If you really want to know Bella, experience Bella, then you really need to read her new book; More Than Just Sex, it’s a window into her heart and soul.
In an industry where we are encouraged to hide who we are; to pretend to be someone we’re not when we are with you, Bella’s new book More Than Just Sex gives you a rare glimpse into her journey as a personable companion.
Come experience her uninterrupted mind and ride along with her as she leads you through the journey of becoming the professional and beautiful Bella Petite that you know and love.
Excerpt
I straighten my 45kg petite frame, adjust my large F cup breasts,
check my black silk and lace thigh-high stockings, run the zipper up along the side of my size 6 crushed red velvet mini dress, and buckle the straps of my matte black stilettos.
Now standing in front of the full-size dress mirror and am hit with my jaw dropping distraction upon looking. “Good god, I look beautiful.” I confidently walk through the dented wooden door frame and into a room of warmth, luxury, sophistication, and men! Lots of men.
It wasn’t just kiwi dollar bills and stiff white sheets unfolding that day, it was the beginning of layers and layers of deep psychological penetration being unraveled like a neatly tied bow.
As my mind was gently being pulled over and over and over again, eventually the truth about what prostitutes really do came hard and fast to the surface of my thoughts and exploded all over my socially blackened mind.
I’ve got to tell you, that was one hell of a relief when it did.
Bella Petite – I’m a deep thinker and often find myself-looking at the big picture. I enthusiastically believe in raising the bar. My desire is for you, the client, to confidently know without hesitation you are employing my services with the same level of trust, quality and professional etiquette and accountability you would expect from any other highly successful business.
Hi, my name is Evelyn, but I’m recognised as Lynn by people. I am originally from Indonesia. I have a lot of work, including cosplayer, model, brand ambassador to Team E-Sports, influencer as well. I love every work I do. Yes, managing time is hard, but I enjoy it.
What do you love about being a cosplayer?
I can be another, separate character from my true self. I can learn how to makeup, use cute costumes, and imagine to be that character is such a fun story! You can bring the character alive, particularly! When you see smiles from fans or kids, to connect with people I’ve never met as that character was so lovely.
Is there a common misconception about cosplayers you still hear of?
I heard from my cosplayer friends that people still think that cosplayer is the same with being a clown, so they can underpat us as much as they want.
Or sometimes, older people will see us cosplayers as freaks, sadly. But gladly, that never happened to me. I hope people will have more respect for cosplayers.
If you could be a cartoon character for real, who will you choose to be?
I want to be Rapunzel! She was my role model and inspiration. I mean, every little girl surely had a dream to be a princess, right? She’s bright, kind, curious, and brave!
Where do you love to shop from?
I love online shopping! For cosplay stuff, I have a friend who usually makes her own costumes so I just order through her. But for daily stuff, I shop from online shopping apps like Shopee, Tokopedia or Lazada.
What type of music are you into?
I am more like a Pop-girl! Any song that is fun to hear, actually…
On a scale of 1-10, how much of a party animal are you?
I’m kinda shy, I usually only hang out with close friends. But I can be crazy in front of them. Haha.. So, 2 for partying with strangers, 10 for partying with my best friends!!
What is a funny or awkward attempt a guy has tried to know you?
Maybe it will be funny because of my easy-going personality. But I’m kinda slow, I often catch the wrong signals…..
Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Evelyn. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
Sexy is not only seen from appearance, but also from the thought and attractiveness of a person. Nowadays, smart is the new sexy. So be smart, be brave, be confident, and most of all, love yourself .
What comes to mind when you think about the term “Interracial Sex”? By textbook, it means sex between people of different races but while I might be wrong, I think a lot of you would agree with me that when we think of interracial sex, we generally think about sex between a black man and a white woman or a black man and a white man, whatever you’re into. Now why is that? Why does that thought come to our head so instantaneously, so easily? Are we programmed to think that way or has media and the internet programmed US to think that way? So in a way, we programmed ourselves.
My name is Damian Anya, a 28 year old mixed Nigerian-English living in London and throughout my childhood I grew up believing sex and/or marriage should be between people of the same race (All thanks to my strict African household and my strict VERY stereotypical African grandparents enforcing that custom upon us). My fellow African brothers and sisters will know exactly what I am talking about. But all that changed when I started high school. I lost my virginity at 14 to a white girl who was a senior at my school and I had just started school as a freshman. That in itself is a story. But that’s when I fell in love with the concept and ART of interracial sex. While that doesn’t mean I don’t have sex with women from my own race, it just means that sex between a black man and a white woman just seems so natural and fluid (for lack of a better word).
