Category: Sex Ed

  • Doctor Orgasm

    Doctor Orgasm

    Danni awoke at 7:30 am as she did every weekday morning. She checked her phone and said, “Oh, I forgot I had that doctors appointment at 1:00 pm. Now I need to change my entire afternoon around. Oye!”  Danni got her naked, curvy body out of bed and headed to the shower. Soaping herself up, starting at her neck and moving down to her large D cup breasts, she massaged soap all over them and  worked down towards and around her stomach, and between her thick thighs before heading down her legs. The curves of her body always ample luscious and voluptuous. Danni loved her curves and as she began to rinse off her hands, began to massage her breasts . Playing quicking with her nipple rings, her hands began to move back down over her stomach then down towards her bare bush. Her fingers of one hand began to massage her clit, the other moved back up towards her breasts. With slow gentle circles she brought herself to orgasm.

    Her orgasm felt good but she still wasn’t feeling satisfied. Since her breakup with Rob, Danni felt empty and not as vibrant and sexy as she once did. She was having more than a dry spell. It had been almost two months since she had felt the touch of a man. Danni began dressing herself, picking a casual pencil skirt that hugged her curves, and always made her long legs look great.  She paired it with a white button down top. Her breasts were always ample through her top. She finished her makeup and hair, headed to her car and drove to the office. As an office receptionist, she was always proper and well spoken. She worked away answering calls and taking messages for her boss until the noon hour arose.

    At noon she left her job and headed in the busy Los Angeles traffic to her doctor’s office. “God I hope this appointment is quick. I hate spending so much time just for a checkup. I always spend more time waiting then being seen,” she thought to herself. Once inside the office, she was told by the reception person that her regular doctor — Dr. Samantha — was running very behind with her patient schedule. The receptionist asked if Danni would like to see the new doctor who joined the practice. Danni looked at the receptionist and said, “I will see whoever is available the fastest.” After waiting 30 minutes, Danni was finally called into the office. The nurse asked her to undress into the paper robe and was told the doctor would arrive shortly to start the exam.

    Danni stripped down and covered her luscious curves with the paper robe. She sat on the table and waited. A few minutes later, there was a knock on the door, and this tall slightly older gentleman appeared. He introduced himself as Dr. Vince Taylor. Danni shook his hand and began answering his medical questions. Dr. Taylor approached Danni and asked her to lay down so her could began his exam. Eager to leave the office, Danni quickly laid down on the table. Dr. Taylor began to listen to her heart and lungs through his stethoscope. The stethoscope was cold and his touch was firm yet gentle. As he moved the stethoscope around, Danni inhaled and exhaled as requested. His firm and gentle hands moved around her neck as he continued his exam.

    Danni moved her neck as he requested, enjoying his hands upon her neck. She found herself getting slightly aroused by his touch, though he continued to remain professional. His hands moved from her neck to her stomach. Her large breasts held down still in her bra. As he touched her stomach pushing around gently she began to feel more aroused and wish his hands would wander down her stomach. Her mind became puzzled by why she was suddenly aroused.  It had been two months since she had felt the touch of a man but it made little sense to her why it was happening suddenly during the strangest time. Dr. Taylor remained focused on  the exam, talking in his deep firm voice about medical mobo jumbo. Danni found herself in a glaze and her panties were suddenly getting wet from his touch. He removed his hands from her body and walked over and sat down making notes on her medical chart. Danni still glazed out continued to lay there.

    “Ms. Dawson,”  Dr Taylor said.

    Danni didn’t reply. “Ms. Dawson,” he said again.  “Are you okay?”

    She quickly sat up and tried to pull herself together. “Yes,” she replied. “What’s next?”

    He handed her a lab slip and said he wanted to have some routine labs done but everything so far looked good.

    She took the lab slip from his hand, and placed it down and suddenly grabbed his hand and placed it under the paper robe on her D cup breasts, which were still covered by her bra. Dr. Taylor had a very surprised look suddenly on his face. Danni moved her covered breast more towards his hand wanting to feel his gentle yet firm touch. As his hands touched her breast, he quickly pulled away. “Ms. Dawson,” he said. “I can’t,” and put his head down.

    “Is there anything else you need my help with?”

    Danni removed her paper robe showing off her sexy curves still hidden by her bra and panties. Dr. Taylor lifted his head up, still surprised by Danni’s advances on him. Looking at her curves, he responded, “You’re a beautiful girl, but I just can’t. I could get in a lot of trouble.”

