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  • Masturbation With Sex Toys

    Masturbation With Sex Toys

    Masturbation is a wonderful experience! It allows any woman or man to get more familiar with their sexuality. I’ve enjoyed intense sensations and orgasms daily. Masturbation has helped with my overall sexual confidence, and how I view sex as a whole.

    Does Using Sex Toys Make The Experience Different?

    Honestly, it depends on the person. Each person’s experience depends on their mindset and the anatomy. For some people, their body’s makeup will not allow them to use certain toys, and some cannot psychologically use toys to achieve an orgasm. Now, with using toys, you can obtain some that use vibration, or have special additions to the makeup of the toy. With fingers, you have more mobility.

    For me, sex with toys allows me to reach areas comfortably and experience stronger orgasms. When I use my fingers, I am able to squirt. This is because I prefer to play with my G-spot with my fingers.

    What I Love To Use

    I love to use Hitachi wands and I enjoy using my lush.

    Should Every Woman Try A Toy?

    Yes, every woman should at some point try masturbating with a toy. You can never know the true feeling of an orgasm with a toy until you use one. A woman doesn’t necessarily need to own a toy for a long period of time, but she does need the exposure to toys. It widens a woman’s plane of pleasure, or lets a woman know what she likes, and what she doesn’t.

    Tips To Buying The Right Toy

    She should go to different bedroom toy parties, ask friends for their opinion, go to a sex professional, or go to a safe space with someone she trusts where she can experience the toys first hand before she commits to buying one.

    Crystal Cooper – Hello! I am Crystal Cooper. I am new to the sex industry and I have well versed myself in different fields. I am a sex coach, content creator, legal courtesan, dancer and new porn actress. I enjoy sex and helping other exploring new avenues of sexuality.

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  • For Men! 9 Steps To Give Your Woman A Mind Blowing Full Body Orgasm

    For Men! 9 Steps To Give Your Woman A Mind Blowing Full Body Orgasm

    You may have heard about the full body Tantric orgasm in the past and you may have even experienced something like it with your woman, but truly learning to master this skill will put you in a league of your own among men.

    Tantra is a sexual Buddhist and Hindu practice that focuses on connecting the mind, body and spirit through sex so we can experience much deeper levels of enjoyment.

    There are many benefits that Tantra brings to the table but here I will give you a detailed step-by-step guide for you to give your woman the best orgasm of her life.

    1. ENCOURAGE HER BREATHE DEEPLY

    The practice of breathing deeply from the pit of your stomach is absolutely essential in Tantra as it stimulates the release of endorphins and nutrients within the body. With your woman laying flat on her back, place your hand on her stomach and ask her to close her eyes and slowly breathe through her mouth into that area of her body. Get her to repeat this process until she is deeply relaxed.

    2. INHALE HER SCENT

    Now move alongside her body and slowly tune in to her rhythm of breathing. She will be able to sense you and feel the warmth as you exhale but avoid her erogenous zones at this stage as we want to build her arousal in layers. Ask her to send her mental focus to where ever she is able to sense you breathing on her body. She is likely to be turned on and distracted so remind her to concentrate and continue breathing through her mouth and into her stomach. Stay close and continue until she yearns for you to touch her.

    3. KISS HER ENTIRE BODY

    Now it’s time to gently kiss her entire body from head to toe with a feather-light touch. Whilst still avoiding the erogenous zones watch how she responds to different types of kisses. Alternate between kissing and taking in her scent, all the while making sure she continues to breathe with her eyes closed.

     4. CARESS HER BODY

    With warm hands, gently begin stroking her body with one finger at a time and pay particular attention to the texture of her skin. Watch her every move and see what areas are the most sensitive. You can combine all three elements of breathing, kissing and stroking her entire body. Ask her to focus her mind on wherever you touch, get her to relax and tune in to the sensation. By now your woman will be super turned on and she’ll be aching for you to touch her erogenous zones so now is the time to turn things up.

    5. TEASE HER

    This type of exploration can easily go on for 20, 30, 40+ minutes without you even touching her most sensitive regions. She’ll be so turned on that she will be dripping wet and begging you to come inside her but it’s important for you to stay focused.

    This is when you position yourself between her legs and move in close enough to her erogenous zones for her to pause with bated breath in anticipation of your touch – but you stop just short of them. Work your way up her inner thighs and across her pelvic bone and long her side, back into the centre of her chest up to her neck. At this point, you may even let out a growl as you hover around her throat like a wild animal about to devour her.

