Category: Sex Ed

  • 6 Tips To Stop Snoring & Save Your Sex Life

    6 Tips To Stop Snoring & Save Your Sex Life

    We all know that snoring is aggravating and can sometimes have a negative impact on your sex life. You might also feel helpless or like you’re stuck. Don’t call it quits yet, though, because there are some things you can try in order to stop the snoring and get your sex life back on track.

    Anti-Snoring Devices

    The first thing you could try are various anti-snoring devices. There are so many devices on the market and they aren’t all made the same. Even if it’s the same type of product, you might have better chance with one over the other. The two most common devices are anti-snore pillows and mouthpieces. While there are the basic products, there are also some that have more advanced features. For instance, there are pillows that have adjustable height and hardness and there are mouthpieces that mimic your exact bite. These types are better than one size fits all because they are customized to you.

    Stay Away from Alcohol Before Bed

    Another great tip is to stay away from alcohol before bed. The main reason is because alcohol will relax the muscles and your throat wall will be too relaxed and loose. This means that there’s more chance of vibrations, which cause snoring. If you want to have some kind of alcohol, try to stop drinking a few hours before you lay down. This will help ensure that the relaxation of your throat won’t be as bad and you’ll have less chance of snoring.

    Lose Excess Weight

    You or your spouse could also try losing any excess weight. When you are overweight, the neck muscles can become bulky and large. This can lead to snoring because everything is all squished up and there isn’t enough room for the air to get through the way it needs to. Often times, when you lose some weight, the muscles in your neck will slim down and help ensure that everything isn’t pushed together. This will make it so the air can easily pass through and cause less vibrations. This doesn’t always work because some people just have larger throats, but it’s definitely worth a try!

    Keep the Bedroom Moist

    When you sleep in a room that’s dry, your mouth and nasal passages will dry out. When these areas are dry, you have a higher chance of snoring. This can be combated by leaving a window open or putting a dehumidifier in your room. Both of these will give enough moisture to stop you from drying out, but not so much that you’re constantly wet.

    Sleep On the Side

    Another thing you or your significant other can do is try sleeping on the side. This is one of the best ways to stop snoring. When you lay on your back, your tongue can fall backwards and prevent that air from moving easily. If you’ve tried sleeping on your side but find that you always end up on your back, there are a few things you can try. For starters, try putting a pillow behind you so you don’t roll. You can also add one in front of you so you stay in the same position.

    Try Using Mint Based Essential Oils

    The final thing you can try is mint based essential oils. Since there are several mint based oils, you have the chance to try them all. Two of the most common ones are peppermint and wintergreen. All you have to do is put it into a diffuser or mister and let it run all night. The mint will help keep your passages clear and let the air easily pass through. If you don’t have essential oils, you can try and find mint products, like vapor rub, and go to sleep with it under your nose. This will have the same effect as letting the mister or diffuser run all night.

    As you can see, there are a few things you can try to save your sex life. You don’t have anything to lose and you might find something that will stop the snoring forever! Have you tried any of these? If so, tell us about it in the comments!


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  • Ways To Enjoy A First Date

    Ways To Enjoy A First Date

    A good date experience is when we both leave the date feeling uplifted and excited. It always helps set a good tone for the date when I can tell that the other person has put some time/thought into the outing. If it’s not a blind date and you have a bit of an idea about your partners interests (from social media or mutual friends), you can really impress them by playing into that! It doesn’t have to meet any certain stipulations or criteria per say, as long as we both leave with smiles on our faces wanting to reconnect again.

    First Date Faves

    Going out for a meal is always a traditional nice way to get to know someone through conversation. But a good meal paired with a shared experience like going to an event, a class, or a museum, concert, hike, anything really — gives you something to talk about over dinner and an introductory way to explore likes, dislikes and each other’s interests.

    One of my favorite dates in San Francisco started as a walk through Golden Gate Park to a free event, Opera in the Park. We sat around on a picnic blanket and enjoyed the music for a bit (I think this gave us both time to get comfortable around each other and let the first date jitters subside), then walked over into a nice neighborhood nearby for a drink, then eventually to dinner and dessert.

    It ended up being a long date that was only expected to be the meet and greet and walk around the park but ended up being an all day affair because we were enjoying each others’ company.

    Preparing For The First Date

    Well I personally have a pre-date ritual to prepare for a date that involves a long shower and bath with a glass of wine, followed by body oil, face mask, and general grooming and primping. I follow this up with a meditation session so I feel relaxed and centered before meeting. On the date itself, I try to be myself for the most part, perhaps a little reserved in some areas until I get a good feel for the other person and our compatibility, but generally try to be as normal and like me as possible. How else will you know you’re a good fit if you aren’t being yourself?

