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  • What It’s Really Like To Be An Escort

    What It’s Really Like To Be An Escort

    I initially considered escorting as an job option because of the money, I love sex and the hours were flexible. But it did take me three months of reading and talking to people at the New Zealand Prostitute’s Collective before I was certain it was what I wanted to do.

    What really kick started things for me was a friend who shared her story with me and then went on to guide me through my first two days. It was the best introduction one could ask for – my friend answered all my questions, helped me write my first advert, took my photos and equipped me with pretty much everything I needed to continue working when she continued her tour. I consider myself pretty lucky to have had such a good introduction into being a working girl.

    What Does Being An Escort Involve?

    At first, the double persona and the excessive amount of texts and/or phone calls are a bit intense to adjust to. But after abit, one adjusts and manages to breathe more easily.

    For me, this meant  I have gotten pretty organised and can do my makeup a lot faster than previously. I find I enjoy my clients more now – I don’t feel so rushed or nervous these days.

    I really enjoy being an escort in most cases. I really enjoy the physical contact, the compliments, meeting new clients and spending time with each unique client. The best bookings are when the client is into pleasing me as much as I am into pleasing him/her.

    What does it involve? I think most people know what it involves so I’ll tell  you some things I didn’t know were involved before I joined the industry…

    A lot of girls offer the Girlfriend Experience but that doesn’t mean you are allowed to kiss the girl. That’s what a girlfriend does doesn’t she? You need to check on that! It depends on the girl.

    Showering with your client before or after or both is definitely something easy to add to your service that offers a lot of delight to your client.

    Age seems to be a huge factor in how many bookings you get.

    Unfortunately, you will be asked weird questions from potential clients and some clients think it’s okay to verbally abuse the working girl.

    You can get a booking anytime of the day – including 2am, 4am or some other crazy hour.

    There are some crazy acronyms out there but it doesn’t hurt to learn a few relevant to the sex industry.

    Misconceptions About Escorting

    Common misconceptions about working girls tend to be around judgments of girls and their personal life. I think it depends what town, city and country you are working in, but being in New Zealand, where it is legal to be an escort, there appears to be a heated debate about the pros and cons of legalisation. I initially thought legalisation was an all positive move, but hearing both sides of the story proves that there is no one solution for all.

    Another misconception is around working girls are drug or alcohol addicts, single and come from the “wrong side of the track” but my view shows this can’t be further from the truth. Work girls are friends, sisters, mothers, daughters, the girl next door and sometimes not the HOT chick on the bus every night. Working girls are no longer squashed to the outskirts of society and they definitely have legal rights.

    I see and hear a lot of working girls standing up for their rights, believing in themselves, and sticking to their own  personal morals whether it means work or no work. This is empowerment and it’s really great to see. Everyone from the working girl beside her to all of her clients benefit from this positive approach to working in the industry and seeing the industry trying to clean itself up.

    I think men who book working girls have very little knowledge to how the industry works though. And maybe that is something they don’t want to think about, especially when they have to choose which girl to book 🙂

    And that filters into the clients and how they treat and perceive working girls so I think there are less negative misconceptions about working girls and more about the industry where men don’t have much of an idea how the industry works or is run and how that affects the girls on that side of things.

    But because we are talking about humans, I think we need to remember, this is my experience to date, my perception. And others have different experiences and perceptions so we need to keep talking. Interviews carried out by SimplySxy and other organisations help keep it real.


    Addison Lane – Addison is a woman of sensuality, curiosity and pleasure. She loves giving pleasure as much as she loves receiving it. Educated in a variety of faculty’s, when she’s not at work, she is continuing her art practice along with her passion for music.

    Follow Addison Lane on:

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/addisonlane_nz
    Websites:

    Cracker (previously Backpage)

    http://wellington.cracker.com/FemaleEscorts/buxon-babe-sexy-and-naughty-xx/4138407

    NZ Pleasures

    https://eroticescortsnz.co.nz/listing/addison-lane/

    www.girl4u.co

    http://www.girl4u.co/girls/female-escort/addison-lane-private-escort-wellington-central-1611.html

    You will find Addison in Wellington most days. She has toured to Auckland and Christchurch but Wellington is home at the moment.


