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  • Top 5 Tips for Having Sex with A Transsexual

    Top 5 Tips for Having Sex with A Transsexual

    Adult Star Venus Lux shares her tips for having sex with a transsexual on SimplySxy!

    As you all know, the world is always changing especially when it comes to sexuality. Sex has no color, age, race, or any prejudice. With so much accessibility to pornography via the internet, people are now more willing to explore untouched territory especially when it comes to sex with transgender women. Sex should never be hard but sometimes when it comes to something unknown, useful information from a professional can put you on the right track! These are my top 5 tips to approaching sex with a transgender woman.

    1. Low expectations 

    Don’t get me wrong, having expectations are awesome! But to really have a good experience, it’s always best to know what you like but don’t expect your life fantasy to be all fulfilled in one instance. This is applicable both in life and in sex.

    2. Research

    Please do your homework and don’t hesitate to watch transsexual porn, so that you can get a better sense of what you like and what you may not. Along with understanding some of the sexual terminology such as (Greek, rimming, cuckold, missionary, creampie, top, bottom, etc). And if you are planning to be a bottom, understanding how to properly cleanse yourself for penetration is highly advised!

    3. The meeting

    Just like anyone else, always approach a transsexual with respect and common courtesy following the usage of proper address. You would hate to ruin the mood by calling a transsexual a man, gay, or a shemale. Like my friends say, “if the person is wearing a dress, address the person as a female”. Also, just because a transsexual may or may not have a penis, make sure you are sexually mutual beforehand. (Don’t hope to bottom if the girl isn’t into it)

    4. Sexual courtesy

    As a guy, maybe you don’t want to get a finger up your butt or get choked during sex. Of course, everyone should address their comforts and limits beginning and during sex. But if you plan to take on more of the power role in bed, always consider your partner’s needs if you want to continue the momentum. Below are some key tips about transsexuals:

    • ask if you can touch their hair (Keep in mind of extensions)
    • ask if you can touch their face (Some girls take pride in their makeup)
    • ask if you can touch or suck their cock (Some girls like it, some don’t)

    These are just a few side notes to think about.

    5. The moment

    I’m sure at this point, your cock is already throbbing. No worries! This is the time to enjoy yourself and to lose yourself in “the moment”. Be playful and try some new things. Be warned after the first time, you are just going to want more and better!

    P.S. A transsexual can’t get pregnant but always play and think safe! Safe sex can still always be fun. For me, Trojan bareskin condoms and kiwi strawberry WET lube always does wonders!


    venus_lux_zebra_print_1Venus Lux has become one of the top transsexual performers in the industry in the brief two years she has been in the adult industry. Since joining the industry in 2012, Venus has established herself as an experimental and dynamic performer, shining in an array of noteworthy scenes with men, women and transsexuals. The busty bombshell has attained numerous nominations and awards including a nomination for Transsexual Performer of the Year in the 2013 and 2014 AVN Awards. Venus currently holds the 2014 XBiz Award for Transsexual Performer of the Year and was named XCritic’s “Must-See Girl of the Month” in March 2014. At the 2014 Tranny Awards, the multi-talented star took home three awards for Best Scene, Best Solo Website and Hardcore Performer of the Year. The Asian Goddess has also shown that she is a skilled businesswoman with the launch of her member’s website Venus-Lux.com, which stars some of the hottest adult starlets and is one of the few independently run websites for transsexuals. Venus writes a popular column for AIPDaily called “Venus Rising” where she shares her opinions and news in the adult industry. With multiple awards and several mainstream projects under her belt, it’s clear that this alluring performer isn’t going anywhere and it won’t be long before Venus Lux is a household name.

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  • 5 Ways To Pleasure A Woman

    5 Ways To Pleasure A Woman

    XXX Adult Star Derrick Pierce shares on SimplySxy, his secrets on how to pleasure a woman.  Read on!

    Before we even head down this road please understand that you are fighting an uphill battle. It can be won, it will just take some doing on your part. Don’t be afraid of a little hard work. Trust me, she will appreciate it.

    1. It’s called communication

    This should happen WAY before any actual physical activities. Want to get her going before she hits the bed? Start that little text conversation. Make small sexual advances throughout the day. Nothing too over the top, unless you have already established these parameters. It can be more suggestive than anything else. The real trick is to get her to text you nasty things of her own accord. You can do this by making a small suggestion such as “I love the way you taste on my lips”. If you make it about her, she will usually be into it. Once she takes the bait, don’t reel her in. Let her run with it for a bit. If she responds in the affirmative, then ask her what she likes about it. Keep it about her as much as possible.

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    2. Ready for action

    Be clean! Pretty simple and straight forward. clean doesn’t only mean a shower. It means having a shave if needs be. Trim your nose hairs and pubic hair too! No need to shave it off, unless you are into that, but trim it back. Ladies don’t want a mouth full of hair in their mouth if they feel like trying to swallow you up. Most men don’t like the amazon rainforest in between the pillars of heaven either. Show some initiative and get your lawn in order.

