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  • Virectin Reviews: Is Virectin An Ultimate Male Enhancement Supplement?

    Virectin Reviews: Is Virectin An Ultimate Male Enhancement Supplement?

    Sexual performance is a major source of confidence and it justifies your role as an alpha male. That’s why low libido, erectile dysfunction, and other problems also have a negative influence on a man’s self-esteem. To improve their sex life, men often use supplements that promise miraculous results in a natural fashion. Virectin is one of these products and we bring you some practical reasons why to consider trying it.

    Relationship problems and sexual performance

    Different factors contribute to your sexual performance and relationship is one of them. A growing body of evidence confirms that relationship conflict can cause, maintain, and influence therapeutic outcome of sexual problems, especially in cases when the physical cause is missing. Unresolved problems in a relationship affect overall sexual satisfaction, decrease libido, and contribute to erectile dysfunction. On the other hand, resolving relationship issues also helps manage sexual dysfunctions.

    It’s not uncommon for couples to avoid discussing their problems and avoid any kind of confrontation. This impairs relationship dynamic and it also influences your sex life. Besides unresolved issues in the relationship, couples can also have problems regarding frequency of sexual intercourse, role divisions, positions, and other sex-related factors. The key to a healthy relationship is to feel free to communicate and discuss all problems, regardless of their natural (sexual or non-sexual). Men who want to improve sexual performance can also exercise regularly, modify their diet, and try out male enhancement products like Virectin.

    What is Virectin?

    Virectin is a male enhancement supplement specifically created to address low testosterone and different sexual dysfunctions that men experience. The product was formulated by a brand called Gentopia Laboratories. The company’s mission is to produce the most effective scientifically advanced nutritional supplements. The brand uses the most technologically advanced methods to develop consistent products that include powerful substances and ingredients that have been used for medicinal purposes throughout the history.

    Why is Virectin such a great choice for you?

    Okay, I know what Virectin is, but why should I try this product? Reasons to try this supplement are numerous, including three listed below:

    • Natural formula ‑ what makes Virectin stand out from other male enhancement product is 100% natural list of ingredients. Unlike many other products on the market, this one doesn’t feature hidden and potentially harmful compounds. This also explains why Virectin, unlike other items you can find, has never had any problems with FDA and was never recalled.
    • Ease of use ‑ the most inconvenient characteristic of Viagra and other similar products is that you have to take them prior to the sexual intercourse. This so not sexy, and you already know it, plus there’s always a risk of forgetting to take the pill. Virectin is taken daily (see below) and you don’t have to worry about taking the pill when you’re in bed with your loved one. Also, there’s no awkward waiting for the pill to kick in.
    • Special offers ‑ compared to other products on the market, Virectin has an affordable price. That’s not all, the manufacturer also arranged various special offers that allow you to purchase multiple bottles and save some money in your wallet.

    How Virectin works?

    The supplement uses natural ingredients to exhibit its male enhancing effects. Virectin works to improve blood flow throughout your body, particularly to the genital area. Why does it matter? It matters because blood flow is essential for arousal and strong erections. The supplement helps promote optimal blood flow due to the nicotinic acid, an essential component for the production of red blood cells.

    In addition to improved blood circulation, Virectin also increases testosterone levels in order to combat problems such as low libido, erectile disorders, and an overall decline in sexual function. It is important to mention the product doesn’t contain a synthetic version of testosterone but works to promote the natural production of this hormone. Users who posted their Virectin reviews claim the product increased their arousal, improved erections, and it also helped them train better in the gym.

    Key ingredients

    Virectin poses as one of the most powerful products of this type on the market and it owes this status to a potent formula. As mentioned above, the product contains natural ingredients and one of them is tribulus terrestris, found in many male enhancement supplements.

    Tribulus terrestris is an annual plant originating in Mediterranean area where it was used for medicinal purposes throughout the history. The plant was used mainly to treat different sexual dysfunctions and studies confirm it can boost your libido and testosterone levels. One study found that supplementation with tribulus increased anaerobic and alactic muscular power and total blood testosterone levels in young men. In addition, the BMC Surgery journal published a research which discovered that tribulus supplementation increased libido and testosterone in older men.

    Another important ingredient in Virectin is maca root, a plant native to high Andes of Peru. Just like tribulus, this plant is also a common ingredient in testosterone boosters and male enhancement products due to tremendous libido-boosting potential. A study from the CNS Neuroscience and Therapeutics found that supplementation with maca root boosts libido and alleviates sexual dysfunction associated with the use of antidepressants. In addition, maca intake increases the frequency of sexual activity.

    Besides tribulus and maca, Virectin also contains other important ingredients such as:

    • Avena sativa (wild oats) ‑ enhances sexual desire, improves overall sexual function
    • Zinc ‑ essential for testosterone production
    • Tongkat ali ‑ boosts sex drive and energy levels
    • Mucuna pruriens ‑ increases testosterone, libido, and sexual satisfaction
    • Fenugreek ‑ libido-boosting effects
    • Horny goat weed ‑ increases testosterone levels

    How to use Virectin?