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  • Russian DJ & Producer, Eliza May

    Russian DJ & Producer, Eliza May

    Hi Eliza! It is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy. Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from.

    Thank you SimplySxy for reaching out to me. I’m a DJ and producer from Russia. I’ve been DJing about 7 years and I currently live in Los Angeles, CA.

    How did the inspiration to be a DJ start?

    I was into music from my childhood. I have been playing piano since the age of 5 and finished music school when I was 13 years old. During college, I was working at the University’s radio station and I saw an advertisement about DJ courses. I thought it was about radio DJing so decided to check it out. It turned out to be club DJing, but at that time I knew nothing about it and couldn’t tell one genre from another, so I decided to stay and learn as much as I could. And I liked it and started to work as a DJ shortly after finishing the courses.

    I got into scratching and turntablism much later. I never really knew what it was until I saw a DJ scratching at the Delphic Games competition. I believe it was in 2012. That’s when I started to learn how to scratch and DJing became for me more than just a hobby.

    What is your most memorable DJ experience?

    Lots of my gigs are memorable for me cause all of them are about the connection with the crowd, taking them into the journey. It’s all about the exchange of energy. That’s a wonderful feeling when people come to you during or after your set to tell you how they enjoy the music you play. That is one of the reasons I’m doing it, I like to make people happy with my art and to help them have a good time.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    It’s always pleasant to hear compliments from other people. I can’t choose the best compliment I have ever received but I definitely like when people compliment not just my look but my skills and my work.

    Is there a misconception about DJs that you commonly hear?

    I think there is still a misconception about female DJs. Lots of people still don’t take girl DJs seriously and don’t expect them to have skills. But I think it’s getting better, with more and more talented females taking over the DJ world right now.

    If you could be a cartoon character, who will you be?

    I’m obsessed with Olaf from “Frozen” so I think that I would be one of the girls from the movie. And I think Elsa’s character matches mine much better than Anna’s and she is blonde too, so I’d be her!

    How do you spend your free time?

    I like to go to the beach or hike, explore whatever city I’m in, and spend time with my family. Although I spend most of my free time working on music.

    What is the lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    For me every attempt a guy makes when I’m at the gym is lame. Cause when I’m working out the last thing I want to do is to talk with strangers. I’m going to the gym to work on my goals, I’m very focused and don’t like any distractions.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Eliza. One more question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

    Being sexy for me means to have self-confidence, to love yourself and your body and to be comfortable with who you are. It’s not just about how you look but also how you feel and behave.


    Follow the gorgeous DJ Eliza May on:

    Website: http://www.djelizamay.com

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DjElizaMayOfficial

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/djelizamay/

    Mixcould: https://www.mixcloud.com/djelizamay


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  • How To Deepthroat Like A Pro

    How To Deepthroat Like A Pro

    The feeling of a hard cock in my mouth is awesome. Licking, sucking, and teasing the cock to get it to a fully erect state. The physical pleasure I get from making the guy squirm, listening to the things he says, and seeing the faces that he makes, I get highly aroused. I can almost reach my peak at times and the level of satisfaction cannot be put into words at times. Something about it helps me to feel submissive, but in reality, I am the one in total control.

    Types Of Penis I Love

    I prefer larger than average size, which most consider 6.5 inches…a frightening thought. Anything over 8 inches with a nice girth can get my mouth nice and juicy. Circumcised please, and fresh smelling balls because you can’t leave those out. They need to sucked, licked and teased playfully with your tongue. I like for the cock to get rock hard, it makes it easy to create a good rhythm and creates the “Bobblehead Effect”.

    How I Feel When Deepthroating

    I feel in control, it’s like a million fantasies.. the perfect combination of foreplay and control. It’s an exhilarating opportunity to put on a show and stimulate the senses both visually and physically. Look up at the guy with delight and smoldering eyes and like his cock is the best thing you have ever laid your eyes on. The arousal I experience is indefinable. I gush with excitement knowing that he’s excited, and of course I’m pleasuring myself by hand below, and it is only right that he is watching, cock jumping uncontrollably and so is my clitoris.

