifted from big budget productions, with actresses that 90% of the population cannot relate to, and replaced with amateur and reality porn.
Sex is no longer such a taboo topic, and people are now comfortable enough to share their desires without the fear of being judged. We have so many different types of relationship dynamics today, and it would be foolish to think that traditional, monogamous relationships are ideal for everyone. For some, exploring the options outside what is considered the ‘norm’ can teach you things you never knew about yourself or your partner by opening up the channel for communication, challenging perceived sexual and personal boundaries, and strengthening the relationship with oneself and your partner.
How My Interest In Swinging Began
Several years ago, I shot about a dozen adult films in LA and Miami. I became good friends with one of the male actors, who happened to live in Dallas, and we quickly became close friends. He was a bartender at several venues, and one was the upscale swingers club in Dallas. I was asked to promote/host one of their events.
I was brand new to the industry, and I was met by a packed club of half naked people, waiting in line for my autograph. I became fast friends with the owner and his wife and several other couples, but there was one couple in particular, that developed into a deep, loving relationship. I was their girlfriend for almost 2 years, and we shared a very special friendship. I am still good friends with them, the club owner, and several of the same couples I Initially met 10+ years ago.
Reasons For Couples Who Explore Swinging
Well, there are the right reasons, and the wrong ones LOL, and I have experienced couples in both situations.
The lifestyle is not a bandaid for a failing relationship. If your relationship does not already have a strong foundation of trust, mutual respect, and open, honest communication, you are setting yourself up for failure. Both parties must be willing participants and should never be forced or guilt tripped into this scenario. Ground rules and boundaries MUST be discussed, agreed upon, and upheld, and the line of communication should always maintain open.
If you are scared or uncomfortable openly communicating with your partner or others your needs, desires, and boundaries, a counseling session with an intimate coach would be a better course of action for self improvement and strengthening your relationship.
How Does One Bring Up The Idea Of Swinging To Their Partner?
Again, honest and open communication is key. One way to bring up the subject to gauge interest is to watch an adult film together, involving a scenario with more than two participants. Comment to your partner how much the scene turns you on and why…..ask if this is something they would ever be open to trying together to gauge interest.
If you need to convince your partner to engage in adding an additional person/persons to your bedroom, then you should not pursue this lifestyle. Both you and your partner must be willing participants.
3 Tips For New Couples To Try Swinging
1. Open, honest communication: I’ll say this again, because I can not stress enough that this is KEY to a positive experience
2. Set clear rules and boundaries: Have a discussion of your ground rules for what each of you is comfortable with, and what is off limits
3. Take your time: Many couples new to the lifestyle make the mistake of attending a lifestyle event with the mentality they need to hook up. They create unnecessary pressure on one another, as well as creating an aggressive vibe that most will find off putting. Relax, really take the time to talk to people and get to know them before thinking about taking your clothes off. There are several lifestyle websites where you can create a profile, and get an opportunity to chat online. For first timers, I highly suggest hiring a professional such as myself, with years of experience meeting with nervous couples.
Hayden Hightower – A petite blonde playmate based in Dallas TX. Hayden is a TER Dallas TOP 10 provider available for luxury Companionship and VIP Concierge services for men, women, and couples. She is highly regarded for her Couple’s encounters and her authentic NURU Bodyslide encounters, in addition to her one on one girlfriend experiences. Hayden is an avid fitness enthusiast and works in the health/wellness industry helping others achieve a healthier lifestyle. In her free time, she enjoys working out, relaxing at home, and spending time with her boxer, Tank.
Ever wondered what really happens on a hot girls’ night out? Meet Juliet Adelaide and her friends in The Secret Life of a Hotwife as they drive into the sassy world in this no-holds barred account of a hotwife’s lifestyle, and uncover all you’ve ever wanted to know, from the sensual and provocative to the risque and unspeakable.
Based on the steamy real-life experience of Juliet Adelaide, author of The Mrs Sexy Chronicles, this exclusive first-hand account of her exploration of sexual freedom and insight into the life of a hotwife will leave you begging for more.