    Getting the maximum out of Virectin requires adherence to the recommended dosage. Ideally, you should take three capsules on an empty stomach. The manufacturer advises you should start with recommended daily dose and tweak it based on your experience, but avoid exceeding taking three capsules in one day.

    Are there any side effects?

    Virectin is perfectly safe for daily use, no side effects have been reported. What’s more, users who take the product every day confirm they didn’t experience any adverse effect either. It is the natural formula of Virectin that makes this product safe to use. That being said, if you’re taking medications or you have some health condition, you should consult your doctor before buying this (or any other) product.

    User reviews on other sites

    In order to determine whether you’ll purchase some product or not, the first thing you do is to look for user reviews. When most people like the product it makes you feel more confident, but bad reviews induce the opposite effect. Men who have tried Virectin have only nice things to say about the product. Here are some, of many, user reviews about this product:

    “Lots of male enhancement products promise the moon but don’t deliver. This stuff works! It’s reliable (when taken daily) and actually does everything the manufacturer claims it does. Great product and I buy it regularly!” ‑ The Traveler

    “I was skeptical when ordering, but this stuff really does work. I will continue using it. I recommend the product.” ‑ Paul S.

    “My sexual stamina improved substantially after started taking Virectin. I have also experienced a decrease in sleep interruptions due to BPH. I highly recommend giving this product a try.” ‑ Bill Anton

    Final verdict

    Virectin won’t help you overcome relationship problems with your significant other, that’s something you have to do on your own, but it can enhance your sexual prowess. The product uses natural ingredients to improve blood flow, increase testosterone levels, and boost energy for optimal performance between the sheets.

    References

    https://www.virectin.com/

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11894797

    https://www.consumerhealthdigest.com/male-sexual-health/erectile-dysfunction.html

    https://www.performanceinsiders.com/low-testosterone.html

    https://www.virectin.com/the-company.html

    https://www.healthnewsjournal.com/virectin-reviews.html

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/20095389/

    https://www.performanceinsiders.com/best-testosterone-boosters.html

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23173697/

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18801111

    Ben Arnold – Ben Arnold is a freelance writer and a health and beauty adviser. He has been giving beauty and fitness advice to thousands of people all around the globe. Through his advanced studies, he has gain enormous experience in nutrition and healthy diet. His articles have a source on personal and practical experience. Apart from health, he likes reading books and listening music in free time. You can follow him on Facebook, Google +, Twitter, StumbleUpon and Pinterest

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  • How To Have A Great Threesome Experience

    How To Have A Great Threesome Experience

    I’m very open minded about sex, as long as it’s consensual and enjoyable for all involved. Sex should be in the moment. I love everything about it, the smell on your body afterwards, the passion, taste and feel. As long as you engage a women’s mind, then it will be fantastic, after all the mind is the biggest sexual organ. I have experienced and crossed off most items off my sexual bucket list but now as a sex worker, I’m privileged to help my clients fulfill fantasies and experience things on their sexual bucket list. I’m bisexual, I’m lucky to play with women and couples all the time with many coming back for more, making fantasies a reality, is my favourite type of playdate.

    How My Interest In Threesomes Developed

    I’ve always been attracted to females and obsessed with girl on girl action after watching my first porno at the age of 19 and newly married. Later on in my marriage, we tried to find a female to join us, without much luck. On a night out and being a little drunk, I agreed to experience my first threesome and we decided to visit a Melbourne brothel, The Boardroom. It was so good and I wanted more, so we went back not long after to experience it again. This time, it was amazing because the female SW who joined us was hot, with curves and natural big tits and brunette. I felt that she was basically into me and afterwards I fell hard in lust.

    We tried on adult sites to find a unicorn (single female) to join us without luck and so with encouragement from my husband, we decided to try a MFM threesome, which was so much easier to achieve. Our first experience was on my birthday and we arranged two encounters for the evening. It was mind blowing and left me in an euphoric state the next few days definitely wanting more.

    The Appeal Of Threesomes

    The allure is that you see in porn and it looks good, it turns you on and it becomes something you must try. People act on it when they find a like minded partner that is open minded to the idea and willing to explore.

    I love group sex, I’m actually a swinger so I enjoy having multiple partners to please and being pleased by more than one partner too. Also love being able to fulfill a fantasy and when I join a couple, I see myself as a sex toy, and when I leave you’re left to relive the experience together in that euphoric state. I’m a pleaser and bringing joy is the best part of my job.