    Danni got off the table and walked towards Dr. Taylor, unclasping her bra. Her bra quickly fell to the floor, letting her D cup breasts hang down. She placed her hand upon his and said, “But I want you too,” again grabbing his hand and placing them on her large breasts.

    Her panties began to become wet as he gave to caressing her breasts, as she requested. She then took his hand and moved it down her stomach. Her pussy was so wet from his firm yet gentle touch. Dr. Taylor again suddenly stopped. “Ms Dawson, We shouldn’t be doing this.”

    She leaned over and whispered in his ear. “Please, doctor?”

    She slowly moved his hand down her stomach and into her wet panties. His khaki pants began to bulge as Danni moved his hand between her wet pussy lips.  She gently moaned as his fingers massaged her wet pussy. Her hand reached down towards the bulge in his pants and she began rubbing it through his pants. Dr. Taylor quietly moaned as Danni’s hand rubbed him up and down. His fingers slowly moved in and out of her wet pussy. Danni enjoyed in excess rubbing his bulge more through his pants. She removed her hand from his bulge and pulled her wet panties down. Laying back on the table she gave Dr. Taylor an inviting view of her sweet wet pussy that desperately wanted his cock.

    Dr Taylor walked towards her and said, “Ms. Dawson, is there something you want me from me?”

    She blurted out, “Your cock. Dr. Taylor please fuck me.”

    Dr Taylor began to hesitate again. “Please!” Danni begged.

    Dr Taylor reached for his belt, unbuckled it, and then undid his pants. He moved towards Danni and pulled down his khaki pants. His briefs were bulging from his extremely hard cock. “Please, Dr. Please,” Danni begged again.

    Dr Taylor pulled down his briefs and slid his cock between Danni’s wet pussy lips, pushing himself deeply as she moaned.

    He kept sliding himself in and out of her pussy slow before picking up the pace. Danni moaned in ecstasy as he pounded in and out of her pussy. His thumb found her clit and he rubbed and pounded her pussy until her back began to arch and she had an orgasm on his cock. Still raging hard in her wet pussy, Dr. Taylor began fucking Danni harder. His looked up towards the ceiling as he got close to climax. He removed his cock from Danni’s dripping wet pussy and began stroking his cock on her pussy, shooting his cum load all over her bare bush. “Mmmm,” Danni said, moving her hand on to her pussy covered with cum, then moving it into her mouth so she could taste Dr. Taylor’s warm cum.

    After tasting him, she sat up. “Thank you,” the doctor said.

    She replied, “I’m not sure what came over me. “

    “No, thank you,” he said. “It has been awhile.”

    “For me too,” she replied. Maybe we could do it again?” she asked. “I could have you over to my place.”

    He replied, “Yes. lets keep in touch.”

    Dr. Taylor pulled himself back together and started to exit the room. “Thank you, Ms. Dawson. It’s been more than a pleasure,” he said.

    Danni agreed he was more than a pleasure in many ways.


    Danni Dawson – Danni Dawson is a BBW adult film actress and cam model. While she began her career solely on cam sites, she decided to embark on a career in adult film, and has performed in a number of hard-core scenes. Danni also enjoys writing erotica, and has previously written erotic short stories under a different pen name. She lives in Los Angeles, and enjoys living a polyamorous lifestyle with her partners.

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  • Exploring Your Sexual Fantasies

    Exploring Your Sexual Fantasies

    I think that sex is an extremely important part of nature as a whole, but it is incredibly overrated in society which leads to some kind of cult following. I think it’s a beautiful thing when two or more people decide to get freaky as long as everything is consensual and nobody’s getting hurt (unless they want to), but we must respect those who want nothing to do with any of that. It’s also extremely important not to take yourself too seriously as a “sexual being” because that’s when things stop being fun!

    Being Experimental During Sex

    I’m extremely experimental with significant others. If there’s ever something they want to try with me, we discuss it and once a mutual understanding is met, we try it out.

    Uncommon Sexual Fantasies

    Recently, I found out about balloon fetishes and I have plans to make videos with that kind of fetish genre. One I can’t remove from my brain is scat; it’s literally a fetish surrounding feces. I will never do anything related to the scat fetish.

    Fantasies specifically, consensual non-consent seems to be a common one among people that has a huge stigma about it. I have to agree that it’s very taboo, but I have experimented with it.

    My Favorite Fantasy

    Being used and abused, like a fucktoy while I’m practically black out drunk. I love drunk sex.

    How To Explore Your Fantasies

    If you don’t feel comfortable experimenting with someone you know or just anyone, I would suggest saving up some cash and going to a sex worker. That will be a perfectly professional environment in which you can explain exactly what you want done without feeling any unnecessary shame!