Chapter 10 Teaser – Sexual Dysfunction Discoveries
I start by telling them all of the other interesting things I am learning about men. You see all of these commercials on television about drugs that help erectile dysfunction, but you never really think about it. Occasional impotence is one thing, but I really wasn’t aware of the varieties of male sexual dysfunction. Scott had always been reliable for me sexually and I can scarcely remember a time when he was unable to perform. He was in his early forties, so I could hardly imagine guys in their twenties and thirties having so many issues. I don’t think it’s anything to be ashamed of, it’s just never really talked about.
Julie tells us all that an ex-boyfriend of hers started taking some prescription medication. It had an adverse reaction that caused him to be impotent for weeks. The guy was really upset that he couldn’t get an erection and it made them fight more. She says that it eventually was fine but they broke up for other reasons. She could definitely see how sexual dysfunction would be a big problem in any relationship. Impotence is probably the most talked about problem due to the pharmaceutical industry and it’s wave of commercials. They always gear them towards older people. I had no idea it was so normal
Juliet Adelaide has a Bachelor’s degree in Humanities and Culture from Arizona State University. She started dating her husband at the age of 17 and they were monogamous for 25 years. They are a devoted couple who only recently opened their marriage to new sexual experiences allowing Juliet to become a hotwife.
“mrs Sexy” is the witty, erotic and true story of her experiences with this new polyamorous lifestyle. Juliet, (aka Mrs Sexy), takes you through the most personal moments of her romantic and sexual adventures.
The prevalence of 3D porn videos nowadays, of virtually any video game or anime characters has increased both supply and demand for cosplay erotica. Nothing truly beats real human interactions, and access to purchase costumes is as easy as ever on the internet.
My Favorite Cosplay Erotica Scenes
Being the creative director and community manager for ErinyesAngels.com gives me a lot of access to sexy cosplay porn, so I am a bit spoiled. Finding new models and sharing in our love of cosplay and adult performance is quite a joy in itself. I also particularly enjoy doing custom videos and live shows dressed as specific comic book or video game characters for specific clients, it’s a lot of fun to bring their fantasy to life!
Merging sexuality and my D&D characters for TableTopless has also been a really unique sexual and performance challenge, but very rewarding. The community we have grown in such a short time, and having an excuse to play sexy TTRPG once a week has been really exciting. The show episodes run for four hours, and half of the fun of it sometimes is the balance between getting to explore more of our unique storyline or indulging in the party – and viewer’s – favorite sex parties and orgies.
Misconceptions About Cosplay Erotica
Not keen on paying much attention to drama or detractors, so I am not entirely sure. I suppose some might say critical words when models don’t seem to know or be into whatever the are cosplaying? At the end of the day, true nerds being in costume while doing adult performance is ideal – and it happens often!
Personally, I have met many genuine card-carrying nerds among the LA / San Francisco adult industry than out in the wild among the general populace. Half of the cam girls that I have known have also gone to Star Trek cons or Magic conventions, this is pretty common occurrence among adult stars, in my experience.
Must Knows Before Trying Cosplay Sex
Communication with your partner, to get the vibe and roleplay basics right. Coordinate your needs and figure out what kink might be associated with each costume choice for each other.
Cosplay is just like any other roleplay, so make sure you know what you want and if you can deliver the same, going into it.
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Anna Cherry, has been in the adult business with partner Richard Rall for over ten years. Heading their own cosplay erotica studio, as well as a STEM podcast, it was easy for the two nerds to branch out into sexual gameplay and stream it as entertainment for thousands of people. When not building a fantasy D&D world together, they show the real side on nightly “reality porn” Streamate cam shows. Catch them gaming and discussing everything from esotericists to health & fitness on their brand ambassador Plexstorm streams, and who knows what cosplay they are building next.
I love anal sex. I love its intensity, its taboo nature, its intimacy. I believe that receiving anal sex is the most humbling yet liberating sex act you can do.
How Into Anal Are You?
I’m not an anal queen on the level of Siswet or Proxy Paige. But I’m eagerly on the intermediate scale. I can self fist. I can also rosebud a bit.
Getting Started Into Anal Stretching
Smart small, very small. If you’re a newbie, get the smallest buttplug you can get and climb up from there. The idea that anal sex should hurt is as archaic a notion as women not voting and gay people not being allowed to marry.