I’ve been bigger than my peers my whole life, in height, shape and maybe even dick size who knows? (Not like I went and checked my mates dicks to confirm this innit). I am currently 6”4 95 kgs (210 lbs for y’all Americans) and not to brag but built like I live at the gym. I mean I kind of do given that I am a personal trainer. This has been a huge plus for me in terms of sexual relationships or relationships in general especially with white girls. It feels like they’re drawn towards you even harder like a magnet when you’re my shape and size. And thankfully I am blessed in other areas too so that’s also a plus. Although, the looks I get at the gym are sometimes a little too bold, you’re not gonna see me complaining. But hey, sometimes your boy just wanna be able to wear comfortable gray sweats to the gym without y’all staring like you saw an alien you feel me?
So all that combined, I’ve always thought that I was built for white girls and they’re built for me. Because with black girls, they’re more or less used to this because on average, black men are generally built bigger than white men (hey, its just statistics) and black girls are used to THAT. But with white girls, it’s different. They are not used to your size and/or your style and I might be wrong here but they do anticipate it which makes the sex even better cause you know damn well when you slide her panties to the side she already gonna be dripping from all that imagination. The mind is a powerful thing isn’t it.
The Perceptions Of Interracial Sex
I think the perceptions about interracial sex is mixed, to say the least. Because on one hand you have people who LOVE interracial sex and on the other you have people who literally barf at the thought of it, as it is with many other things. Because generally, emphasis on the word GENERALLY, sex is confined within people of the same sex. And some people can’t even fathom the thought of something different. I have known girls who got shunned from their family just because they had sex with someone from a different race, girls who lost friends and got humiliated because of it. I believe this is especially prevalent in the black and white community and there are so many reasons why. And men and women are thus scared to explore outside their own race thinking about the potential backlash but the most important reason might be because I think these two races have always been thought of as opposites. But hey, opposites attract, so suck it racist dads.
Now on the other hand, you have people who LIVE for interracial sex and can’t think of anything else. I think the disapproval of it contributes to this because as humans we are generally draw to forbidden things. (Hello, Adam and the apple?) I know white girls who only fuck black guys and vice versa and nothing else gets them going. Some like it because they see it as being progressive in society and some like it because they can’t have it (I am looking at you straight demasculinized white boys). So the views towards interracial sex is very mixed.
Now the appeal behind it, the most mentionable one would be the contrast. Many people find the contrast of black skin on white skin sexy and love the idea of a black dick pounding a white girl’s pink pussy.
It’s aesthetics but also science. And then there’s the analogy that black men are being the most masculine men and white girls are the most feminine women and thus, sex between them is natural and fluid. And science backs it up.There have been numerous studies conducted and results showed that on average, black men had more strength and stamina in and out of bed and they were also the most fertile. And females (straight ones) resort to the most alpha men in the society and thus, that analogy kind of makes sense. Other than that, modern media and porn definitely contributes to the appeal of interracial sex.
Stigmas/Taboos Associated With Interracial Sex
If I start talking about all the stigmas and taboos associated with interracial sex, this would be a PHD Thesis paper. So I am gonna talk about the ones which I have had experience with. With the rise of high quality porn and companies getting into the interracial sector along with rising statistics of a black man’s gifts, the stigma and taboo around black men are on the rise like Apple’s stocks in February. With porn now showcasing huge black dicks with tiny white chicks and it being available for more or less free on the internet, the thought that black guys are bigger is now more prevalent than ever. And with so many white girls tuning in to it and going “Black Only”, labeling themselves as a Snowbunny and Queen of Spades, it’s raising the curiosity of many other girls regardless of race.
I can’t tell you how many times I have been with a girl, especially white girls who have told me how much they’re into BBC (Big Black Cock) and how they cannot get turned on by anything else and how being with a black man is better than a white man etc etc. And while all this is VERY VERY good news for a well endowed blessed black man such as myself, it is simply not the case for many of my brothers. People forget that the average dick size is well, average and it applies to all races. Not all black guys are well endowed and not all black guys fuck like pornstars and this is putting a huge mental and even physical pressure on my fellow brothers to be something they are not.
