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  • What It’s Like To Be A Porn Star

    What It’s Like To Be A Porn Star

    I am free about sex and I like that. I do not really have taboos and I love everything about sex. Of course, there are some practices that I like, such as sucking for example. I love it, but I’m never against trying new things. To summarise, I will say that I am open to sex.

    What Inspired Me To Be A Porn Star

    I love sex and I wanted to discover new things and make new experiences. Why not combine the useful with the pleasant?

    Is There A Lot Of Competition?

    Personally I have not been confronted with competition. But I think we have to stand out as much as possible; and it is to have each a little thing.

    Misconceptions About Being A Porn Star

    There are many misconceptions. For example, all actresses are sluts who sleep with anyone etc…But I think we shouldn’t listen to all that. Frustrated people like to judge.

    A Typical Day Of Video Shoots For Me

    For me a typical day on the road, starts with the preparation of contracts and verification of HIV and STD tests. It’s not the funniest time but we have to do it.

    Then I have to choose what to wear and do my make-up.

    We start off by taking photos, soft and hard, and then we can start with the shooting. When it’s over, we have time to talk together.

    Advantages & Disadvantages Of Being A Porn Star

    So the benefits I would say, are all the messages of support and that of supporting my activity.

    As for the disadvantage, I will say are the prejudices.

    Tips For Aspiring Porn Stars

    Do not say yes to everything and especially not to anyone. Only do what we want. In addition today we can broadcast its own content so we do not have to accept everything.

    Cheryl Kitten – Young french porn actress and webcam girl. I make my own videos on ManyVids and Onlyfans.

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  • Canadian Model Danielle Nicole Jeremias

    Canadian Model Danielle Nicole Jeremias

    I’m from a city named Hamilton. I grew up and lived here my whole life, being accustomed to both the city and rural life!

    What is your fashion style like?

    I have many different fashion styles, depending on the day! My favourite style is a mixture of chic and casual. I can also be tomboyish, rocker chic, or sporty! It really depends on my mood and where I’ll be headed for the day!

    Do you have any favorite quotes you like to use in life?

    I have tons of quotes to live by but my all time favourite is “be the change you wish to see in the world” by Mahatma Gandhi. I like to think that we are all authors of our own stories!

    How will you describe a typical day like for yourself?

    Typical days for me are usually uneventful. My weeks consist of working a 9-5 job and doing freelance modelling on the side. I also workout at home 3-5 days a week!

    Are there any hobbies or interests you are into?

    I don’t really have many hobbies other than lifting weights and modelling but I do really enjoy altering my clothes, as well as doing makeup on myself! I would probably also consider watching Netflix as a favourite hobby of mine.

    What have you always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

    My grandmother passed down her favourite sewing machine down to me. I’ve had the machine sitting around for a while because of other priorities. I love hand sewing but I never learned to use the machine so my goal for the end of the year is to learn how to use it!

    If you could have a super power, what will it be?

    If I could have a superpower, it would definitely be to teleport! I can be impatient at times and so the thought of being wherever, whenever, is extremely intriguing!

    What do you not get about guys?

    It’s a broad question but to generally answer it, I don’t get why (most) guys don’t express their feelings enough!

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Danielle. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    My definition of ‘sexy’ is a man with a good sense of style, sense of humour, love for fitness and a soft side. Lucky for me, I have all of these things in my amazing boyfriend!

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    Instagram: ​@daniellenicolejeremias

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  • How To Be A Successful Mature Escort

    How To Be A Successful Mature Escort

    I believe our individual sexuality is a gift, something to be cherished and embraced.  I see sex work as an opportunity for those who want to fully and freely enjoy their sexuality and preferences without the strings of a conventional relationship.

    Whether they are denied that gift through circumstance, repression, opportunity or personal lack of self confidence in the dating world.  The recently divorced male for whom another relationship would be too soon. A widowed gentleman, still in his sexual prime. An executive too busy for the hassle of dating. A handicapped guy who might never find an intimate partner.  The cross dresser who is not allowed to express that side of himself at home. There’s always been a need in society for our services and I see myself as a facilitator to allow my client friend’s intimate desires, fantasies and fetishes to be realized.

    How I Got Into Escorting

    Frankly, an inadequate income in high end commissioned sales. I’d been in the “lifestyle” and a nudist for several years, married and than as a single woman. Highly sexual and comfortable in my sexuality.  By chance, I saw an ad in the Tampa newspaper looking for classy women for upscale lingerie modeling.

    I was offered the “night shift.”  From 6-10ish each evening after my day job. All the daytime spots were filled.  I called and asked, “Would you be interested in a mature woman for the position?”  The reply was absolutely and I wore a beautiful silk suit to the interview. Underneath a low black top, black stockings and gorgeous black stiletto heels.

    The manager of the shop was a stunning young woman.  We discussed my background and she said, “I like your look.  When can you begin?”