    Lola – My name is Dolores, but you can call me Lola; I’m 19. I’m a camgirl and I sell explicit content whilst studying Fine Arts at Uni.

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  • Masturbation DP Tips With Dildo & Butt Plug

    Masturbation DP Tips With Dildo & Butt Plug

    I started masturbating as a young teen, so it’s always something I’ve been comfortable with. I feel it’s important to know adn be comfortable with your body. I’m an exhibitionist and love to masturbate for my partner, in front of a crowd at a sex club or for the camera. I’m a cam model on MyFreeCams and I also make my own amateur porn on Manyvids.

    What Turns Me On

    My wife and I are swingers, so playing with other couples is a huge turn on. So is public sex in sex clubs. I’m very submissive, and love dirty talk and rough sex. I’m most turned on by confident partners who can take the lead. Dressing up in sexy lingerie is also a huge turn on and helps me set the mood

    Why Masturbation DP With Dildo & Butt Plug Is Amazing

    It’s an incredible feeling of fullness that can’t be duplicated. With double penetration, you can feel the toys rubbing against each other and the friction between them is thrilling. It is a much more intense, full body orgasm. The first time I tried DP was actually during a threesome with a guy and a girl with a strap on. It was some of the most intense sex of my life. But I highly recommend trying DP solo while masturbating as you are in complete control then and you know your body and limits best.”

    Preparation Before Masturbation

    I like to start with a hot bath, a blunt and a glass of wine to help me fully relax and get in the mood. But it’s important NOT to get completely intoxicated. You don’t want to dull your body’s response to pain. I recommend using Sliquid Lube or Bad Dragon Clear Cum Lube. Avoid any lube that warms up or numbs you. You can do an enema beforehand if you prefer.

    Favorite Solo DP Techniques

    I start off using a vibrator on my clit while fingering my ass. Take your time! Use lots of lube! I like to use a butt plug for my anal toy during DP because it’s hands free once I put it in.

    Favorite DP Position

    Definitely doggy style, but try different positions to find what works for you. Sometimes I like to start by lying on my side.

    Tips For Beginners

    If you like anal, you will probably love DP. Use baby steps and smaller toys, work your way up. Don’t skimp on the lube or rush it. Take your time and enjoy the ride!”


    Callisto Morgan – Callisto Morgan is a 31 year old free spirited Psychology student, swinger, camgirl and panty seller. You can find her on Twitter, Manyvids, MyFreeCams or her VIP SnapChat.

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  • Introduction To Fetishes With Apricot Pitts

    Introduction To Fetishes With Apricot Pitts

    Regarding the BDSM lifestyle and alternative relationship structure, I think it should go without saying that as long as both adults are happy and consenting then they should be free to explore their sexuality to whatever extreme they see fit. Eroticism and orgasm are some of the wordly experiences that should be purely pleasurable, and we shouldn’t feel shame or remorse when it comes to exploring these aspects of our personality! Our brains are hard-wired to seek out sex, the least we can do for ourselves is make the sex weird and enjoyable!

    My Love For Fetishes

    My interest in fetishes really started sprouting around puberty, as it probably does for most people who have access to the internet. There are even some role plays and kinks I can remember thinking about in elementary school (before I knew what sex and sexuality were). In my young adulthood, watching and reading about different events, places, and inherently sexualizing those themes even if they weren’t sexual in nature. Certain types of imagery and roles have always processed as being something erotic to me. And being a conventionally attractive blonde girl, I never had a shortage of boy toys to experiment with. I guess I was simultaneously born Mommy’s little angel and a filthy hedonistic pervert!

    Common Fetish Misconceptions

    There’s a plethora of misinformation surrounding the kink lifestyle and BDSM relationships. I think that stems from a combination of puritanical fear-mongering and previous generations of kinksters choosing to keep the lifestyle underground. This allowed a game-of-telephone effect to occur, where the out group created rumors based out of fear and the in group didn’t have incentive to argue. I guess a good start to breaking these misconceptions is to become more open minded and reject this societal War on Sex and Sex Education. The more we learn about our sexuality, the more we have learned about ourselves and our uniqueness.

    Favorite Fetishes Of Mine

    As for my favorite fetishes, the list is always growing! And since I identify as a Switch (meaning I like to play as a Dominant/giving role as well as a submissive/receiving role), there is room for even more detail and specific fetishes to develop. We would be here all day if I talked about all of my favorite kinks, but I’ll pick a few here.

