Tag: SimplySxy

  • DJ Cindy From Indonesia

    DJ Cindy From Indonesia

    How did the inspiration to be a DJ start?

    The most influential inspiration came from my father. He used to work in the music industry for 20 years. Thus, I was exposed to music a lot. Watching singers, composers and producers work made me realize that I wanted to pursue this industry. In early 2015 I found my passion as a DJ, followed by the growth of electronic dance music, I decided learn more and finally here I am!

    What is your proudest achievement so far?

    One of my proudest achievement will definitely be being recognize internationally. Last month I played in Altimate Singapore. Secondly, being contacted by you guys for an interview is certainly up there!

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    Best compliment I ever received so far comes from my Manager, BILLY, who is also a DJ and my mentor, who told me that my performance so far is making him very proud and I am ready for something bigger.

    Is there a misconception about DJs that you commonly hear?

    OF COURSE! Especially us female DJs. And being in an old fashion country like Indonesia doesn’t help. Most people think we female DJs only sell our looks and not our skills. However as time goes on, I am used to the criticism and just trying my best to prove other people wrong.

    If you could be a cartoon character, who will you be?

    If I can be a cartoon character, I will choose to be Tinkerbell 😉

    How do you spend your free time?

    I spend my free time with A DATE WITH NETFLIX AND PIZZA!

    What is the lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    Lamest guy’s attempt? To be honest I can’t even remember when was the last time a guy tried to flirt with me LOL. But there was this one time, a guy asked me the title of the song that was playing. It was Closer from The Chainsmokers. Everybody knows that song, right? I was just smiling and tell him that he can use Shazam ;p

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Cindy. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy is when you can truly embrace yourself with all the goods and the bads.  Nothing is sexier than loving yourself!


    Follow the gorgeous DJ Cindy on:

    Instagram: http://instagram.com/djcindy_
    Management: http://instagram.com/bvldentertainment
    Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/djcindyy/

    Upcoming works: I’m doing this campaign for Top 100 Djane Indonesia. Please help vote for me at http://indonesia.djanemag.com/topdjanes and put my name Djane Cindy from Indonesia.


    Images courtesy of DJ Cindy

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  • Malaysian TV Host Azura Zainal

    Malaysian TV Host Azura Zainal

    Hi Azura it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hi!! First of all thank you so much for having me! I truly appreciate the feature.

    Well, my name is Azura Zainal and I am from Petaling Jaya, Selangor, Malaysia. I come from a very big and tight knit family. There are 7 of us and I am the middle child. Majority of my siblings are engineers and a pilot. It’s just my eldest sister and I decided to take on a more adventurous route! Hehehe. I have been in the entertainment industry for 18 years where I started my career as a TV presenter for Walt Disney Television Pte Ltd way back in 1999 for a flagship show on the channel called Disney Buzz.

    It was the best 7 years of my working life, working for the mouse where I learnt so much about TV presenting and production. Working with all types of nationality from different countries really opened my eyes on how important it is to have an open mind if you really want to learn. After being with the channel for 7 years, I came back to Malaysia and started doing TV programs for local productions. I hosted all kinds/genre of shows like kids, reality, game-show, lifestyle, sports and adventure and then eventually branded myself as a Sports/Travel and Adventure TV Host. Currently I have a show called X-plorasi on TV1 which airs every Saturday at 2pm (travel/adventure) and soon to air a Scuba Diving program in its 3rd season called 13 Hari Kota Kinabalu-Labuan. (you can find it on YouTube 😛 for earlier seasons).

    Besides TV Hosting, I also do a lot of emcee gigs which is also something I love doing and I also had the opportunity to try my hands on radio where I started on HITZ.FM in 2007 and later 2012 was radio announcing for RED FM.   I also have acted in a few dramas and just recently was in a feature film called Temuan Takdir, which won a number of awards internationally.  You must be thinking…GOSH! What else does she do?? Well, I was also one of the main actress (Lorell Robinson) on a stage show for BROADWAY: DREAMGIRLS the Musical which was staged at Istana Budaya in 2012. So…yeah, I love to entertain and challenge myself in every way possible.

    What is your proudest achievement so far?

    My proudest achievement would have to be being chosen out of thousands of hopeful candidates to be the TV Presenter for Walt Disney TV Pte Ltd, and also being nominated for Best Light Entertainment Presenter/Performer in 2002 and 2004 in the Asian Television Awards!

    How do you constantly motivate and inspire yourself?