    Favorite Positions To Deepthroat

    A good position is lying on your back and hanging your head slightly over the edge of the bed. Another great one is getting on your knees and looking towards the ceiling. These are good saliva producing positions, you do want to get creative with the positions but also do what’s most comfortable so that way, you can please him longer.

    Tips To Start Deepthroating

    First, test your gag reflex to see how sensitive it is before actually doing it while giving the guy a blowjob. Try using a penis shaped object like a banana or better yet, just invest in a dildo if you haven’t already. Certain positions work better than others to avoid the gag reflex, build up a tolerance to having your gag reflex stimulated. During the BJ you want to begin to take him deeper and deeper down your throat.

    DON’T FORGET TO BREATHE!

    Find a rhythm that allows you to take little breaths OUT while he slides out of your throat, then hold it while he’s down IN your throat. Be sure to change positions. Embrace the spit and the sloppier the better, your makeup should be running and and your eyes may be watering, but by this time you are doing a damn good job! Last but not least, be sure to swallow, nothing is sexier than a cock down your throat and a mouthful of cum.


    Ms Mocha StacyI am of African Americn, Native American, and Domincan descent. I was born in Harlem, NY so I have a hustlers mentality. I was raised in North Carolina so I have that southern girl charm about me. My birthday is May 24th, which makes me a Gemini, and I do love to receive gifts from my fans and admirers so make sure you check out my wish list and feel free to send me something good. Who knows maybe you will receive a free membership, pair of panties or a one on one cam session with me.

    Follow Mocha Stacy on:

    Website: www.MsMochaXXXstacy.com
    Company Website:  www.camillyentertainment.com

    Twitter:  https://twitter.com/MsMochaXXXstacy

    Instagram: @MsMochaXstacy

    For bookings and Inquiries: mochaxxx1@gmail.com

    Be on the lookout for the release of our two new paysite www.bcmxxxamateurs.com and the relaunching of www.bbwlylaeverwettt.com.

    For wind blowing deepthroating videos you can visit my official blow job website dmvheadcrew.com.


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  • Actress, Model & Yoga Teacher Lishan

    Actress, Model & Yoga Teacher Lishan

    Hi Lishan it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    I am a Singaporean Chinese actress, model and yoga teacher. My passion is in the performing arts and I am a certified rescue scuba diver and reiki Master. Since I was a child, I loved arts and craft, writing and was in dance and the choir. Afterwhich I pursued my studies in theatre, drama, media and communications. I love surfing and free diving too and can also hold my breath for over 3 minutes!

    I would love to host yoga and detox retreats all over the world as wellness and travel are what I believe in. The holistic healing arts have helped my recovery from bulimia and depression. Ever since, I have faciliated numerous workshops and taught in Bali, Philippines and Mongolia.

    When did your interest in modeling start?

    It started five years ago when I was 19 and my friends who were amateur photographers wanted to practise their craft on a model. And they asked me and so I tried! My first few shoots were in a Cheongsam at Chinese Gardens in a group photoshoot with multiple models and photographers, in beachwear at Siloso Beach and fashion at Haji Lane by Darren Ong, as well as in a kimono and the Nonya Kebaya by Frank Ho.

    Which is your most memorable photoshoot experience so far?

    I’ve had many fun and crazy shoots but if I had to pick one, it would be the bathtub floral shoot with film maker and producer Arthur Keng @arthurkeng.mov. We bought 5 litres of fresh milk and tons of fake flowers. I was so cold and so hot from trying to figure out the right water temperature in the tub. Nevertheless, I enjoy unique shoots and have also shot an action trailer with him involving fight choreography.

    A close second would be a shoot for Audaash @audaash with creative hair and makeup by Yvonne @vonnylang in a studio setting. I love the Korean inspired trends and working with looks that are extraordinary.

