I personally feel like masturbating is a very spiritual thing. We learn our bodies, we feel a sense of passion and self-love. Masturbation has this sort of, taboo on it. Like bringing yourself to orgasm is something to be ashamed of and it’s not. If you know how your body works, figure out what you like, teach yourself how to make your own fireworks and you will be more comfortable with another person in the mix. Less wondering, more knowing when it comes to getting you off.
My First Masturbation Experience
I don’t remember the exact first time I ever masturbated, but it was around 11 or 12 years old when things started up. There was some curiosity from a jet bathtub, a little hand-over-the-panties action with the doors locked. Lots of fear of being caught with my hands down my pants, as my family grew up under the whole ‘masturbation taboo’.
There is one time that sticks out at me from back in the day. I guess I was ‘practicing’ my riding skills on an oversized teddy bear and my mom’s friend walked in. I froze, he froze. We never spoke of it again. I’m pretty sure he never said anything to my mom, because that was over 10 years ago and it has never been mentioned.
My Favorite Sex Toys
My toy box currently consists of a few toys, my favorite being the classic vibrator. It was the first toy I ever bought myself, purple plastic with five god sent speeds. I still use it to this day, he’s my handy dandy travel buddy, and I can always count on a good orgasm. Masturbating with sex toys can be fun, sometimes more intense.
However, at the end of a long day I just need a quick go to before I crash into bed. I also play with a glass mushroom tip dildo that can be warmed or chilled for different sensations. And I own a set of metal jewel tip plugs, but currently only the smallest one gets used (;
What Turns Me On
I used to joke that I was pretty much a light switch stuck in the ‘on’ position. Well I’ve noticed lately that it isn’t much of a joke. I’m very easily turned on, but just as easy to turn off if I’m not feeling it.
When a man smells good, brushes his fingers on my throat, tattoos, muscles, things that pop up on my twitter feed, a sexy voice, lumberjack beards, coils of rope, zip ties, safe words, thinking about the last time I was choked, watching threesome porn, my friend sending me random messages telling me he wants to fuck my brains out or smack my ass so hard its red, spankings, cooking for me, knowing that a man wants me, this list could go on forever because honestly, something new turns me on every day.
That being said, I only masturbate once or twice a week. I don’t want to burn myself out or get carpal tunnel haha. Not to mention, for stress relief! Let it build up and then go pet your kitty. It feels twice as good if it’s been a few days!
Various Techniques I Use
How do I masturbate? Like a checklist through all the tips? I’m not sure anyone can give one of those. For me, it all depends on where the horny hits me! Sometimes I can’t exactly run off to the restroom and rub one out, but I have brought myself to the brink during a psychology lecture. Sexy professor, dim lights, and the seam on my jeans was rubbing just the right way if I rocked back and forth.
Let’s just say I didn’t learn much in Psych 101. When it comes to home though, I usually search a little porn, get myself worked up, pull out my vibrator and take care of my needs. If it’s taking a little longer than expected, I sit up and grind. You really just need to lock the door, take an hour or so and learn your body. What feels good to you? What makes you quiver? How far can you bring yourself?
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