Because, now when a girl goes to have sex with a black man, in the back of her mind she’s thinking, “Oh he’s black so he is going to be huge and fuck me good” but that simply isn’t the case with all the black men out there. And while it is a big number, not all black men are born with BBC and not all of them fuck like Blacked or BlackedRaw stars in bed. Another taboo worth mentioned is cuckolding, being a hotwife, whatever you call it. I don’t understand why but some men, especially white dudes LOVE to watch their pretty girlfriends and wives get drilled by hung black men like yours truly and frankly, while it can seem somewhat controversial for many, I am all for it. I am a pussy addict so the more the merrier, you won’t see me complaining.
But what I don’t support is the fetishizing and objectification of black men. Black men are seen as a sex symbol so much right now that many girls refer to them as sexual toys and objects and I know many white girls who even go to the point where they start using the N word to refer to you just because it’s their fetish. That is modern racism at it’s finest and that sort of mentality needs to stop. There is also this thing called “Black breeding”. It’s the fetish of being impregnated by a black man just to bear a black child as a statement and that in my opinion is on a whole another level of fucked up. I mean if you want a mixed baby it’s all good and perfectly normal, they’re cute as fuck but to get creampied by black men as a statement is weird to many, to say the least.
Also, the phrase “Once you go black you never go back” is widely misinterpreted. It’s not always that the girl doesn’t want to explore other races, it’s that men of those other races won’t accept them back just because they’ve been with a black man. And many girls to this day are scared about being with a black guy just because of that social disapproval and stigma.
The Popularity Of Interracial Porn
Interracial porn is HUGE (No pun intended) right now more than ever. With the rise of high quality interracial porn channels such as Blacked, there’s literally a whole archive of interracial porn on the internet and according to statistics, people are loving it. I believe I saw “Big Black Cock” and “Interracial” being one of the top searches of Pornhub. Social media contributes to it as well. With influencers and celebrities such as the Kylie Jenner, Kim Kardashian, Kendall Jenner, Niykee Heaton openly and strictly only into black guys, it’s influencing young white girls to follow in their paths.
The proof is the latest TikTok trend where white girls go on about how much they love black guys (fetishizing). These are literally teenage white girls already into black men (No wonder white dudes are so racist towards us LOL) There are whole Twitter and Instagram pages dedicated to showcasing pretty white girls with black men (notoriously run by white boys??) which just goes to show the support and fetish behind it. I believe Niykee Heaton even said in one of her infamous tweet that she can’t even think of sex with a white guy.
Photo: @Niykee/Twitter
And it’s not just her. Many pornstars have openly declared on Twitter that sex with a black man is better than sex with a white man and for some, it has taken a toll on their porn career. If you go on Twitter and search hastags such as #irmovement #bbcslut #queenofspades #snowbunny you will get an array of accounts dedicated to that statement and an array of verified “Goddesses” humiliating fragile small penis white boys by comparing them to a “Big black cock”. That in itself is a whole segment of Small Penis Humiliation and Domination. If you don’t know what those are, you’re probably a little too young.
I have had DMs from white guys confessing about how they cannot get hard without thinking about a black dick beside the girl they are looking at and how whenever they see a PAWG (Phat Ass White Girl) they can’t help but think about a BBC. It’s the insecurity that we can give those girls something they never can and they succumb to it. I know many girls who make bank monetizing this insecurity and making these guys pay for literally everything. It’s getting so mainstream you can sometime see it in public. I believe recently there was a viral video of a white woman withdrawing money from an ATM with a leashed white man on his knees beside her. You bet it was his card and he was paying WILLINGLY just because it gets him aroused. Interracial porn has gotten so embedded in these guys minds that its’ all they can think about. That’s the level of popularity and intensity that IR porn has reached. And many women are fed up with such insecurity.