    Expectations Of My Date

    I am generally not a high maintenance girl so all I expect from a date is courtesy, kindness, and respect. Also, I do think it’s appropriate for the man to at least ASK to pay the bill at the end of the night.

    Tips To Remove The Nerves

    Don’t be nervous! But of course that is easier said than done so I would say just take a few deep breaths, don’t be afraid to be yourself or talk about things that truly interest you (you’re probably more interesting than you let yourself believe) and in the event nerves are taking over anyway – don’t drink too much! I’ve seen this happen more than once and trust me, you’d rather be a bit nervous in the beginning and let that round out as the date goes on, than add fuel to the fire and end up being a hot mess!


    Jeniveve Delacroix – I am a 28 year old sensual blonde sweetheart living in San Francisco. I just graduated with my undergrad degree in the social sciences (I love to study all things people) and am enjoying my time off before I head back to grad school. In my free time I love to do yoga, hike, pet all the animals and travel and love to share these interests with like minded people.

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  • Why Men Engage Escorts

    Why Men Engage Escorts

    I’ve been an escort for five years. My personal view on sex work and escorting has changed since I started when I was 24 years old. At first, I saw it as a means to an end – a good living so I can work on “what I really wanted to do,” which, at 24, had no idea what it was.  As time went on, I started seeing the profession as more of a career – and a fulfilling one at that. I am the way my clients de-stress in a judgment free zone. I am a way for couples to bond and come closer together – a concept I think couples would only understand if they’ve have experience with an escort. I am a way for individuals to experience intimacy if they find themselves lacking comfort from someone.

    While I think anyone can get into any career for the wrong reasons, I believe escorting to be a way where women can play amongst men that a glass ceiling might have prevented them to be around. And I get to hang around with those men in the best way – not to work for them, but to play with them.

    Misconceptions About Escorting

    The most common misconceptions are two: that there’s no way someone could have *chosen* this life and that the people that book us are “losers.”

    Not only have I chosen this career and chose to stay in this career because of the opportunities it has afforded me and how much fulfillment I find in my day-to-day interactions with my clients, but every other escort I’ve ever met has chosen this life for the same reasons. It’s easy to think that someone else pushes us into this, as popular opinion would have you believe, but many of my contemporaries are intelligent, entrepreneurial ladies who can’t imagine themselves ever doing anything else! While all careers have their tough day, there’s a lot of fun and adventure that’s hard to find in any other profession – at least in the way I like to engage in fun and adventure!

    The majority of my clients are men, and these men are the furthest from “lame” that could exist. My clients are professional, respectful men that are simply looking for a drama-free, easy way to let their hair down and relax.  I’m a professional adult entertainer with an uninhibited sense of adventure. For a professional man with the disposable income, what better way to let loose then with a sexy lady that knows exactly how to look, what to wear, how to carry herself, and that will look offer you a good time with no drama or strings attached?!

    Advantages Of Engaging An Escort

    The biggest advantage to booking an escort is for a drama-free, good time without the risks and uncertainty attached with engaging a complete stranger with unknown intentions at a bar or wherever you may find yourself.  My intention is for my client to have the time of their life, because it’s my profession to entertain. What can you say about the intentions of a random stranger? You know exactly what you’re getting when you book an escort, and there’s A TON of value in a sure thing!

    Main Reason Main Engage Escorts

    I’d say the main reason men engage an escort is to have fun and de-stress. It’s the experience and value that comes with having someone who they can say absolutely anything to so they feel heard, validated, and not judged.

    Do’s & Don’ts To Follow

    One important DO, is to treat the profession like any other profession and approach the escort with respect. Read her website and get to know her. Not only will he/she appreciate it, but you will be able to make a better decision.

    A major DON’T is not mentioning anything illegal. You are paying for time and companionship 😉

    I wrote a book on this subject because I know this secret world with secret decorum is hard to navigate for a first timer. It’ s an easy, 10 minute read and can help give the new client confidence in taking the first step – and doing it right!


    Lana Blanc – I’m Lana! A curvy model, escort and travel companion available in Philadelphia, NYC, DC, Houston, and San Francisco and for domestic and international travel. I have five years of experience and absolutely love meeting new people and making connections.