    3. Ready … set … slow down

    Once you are prepped for battle—that is well groomed—there is no real need to rush into the thick of things, unless it is supposed to be a quickie. Even then, you can take a minute to survey your surroundings. Don’t rush to get her naked. Clothes can be fun. Pull a few things to the side. Leave on her shoes, unless they are Uggs or flip flops … those things have got to go!

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    4. The Bermuda Triangle

    Most men think women are an upside down triangle with the nipples being two points of contact and the vagina being the final resting place of the third. Wrong! We have fingers, hands, arms, toes, feet, legs … you get the picture. While those three points end up being a “final resting place” as the action goes on, it does not mean that all other areas are off limits. Grab her from behind, talk to her, tell her what she is in store for. Speak slowly and close to her so she can hear you. Use your hands to touch her whole body. Kiss and nibble on places that you normally would pass up. When you are going to go down on her, lick and touch everything except the clitoris. Save that for last. Keep licking her around and around slowly, ask her what she wants. I can near guarantee that she will all but beg you to lick her whole pussy. After that, you would have to work really hard to go wrong.

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    5. Keep her coming back

    Don’t think because you busted a load in a rubber body bag or you made finger paint art on her stomach, that you are now done. Make sure that she has a big ass smile before you call it quits. If you can, chill out with her for a few moments. Pillow talk and some cup caking goes a long way. If you can’t, hit her with a message that is kind of sweet after you have left. It lets her know that even if it was a “hit it and roll out” you did think about her in the aftermath. That will give you an open invitation to have those lines of communication at a later time.


    Derrick_AVNredcarpetPrior to joining the ranks of the porn elite, XXX hunk Derrick Pierce was a certified personal trainer and martial arts instructor. The “Bad Boy of Adult” has coached and cornered some of the most acclaimed professional MMA athletes from both WEC and UFC. Derrick has performed in a multitude of roles ranging from hardcore BDSM to feature adult films. The handsome stud has worked with every established adult production company and plays the convincing villain in Axel Braun’s comic book parody films such as Wolverine XXX, The Dark Knight XXX and Captain America XXX. Derrick was awarded Best Actor in a Couples Themed Release for his directorial feature movie release with Wicked Pictures’ Tuff Love, a film centered around his passion for MMA. Derrick also received nominations for Director of the Year,  Male Performer of the Year, Best Actor and Best Supporting Actor in the 2014 XBiz Awards and Best Supporting Actor in the 2014 AVN Awards. Derrick recently launched the first mobile crossfit affiliate, Crossfit Drop and already has his hands in several production ventures. Derrick has launched his first member’s website BangingPornstars.com, which follows Derrick’s adventures in bedding some of the hottest starlets in adult. The Herculean performer has proven his talent behind the camera. With his own production company, Primal Productions, and directorial releases including Hustler’s 40th anniversary Hard And Fast, he now looks to make a name for himself as the next XXX producer to watch.

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  • INFOG: Sex Toys & 3D Printing

    INFOG: Sex Toys & 3D Printing

    Courtesy of our new friends from Pink Rocket we get a visual glimpse of how 3D printing is going to change the sex toy industry.

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  • Interview with Erotica Novelist: Troy Lambert

    Interview with Erotica Novelist: Troy Lambert

    A sexual tryst at the Seven Bells Motel

    One-Night-in-Boise-by-Troy-Lambert-500-200x300Detective Derek Marshek’s sex life with his wife Cheri is amazing and they take it up a notch by including role plays into their sexual trysts at the Seven Bells Motel.  One day, Derek’s world gets turned upside down.  A dead body is found outside their motel and his gun is missing.  But is there more to this crime scene than meets the eye? An erotica with a mixture of romance and suspense, One Night in Boise takes the reader through a roller coaster ride keeping them on the edge of their seats through its twists and turns.

    SimplySxy takes the opportunity to speak to the author, Troy Lambert on his insipiration behind One Night in Boise and the advice he can give to aspiring erotica writers who wish to try their hand in writing.


    [Interview with Troy Lambert]

     SimplySxy: What was the inspiration behind One Night in Boise?

     Troy: The inspiration for One Night in Boise was a challenge: I write thrillers, had written sex    scenes in them, but this took at least the sex to another level. As sex is certainly thrilling and can be suspenseful, it seemed right up my alley. The story idea came to me early one morning, with the simple first line of the book, “It’s a dangerous game we play.”

    SimplySxy: One Night in Boise is book one of the City Nights Series. How does the series link up?

    Troy: The City Nights series is an erotic romance series sponsored by Tirgearr Publishing. The guidelines are simple: the story must be novella length, take place in a 24 hour period in a city of the author’s choosing. The story must be a mix of erotica and romance—not just a “sex” story, but one with strong character development as well.

    I’m also the managing editor of the series, and the next book is One Night in Paris by Lucy Felthouse, followed by One Night in Rome by C. Margery Kempe and One Night in New Orleans by Kristi Ahlers. There will be one novella released a month, until we run out of authors and cities.

