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Dating Tips And Sexual Compatibility In Relationships

The qualities that attract me in another person are the qualities that I lack in myself, such as manliness, confidence, a clear direction on his part and physical stature. Little has to do with physical appearance, and more so with my perception of who they are overall. I am also attracted to how they treat me and make me feel. If it’s sincere, I feel comfortable opening up to them.

What To Look Out For On A Date

What I like to be made aware of at first when I am on a date are just what kind of person he is overall. What I noticed about a lot of guys was their attention on themselves, or lack of attention on me. While I like when they are talkative and enthusiastic about themselves, if the conversation is not a two way street, or if the person ever assumes that they know what you are talking about without fully wanting to understand, for instance, you will be able to tell if they are truly caring about what you are saying. That is a problem that I ran into which made me quiet for long periods of time on dates. I was so nervous that I couldn’t think of much to say about myself, and didn’t want to bother them by asking stuff outright about them.

The conversation had to feel natural, and I can remember multiple occasions in which it wasn’t, and I was a deer in headlights that was running on adrenaline it seemed, due to my lack of deep thinking . If something is off and communication is at a standstill, it’s easy to shut down and lose all confidence in the situation. Therefore, I would say that communication is a very important aspect of whether a date is real, or just an act the other is putting on. Other signs are more obvious, such as when you are just not attracted to the other person, or if they are overly nervous and unsure of themselves. That energy effects mine, and I am often not the person I want to be in that situation.

Common Issues Faced During Dating

Communication is very important, like I said before when starting to date someone. If it is fluid and natural, it’s only a matter of time before you are ready to go to the next level. And in my mind, there really are only two levels, meeting them and getting to know them, and then engaging fully into the relationship. Of course, if either person is unsure of what they want, this may take longer to date and figure it out.

I remember going on 5-6 dates before agreeing to engage in sex. This literally made no difference in the relationship, as we were focusing on the wrong thing. Timing has little to do with the dating process, and more so the people who are engaging. The main issue I faced was the battle between what I wanted, and what I wanted them to think that I want. For instance, after the date, the issue of when to contact them again was always the biggest issue. How do I not seem desperate, yet interested? Most of the time, I just waited for the other to contact me, to release the burden of having to make the call. Everyone wants to be the person that get’s texted first. This resulted in them not feeling wanted, and me not feeling wanted as well! The balance was off, and neither of us was acting based on what we wanted. I just wanted him to like me, and was unsure of what I even wanted.

Once I met that confident person, they reached out to me the next day, and were not afraid of rejection. This made me feel worthy of giving him my time. Also, the message was an invitation to hang out again and go to the pool, nothing sexual. This was highly unusual for me as well, as hard as that is to believe. Once you find that balance in the other person, there will be little resistance.

Importance Of Sexual Compatibility

It goes without saying that sexual compatibility is essential in keeping a relationship going strong for years to come. However, as long as you love the other person and who they are completely, how they perform is indeed not the only important factor, and other characteristics can make up for that. No one is perfect. As long as you are both physically and sexually satisfied, then the sex will be enough as long as you believe in your future with this person.

The truth about relationships is that you have to be willing to open yourself, as well as make compromises. This is the key to keeping that relationship. The bottom line is that when you feel confident in what you’re doing deep down, you will do anything in your power to fight for the balance. And everything requires maintenance and work for it to continue and be strong. There needs to be two driving forces, both going down the same road together.

My name is Melody Minx and I am 24 years old. I am a webcam model and have been since I was 18, as well as like to create, play video games and watch TV. I also enjoy exploring nature and experiencing new things! Follow me on MyMelodyMinx.com, on Twitter @MyMelodyMinx or contact me at Mymelodyminx@gmail.com

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October 13, 2016
How Important Is Sex In Relationships?

I am naturally a very sensual and passionate person. Over the years I have very quickly come to realize that the only way for me to enjoy intimacy is for it to be accompanied by a very genuine and loving mutually respectful relationship. There’s really only ever one man who can get me going, whether I’m in a relationship or not. However, my playful, rebellious side occasionally does enjoy messing around with women who are around as motivated, real and put together as I am.

This is why shooting G/G is something I got into. After about a year in the business I’m pretty selective of the models I work with, but the ones who have a similar sense of responsibility and determination as I do, I really enjoy working with them. For me, a good shoot is much more about the mutual bond over the enthusiasm of giving an outstanding performance rather than actual sexual attraction. Nothing is comparable to the sex I have with the man I love.

What’s Crucial In A Relationship?