Does Anal Stretching Make Anal Sex More Fun?
The more you stretch your ass, the better anal sex feels. As I said before, start with tiny buttplugs if you’re a newbie. Use tons and tons and tons of lube.
I know they use spit as lube in porn, but believe me, real lube is what you use in the real world. Use a douche or enema to get as clean as possible. Accidents are not sexy.
My Favorite Anal Sex Positions
Doggy style.
Being able to reverse cowgirl is on my bucket list. I think that missionary anal sex is so romantic and intimate.
Ways To Make Anal Even Hotter
Watch anal sex porn without a shred of guilt or shame. Discuss anal sex with your partner before you have sex. Realize that the hottest anal sex should be pleasurable and intimate for all parties involved.
Madeleine Rose is an adult model, content creator, and escort based in New York City. Formerly a freelance journalist, she’s be in “the life” since 2015. Some of the talent she’s worked with include Dapper Dan, Roc Bundy, Jack Woods, Silver Stallion, and Aja Wilde. Her email is madeleinerose3x@yahoo.com. She’s always free to talk.
I’m accepting bookings in New York City from August 25th to September 10th. I will be in Las Vegas from October 3rd to October 10th. Will be at Exxxotica NJ in late October or early November 2020.
Article images courtesy of Madeleine Rose; featured image from Shutterstock
My personal views towards kink and alternative lifestyles are very open minded. If someone engages in their kink consensually with other adults, I do not believe that I have any right to judge nor do I want to. My kink may not be your kink but yours is just as important to you as mine is to me. I understand that an alternative lifestyle is not for everyone and I actually believe that those of us that acknowledge and practice our kinks in a prudent, well planned manner are more evolved (and dare I say more intelligent) than our peers that do not explore their desires. I firmly believe that everyone has something that they either want to explore or have explored because it consumes them if they don’t. What your “vanilla” neighbor does behind closed doors may surprise you.
I was brought up in a very religious household and made to feel guilty about things that were deemed “sinful” because it was not mainstream or in line with what God would want me to do. I personally don’t feel that religion or one’s interpretation of the Bible can stop kinky urges and may even propel someone to try their kink in an unsafe way. That is part of why organized religion can really screw up someone who was born with the need to express themselves through their kink. It can be a difficult mental burden to bear when one is told that what drives them sexually is sinful, how horrible for someone to grow up with that burden. It is part of the reason that I didn’t start exploring my kinky side until I was forty.
I also think that someone’s kink or fetish can be just as important to someone as who they are attracted to sexually. It can also be that they identify their kink AS their sexuality. The two are often too difficult to separate and are intertwined with one’s sexual identity, and there is nothing wrong with that. It is difficult to explain but easy to understand if you are kinky. Now I do want to be clear that I do have an issue if someone wants to bring animals or children into their kink or fetish because children and animals do not understand and cannot consent.
What Inspired Me To Be A Professional Disciplinarian
Becoming a professional disciplinarian was actually the culmination of the perfect storm of circumstances for me. I had recently finished my Master’s degree and was looking for a career change, I had moved to Austin and left my old job in the criminal justice field behind. I was in a really satisfying spanking relationship with a partner who believed in me and said I had a gift when it came to spanking and should pursue being a pro.
My husband also lost his job around the same time and it was the final straw and I decided it was time for me to strike out on my own. My first client reached out to me on Fetlife and asked if I spanked people professionally, I told him no but had thought about it and it snowballed from there. It moved rather quickly with me, I had my website up in a few days and started seeing people within a week.
Reasons Client Seek A Session With Me
Clients reach out to me for a variety of reasons. Some have always wanted to explore spanking as long as they could remember and don’t want to jump into an alternative relationship straight away. Some have been with other disciplinarians and like my approach or will be in Austin or one of the travel locations on my website.
Some people want to find motivation for personal goals, some people want to role play favorite scenarios that have dreamed of for years, some people just want to be spanked by someone who loves doing it, doesn’t judge them, and encourages them to explore their kink.
What Goes On In A Typical Disciplinarian Session
A typical session with me usually takes one of three paths: motivational/goal setting. Role play, or “funishment”. All of my sessions start out by me collecting information and dispersing information with an introductory email. I go over what I will and won’t do, how much I will be compensated, and the type of impact, tolerance and preferred implements that I will use.