    SimplySxy: How do you differentiate between erotica and romance?

    Troy: Romance is more about characters and story. Much of the genre, like other fiction, is character or plot driven. Romance can have several heat levels, from the closed bedroom door, mild level of sex to erotic, hot love scenes.

    Erotica is more about hot sex. Sex not only must be an integral part of the story, but it often is the story.

    In this series the blend of the two is very important. The sex must be hot, but the story also has to be good, thus the erotic romance category. I added a sub-genre of thriller and it seems to work very well for readers.

    SimplySxy: Are there any advice to new authors?

    I get asked this one often, and my stock answer is this: if you can do something else, do it. Being a writer, making a living at it, is hard, and you really don’t get paid all that well for all the hours you put in.

    But if like me, you find you really aren’t good for much else, and “normal” jobs seem to never work out because you simply have to write and you can’t help yourself, then stop worrying about how to “make a living” as a writer.

    Do things with two criteria: Write things you enjoy writing that also pay at least something. Then learn to live on what you can make pursuing your passion. You might be poor for a while or even a long time, but you will be doing what you love and that is worth more than any mansion or fancy car.


    [Excerpt]

    It’s a dangerous game we play.

    We like to play year round, but the snow, the cold has us turning to other games to pass the time in the winter. Tonight, though it is not yet spring, it is warm for early April, and we are both ready.

    The yellow streetlights emit tight yellow pools of light that she avoids carefully. I circle the block, seeing if I can spot her in the shadows. When she spies the old Caprice, she steps to the curb.

    She wears red leather. My favorite. A tight mini skirt, thigh high boots, and a laced corset envelop her curves. Her scarlet lipstick matches a bow wrapped in her brunette hair, completing the look.

    She’s not as young as she used to be, but then neither am I. When I look at her though, I still see the girl I married over 20 years ago. Other guys try to pick her up whenever we play, and once she even had to explain the game to a passing undercover officer, one of my colleagues. It cost me a $150 bottle of scotch to sweep that one under the rug, but it was worth it.

    I pull alongside and roll down the passenger window. “Hey there.”

    “Looking for a date?” She blows little bubbles with the gum she chews, popping them with her teeth. Oh, God those teeth, those lips, that mouth.

    “Yeah baby, how much?”

    Her gaze crawls over me, evaluating, craving. “For you, $20 for a blow, half and half for $40, and all the way for $80.”

    “It’s a deal. Get in.”

    Opening the door, she drops into the passenger seat. The skirt rides up, and her lace panties peek out at me. She tugs the skirt down seductively, but not before I spot the wetness at her crotch. I can hardly sit still and wonder how my erection is not interfering with the steering wheel. Jesus, she turns me on.

    She puts her gloved hands on my arm, and the hairs there stand to attention. “You have someplace we can go?”

    “Sure do,” I say. She shuts the door, and I drive to the Seven Bells Motel at the end of the block.


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  • Erika Lust, award winning porn director, speaks on SimplySxy

    Erika Lust, award winning porn director, speaks on SimplySxy

    Erika Lust, born in Stockholm in 1977, is an independent filmmaker, author, and founder of Erika Lust Films. After graduating from Lust University with a degree in Political Science with a focus on Feminism, Lust moved to Barcelona where her production company was established in 2005. She has directed 5 award winning erotic films and series – Five Hot Stories for Her, Barcelona Sex Project, Life Love Lust, Cabaret Desire and Xconfessions. Her brand-new, ongoing series Xconfessions combines Lust’s groundbreaking cinematic style with the public’s own sex stories to create a new genre of crowdsourced adult film. Her written works include Good Porn: a Woman’s Guide, The Erotic Bible to Europe, Love Me Like You Hate Me, La Canción de Nora, and Let’s Make a Porno: a Practical Guide to Filming Sex. Lust is committed to portraying a new kind of sexuality in adult film, pledging in her own words to “create new waves in adult cinema, to show all of the passion, intimacy, love and lust in sex: where the feminine viewpoint is vital, the aesthetic is a pleasure to all of the senses, and those seeking an alternative to porn can find a home.”

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    SimplySxy: What was the inspiration behind your move into the erotic film industry as a director?

    Erika Lust: While in university at Lund, I was inspired by the works of Linda Williams and the idea that porn could be empowering to women’s sexuality. But the porn I’d seen up to that point didn’t really fit the theory, so though I still believed in its value, the contradiction really bothered me. After graduating and moving to Barcelona, I started working in production houses, and got the practical knowledge of how to make a film. So I began taking directing classes and considered making the kind of erotic film I’d never seen before, but always wanted. When my first film, The Good Girl, was downloaded over a million times, I began to consider a career in the adult industry more seriously.

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    SimplySxy: Do your films have a particular style that is different from others?

    Erika: Absolutely. This first thing that sets my films about is the dedication to showing female pleasure…. Something glaringly absent in most pornos. And those horrible fake orgasms? What a turn off!