    In everything that I do, I am always out to seek knowledge. So, whenever I am assigned to work on something, I will make sure I do my best to convey messages and useful information and also putting smiles on peoples’ faces. So it is not a one-way communication but knowing that the audience is able to take something home with them. THAT, motivates and inspires me.

    If you can have a superpower, which will you choose to have?

    If I can have a superpower it would have to be the power to fly, so I can fly to any destination and spread knowledge to the children all over the world.

    Do you have any guilty pleasures when it comes to food?

    Oooo… but of course!! I LOVE ICE CREAM!! I can eat ice cream anytime, anywhere, any day! I can finish a whole tub in 45 minutes!

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    My fashion style is pretty laid back and sporty on a daily basis. I am always in my Nike gears and trainers because I am also known as an active person who likes to work out and do adventurous activities. But there are times when I do love to play dress up and dress my age! (Hehehehe if you are wondering, I am 36 years young) I like to call myself a chameleon when it comes to fashion style. I have made people do a double take when they see me all dressed up.

    Which was the last movie you watched and was it any good?

    Oh wow! If I am not mistaken it was Dark Tower. It wasn’t the best movie I saw…quite a let down for me. But Idris Alba is HAWT!

    What is your idea of an ideal first date? 

    My ideal first date would be a dinner, nothing too fancy, followed by hours in the arcade and then taking a drive to unfamiliar places.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Azura. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Hmmm how do I define sexy…well, someone who is knowledgeable and willing to share the knowledge with others, and always have a positive outlook in life.

    Thank you so much for having me! It has been awesome!


    Follow the talented and beautiful Azura Zainal on:

    Instagram: @zurrs 
    Facebook: azurazainalofficial

    Youtube: azura zainal

    My scuba diving program is in the works but still no TX Date yet but the show that is still on-going is X-plorasi on TV1 at 2PM every Saturday


    Images courtesy of Azura Zainal

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  • Photographer, Visual Artist & Model Elena Ohlander From Florida

    Photographer, Visual Artist & Model Elena Ohlander From Florida

    Hi Elena thank you for taking the time to answer our questions on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    My name is Elena Ohlander and I am a visual artist and freelance hair/beauty model. I grew up and reside in Jacksonville, Florida. No matter where I have travelled to in the world, Jacksonville feels like home. I call it the biggest small town in Florida because it has a nice balance of city/suburban lifestyle with access to beaches and springs. I spend most of my time making art, going to gallery exhibitions and spending time with my daughter. I am also a big foodie and huge supporter of local businesses. My favorite food, hands down, is Ramen.

    When did your interest in photography begin?

    My interest in photography began back in 2008 when I took a trip to Japan for five weeks. I bought a DSLR camera so I could really document my trip with higher quality and in the process of doing so, realized I enjoyed candid, photojournalistic or documentary style of photography. It wasn’t enough to just learn on the fly, I wanted to be academically rooted in my work and got my BFA in photography. Although I have been an artist all my life, working in the medium of watercolor, oil, and mixed-media. I have returned to my roots since graduating in 2014 and find myself somewhat of an emerging artist. You can view my portfolio of current work on my website: www.elenaohlander.com or my personal Instagram @elena_honey.

    Which is your most memorable photoshoot experience so far?

    Within the photographic medium I work in conceptual self-portraiture, which is an interesting experience in and of itself. Often I work in solitude, just me, my camera and tripod with a remote shutter release. However, some of my photographer friends will assist me when I work within a wider frame in natural environments.

    My most memorable experience, up until now is when I took a trip to Norway to connect with family I had never met and work on an explorative series about identity. Much to my surprise, I found out that one of my mothers’ cousins had been a professional photographer all of his life and even opened The Norwegian School of Photography (or Norsk Fotofagskole) in Trondheim. We really bonded as he assisted me in my series called, Lost in Translation and he taught me so much in his critiques and feedback on my work. I miss him dearly and hope to visit him again soon, or vice versa.

    Being a photographer yourself, are you more critical when you get photos taken of yourself?

    Being a photographer and photographing myself gained me some attention to my likeness. I was always more of a “behind-the-lens” kind of person so it has been an interesting and insightful journey to model. Modeling began as a way to help my friends test shoot prior to a client, whether that is lighting or a new technique. Eventually I started working professionally as a model for hairstylist competitions which turned into modeling for hair companies such as Toni & Guy, Paul Mitchell, Aveda, Matrix, and other smaller hair extension companies. I am definitely more critical of the end-result because of my knowledge in photography but have learned a lot about the dynamic in working with a creative team from multiple perspectives and I am more cognizant of my approach to modeling. You can view my modeling portfolio on Instagram @elenaohlander.