    How do you spend your free time and weekends?

    My weekends are usually packed with teaching yoga, castings, auditions, filming, photoshoots, event modelling and brand ambassador jobs. I also was a scare actress at Universal Studios Singapore for Halloween and was nominated the best swing for my house. For my free time, I enjoy catching up with friends over a good meal, watching art house films, reading books, penning poetry, unwinding with music, playing with my rescue tabby Bobby Brown and planning my next vacation.

    Where do you usually love to shop from?

    These days I enjoy shopping in Bangkok where there are lots of up and coming designers and a cool fashion scene. Otherwise, I have many clothes from TopShop, Brandy Melville, A&F where I first worked and my Instagram sponsors. Since I teach yoga and love the island life, I have items from Lululemon, Teeki, Pink Salt Swim, KBlu and more.

    If you could have a superpower, what will it be?

    I would love invisibility as one and telepathy as another. A little greedy here haha. Wouldn’t it be cool if we could observe what we wanted unnoticed or sneak around? And to communicate without words or mediums.

    Which movie did you watch recently and was it good?

    I watched a period film The Beguiled and Thai film Bad Genius on cheating in exams. Yes they were awesome! I love watching movies alone and I enjoy indie and less mainstream ones that make me think deeply which might not be very palatable to most people. My favourite genre would be psychological thrillers. If a movie gets me thinking and sticks in my mind for a long time, I believe it is worth watching.

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    Hmm I’ve had too many to even choose the best example…

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Lishan. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Living fully in the present, accepting oneself unconditionally without judgement and being confident and comfortable in one’s skin.


    Follow the gorgeous Lishan on:

    Instagram: @lishantheyogi
    Model Mayhem: http://www.modelmayhem.com/limlishan
    Facebook For Yoga Teaching Schedule: https://www.facebook.com/sauchaspirit/
    Yoga Website: www.sauchaspirit.com


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  • Seductive Songs To Listen To During Sex

    Seductive Songs To Listen To During Sex

    To me, sex is power. It’s empowering when you do it because you want to do it.” – Rihanna said. Sting’s opinion is that, “there’s no religion but sex and music.”  We can all agree that sexy time is the best one. Despite some of our best efforts, it’s not always easy to get in the sex mood, especially if we find ourselves following the same routine every time you lay between sheets. Sometimes what you need besides candles and sexy lingerie is a wonderful vibe to your sex. While classic songs like “Let’s Get It On” by Marvin Gaye are always a great choice because they are truly sensual and guarantee a rear time. Some experts identified “Intro” and “Angels” by The XX as the most popular songs to listen to during sex.  Drake’s interlude “Summer’s Over” is also a great song to listen to  comfortably when naked in the dark. Don’t be shy about playing these songs again and again. “Anywhere” by 112 is for screaming, sweating and loud type of sex. If your body is telling you yes, so go ahead:

    Here we are all alone

    You and me

    Privacy

    And we can do anything

    Your fantasy

    I wanna make your dreams come true

    Can you hear?

    The modern world offers a huge variety of sexual music. For example, Tom Waits sounds like the wise man who knew everything in his life. It’s not necessarily the lyrics that matter, just the song in general. It worth to say the least: “Take my hand, I’m standing right here, you got to just hold on.” (Tom Waits – Hold On).

    Dirty Quotes for Him

    A good sex quote from a well-known song always resonates and touches the spot because it usually tells about a common experience we all relate to. The best sex quotes from pop culture past and present may be in handy at the right moment. Sometimes you would need to whisper the right words into your lover’s ear while dancing. When you are willing to pass to the sex level, a lot of factors go into setting the right mood. The foreplay is important. Don’t hurry up to skip it. A girl may give a hint by Billy Crystal’s words: “Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place.” Then, the song “Physical” by Olivia Newton-John was recognized as the most women’s sensual song forever. The lyrics “There’s nothin’ left to talk about unless it’s horizontally…  Let me hear your body talk” are more than clear.