Even in my personal life, I have been with SO many white girls who have told me how much they despise sex with white men and how they cannot fuck or how much they love black men and how they are never going back to fucking white men etc. Stuff like that always leaves me wondering like, “Damn what are all these white boys doing so wrong for so many of their women to be fed up like this”. And then I receive pathetic DMs from white dudes offering to pay me to fuck their girls and begging me to humiliate them and shit and I’m like, “Oh now I see why”. I think the popularity of interracial porn along with dominatrix and snowbunnies taking advantage of that popularity to monetize the masculinity of white men have impacted them so hard that they’ve turned into full on sissies. And this popularity is not stopping here. With society easing up about racial matters and being more open to interracial relationships and marriages, interracial porn’s popularity will go up by a LOT in the coming years.
Final Thoughts On Interracial Sex
I am all for interracial sex and I think it’s a necessary step to break the chain of social stigmas surrounding black and white relationships or interracial relationships in general. I am proud to be black and proud to be bold. Many girls are now realizing what they are missing out on and curious about interracial sex. And it’s not just the size and the aesthetics about a black dick going in and out of a pink pussy but also how us black men fuck. We have our own style and confidence and I think that hits different especially with white girls. I personally am proud of myself on being a giver. I love to make a girl cum. I legit make it my mission to make her cum when I’m with her and prioritize her orgasm over mine.
And I love to tease as well so that contributes to my VERY positive results. And I think a lot of my brothers think the same way too. We fuck with passion and with intent. If you’re wondering what the fuck I am talking about, go watch an interracial scene and a regular vanilla scene and compare the moans, passion and rhythm. That, paired with an above average dick has definitely made us black men into sex symbols. So much so that I have had girls I fuck BEG me to cum inside them and give them my kids just because they want this experience for the rest of their life.
But while I can be proud myself of having a dick in the double figures, not all of my brothers can say the same. And thus, while I absolutely support interracial sex, I absolutely do not support the fetishization of black men and think some light needs to be shed on that.
Damian Anya – An exhibitionist mixed Nigerian-English. Financial Analyst by day, personal trainer by night. Shedding light onto things unspoken.
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Cosplay gives me happiness and I can’t explain every time I give life to the character that I like. I also love giving happiness to the people who admire the characters I cosplayed.
I’m able to express my feelings, show case my creativity, and be passionate about all of it.
Which characters have you enjoyed cosplaying most?
I enjoyed every character that I’ve cosplayed especially when the character relates to my attitude and demonstrates some kind moral lessons.
How much effort and time does it take for you to prepare for a character typically?
I am quite meticulous about my cosplay and I’ve always tried to achieve the best cosplay for the character. Sometimes it takes me six months or more to prepare and the most rushed cosplay will take one month.
If you could have a superpower, what will you choose to have?
I think I would like to have the superpower of being able to cure any illness/disease. Especially in the current situation, everyone is battling the novel coronavirus and still doing their best to create a vaccine to stop this pandemic.
Do you have any other hobbies?
Aside from cosplay, my hobbies are baking, archery, playing online games, taking care of stray cats, drawing, watching anime and flower gardening.
These are the things that make me happy and relaxed when I’m alone.
On a scale of 1-10, how much of a party animal are you?
I guess around 7, I like to party only with close friends and hang out with them once in awhile.
What is a lame or awkward attempt a guy has tried to know you?
I received a message on Facebook from a random guy saying that he was waiting outside my house and that he brought gifts for me. I felt awkward and surprised that he knew where I lived. I saw him waiting outside and I immediately called my friend to talk to him. Everything was okay and the guy left.
Please don’t try anything like this, it’s not cool.
Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Miho. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
Sexy for me is self care and being confident and never caring about what other people think about you because only you can understand who you are and what makes you happy. So just keep going and love yourself.
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Based on the steamy real-life experience of Juliet Adelaide, author of The Mrs Sexy Chronicles, this exclusive first-hand account of her exploration of sexual freedom and insight into the life of a hotwife will leave you begging for more.
Chapter 5 Teaser – It’s Not For Everyone
I tell them a few stories about the fun times that I had with Mark . He was only 31 when we met and was pretty much a deadbeat. He worked a low paying job, was an alcoholic who was always broke, he shared an apartment with a friend when he was lucky enough to afford rent and didn’t have to stay at his mother’s house (which had happened). There was something between us though. He was tall and handsome, he made me laugh, and when he looked me in the eyes or kissed me, it just felt amazing. We were passionate about one another, I suppose at dangerous levels.