    The next Monday was my debut night.  No training in how to work, no idea or opportunity to screen the gent if he came through the outer door.  A dangerous part of the city. On my own, I decided to offer something more upscale. I carted in crystal glasses, Perrier, my own music, candles and an elegant wardrobe.

    My first client that evening resulted in a profit of $100.  When money is tight, that is a big deal. But even more importantly, I absolutely loved what I was doing. I felt I’d found my calling.

    To shorten this, I stayed three weeks, the management thrilled that I was making money for them during the slowest hours.  Jealousy amongst the daytime girls set in and it was time for me to go. Lies were spread. Thankfully, I had met the sales manager of the local adult magazine and he directed me to the world of internet escorting. I did my research and three weeks later, my first ad appeared on Eros. A month later, I resigned from my sales position and the rest of this joyous adventure began.

    What It’s Like Being A Mature Escort

    It’s enjoyable and it’s becoming more and more common.  Some of the top escorts in the world are older women. I get a kick out of being the age I am and being attractive to men of all ages and backgrounds.  I’ve visited all over the US, the UK and Ireland. It’s allowed me opportunities I’d never have experienced in my previous life. And….it keeps ME young.

    Advantages Of Being A Mature Escort

    It’s my observation that we attract a different type of client.  One who appreciates a keen intellect, the social ease one achieves from living life, the sexual experience and comfort with herself, rather than only a perfect body and face. I feel we attract the more thoughtful type of gentleman, no matter his age.

    What Does It Take To Be Successful In This Competitive Industry?

    There’s no doubt it’s highly competitive but I feel the key to success is to be authentically unique and to build your brand upon that uniqueness.  Obviously, you must take good care of yourself and your appearance but be happy about who you are.

    And like any other successful business, offer consistent exemplary service. If you treat your customer like a king, you’ll always be a queen. It costs nothing to be kind. In the end, everyone wants to be treated with respect and kindness.

    Advice For Clients Before Engaging A Mature Escort

    That she most certainly knows her own mind so treat her with respect and read her website before you contact her. Being a gentlemen is the key to a wonderful experience.

    Anneke Van Buren -A little bit older, a whole lot wiser. Ageless beauty, exceptional skills, a warm heart and a lusty soul. One of whom you will say, “How did she know?” Your mature lover, fetish goddess, sensual domina and confidant with no strings.

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    Twitter: https://twitter.com/Annekenordstrum

    Websites:

    www.annekepleasures.nl (escort website)

    www.annekexposed.com (my personal adult film site)

    Instagram: @annekevanburen8357

    Skype: Anneke33548

    Home base; Tampa, FL Albany, NY

    Upcoming tours:

    Albany, NY December 3-7

    Chicago, downtown, December 8-11

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  • LA Actress & Published Model, Abby Ramsay

    LA Actress & Published Model, Abby Ramsay

    I first got into acting when I was very young. My mom put me in church musicals with the hope that I would develop my singing. I did develop my singing, and actually did very well for myself, but to my mother’s dismay, I also developed a love for acting (and became atheist) so the plan backfired a bit. I think it was around middle school that I decided I wanted to pursue it as my future career.

    I think what really solidified my love for acting was just watching movies like Lord of the Rings and Star Wars. I wanted to be able to tell stories and go on these great adventures and I think as I grew up it became a sort of escapism for me. I didn’t want to be me so I became these characters. But that’s not the healthiest thing in the world and I have started balancing the characters with myself. Now it is just a love for the craft that keeps me going.

    Which is your most memorable or unforgettable acting experience so far?

    My most memorable acting experience actually happened when I was in my senior year of high school. It was a play which is ironic because I prefer doing film over plays. It was a Nancy Drew play and I was playing Nancy’s cousin George. I just remember having so much fun playing the part and exploring the character. Plus I loved the costume and my fellow cast members.

    I think I remember it so fondly because I was just having such a good time. Acting without pressure and just giving it my all. There were people who recognized me months later because of that part and It will always stick with me. Nothing beats that feeling.

    Have you ever felt nervous on camera before?

    I always feel a little nervous on camera. There is a lot more pressure acting on camera than on stage in my opinion.  You have to hit your mark, make sure you are doing the exact same thing with your body every time, control your tone, your face, lines are constantly changing. It is a lot to keep track of.

    And then you have to remember to act and make it believable. The higher budget the film the more pressure, but also the easier it is because there are more people to help you keep track of everything. But the result is always worth it.

    How will you describe a typical day like for yourself?

    A typical acting day for me is getting everything packed up, taking care of my dog, attempting to arrive on set early to go over the script at least one more time, and then a lot of waiting between takes. There is so much waiting involved so patience is a must.