    I also like to hire performers who are good looking, but could also be your neighbor or best friend or the cute waiter at your favorite restaurant. They are love sex, and love their job. Trust me when I say this makes all the difference and can really be seen in the end product.

    Directing and capturing the little moments during sex can make all the difference in simply filming two people having sex, and making the film a total turn on. The way people gasp, look at each other, how hands grip flesh, whispering into ears, dirty talk, lip biting, messy kisses … they are all part of the sex we have in real life that is often left out of explicit film, and yet are so important as part of an erotic experience.

    Finally I place HUGE importance on aesthetics in my movies – just because it’s a movie about sex is no excuse for crappy quality. I use the highest quality HD and Red cameras, devote months to hunting down cool modern locations (not just bedrooms!), use cool indie music soundtracks, opt for natural looking makeup and normal-looking outfits for my performers (no pimps or hos here), and go for the coolest new sex toys and designer lingerie.

    SimplySxy: What is the secret behind how long the male stars can last while having sex without ejaculating?

    Erika: There is no secret – performers in the adult industry, both men and women, have extraordinary control over their bodies. I think this is something people really forget when considering the male talent – there’s this idea that any guy could show up, have sex with a beautiful woman, and put on a great show. But people who think this often forget that the performer basically needs to get and maintain an erection on cue, as well as ejaculate… With a crew of a dozen or more strangers in the room. Possibly with a co-star that he doesn’t find attractive, or after a very long journey the day before. All the while with a lot of pressure around his performance. Prolific male performers are extremely talented to be able to work (well) under these conditions, and that is a reason that there are so few of them as opposed to their female counterparts.

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    SimplySxy: And what happens if the male stars are required to ejaculate but are unable to?

    Erika: It is up to the performer to get an erection, maintain it, and ejaculate, which as I say above is quite a talent. But some days that just isn’t going to happen. Usually we take a break to give the performer time he needs to get excited (or calm down) and then continue shooting. If there is still trouble, that’s where creative angles, short takes, editing – and faking it – come in handy!

    SimplySxy: Are the actors and actresses really enjoying the sex on film or are most of it acting?

    Erika: I don’t know, it’s difficult to say. I like to hire performers who love their job, who love sex and exhibitionism. Some of the best scenes I’ve shot have been where the actors said they really enjoyed the sex they had that day, or with that specific performer. Other times, a truly great performer might not be that into their partner or the sex, but put on a convincing, and ultimately very hot show. When you are dealing with very talented actors, who are taking direction really well, the finished product should look the same either way.

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    SimplySxy: As a director, you have definitely seen your fair share of bloopers. Please tell us some of the extremely funny ones you remember?

    Erika: Honestly, most of the fun we have is just goofing around on set … the actors are usually wild extroverts who love to have a good time. But there were a few times that – because of the set location – we had to use an inflatable mattress. As anyone knows who has slept on one, they are not particularly stable (especially not when they’re being … jumped … on), and there have been a few times when the performers bounced right off!

    SimplySxy: To be an porn actor/actress, does one really need to be good at acting or acting talent isn’t really a pre-requisite as compared to say looks or the size of a men’s penis.

    Erika: First, they have to match the part I’m hiring them for. Then, we go through several interviews to make sure their attitude aligns with mine. Really, that is the most important thing – I want to know that they love sex, the making adult films is not just a way to make quick cash, and that they are familiar with my work and get what makes my films different. This way, when everyone arrives on set, we know exactly what we’ll need from each other in terms of directing and performance. Next to this, looks (or appendage size) mean very little.

    SimplySxy: One of our writers, Nicole Nelson, wrote an article on Feminist Porn on this Pornography feature. As a pioneer of feminist pornography, do you think perceptions of how women in pornography or portrayed or supposed to be portrayed is changing?

    Erika: I think that movements in the adult film world like feminist porn and amateur content are the main reason the industry has changed at all concerning women and their portrayal in xxx. Up until very recently, big mainstream production houses were creating the same terrible chauvinist films – recycling the same tired stereotypes and gender roles over and over – and it still hasn’t really changed in that regard. However, the internet had a huge democratizing effect, meaning suddenly indie producers like me and my contemporary feminist filmmakers were able to make and produce our own films without having to deal with any third parties (who had long made it clear to us that men were the only market and that there was no room for a new kind of adult film). Though our independent genres are still pretty small, and there is a VERY long way to go before sex is generally shown in an egalitarian way, it is thanks to the earliest feminist pornographers (and those expanding and evolving the genre today) that there is any diversity at all!

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    SimplySxy: As a parent yourself, and being in the porn industry, how do you think the topic of sex can be approach with kids and at what age?

    Erika: Well my daughters are still very young, but I plan on having the ‘sex talk’ pretty early on. I think I was around 7 or 8 when I learned about it (thanks to a liberal educated and a very open family) and it felt like a good age. It made puberty less confusing that’s for sure! I think the mix of learning about it in an academic, biological way in school and in a personal, emotional way with my family made all the difference…so that is the approach I plan to take.