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  • Oral Pleasure To Satisfy Men & Women

    Oral Pleasure To Satisfy Men & Women

    I think oral sex is not only great but plays an important part during sex. It’s like the appetizer before the main course.  Delicious yet satisfying. I like to receive as much as giving oral pleasure. It’s so much more arousing and a huge turn on for me, especially if it’s a threesome (M/F/F/). I get the best of both worlds.

    Men & Women Expect Differently

    Yes, men and women have completely different views. Men want to show great oral satisfaction to their partner as much they give them. Women, such as myself,  we want just the same amount as men but we are more like the energizer bunny so we can orgasm and cum as many times as we can and keep going and going until we satisfied.

    What Men Want

    It’s all about worshiping the penis, balls, and even rimming. Lots of spit, tongue play, sucking and coupling the balls, and for the win, swallowing. Start slow, then gradually build up the motion, put it in and out of your mouth, and work at it till orgasm. Additional bonus points if you allow the guy to come wherever he pleases.

    Pleasuring Women Is A lot Different

    For women, like myself, it’s a whole different spectrum. There’s something very sensual and passionate when women get intimate with one another . You have a connection with the other woman, get passionate, hug, kiss, then get home base, oral sex.  When I’m intimate with another woman, I get so into it that I literally can’t stop myself from endless wetness. I dive right in it without hesitation. You can also get creative on giving oral pleasure with strap-ons, flavored lubes, oils etc., and positions such as the classic 69 (my all time favorite oral sex position).

    Mistakes To Avoid

    The most important mistakes to avoid are making sure and absolute first that you are in good health to engage in oral sex or any kind of sexual interactions. Second important thing, watch your teeth. The absolutely buzz kill in oral sex. I can’t stand teeth and nine times out of ten, your partner won’t either.


    Hey this is Melody Cummings. Porn Performer, Fetish model, Adult entertainer, and Cam Model. You may seen me shoot for very popular adult companies as well as appearing at conventions. I’ve been performing for over two years and love it. Follow me on social media to keep up with everything I do and check out my websites and clip sites for my sexy content below!

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  • How To Give A Perfect Nuru Massage

    How To Give A Perfect Nuru Massage

    Why nuru massage is an excellent way to improve your sexual relationship

    If you have been in a sexual relationship for a while and you feel your sex life with your partner is getting a little bit routine, and possibly boring, then nuru massage could be the perfect antidote.

    I have personally introduced nuru massage to so many people. When they experience it for the first time they just want to try it again and again.

    So what is nuru massage?

    A nuru massage is essentially an erotic body to body massage. The difference between a regular body to body massage and nuru is the nuru gel.

    Authentic nuru gel is made from from nori seaweed, which is a type of seaweed mainly found off the shores of Japan.

    There is no real industrial uses for this gel. What makes this substance so special, for erotic massage in particular, is the fact that it is extremely slippery – and I mean extremely slippery.

    The gel is packed full of nutrients which is also good for your skin. Make sure you get the organic gel and not some cheap petrol based substitute.

    So why have a nuru massage?

    Because it is fun, extremely erotic, and a great way to spend an hour or two. It is also light – we are not talking about introducing hardcore bdsm or anything like that into your relationship. Nuru massage is about getting hot, close and intimate. It is a great way to explore each other.

    The Tools and Equipment You Will Need

    To get started you will need the following…

    • Nuru Gel
    • Water
    • Bowl
    • Wooden Spoon
    • Plastic Blow Up Mattress or plastic sheet to cover the bed.

    All these items can be bought online.

    The nuru gel is mixed with water in a bowl and can then be applied to both you and your partner’s naked body. You can rub and grind against each other for maximum pleasure.

    Quick tip:

    Make sure the room is at a nice warm temperature. Not too hot but just the right temperature so you can feel relaxed and get into the vibe.

    Techniques

    There are certain techniques, positions and movements used during a nuru massage. If you can master some of these moves your partner will love you for it. Here’s 3 that are very popular…

    Scissor Slide –

    This is where you use your legs like a pair of scissors and slide into your partner’s groin area.

    Full Body Glide –

    This technique is about gliding right across your partners body from toe to head.

    Pussy backrub move –

    Where the woman can kneel over the man and rub her pussy across the man’s back. Feels very nice for both.

    There are many videos online which will show you a full range of moves than you can try.

    Conclusion

    Nuru massage is a great deal of fun.

    At Nuru Stars, we have been giving both men and women nuru massages for many years now. The delight and joy people have when they experience this erotic massage is wonderful to see.