    First Time Threesome Tips

    Threesomes are fantastic but you need the right person to experience it with. I’ve had good, okay and bad experiences, and it does come down being with the right partner to experience it with. Having an open mind, knowing what your boundaries are as a couple is important, also viewing the act in the moment and not overanalysing or overthinking it later. If you’re not both on the same page going into a threesome, then it may end badly with someone getting jealous and it could be the end of the relationship. That’s something I’ve experienced as a couple and it inevitably contributed to the end of my marriage.

    Communication is the key, so make sure you have open discussions about what would turn you on to see, if you would be comfortable seeing your partner fucking/kissing/sucking someone else, and be honest with your partner. A threesome can actually bring you closer, give you a newer level of intimacy but only if you have open communication about your wants, desires, do’s and don’t right from the start. Once you have these boundaries and understanding, make sure you let the other person joining know exactly what these are, so on the day it’s an amazing experience for all involved.

    Rules To Follow

    The rules are really the boundaries that you may have in place as a couple, make sure you are considerate of your partner and stick to these boundaries in the moment. Also having a safe word that you agreed on that you can let your partner know when you’re not comfortable with what’s happening is a good idea too.  Other than that, just try to be in the moment, enjoy it for what it is.

    Miss Kellie Blair – Miss Kellie Blair is one of a kind. This is one sexy escort that comes with a warning. Highly addictive and you will be easily hooked.

    Returning as Miss September 2016 in the hugely popular Penthouse Black Label calendar, she made her first appearance in 2015 alongside features in their last September, October and November issues, and will be featured in the Aug/Sept 2016 issue about to be available for sale.

    An independent private escort for men and women, Kellie is genuinely bisexual and prides herself as being one of the top escorts specialising in servicing couples. This impeccable reputation is guaranteed with a loyal fan base of lovers all over the country and over forty-five glowing reviews since she entered the industry in January 2012.

    Follow Miss Kellie Blair on:

    Website: https://kellieblair.com
    Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/Misskellieblair

    Email: sbella896@gmail.com

    Upcoming Tours:

    Sydney 5th until 9th Dec

    Canberra 10th & 11th Dec

    Brisbane: 5th -8th January

    Perth: 15th -19th January

    Images courtesy of Miss Kellie Blair

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  • Japanese Model Reiko McNish Sato

    Japanese Model Reiko McNish Sato

    Hi Reiko thank you for taking the time to answer our questions on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    I’m from Tokyo Japan, raised in Canada. Currently back in Tokyo and am a model and Uni student.

    When did you get started into modeling?

    After I came back to Japan, at the age of 18.

    If you can change one thing about the modeling industry, what will it be?

    Modelling industry in Japan is different I’d say. But hmm, I don’t think I have any desire of changing them.

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a foodie are you?

    10 for sure! As much as I love to workout, I love to eat 😉 Currently opened my new Instagram account for healthy cooking @reikomcdish, working on it for the recipe book publishing!

    What is your proudest achievement so far?

    I first started off my modelling career as being featured on TV commercials, fashion magazines and ads etc.. But on my 3rd year of workout routine (started fitness at 17), I started getting offers as a fitness model.  Sponsored by Puma two years in a row now and modelled for several other fitness events and brands. “Hard work always pays off when you do enough” is what I learned from this experience.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    Rather than being called cute or pretty, I like to be called smart or beautiful. Doesn’t it make you feel like they’re looking inside you not only for your outside looks? I appreciate every single comment on Instagram though, as much as they are my motivation, I try to comment back to every single one of them and am not planning on changing that 🙂

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    When foreign guys try to send me a love message in Japanese but makes no sense. LOL annoying and too much is never sexy, guys.

    It is a pleasure to feature you Reiko. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Meanings of such complimentary terms differ based on people’s perspectives and fetish I guess, but ‘sexy’ is definitely what I’m aiming to become; beautiful inside out, fit rather than skinny, and an independent lady. Rather than cute or pretty, sexy sounds more mature.

    Follow the pretty Reiko McNish Sato on:

    Instagram: http://instagram.com/reikoofficial
    Instagram: http://instagram.com/reikomcdish
    Twitter: http://twitter.com/reikoofficial
    Upcoming Works: I am graduating next march, and that month, I will be launching a clothing brand. Can’t tell you any details yet but the concept is just SO HOT and new! I’ll be doing and international shipping within the first year so go follow my instagram to be updated 😉

    Images courtesy of Reiko McNish Sato

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  • What It Means To Being A Switch

    What It Means To Being A Switch

    Kink and alternative lifestyles are arenas for exploration of life and sexuality. In my opinion, being into kink can add renewed excitement and lust for life. It is thrilling to discover the many ways we can play with the body and mind with everything from costumes to riding crops to psychological manipulation.

    After fifty shades of grey, kink seems to have moved from the fringes of society into average Joe’s bedroom, a development I feel ambivalent towards. On one hand, I am happy to see more people introduced to the delights of kink. On the other hand, I am mildly concerned that people who are not really into kink might feel pressured into doing it because everyone else is or it’s cool at the moment. I believe kink is best when motivated by personal desire with matching, consenting partner(s).