    If it is a non acting day, I spend time with my dog and make sure she is happy and comfortable (she is old, blind, and has cancer so she gets a lot of attention) and then there is just life maintenance. Auditioning, self tapes, applying, exercise or yoga or both, and I like to write and sing. I also do modeling to keep myself busy and get out of the house, so I practice posing and research stuff for that. There is a lot of day to day maintenance even on the down days.

    What have you always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

    There is a lot I want to do that I just have not found the tome for. Sometimes it’s little things like wanting to take up horseback riding again, and sometimes it is big things like wanting to travel Europe for a month. But right now, I really want to go to Disney Land. I have been living in LA for four years now and still have not gone.

    If you could change one thing about the world, what will it be?

    There is so much I would love to change about the world, but I think one thing I would really like to change is make it less greedy. I think that it would have a huge effect. Without greed you could probably same the environment, get rid of all our weapons and militaries, end hunger and homelessness, get everyone an education. I think the world would be a better place if it was less greedy.

    Is there something you can’t get enough of in life?

    Something I can not get enough of in life in exploration. I love seeing and experiencing new things in life. Seeing new places and learning about history and experiencing the beauty of the world is such a thrill to me. Travel was one of the reasons I got into acting. Unfortunately a lot of stuff is done in studios now which I think is kind of sad, but I get it.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Abby. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

    Sexy is an interesting word to me. I am openly asexual and have been for some time now, and there is this idea that asexual people can’t be sexy, but I think sexy is an attitude or a state of mind and I try to embrace that.

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  • The Role Of Companionship In Modern Society

    The Role Of Companionship In Modern Society

    Companionship is turning out to be quite the hot button topic in the 21st century. The word has the ability to take on numerous different meanings and implicates a variety of occupations. Escorts are increasingly referring to themselves as companions as this summation accurately embodies our role in modern society. Utilizing new terminology enables us to reclaim and clarify our value in society while also warding off the lingering stigma associated with being a sex worker.

    People are increasingly seeking companionship whether it be in one industry or another to regain a feeling of connection to others in our modernized world. Whether it be for a few hours, an evening, or more and whether it be classified as this, that, or the other. The rise of arrangements, escorts, and other forms of companionship are proof that there is a growing need for access to intimate relationships offering less pressure and commitment than the traditional models.

    It is really up to the consumer to define the companionship they seek based on comfort levels and preference, but they are all essentially the same activity with different labels. Companionship is immensely beneficial for mental health when untaken with the right individuals under the right circumstances. It is definitely in the running for the prize of one of the best forms of self-care available. Escorts are just one way of obtaining companionship while therapists, masseuses, active social circles, cuddle buddies, virtual relationships, and domesticated pets are all others.

    Companionship offers connection, and ultimately it focuses on tapping into love in the world by sharing it with another. When considered from an in-depth philosophical stand-point it makes little sense to stigmatize one form of companionship over another simply due to the nature of the intimacy. The most beautiful part of companionship is that anyone can be a companion. Everyone possesses a fundamental desire to feel connected to the world and be loved by its fellow inhabitants.

    What I Love About Providing Companionship As An Escort

    For me, what makes escorting so enticing will always be the freedom and connection. The freedom to make my own schedule, work with who I please, abide by my own code of conduct, be responsible for my own successes and failures, and of course the freedom the finances provide for me to utilize my free time on other aspirations. Of course, I am very lucky to meet such amazingly intellectual people I would otherwise never get the chance to be face to face with.

    I am also quite addicted to the spontaneity this occupation provides, clients and I share a dirty little hedonistic secret together as it is still taboo in our society which can add to fun. There is a kind of adrenaline rush from not being in an office all day and enjoying life’s intimate pleasures with people finally being their authentic selves. It is infinitely cool to see people finally be themselves because there is no expectation of who they have to be, and they don’t need to impress me. I don’t need any client to be anything apart from respectful. They can be themselves with no added pressure and finally express their genuine desires and personalities.

    It is the epitome of a safe space allowing them to focus mainly on their own enjoyment for once. This results in a re-connection to their authentic selves and feelings of happiness. Escorting presents as one of the realest industries in a world full of fake industries hinting at things and not actually saying what they mean. People are finally themselves which is tremendously refreshing.

    Common Reasons For Seeking Companionship

    To be honest, a lot of clients are married individuals that feel one person cannot fulfill all the love and connection they need in life. Companions offer a supplement to what’s lacking in a way that makes them happier in their relationships at home and in their day-to-day lives. Escorts are simply one version of companionship that allows them to retain their personal identities and meet their individualized needs. It is another form of seeking out a professional to cater to your personal needs. Clients are not individuals seeking out a new relationship.

    Companionship means a feeling of fellowship or friendship. Seeing a companion caters to a fundamental need, being an escort is an extension of being a friend. Intimacy is often the first thing to be deprioritized as it is not essential to someone’s functionality. And yet, intimacy is the source of most of our overall happiness. Intimacy isn’t a requirement of survival so it is often neglected. That intimacy is what can be most effective and beneficial to someone’s mental health because it is the epitome of sharing love and acceptance in the world.