    Sex Quotes for Her

    If the man can say to himself “I’m just a horny toad” (Prince’s song) and he has money, flowers, and champagne – now all he needs is the right music. The selection of the right song can do miracles for your sex life. In fact, whether or not you’re getting laid tonight depends on it. Find love songs to get her in the mood and freaked out.

    Baby, I’m your slave,

    I’ll let you whip me if I misbehave,

    It’s just that no one makes me feel this way.

    (Justin Timberlake – SexyBack)

    If you feel that your girl is ready and willing, the right tune is going to help you. For instance, maybe both of you used to talk about unusual positions, but it did not happen yet. Kinky vibe with dirty lyrics can be the boost for this next level. The Bukini Kill band plays the song “I like fucking” – “I believe in the radical possibilities of pleasure babe. I do. I do. I do.”  The sexiest words “what a wicked thing to do to make me dream of you” with a velvety sensual voice of Chris Isaak will add more fuel to your steamy feelings. But remember – if the lyrics are too cheesy, like Barry White’s “My darling, I can’t get enough of your love, babe,” it may result the giggle fits destroying her sensual mood. Then, if you chose too fast songs, you risk getting a jackrabbit sex.

    You light me up, sweet old desire,

    So won’t you come close to my fire?

    (Beth Hart and Joe Bonamassa – Close To My Fire)

    Follow your favorite songs and they will help to get rid of your clothes, you both.

    Fucking Quotes

    If the music is the food of love, the lyrics are also the food of loving. Unexpected straight words, like “You’re fucking perfect to me” (“Fucking Perfect” by Pink), can boost the brain and give it a chemical injection. The proper intonation and quiet voice will disguise any trait of blatancy and there will be nothing wrong with that.

    Oh you know, that tonight I’m fucking you

    (Enrique Iglesias – Tonight (I’m Fuckin’ You)

    The more the listeners enjoy what they are hearing, the stronger the connections are between them. The lyrics of “Sexy Motherfucker” with Prince’s rapped vocal are killer grooves that assure you to keep it up all night long.

    Move to my music,

    Play that fucking music,

    Live through my music, yeah!

    (Natalie Cole – Happy Love)

    There’s nothing wrong with getting a bit rowdy while having sex and some strong words will likely bring out the animals in both of you and get you crazy pleasure.

    I’m gonna make you,

    A fucking psycho,

    Your ass belongs to me now.

    (Muse – Psycho)

    Horny Sayings

    Good saying at the right time helps to pass to the next stage. This can play the role of the nucleus phrase which is involved in forming expectations that must be rewarded.

    Feeling kind of horny,

    I might just take you home with me.

    (Beyonce – Naughty Girl)

    Between sexual partners, the sincere words will only assist to tune to the same feelings together.

    I’m horny

    Can’t you hear what I say?

    I’m so horny

    And tonight – I swear – I’ll be with you

    Baby everywhere I will kiss you

    And I’ll touch you inside

    I’m horny

    Baby, I’m horny…

    (E-Rotic – I’m Horny)

    Holiday sex, once a week or everyday sex… Who’s really keeping track? Getting laid together should bring a screaming pleasure to both humans. Listen to the lyrics and have birthday sex year-round.

    I hope ur ready for love cuz I got more than enough

    Come bust a beautiful nut upon me.

    (Ashanti – I’m So Horny)

    All in all, what’s better than experimenting a bit during the sex? Whether you love a kinky and wild sex with some items or you prefer to be satisfied with calm, stress-relieving sex, the good music and sex quotes are intended to become very significant additions to your pleasure.


     Andrew Guerra is an editor of http://sweetytextmessages.com/ He likes to share his thoughts with the people around. His writing on motivation, love has appeared to make our life better. Andrew believes in fairness and human wisdom.

     


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  • Travel Blogger Jessay

    Travel Blogger Jessay

    Hi Jessay it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    I was born and raised on a little farm in the east of Germany and moved to Munich at just 18 years of age. For six years, I worked as a chef for a Bavarian star cook and another five years a a shop assistant in a well established Munich jeans store. At the moment I travel around the world. We just started in New Zealand, will go to Australia afterwards before exploring South East Asia.