    I also feel that there now needs to be a ‘porn talk’ between parents and kids in this day and age. I want to be able to explain to my girls what porn is, why it exists, why people like it, and why it most DEFINITELY is not sex in real life. That kind of context is so important because I think most kids now grow up with porn as their sex education … which is a really bad idea since it’s all fantasy.

    SimplySxy: Please share with us our SimplySxy readers what XConfessions is all about and is there a chance their story can be chosen to be turned into a film?

    Erica: Xconfessions is my latest project. On the webpage (www.xconfessions.com) you can anonymously submit your sex stories or wildest fantasies, and each month I pick my two favorites to be turned into erotic short films. It’s a new genre I like to call ‘crowdsourced’ erotica! Of course if your confession is picked, you get the films for free. So far, we have made 24 short films, with more released every month!

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  • Queen of Lesbian Foot Worship: Kayla-Jane Danger

    Queen of Lesbian Foot Worship: Kayla-Jane Danger

    ABOUT KAYLA-JANE DANGER 

    Some people might think it’s dangerous to go from a go-go dancer, burlesque performer and fashion design and illustration student to being the Queen of Lesbian Foot Worship and soft core sensual scenes, but in eight years, Kayla-Jane Danger has done it…and without fear, making fantasy into her real world. In her previous incarnation, Danger garnered the title Music Video Honey and appeared in over 50 videos for world famous bands. Along with appearing on her own site MyDollParts.com that she runs, operates and makes exclusive content for, the girl next door with the ALT look has worked with Burning Angel and Sex Art, and been photographed by legendary photographers Holly Randall and Ken Marcus for the multiple times she has graced the pages of Hustler’s Taboo.

    Her site, http://mydollparts.com/, received nominations in 2013 from The Sex Awards, XBIZ and AVN, and features Danger’s perfect legs ass and feet working with some of the hottest girls dreams are made of—her myriad of high quality fetish and erotic sites that make up her KJD Media network are some of the most popular and original sites in the fetish world. In 2014, Kayla’s dynamic sites helped her win AEVC’s award for Best Webstar of the Year, and she made her directorial debut with Filly Films and her movie, Carrie’s Secret, which she also wrote and had a cameo in.

    Kayla stars in Zalman King’s film, “Pleasure or Pain”, that debuted in April on Cinemax, and completed a novel based on the screenplay currently available as an eBook on Amazon and Smashbooks. To keep up with her ever-growing empire and exciting new projects including her VIP parties, directorial debut for Filly Films, and her role as spokes model and participant in the goldRush Rally, follow her on Twitter at @kjdangerdoll and Instagram http://instagram.com/kjdangerdoll# and make sure to “like” her fan page on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/KaylaJaneDangerOfficial.

    SimplySxy:  What is your favourite thing about being in the adult industry?

    Kayla-Jane: My favorite part might be that it exists at all. We’re lucky to live in a country with a “legal” adult industry, and without it I wouldn’t be able to express myself and my art in the same way. I get to live out my fantasies in a controlled and safe way on a daily basis, and what is better than that?!

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    SimplySxy:  You are also known as The Danger Doll. How did this name originate? 

    Kayla-Jane:  I really don’t remember. I want to say my full name, Kayla-Jane Danger, came first, but then, like all nicknames do, it took on a life of its own. I was The Danger Doll, a doll like-lady made for danger! It just stuck!

    SimplySxy:  The kink community is growing in numbers and even couples who are not into kink are beginning to take interest and explore in the bedroom. Can you give some tips for couples who like to try something kinky for the first time but are unsure of how to begin? 

    Kayla-Jane:  Two of my biggest tips are to not be intimidated and do your research. Yes, sex is fun, silly and great, but without some good old-fashioned research, you could make a kinky time awkward and potentially unsafe. Also, communication is super important; not all kinks are something everyone likes the first tim, or can even jump right into. Don’t always pick the biggest, baddest looking toy or prop, because it might turn you off to the kink all together. Enjoy the learning process with your partner, try things on one another, and make sure you communicate your pleasure or displeasure accurately.

    SimplySxy:  In your opinion, how do you think a person develops a fetish for a particular item, say for example fishnet stockings or high heels to name just two?

    Kayla-Jane:  Well, it comes from a lot of things. However, the fetish you’re describing is usually something picked up from youth, and isn’t a learned fetish, like many activities, such as spanking or bondage are.

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    SimplySxy: What are some of your most loved kink items you simply can’t live without?

    Kayla-Jane:  HEELS HEELS HEELS … wait can heels be my answer for all of this? Okay, maybe a pair of epic stilettos, a corset, a heavy leather/suede flogger, 3-piece silk or lace lingerie set and nylon stockings. I hope that didn’t seem like cheating!

    SimplySxy: Please share with us some memorable fetish requests from your fans which you have done?