    I want to see more couples introducing this therapy into their love lifes, as I know they will enjoy it.

    So start off with a sensual shower together and then once you are nice and clean move over to the blow up mattress or bed.

    Starting spreading that gel erotically all over each others body and let the good times roll.


    Emma is a erotic massage therapist at Nuru Stars – which is one of London’s most popular providers for slippery nuru massage. You can follow Emma on Twitter @nuru_stars


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  • Why Foreplay Matters And Is Important

    Why Foreplay Matters And Is Important

    I was raised in a Catholic, traditional Chinese household with strict parents.  In both the Catholic community and my parents, I was brought up to think that sex should not happen before marriage and that anything to do with sex should be treated with shame.  I had sex for the first time when I was in college, and even then I ended up crying after it ended because I felt dirty.   I wasn’t able to enjoy it until recently. Soon after discovering my sexuality without any prejudice I quickly blossomed. My exploration led me to become a cam model and naturally evolved to a budding porn star.

    Now my idea on sex is very different.  I find it enjoyable and beautiful.  In fact, I think it is vital for human connection.  We should be able to experience it and enjoy it as often as we want as long as we are responsible with it.

    Contrary to what others might think about my sex life, I think that the best way to truly feel and enjoy sex is with someone you love.  Someone you can trust and feel comfortable with to explore your sexuality with.  This doesn’t have to be within marriage as I was brought up to believe but we shouldn’t be in a relationship just for sex either.

    People often have this perception of me that because of what I do, I sleep around arbitrarily and don’t value the true meaning of sex.  Porn is not sex that I replicate in my relationships.  Porn is a job in which I carry out acts of sex in different scenarios. Sex is still sacred to me and something to be shared with a deserving partner.

    Ways To Get Into The Mood For Sex

    I usually like to dress up in sexy lingerie so I can feel beautiful.  Lingerie always does the trick for me to get me in the mood because I want to look hot for the guy I am with.  I also love taking a bubble bath together beforehand with a little foreplay in the water with sensual kissing and touching, Set the mood with music, that always works.  Create an environment using candles and ambient lighting.  I think sex needs to appeal to all our senses.  Then relax and enjoy and let the evening take you wherever it will.

    The Importance Of Foreplay

    Foreplay is really important in my opinion.  In fact, sometimes foreplay can be even better than sex because of the anticipation it brings.  During foreplay, you stimulate each other which leads to better sex.  Honestly, I think foreplay also allows you to get to know each other’s body better and your likes and dislikes.  More importantly, you get to understand what pleases your partner and what pleasures them.  Foreplay can increase intimacy as well, by heightening our senses and helping us reach the ultimate orgasm, or in my case, usually multiple orgasms!

    What Guys Don’t Get About Foreplay

    Guys tend to just want to get to the sex part.  They don’t see value in spending time on foreplay because for them it’s just about ejaculating.  For women, our bodies are built and wired differently.  Sometimes just sex alone won’t bring us to orgasm.  We need foreplay to stimulate our clitoris.  I find that the more engorged my clit is, the more intense the orgasm.  The more I am turned on, the more into it I get and I think that turns on guys more, when a female is really horny and wants sex, instead of just laying there like cold fish waiting for it to be over.

    Foreplay Tips For Good Sex

    I am no expert in sex or foreplay, but here are some of the things I enjoy.  Remember, foreplay goes both ways:

    Start with a striptease.  That pleases men and makes a woman feel sexy too.

    Touch and kiss each other all over the body and then focus on giving oral.  That really does it for me.  Gets me really wet and horny and by the time we actually have sex, I am already having multiple orgasms.

    Hot massage, especially focusing on the erogenous zones on the body like the butt and inner thighs.  Ooooh, that can really leave me wanting sex immediately.

    Use a toy like a vibrator or cock ring.  Use it on each other or even during sex.

    I find that teasing is also great foreplay.  Leave them wanting more until they can’t take it anymore.

    Eye contact is something that most people seem to overlook or avoid,  I love eye contact during foreplay and sex.  That is a huge turn on for me.


    Lexi – Good girl gone bad is probably the best way to describe me. You can take me to a ball and I’ll make you look like the ”Man of the Year” then go home and make you feel like a porn star. If you like your girl SWEET and SPICY, you’ve found her!