    Whats It’s Like To Be A Switch

    As a switch, I feel empowered and liberated both by giving up control and by taking on full control. In everyday life, I feel more flexible, and able to have a deeper understanding of power dynamics.

    The idea of releasing control and exploring the intersection of pleasure and pain always appealed to me. I tend to be more on the submissive side in my personal sex life, and get extremely turned on by being spanked, slapped, tied up, having my hair pulled and so on. I love having someone take charge and bend me into different positions and fuck me hard. Since I am a pretty bossy lady, it can be liberating not to think about what to do, but instead, just being in the moment with a partner who directs the show.

    After leaning more towards the submissive side for years, I started playing with being dominant and discovered the pleasure and excitement in having someone give up control to me. The thrill of designing an experience in which you take your partner to his edge (and beyond) is an amazing high. I now love being dominant, in particular in sex work, because I enjoy providing the space for a client to explore the sides of himself that he does not get to act out in his ordinary life. Since I know firsthand what the sub experience is like, I feel I can more easily provide this for clients and lovers.

    Preference For Being Dominant Or Submissive

    I usually prefer to be submissive in my personal life and dominant at work. For me, being a submissive requires a large amount of trust, something that builds up within time, and therefore I tend to save my submissive side for private encounters or client relationships where trust has been built. As a dominatrix, I love designing experiences for my clients based on their submissive desires.

    Kink Activities I Love

    I love spanking, both giving and receiving. I enjoy the different types of delicious pain inflicted by a hand, a paddle, riding crop, and flogger. A flogger is probably my favorite.

    As a sub, besides spanking, I love being flipped into different positions, getting tied up or held down, as well as using a blindfold, getting my hair pulled, nipples pinched hard, and light slapping.

    As a domme, besides the spanking, I enjoy taking control and putting my partner into different positions for me to physically take charge, pin him down, and fuck him with a strap on. Other things I enjoy as a domme is using a collar and leash, nipple torture, slave training, cock and ball torture and ball busting.

    Anal play, strap on, foot fetish and trampling are some of the requests I get the most these days.

    Characteristics Of A Good Sub

    A good sub gets turned on by the idea of giving up control to their partner. A good sub is in it voluntarily for his or her own pleasure, not to please a partner. He or she is open-minded, willing and able to suspend control, obedient, and eager to explore their sexuality.  A good sub is also clear about their boundaries, and soft and hard limits, so the domme knows what to avoid and where to tread with caution.

    Tips To Be A Switch

    I would not say it is easy being a switch, since it involves knowing oneself deeply and the ability to perform a complete role reversal. However, it gives me so many options and has most certainly added color and excitement to my life.

    If someone is keen to become a switch, I suggest they do their research and find what turns them on by the idea of being a submissive, and by being a dominant. Then, I recommend experimenting with a partner they completely trust, or hire a professional to explore with in a safe environment.

    Nina Nyx – Nina Nyx is a Sydney based Scandinavian escort, masseuse, and dominatrix. Nina is an all-natural, curvy blonde, deeply passionate about traveling, writing, massage, alternative rock, yoga, dancing, and sexploration.

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    Website: www.ninanyx.com
    Twitter: https://twitter.com/ninanyxxx

    New session: For the man and/or woman curious of exploring being a switch, I am now offering switch sessions.

    Images courtesy of Nina Nyx

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  • Indonesian Blogger & Beauty Influencer Bella Amanda

    Indonesian Blogger & Beauty Influencer Bella Amanda

    Hi Bella it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hi ,Thank you for giving me a chance for the interview. I’m Bella Amanda but mostly people know me as Amanda Torquise (My Social Media Account name). I am Beauty Influencer, fashion enthusiasm, and a Blogger who love travelling and being photograph. I’m mixed Chinese, Japanese and Indonesia. I grew up in Indonesia but for 1 semester I went to South Korea for student exchange.

    What is your proudest achievement so far?

    The latest achievements that I got are Being On YouTube Fanfest 2017 with my group @_Aphrodite_ , being the model of Artisty – Amway, hosting beauty events ( Opening and Launching of BYS in Surabaya), winning OOTD Ciputraworld Fashion Week competition and being featured on Jawapost (East Java News Paper) for beauty and health.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    “You have strong image,  You can be what ever you want to and you also have beautiful eyes and smile.” From it I try to gather myself and work to reach my dream 🙂

    Do you have a daily beauty regime you follow?

    Drink more water, have enough sleep, more exercise, be careful on what I eat and no sodas.

    Have you been in an embarrassing situation that is funny now when you look back?

    Yes, it’s when I wanted to go with my friends and waited them on the lobby. I saw a car come, it was the same as my friends’ car so I opened the door and got embarrassed cause all boys were only inside the car. I closed the door and saw my friends laughing right behind the car. I ran to their car and went in as fast as I could  > <

    If you could be a cartoon character, who will you be?