    Bondage, ropes, chains and predicament bondage; Goddess worship, body worship; male chastity and tease+denial; sensory deprivation; CLOTHES PINS EVERYWHERE; humiliation and objectification, mind fuckery, fear play; puppy/animal play; service submission and protocol; and of course a good ol’ fashioned OTK spanking!

    How To Ensure Safety In Fetish Play

    Absolutely it’s important to set safety measures and protocol to ensure all parties involved are always safe, sane, and consensual. One of the most important is to clearly negotiate before you play. This is the phase where you express your fetishes, likes and dislikes, talk about what experiences you’ve had, any medical issues your partner needs to know, and communicate what your safe words are and what your aftercare looks like.

    A “safe word,” meaning–ideally–a simple one-syllable word/noun that would stick out if the person said it. I think the most common used is the traffic light system of green, yellow, red. Green would mean that you are enjoying yourself and want to continue. Yellow can be used a few different ways but they all boil down to “wait and check in with me” Let’s say you’re receiving a spanking and you’re having a great time and don’t want the whole scene to wrap up, but your pain tolerance is hitting its limit. You can say “Yellow” and specify anything else about why you said yellow. Like, “Yellow, spank me a little…… lower down/softer/slower/different paddle/implement/etc” Or another example “Yellow, the wrist cuffs are feeling tight now, in the next 1-2 minutes we should readjust” It’s normal and healthy for someone to say yellow while they’re playing! These are both from the perspective of a submissive but Doms can say yellow as well.

    We engage in BDSM to enjoy ourselves, so whenever you find yourself not enjoying the play or you’re thinking “Can we be over with this by now?” we communicate using safe words! The last word “red” means probably what you’d imagine–“Stop, I want to stop playing like that.” This ties in with aftercare, which is comparable to cuddling after sex in regards to how it affects your neurochemistry. For some people, aftercare is giving each other a hug, smoking a cigarette, snuggling together w a soft blanket and eating chocolate, and it should always include both people drinking water. It’s also important to give feedback and share together what you enjoyed and didn’t.


    Apricot – True pervert and traveling fetishist, Apricot is currently based out of Los Angeles at Sanctuary LAX. She has immersed herself with the BDSM culture and the free expression it’s bestowed on sex workers and citizens of all types. Traveling as a fetish performer and pro-Switch has been a lifelong dream made into reality. Being able to meet so many people united together by kink at BDSM expos across the country has become a huge motivator. She participates monthly with Club Anarchy hosted at Sanctuary LAX, a prominent spanko model and attends numerous spanking parties across the USA. Her passion for filming and producing content with other independent sex workers is flourishing as traveling has allowed her to engage with so many talented models and educators.

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    Twitter: @ApricotPitts

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    I’m traveling a lot this upcoming year, including Dallas, Houston, NYC and Philly in first half of June, Oslo SusCon in Norway, and FetCon in FL. There’s more info all over my Twitter/social media, and feel free to email me at apricotjuices@gmail.com with questions and requests or if you’d like to collab.


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  • 3 Reasons Why You’re Not Having Amazing Sex and What You Can Do About It

    3 Reasons Why You’re Not Having Amazing Sex and What You Can Do About It

    Your relationship may have begun like countless others do, when it’s all rosy, the loving is good, and you’re keen to get each other’s clothes off at the nearest opportunity. After a certain amount of time, this can all start to fade out.

    Listen, the first thing to do is not to worry if all the mind-blowing sex you’ve been having up until recently isn’t happening anymore. It’s common for the excitement to die off a bit, which can result in fewer passionate encounters with your partner.

    There can be some interesting and rather surprising reasons you’re not enjoying such high levels of high-quality sex, and if nothing else, it’s quite enlightening to see what could be at fault.

    Let’s take a look and see what it is that might be causing your sex life to be dwindling and how you can go about amending the issues.

    1. How are you sleeping?

    Sleep is one of those things that can be taken for granted in life. It’s ever so easy to let quality sleep fall by the wayside, and once this happens, just like stress, it can bring about all manner of problems.

    Falling short of the required amount of sleep can leave you irritable and feeling somewhat touchy. Feeling touchy, isn’t great when all you want is to be touched the right way again and get amazing sex back in your life, right?

    Did you know that almost a quarter (23%) of people in a study conducted by the National Sleep Foundation’s 2005 Sleep in America poll confirmed that their partner’s sleeping habits forced them to sleep somewhere else in the home? Now, if you’re not even in the same room, how can you expect the sexual sparks to fly?

    Wrestling with lack of sleep will dent your chances of intimacy, and you’ll definitely not be able to maintain anything like the consistent sexual encounters you’d like to be indulging in with your partner any time soon!