When I arrive to a session, I always start with discussing what they are looking to address for motivational sessions or how they want a role play session to progress. I pull appropriate implements and make sure that they are all okay for use during the session. I know a lot of people don’t want to feel “in charge” of what is used or how intense I go but for my safety it is important to make sure that I am not using something or saying something that would trigger an unwanted emotion or feeling. That is something I don’t want to do and try my best to avoid.
A lot of the time I am meeting with someone I haven’t met before and do not want to put myself in unnecessary danger. After the initial discussion, I generally like to start with an over the knee spanking warm up, unless cold caning is desired or the role play does not call for it. I then will use several implements and either discuss goals or continue with a role play. For funishment sessions it is generally chit chatting and getting to know a person better and discussing spanking and how it can be beneficial to us.
I often encourage newcomers to reach out to others in the community or perhaps think about attending a spanking party. The worst part of having a kink is feeling alone. I try to let my clients know they are not alone, many others have these urges and it is perfectly normal.
What Should One Know Prior To A First Session With You?
First and foremost, my sessions are non-sexual in nature. Yes, I touch bare bottoms but I don’t touch genitals and will not allow any sort of supervised release or grinding on my lap. I only have punishment or discipline focused sessions only. I am not a mind reader, if you want something to happen during a session you need to tell me, communication is key. I do not guarantee that I won’t bruise or leave marks, everyone is different. I believe that the use of safe words is necessary whether the client chooses to use them or not. They are there for all of our safety.
Often, I have noticed that people’s mind can handle more punishment than their bodies can. I know that I have had to stop when the client may feel they can take more but I am not looking to permanently scar or be involved in a blood bath. I think that those that have not had sessions before should not forget fundamental hygiene and remember their manners. I am not a robot or an actress and I have all of my olfactory senses still working quite well.
I also understand it can be a nerve wracking and sometimes scary situation to let someone else have control but that is the real reason that people book with me, they trust my expertise as a disciplinarian and they trust me as a compassionate person to let me know what is best for them.
Hi I am Miss Rachel, a Professional Disciplinarian in Austin, TX. I specialize in motivational (goal setting), role play, and funishment sessions. A session with me provides you with a safe place to explore spanking and gives you the opportunity to be accountable to yourself while letting go of your vanilla responsibilities.
I’ve been kinky for seven years now, professionally and lifestyle. Kink is highly misunderstood and extremely underrated as a therapeutic and growing mechanism to the general public. This is why I began doing visual Femdom Art through self-portrait photographs and directing My own short films in order to showcase a side to BDSM without words, just pure aesthetics — no acting, simply a fluid demonstration of how powerful I am in real life and in-person sessions.
Alternative lifestyles are so broad and that is exactly what I love about this world: There is no wrong or right way to do things; there is a matter of safety and consent of course, but after you enter the play arena, it’s pretty much based on the rules and negotiations of the participating parties. No one else needs to follow their rules unless they are a part of their lives in an engaging way. To each their own. It’s wonderful, it’s infinite, and worth every single moment of exploration.
Misconceptions About Dominants
Professionals who are also Lifestyle Dominants add such a huge value to those who are both new as well as seasoned players. Why? We play with so many different types of people in such a short span of time compared to those who are just Lifestyle. We grow at an exponential rate and adjust to every person we interact with by adapting to their fetishes and preferences. Money is great, but at the end of the day, it needs to be sustainable to become a full-time occupation.
I love playing. I delight in figuring out each person, solving which type of dynamic works best, making up protocol for those I am responsible for should they earn a place in My life. Dominants may be perceived as bitchy or that They get to relax and “just get served all day,” but NO. It’s hard work. Even more so for professionals: In the lifestyle, Dominants have to take care of the people they play and establish dynamics with; they are responsible for protecting their mental health, their physical bodies and awareness of medical conditions, improving their spiritual selves, and overall, making sure they have fun. It’s a literal relationship – it doesn’t have to be romantic, but it takes just as much effort in order to build something together that meaningful. Sure, it can be light and have no strings attached, but that doesn’t mean focus is not held for the duration of the entire playtime.