In any relationship I have with anyone ever, whether it be casual, friendship or romance, respect and honesty are my biggest requirements. Everything is built from that, the stronger it is, the farther it can go. I’d have to have an extremely genuine respect and admiration for someone in order to become attracted enough to them to want to have sex, I could never be with anyone who I didn’t have that kind of a bond with. I’m extremely happy on my own. Taking care of myself is something I’ve never had a problem with. LOL

Importance Of Sex In Relationships

It can be, it depends on how everything happens and what’s important to a person. If you find out quickly that you share similar morals with someone and there’s a spark, there’s no harm in getting intimate quickly. No matter what happens later in the relationship you’ll still have a special understanding and appreciation for each other. If it’s the other way around and you mess around without really knowing whether you could see yourself with them, it’s not a huge loss if they don’t work out or want the same thing. But getting lucky could potentially get you REALLY lucky, I’d know.

Sexual Requirements Of A Partner

When I’m into someone, I need them all the time. I am quite sexually adventurous and love to exchange pics with my man if we can’t be together to have sex. 2-5 times per day is preferable, although life doesn’t always allow that. I guess the biggest requirement is to have someone who is very into me as a person and is capable of participating in many rounds of passionate intercourse regularly. I can tell when someone is pretending to be into me, nobody should ever fake anything. Honesty is so sexy with the right amount of consideration. That’s how you keep a relationship going.

Mistakes Men Make During Sex

Men who are so confident in their methods and/or “equipment” so to speak, that they no longer feel the need to explore the needs of a woman. They are all too common. Anyone can fuck hard, anyone can carry out the actions. I don’t care how attractive, sweet or how nice of a cock a guy thinks he has. If he’s not paying close attention to my body the way I would for him, it’s not going to be good. I once actually had a guy ask me mid intercourse why I haven’t had an orgasm yet. I was so unimpressed I immediately got up and left. That REALLY turned me off from hook ups. Almost every guy who talks to me reminds me of that guy and I probably end up being way too mean to them!

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October 5, 2016
My Dating And Relationships Experience

In my life, dating has taken on different roles. From the age of 13 to 23, when I met someone I was finally comfortable sharing my life with. I dated a lot, most were 1-5 dates, as well as a few longer term relationships, that were all lacking or unbalanced in whatever way. It took me finding out what I wanted out of life, to realize what I was lacking the whole time, my confidence. Even though I thought I had it, or at least wanted to pretend I did, the truth came through when I wasn’t getting what I wanted out of the relationship. I now feel that every encounter has impacted me, and I am happy to share what I have learned with the world. Even if it is not your truth, it can still help shed some light onto yours.

The history of my experience with dating started when I was 13 years old, when the wave of attraction and infatuation was growing. At the same time, the internet and instant messaging, forums, and the like were coming about, and was discovered by me as soon as I was given an email account. It’s vague now, but I ended up meeting a fellow online through a music-related forum. Within days of talking, I liked the person whom I ended up calling on the phone, and this relationship lasted as long as I would have wanted it to, despite all odds being against me, and the fact that he lived across the country.

Regardless of everyone’s disapproval, and constant exposure to others in high school, I kept this online and long distance relationship going strong. We saw each other for 1-2 weeks twice per year, and I made it work until I turned 18, when I lost my virginitiy to him. And although some might say it is a romantic love story looking in, it was really a constant struggle on my part. The confidence that I was lacking was not being reciprocated by him, meaning that I was the one in the relationship that awaited his every phone call, and was in constant fear of him leaving me and being inadequate.

After I started fresh at the age of 18, it took me a year to even attempt to go out and start looking. Once I felt ready, I began by filling out an online dating profile. Since I started camming when I was 18, I built up the physical confidence to put myself out there. I ended up dating for years on and off, had slight obsessions with a few men, like the tall one who took me on my very first real date, or the next door neighbor who was the very first man to come onto me that I was into as well, and in person I might add. I did not feel I was picky, in fact, I did not even attempt to go after the most attractive men. Average looking, and I was really open with my specifications before I knew what was attractive to me and what I needed.

The truth is, confidence is what really turned me on. Other than that, I needed the love to be reciprocated, and still had yet to find that. The next long term relationship I must mention was the first relationship I established through online dating. It lasted from age 19 to 21, when I finally got out. I say got out because I ended up being trapped, physically and emotionally. The way out was there, but required a struggle, and most importantly, confidence. Luckily, I had a strong voice deep down that was on the verge of breaking loose. The thought of leaving was constantly on my mind, starting anew, the beauty and peace of focusing only on myself, and looking for the person whom I truly wanted to be with. At the time though, I really just needed to be alone to figure that out. I knew early on that this was not the right person, however, I did not speak up in fear of the outcome, his reaction and my steps to move forward. And this decision never became easier. The whole toxic atmosphere was beginning to cloud my thinking overall.