We would fight more frequently than my husband and I ever did. We would break up and get back together several times. I would get jealous of him with other women even though I was married and seeing other men. He would act like he didn’t get jealous and then get annoyed with me if I didn’t say I loved him too when he would say it to me. We had very little in common. When we were together though and things were good, it was amazing. I felt young and sexy with him. He was proud to have me around and he made me feel special.
I tell them how Scott asked me a few months after I had started seeing Mark if I loved Mark . I denied it but knew that I did. I admit to the ladies that this is one of the few times I had ever lied to Scott. I thought that it would only hurt him and didn’t really see the point. I knew that Scott knew that Mark meant a lot to me, however we labeled it. I did eventually admit it after several more months and a couple more break ups. I knew that my relationship with Mark was hurting Scott, yet I continued. Scott even said to me once, “you know, you weren’t supposed to fall in love with another man.” That one hurt, I tell the gals. I was in too deep though and didn’t want to lose either one. I was in love with two men and that gets complicated.
Juliet Adelaide has a Bachelor’s degree in Humanities and Culture from Arizona State University. She started dating her husband at the age of 17 and they were monogamous for 25 years. They are a devoted couple who only recently opened their marriage to new sexual experiences allowing Juliet to become a hotwife.
“mrs Sexy” is the witty, erotic and true story of her experiences with this new polyamorous lifestyle. Juliet, (aka Mrs Sexy), takes you through the most personal moments of her romantic and sexual adventures.
Hello! Who am I? Geek, teacher, collector, cosplayer and a girl ^_^. I live in Russia.
When did you get into cosplay and how long have you been cosplaying for?
I started cosplaying when I was ten years old. My first full cosplay was Misa Amane from “Death Note”. I was so proud of my first attempt ^_^
But now I want to upgrade it :))))
Are there any challenges about cosplaying that you face?
My challenge is to be better than before. Upgrade non-stop!
Which comic or anime character will you like to be if given the chance?
The most dangerous girl Lina Inverse (from “Slayers”) or CC (Code Geass). I like the characters of both girls despite the fact that they are sooooooo different!
Would you rather have the ability to stop time or move objects?
I suppose the more abilities you have, the more powerful you are. But there is only one ability which I don’t want to have – telepathy! I do not want to read people’s minds and know their thoughts……. Like Mao from Code Geass.
How is a typical day like for you?
Online work in the morning then walking/shopping/sport lessons and work in the evening.
Is there any superstition you believe in?
I do not know… Maybe only one.. Look in the mirror and smile when you come back home…
What turns you off on a date?
When a person is rude and his clothes are dirty.
Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Marina. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
To be sexy is to show your best sides and not to be vulgar.
In my opinion, it is not so much about the city (of Frankfurt) but rather about what you want to do and what you want to experience. It is a special pleasure to have a date set up and created by an escort. In Frankfurt, there are many museums, the opera, theater and different exhibitions, great restaurants and of course a lot of nice hotels. It is much nicer to enjoy your time with a good companion than spending it alone.
For example, there is one restaurant which offers a so called Geisha room where which there is just one table inside. You can enjoy your dinner there and the waiter will ring a bell before coming in…During the dinner you are all alone and nobody can watch what you doing between the courses…
Why I’m A Perfect Companion To Be With!
I like nature as well as culture because I see both as essential parts of a beautiful whole. Therefore, in my life, I want to admire the cultural achievements of humanity as well as explore the great nature of this earth. I enjoy to live in the city but I have around 40 plants to bring some wildlife into my apartment. Since I am a high energy person, I am very much into sports, especially pole dance and yoga. I do always feel my appetite so I try every vegan dish I come across.
I’m interested in many different kinds of art so I enjoy a lot when I go to art exhibitions. I’ve got a little fetish for wellness, especially for sauna or hot baths to detox the body, calm down the mind and take some me-time to read a lot of books. Dates with me are based on the honest and caring relationship I want to build up. Being a companion means to me, creating a secure framework in which people are allowed to experience themselves in a new way – in conversations as well as in intimate relationships.
Best Duration To Enjoy Frankfurt Together
I love overnight dates the most because you have enough time to get to know each other while having dinner so you can create a chemistry and explore the intimate bonding afterwards. You can cuddle and fall asleep together and I just love to wake up and have erotic and intimate activities in the morning. Morning sex is the best way to wake up…. Moreover, the breakfast tastes much better after a little work out.