    Is there something in life you can’t get enough of?

    I cannot get enough time in my studio. When I am in my studio, it’s like all time has stopped and I spend hours there, totally zoned into my work. Another thing I cannot get enough of is time with my daughter. She is currently seven going on eight and I do my best to savor every single moment with her. Time really is an elusive thing.

    If you can have a superpower, what will it be?

    If I could have a super power, it would be to freeze time so I could get more work done. I think life is too short not to experience all that life has to offer.

    Have you ever been in a funny or embarrassing situation before?

    I cannot recall such an experience as it is difficult for me to feel embarrassed. I embrace any and all of my imperfections.

    Have you had a bad date experience ever? 

    I have only been in long-term relationships and therefore have never really “dated” someone.

    It is a pleasure to feature you Elena. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Thank you for taking the time to get to know me beyond the photographs of me, I am both honored and delighted. To me, the most attractive quality in a person is their intellect. There is nothing more “sexy” than someone who has depth beyond their physical appearance.


    Follow the beautiful Elena Ohlander on:

    Website – www.elenaohlander.com
    Instagram@elena_honey (art) & @elenaohlander (modeling)

    Upcoming events: 

    Art
    Group Exhibition at the Karpeles Manuscript Library Museum in Downtown Jacksonville, Florida in January.
    Group Exhibition at The Space Gallery in Downtown Jacksonville, Florida in February.

    Modeling
    Publications in 2018 to look out for.

    Dreamingless Magazine
    Elegant Magazine

    Images courtesy of Elena Ohlander and Daryna Barykina @darynabarykina (www.darynabarykina.com)

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  • Tips To Giving Amazing Head

    Tips To Giving Amazing Head

    If I woke up with a dick tomorrow, I would attempt to seek out someone to go downtown on me, but if all else failed, I would try to suck myself off.

    But in all seriousness, I love to give a good blowjob if the occasion and mood calls for it.

    Why Do Men Love Blowjobs

    Having only ever given them and never having had received them, I assume it’s the messiness but also the aesthetic of it.

    I used to work in phone sex and majority of the time, many male callers would simply want quick aural oral. There is something very sexy about being able to pleasure someone with a hot and messy blowjob.

    Sex is only as enjoyable as you make it – it shows if your partner isn’t into it – so go forth my friends, and suck his manhood as though you worship his dick.

    If you’re game, deepthroat. In my experience, men love to make you gag. Plus, deepthroating produces more saliva, meaning more mess – so make the most of it and remember to keep the teeth tucked away. Otherwise, drink orange juice to produce excess saliva if you are otherwise inclined.

    Tips For Hand Mouth Coordination

    Use your dominant hand to grip the base of your partner’s shaft and wrap your lips around the tip of their cock, then begin to move both your mouth and hand up and down. Keep the pace consistent, and ask your partner what turns them on the most. Communication is key.

    Don’t neglect the family jewels – cup those bad boys in your hands but also alternate between your hands and mouth.

    My Preferred Positions To Give A Blowjob

    Madonna once said, ‘When I get down on my knees it is not to pray.’ The closest to God I find myself is when I am kneeling sucking dick. The most common and perhaps preferred position is giving a blowjob on your knees, but there are other numerous positions to explore whether it’s lying down, upside down, your hands restrained, their hands restrained, blowbang, sitting on your face…or live life on the edge and attempt a blowjob in a *handstand.

    *I have not personally attempted this but there is always a first.

    Blowjob Etiquette For Men

    Aim away from our eyes. Also, if you intend to slap us across the face because that’s what turns you on – please give forewarning (I’m speaking from experience). Avoid being rough without prior consent – our personal boundaries are each to our own. Mutual respect is imperative.

    How I Love To Finish Him Off

    Oral sex isn’t about reaching climax, for me it’s always about pleasure (and hopefully the prospect of receiving in return). My personal preference is to ejaculate in my mouth, because you have the option to tease further by dripping it back down and sucking it up, then spit or swallow (I always swallow, for health benefits – obviously). Not to mention, a mouthful is only about 5 calories and full of nutrients. Otherwise, take it a step further and invite him to try to sign his name on your back or chest!


    Jane Ayers – Petite with a tight body and exotic looks, Jane is an impressively flexible and agile Australian showgirl performing all shows from mild to wild! She has been featured in a number of publications, including Penthouse BlackLabel. Jane doesn’t plan to stop stripping until she has worked a divorce party or lesbian hens.