    What can you do about it?

    Sleep is there to help your dreams come true while you’re asleep and while you’re awake! Make your bedroom a sanctuary by encapsulating dark, quiet, sleep-friendly traits. If your other half snores, then you can find out plenty on the ideal mattress to overcome this when you visit www.sleepadvisor.org.

    1. Is stress getting in the way?

    Stress can come into your life through all kinds of reasons and, unfortunately, you can’t prevent it sometimes. Stress can come from too much going on at work, family problems, or even some misunderstandings that are yet to be resolved with your significant other.

    Both men and women can try to juggle too many things all at one time, and this can work for a while, but when it comes to being sexually active having too much going on is not conducive to experiencing amazing sex that you used to have.

    What can you do about it?

    First of all, you might need to sit down and evaluate what it is that might be causing you to be stressed out. If it’s work; look to lighten the load, for example. If it’s your lover, then air out the issues that might be surrounding the relationship and then work them out together.

    You might want to look at spicing things up or trying something new that will reignite the fire. It’s often the case that getting some super sex will suddenly destress you, helping you to see clearer and relax.

    1. Do you need a digital detox?

    It’s a modern world and with that comes the demands of keeping up to date with social media platforms as well as potentially never being fully disconnected from your work, what with emails, calls and apps ready to disturb you during your downtime.

    This has the ability to interfere with your sublime sex life. So, if you find yourself checking your phone constantly, emailing, online shopping, watching TV, not paying attention to your belle or beau, and generally finding that you’ve probably become slightly addicted to the digital life, then it’s really time to change.

    What can you do about it?

    Letting tech get into bed with you effectively moves sex out of it. In other words; to have sex that you had when things were starting out, you just need to start making the small changes that can make a big difference.

    It’s probable that you want to up the lovemaking stakes, so just bear in mind that your bedroom is, and always should be, strictly reserved for sleep and sex.


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  • Ways To Incorporate Toys During Sex

    Ways To Incorporate Toys During Sex

    My views towards sex are positive; I love sex, I love giving and receiving in all aspects. I am adventurous and love trying new things, new toys, new positions and new experiences. I became a sex worker just under four years ago and from then on my eyes have been opened even wider to new things I would like to try and things I have tried and never thought I would like, but did. I view sex as almost an artform, a creative outlet to be yourself and enjoy every aspect of yourself.

    I discovered masturbation at a young age and never looked back after that; after getting my first sex toy when I was 16 years old, I explored myself even deeper, realizing I needed to know what I like before I can show anyone else what I liked. Since then, I have always loved to give pleasure; the pure moan of a man or women is my biggest turn on.

    Why I Love Using Toys During Sex

    I love that you can always explore new things about yourself and partners; trying new sensations can be so erotic. I love that I can have multiple sensations on my nipples, clit and g-spot or on my partners’ testicles and penis. I love that you can explore any type of kink to any level; whether you would like to try handcuffs for the first time all the way up to using butt plugs to see if you would enjoy butt play, or nipple clamps to see if you enjoy the pressure on your nipples. The possibilities are endless!

    Misconceptions About Sex Toys

    A common misconception is it’s only for the woman. There are plenty of partners I’ve had who enjoy using toys, not only on me, but for themselves as well. There are so many things on the market for men and women that can be tried out.

    A disadvantage I would say is if you don’t communicate how you’d like the toy used or even show your partner; that can really turn you off from using them together.

    My Favorite Toys

    I love using my WeVibe Tango bullet; it’s powerful and I can use it if I’m being come at from behind or missionary. I also enjoy the WeVibe itself because it vibrates on your g-spot and your clitoris while something can be inserted into you; so many sensations can be very pleasurable for myself.

    Make It Entertaining For Men

    I think showing them (who doesn’t love to watch once in a while!) about how you play with yourself and how you like this to make yourself cum. You can definitely bring it up also in a way explaining how much it will enhance your pleasure in your whole sexual encounter; and when you’re more into it, he’s more into it!

    Do’s & Don’ts When Using Toys

    Definitely COMMUNICATE: that doesn’t just go for toys but for all sexual acts. You really have to discuss with your partner what you want to get out of it and why you want to try certain things and make sure their open to it. But, it does go both ways and really discuss your fantasies when using toys. Communicate during using them as well, what feels good; a little to the left, any directions that can increase anyones’ pleasure is key.


    Crystal Cain – My name is Crystal Cain; I am a young, blonde, bubbly companion currently hosting in Toronto, Ontario. I have been a sex worker for almost four years and have loved every day of it; I am a pansexual, sexual deviant and proud of it!