    Companionship is fundamental because feeling a connection to others in life is fundamental. If people just wanted to have intimate fun, they could do that alone. Seeing a companion must then be providing something extra that benefits their mental health.

    What Should One Know Before Being An Escort?

    Being an escort requires a lot of behind the scenes work, it is easily a full-time occupation even for those attempting part-time work. Escorts must be able to mould themselves into whatever sculpture a client needs when they arrive. It entails a lot of resilience, confidence, and time management skills. Be aware that there is a large majority of the population that will not respect your decisions and the laws in place in this industry are not conducive to it being the safest it could be.

    I think the image portrayed of who an escort is is still wildly misunderstood and mischaracterized as a result of their depiction in media and literature over centuries. Anyone can be an escort.

    I really wanted to showcase how many amazing people are in this industry while attempting to shed light on the ways companionship is being inappropriately undertaken in a way that exploits vulnerable or misinformed people. Misinformation about the escorting industry still seems to reign supreme. I couldn’t think of a better way to let the industry speak for itself than to create a podcast to act as a platform for these extraordinary individuals and the people that hire them to share their experiences and what they’ve learnt.

    If you’d like to hear firsthand accounts from escorts and clients in the industry, I would recommend tuning in to hear what they have to say on the podcast. It all starts with a willingness to hear the differing sides of the story from the people actually working in and benefiting from the industry.

    Sienna Hunter – Luxury companion based in Toronto, Canada. I am a slender, athletic, passionate little go-getter in my mid-twenties. I relish being a companion and the endless opportunities and forms of beauty it presents. I am fond of delving a little deeper into the most enjoyable facets of life with whomever needs a little break from the repetition of daily routines.

    Follow Sienna Hunter on

    Personal website: www.siennahunter.com

    Twitter: @SiennaHunterTO

    Instagram: @SiennaHunterTO

    Other Works:

    Podcast called ‘The Escort: Deconstructed” and can be found wherever you listen to podcasts or with the follow links.

    Podcast Website: www.theescortdeconstructed.love

    Twitter: @TheEscort_Pod

    Instagram: @TheEscort_Pod

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  • 7 Top Tips To Create The Perfect Evening For Your Man

    7 Top Tips To Create The Perfect Evening For Your Man

    Last week I received an email from a woman asking for some advice about how to create a special evening for her busy partner to help him escape the pressures of a stressful job and enjoy an intimate encounter. This request got me thinking, most of the content that I create is aimed at how men can please women which is great, but it’s also just as important for women to know how to please men.

    So as I sit here on a train to London to do a photo shoot for a piece that actually relates to this topic, I thought I’d take the opportunity to share my thoughts in a blog piece as others may find it helpful too.

    Here are my 7 top tips for creating an evening of escapism that your man will love.

    1. Set The Scene

    Setting the scene provides the context for the evening. This is about understanding your partner’s desires and thinking about what will really help them to escape with you for a night of sensual passion.

    Are you planning a dinner and a movie night on the couch? Or perhaps you’d prefer to cuddle up in bed and take the rare opportunity to converse? Or maybe an evening of sensual massage, pampering and lovemaking?

    It will be different for everyone but the key is to tailor it to the individual:

    – What would he really enjoy?

    – How will you keep his attention?

    – How can you help him relax and tune out the world?

    – What one thing would he really appreciate?

    Knowing the answer to these questions will make it a lot easier for you to create the perfect evening of relaxation and sensual pleasure.

    2. Tune Out The World

    This can actually be extremely difficult for many couples as our lives are so polluted with the everyday hustle and bustle. This means that most of the time we are actually operating on completely different frequencies so trying to tune in to each other when you’re both still thinking about work deadlines and house chores can be tricky.

    I think the best way to manage this is for you and your partner to identify the possible areas of distraction, make a decision about whether it’s something that is urgent, can be resolved quickly or can wait until the following day. Once these potential distractions have been addressed, you can make the decision to remove them from your mind and not stress about them for the rest of the evening.

    Note: Make a conscious decision to turn off mobiles, laptops and any other time-stealing devices that may intrude on your evening of escapism.

    3. Tune Into Your Man

    A fantastic way to tune in to your man after a long day is to spend some time meditating together for 15 minutes seated on comfortable cushions while facing each other. Place your hands over each other’s heart and focus on deep rhythmic breathing until you are in sync. Doing this while you look deep into his eyes is a powerful way to let him know that you are fully present and he has a warm invitation to connect with you.

    You can also take this opportunity to express to your man how much you appreciate him and why you wanted to make the effort on this special evening. In fact, giving gratitude and letting your partner know how much you appreciate them is a beautiful daily practice to adopt as it can really help to set the tone for the day ahead.