    Lick, bite, kiss, stroke and scratch her entire body, come in super close to her areola (the dark area that surrounds her nipples) back down to her belly button and on to the area just above her clit. She will definitely need reminding to continue with her deep breathing and make sure she is still focusing her mind on whichever part of her body that you touch.

    6. TASTE HER

    Whilst resting between her legs, slowly and gently start to lick around her labia majora (the outside of the vagina lips). Come in close but stay on the outside of her vagina working your way down the thighs and all the way back up to her neck. By this point, she’ll be extremely turned on and pleasantly frustrated, and will really want you inside her but stay focused and keep her on track. The reason why you move back and forth, close and then pull out is to build arousal and anticipation in her mind.

    The full body orgasm is a result of learning how to build intense arousal through a deep sexual connection. Imagine her as a dial that you can turn up and down based on how much you stimulate her.

    But every time you do, turn up the volume a little bit more and then bring her back. Learn the rhythm of her body and practice taking her to the edge where she can feel the thrill of a man who knows exactly how to please her.

    7. ORAL PLEASURE

    With your woman turned on and swaying back and forth with delight and frustration in equal measure, now is the time to taste her erogenous zones but don’t just dive in. Start at her neck and slowly work your way down, and just when she thinks you’re about to move past her breast area, gently wrap your tongue around her nipple and massage it in your mouth for a short period of time.

    Use your tongue and your teeth for different sensations but be gentle as this area is very very sensitive, especially as you would have just spent the last 30-40 minutes or so teasing the life out of her.

    Now slowly work your way down towards her vagina but when you get there, pause for a moment, appreciate the gift of her beautiful body and watch as she waits in anticipation of your next move. When you’re ready, gently start to lick and kiss her labia minora (the inside of the vagina lips).

    Focus on smooth rhythmic motion and pay attention to how she responds. Lick and kiss other areas of her vagina like her clit and her posterior fourchette (lowest part of the entrance to her vagina). Take time to discover what she responds to most and remember to dial it up and down. The aim is to build her arousal steadily over time so it can intensify.

     

    8. STROKE HER

    Your woman will be starting to approach the realm of orgasm but to bring her to this point, you’ll use your fingers. With a single finger, stroke the clitoris in a clockwise and counter-clockwise motion and you can also very gently squeeze it between your thumb and index fingers. The upper left side of the clit is particularly sensitive so pay close attention to how she responds and hold back a bit to build anticipation.

    Now slowly insert the tip of your middle finger into her vagina and gently start to explore paying close attention to how she responds. Use a variation of depth, pressure and pace to increase her arousal.

    With a finger (or two) facing upwards towards the area of her g-spot at the top of her vagina, slowly stroke your fingers back and forth in a beckoning motion. You can also gently use your tongue to stimulate her clit and place downward pressure with your hand on the top of her vaginal area outside in conjunction with your fingers on the inside stroking her g-spot. Imagine trying to place your fingers on the inside of your palm with her clit in the middle and you’ll get the idea. If she has managed to keep her breathing deep and consistent she’ll be feeling the effects of all the blood stimulating the nerve endings throughout her entire body.

    Now is the time to make her orgasm so continue with exactly what you’re doing and encourage her to let go and release whilst she literally breathes orgasmic energy into every part of her body. Don’t speed up or start ramming your finger in like we see in porno movies unless she specifically asks you too. Stay consistent and she should start to feel intense waves of pleasure emanating from her vagina outwards all the way to the tips of her fingers and toes.

    As she climaxes keep hitting the same area that gives her the most pleasure. Encourage her to breathe deeper, let go and truly feel the sensation. This is the part where she really shouldn’t give a fuck about the neighbours, tell her to go wild and embrace.

    The full body orgasm is just as much about what’s going on in her head, as it is about what’s happening between her legs so remember to communicate with her and stay connected. By this stage, your woman is going to be in her own world and she may very well tell you to shut-the-fuck-up but that’s ok too. It’s her show so do whatever makes her happy.

    Note: Many women may take 45 minutes or longer to orgasm so be patient, enjoy pleasuring her and don’t focus on the climax – just let it happen if it happens.

