In my opinion, sex is something that has to do with an open mind without any complex. For a long time I’ve believed sex was a taboo subject, that is the way my social surroundings taught me; one day I decided to bring down such barriers and started exploring my own body.
I see sex now as something necessary (at least for me) whether if it’s masturbation or as a couple.
For me the daily worries or stressful situations are prohibited during sexual encounters. It’s my own way of meditation, whereas the possibilities of fun are infinite, such as toys, places, role play, sexual positions, in turn can be your job as well.
My Interest In Rough Sex
The interest in me started through my partner. One day he decided to tie me up just for fun, and started behaving in a more “rough” way. At that moment I realized I really enjoyed it, although I have to confess that at first I felt embarrassed by it.
Why It Turns Me On
Rough sex allows me to unload all stress within in a more intense manner, than “vanilla” sex would and to be able to give control of the situation and my body to a person I completely trust, is probably what I like the most, since that way I can concentrate on obeying and enjoy the experience.
Types Of Rough Sex I Like
Forms that I like the most are those related to bondage, since I play a submissive role, I truly enjoy the Japanese fetish called “Shibari”
I enjoy spanking, hot wax, being tied up with my arms behind my back while being penetrated doggie style, it drives me insane because it is so much fun for me.
Also I truly enjoy public sex in which my partner forces me as part of the fetish fantasy (although it is voluntary on my side), the adrenaline rush of being caught is incredible and immensely exciting.
Tips To Enjoy Rough Sex
1. Do it with someone you completely trust, no strangers ever for real.
2. You have to plan and discuss whatever you’re going to do in advance, especially if you’re newbies at any kind of fetish.
3. Apply the same rules always as you would do any BDSM relationship.
You don’t have to believe the “Christian Grey” model; rough sex has to be safe, intelligent and most of all consensual at all times
4. Manage limits, create limits of all things you’re not ready or ever able to do, and your partner has to understand such limits. ALWAYS Use a “safe word”, this way your partner knows when to stop especially in bondage fetish situations
5. Do not use equipment difficult to use or complicated, ie. use sex toys as dildos, not fruits or vegetables such as a cucumber or banana.
6. Again nothing with strangers, unless you are with someone you trust, if so, then just enjoy the ride!
7. Lastly, respect, respect, respect. Even if your fantasy fools you into believing your partner belongs to you, it doesn’t, and he/she will never be your property.
Try Rough Sex Out Now!
I do recommend rough sex to every girl that is looking for new experiences or are tired of boring “vanilla” sex, even if the typical fetishes available are not their cup of tea; still, do remember to start slow, from the minimal tying up of your hands or arms or putting a bandana over your eyes, until you can advance to rougher styles like ropes or hot wax.
If you follow the rules that I have talked about before, I’m pretty sure you will have nothing to fear and you will enjoy it as much as I do!
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