    Kayla-Jane: There’s one guy who has purchased probably about 15 or so custom video from me over the years; his fetish is white cotton panty play. Either 1 or 2 girls are wearing cropped t-shirts with bare feet, wearing very specific Hanes brand white cotton panties. He likes girls to use words like booty, bum, butt, and bottom, but not ass. He likes girls to pinch each other’s bootys, or rub and squeeze them, but we always make sure to smooth the panties, because he hates wedgies! He loves when the girls rub their butts together smoothing their hands over their butts together or side by side, so he gets a bum overload! I have done these videos with several performers like Jenna J Ross, Remy LaCroix, Skin Diamond, Athena Fatale, and one of my exclusive dolls, Jeanette. He literally tells me to make the same video over and over again. He just loves the scene and the way I do it so much, and I love making these videos for him!

    SimplySxy: As we are on memorable fetishes, have there been any weird or freaky fetishes, which you heard of that you might consider rejecting if requested? 

    Kayla-Jane: Oh, I have rejected a lot, and I even state on my website I that I won’t do anything illegal, including crushing of animals or insects, anything involving animals, shit/scat, piss or blood. I also don’t engage in racial or religious humiliation either.  I might toy with turning myself into your GOD, but I won’t belittle a religion or race, or make humiliation role play out of it.

    SimplySxy: Are there any adult stars whom you wish to work with if you had the chance?

    Kayla-Jane: Lucky for me, I do all the booking at KJD Media, so I tend to book the girls I want. However, there are a few I haven’t been able to nail down over the years for various reasons. I would LOVE to shoot with Dana DeArmond for MyDollParts.com, and also Riley Reed and Ryan Ryans.

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    SimplySxy: Tease us and allow our imagination to go wild. One of our readers has a fetish for girl and girl toe licking. How will you go about satisfying this fetish?

    Kayla-Jane:  I’d tell them to go to MyDollParts.com, where they can watch a bevy of beauties and me worshiping each other from the toes up. It’s a place where ladies wrap their lips around each toe, slipping their tongues between each toe, pulling away with long strands of spit connecting them. Some girls are delicate and flick their tongues along the arches of their lover as if it were her pussy, and others devour feet taking in all their toes at once, sometimes two feet at a time! My Dolls and I know how to fill every fantasy!

    SimplySxy: Thank you for your time Kayla. Do you have any upcoming projects you wish to promote? 

    Kayla-Jane:  GoldRush Rally is just a few weeks away, and it is my 5th year on the rally, and as its Hostess. It is the most fun time of year for me, and I can’t wait for another epic crosscountry adventure. If you want to know where you can see the cars and me along the way, please visit https://www.facebook.com/goldRushRally. Also, I have a few feature scripts in the works but nothing nailed down as of now. Don’t forget to check out my recent release “Carrie’s Secret”, which is my first film I directed for Filly Films.

    A message from you to all your fans and the SimplySxy readers:

    Make sure to see the amazing fast cars and me on the Gold Rush Rally. It starts May 31st in Las Vegas and goes through Denver, Chicago, Cleveland, DC and ends in New York. It’s quite a ride and the fans get to meet us in many cities. There are parties and track events open to the public, and they can see us speed off, too. There’s nothing quite like it.

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    Make sure to check out my official sites at mydollparts.com and kjd-media.com. Follow my personal Twitter @KJDangerDoll and my company one is @KJDMedia, and my Instagram http://instagram.com/kjdangerdoll#. Make sure to like my Facebook Fan Page https://www.facebook.com/KaylaJaneDangerOfficial.

    Images courtesy of Kayla-Jane Danger

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  • Interview with Michele Masters, Bi Swinger Adult XXX model

    Interview with Michele Masters, Bi Swinger Adult XXX model

    Michele Masters, 27 years old, 5ft 3, 112 pounds, 34 B natural breasts

    Toronto, Ontario

    Married to Mike Masters, photographer

    I enjoy living the swing lifestyle with my husband in Canada, photo graphing and recording our sexual adventures and having a great time!  I have been featured on pornstarradio.com, mhogpodcast.com, and have a few other spots coming in the near future including a full nude spread in the May issue of ALL Pleasure magazine.  I love being on cam, being naughty in front of people and I thought my site would be an awesome way to be live with so many other people!

    SimplySxy:  In this industry, women are way more popular than men.  Do you think its tough for your male counterparts to breakthrough?

    Michele Masters:  Yes.  It’s tough for anyone but men even harder.

    SimplySxy:  Have there been moments where male star is unable to get an erection or perform to expectations?

    Michele:  Yes. But you work with it.  Take a break or help him out.  ‘Fluff it‘ as they call it.

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    SimplySxy:  Can you share with us one funny/awkward/embarrassing moment that have happened on set?

    Michele:  The camera lights fell on top of us while having sex.  No one was hurt but it killed the mood for a bit.

    SimplySxy: Which is your favourite porn scene to shoot?

    Michele:  Definitely girl on girl.  I love men but I love the soft touch of a woman.