What You Have To Prepare Before Our Meetup
First of all, read my profile because there are already a lot of information about myself. Contact me and tell me your expectations and provide me some information about yourself.
Time is precious and that’s why it’s important to spend time with people whose lives I can enrich and mine as well. It is important to me to meet each person with an open mind and treat everyone with the respect he deserves. A man is attractive to me when he is aware of himself and acts reflected about himself and towards his environment. What I do not like is when people feel superior just because of their status, fortune, or career and see other people as less worthy or degrading.
One Must Rule To Follow
Respect me and I’ll respect you!
Irina Le Fey – I am a cute, high energy, open minded girl from Germany. I love hiking in the wild nature and dating to explore human culture. Meet me as your little island to escape the ocean of daily life.
I’m a full-time model, actor, and influencer living in Manhattan, New York City. I grew up in Wales and England and was formerly a journalist — I was an editor at BuzzFeed for 4 years and covered books and culture. Before that, I worked in digital marketing for book publishers like Penguin Random House and HarperCollins.
I graduated early from NYU at the end of 2014, and attended Choate Rosemary Hall for prep school — I studied web programming, creative writing, and psychology, none of which I really use anymore today (beyond occasionally coding troll Twitter bots). For fun, I’m an avid long-distance runner, pie baker, classically trained pianist, and cat mom to @potatobengal. I also produce and write arrangements of songs in 3-4 part harmony, and am currently working on releasing original music as well.
Was being a model and actor something you’ve always wanted to do growing up?
It wasn’t a career path I considered because I didn’t see many Asian models and actors. I’ve always enjoyed writing and reading so I wanted to pursue poetry and screenwriting in childhood. I was the poetry editor for NYU’s literary magazine for a couple of years before I graduated, and I also edited my prep school’s lit mag.
I never considered poetry as a viable career as most writing isn’t lucrative, but it’s still fun. I actually had thought about working in tech because I enjoyed coding websites from a young age and because it runs in the family (both of my parents have computer engineering PhDs), but ultimately decided it wasn’t for me.
How do you keep up to date with all the latest fashion styles and trends?
I’m old-school, I still read magazines. I’ll turn to VOGUE, for example, to help spark new inspiration for editorial shoots sometimes. Instagram and other digital sites are easy to browse through too, and I also enjoy looking at the wardrobe choices in TV series or films I like.
What is your proudest achievement so far?
Last October I ran a half marathon race for the first time as part of a sponsorship with ASICS. I was on the cross-country running team in school but hadn’t done any races longer than 10K for a few years. The 13.1 miles really pushed me physically. I trained for about 10 weeks, and finished the race in 2 hours, 10 minutes, and 49 seconds.
Do you have a strict beauty or exercise regime that you follow?
I love skincare and stick to the same products once I find something that works for me. My exercise routine tends to be more fluid — I focus on strength training and weightlifting, but I like mixing it up too.
Photo: Kenneth Morton
If you could collaborate with anyone past or present, who will it be?
Sandra Oh is one of my favorite actors and I’d love to be able to work with her someday.
Photo: Kenneth Morton
Do you have any other hobbies or interests?
I enjoy playing classical piano, baking pies, cooking in general, long-distance running, and taking care of my bengal cat Potato (he has his own Instagram @potatobengal). My other passions include karaoke, graphic design, video games (I used to stream Fortnite), coding Twitter bots, and playing the ukulele very badly. I’ve also begun dabbling more in photography lately. I’m currently focusing on writing and releasing more music on Spotify.
Modcloth Louis Seigal SQ
What is a funny attempt a guy has tried to know you?
Someone once tried to slide into the DMs of my cat’s Instagram account, which is even more silly because I post photos of my boyfriend on that account all the time!
The Set NYC Steampunk Ball, New Year’s Eve, Pimcomedy Dec. 31, 2018
Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Jarry. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
There’s nothing sexier than self-confidence. Loving and accepting who you are makes you beautiful inside and out — and it shows.
There is always going to exist porn consumers. Sex is a basic need, and porn is basic relief for that desire. So there is always going to be a porn industry. Even when thousands of scenes have already been released for free, we can always look for a new kinky or sexy idea that makes the customer buy your video.
Also, I think that a porn director must always remember that porn is aimed to excite people and make them masturbate. Some creative directors just forget this basic principle.