    Follow Jane Ayers on:

    Website: www.jane-ayers.com

    Instagram: @janeayers_

    Twitter: @janeayersxxx


    Images courtesy of Jane Ayers

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  • Cosplayer & Model, Sai

    Cosplayer & Model, Sai

    Hi Sai it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    It is a pleasure to be here, I will keep the introduction as compact as possible for your readers. Hello everyone! My name is Sai, in Japan and I am 23 years old. I am a Caucasian girl with DNA from Belgium and Holland and a whole lot of unknown mixes. I have been a model since I was six years old and I was discovered by the cosplay and anime companies in Tokyo that eventually hired me to work as a fulltime cosplayer and idol in Tokyo. I am registered as the first “white” girl (Or “European” girl as some media has decided to call me) to have become a full-time cosplayer in Japan. However, I honestly don’t like categorizing people because of their DNA . I am just a regular girl in Japan with Japanese nationality living her life, and working hard for my career.

    What inspired you to cosplay?

     My mom has kind of pushed me in the modeling business since when I was 6 years old, even forcing me to travel all the way to France to follow a modeling school all alone for an entire season to get a French Modeling Degree (which is considered high value in Japan). And I have been growing from being a child model to a fashion model, But I disliked being a fashion model. It was not fun, you had to reduce yourself to zero. You had to practice puking your food out, having a zombie expressionless look on your face, and you had to do your best to be nothing so that the clothes would shine out.

    It was very much a lot of work and it was very degrading. And it was never good enough. The only one proud of it, was my mom. I was lonely as well. Never had friends. People at school bullied me for being a “ghost”. Eventually something snapped in me and I stopped modelling. I was rebelling. I started to go against my parents, started to eat what I wanted and finally I started to get some friends and they took me to concerts, we also cosplayed while watching anime together and eventually they invited me to my first anime convention. We were going to meet at the convention. When we met, I was surprised that they all were cosplayed. I was in just a red Lolita dress.

    We walked around at the con and I was introduced to a lot of other cosplayers, it was so fun. It seemed they all thought I was cosplaying Misa Amane from Death Note. So I played along and made tails in my hair. It was a quick solution for fitting in their pictures more, these new friends were talking about going to a big convention together and having a sleepover at someones’ house near the convention. I never had friends before and I really wanted the affection a lot, I never had so much fun in my life so when they asked me to join them I was so happy.

    We had a sleepover and prepared for the convention when we noticed my cosplay was a mess! It was no good ! So a friend offered me one of her old cosplays to wear at the convention to match her outfit. Best solution ever! I was so happy to have a friend with matching outfits! It became an addiction to go with these cosplayers to conventions, get photos taken together, make nice memories and get a lot of affection of everyone. I started to grow a fanbase without realising it. Eventually I was discovered and asked to join up into a more serious cosplay career. I accepted, wanting to make my friends proud. I worked hard. My first inspiration was my friends, then it also became my fans. I am addicted to all the love and cheering on!

    Which characters have you loved cosplaying most so far?

    I loved cosplaying Chii of Chobits, it was the first character that was discovered by the talent hunters. They even thought I was a life size doll in the convention when I was sitting. People started to take photos with me not realizing I was a real human being. It was funny how people jumped when I moved so eventually I stopped moving so people lined up to take photos with the lifesize doll, was less awkward while resting my feet than to constantly correct people that I was actually a human being. I wonder how many people have photos of me thinking I was a doll that day!

    What are some of the challenges you face when creating a costume?

    I barely create costumes anymore because we have to rehearse our characters personalities, and the costumes are from the official anime companies. Every day we have a different character, sometimes even 2-3 characters a day that we have to do in Akihabara and cons! So it is impossible to do! Also we are not even allowed to use our own costumes, it has to be official costumes by the anime company itself.  But back in the day when I sometimes created my own costumes, the biggest issues were finding the right material, sometimes drawing things on pattern, cutting it out, sewing it, all going well, last minute finding out the size is wrong or something else went wrong. Always a horror if you then were on a deadline!

    Have you experienced a funny or embarrassing cosplay moment before?

    Haven’t we all? As I mentioned before, when I was resting my feet in a chair, people thought I was a doll and started lining up to take photos with me, it was too awkward to correct everyone the entire time , especially since the first ones I corrected had nearly a heart attack! A lot of these kind of things happened in my career !

    I guess the weirdest / creepiest thing that happened was this guy cosplaying this creepy character Jason from Friday the 13th, he was following me all over the convention. With his creepy mask! I didn’t mind it, it happens often enough that people follow. But, when my shift was over and I was returning home, I took the train home and saw he was still following. I walked to a friends home. Even now, years later, my friend still tells me about the days a man with a mask staring through the living room windows at night.