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  • Advantages of Having An Escort For Your Threesome

    Advantages of Having An Escort For Your Threesome

    I’m actually bi-sexual so I enjoy threesomes and believe they can be fun and sexually gratifying. However there are several elements that need to be ‘just so’, otherwise one can go from a threesome fantasy to an absolute disaster.

    Frequency Of Threesome Bookings

    I probably get about 2-4 per year from hetero couples and about 1-2 every month from single men wanting me to bring a girlfriend. They are certainly desired by practically most men, however, in “hetero couple” situations, you might have a spouse/girlfriend that isn’t thrilled about it.

    Advantages For A Couple To Choose An Escort

    It’s simple; if you need something done right, you hire a professional. Just like you would go to a doctor if you feel sick instead of trying to treat yourself. You would hire a handyman to fix things around your house instead of attempting to do it yourself and risking creating a much bigger problem. A couple is better off hiring a professional if they want a guaranteed wonderful experience. I can’t tell you how many couples have called me after trying to facilitate a threesome on their own with abysmal results!

    They think they can pick up a stripper (who just takes their money and promises to meet them after work but never shows) or a random girl at the bar (who might not be emotionally stable to handle a threesome, or has never been in one before), but they never succeed and end up wasting so much money, when they could have hired a companion like myself in the first place. We are open-minded, easy going, and loads of fun. Not to mention that our business is to make people feel special, so you can expect to have a more intimate experience because that is our job.

    Rules Every Couple Must First Set

    Most definitely! First and foremost, both parties should be completely honest with each other. Ladies, do not agree to a threesome if you feel uncomfortable about it in anyway. There is nothing wrong with you if you don’t want a threesome and are not attracted to women. Doing it to please your partner is going to show and it makes for a very uncomfortable experience. I’ve been in situations like this before and it was very awkward. I actually talk about it on my podcast – The Sexy Escort Guide (www.thesexyescortguide.com).

    If both parties are absolutely certain that they want to experience a threesome together, then you should talk about it openly and set ground rules on how you want your partner to interact with the person you are bringing into your relationship. Gentlemen, let your lady pick the third (be open to the fact that she might want a man instead of a woman). Communication is very important here; the more open with each other about your feelings during the entire process, the more likely you will have a wonderful experience.

    Tips For A Successful Threesome Experience

    1. Hire a professional

    2. Be respectful of your companion and follow her rules for booking. Be prepared to be screened and vetted, as no companion will agree to meet you until you have given her your details and she feels comfortable meeting you. Once the screening is out of the way, prepare to have a wonderful time.

    3. Plan for a dinner date with the three of you, this helps break the ice and build rapport. Foreplay is extremely important in creating chemistry

    4. Let go and have fun! Life is short; so once you’ve decided to experience a threesome, make sure you do it to the fullest!


    Vivian – Vivian is a luxury companion based in Miami Beach, FL. She also hosts a popular podcast, The Sexy Escort Guide, which is available on SoundCloud and iTunes. Vivian enjoys jet setting around the world and she believes in being present in every moment, especially with her clients.

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  • Have Safe Sex By Using Female Condoms

    Have Safe Sex By Using Female Condoms

    I personally view touch – and by extension, many sex acts – as an important aspect in many people’s lives. I believe sex encompasses a diverse spectrum of actions and (as long as it’s all consensual and everyone has an informed understanding of what’s going on) there shouldn’t be any shame involved, regardless of what two or more people of adult age choose to do together.

    It bothers me sometimes that our society puts such a focus on penetrative sex and the male orgasm as the markers of a “real” sexual encounter, since it tends to center male-female partnerships as the norm and can cause stress in situations involving men who either cannot or choose not to orgasm during a sexual encounter.

    In response to that societal pressure I’ve put a lot of effort into re-imagining sex as a concept of intimacy where the focus is on mutual satisfaction, regardless of the form that may take. As I’ve put more time and intent into bringing this concept into fruition in my sexual encounters my sex life has become more consistently satisfying and I’ve actually found both myself and my partners experiencing new and varied types of orgasms when we’re together.

    Practicing Safe Sex

    I practice safer sex by limiting body fluid contact with un-tested partners and using barriers for all penetrative sex acts. I also keep tabs on my own risk levels by getting tested regularly and learning about the comparative risk levels of different actions so that I can make informed choices regarding my own behaviours.

    In an ideal world, all of my partners would hold themselves to the same standards, however I’ve found that in terms of risk management, it’s safest to assume their behaviour is less conscientious than mine.