    9. AFTERCARE

    After a mind-bending orgasm like this, don’t just get up and use the bathroom or check your messages on your phone. Spend some time stroking her entire body with your hands in an outward motion from her vagina. Gently massage certain areas and let her feel the strength of your hands as you slowly start to ground her back into reality. This will feel amazing for her and she’ll probably be wondering what the hell just happened because 95% of men would probably have never done anything even close to this.

    SUMMARY

    Now here’s where it really gets interesting because once you learn how to nurture this type of arousal in a woman, you’ll be able to trigger it at will. There’ll come a point when all that’s required to make her wet with heart palpitations is the memory of you whispering in her ear and it won’t make a difference where you are or who’s watching.

    Women are fantastically complex and finely tuned creatures of vivid imagination and keen perception. As men, if we take the time to learn how to unlock these secrets of arousal, we’ll be able to teach them how to embrace the sensations buried deep within, and both be able to enjoy the fruits of passion.

    Peace and Love,

    Madison

    Article images courtesy of Madison James. Featured image form Pexels Original article republished courtesy of Madison James from https://www.themadisonjames.com/single-post/2019/02/07/For-men-9-Steps-To-Give-Your-Woman-A-Mind-Blowing-Full-Body-Orgasm

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  • Entrepreneur & Model Hayden Van Hulzen

    Entrepreneur & Model Hayden Van Hulzen

    Hello SimplySxy, it’s a pleasure to be speaking with you.  My online personal brand is @hayd3nm3rryn and professionally I am Hayden Van Hulzen.  As a marketing professional, I used my own personal alter-ego to develop a brand identity that I could test and execute my own marketing theories, and thus “@hayd3nm3rryn” was created.

    I am from Chicago, Illinois, specifically a town called Gurnee (yes, where Great America is) and I attended DePaul University in Chicago for my undergraduate degree and lived in a high-rise overlooking Wrigley Field. I will always love Chicago but I do consider Scottsdale, Arizona home now.

    How did you get started into modeling?

    When I was very young, I was already quite tall and thin and was involved in a variety of sports and extracurricular activities.  I was approached on several occasions to be involved in different runway shows and catalog shoots.  One of my first modeling gigs was for a dance-wear catalog.

    This was my first paid gig.  Modeling is a lot harder than it looks, but I quickly took to the style of movement while simultaneously posing to enhance the garments or items that I was showcasing.  A great model is truly a chameleon because the intention isn’t to actually outshine whatever you’re marketing, but to actually enhance and add value to it.

    From there I went on to model for agencies like Elite Model Management in Chicago (which evolved into Factor Women) and I walked the runway for a variety of local designers and other notable brands like CHANEL and AKRIS.

    I had a lot of opportunities to continue with my career in modeling, but I was trying to juggle an undergraduate degree and life at the time, and I chose my degree instead.

    I have since continued to do a variety of modeling, acting, and promotional based gigs as I find time in my schedule to enhance and play a role in the marketing flywheel that I have developed for my own personal brand.

    Which is the most challenging modeling shoot you have done so far?

    They all present different challenges but I think some of the most challenging photoshoots are the ones where you truly have to strip (both physically and emotionally) away all of the things that you are attached to as an individual to truly embody the art that is being captured by the photographer.

    Society is so afraid to see itself naked, and I mean this in every possible metaphorical sense.  The norms and mores of society are built off of fear and judgement; there is so little room for anything that embraces true art and the open-mindedness that it requires.  Art is intended to make you feel something and sometimes that can be uncomfortable. It’s through these different lenses that we widen our view, push our own limits, and force ourselves out of our comfort zones.  It is in this moment that we are able to are able to find new ways to look at the world that can be transcendent, revolutionary, and even life-changing.

    Do you have any hobbies or interests?

    I am an entrepreneur, so my hobby is my business.  But, along with this, I am a Mom first and foremost.  I am a friend to an incredible group of powerful women that uplift me on the daily. I spend time traveling (as I am able), attending various sporting events (NFL/NBA), and reveling in the Fashion and Cosmetics industries.

    If you could learn anything in this world, what will it be?

    I don’t want to get existential here but it’s almost impossible not to. Aren’t we all just trying to always find our meaning or purpose?  What is the meaning for our individual existence? We spend our whole lives trying to learn, find, and decide what that is, and we hope on our dying day, to have found that answer for ourselves and to truly be able to leave a legacy behind and rest in peace.