Because of this experience, my confidence after moving on was undeniable. I knew more of what I wanted. However, the journey continued and I relapsed when I fell in love for a brief time with another man online, who lived in the UK. Just like my first online relationship in the past, I would have done anything to make it work, and was even ready to purchase the ticket myself to go there to see him. It was hard when I was faced with the realization that this would not happen, when he deleted me right before my trip to see my friend’s wedding in New York. What was supposed to be a fun trip with friends, was tainted by my sadness of still not finding that person, or anyone I thought who wanted me. I ended up crying in the middle of the after party, and feeling like I was in high school all over again.

Then time did it’s trick again, and I suddenly didn’t care about him anymore. My interest had shifted to something, or someone more tangible, yet still unbalanced emotionally. But was not lacking physically by any means. It had been about 7 months since I moved into my very own studio cottage, a glorified hotel room in my opinion. But despite the small size, it was located right next to a park, which sealed the deal for me. I knew I wanted to become more physically active, and a park to run in would be a great start. This simple act of starting to run opened up pathways I never experienced in my life until then. My confidence and mental strength was building, until I had enough strength to make decisions clearly. Then it seemed like life was suddenly starting to go my way.

When going on dates at this stage, I focused on what I wanted out of it, rather than what I thought they wanted. I casually went on a date with someone who messaged me, after nearly a year break from dating online, and this person did not stand out to me physically at first. However, as soon as he began speaking, he reassured me what I have believed about myself all along. And not in a selfish way, but of appreciation. At that point, the decision was mine. There was no more mystery in intentions. We possessed the qualities that we wanted in each other. He wanted to be more sensitive, I wanted to be more firm and decisive. Now, we share our qualities and become even stronger people because of this.

All in all, dating and relationships all has to do with two main questions you need to be sure of when going in, who are you and what do you want? Now, this is a common misconception as well, the idea that the perfect vision of what you want in a person is out there waiting for you. Therefore, you’re easily let down when this other person doesn’t match up. This is a superficial view on dating, and it goes a lot deeper once you meet that right person. And perhaps, that spark will ignite during the first few dates, but this is only ideal if it is a mutual connection. And speaking from my personal perspective, this is a lot easier said than done.

When I was presented with that confident person who seemed to know what they want, I wondered if I was that, and was not getting the feedback I wanted. But what I didn’t realize until after I found that right person, was that I was also needing something on their side, as well as my own self assurance. Their facade was a different version of mine that prevented anyone from breaking through. Once we both had the willingness to open ourselves up without fear of being let down, everything made sense and both our needs were met completely.

My name is Melody Minx and I am 24 years old. I am a webcam model and have been since I was 18, as well as like to create, play video games and watch TV. I also enjoy exploring nature and experiencing new things! Follow me on MyMelodyMinx.com, on Twitter @MyMelodyMinx or contact me at Mymelodyminx@gmail.com

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October 3, 2016
Spice Up Your Sex Life With Boudoir Photography

We absolutely love sex and we know how important it is to a relationship. Sex should be something you explore together, trying new things and never letting things get “stale” or boring. We always talk and are honest about what we like and want to try. We are very into trying new things and having sex in fun and adventurous places. This is what led us to try couple’s boudoir.

How Our Interest In Boudoir Photography Began

Samantha had done a few boudoir shoots and they came out amazing. We love trying to push our sexual adventures to new lengths and decided to try out doing a shoot together. Something that most see as private but sharing our passion as if someone was watching us. That taboo of someone seeing me with my hot wife is exciting as I love showing her off.

Why We Love It

I love seeing the passion in our photos. I have so much pride showing them off to people. I love our passion as a couple and I love showing people that you don’t have to ever become an old boring married couple. I love posing and making love to her while the moment is captured forever on film. The passion burns through. The photos are a great reminder of how hot you two can be.

One Way To Spice It Up

We just make sure we haven’t seen each other naked in a few days so when we do on film, it’s a genuine surprise haha

Go For It!

Absolutely go for it and try it out! Let your inhibitions go and try something new! It’s a very sexy feeling showing off for a camera with your other half. Show everybody out there why they should be jealous of you. It’s a lot of fun!