    Hemm, I think it will be Belle on Beauty on the Beast. She’s strong, beautiful, craving for something more, following her heart and not giving up.

    Which kind of movies do you enjoy watching most?

    I love romantic stories like Korean dramas, comedy and action the most.

    What is an ideal first date to you?

    Something romantic and special like in the beach with candles or rooftop with city light view.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Bella. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    For me sexy is not just about the outfit, but also the confident that you bring on it. If you feel sexy , You Do!

    Follow the gorgeous Bella Amanda on:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amandatorquise/
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCK-C32XFqqHs2wD9FQEpEnA
    Facebook Fanpage: https://www.facebook.com/amandatorquise/
    Website: https://amandatorquise.blogspot.co.id

    Email: Official.amandatorquise@gmail.com

    Upcoming works: Next month I’ve meet and greet event with Bys in their Store at Pakuwon mall Surabaya – East Java.

    Images courtesy of Bella Amanda

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  • Fashionable & Artistic Chrvyn

    Fashionable & Artistic Chrvyn

    Hi Chrvyn it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hi there! It’s my pleasure. I’m 18 and I’m from Malaysia although I did spend a portion of my life growing up in New Zealand! People often think I’m very extroverted and that I’m super sociable but trust me, that’s all a lie hahaha. I truly enjoy my alone time and I value that time!

    How often do people pronounce your name correctly the first time they try it?

    In the beginning, truly only one out of a hundred would get it right but only out of sheer luck. I think people have gotten the hang of my name and how to pronounce it right but I guess there are pros and cons to having a unique name. It’s unforgettable since it’s so unique yet so easily forgettable since it’s so hard!! Just to be sure, it’s pronounced “sher-vin” and not “cher-vin” or “sher-vine” (just to make sure everyone gets it right).

     Is there a fashion style you are most attracted to?

    Oh for sure. I love vintage-streetwear although not a large portion of my closet has that sort of style. It’s got this cool vibe to it and can be styled in so many ways. I’ve recently been getting more into it but for the most part; I love all fashion styles equally. I love being formal and feminine yet I love dressing casual-chic and laid back!

     Do you have a secret to looking so fantastic?

    Well thank you!! Honestly, I personally think it comes with lots of effort. It’s that extra time you take in the morning to wash your face and go over your entire skincare routine, or the extra time you take into finding the right style for you. That comes with time, exploration and real dedication. For example, people think that makeup can solve a so called ‘imperfection’ but if you really invest into skincare, even makeup looks a lot better and it’s actually way better because then you’d live with actual healthy skin. It’s the small things that truly play huge differences in how you look and feel. I myself put in a lot of effort into taking care of my skin and the way I look!

    What is your most memorable life experience so far? 

    I think my life as a whole has been a long rollercoaster and that’s a side that many people definitely don’t see from me? I’ve so many memorable life experiences like starting college (as dreadful and difficult as it is, it’s opened my eyes to many things and has allowed me to meet wonderful people) or even things as simple as indulging in new fashion styles. I like switching things up as often as I can, trying anything new for me, it’s a very memorable life experience.

    If you could change one thing in this world, what will it be?

    I’d love to change the fact that in this current time, I feel like most people can’t step out of their house without feeling insecure. Whether its about their physical appearance or mental  health or whether or not they’re literally safe to be out in the world, I’d just like for everyone out here to be able to feel like they can live life without having to worry about finances, their life and whether or not people are judging.

    Would you rather have a horrible short term memory or a horrible long term memory?

    Oh man, that’s tough. I have pretty great memory generally so that’s really hard to decide. I think if I had to pick, I’d go for a horrible short term memory cause that probably means as least the important stuff would stick to my head you know? I mean, imagine forgetting the most important stuff in your life.

     What turns you off on a date?

    Arrogance for sure. Confidence is appealing, but straight up arrogance is just plain annoying and rude. Guys who smell bad can be a turn off too I guess. It’s more the physical hygiene part you know? It’s not particularly nice to know that the guy is not hygienic or doesn’t care about the way he presents himself. Not caring about what people think and being ignorant is very different, they musn’t be confused.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Chrvyn. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Ah, sexy has so many definitions. Like I said, confidence is appealing. You could be wearing something that I don’t find attractive but if you work it with confidence, it definitely adds on to the look. Being independent is also pretty sexy, knowing what you want and being able to stand on your own is definitely sexy!

    Follow the beautiful Chrvyn on:

    Instagram: www.instagram.com/chrvyn
    Instagram: www.instagram.com/nyvrhc
    Twitter: www.twitter.com/chrvyn
    Website: www.chrvyn.wordpress.com

    Other works: I’ll be having a skincare giveaway with a whole bunch of products that I use in my skincare routine! Stay tuned to my Instagram for that!