    The most embarrassing thing that happened, was that I was for cleanup duty and I decided to quickly buy some kitchen cleaning paper in the convenient store, I opened the package in the office saying I took the liberty to buy kitchen paper, while opening it we all realized at the same time I accidentally bought toilet paper. The logo of the brand was covering the package on just the right spot so it wasn’t noticed until opened. I was so embarrassed!

    A colleague of mine had an even worse embarrassing moment, she had to do a character with large boobs for one of the cosplay assignments. She used pads and when she was jumping they started to escape , some fell on the floor and more started escaping and falling out when she bent to pick them up from the floor. I tried to help her by distracting the people by giving them an “accident” panty shot.

    If you can travel anywhere in this world, where will you go?

    Anywhere ? Like, without obligations or anything to worry about ? I think Ikea after closing time, there are so many soft beds and stuff!

    What do you find attractive in the opposite sex?

    Loyalty, courage, knows etiquette, confidence.

    Lamest or weirdest attempt a guy has hit on you? 

    A lot of guys in Japan that are of older age and older generation believe that a woman is still lesser than a man. Often, a 60 year old man walks up to a 20 year old woman and if they find out that the young woman is still single, they demand a date or even marriage. Even a “no” seems to be very hard for them to understand out of a woman’s mouth. So it is one of the lamest attempts I experience on a weekly based 1-3 times averagely.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Sai. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    “Sexually attractive or exciting”, brought to you by Oxford dictionaries.


    Follow the beautiful Sai on:

    Instagram: @Hoshisai
    Facebook: Hoshisai


    Images courtesy of Sai

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  • New Jersey Style Blogger, Valerie LaBarbera

    New Jersey Style Blogger, Valerie LaBarbera

    Hi Valerie it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hello Everyone! I am a New Jersey native and have lived here for most of my life.  My life revolves around family, friends, fashion and makeup. People might view fashion and beauty as shallow but it has been my creative outlet and an opportunity to express myself. I have met many amazing people on this journey and they have taught me everything I know which I am ready to share with all of you!

    Where did the inspiration to create beauty videos come from?

    Growing up I was a competitive dancer, and as young girls, we had to learn how to do our own makeup before competitions. I was able to experiment and have fun with makeup looks. This passion stuck with me and I wanted to be able to share my knowledge of makeup and beauty with the world. I absolutely love having the opportunity to teach others, while still continually learning new makeup trends everyday.

    What makeup and beauty accessories are a must have for every lady?

    Every lady must have a great moisturizer for her face and body. If you want beautiful, flawless makeup then you need to take care of your skin and nourish it. I also cannot live without skincare masks. As much as I love makeup, I know how crucial the right skincare products are. Also, cannot live without my trusty Beauty Blender!

    Which is your proudest achievement so far?

    This is more of a personal and emotional achievement. I am proud of the major career change that I recently made. I have worked in corporate for many years while pursuing my passions as hobbies. About four months ago I finally decided to make a major career change to fashion. I am currently working as a personal stylist and going back to school for visual merchandising. This achievement has truly changed my life.

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    My fashion style has a mind of it’s own. I dress based on how I feel and I gather inspiration from all around me. My style always has a minimalistic touch to it, but the trends are ever changing.

    Are there any misconceptions about beauty and makeup that you commonly hear?

    I guess the only misconception I hear about beauty and makeup is more aligned with people judging it as a high-maintenance aspect of a person. Personally, beauty and makeup have been a part of my life since I was a little girl. I began using makeup on a theatrical level and it grew to makeup artistry. I also needed makeup when my acne was extremely bad and it gave me a sense of hope and comfort. People should realize there is an art, high level of creativity and attention to detail to makeup artistry.

    What flavor would you say best describes you?

    I would probably have to say salted caramel because I have an incredibly sweet side but I can also add a little kick to things.

    Funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    Well one time a guy thought it would be a good idea to Snapchat me every second of the day to try and talk to me instead of just asking for my number and having a normal conversation. And he would send a Snapchat picture every five seconds showing me every single thing he was doing, needless to say it was just lame and went nowhere.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Valerie. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Being authentic to who you are. Always own who you are and embrace every aspect of your being. That will exude and attract the right people, places and things into your life. You will emulate sexiness.


    Follow the beautiful Valerie LaBarbera on:

    Instagram: @glamourbyvalerie
    YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/valerieann111

    Spirituality website: http://www.dearself.space


    Images courtesy of Valerie LaBarbera

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  • What Is It Like To Engage Mature Escorts?