How Big Is The Porn Industry Exactly?
The porn industry is very big nowadays and all kind of genres are available. We must keep in mind that most of the people have their own desires, and not just for the typical beautiful model.
What Is Reality Porn?
Reality porn includes two basic points:
Hot models that could be your neighbor. People nowadays are not getting horny anymore with some unnatural models, or even with too perfect models that they don’t see on their lives. People dream about fucking their friend, their shop girl, their classmate, or even the mother of their friends.
A kinky or pervert script that it is supposed to be real. As most of the people don’t get horny as easy as they did in the past with the first porn movies. They don’t find it exciting if a sex worker is faking their orgasms, or fucking just for money. People want to believe that the situation is real and the girl is very horny, and the performers are living a brave adventure. Also, people like to think that they can be the performers of the scene, unlike some kind of professional porn only reserved for handsome stallions.
All these features make reality porn an attractive thing for consumers.
What Goes On In Creating A Reality Porn Movie
A good reality scene takes more time than people think. It is what I call a “professional amateur”. As the final result must have a fresh and “easy going” style and simulate that it was improvisation and just happened with no preparation.
But the fact is that the preparation is conscientious. First of all we must find the right model, in most cases I am lucky and I find a new face so I can show her like a girl from the street instead of a professional model (Fortunately lots of girls write me all the time asking for shootings or for accomplishing sexual fantasies). Secondly, I must create a cool script that makes some sense and it is not already used. It must be a pervert (or even exhibitionist) situation that adds value to the girl and makes the customer PAY FOR THIS SCENE INSTEAD OF ANOTHER with a similar model. In some cases, the girl already comes with a fantasy, or accepts to be challenged to do something brave.
And third… We have to shoot it real. It means that we have two options: in some cases everything is real and we must capture it on camera without spoiling it. In other cases there comes the most difficult and talented director’s work to get an acting scene that doesn’t look like it’s acting. I mean… Paradoxically, sometimes the “reality” porn is the most strict, as in any other kind of porn which allows some bad acting, but in reality porn everything must be REAL. We want the customer to be happy and enjoy an exciting sexual fantasy.
How I See Reality Porn Evolving
The only thing I am sure about the evolution of porn is that it will happen. People just get tired of one thing and need new stimulus. The old things become new again for example. We as producers need to be creative and smart to see what is starting to work and what is starting to be deprecated.
My name is David El Moreno, and I am a freelance porn producer since 2010, based in Spain. Shooting around 12 scenes per month. I have new models every week and can shoot in 5 languages. My specialty is both reality porn and parodies. I started as performer back in 2005.
Hello! Thank you so much for this interview! I’m 21 years old and I’m an Italian professional model, singer and actress.
I started modeling when I was six years old and from 2015, I’m produced by MMG Trend Production. I realized many shootings in almost all over the world. I have four songs available on all Digital Stores and YouTube.
Was singing something that you always had an interest in since you were a child?
Yes, I always sing since I was really young, Italian and foreign songs, in particular with my grandma.
What do you find most challenging about being a singer?
I think the hardest thing is to have the constancy to practice every day with the right exercises, and you will never stop to learn.
Then for a very shy person like me, every time before going on stage it’s really difficult and I get anxiety. Then as soon as you get on stage, everything changes and it’s the most exciting experience you can have.
Are there any mottos and quotes you like to use regularly?
“Let’s go!”, “Never give up!”
With my songs I always try to explain to my followers that you must never give up. Dreams must be chased with head held high, always. With determination and commitment, dreams can come true.
If you had the opportunity to learn anything in this world, what will it be?
I think the ability to speak all the languages of the world. I love to study new languages, even the very difficult ones because it would be nice to be able to communicate with everyone.
On a scale of 1-10, how much of an adventurer are you?
10! I love adventure! I have made exciting and adventurous journeys during my life and the most beautiful was in America. With a motorhome we ventured from Los Angeles to Chicago. I saw and explored deserts, cities and pristine spaces.
How do you like to spend your free time?
I like to draw, riding horses, shopping and staying with my family.
What turns you off on a date?
Disrespect. I think that respect is essential for any form of relationship.
Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Greta. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
Being sexy for me means having the ability to be sensual, elegance and attractive without ever falling into the vulgar.