    4. Give A Full Body Tantric Massage

    The secret to giving an amazing Tantric massage is the slow everything down as much as possible and take the time to explore your man’s entire body. You can use oil but sometimes the friction of a dry massage can feel amazing too.

    Set the scene with scented candles and oils, sensual music, towels and anything else that will help him to relax. Ask him to hop in the shower (maybe you can run him a nice warm bath) and then join you on the bed when he’s finished. Ask him to keep his towel on at first as this will give you something to remove later on which is a massive turn on.

    Lay him flat on his stomach then slowly and gently start to rub your hands over his entire body with a feather-light touch. Let him know that this massage is purely for his pleasure and that you are there to please him. Ask where and how he wants to be touched and then tease him a little by moving in close and then pulling back. Repeat this until he starts to moan and pull you in closer. Have fun with him and enjoy exploring his body but let him know that you’re doing it for his pleasure.

    5. Three Hundred Kisses

    Most of us enjoy a warm kiss but taking the time to really embrace your man can be an amazing experience, especially after a lovely massage.

    The ‘Three Hundred Kisses‘ is something that my clients really enjoy and it’s a great way to learn exactly how and where your partner likes to be kissed (you can read more about this here). With your man laying on his back, you can gift him with 300 kisses all over his body, anywhere he chooses.

    Pay particular attention to how he responds when you move in to kiss different parts of his body. Ask him how it feels and where he would like you to kiss next. Tease him as you move in closer and hold off as he anticipates your next kiss. Play around with different types of kisses from soft and sensual to firm, wet and passionate.

    As you get to the last 50 kisses, he’ll probably be extremely aroused and dying to take things further but encourage him to relax and enjoy as there is plenty more pleasure coming his way.

    6. The Gift Of Oral 

    Oral pleasure is, without a doubt, one of the most beautiful and sensual gifts that a man can receive. And taking your time to really learn how to give your man the best oral experience he’s ever had will be something that he won’t forget – trust me.

    To start this wonderful gift, first, place your hands over his penis and gently and slowly massage this area until he is firmly aroused. Rub your hands up and down his inner thigh and then use your fingertips to stroke his penis, especially around the head. Now start to shower his penis with soft gentle kisses all over and be sure to make them wet and juicy – take your time and make sure he’s dying for you to put his penis in your mouth.

    At this stage, slowly start flicking and licking the tip of his penis with your hands firmly holding the shaft. This is where you take complete ownership of his manhood as you will be able to control his entire body at this point. Circle your tongue around the head of his penis and pay attention to how he responds when you lick a certain part. Once you find the sweet spot, learn how to turn his arousal up and down by inserting his penis into your mouth and gently wrapping your tongue around the head and stroking the shaft still held firmly in your hands. From this point onwards it’s very much about exploring but just these few tips alone will leave most men completely at your mercy.

    The secret to giving the best blow job is to make sure that your partner breathes deeply the entire time as you build his arousal. The aim is to bring his arousal to a certain point and keep it there for as long as possible until he literally can’t control himself any longer. When he finally does release, he’ll probably experience something he’s never felt before.

    Don’t be afraid to explore and try not to focus on providing him with a climax. Instead, encourage him to lay back and allow you to do something special for him to show how much you care.

    7. Learn How To Nurture His Arousal

    Ladies, if you want your man to be putty in your hands here’s what you do. When he’s least expecting it, e.g. when he’s having breakfast and about to leave for work in the morning, put on some sexy lingerie, walk up to him without saying a word and drop to your knees. Then pull out his penis and perform oral pleasure for about 10 minutes just like how I described previously.

    Give him exactly what he wants but do not let his arousal rise above a 7 out of 10. You can ask him how close he is to ejaculation if you’re unsure but DO NOT let him release. After 10 minutes, give his penis a warm dry kiss, lovingly place it back in his trousers AND WALK AWAY.

    Repeat this process for a few days and then watch how he responds when he finally gets his hands on you. He’ll likely have been wet and hard many times throughout his day and the mere sight of you in bed wearing your sexy lingerie (or nothing at all) will literally cause him to lose his mind.

    Learn to nurture his arousal (non-ejaculation) and teach him how to keep it with him throughout the day. Remind him to breathe deep, enjoy the feeling and think about you every time his dick gets hard. (I definitely advise men to do the same to their women also).

    There are many ways to please your partner but what I have mentioned above will definitely help your man escape the stresses of the world and embrace the sensual connection that you both share.

    This is an absolutely beautiful gift and he’s sure to remember every moment of it the following day. This is something that I encourage you to do often without a special occasion because it’s important to show our partners how much we care about them.

    This is not so much about sex, it’s about connecting with your partner and tuning out the noise. So relax, have fun and focus on learning exactly how to please your man – I assure you, this will be something that he’s probably never experienced before.