    Images courtesy of Chrvyn

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  • Power Play In Sex

    Power Play In Sex

    Funnily enough, my interest in the concept of fetishes grew out of my religious upbringing. Religion and sex have an uneasy relationship with one another, but I’ve learned that humans are intrinsically attracted to the taboo. We live in a society that governs all our social behaviour – how we can act with whom. Having an experience or a secret enjoyment that flies in the face of that can be extraordinarily enticing. When we are denied something, it holds a special power. This is basic human psychology, and when applied to our sexual desires, we enter the world of kink and fetishes.

    While you might occupy the world of vanilla, there’s something in every person, some unexplored corner of the mind, attracted to the possibility of the alternative. What might that be? The possibilities are endless. Your individual experiences in life, particularly in your formative years, might answer that for you. We enter the world of sensations before we enter the world of words, which is why tactile fetishes can hold such a strong arousal. Or maybe it’s a certain kind of scenario, a certain kind of person in a position of power or who is prohibited for some other reason.

    While I have my own personal fetishes, one of the most satisfying experiences in my life is consensually exploring the kinks and fetishes of others. I love doing what I call ‘de-shaming’ – sharing my thoughts around why their particular kink is not a source of shame and providing a non-judgemental space for them to enact a particular fantasy and experience sexual satisfaction.

    What Is Sensual Domination?

    My definition of sensual domination is a sexual or sensual exchange where one person is in control of the experiences, sensations and satisfaction of the other – and dictates when those sensations are withheld and when they are given. This may involve playing with pleasure and discomfort or pain. It may be purely psychological, or it may be extremely physical. Usually it’s both.

    Being six foot tall, I had been told on the odd occasion that I’d make an excellent dominatrix. But discovering my niche in sensual domination came through having many vanilla ‘girlfriend experiences’ and realizing that some clients had more complex sexual desires that required something slightly different – like me taking control, teasing or taunting them to the extreme, or performing a fantasy scene. I started realizing then that sex is far more mental than it is physical.

    The first time I was asked to dominate someone I was a little nervous but willing to give it a go. When I saw the effect on my client and how satisfying the experience was for them, I wanted to explore more. My curiosity piqued, I shadowed a couple of Mistresses who performed total domination, humiliation and submission of a slave or sub. While I admired their skills in that dynamic, I soon realized that the more extreme forms of domination – especially inflicting pain – weren’t really for me. Since then, I’ve found so many people out there who aren’t ready or don’t want to be completely dominated and humiliated, but who crave some power imbalance or some feeling of relinquishing sexual control. Once I started exploring that, there was no going back!

    What I Love About Sensual Domination

    The subtleties, the nuances, playing with different sensations, performing different roles, leaving the regular world and entering a fantasy space where nothing else exists, watching the physical and psychological responses that are elicited from people, having another person under my thrall, keeping somebody on the edge and then watching them experience satisfaction. De-stigmatising people’s kinks and having them leave feeling that they’ve been able to explore another side of themselves … should I go on?

    Why Men Love Women Being In-Charge

    At some point in our upbringing, we all had our first sneak peek at a magazine or film where a guy was fucking a girl, and he was the one doing the fucking. He was in charge. We still live in a world where men are expected to ask women out, to be the pursuer and to take the lead in the bedroom. Even if taking charge in sex doesn’t get them off, the concept of a man being submissive throws their ‘manliness’ into question. Despite advances toward gender equality, boys are still socialized from before they can remember to be ‘masculine’. To be a man is still to be self-sufficient, strong, to lead situations. In business and politics, men still overwhelmingly occupy most of the seats of power and a marker of ‘being a man’ in most cultures is still around what you can ‘do’ – whether that be lift weights or make a lot of money, or get the girls.

    In my experience, the pressure to perform this version of masculinity gets old sooner or later. The concept of a strong woman taking charge, taking the pressure off the usual expectation to be the initiator can be very appealing. The concept of being the receiver of attention rather than the giver, the idea of being aggressively seduced or sexually aroused by a woman, of being told what to do in the bedroom by a female rather than being expected to take charge can be an enormous dynamic shift that can be incredibly satisfying for men who have lived their lives in charge. Sometimes, this may take a more maternal role, where somebody simply wants to be held and receive affection and stimulation without having to give it back, which is something I love to offer.

    Power Play Activities I’m Into

    There is almost always an element of tease and denial in my sessions and withholding / giving of affection. If someone has a foot fetish, that dynamic will happen with feet, or if someone has a boss / employee fantasy, or a mother / child, it occurs in that fantasy space. I enjoy using stockings and silk and having more submissive clients, often creating a dynamic of affection and admonishment, arousal and denial – depending on the comfort level of who I’m playing with. I enjoy body worship sessions where clients can fetishise and enjoy particular parts of me and be held at a distance until I’m ready to satisfy them, or playing game in which I test their obedience before I reward them. For lots of men, one really sexually satisfying experience that is stigmatised is prostate play, anal play or anal sex with a strap on. I absolutely love giving someone their first prostate orgasm and blowing them away!