    What Is It Like To Engage Mature Escorts?

    I think sex should be a fundamental part of our lives.

    The Appeal Of Mature Escorts

    The appeal is all about the fact that sexuality and the desire for sex doesn’t end at any specific age, it continues and it’s important for the industry to be able to provide a range of service providers that are comparable with the needs of clients.  Similarly, the desire for those that can provide a pleasurable interaction doesn’t fit into any specific age group either.  Mature clients like mature escorts. and younger clients can be the same.

    I have been told many times when being booked for the first time that women are looking for a ‘man’ and not a ‘boy’.  I use these terms loosely but they are invariably referring to the fact that clients are looking for a person who has life experience, who has a wider understanding of the complexity of how we can relate, who has a level of maturity and a genuine interest in their clients.

    Characteristics Of A Mature Escort

    For me it’s about being empathetic, non-judgmental, pragmatic and being a good listener.  But most importantly, it’s having had life experiences and understanding this first hand.  To know how it feels to be in a wide variety of situations and challenges that life throws up at you and having had the experience of dealing with them.  Sometimes well and sometimes not so well.  This, I think, gives a greater opportunity to connect on a very real level with my clients.

    Two Tips For Clients Engaging Mature Escorts

    Again from my own experience, there are two aspects that clients can expect.

    Firstly, the initial interactions that new clients will have.  I find that there is a quite a lot of email or SMS interaction around expectations and understanding as to how the client has come to contact you in the first place.  I find it immensely rewarding to understand this and it begins the process of trust – one of the most important aspects of any relationship between an escort and client.   Often the interaction can go back and forth many times, and I use this to process to gain an understanding of the client and also let them know about who I am – not in a this is me way, but in the way that I respond, discuss and ask questions with the client.  I feel that as a mature person I have the ability to do this and to be much more subtle about this initial interaction.  I get very good feedback about this, in that it makes new clients feel safe and develops an exciting anticipation for our first meeting.  I might add that these interactions continue with my regular clients and they find this quite satisfying as I do.

    Secondly, when I meet a client at the first appointment, I have a wider range of life experiences to draw from and as an individual I have a high level of empathy, which allows me to ‘tune’ into how they are feeling. Many of my clients have experienced loneliness or rejection, a lack of sexual satisfaction (even though they may be married or in a long term partnership), a complete lack of sex and a lack of emotional connectedness.  What I am able to provide is reassurance and acceptance, emotional and metal connection and a feeling of security and that time spent with me will be totally focused on them.  Of course sex is a big part of the interaction, but it’s always within a context of the emotional security.

    There are a couple of other things too.  A full knowledge and understanding of the female anatomy and how to satisfy my client and not taking myself too seriously.  It’s a wonderful gift to learn as you mature, knowing what’s important and what isn’t and learning to laugh and not be embarrassed.  This is reassuring to clients.

    Is There Anything Out Of Bounds?

    None whatsoever, but this depends on each escort.  I am very broad minded and very open.  My services extend from a quiet dinner with sensual sex to more erotic intense services that include anal, bondage, wax play, control and discipline and everything in between.  My job, if I can call it that, is to satisfy my clients…and of course as a mature escort, I was brought up in a much more permissive time than now!!


    Alex Miller – I’m the man your mother warned you about…and the man your mother has a secret desire for!  I’m relaxed, warm and kind, with an enquiring broad and open mind.  Well educated and urbane, I am a good listener and conversationalist.  What sets me apart from your typical guy is that I’m caring, erotic and sensual…I have a soft side.  I’m also wild, intense and naughty.  Beyond my tall handsome good looks, I love to talk, connect, touch as well as have fun.

    Follow Alex Miller on:

    Website: www.alexmillersydney.com
    Twitter: @AlexMillerSyd

    Scarlet Blue: https://scarletblue.com.au/male-escort/alex-miller?city=Sydney

    I love being in Sydney and I don’t generally tour, but you can fly to your intimate desires!


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  • Filipina British Actress Sara Beatriz

    Filipina British Actress Sara Beatriz

    It is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy, Sara.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    For me that’s a super complicated question! I’m half Filipina/half British and was born in Hong Kong. I spent my childhood there then lived in India, Turkey and Oxford before reading History at University in London. But home is where the heart is – and that’s in the Philippines 🙂

    What inspired you to be an actress?

    When I was younger I always dreamt about being an actress but never voiced it out loud because I thought it was crazy. I still don’t feel comfortable saying it. Then when I focused on my future, all the career advice I heard was rooted to following your passion (kind of like how in love you should follow your heart) and that’s when I knew I would move to LA from London.