    What is the best compliment you have received?

    “I believe in you.”  This will always be the greatest compliment I have ever received.

    Which flavor best describes you?

    I feel like I’m like Sour Patch kids.  Originated in the 80s, timeless, my exterior is electrifying.  There is some discomfort in trying to take me all in, but you crave it regardless.  The people who are fans of me, well they are die-hards, and the ones that don’t really like me, well they still dabble from time to time.

    Because the sensation of taking me in, it’s flavorful, different, and one of a kind.  But if you can get past that initial layer that is a combination of so many sensations to process, you get to that sweet center that makes battling the plethora of emotions and responses you have initially, worth it.

    What do you not get about the opposite sex?

    I don’t understand why men are so conditioned by society to be afraid of partnership or commitment.  They see it as a shackle instead of a boost.  Too many times they try to control their own humanity when it comes to feelings and they ultimately sabotage their own happiness by feeding into this overly chauvinistic mob-mentality.

    Modern day relationships just don’t develop the same way.  Social media has given us far too much access.  We don’t have the traditional mindset of “if it’s broken, you fix it.” we’ve moved on to “if it’s broken, replace it” or even worse “it still works, but I’d like to try this new one they just released because it’s popular and fun” and the same is true of modern relationships.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Hayden. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy is a state of mind.

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  • Travelling On Extended Dates With Your Favorite Companion

    Travelling On Extended Dates With Your Favorite Companion

    I believe traveling and going on extended dates is gaining in popularity. In my opinion, it seemed as though it was previously restricted to mistresses and sugar babies. However, it appears that the idea of travelling with, or spending long durations with your escort is growing in popularity.

    I’m always reminding clients and civilians that while of course there’s the boundaries within the framework of the client/companion relationship – there’s ultimately no rules in terms of how you can spend your time together. It is in fact, a relationship, albeit an unconventional one.

    When I originally began in this industry, it seemed as if extended duration dates weren’t exactly in demand (or maybe they weren’t for me!)

    Many of my clients didn’t realize that I’d even be open to the idea of spending longer with them, let alone feel ecstatic. I know many providers also feel the same way.

    I think people are beginning to understand that the friendship you can create with your favourite provider is both of yours to design. We can see each other as often, or as infrequent as you want, and for as long as we’re both comfortable.

    Reasons Clients Engage A Travelling Companion

    Travelling can be such an amazing experience. Being a big backpacker myself, I’m often finding myself in serene moments, wishing I had someone to share it with.

    I think that as the relationship between a companion and her client develops, it can turn into this wonderfully fulfilling, mutually enjoyable experience. It truly is a friendship, and often times, at the end of our dates, my clients and I both wish we had longer together.

    Sneaking away for a long weekend, or few days away, allows us to fully let our hair down and unwind from the daily stressors of life. You can be absent from office politics, deadlines, family conflict, and truly be in the moment with her. Think of it as an oasis. There’s something extraordinarily healing when you’re only thought is the way her skin feels under your fingertips.

    Preparation Required For The Client Before The Date

    This depends on whether you’re meeting her for the first time, or she’s already an established friend.

    Some of my best experiences came from a leap of faith, where I flew across the country to spend a few days with a new gentleman. Travelling together on a first date isn’t common, but it does take a lot more preparation on both ends.

    For the gentleman, I’d hope that you’ve done your research, and chosen to reach out to someone who really vibes with you. Does her personality seem introverted or extroverted? Do you like the same hobbies? Spending several days together can be either be the most rewarding, or painful experience – make sure you’re spending time with someone you’ll really get along with.

    Regardless whether it’s a new friend, or someone you’ve known for a while, there’s still quite a bit of communication required before either of you get on a plane.

    How long have you agreed to spend together? When does the time begin? Will you be travelling separately, or together? What is the exact compensation, and how will she receive it? I know it can seem transactional to go over the finer details, however, assumptions and important information left to chance can spoil even the most romantic getaway. Make sure you’re both on the same page.

    Last but not least, consider your companion’s preferences, and work out a system that works for you both. As I mentioned, it is a relationship after all. Is she an early bird, or a night owl? Does she need caffeine before functioning? Is there anything you can prepare ahead of time to make her time with you more comfortable? Gentlemanliness goes a long way.

    Are There Rules?

    Often times, yes! However, every companion is vastly different, as is every client.