    Featured image from Pexels. Original article republished courtesy of Madison James from

    https://www.themadisonjames.com/single-post/2019/02/11/Top-Tips-To-Create-The-Perfect-Evening-For-Your-Man

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  • Canadian Model, Actress & Entrepreneur Makayla Rogerson

    Canadian Model, Actress & Entrepreneur Makayla Rogerson

    Thank you for this opportunity! I am a teen mom and model from Niagara, Canada. I’ve been modeling for almost four years now, self managed. I have walked international runways and represented Canada in Miss Progress International (a pageant solely based around womens progress), I’ve also competed in supermodel Canada search and have had training with the Toronto Fashion Academy.

    Now I operate my own model and fashion house in Niagara, R House (@rmodelsm). I’m also just in the stages to launch my new project Safe Haven (@safehavenp) a project to bring humanity back into the community of Women and their children whom are children of domestic violence and abuse.

    How did you get started into being a model?

    To start modeling I reached out to a Facebook group, posted that I was interested in modeling. A student from Niagara College contacted me and gave me a shot! From there I continued to post on social media looking to build my portfolio. I was then connected with the local photography studio (That Photography Place) which unfortunately has closed down in recent years, however, I made a lot of connections and continued to network.

    What do you love about being a model and is it a lot harder than it looks?

    My favorite thing about being a model is the fact that I am the canvas of the art that is being created. I love being a part of something positive that people are actually interested and invested in. I also love to travel and meet new people at every job. For myself, modeling is a little harder on me, I suffer from scoliosis and a tear in my left ACL, but I don’t let any of that stop me from getting the shots!

    Which is a memorable or unforgettable event or photoshoot you have done before?

    I’ve had so many of these days starting with SMC and the first time working with TFA, but to top it all was my recent trip to Italy to represent Canada in an international pageant.

    Do you have any quotes or mottos that you always use regularly?

    There are a couple that come to mind. I’ve gone through a lot, although I’m young. I’ve come to realize this, “If you want something done, you’ve got to do it yourself.” It’s hard to depend on people these days, so don’t wait on anyone, especially if it’s in the way of your goal.

    Where have you always wanted to travel to but have yet to find the time for it?

    I would like to go to Greece! Absolutely beautiful architecture and scenery, I like to go sight seeing.

    If you could learn anything, what will it be?

    I would learn how to do my own hair and makeup, I sadly only know the basics.

    What is a lame or funny attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    No one has needed to try to get to know me, it’s easy to just walk up to me and start a conversation. To try to date me, a different story. The best one I can remember is when a high school friend of mine bought me a phone expecting something from it, even though I repeatedly told him that there’s nothing happening between us and to not buy me the phone…he bought it and I got a free gift!

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Makayla. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    For me, being sexy is more than just what you look like. You’ve gotta have a good heart too.

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  • How To Impress A Lady On A Date

    How To Impress A Lady On A Date

    I think of sex, intimacy and a good date experience kind of like a dance! The gentlemen always ask your permission, they likely introduce themselves and dance at your level. Then of course you get the men who are total show offs and really don’t care about your dance level at all, they grind up against you when it’s not wanted and get too close than what your comfort level is.

    There’s dancers that you have a great chemistry with and you get completely swept away. There’s those whom you can dance well with but lack that fire however, you enjoy it just the same because you both share a love for the music and the dance itself. There’s dancers that you feel a constant friction to pull away from or not able to dance as fully, freely or openly as you wish to. There’s some dancers you have that you just can’t wait to be over and then of course there’s some dancers that you just walk away from! There’s dancers you have observed, their mannerisms from afar and politely decline their offer to dance.

    So to bring it back to a good date experience I think it all comes down to respect, consent and connection. And just like in a dance, you both have somewhat of a foundation at the least, a connection can be built with almost anyone! As well as being curious and perhaps even playful! A good date experience will feel almost effortless and mutually enjoyable. You lose track of time for a brief moment, your body feels alive, your mind feels engaged and hopefully you share a few laughs! A good date experience always has me smiling at the end of the date and wishing that I see him again soon!

    First Date Experience

    Gosh I have so much to say about a first date experience…it definitely starts from the beginning upon first correspondence. I love when proper booking protocols are followed and when they read my website/ads/reviews/Twitter feed to get a sense of who Karina Espinosa is. I love when clients engage conversationally, I love when the intimacy flows naturally and when it feels mutual. Never expected, but always appreciated when a client goes out of their way to bring a small gift or drink/food to share or brings you on a social date. It’s so thoughtful and tends to the mood of the date.

    And of course some of my best and most memorable dates are the ones with one, two or even a few orgasms! I’ve had orgasms in ways that I never did in my civvie life before being a part of this industry. The fun part of this job is also exploring my own sexuality, so when connection and comfort levels are built over time, I can sometimes be open to what’s outside my norm, of course ymmv. I consider myself fairly ‘vanilla’ when it comes to sex but with time, builds trust and with the right man, I’ve been known to be open to exploring something more than what I consider ‘vanilla’. And of course I have my hard restrictions that will never change. Good date experiences often turn into several amazing date experiences!

