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Should we have sex before marriage to see if we are sexually compatible?

Darleen Proud
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For today’s questions, we’re delighted to have sex educator Darleen Proud share her answer below.

Should a couple have sex before marriage to see if they are sexually compatible?

Absolutely! No one gets married thinking ‘Hey I’ll give it a go for a year or two and see how I feel’… Why would you go into any long term agreement without knowing what you are getting into?

Sexual compatibility can make or break a relationship. In the old days couples did not have sex before marriage very often, it was forbidden. And surprisingly, very few divorces back then either. But how happy were the ladies? Did many of them enjoy sex? Did they have orgasms? The movie Hysteria suggests orgasms were something they went to the doctor for, to relieve hysteria…sexual frustration!

Sexual compatibility can be tricky, sometimes the tiniest thing can tip a new partner the wrong way… perhaps one of you is a clean freak, and requires both parties to shower before sex. Maybe one of you hates oral sex and the other one loves it. What if you are into anal play and you find out your new partner will not go there? There is an endless list of differences and preferences that can make a massive impact on sexual satisfaction. Life is way too short for average or awful sex for the rest of your life!

So yes, absolutely we should be taking the “try before you buy” approach to sex before marriage.

 

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Darleen Proud

Healthy sexuality education is my passion. How did you learn about sex, how to navigate relationships and intimate sexual situations...? My Name is Darleen Proud these days... for a while I was Darleen Rankin and I was born Darleen Irwin, in Sydney Australia. I grew up in a great family environment, there were no tragedies to speak of and my parents remain happily married to this day. The eldest of 3 kids, I was my parent’s first chance to try out their skills. I think they did a pretty good job! I could not wait to leave school, I finished year 10 and never went back. I have worn many hats in my 40 odd years of life and in work. While I was growing up, I always felt older than my birthdays indicated and my interest in Human Sexuality has been there for as long as I can remember... I have two fantastic daughters, now teenagers, and enjoy the challenge of parenthood, I married an amazing man a couple of years ago, who shares my motto… Life is an Adventure! I have been involved in relationship building in a business sense for many years, and found those skills easily transfer to teaching and helping people with their sexuality. Having completed my Master of Health Science – Sexual Health at the University of Sydney, I have created a blog and I’m working on several books and webinars for all kinds of people to become more informed about a range of sometimes difficult topics. The books and webinars will be fun and informative, working on many facets of life. Your sexuality is only a part of your life balance, but it is an important part. The books and webinars will help you feel better about yourself and your comfort with your sexuality and relationships, and give you a better global understanding of human sexuality. I look forward to sharing those with you. If you would like me to keep you up to date on what is happening in the often taboo world of Human Sexuality, like my Facebook page. It's great to have you hear, I do hope you enjoy reading my blog and my book. Let me know if there is anything in particular you would like me to write about. You can email me through the contact page. Warmly Darleen

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