    When spending extended time together, I encourage both parties to be upfront about their needs. Does he need to fit in a workout first thing? Does she have a daily yoga practice she’s hoping not to neglect? An hour at night for both to catch up on business?

    Don’t be afraid to design an environment and relationship that makes you both comfortable. I know of several companions who require a little “alone time” here and there to recharge, while I’m generally okay without it.

    Personally, I absolutely must sleep 8+ hours a night, and have tea in the a.m.

    My only rule: “Don’t wake me up!”

    Madison Winter – Madison Winter, Canada’s self-proclaimed ‘girl next door’ is a high-end companion who lives and works out of Toronto, ON.

    She’s left a career in finance to become a provider, and now specializes in long engagements and relationship-based dates. In her spare time, she’s usually collecting passport stamps, or at home with her two dogs jamming out to 80’s rock.

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  • Influencer Lily Tsan From Los Angeles

    Influencer Lily Tsan From Los Angeles

    Hi, I’m Lily! I am born and raised in the City of Angels. I love spontaneous adventures and ice cream. I definitely have the biggest sweet tooth!

    Where do you get your fashion inspiration from?

    I get my fashion inspiration from Instagram or whatever is comfortable and makes me feel good!

    Are there any quotes or mottos you like to use or resonate strongly with you?

    “Become the person you would ideally fall in love with.”

    Which is a memorable travel experience (good or bad) you have had before?

    A memorable travel experience would be seeing the breathtaking views of Kauai in a doorless helicopter.

    What have you always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

    I have always wanted to create a personal recipe book, but haven’t had the time to perfect any recipes yet!

    If you can have a super power, what will it be?

    If I could have a super power, it would be to end all sorts of animal cruelty or to time travel!

    Are you more of a morning person or night owl?

    I am definitely a night owl! The night lights make me feel alive.

    What turns you off on a date?

    A turn off on a date would be someone who doesn’t listen to what you have to say.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Lily. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy is being confident and humble!

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  • Things That Shouldn’t Be Done On A First Date

    Things That Shouldn’t Be Done On A First Date

    Humans are social animals. We need meaningful connections with other humans on a regular basis in order to be healthy, happy, and productive. It’s an unfortunate truth that life can get in the way of staying close with friends from adolescence and it can be really tough, especially for men, to make deep friendships as adults. The result? Loneliness is becoming a real public health problem.

    Dating can help combat that. On a date, you can enjoy great conversation and laughter with someone you wouldn’t have met otherwise. There’s no anxiety over whether the person wants to be there with you, or if they’re judging you. You can see a show, share a meal at a nice restaurant, and just open up to someone who’s happy to listen.

    Physical affection is also necessary for optimal health and happiness, whether that’s a warm hug, movie cuddles, or something steamier.  Dating is a great way to find a consenting, enthusiastic partner, so everyone can win and we can all feel great.

    For partnered people in relationships with a libido imbalance, it can be a good way to take the pressure off of the lower libido partner and help keep both partners happy and satisfied in their stable relationship. I like nutrition – healthy eating is important, but nutritional supplements can help make up any gaps. Extramarital dating can do the same for long term relationships, so that an otherwise great couple doesn’t have to breakup just because of differences in sexual appetite.

    Aside from all the health and happiness benefits, dating is also just a great way to destress, meet cool people you wouldn’t have otherwise, and have a good time!

    How Do Women & Men View First Dates?

    I’ve heard a lot of guy friends say that first dates can feel like interviews. From the moment the date starts, they’re just trying to ‘win her over’ and make a good impression, so that they can secure a second date and, from there, the relationship or intimacy that they desire.

    Girlfriends confirm that – they often say that they’re not really there to have fun on a first date, they’re there to assess the guy. Is he interesting, intelligent, funny, successful, well put together, generous, attractive, in line with their vision for what their boyfriend should be? Does he seem like he’s looking for something serious or just playing the field?

    Instead of playing together as teammates, with the same goal of enjoying each other’s company in mind, men and women are often positioning themselves as opponents – awful as it sounds, sometimes it really seems like they’re painting it as a game of predator-and-prey, rather than a meeting of equals.

    I think that’s such an unfortunate take! It makes the whole thing more stressful than it needs to be, instead of just fun. I love dating as a companion because it gets rid of all of those unnecessary strings, expectations, and barriers that stand in the way of two people just really connecting and having a great time together.