    What is your fashion style like?

    Destroyed black jeans and oversized tanktops are my favs.

    I also love the street style of boyfriend jeans combined with a nice blouse.

    My must-have-item is always one of my extravagant leather jackets (and I have lots of them ;-))

    Which is your most memorable travel experience so far?

    Our trip to Bali was crazy with a beautiful villa, scooter cruises through the endless rice fields, the nice temples and the food was just amazing and I know what I’m taking about ;-). Another episode I will never forget was when, I woke up completely jet lagged at Jervis Bay in Australia about 5am and the whole porch of our house was full of little colorful birds, which even dared to eat from our hands.

    Just today I am shortly before maybe one of the most exciting events in my life as we go on a whale-watching trip tomorrow. Whales are my absolutely favorite animals and have always been, so that will be very exciting and emotional for me to see one of these giants in free nature.

    What are 3 essential tips that every traveler should follow?

    Be open, honest and friendly and take the things and people as they come your way. The world wasn’t waiting for you to come along but if you treat it right, good things will happen to you. And never forget, always bring toilette paper.

    Where did the inspiration to start your blog come from?

    I started my blog on Instagram because a lot of my customers at the jeans store told me that they liked my style and how I helped them to find something that they liked for themselves. So I thought, why show and tell that to only 20 people a day, when I could easily reach a lot more and inspire their style. I wanted to show the whole world my idea of fashion and life style.

    If you could have a superpower, which will it be?

    To be able to never need to go pee when traveling 😉

    Do you believe in any superstition?

    I believe in Karma.

    What turns you off on a date?

    Smelly breath.

    Ugly teeth.

    Nose hair.

    When he still lives with his parents.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Jessay. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy is a person who has charm, humor and in best case is a surfer.


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    Website: www.thatsourtrip.com (Travelblog in german )
    Instagram: @miss_jessay_

    Travelpics Instagram: @_adventures_of_groot_


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  • What Exactly Is Findom?

    What Exactly Is Findom?

    For many, kink can be a form of therapy and catharsis; a much needed escape from reality. Everyone has a different take on kink and a different experience, meaning the possibility for something new and interesting to be discovered is limitless. Whether it’s a 24/7 lifestyle or just for play, sensual or sadistic, kink provides us with a safe community where for some, they can finally let go and be themselves.

    What Is Financial Domination?

    A branch of BDSM Femdom, financial domination involves a (usually) male submissive submitting to a dominant, known as a Domme, Goddess, Mistress, (or male Cashmaster) financially. This submission can take many forms, from buying gifts, to money transfers known as ‘tribute’, and in some cases, giving the dominant full control over bank accounts and credit cards.

    The submissive, known as a ‘finsub’ (short for ‘financial submissive’), pay pig, or money slave, finds a sense of arousal in handing over financial control to the dominant. As with traditional Femdom, financial domination is routed in an exchange of power and is often coupled with humiliation kink, obedience, chastity and orgasm denial.

    Sounds scary? It is! Financial Domination is one of the few branches of BDSM with real world consequences, blurring the lines between role-play and real-life, making it one of the more intense and addictive forms of submission.

    Why I Enjoy Findom

    I’m very much a controlling person in my personal life and in my private relationships with men, and online financial domination has been a fun extension of that.  I definitely enjoy the power and adoration that comes with being a Domme, and I’ve been able to meet and be served by wonderful people that I ordinarily wouldn’t have met otherwise.

    Characteristics Of A Good Finsub

    Dedication, devotion, obedience, and a willingness to learn and make sacrifices are all qualities of a good finsub. Gratification should come from amusing and improving the life of the Dominant, the finsubs personal wants are secondary.

    Tips For Potential Finsubs

    No two Dommes are alike, so take your time finding someone who’s style and personality meshes with yours. Compatibility is key to a lasting and fulfilling relationship, both inside and outside the world of BDSM. Prior experience isn’t necessary, but it’s important to be clear about your limits and needs outright. Your Domme will guide you, challenge you, and shape you.  Together you’ll explore parts of yourself you may not have otherwise known existed.