    How Much Do First Impressions Matter?

    First impressions matter the most to me when I feel boundaries are being pushed. When red flags go up for various reasons, if a client did something disrespectful or perhaps we’re just not hitting it off then I will end the date or not see them again. Perhaps I haven’t even met them yet, it’s just through initial contact that I choose not to see them.

    Other than those reasons, I don’t put a huge emphasis on first impressions…when you meet someone in this capacity there can be a lot of nervous feelings, so I don’t tend to judge a first impression unless it’s in the latter. Connections build over time and I absolutely love that! As long as my date is respectful, then I’m happy!

    Expectations For Guys On Dates

    • Be respectful
    • Be on time and don’t go overtime
    • Give the donation at the beginning of the date
    • Be clean and hygienic
    • Be willing to engage in a conversation and mutual sensual play

    Common Mistakes Men Make On Dates

    It’s easier to answer this question as a list because yes there are several common mistakes men can make on a date:

    • Do your research and follow proper booking protocols, don’t just say ‘Hi’ etc.
    • Have the donation ready, don’t make the lady ask for it. To be fair, I think sometimes men are just nervous or mind-blown by the beautiful women they have the privilege of seeing, so a little reminder is needed sometimes, but it’s never preferred.
    • Hygiene, of course! Shower…and actually shower please! Common mistake is to fake shower or not use soap? I’m always freshly groomed and showered before a date and I expect the same.
    • I always tell my dates my restrictions before meeting them, so much appreciated when those limits aren’t pushed or asked for again during the session because no means no!
    • I’m not a clockwatcher but I try to give a time reminder. Being mindful of the time is so important! Also…don’t be late!
    • Fetishes: I get asked all the time if I’m fetish-friendly. Please share what your fetish is because oftentimes what some consider a fetish I just consider being completely affectionate and intimate. If it’s a fetish I don’t cater to, I will let you know.
    • Accept a compliment! On occasion I will compliment my date and sometimes I’m received by comments like ‘yeah right’ etc. It can be hard accepting a compliment, but if I give you one, believe me it’s genuine!

    I’ll leave it there, I think a whole article could be written on this question alone!

    Can There Be Too Much Flirting On A Date?

    I love flirting! I would say I flirt more so with my body by being affectionate, touching and kissing, I absolutely love kissing! I love aspects of both shorter and longer dates. I would say that more flirting happens on longer dates. During a longer date, as we are getting to know each other more I’m usually straddling my date on the couch, playing with their hair, lightly massaging/caressing them, slowing undoing their shirt buttons, maybe moving my hips around on them all the while having a light conversation getting to know one another! It’s like a flirting foreplay and I love that part of the date!

    I also love social dates, whether it be an activity or a meal there’s just so much buildup, sharing food, sipping wine, getting to know more about each other and also thinking about ripping each others clothes off later and exploring each other more intimately! No, I wouldn’t say there could be ‘too much’ flirting, I see it as a type of passionate foreplay that’s happening as soon as the date starts to when it ends.

    Experiencing Awkward & Bad Dates

    Yes, I’ve had many awkward and bad date experiences. I’ve asked dates to leave for various reasons as well as blacklisted others from ever seeing me again. I’ve thankfully never been in any dangerous situations or been harmed in any way physically. I’ve had dates eventually become obsessive to the point where its alarming and they are obviously blacklisted. I also had one crazy stalker, thankfully not a problem anymore. In these situations, I’m so thankful to have a police force that is supportive of sex workers here in Vancouver, at least that’s been my experience so far! Minor awkward and bad date experiences I won’t share as they may come across this article!

    Impress a lady by being one of those exceptional gentlemen kind of dancers and experience the unique and special kind of intimacy that only this industry can bring.  Thank you so much to SimplySxy for asking me to feature on this topic, what a privilege! And thank you to the readers for seeing what I have to say! I quite enjoyed crafting my thoughts for this article!

    Karina Espinosa -Vancouver’s Latina Sweetheart. She is an independent & well-reviewed Companion based in Vancouver, BC.

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  • Model & Photographer Karina Ferrarotto

    Model & Photographer Karina Ferrarotto

    I was born in Venezuela, but I came to Canada when I was just one years old. I speak both Spanish and English fluently. I am a mother to a handsome four almost five year old boy. I am currently going to college, getting a photojournalism diploma, due to my passion for taking pictures and as well as writing.

    I also model. I used to do it a lot more with other photographers, but lately I have been doing a lot more self portraits which I enjoy a lot. Though it can be a lot of work. I am the one shooting the picture from a remote, I am the model, I am the one who does my hair and make up, setting up location and above all bringing whatever idea I have to life. It’s tiring and sometimes I may fail but I love challenging myself and it is fun too!