    Do you have a memorable acting experience you can share with us?

    A memorable acting experience was my first short film I did (that’s so cutely titled Bubble) where I had to get out of my car distressed and confront a guy I was obsessed with in front of the notorious Paul Smith pink wall on Melrose Avenue in front of around 30 people watching… all with a knife in hand!

    How did the idea of KAYA essentials come about?

    I attended a talk on how a Filipino organisation (Gawad Kalinga) was cultivating social businesses in the Philippines and how doing business with a heart could alleviate poverty. I had no background in business but had the heart for KAYA and took it from there. I loved sharing the fact that Philippines produced a lot of the world’s coconut oil and when I learnt how many Filipino coconut farmers remain in poverty (the statistics are staggering) I knew I had to do something with coconut oil – plus it’s my number one beauty secret for my hair.

    Tell us more about your charity work and how KAYA is involved!

    For every KAYA lip balm, a meal is provided to a Filipino child in need through a local feeding programme called Kusina ng Kalinga. The programme feeds up to 20,000 public school and street children every day. And just as how KAYA wants customers to purchase with a purpose, where possible the ingredients are purchased from Filipino family and social businesses and farmers cooperatives.

    Is there something you have achieved so far that you are most proud of?

    I would have to say KAYA is a major achievement. But also perfecting my roast chicken and being a dog mama.

    Have you done something embarrassing before that seems funny now?

    In school I joined MUN… model united nations… because I thought it was an after school activity on modelling. I was so confused why it was held in the computer lab and why my brother was there too. Oops.

    Which is the funniest or lamest way a guy has tried to know you? 

    One guy had a ‘getting to know each other’ game that had too many complicated rules for a first date or even just in general. I kept thinking, why don’t we just have a conversation?

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Sara. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Confidence with nice lip balm on your lips 😉


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    Website: www.kayaessentials.com


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  • Model & Artist Karwai Chan

    Model & Artist Karwai Chan

    Hi Karwai thank you for taking the time to answer our questions on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hi, I’m Karwai from Hong Kong but based in Malaysia now . I’m an artist who does original artwork like oil painting. I’m also a model who does commercial shooting and videos.

    Do you have any hobbies?

    I have a lot of hobbies. I enjoy painting, drawing, playing piano and gym.

    What type of food do you love best?

    I love Italian food because I love to eat bread and spaghetti so much.

    Which kind of movies do you enjoy watching?

    Action movies are my favorite. Maybe because I can’t fight.

    If you can have a superpower, what will you choose to have?

    I hope I can read people’s mind.

    How much of a party animal are you?

    I am not a party person.

    Where is your dream holiday destination?

    Maldives and Paris. But I achieved my dream this year.

    What is the funniest or lamest pickup line a guy has used to know you?

    “Are you staying next to my house?”

    It is a pleasure to feature you Karwai. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    That’s a good question . To me no matter what a woman wears like and looks like, if she’s confident, she’s sexy.


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  • Camming with Kelley Cabbana

    Camming with Kelley Cabbana

    I really really enjoy sex. When I think about sex I think about all the different things I enjoy most. I do like the intimacy you share with a partner during sex and how you can share fantasies. I am a very open-minded person so I enjoy pleasing my partner as much as I like to be pleased. I think fantasies and role-playing adds a whole new element to any relationship. I have always said if everyone had sex or masturbated daily there would be less hate in the world. Sex is an amazing stress reliever but also makes you so happy and satisfied too.

    How I Get Ready Before Camming

    Knowing I’m getting ready to get on cam is a turn-on for me. I really enjoy the excitement of watching the cam of the person I am interacting with. I like to watch and see how the other person is turned on by me. It’s fun to share their fantasies and play them out as it does make me very horny. Before I get on cam I always make sure my outfits are ready and my dildos are set up and ready too. If I’m online longer than 4 hours I always like to change up the outfits to keep it fun.

    I have everything very organized so my shows go smoothly. My room is my domain so it’s a reflection of my personality and things that I love. My make-up and hair is so important as I always want to look my best for my fans. So I spend a lot of time doing my make-up and hair. I prepare not only mentally (as I think about sex) but also physically so my fans have the best experience.

    My Camming Specialties

    I really enjoy all types of role-playing. The “Sexy Teacher” and “Naughty Nurse” are two of my favorites. I like when my fans want to see me do a sloppy blow-job because I’m so good at spitting and gagging. I really enjoying teasing and sucking the dildo so my clients will really get to see how I love to give them oral sex. I also love to ride a dildo for them too as they really like to see my big boobs going up and down – it’s a real turn on. I’m always open to new fantasies and role-playing that my clients want to see. I like it when they share what really turns them on during our show. I feel like I’m a very good listener and I want them to have an awesome experience so that they want to be frequent guests in my room over and over and over.