    Luss the Queen: Australian Financial Dominatrix with a penchant for humiliating, controlling, and teasing men. Lover of key-holding and total power exchange; shaping men into whatever she desirers at any given time.

    Follow me on:

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/lussthequeen
    Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/7556872
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  • Malaysian Model & Blogger, Yana

    Malaysian Model & Blogger, Yana

    Hi Yana it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    I am a writer, blogger, designer, model and a dancer. I love to multitask basically, despite the fact that I get overwhelmed constantly. Hahaha I am a KL person through and through.

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    Very Kpop-ish. I basically got my ‘ fashion look’ when I was 18 because that was the time that I got to know of Hyuna and other Kpop idols. Before that I was just very ‘unripe’.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    “Your eyes could kill my soul over and over again, and I will still stare at it”

    Do you have any hobbies?

    Would you believe me if I said all my professions are my hobby? Writing and dancing are my top favourite hobbies.

    Which is the funniest thing you have witnessed or happened to you?

    Trying to throw a joke at my sister. She wouldn’t even have to reply anything but I will be out of breath and in tears when I am trying to tell her the joke.

    If you could change one thing about the world, what will it be?

    Negative jealousy. There are way too many people who get easily jealous and they tend to try and sabotage others. It would be better if they were positively jealous so that it becomes their fuel to achieve their own dreams.

    Where is your dream holiday destination?

    Japan.

    What is your worst date experience ever?

    There is none…hahaha I am probably lucky in this department.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Yana. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    When a person exudes an aura that is irresistible and gets onlookers to turn their heads. Regardless of whatever he/she is wearing.


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    Website: http://www.absoluteyana.com/

    Latest makeup tutorial: http://www.absoluteyana.com/2017/10/makeup-tutorial-halloween-special.html


    Images courtesy of Yana

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  • Does Penis Size Matter?

    Does Penis Size Matter?

    Sex to me is a shared desire between people for a higher level of understanding of the self, the other, and the world. It is a beautiful space, where you can be exactly who you want to be, and share that intimately with another. A space to open yourself up to love, your natural vibration, be it physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual.  I really believe that the manifestation of love for everyone and everything is my purpose in life, hence my career in human rights. Love is who we are, how we were created, and what we are made of.

    Why Does Size Matter To Men

    I can only assume that it’s an insecurity thing. Which is totally understandable. I think this probably comes down to the unrealistic expectations perpetuated through a lot of porn (which is a whole topic in itself).

    Does Size Matter For Women

    I’m going to preface this answer by saying – for me personally it is less about length, and more about girth, but every woman is different. Generally, I don’t think size is the be all and end all. Of course, any woman would be lying if she said that a good sized, thick penis didn’t feel incredible, but sex, especially for women, is so much more than penetration. This in real stats, translates to 75% of all women, never reaching an orgasm from intercourse alone.

    I’ve actually found that guys with big dicks often put in way less effort than their slightly smaller counterparts, it’s almost like they wish they could say to you “I’ve got a big dick, isn’t that enough”. Well PSA to guys with big dicks, it’s most definitely not. If you don’t like giving women oral, and you don’t even attempt to find their clit, you lose. Oh and also, if you think that a woman giving you some direction, so that she can enjoy herself, is emasculating… get a grip.

    Tips To Enjoy A Small Penis

    I mean of course it feels different, as I’m sure you can imagine. But how it feels really depends on how a guy uses it. Sex for me is about passion and love. And when I say love I don’t mean nuclear family love. I think love comes in so many forms and I really believe that you should see every day and every sexual encounter, as an opportunity to manifest it.

    Even if you’re just having casual sex, it doesn’t mean you can’t love every moment with that other person, without traditionally ‘loving’ them. Being a sex worker has taught me that the ‘love’ two people can give each other, be it mentally or physically, can have a really big impact on the lives of both parties. That’s why I think ‘making love’ or should I say ‘manifesting love’, is so important to every sexual experience.