    Have You Been On A Bad Date?

    I’ve been lucky not to have had any bad dates, but I’ve heard other women say that they’ve encountered rudeness and men who were after only one thing, and as much of it as they could possibly pack into their shared time. Everything has its place and I think that, especially on first dates, people should always expect to spend a little time getting to know their date through conversation before beginning a nonverbal conversation.

    Expectations I Have Of My Date

    I expect my date to be freshly showered, always respectful, mindful of good sense safety practices, communicative of both their desires and anything that makes them uncomfortable, and more focused on the comprehensive experience than accomplishing a checklist of tasks. This is true whether my date is a man, a woman, nonbinary, or a couple.

    In return, I am fully present and engaged, enthusiastic, focused on my date, and genuinely committed for the duration of our time together to providing the experience for them that they’re seeking.

    First Date Turn Offs Men Should Never Make

    Hygiene is so important, please always show up freshly showered and with fresh breath. If your date is at 3pm in the afternoon, having brushed your teeth that morning isn’t enough!

    It’s also always really important to be respectful and not pushy. When you’re respectful, kind, and generous, you make your date want to show you a great time. That’s so much better than demanding it, for everyone involved.

    Natalie Hepburn – Multiracial, multilingual, misbehaving Ivy grad. Wanderlusting cutie, sashimi fiend, and cuddly luxury companion in NYC and worldwide.

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  • Canadian Model & Flight Attendant Maryliza Campos

    Canadian Model & Flight Attendant Maryliza Campos

    My name is Maryliza Campos and I live in Toronto, Ontario. I’ve been modeling for two years straight now and all I can say is it’s one of the most beautiful things that happened to me. I also, work full time as a flight attendant in Air Canada express.

    What do you love most about being a model?

    I started modelling two years ago. And I don’t regret anything about it. Because of it I get to gain my confidence and to experience all the fun about modelling. I guess the one thing I really love about it is seeing my work turn out to be more beautiful than I expected, and also how the public people will see me as a different person.

    Which challenges did you face when you started into being one?

    I face so many judgement even when I’m applying to an agency. They judge me before knowing me and that would probably hurt the most. But I don’t ever use it against me, instead, I use it to have the power to stand up and show them they’re wrong.

    Where do you get your fashion inspiration from?

    Since I was a kid, my fashion inspirations came from my favourite cartoon TV series ‘Totally Spice’. There’s always an episode of them wearing cute clothes and that’s when it hit me. I want to try to mix and match when it comes to fashion. But now I look up to Kendall, Hailey, and Naomi for inspiration. I want to be like them in the future. 

    How do you like to spend your free time?

    I’m a full time flight attendant and usually, if they give me a proper day off, I spend my time traveling to other destinations. I always look at that life is short and we shouldn’t waste the beautiful parts of it. Or sometimes, I hang out with my friends to catch up.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    Lately, I’ve been working with a few clothing companies and they’re the ones who keep showering me with beautiful comments about my work and because of it, they don’t know how much they helped me to boost more of my confidence. And probably the best compliment I have received is when they always tell me, ‘you don’t have to put so much effort, all your pictures always comes up nicely’

    If you meet anyone past or present, who will it be?

    If I would want to meet someone from the past, that would be my grandfather. He always gave us wisdom advice about life and I think that’s what we need in life. And for the present, I would like to meet my long time idol in life and that would be the people who inspire me to open my heart to fashion.

    What is the worse pickup line or attempt you have experienced?

    People who try to give me pick up lines or attempt to do it, I never in my entire life discriminate it. I always find it cute and appreciate the effort of making me happy through the day.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Maryliza. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I define sexy in many forms, and everyone has its own way to show it. And for me I define sexy as sweet and painful.

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    Email: lizalaureta@outlook.com

    Upcoming projects: Follow BlushNglam for their next collection I’ll be the face of it.

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  • What It’s Like Being In An Open Relationship

    What It’s Like Being In An Open Relationship

    My relationship towards sex has evolved over the years, and I fully expect it to change in years to come! With every positive sexual interaction I’ve had, I’ve realized more and more that sex (for me) is about connection in all forms, and someone’s personal reason for seeking connection is not for anyone else to judge.