    Mia Monday – I’m Mia, a private fetish escort and companion based in Melbourne.  My niche lies in the sensory world found between affection and domination. I enjoy walking the line between tease, sensuality and taking erotic control. Intuitive and instinctual, I love discovering what satisfies you.

    It might be something you didn’t expect.

    Follow Mia Monday on:

    Website: www.miamonday.com
    Twitter: www.twitter.com/mia_monday

    Scarlet Blue: https://scarletblue.com.au/escort/mia-monday

    Images courtesy of Mia

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  • Fashion Entrepreneur Kay Meeks

    Fashion Entrepreneur Kay Meeks

    Hi Kay it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    I am from a small town in Bunn with one light stop, then I moved to the Bronx, NY 5 years ago.

    What is your proudest achievement so far?

    When I started my own online fashion store (meekswear.com)

    Where do you find the motivation to wear so many hats and be good at them all?

    I love hats! Especially hats with lettering! They speak a statement without you having to say a word.

    How do you juggle everything and still have time to look so fantastic?

    I have always take pride in the way I look and dress, no matter what.

    What is your dream super power to have?

    To have top celebrities wearing my clothes (my brand).

    If you could change one thing about the world, what will it be?

    Self-hatred. I want to start a “self-love” group.

    What song would you say best describes you?

    Cardi B – Bodak Yellow

    Is there something you don’t get about the opposite sex?

    How “most” men think they are superior than women.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Kay. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy is being able to seduce the grown meanwhile keeping it classy

    Follow the beautiful Kay Meeks on:

    Website: www.meekswear.com
    Instagram: @Kay_Meks
    Facebook: Kay Meeks
    Upcoming Works: I have been asked to be a panelist at an “All Things Fashion and Beauty” even on 11/26/17 in New Jersey! Definitely a dream come true!

    Images courtesy of Kay Meeks

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  • Good Dom, Bad Dom

    Good Dom, Bad Dom

    Now I’m probably going to get a bit of stick for this because, like many art forms, BDSM is open to all manner of interpretation and rightly so. We all have the right to express ourselves freely as consenting adults. But there comes a time when even art is called into question, or at the very least, scrutinised.

    To add some context to my perspective, I should point out that I’m a 24/7 Dom escort and I have a number of clients who I work with to help nurture their sexuality. I’m not Mr. Slap and tickle nor am inclined to tie people down and beat them into submission in a cold sterile room, although I can certainly recommend someone if that’s your thing. I also think Hollywood has a lot to answer for regarding the widespread confusion and misunderstanding amongst those unfamiliar with the beautiful art of BDSM.

    In any case, I think most responsible and reasonably well-adjusted people within the BDSM community would agree that with much freedom, comes great responsibility and care. BDSM is not a magic wand that will instantly fix your problems and make you awesome. The reality is that if you’re a lousy partner in the vanilla world, you’ll more than likely to be a lousy partner in the world of BDSM too. So I think it’s important to acknowledge who you are at your core, as this will ultimately determine your approach to BDSM.

    We may all want different things from our life of kink but there are some key elements that most safe, sane and consenting adults would probably agree on. For me, I have distilled these down to 9 core principles of nurturing because that’s who I happen to be at my core.

    1. Emotional Health: In my opinion, this will be the primary focus of a ‘good Dom’ and they will do everything in their power to ensure the mental health and emotional well-being of their submissive. A ‘bad Dom’ on the other hand might not even consider this to be important because they’ll be too wrapped up in their own head to notice.

     

    1. Sexuality: I believe as a ‘good Dom’ you are fully responsible for the sexual development and pleasure of your submissive as they are under your control. A ‘bad Dom’ will neglect this because they will be more focus on receiving pleasure and ensuring that all their sexual needs are met.

     

    1. Fitness and Health: For me, as a professional 24/7 Dom, I require my submissive to be fit and healthy so they can cope with the sometimes stressful and demanding tasks bequeathed to them. This can include instructions to attend the gym or regular health checks to ensure that they receive a clean bill of health so I can push them to their limits in relative safety. A ‘bad Dom’ will pay very little attention to this area and some may even go as far as allowing the consumption of alcohol during play sessions which should be punishable by severe flogging, preferably at the hands of their own intoxicated submissive.

     

    1. Appearance: A good Dom will pay attention to the details, including suitable attire and offer guidance and support where needed. A ‘bad Dom’ will overlook this and insist on a submissive wearing unsuitable clothing that could jeopardise their safety during a session. In instances like this, I’d suggest including a clause in the contract that holds the Dom legally responsible for any injury caused to their submissive during a session.