    Penis Turn-Offs For Me

    Honestly, the only turn off I have is bad hygiene or lack thereof. I think everyone has had an experience…or two, that involves you going down on a partner only to be faced with a distinctly unpleasant smell. Obviously, not every impromptu sexual encounter starts with a shower, but I think it’s just common courtesy to excuse yourself and quickly give your penis a rinse, before you expect someone to put it in their mouth. The same goes for vaginas!

    Also guys should be lucky, sinks are basically penis height…vaginas on the other hand, well they can’t even get close to the tap.  Also if a guy doesn’t manscape, at all, it can be a bit of a turn off. Now don’t get me wrong, I let all of my body hair grow out naturally, but I still lightly trim my pubic hair. I personally don’t want a big mouthful of hair while I’m trying to give oral.


    Lana Rose – You can call me Lana Rose. I am a Sydney based, passionate, erotic, and discreet luxury companion. Most importantly, I am a believer in the power of love. A shared desire between people for a higher level of understanding of the self, the other, and the world.

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    Website: www.experiencelanarose.com
    Twitter: https://twitter.com/escortlanarose

    Tumblr: https://experiencelanarose.tumblr.com/

    Upcoming Tours:

    Brisbane Tour: 18 – 28 December, 2017.

    Melbourne Tour:  21 – 27 February, 2018.


    Images courtesy of Karl Clifford https://karlclifford.com/

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  • Cosplayer Meepy Sheepy From Florida

    Cosplayer Meepy Sheepy From Florida

    Hi Meepy it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hi there! I’m a Floridian cosplayer who started in 2010. I’m a Ravenclaw, and an all around creative person.  I also have 5 cats!

    Photo: Papanotzzi , Character: Android 18

    How did you get started into cosplaying?

    Back when I was in middle school, a couple of my friends showed me what manga was and I became obsessed. I then quickly became the library nerd who was there all the time. Soon after, they mentioned a convention called Megacon and told me to go. While I was there I saw so many characters I recognized and I thought it was the coolest thing. I knew immediately it was something I wanted to do.

    What is your most memorable cosplay experience so far?

    Seeing Matthew Wood (voice of General Grievous) while I was cosplaying his character was definitely very memorable for me. He’s my favorite Star Wars character and this was a costume I really wanted to bring to life. Matthew even signed my helmet and gave me a sticker of authentication on it!

    Photo: Papanotzzi, Character: Valor

    Which character are you looking forward to cosplaying next?

    I really look forward to making my Sugar Plum Sylvanas. Sylvanas from W0W is a character I’ve always loved and I’m making this skin so I can have an awesome character for an awesome convention called Holiday Matsuri.

    How much of a party animal are you?

    I’m not really a party person to be honest. I’m the type to sit back and people watch. I’ve recently wanted to go to more parties though, so I can hang out with people I don’t really get to see during the day. I only really go to parties at conventions.

    Photo: Papanotzzi, Character: Twitch

    If you could travel to anywhere in the world for a vacation, where will it be?

    I’ve never really cared too much for wanting to travel, but if I had to choose I guess I would say Germany. I’ve always been very proud of my German side.

    Which was the last movie you watched and was it any good?

    The last movie I watched was 47 Meters Down. It was okay, but I think the movie needed to add a little more story.

    Photo: Callus Heart Photography, Character: Red Arkana

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    Once when I was at a Pokemon TCG tournament, a guy came up to me in-between matches and told me I had nice kneecaps and tried to have a conversation with me. I thought he was just trying to mess with me, but I later found out he was serious.

    Photo: Papanotzzi, Character: Virgin Killer

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Meepy. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I think sexy is like another way of saying hot or attractive. I don’t really think an amount of clothing determines sexiness, but more so the vibe of the person/object.


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    Twitterhttps://twitter.com/meepy_sheepy

    Patreonwww.patreon.com/Meepysheepy

    Upcoming works: I am currently working on Sugar Plum sylvanas for Holiday Matsuri and I’m streaming all my progress.


    Featured image courtesy of Papanotzzi

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