We are a married couple who love to be passionate. We are proud of our love and have always just embraced sexuality and love and passion. Sex isn’t only for the bedroom. Follow us on @beardedillusionist and @emerald_siren_clothing and www.emeraldsirenclothing.jimdo.com

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August 24, 2016
Polyamorous Relationship Tips

I wasn’t given much of a sex talk growing up, and I went through the fear-based sex-ed many do growing up. But, I went on my own journey with my body and learned it’s mine to do with what I wish, how I wish. I think everyone deserves that freedom.

How We Started Polyamory

My husband and I got married pretty young. We enjoyed our time dating and being just us, but once we were in it for the long haul we discussed the experiences we might miss out on being a young married couple. I started looking for poly people online to talk to. Eventually (it took around 6 months of on and off discussion) we opened our relationship, which led to me meeting my second partner who is now just as important to me as my husband is.

Guidelines For A Polyamorous Relationship

Personally I don’t believe in strict rules, because relationships should be organic and not driven by too specific of guidelines, but communication is very important. We talk about things we want to happen before they do, everyone has a say, and we do our best to express feelings in a healthy way as they come up.

Fairness For All Parties

Jealousy is something we’re taught to have. Other people aren’t meant to be possessions, or kept track of, or “claimed.” That being said, it’s a hard habit to break. When these feelings come up you have to decide if they are worth being talked about or if you need to work on it yourself, because insecurity is the root of jealousy. I ask myself why this is something REALLY bothering me and go from there. I expect the same courtesy from my partners.

Prevention For Complications?

No. They get that way. Sometimes you don’t notice until you try to explain it to someone else. But when things are good and you’re just going with it they don’t seem that way. It’s like having a family. It’s just different.

Do’s & Don’ts

Always always always talk about your feelings and needs. Have those adult conversations, discover the root of your problems, and use your relationships for growth and support. Never use people as band-aids or against each other. Learn to schedule time and be okay with that. Do your best to be fair, open, and honest. Talk about things you’re thinking about doing before you do them. If you’re feeling neglected, say so. If you need sex, say so!

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August 10, 2016
What Counts As Cheating?

What constitutes cheating? Is flirting with strangers cheating? Or only when there is physical contact such as a kiss or having sex?

In my personal opinion, I would include flirting, as cheating.

Cheating can be physical or emotional, so even if a person hasn’t had a physical affair, an emotional affair is just as bad in my opinion. If a partner is texting another woman or man and is flirty or suggestive, there is something very wrong in that person’s relationship for them to put themselves out there in a way that their partner should only be seen.

It’s possible their needs are not being met and that is why they are looking elsewhere, or they may have an issue with monogamy, depending on the situation and person involved.

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May 2, 2016
My boyfriend Watches More Porn Than He Tells Me

I think my boyfriend watches much more porn than he lets on. Should I be concerned?

Not necessarily.

Whether there’s cause for concern depends on why there is deception (if there is deception), and not in the fact that we’re talking about porn. It would concern me just as much if he’s not letting on how much candy he eats behind your back, or how much he’s obsessed with a TV show.

In other words, the object of affection/interest/obsession is not a problem – there are plenty of ways to consume porn, eat candy, or watch TV without it being a problem. But there are only a few healthy reasons for hiding or deceiving your partner about anything.

If indeed he is being deceptive, is it because he wants privacy? If so, that’s OK. Does he feel like it’s a man thing, an alone thing, or something just for him? That’s OK too. In fact, it’s healthy for couples to have some separation, to have worlds where you travel alone. It creates room to keep growing (yes, even through porn) and a reason to keep getting to know each other.

Or is it that he feels a bit embarrassed? Or think (or know) that you’ll judge him? Or believe that you’d try to stop him? These are OK and understandable. And also changeable.

If you don’t have a strong repulsion to porn, and you wish that your boyfriend would be more open about his use, I’d suggest you make more room in your relationship to talk about porn. You can be indirect and curious, just to open the topic, “How old were you when you first saw porn? I hear that boys these days are watching it at 10. I found my parent’s tapes when I was 13 and was totally confused”. You can be direct and open, “Hey love, just so you know, I’m cool with you watching porn. I know that some guys hide it because they think they have to. But I don’t want you to hide it. And I’ll still give you privacy”.