Professionals have to do all of this as well as become a business person such as recording their finances and redistributing those earnings to life necessities, marketing, possibly touring different cities, equipment for creating new content, and countless others. We have to remember each sub or fetishist and evolve together with their progress. It’s so much more than just being called “Mistress” or “Goddess” or “Domina” and having Our boots cleaned and giving punishments through impact.
Why A Beginner Should Engage Me As A Dominant
As a Professional Domme, I am able to hold a safe space without judgement while using an extensive rolodex of experience in multiple areas and scenarios. Being Lifestyle is a great way to exchange intimacy with someone’s skills no matter the difficulty. The latter is much more intense with higher work expectations, but more rewarding than the prior.
Being an artist makes Me even more versatile as I’m able to come up with creative solutions to situations that any kinkster may present Me. It keeps Me sharp and expands My own way of playing as I tend to make every scene unique even with regular players.
How Does A Beginner Choose Between Being A Dom Or Sub?
Some people have a disposition where they think they may stand either wanting to control a situation or wanting to be controlled in a situation. This can start as one thing and change to another. For example, for those in positions of power in everyday life – the entrepreneurs, corporate partners, and political leaders are in control most of the time – and that may not be what they want in private. They might crave the opposite and want to relinquish all responsibility to someone else they trust.
I’ve known Tops who have had many people go up to them wanting them to Dominate, but over time, they get tired and want someone else to take over for their own personal experience. For those who are just starting out, My advice is to go out and try both and see where you fall. I’ve seen subs become Switches, voyeurs become fetishists, and those in D/s dynamics give that up completely to just enjoy eroticism.
The Competitiveness Of Being A Dom In The Kink Community
In the last 5-10 years, kink has become much more popular in media through fan fiction that lead to Hollywood films, multiple televised documentary series that portray daily life with specific types of dynamics, and even fetish fashion penetrating celebrities’ wardrobes to red carpet events or their thousands of dollars worth of music videos. Social profiles are not just accessible to those who are tuned in the lifestyle, but EVERYONE. Sexuality has been so constricted by society, one is driven to break out of the conditioning we were taught since young. Curiosity drives people to try new things. It’s easier to do that when you see a famous person dipping their toes into alternative culture alongside local people to your city advertising kinky services.
I think having a brand of what type of Dom/me you are, not for the sake of show, but truly being niche in something no one else is doing or no one else can do but you helps you shine. What makes you different from the Dom/me next door? The public is quick to categorize people into race or by specialty. I’ve managed to step over those labels because instead of being the mixed Asian or Chinese-Filipina-Spanish Domme, I am actually known for being a nurturing Sadistic Sensualist specializing in hypnotic healing and impactful discipline through eroticism. Plus, I also create My own art Myself. Therefore, I am more.
Characteristics I Look For In A Sub
What I seek for potential subs is quite simple: Common sense, a sense of respect and reverence, and a willingness to be trained [by ME] – no matter how experienced they are. Good hygiene is also important – many come to Me freshened up or showered with even their best underwear on. Approach Me like you are applying for a job interview, but make it personal. I want to know why you want to serve Me.
Give Me a glimpse at your previous experiences. What are your interests? What are you curious about? What are considered your hard limits? Do you know Mine? They should after reading My website – all of My information is on there. If they read it, I will know by what they reference or what questions they ask. In My eyes, subs should be open to being molded into the most useful entity to their Dominant. Forget everything you learned previously if it no longer applies, or, use what you have learned previously and thoroughly research on how you can serve Me better. Offer yourself not just in play, but outside play to My needs.
Know My desires because you genuinely want to fulfill them and not your own fetishes. I mentioned skills previously: For subs who are seeking either professional or personal counsel, this means anything I can use that you are proficient at. This can include driving, bartending, website development, cinematography, video editing, etc. I will never let you forget you are here to serve Me, and the longer you stick with Me, the more you will be rewarded with becoming integrated into My Life.