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  • How To Have Sex On Cam

    How To Have Sex On Cam

    Sex is so fascinating to me. There are so many ways to experience sex and sexuality, and sometimes I feel like I haven’t even scratched the surface. My name’s Demi and I’m a transgender webcam model, adult actress, and electronic music producer from the midwest. I’ve been in sex work for about a year now, and I love it! I used to be very uncomfortable with my sexuality and for that reason I thought I just didn’t like sex. But if there’s one thing I learned from my experience making porn, it’s that there are so many ways to have sex and achieve sexual gratification, and it’s different for everyone!

    If there’s one thing I could achieve with my content and my platform, it’s to help people explore and question what it means to be a sexual being and think differently about gender constructs and expression. I’m not quite sure how fucking my ass on the internet will do that just yet, but I’m getting there!

    Why I Love Having Sex On Cam

    Honestly, it’s the community! I’ve met some really amazing people in my chat and I look forward to seeing them everyday!  Of course it’s super hot to know that hundreds of people are getting off to you, but it’s the people you meet jerking off along the way that last a lifetime. I have also started making content and camming regularly with Lily Demure (@LilyDemure on Twitter) and that’s been an amazing experience! I’ve never had anyone to make content with before, so it’s been great working with her. We have a lot of things in the works right now, so stay tuned for that!

    Demi The Human and Lily Demure

    Equipment Essentials For A Good Camming Experience

    The best thing about getting into cam modeling is if you have a webcam and an internet connection, you’re good to go! You don’t need fancy equipment to make your stream look good. Just try to follow some basic rules of shot composition and you’ll look great!

    For example, make sure your shot is well-lit. I’m not talking big Hollywood studio lights. At the very least, don’t make it look like you’re streaming from a hole in the ground.  I recommend setting up your cam in front of a window. That soft, natural lighting is perfect for porn! I used to just gather all the lamps I could find in my apartment and put them all around my room and honestly, it didn’t look bad!

    Next is audio. It’s usually the last thing people think about, but it really makes a difference. With a medium like streaming, the conversation aspect is a big part of the experience and a decent microphone (or anything better that your built-in laptop mic) will really add a more professional feel to your stream. I also like to play music while I cam. It’s a great way to add your own personal flair to your show and help deal with boredom on a slow day.

    But even if you have the best, most expensive equipment, if you’re a bag of potatoes on cam, you’re just going to be a well-lit bag of potatoes. Your personality and presence is really what will shine through, no matter your budget!

    Pros & Cons About Camming

    For me, webcam modeling offers me so much freedom, both financially and personally. In our current society where it’s often very difficult for trans people to find jobs, let alone move up in a workplace; I, a trans woman,  am now an independent business owner who has the ability to grow my brand, take time off when I want, and make money doing something I love. I feel privileged to be able to do what I do. I’ve grown and learned so much about myself, my sexuality, and met so many great people along the way.

    As much as I love it, there are definitely downsides. If you’ve been on the internet lately, you’re probably aware that a lot of people suck. I’ve dealt with my fair share of transphobia, misogyny and hate in my chat, and for the most part I just block and brush it off, but I’d be lying if I said it doesn’t get to me sometimes. It’s easy to get sucked in a black hole, especially when your job consists of sitting in your room for hours on end. It’s really important to take time to focus on your mental health and take breaks when you need to. That being said, the trolls are a very slim minority, and the majority of my streams are very positive.

    Advice For Beginners

    Live streaming is such a new and exciting technology, and I recommend taking advantage of the medium to its fullest! Anyone can look up porn video and get off in a few minutes, but the beauty of streaming is the personal interaction aspect. The majority of my show is simply talking with my audience and joking around, not because I’m getting filthy rich off of it, but because I have fun doing it! And if you’re having fun, being yourself, and doing your stream how you want to, it will leave more of a lasting impact.


    Demi The Human – Demi The Human is a transgender cam-model, adult actress, independent porn producer and musician from the midwest. She streams regularly on Chaturbate, has content up for sale on Manyvids and produces electronic music under her alias, Floraviolet.

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  • 5 Signs The Guy You’re Chatting With Online Wants A Real Relationship

    5 Signs The Guy You’re Chatting With Online Wants A Real Relationship

    It’s often difficult to judge someone’s motivations when your only clues are the smile in their profile picture and the stuff they’ve mentioned in their description. A cynical person might even question how recent that image is, and to what extent aspects of their background might have been exaggerated.

    Actually, telling the difference between a player and someone interested in connecting is quite straightforward. So if you are out to meet local singles using an online matching site, here are five signs the guy you’re messaging is seeking a real relationship as opposed to another in a series of casual pickups.