     

    SimplySxy:  Do you think condoms should be used during filming?

    Michele:  I do.  But most are tested 1 to 2 times per month to be safe.

    SimplySxy:  The age old question, does size really matter and what is ideal for you?

    Michele:  It doesn’t have to be big if you know how to use it.  Too big is too much.  I like about 7-8 inches myself.

    SimplySxy:  What turns you on the most?

    nf29 copyMichele:   I love woman. I love group sex.  I love watching two bisexual men as well.

    SimplySxy:  Let our male readers in on a secret.  What can a guy do to ensure the girl is satisfied?

    Michele:  Put her first.  A guy will cum.  But get her to cum first and she will be hooked.  Use your tongue or fingers or even a toy but get her to cum!

    SimplySxy:  For our female readers, give one reason why they should give oral sex.

    Michele:  To satisfy your partner.  Don’t want him to stray?  Besides I think sucking cock is fun!  Its hot and my husband loves watching me in the act.

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    SimplySxy:  Allow our imagination to run wild.  Share with us what you will do to your guy to give him the night he won’t ever forget?  

    Michele:  I make sure he cums.  But also I try to find out what his secret turn ons are.  The ones he is afraid to admit.  Those are the ones he will enjoy the most.

    A message from you to all your fans and the SimplySxy readers:

    Please be sure to follow my twitter@MicheleMasters and facebook https://m.facebook.com/profile.php?id=677179412325055.

    I love to show off.  I’ll be live camming soon on a few different sites because I love to interact with my fans and making them cum personally is a big turn on for me.  I’ll be announcing where soon through my twitter and Facebook so follow me!  Love you all!

    Images courtesy of Michele Masters

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  • Betty Bang on SimplySxy

    Betty Bang on SimplySxy

    SimplySxy:  What do you think is the root cause of porn addiction? 

    Betty Bang:  I think addiction is an addiction.  People are addicted to many things not just porn. Porn gives pleasure whatever gives pleasure can be addictive.

    SimplySxy:  With porn so easily accessible on the Internet, do you think more control is needed so keep children and young teens away from them?

    Betty:  I think sex is everywhere.  Cable has some crazy shit on it in your own living room, Facebook, social media.  If you don’t want your kids to see sex, block them from the universe. Parents need to be more open with their children.  Limit the time on the computer (and) play a board game with your child.  Bad parenting skills shouldn’t be blame on porn.

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    SimplySxy:  Can you share with us one funny/awkward/embarrassing moment that have happened on set?

    Betty:  The funniest moment was on set in my last scene when I kept on slipping and didn’t know why.  After the scene I discovered my heel had been broken the whole time.  I thought it was (due to) the five guys cum on the floor.

    SimplySxy:  What is your most memorable scene done to date?

    Betty:  My first interracial scene; I was so nervous.  I never had been with a strong big black dick before I started doing porn and now bring all those cocks to me.  The more the better.

    SimplySxy:  When we watch porn, the male stars seem to be able to go on for an hour. Are they really that good?

    Betty:  Lol they are

    SimplySxy:  What is your favourite sex toy?

    Betty:  I enjoy to cocks at the same time.  One 8 inch in my pussy and anything with a strong vibration on my clit.

    SimplySxy:   What is the wildest sex act you have done that had nothing to do with filming?

    Betty:  The wildest sex act was in a taxi I squirted on the cab driver and everything and it wasn’t planned at all.  I was actually trying to be good that night.

    SimplySxy:  Let our male readers in on a secret.  What lingerie will a lady want their man to buy them?

    Betty:   I hate that feather stuff in the mag. I love latex!

    SimplySxy:  Do you think that watching porn makes sex better in a relationship for couples?

    Betty:  Hell yeah it gets you in the mood.

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    SimplySxy:  Allow our imagination to run wild.  Share with us one sex experience that was impromptu and in the heat of the moment

    Betty:  There are so many.  I think in the driveway before I could even walk in the house.  I never wear underwear.  On A ROOF of a parking lot.

    If you like to find out more about Betty, you can follow her at the following social media accounts:

    https://www.facebook.com/betty.bang.96

    https://twitter.com/bettybangxxx

    http://instagram.com/bettybangxxx

  • Ex-Librarian and Ladies’ Pornstar Ela Darling

    Ex-Librarian and Ladies’ Pornstar Ela Darling

    Find out more about ladies’ pornstar Ela Darling, who shares with us how pornography can be useful and healthy in a relationship as well as the craziest place she has ever had sex.

    SimplySxy:  What is your personal view on pornography?

    Ela Darling:  I think pornography is a hell of a career and I love it.

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    SimplySxy: With the pornography very easily accessible on the internet, do you think anything should be done to control youths and children from having access to it?

    Ela:  I think that the best way to protect kids from the negative effects of porn is through communication and facts.  Parents should communicate with their kids candidly about sex, consent, and how to have safe sex.  They should discuss what pornography is and explain that pornography is a form of adult entertainment that portrays a fantasy which is much different from normal sex.