I want to thank SimplySxy for having Me today and for asking these thought provoking questions. Questions about how I began My journey and what I specialize in can be found on My Publications page via My website at DOMINAMARA.ORG. My Youtube.com/c/DominaMara channel is an informative resource with many videos from when I first became independent and what I’ve learned: How to approach a Mistress, why I don’t Switch or sub, what My thoughts are on fetish wear, and much more. I still offer photo prints for any of My images found on My website, and any supportive donation is always appreciated as every creative output is funded out of pocket. If you cannot gift due to difficult times, sharing My content through forwarding, reposting, retweeting, collaborating, and featuring Me works just as well.
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Domina Mara – I hail from the heart of California with an exotic mix of Chinese, Filipino, and Spanish blood. My career began in 2013 as a professional BDSM player at a local dungeon in Los Angeles, and created a solid foundation for My knowledge of Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, and Sado-Masochism. As a Dominant Mistress, My greatest joy is watching you transform into the most humble and genuine submissive with PURPOSE.
I am currently accepting select in-person sessions in Los Angeles as well as remote online text, phone, and cam sessions to play with My regulars and kinky newbies around the world. While I’m not playing, I am renovating My Home like many others during this lockdown time, and will be releasing the makeovers on my YouTube Channel [Youtube.com/c/DominaMara].
Due to the pandemic, My travels to the UK, Philippines, and Middle East were cancelled this 2020 and postponed until further notice. Sign up for My Newsletter via DOMINAMARA.COM to receive monthly updates on travel, Youtube videos, new photo sets, interviews, product releases, and other collaborations in the works.
SimplySxy has the pleasure of featuring Domina Mara (Miss Mara) on the topic of “How To Explore My Interest In Kink With A Dominant“.
Here, Domina Mara shares her insights on misconceptions about Dominants, how to stand out in the kink community as one and why she is the ideal Dominant for you to explore your interest in kink!
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Having a hand and nail fetish is a lot of fun! I’ve been painting my nails weekly since I could hold a nail polish bottle. Admittedly, I have very high standards for manicures so I’m infinitely grateful to have found the perfect nail tech for me. The hand massage, cuticle trimming and oil, the polish gliding across my nails is truly satisfying to watch. Manicures are one of my favorite ways to relax.
Hand and nail fetishes are not wildly popular and I’ve found that some people don’t know they have a hand/nail fetish until they come across a beautiful pair of hands or manicure that blows their mind. Then it’s something you start to notice and appreciate. I’ve had ex-boyfriends tell me I “ruined” un-manicured hands/nails for them, so they pay for their new girlfriends to get manicures regularly. I sometimes wonder if the rise in popularity of nail art accounts on social media will create more hand/nail fetishists.
Are Hand & Nail Fetishes A Misunderstood Fetish?
I don’t think hand or nail fetishes are misunderstood. People can easily come to understand hand and nail fetishes, probably because of some similarities to feet and pedicure fetishes. I find that people are surprised to discover that hand and nail fetishes exist more than anything. The fetishes being less known makes these types of submissives slightly rare, but they’re quick to fall in love and appreciate that I share their passion.
How To Explore Your Hand & Nail Fetish
Similar to other fetishes, embrace your hand and nail fetish! Self-experimentation is always essential, in my opinion. Try to pinpoint what you like and why, and have fun from there. Perhaps you worship a specific nail shape, soft hands, finger length, polish color/finish, etc. You may love spoiling a Domme with manicures. Booking a session with a Pro Domme is a perfect starting point for exploration. They will be able to guide you and provide you with a fantastic experience.
Hand & Nail Fetish Play I Enjoy
I like to accompany nail fetish with financial domination, sensation play, and ASMR. Few things make me happier than a sub paying for me to get pampered with a new manicure. Those who pay earn seeing my manicure first with personalized content, so it’s a lot of fun (and sometimes torturous) for them. Rhythmic nail tapping can be very hypnotic.
I enjoy using it as an anticipation tactic (especially during in-person sessions). My nails are naturally strong and long, so it’s easy for me to shape my nails to any shape to tease, scratch, or claw as I desire.
Chloe Manson – I am a professional Dominatrix and fetish content producer based in Austin, Texas. A more sadistic Domme, I specialize in impact and ballbusting. When I’m not satiating my sadism, I’m quite playful or sensual. I also have a strong money fetish and adore financial domination. Outside of kink I enjoy traveling, spa days, dancing and watching ballet, and eating at the best vegan restaurants.
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