    Differences Between Masturbating On & Off Camera

    When I’m on cam, it truly is my desire to really make sure that the person who is on the show with me really has an awesome mind-blowing experience. I want to make sure if it’s role-playing, that I really put a lot of attention into every detail of that fantasy for them. I want them at the end of the show to give the highest rating possible but also feel like they received what they were paying me for too. I want it to be personal and very on point no matter what desires or fantasies they have. That makes me feel amazing when they let me know how awesome the show was.

    In my personal life, I might tend to be a little more selfish. If I’m with a partner, well I want them to have a great time with me but I also want to make sure that I too am receiving what I want as well. I am very verbal about my wants and desires. I will let you know exactly how I like you to eat my pussy and how I want my tits sucked. I love to masturbate on and off cam. I enjoy the orgasm so much that I get from the toys that my mission for my sexual pleasure really is the same on and off cam. I want to cum and enjoy that regardless of being in front of the camera or not. I really don’t fake my orgasms, my experience are always real on cam and off.

    Memorable Camming Experiences I’ve Had

    I have many fun memories. I think that’s what I love so much about this job. It’s the best job ever. I get to live out so many of my own fantasies too! One is when I was on a Ferris wheel and shot a flashing tit video – it was so much fun and the guy operating the ride just couldn’t get enough. It was awesome!

    The other one is when I went for a ride in my car and I took my camera guy along, while driving, I flashed my tits and played with my pussy. I even had a few guys driving past who followed me to watch and took videos themselves. I really enjoy public displays and pussy play just about anywhere!

    My Personal Sex Toy Collection

    I have so many toys. My dildo collection numbers 75 and it continues to grow as some fans buy me new ones weekly. It’s great I have nearly every size and color available. Some of them I named after fans. I have to retire some when they are used too much. I know that’s so funny but I am hooked with playing with myself so they get used a lot on and off cam. I love vibrators the most, the sensation is the best. I have a favorite purple one that is nicknamed Whitehat Junior. It’s from a very loyal fan that was in my show when I broke the top right off my hitachi wand.

    It was absolutely hilarious that I had destroyed this Hitachi wand. So he mailed me this updated awesome purple vibrator which I now use daily. I even like to use the dildo along with a vibrator. This combination makes for an amazing orgasm. You should stop by my room and check it out. I always have lots of toys and I’m always ready to have fun with them while you watch me.


    Kelley Cabbana – Blonde bombshell Kelley Cabbana has become one of the fascinating webcam models in the adult industry. The Florida native has been scorching up video streams since launching her naughty career in 2011. Kelley has gone on to attain multiple AVN Award nominations for her online work and cultivated a worldwide legion of fans. While standing only 5′ 3″, the larger than life beauty turns heads with her incredibly toned body, her DDD cup breasts, and scrumptious backside. Kelley’s outgoing and positive personality make men fall in love with her.

    But before Kelley began sizzling webstreams, she had a lengthy career as a model that began at an early age. Working in the mainstream for clothing companies as a hobby led to a continuous stream of opportunities. Kelley traveled across the country as more doors opened for her. She received an incredible amount of attention as a glamour model for WWFU.net and Harley Davidson. Showing off her fantastic body encouraged the sexy stunner to make the leap into camming with the launch of her website KelleyCabbana.com in 2011. Her site has exclusive member content and access to private cam shows.

    Since 2015, Kelley can be seen camming on her weekly show on Vette Nation Live. Members of her personal website get to view her webcam show on the VNA network for free. In 2017, Kelley’s been awarded 1st place as VNALive.com’s Most Popular Cam Show for the month of May 2017 and August 2017.

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    Kelley Cabbana Talking Points:

    • Nominated for AVN Favorite Cam Girl 2015 & 2016
    • Launched her website http://kelleycabbana.com in 2011
    • Nominated 2017 NightMoves® Best Live Cam Model of the Year
    • Weekly Cam show of which members of Kelley’s personal website get to watch her webcam on Vette Nation Live network for free
    • Awarded 1st place as VNALive.com’s Most Popular Cam Show for the month of May 2017 and August 2017
    • Glamour Model turned Webcam Girl
    • Playboy TV hostess 2010-2011, Miami-based show, Foursome.

    Images courtesy of Kelley Cabbana and Star Factory PR

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