First things first, lets set the record straight. I may live in this world but I am not of this world. In other words, I do NOT Judge.
I believe it is none of my business how someone chooses to live their life, unless of course it directly affects me. I believe that there is freedom to be had living in an alternative lifestyle. There’s acceptance, understanding, love, respect and so much more to be had in a power exchange relationship.
I do not think it is fair or right to judge people that enjoy this freedom. I also believe that the people who are open about their kink are very brave to share that piece of themselves with the world.
How I Got Interested In Spanking Play
Well to be honest it started in high school. I had a group of friends that I used to hang out with. Whenever someone bent over in front of another, that person was then “obligated” to smack that ass, to show appreciation for what a fine ass it was. There were also consequences to pay if you did not smack that ass bent over so perfectly in front of you. If you didn’t, you would get 2 punches in the arm from everyone present for your fuck up. I think that’s the point in my life where spankings went from being a bad thing to being a good thing. Then later as I got into Daddy/Babygirl roleplays, the whole spanking thing seemed to go hand and hand with being a “Brat” to Daddy, LOL.
Why Is Spanking A Turn On?
As far as why it’s such a turn on for me personally, well I am a switch so I like giving and receiving spankings. So when I’m receiving them, they’re a turn on because I enjoy a little pain with my pleasure, I believe the pain heightens our pleasure receptors because of the contrast between both elements. As far as when I am giving spankings, it turns me on because there’s a lot of shit we have to deal with this in this world and it takes it’s toll. Spanking someone allows me to release some of that frustration and give me just that much more peace of mind. So on one hand, it’s a very sexual stimuli and on the other, it’s all a mental stimuli, for me at least. However I do believe that it is a different experience for each individual.
Different Levels Of Spanking
Of course there are! Just like everything in life there are always levels. Plus with spankings theres different levels for different tools as well. Someone could be spanked with their hand and have multiple levels of that, then upgrade to a paddle. There are so many different toys and objects you can spank with in addition to your hand which makes every single spanking experience unique. Honestly there are endless combinations and levels to a spanking sesh (session).
Favorite Spanking Tools
Top fave spanking tool will and always will be my hand. There is just something about feeling that skin heat up under my hand that just does it for me. I also make spanking toys, and some of my most loyal fans have earned paddles in their name. So, one of my fave spanking toys is one I made for a fan. It’s called my “Lotus” paddle. It’s similar to a riding crop, however it has an extended paddle part, and a thicker, longer sturdy handle. The handle is covered in a braided soft blue and white fabric, while the paddle fabric is blue with tiny little studs on it. It packs a whallop and leaves you spotted!
The “Right” Way To Spank
People get too caught up on the right and wrong way to do something. News flash, there is no right or wrong way. It differs from partner to partner and from play sesh to play sesh. What’s right for you and this partner today may not be what’s right for the partner you have tomorrow. To figure out what’s right, you have to start small and low level and work your way up till you find that persons’ stopping point. Then, you know the bottom and the top of that partners’ pain threshold scale. That gives you some sort of guide for that partner, however the real key to finding the right way is open and honest communication between you and your partner.
Typical Spanking Sessions
Well I guess that depends. If it’s a new partner and they do not have a lot of experience with spanking play. Then the sesh would begin with some talking about limits and protocols. Then maybe a warm up with my hand, followed by a spanking toy of low to medium strength based on the read I get from my partner. Then we would end the sesh with some aftercare and talking about the experience, which would then help me determine what to do next time.
If it’s a partner that I have already played with, I would take my cue for this sesh, from our last sesh. I always start a sesh with talking and getting feedback from the time before, so if I need to adjust anything in my plans I can do so. I always like to warm that ass up with a good ole fashioned hand spanking. Then I would move onto a low-med toy based on their pain threshold and from there, one more toy that actually pushes their limits that I have already found in the first sesh. Of course I end the sesh the same way, by making sure my partner is okay and asking them how they felt about what they just went through.
Zora Stone – 36yr old MILF from Ohio uses BDSM knowledge and Lifestyle to conquer the world! Haha no, really maybe not the world, however I have used it to conquer some demons in my world! I am a nobody from nowheresville who somehow has pulled 3 Adult nominations out of the secret cavern in my ass! I am perfectly imperfect and teaching imperfection, one subby at a time! Step into one of my rooms and I’ll coat you in imperfection like peanut butter coats a spoon!
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