    SimplySxy:  How do you think pornography can be useful and healthy in a relationship?

    Ela:  Partners can watch porn together to initiate sex or explore new sexual experiences they’d like to share together.  If one person has a specific sexual fetish or interest that their partner doesn’t share, they can use porn as an outlet for that sexual interest.  If one partner has a stronger sex drive, they can get sexual release from porn rather than being unfaithful to their partner.

    SimplySxy:  Please share with us one tip for ladies to enjoy giving oral sex?

    Ela:  If a lady doesn’t like oral sex, she shouldn’t do it.  Don’t force yourself to do sex acts that you genuinely don’t enjoy.

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    SimplySxy”  Where is the craziest place you have ever had sex that was nothing to do with filming?

    Ela:  Either in the middle of a field in a residential neighbourhood in Texas or in the middle of a casino in Vegas.

    SimplySxy:  Which do you think is the sexiest part of your body?

    Ela:  I think the sexiest part of my body is my brain.  My mind is a dirty, sexy place

    SimplySxy:  What is your favourite sex position in bed?

    Ela:  I like to be fucked doggy style while my partner pulls my hair and slaps my ass.

    SimplySxy:  Share with us one secret to spice it up in bed with a lover?

    Ela:  Explore the veritable cornucopia of kinks and fetishes and find something new that you both like that you haven’t experienced yet.

    SImplySxy:  What defines a sexy woman according to you?

    Ela:  To me, sexy is a smart, confident, boss ass woman who knows what she wants, who she is, and harnesses the power of sexuality to get what she wants.

    SimplySxy:  What is your favourite sexual fantasy?

    Ela:  My fantasy is hot, rough, hair-pulling, choking, scratching, biting sex with whomever I’m currently jerking off to followed by smoking a lot of weed.

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    A message from you to all your fans and the SimplySxy readers:

    Check out my website at www.DarlingEla.com and follow me on Twitter: @ElaDarling xoxo!

    Images courtesy of Ela Darling, Shawn Kennedy and Alexander Sinclaire

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  • Interview with Alex Janjanin, from LA Direct Models

    Interview with Alex Janjanin, from LA Direct Models

    As part of SimplySxy’s on-going Pornography special feature, we are pleased to have this unique opportunity to interview Alex Janjanin from LA Direct Models.  Alex tells us his favourite move on a girl in bed, which part of a girl he likes the most and his definition of a sexy woman.

    SimplySxy:  Where do you feel the current direction the adult industry is heading?

    Alex Janjanin:  Personally, I feel like the adult industry is heading in a great direction.  There’s always going to be demand for sex.

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    SimplySxy:   What are some of the misconceptions people have about the adult industry?

    Alex:  I’ve been asked if the adult industry has destroyed my relationship…it definitely hasn’t.  I couldn’t be happier in my relationship since becoming an adult performer!

    SimplySxy:  Can you share with us one funny/awkward/embarrassing moment that has happened on set?

    Alex:  One of my first times on set, I had forgot about the multiple cameras around me…apparently I kept showing my ass to the camera lol and the camera guy shouted at me “get your ass out of the shot!”  It was embarrassing haha.

    SimplySxy:  What is the challenge a male adult star faces as compared to a female star in this industry?

    Alex:  I feel as a male performer, it’s a lot harder to get work than it is for a female performer.  You gotta be packing big if you want to be considered lol.

    SimplySxy:  What is your favourite porno scenario?

    Alex:  My favourite scenario would be me at home chilling, ripping the bong lol when all of a sudden my girlfriend comes through the door with a few of her girl friends, and we have an orgy right there in the living room.

    SimplySxy:  What is your favourite move in bed to do on a girl?

    Alex:  I love spooning or being behind a woman, grabbing her hair with one hand, and wrapping my other hand around her neck 😉 definitely my fav.

    SimplySxy:  What defines a sexy woman according to you?

    Alex:  A sexy woman to me is a woman who has her priorities straight, who can hold a conversation with me, and also has a gorgeous booty haha.

    SimplySxy:  Which body part of a girl do you like most?

    Alex:  I love me a nice ass! 🙂 she can be ugly and flat chested lol as long as she has a nice ass, I’m down!

    SimplySxy:  Porn is huge and caters to every taste imaginable.  Is there anything that hasn’t been done or you like to see more of?

    Alex:  Honestly, I think the adult industry has covered all the bases for me. Who knows though, I might develop a new fetish in the future that I might want to see.

    SimplySxy:  Do you prefer to see your girl spit or swallow?

    Alex:  I prefer my girl to swallow every time.

    A message from you to all your fans and the SimplySxy readers:

    Message to my fans & SimplySxy readers: Thank you guys for all your support! I wouldn’t have this awesome job if it wasn’t for you guys 🙂 Be sure to look out for my new scenes and follow me on twitter @ohshititsalexxx

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    Images courtesy of Alex Janjanin

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