If you have a strong repulsion to porn, I would suggest that you do some work for yourself, to get a more realistic idea of what porn is and can be. You don’t have to love porn or watch it, that’s not the goal. But you might benefit from a more peaceful relationship to it. Many people feel repulsed by what they imagine porn to be – perhaps informed by a few things they’ve seen that disgusted them or hurt them – and they remain wounded and easily inflamed by the thought of it. And this sensitivity becomes a problem when loved ones can’t be open with them, for fear of judgement. Here is a great article on feminist porn.

What would concern me is if he’s hiding it because he is become dependent on (a.k.a. addicted to) it. Porn use, like any substance use, becomes a problem when you don’t feel normal or can’t carry out daily functions without it. Often porn dependence comes with behaviors you can spot: Startle responses when you walk into a room unexpectedly, unexplainable spending, reluctance to travel (and be away from the source) or agitation when away, sneaking out of bed or unexplained absences, and dissatisfaction or disinterest in real-life sexual scenarios (because they pale against porn). If you do notice these kinds of patterns, have a conversation about it ASAP. Here are some ideas on how to intervene.

And of course, if you don’t feel strong repulsed, and he’s not being particularly deceptive, and you’re not feeling left out, there really is no cause for concern!

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Karen B. K. Chan is a sex educator, emotional literacy trainer, and speaker in Toronto, Canada. Above all, she’s dedicated to widening the definitions of what’s erotic, cultivating ease and acceptance, and proving that emotional literacy, play, and honesty are sexy. Read the rest of her profile below!

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April 27, 2016
How to Survive a Weekend of Non-Stop Sex

My husband and I are planning for a weekend sexcapade getaway, just staying in the room, enjoy ourselves and have lots of intimacy. Are there any risks such as exhaustion or over exertion to be wary of?

It is so good and important to create this kind of time together. Bravo!

What could be better than to exhaust each other having great sex? And yes there are some precautions. Sometimes when we have lots of vigorous penetrative intercourse, genitals can get abraded and sore, and you can even get a urinary tract infection. So be sure to take it slow and easy, bring lots of lube, and incorporate lots of non-intercourse pleasures into your lovemaking.

This will also be helpful if genitals don’t behave quite as we wish. A man might ejaculate early or stay soft; a woman might not be able to access her arousal or climax. Be easy about it. There are so many ways of accessing physical intimacy and erotic pleasure that don’t depend on having a hard cock and a wet pussy.

Massage, oral pleasures, exploring different parts of the body with communication and curiosity, and a commitment to enjoy warm connected touch are helpful practices for long-term couples.

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March 21, 2016
Dealing With Her Past And Ex-Boyfriends

I just started dating a girl who has a history of having many boyfriends previously; I am okay with the idea currently but sometimes I can’t help but think about the number of guys she has been with. How do I let this not affect me and us?

I think it may be helpful if you think a little deeper about why knowing how many partners your girlfriend has had before you bothers you. Are you anxious that you won’t be able to satisfy her as well as other partners? Are you concerned about your sexual health and worry you should be screened for STIs (you should do this anyway, regardless of her sexual history). Do you have some beliefs of how women should or shouldn’t have sex outside of a serious relationship? Or are there some issues of jealousy here?

Whatever the answer; here are a few things to try and keep in mind about your girlfriend and her sexual past as you move forward in this relationship. It’s not really fair of you to fault your girlfriend for enjoying herself sexually in her previous relationships. I’m assuming you hadn’t even met each other yet. Try and be positive; your girlfriend must feel pretty connected to you and trusting of you to have shared her personal past (which she didn’t necessarily have to do).

At the end of the day, the best way you’ll be able to not let this negatively impact your relationship is to talk about it. Don’t keep it bottled up inside; if you feel like you can’t talk to your girlfriend about your worries without it turning into a fight, talking to a friend might help instead. You guys are together now; be the best the other has ever had!

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Nicole Nelson is currently in school obtaining her Masters of Social Work (MSW) from Smith College with a focus on LGBTQ issues and couples/marriage therapy. Nicole hopes to become a certified sex therapist to continue educating clients and helping people advocate for and embrace their sexuality. Read the rest of her profile below and the links to follow her!

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March 17, 2016
Should You Date Someone with a String of Exes?

Does having a history of many boyfriends/girlfriends work against you when you are single and wanting to date?”

I do not think this should affect you, times have changed and it’s very hard for someone to only have a couple of sex partners with the vast ability to meet new people through apps and websites.

A lot of men and women will prefer a more experienced sex partner and enjoy the variation of foreplay and positions that they will gain from a more experienced partner.

You never know if you will like something unless you try it!

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March 4, 2016