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What If My Girlfriend Finds My Used Panty Stash?

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What If My Girlfriend Finds My Used Panty Stash?

I have a used panty fetish and buy occasionally to add to my collection. Recently, I got attached with a girl but am worried she might stumble upon my collection one day. As I have no intention of disposing of them, should I tell her about my fetish or keep it a secret from her?

Hello, this is a very complicated question.

On one side you want to start a relationship with her and be honest and on the other side, you want to keep your collection. Sometimes, people we relate to do not share the same views we have regarding sexuality and what arouses each other.

I would suggest you “test the waters” and consider speaking with her about alternative erotic practice and see her reaction. I might think she would not be very happy with you keeping other women’s panties around her.

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Marce Cruz implemented kink aware therapy on the private practice services and has worked mainly on web therapy as a Sexologist.

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Marcela Cruz

Marce Cruz from Mexico, received her bachelor's degree in Psychology in 2001 at a bilingual University at Mexico City (Universidad de las Américas). She started working in the HR area, and had a part time private practice on general psychology and career orientation. In 2005, Marce implemented kink aware therapy on the private practice services. From 2006, she started working full time as a therapist and on a project basis in the recruitment field. During the same year, she was accepted to study the Masters' degree on sexology (Part of the first generation to use the online mode) at INCISEX (Madrid). During then, she had an Internet radio program where she answered questions from the users and talk different topics and made few interviews before receiving her Masters' degree in 2008. Since 2007, Marce has worked mainly on web therapy.

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