    Common Reasons For Taking Risks During Sex

    Most often, when I talk to people who disregard safe sex practices, it’s typically either because they feel as though using condoms are “unsexy” or because they believe that it doesn’t feel as good when barriers are involved.

    The issues with unsexiness can easily be solved with a little forethought – with the right attitude, rolling an external condom on can be just another teasing part of foreplay and internal condoms (commonly called “female condoms”) can often be inserted using a toy or put into place while one’s partner provides foreplay.

    I’ve also found that generally, issues regarding discomfort can be solved with a little troubleshooting – if the external condom feels too tight it’s good to look into XL options (and try a variety of brands, since each one fits differently!), if external condoms tend to slip off then there are brands which make slim fit options and if the issue is with generalized discomfort, try putting a bit of lube in the tip of the external condoms before rolling them on and trying a selection of different lube styles and brands (making sure they’re all water or silicone-based) to see if one will help with the sensations.

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    How Female Condoms Work

    Internal condoms work by being inserted into either the vagina or anus of the receptive partner. They stay in place via a flexible internal ring – often removed if used anally or with penises which are particularly long/thick – and the inside of the condom typically is packaged lubricated, though in my experience, additional lube is often required for a comfortable experience.

    Some benefits of this style of condom include added protection from skin-transferred STIs such as herpes – the open end of the condom stays outside the vagina and covers the outer labia when used properly – as well as decreasing the likelihood of micro-tearing that can facilitate STI transmission.

    Because this style of condom is inserted as opposed to worn, it decreases friction on the receptive partner and increases stimulation on the penetrative partner, which means that many people have reported it feeling equivalent to unprotected penetration.

    I personally find the sensations superior to unprotected sex – there’s far less irritation when you’ve been going at it for hours and it makes cleanup an absolute breeze, so there’s no unpleasantly sticky feeling afterwards (and no offsetting of the vaginal pH due to the effects of semen).

    Additionally, internal condoms are a phenomenal solution for penises that are too big for traditional condoms to be comfortable, too small for traditional condoms to fit well or penises which don’t reach full hardness (or which can go soft periodically during sex). In many ways, internal condoms are superior to external condoms in terms of their suitability for a wide variety of situations.

    Lack Of Popularity Of Female Condoms

    My opinion is that part of the reason why internal condoms are less common is because they’re not included in basic sex ed courses the way that external condom are.

    Add to that the squeamishness factor – many people aren’t comfortable inserting any sort of contraceptive device into their vagina – and the perceived unsexiness due to the end which is left external…and oftentimes people who haven’t tried them yet will dismiss them out of hand.

    All I can say is that in my experience, the insertion is much easier with a little practice – I can actually do it one-handed at this point – and I’ve never had a partner complain about the external portion being a detraction. Especially if there’s an existing dissatisfaction with external condoms those mild complaints will pale in comparison to the increase in comfort and sensation.

    The main downside is that they can be hard to obtain and often cost a bit more than external condoms. You can buy them direct from the manufacturer [https://fc2.us.com/patient/#direct-purchase] at a rate of $2/condom which – when compared to the likelihood of having to use multiple condoms in the case of breaks or slippage – is a reasonable rate for the quality of contraceptive being received.


    Becki Labine – Becki Labine is an unabashedly geeky ginger, enthusiastic pleasure advocate and all-around hedonistic science nerd.  When she’s not showing off her lingerie online she’s playing PokemonGo and living life to the fullest in the company of her chunky pitbull.

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  • How To Give A Lady An Orgasm

    How To Give A Lady An Orgasm

    Personally, I’ve always been a sexual person and feel it is a good expression of one’s sex. All people in sales have always had higher than average sex drives, which just goes to show how powerful sexual energy is.

    With that said, I’m not monogamous and don’t believe in having one sexual partner. In the past, having to repress this and act “normal” would usually get me in a lot of trouble. A lot of girls may try to change this and make me their own, however I don’t waste my time with them anymore. I like women that are open minded and accept me for who I am.

    What Defines A Good Sexual Experience

    One that is boring or vanilla; aka vanilla or standard missionary. A good sexual experience could be a variety of different things, however both parties climaxing multiple times is always a must.

    I really enjoy group sex with multiple girls that are into each other. Or in the past, I have been hired multiple times to have sex with wives in front on their husbands as they get off on it. Nothing charges the room with sexual energy like a good orgy.

    Female Orgasm Misconceptions

    I think a lot of guys like to brag about how good they are at making a girl squirt or cum etc. A guy who is truly good at giving women an orgasm won’t run his mouth about it and will also always be open to learning and listening to the woman as all women are different. Some cum very quickly and others may take an hour of me giving them head to get them off with their assistance.