    (Photo by Karina Ferrarotto/SAIT)

    Where did your inspiration to be a photographer come from?

    I decided to pursue photography after my son was born. I was the crazy mom taking pictures of my son every day. I then realized I really enjoyed capturing moments, and or people’s unique beauty. I love bringing my ideas to life.

    Do you have any basic tips for beginners to take decent or nice portraits?

    Honestly practice. Don’t stop shooting. Look at YouTube videos, follow photographers you like. Get inspired.

    What is a typical day like for yourself?

    A typical day for me is going to school, and then to the gym. I try to rush out of there and head home or to my son’s school to surprise him and pick him up. Afterwards I head home, talk about our day with my son, and soon it’s time for him to go to bed and I just watch Netflix while I edit pictures.

    Usually on the weekends I take at least one hour to take pictures for fun if I am not booked with clients.

    What have you always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

    This is a hard question! There are so many things I want to do, I would love to go travel europe especially greece and just photograph. I want to start a magazine but have yet to decide on what to do it on.

    If you can time travel, what will you like to witness?

    If I could time travel, I know this should be some epic moment in the past but I would love to witness my parents as teens.

    (Photo by Karina Ferrarotto/SAIT)

    Are you more of a morning person or night owl?

    100% night owl.

    What turns you off on a date?

    When they don’t let you talk, and make everything about themselves. Also chewing gum loudly.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Karina. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I believe sexy is confidence. Everyone can be sexy, but not everyone has the confidence to show it.

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  • What To Expect When Engaging A Companion

    What To Expect When Engaging A Companion

    I think companionship is something we as social beings all need. There are different types and levels of companionship and as humans we like to spend time with the people that ‘get’ us, that make us feel happy and comfortable with ourselves and that appreciate and support us.

    Personally, I love meeting new people. Sharing with others and learning different personalities and perspectives is one of the reasons that I choose companionship as my work. I enjoy spending time with people, and I am lucky enough to meet people who are well educated, have done well for themselves and have the time to enjoy some of the better things that life has to offer. They have diverse interests and I enjoy hearing about their lives, stories and engaging with them.

    How Popular Are Companion Requests?

    I would say fairly frequent! I love all the experiences that companionship opens up for me – I’ve traveled to places I wouldn’t have visited otherwise, I’ve gone hiking and trekking and fishing, and engaged in fantastic experiences. Frankly, even when back to the tried and true places, it’s the fact that I am with new people that makes those places new to me.

    I think the one thing I would say I love the most is that it allows me to step out of my comfort zone and do things that are not part of other people’s daily average life. I feel honored, humbled and truly excited by my experiences and it keeps me engaged more wholly.

    Advantages Of Engaging A Companion

    I would say if you are looking for an elevated, professional experience when it comes to sharing time with another person, you should engage a companion. Companions are punctual, well groomed, experienced, detail oriented, fun and outgoing people who love to get to know you! The time that you have together is yours and you can shape and curate that in any way you like. They are looking to craft experiences with you and share in your interests.

    I often see sides to my clients that their friends, family and business partners do not see. I can see who they are honestly, and sometimes, who they would like to be! It comes across in their communication and requests. I had one client who wanted to go for a hike with me since they missed doing that with their grown children. It was a teaching moment for them, and since I had never hiked before, it was a bonding experience for the both of us, and a wonderful learning experience for me. I had so much fun on that hike, learning from a professional and appreciating the time spent engaging in something that brings so much joy to another person.

    What You Should Know Before Engaging A Companion

    I think, like with everything else in life, doing your research and seeing who’s out there that matches you is the best way in which to make sure you’re with the right person. Learn about their personalities from Twitter and their website and understand that they have their own boundaries, as do all people. Communication with them is key to make sure you’re both on the same page.

    Do’s & Don’ts To Follow When Engaging A Companion

    I think a number of problem areas are caused when expectations on both sides are not complied with, or there is a lack of professionalism from either party.

    If people thought about engaging a companion like it was looking for a business partner with whom they would like to engage socially, a lot of questions get resolved. Companions are business people, and there is process and streamlining in place in order to ensure our safety, as well as the safety of our clients.

    I think clients also need to think about the reasons that they are reaching out to a companion. It is not just hooking up or ‘hanging out’, there are tons of dating sites for that. You’re looking for someone professional, well maintained, who will have respect for your time and your requests. If this is the case, acting unprofessionally will not get you the response that you seek from a companion.

    My simple tips are

    • Always respect the companions protocol, as they would respect your requests
    • Please be professional with all administrative dealings
    • Please read the website and feel free to ask questions, we will not bite you, (unless you request it!) but asking for anything above and beyond is at the discretion of the companion, much as you would expect from a business partner!

    Indiya Summer – An elite companion based in NYC. She loves travel, warm weather and meeting new people!

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