     

    1. Behaviour: This is an interesting one for me personally as I have an anecdote that I’d like to share. I was recently contacted by a new client who wanted to embark upon a 24/7 Dom/sub relationship with me which was fine – Initially. The issue is that after having spent time with them it was clear that she was not yet ready for this type of lifestyle. Instead, I suggested something entirely different to help her deal with certain issues that she is facing. A ‘bad Dom’ would have attempted to break her pattern of behaviour, which would only have compound her issues and made them worst. In this clients case, I recommended Tantra which I felt would be much more beneficial to her.

     

    1. Life Balance: This may not be relevant to most because you may only engage in BDSM during specific times of play. But within the context of a 24/7 Dom/sub relationship, the issue of life balance is a big one and can be the cause of much stress and relationship breakdown. A ‘good Dom’ will take the time to discuss how BDSM can be incorporated into your life whilst allowing you to function as a normal member of society with all the usual responsibilities that most of us have to deal with. A ‘bad Dom’ will make unfair demands and insist on compliance and even worst, they may try to enact disciplinary measures and demand you comply. At this point, I’d advise running for the hills, as this is usually a recipe for disaster.

     

    1. Duties: When it comes to nurturing a submissive, duties and tasks are an integral part of their development. Some of the duties I have set for my clients range from attending Yoga classes and spa days to visiting therapists and sex councillors. This would probably never occur to a ‘bad Dom’ as they would be too busy setting pointless chores that they could quite easily do themselves.

     

    1. Punishment: Ouch! Literally! As a word of warning, please be very careful if your Dom punishes you when they are angry. In my opinion, punishment should be meted out calmly, as a form of correction for unacceptable behaviour, or as a form of pleasure, not when a Dom is foaming at the mouth and decides to whip 50 shades of grey out of their submissive.

     

    1. Contract Negotiation: This for me is like the Holy Grail. It lays the foundation upon which your life of kink will evolve. Both parties are on an equal footing and should ensure that they are getting exactly what they want from the relationship. I also think it’s important that contracts remain fluid and subject to review on a regular basis as our lives change. If your Dom insists that you stick to whatever is agreed regardless, they are clearly more concerned with their own needs than that of their submissive.

    Ultimately when it comes to finding the right Dom, you need to have a clear understanding of what you want and where your boundaries lie. If they don’t tick the right boxes, it’s best to move on and find another, as they are unlikely to change. These are my personal views based on my own interpretation of a Total Power Exchange (TPE) relationship which I refer to as ‘DSN’ – ‘Dominant, Submissive and Nurturing’. You can find out more about DSN here.

    Madison James is a degree educated 37 year old international male escort from London with a keen interest in BDSM, Tantra and massage. He has an aptitude for intellectual conversation, an inquisitive mind and a genuine desire to help women embrace their sexuality one orgasm at a time!

    This article was originally published at https://www.themadisonjames.com/single-post/2017/10/06/Good-Dom-Bad-Dom

    Follow Madison James at http://www.thefiftyshadesofgreyexperience.co.uk/

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  • Photography Enthusiast Amanda Seah

    Photography Enthusiast Amanda Seah

    Hi Amanda it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hey SimplySxy, thank you so much for letting me be a part of this. My name is Amanda Seah and I’m a 16 year old from Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. I fell in love with photography since I was a young toddler as my dad owns a camera shop. I recently got into photography seriously and will further my studies in LA, California for cinematic arts and directing.

    How is your fashion style like?

    Chilled, weird, the more homeless I look the better haha. I can go with many different styles to be honest.

    What in life can you not get enough of? 

    Travelling and food. I read this thing online that says “If travelling was free you’ll never see me again” and I relate to that 100000%.

    Do you have any hobbies?

    Yes of course! I love photography and sports.

    Would you rather have amazingly fast texting speed or be able to read ridiculously fast?

    Read ridiculously fast. Because that will be an advantage in so many ways.

    If you could change one thing in this world, what will it be?

    Clean water for everyone in the world. It’s crazy how modern and improved our world is but yet there are still people in some countries that don’t have clean drinkable water.

    What can a guy do on a date to turn you off?

    On a first date, I don’t want my date to be over touchy or overly sweet. I like to start off as cool chilled friends. If its like our third or fourth date, probably if my date is on the phone too much.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Amanda. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    To me, self confidence is so sexy. In such a judgmental world, it’s hard to have self confidence. But I find people that have self confidence and know what they’re doing so attractive. Of course not overly confident.

    Follow the beautiful Amanda Seah on:

    Instagram: @amanda.scw
    Other Works: I’ll be working with Loops ( live streaming app) for the next 3 months so I’ll be live streaming there every day for 3 months straight!

    Also, I am doing a lot of photoshoots and you can come check them out on @ashootsforfun on Instagram

    Images courtesy of Amanda Seah

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