    Women often take longer than men to climax, and a lot of guys just like to blow their load and leave. If you want to be successful as a male escort, you better make sure she has cum multiple times before you have.

    Tips For Good Sex

    Be open minded and honest. Be yourself. Nothing makes for better and more enjoyable sex than actually being able to click and connect with someone in a genuine way.

    For guys looking to attract women, I suggest you be yourself, but your BEST self. The guys that drive the women crazy are the ones who are ambitious and always striving to improve themselves and help others. They have more important projects and goals then just sleeping with women all the time. The side effect of this? Women will be very attracted to you.

    For women, being open minded and not smothering us is best. I know that when a woman tries to control me and run my life, I want to run a mile.

    Also, explore! Try new things; 69, anal, adding partners, toys, public places, watching porn together etc. The possibilities are unlimited so you will never get bored!

    Ways To Experiment

    Experimental wise, anything goes so long as there is no homosexual activity, as I am not attracted to men. Gang bangs or threesomes with a guy and girl can be great however.

    It really depends on the girl. One technique my friend showed me in a threesome to make a girl squirt is pretty full proof. He’s better at it than me, but I have made half a dozen girls squirt since implementing it:

    Start by massaging the girls’ abdomen and get her as wet as possible by giving her head. Literally drenched. Keep massaging her abdomen to relax her, then take two fingers (middle finger and second to the pinky) and slide them in and out of her while your palm is rubbing up against her clit at the full depth of insertion. Then you want to curl your fingers as much as possible while inside her until you can feel a rough spot. You almost want to pump your palm at this point inside her until you feel fluid accumulate and she bursts. There will be lots of Google images demonstrating this.


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  • Roleplay Tips To Spice Up Your Sex Life

    Roleplay Tips To Spice Up Your Sex Life

    I guess my interest in roleplay traces back to my acting days. I loved playing different characters in drama class and was able to do so at the drop of a hat. Before starting sex work, I had only tried roleplay once with a guy I was seeing and to my utter humiliation, he laughed in my face leaving me unsatisfied and no longer in the mood for sex.

    These days I find myself thinking up new exciting roleplay scenarios for my clients, future porn scenes and maybe one day in my personal life.

    Favorite Roleplay Scenarios

    Haha, wow.. I have a few that I have seriously enjoyed. I guess I can call my Mistressing a form of roleplay. I love letting my sadistic side free and stepping into such a Dominant role especially when I get to try something new that I never would have thought I would enjoy. The first Domination booking I ever did was over a year ago, 30 minutes with my first golden shower. To my surprise, Domination came so easy to me and I instantly felt amazing knowing I had stepped over the vanilla line. The Domme high was spectacular too.

    A few memorable ones have mainly been around the 3am mark, that seems to be when clients have the confidence to act out their fantasies. I have done a lot where I play multiple characters, usually part of the same family, and I dirty talk these fantasy incest scenes. I think the most I have done in a row for different characters in the one roleplay is about seven.

    My hands down favourite roleplay was supposed to be a rape one where I sneaked into his room while he is sleeping, tie him up, threatened him with a knife and penetrated him while he screamed. During a little smoke break he told me how happy he was that he finally acted on his fantasy and I felt so honoured that he chose to let me into it. He commented on how I had a sexy vampire look and that just made my night! We got so excited about being on the same page and we re-enacted the same scene in the remaining time with me as a sexy, vicious vampire. I got so into the character, snarling, biting his neck, holding his throat, running my nails wherever I desired. I would love to re-enact that for a video one day.

    Tips For Beginners

    Just go for it! Maybe some liquid courage.. Highly recommend talking about it to your partner, friend with benefits first for some pre warning. If I am with a new client, I gently bring it up to see their reaction.

    Don’t feel that you’re limited to the standard costumes that are in every sex shop, mix it up and get creative!

    Rules For Roleplay

    It really depends on the role play. If you are doing kink, BDSM or anything more then a costume and some dirty talk, you need a safe word! I cannot stress that enough. Nothing scarier than not being on the same level as your partner. Unfortunately that was my first experience into BDSM. Ask your partner if they have any trigger words is also important, however, in my experience I wasn’t aware of my trigger words until after.

    Some people like to be called a dirty little slut, others get off on being told that they are a good girl/boy and some like to be completely degraded with words. The only way you and your partners can ensure your role playing experience is a happy one is to communicate. Create a safe judgement free space so you both can feel the full thrill of role play and then talk about it after over cuddles.


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