    Sex can meet your need for love and caring and affection, but it can also be utilized to process grief and anger, to fight loneliness, or to discover, accept, and even love parts of yourself that you can’t indulge in anywhere else. It can be furious, healing, ridiculous, relaxing, whatever is true and authentic for you and your partner(s) in the moment, it’s all valid.

    At this point in my life, having sex is most often a celebration of how deeply I can enjoy myself and others, and I’m grateful for the opportunities to do so!

    Why Non-Monogamy Appeals To Me

    Most importantly, consensual non-monogamy allows for the flexibility to ask for what you want and need from your partner(s), and for your boundaries to adjust with you as you all change and grow. I’ve never been a person who makes choices based on what is most widely accepted, but rather based off of what I want, and what aligns with my own internal moral compass; so the option to curate relationships in a way that feels right to me is essential!

    Open relationships also require you to have confidence in your own inherent value, to be in tune with your emotions, and to keep your communication with your partner(s) open and honest. These skills are incredibly important to me in any relationship, and dating in a non-monogamous way has helped me develop them for myself as well.

    I also choose consensual non-monogamy as a feminist statement. When I am not sexually bound to only one person, it is undeniably clear that I belong to no one. I am a fiercely independent person, and the only person that I want to have ownership over my sexuality is me.

    And yes, open relationships are a lot more work, but they are also a hell of a lot more fun! As someone whose hedonistic side roars quite strongly, it’s essential to me that I be allowed the freedom to follow my impulses when I think it’s safe and appropriate to do so. It’s also fun to reconnect with your partner(s) after a sexy escapade with someone else… sharing some special details can keep the spark in a primary relationship burning brightly, and at the very least it’s almost guaranteed to make you feel grateful to be able to come home to someone who knows and loves you after an exhausting night out.

    Is There A Stigma About Open Relationships?

    Absolutely, there are a ton of biases and misconceptions that people have. Some of the more common negative misunderstandings are:

    – People in open relationships are afraid of commitment

    – Real, trusting, romantic relationships can’t exist without monogamy

    – People in open relationships are wildly promiscuous/hypersexual

    – Open relationships require no boundaries

    – Non-monogamy is inherently immoral or dangerous

    – Having an open relationship increases the likelihood that your partner will leave you

    There are also plenty of people who are open to consensual non-monogamy, but perhaps have misplaced expectations about what that will look like, including:

    – Having an open relationship will fix all issues with my current partner

    – Engaging in non-monogamous dating means that I don’t need to have accountability to my partner(s)

    – I will now always be in competition with other people for my partner’s attention

    Rules In Open Relationships

    The best part about being in an open relationship is that the rules are what you make them! No two non-monogamous relationships are exactly alike, because there is no reinforced, socially accepted structure that everyone is expected to follow. What I usually require is that everyone involved communicates honestly about their needs, comfort levels, and personal boundaries… but I think that would be beneficial in any relationship, monogamous or not.

    Trust in a relationship is built by not only honoring the boundaries that all parties have agreed to, but also being upfront and speaking your mind (in a caring and respectful way) if you’d like those boundaries to change BEFORE acting on any desires.

    Tips For Couples To Explore Open Relationships

    In my personal experience, there must be a base of mutual trust, care, communication, and respect in your relationship before you start including other people in it. If you and your partner are comfortable being vulnerable with each other, asking each other for reassurance, and validating each other’s experiences and emotions, you have a lot of the tools you’ll need to navigate consensual non-monogamy!

    It’s also important to know that, especially at first, choosing to try an open relationship will most likely feel uncomfortable. This does NOT mean that non-monogamy is not for you! Changing up the familiar and stepping outside of your comfort zone is always going to feel weird, probably even painful. It’s up to you to decide how much discomfort you want to try and work through.

    It’s helpful to be extra caring, attentive, and affectionate with your partner during moments of discomfort, and it’s ok to ask for that care in return! Knowing that you and your partner have each other’s best interests at heart, and that you both value the bond you’ve created together, will ease the transitions in your dynamic.

    I would also recommend that if you’re considering opening up your relationship, you not only think about what it will feel like for you to connect with other people, but what it will feel like when your partner does the same. It’s easy to get swept up in the (admittedly hot) fantasies about all the adventures you’re going to have, and forget that you may feel very differently about it when your partner wants to have those same adventures. Don’t create boundaries based only off of your own desires, but also off of how much freedom you feel you can offer your partner without resentment.

    Victoria Lindelle – Victoria is a warm, playful, and elegant provider offering otherworldly companionship in Los Angeles. A life-long lover of sensuality and affection, she strives to always cultivate authentic connections, and to enjoy the best cheese and chocolates life has to offer.

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  • Lauren Burch, YouTuber & Model From Ontario, Canada

    Lauren Burch, YouTuber & Model From Ontario, Canada

    My name is Lauren Burch, and I am an 18 year old model and YouTuber. I have a twin sister named Julia Burch, and I danced competitively for six years growing up. I was born and raised in Ontario, Canada. However it is my dream to move to Los Angeles, California as soon as possible.

    Where did your inspiration to be a model come from?

    My inspiration to become a model definitely came from my twin sister, Julia Burch. She got into the industry a few months before I did, and after awhile, I became interested in pursuing the same kind of work as she was. It was definitely one of the best decisions I have ever made.

    What is your most fun or memorable modeling experience so far?

    My most memorable modelling experience was definitely both times I travelled to Los Angeles, California to shoot with my agent. LA is definitely my favourite place to be, so being able to model there was the best.

    If you could improve one thing about the modeling industry, what will it be?

    The modelling industry has come a long way when it comes to accepting all body types into the industry, however it still has a long way to go. Before I began modelling, I was still interested in that type of work. However, I always thought that I was too short to be a model. Luckily I was able to model despite my height. But I definitely hope that the modelling industry continues to become more open about accepting any and all body types.

    How do you like to spend your free time?

    I definitely love to spend my time either hanging out with friends, partying, and just being outside. Although I am very shy, I love to be out and doing things. I am a very active person and I love to be out and have fun!

    What have you always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

    I really want to start going to the gym more. I am already really proud of my body, but I would love to go to the gym more, just to tone my body a little bit more, and because working out is very good for mental health. I have a gym membership, but I just need to find some time to actually go!

    Would you rather be able to mind read or teleport?

    Definitely teleport. Just because reading someone’s mind would be really interesting, but it could have some negative outcomes from it as well. Such as hearing someone’s negative thoughts about you. But being able to teleport would be amazing because travel would be free, easy, and you would never have to buy a car or board a plane. Just lots of travel!

    What is a funny or awkward attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    There are too many to count hahah. But there was this one guy who offered me $2000 in cash just to go on a date with him. I said no lol.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Lauren. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

    I think that “sexy” is completely relative to the person. It is impossible to define a word that changes per person. For example, some person might find slim thick sexy, whereas another person may specifically only enjoy tall slim girls. So I think that any body can be sexy. Everyone is beautiful in their own way, and anyone can be sexy.

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    Instagram: @laurenxburch

    Website: https://lauren–burch.com/member-gallery/

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  • Indonesian Model & Entrepreneur Devina Ruby

    Indonesian Model & Entrepreneur Devina Ruby

    My full name is Devina Ayu Dayang Ruby, I’m 21 years old and will be 22 on 21st October. I’m from Indonesia.

    What is your fashion style like?

    I honestly wear anything that seems comfy on me, cause I thought that it’s pointless to wear everything that makes me look stylish if I’m not really going to enjoy wearing it. I sometimes can’t put a smile on my face if it happens. Oh! I really love a wardrobe that fits my body.

    Which items in your wardrobe are your favorite?

    A top that fits my body and shows my collar bones (haha).

    Do you have any hobbies?

    My hobbies are to collect achievements as many as I can. Because I realize that time flies, so the best thing to do is not to waste your time. And reaching my achievements, is the best way (for me) to make good use of my time.

    Is there something you’ve always wanted to do or learn but haven’t had the time?

    Learning how to bake a cake and decorating it, seriously. I really want to do it, but yeah I have no time.

    Which movie did you watch recently and was it good?

    JOKER! It was perfeeectt because I really love movies that have a great cinematography, not only the story that they bring. The Joker movie is perfeeecttt

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    Hmmm, I’m not really sure though. but there’s one time when a guy asked for information about me…TO MY BOYFRIEND that time, but I think that he didn’t know he was my boyfriend hahaha LOL.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Devina. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy for me is when a woman can do anything on her own without relying on others (especially to men).

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    Instagram: ​@devinayd

    Twitter: @devinayuday

    Current Works: @dev.scrap

    Images from Devina Ruby

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