    Energy

    One giveaway is the level of enthusiasm he displays when communicating with you. If he is only really interested in getting to know you better because he has an ulterior motive – another one night stand before swiftly moving onto his next conquest – then he will be less likely to engage. However, if he is genuinely interested in wanting to have a relationship he will show interest in everything you have to say. He will be eager to get to know you better and uncover different aspects of your personality, quizzing you about your interests and hobbies. What if he can display knowledge in your subjects? This may well take you by surprise, but what it also indicates is he has taken the trouble to do some research after looking up the passions and leisure pursuits you have listed in your profile description.

    If he is the one who is always initiating online chats or suggesting possible dates then he is obviously interested in something a bit more than casual romance.

    Moving away from the site

    If your only conversations with this guy are in chat rooms and any hint you drop about taking things offline is rebuffed, then you have every right to question his motives. But what about when you’ve developed enough chemistry in your chats for you to get the notion you’d like to take things to the next level? If he wants a real relationship he will be likely to suggest moving things on to WhatsApp or Facebook messages, or even suggest you exchange phone numbers. Wanting to actually connect with you at this intimate level is a surefire indicator he is serious.

    Honesty

    Guys who are only after one thing are hardly likely to announce it. Neither will they feel much like lying about the hidden depths they are sorely lacking. But if he is continually going out of his way to explain his feelings to you, then there is every possibility he is being honest.

    Aspirations

    Does he ever talk about longer-term ambitions or plans? Does he subtly drop hints about what it would be like to have someone to share accommodation with? How about conversations about moving in together, or even the possibility of starting a family? If he has the courage to come out with these at the risk of appearing overly keen, he is clearly passionate about you.

    Taking it slow

    If this guy shows no immediate signs of wanting to hook up but seems content to chat with you, finding out more about you over a period of time, this is another clear example he is looking for a partnership.


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  • How To Give A Sloppy Blowjob

    How To Give A Sloppy Blowjob

    I like giving oral sex, I like the feeling of knowing that I’m pleasing the one I’m with. I like receiving oral sex but it doesn’t give me as much pleasure as sex does so I usually wants to skip it.

    What Is A Sloppy Blowjob

    A lot of saliva, ruined makeup and maybe some deepthroating. All I want is to be covered in saliva and cum when we finished.

    Tips To Give A Good Sloppy

    I would say, drink a lot of water or any liquid a couple hours before. I know that I can’t produce a lot of saliva when I’m dehydrated. Take the dick as far down as you can, that gives you thicker saliva. Don’t swallow any saliva, just keep it in you mouth and if it drips out, lick it up again. I don’t really have a technique, just do it as a normal blowjob but with a lot of saliva in my mouth and smack the dick on my face when it’s wet.

    My Favorite Choice Of Finish

    I prefer facials. I love the feeling of warm cum running down my face. And also knowing that my partner likes it so that gives me a lot of pleasure.

    If I get a facial, I like to smear it all over my face and sometimes push it into my mouth and swallow it.

    If he comes in my mouth, I like to swirl it around and show it to everyone that watches before I swallow it.


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  • Tips For New Adult Film Performers

    Tips For New Adult Film Performers

    I’ve been working behind-the-scenes in the adult industry for the past 6 years. When looking to advance in my career, I decided it was time to make the jump to being a performer. Having been on set for so long, I’ve been lucky enough to work with directors that support me and even will recommend me as a performer to other companies. I’ve also had an abundance of support in my new endeavor from my amazing wife who also works in the industry in marketing.

    Photo: Jeff Koga (@kogafoto)

    How A Typical Shooting Process Goes

    Of course, prior to any scene, you must be tested and your clear test needs to be posted into the PASS system. When you arrive to set, you fill out your legal documentation for the records. Performers will show each other our clear tests to be sure everyone feels comfortable.

    Beyond that it varies based on what the particular company needs as far as a scene. I’ve mostly shot with gonzo companies, which are very minimal in the direction. There is a basic idea and it leads to sex. Typically a full movie will consist of four scenes with varying partners per scene.

    After a blowbang for Aziani Studios with Eden Sin (@EdenxSin)

    Misconceptions About Adult Performers

    A lot of people just assume it’s an all-out orgy between performers at all times. This is definitely not the case. Many performers have families and regular lives outside of the industry. It is a job, just a little more fun than the typical. Many people have also asked if the performers are being forced into this line of work. I can say that on all of the sets I have ever been on, consent is the number one rule. We always want all performers to feel completely comfortable at all times.

    After a shoot with Lily Lane (LilyLaneXXX)

    Challenges Faced When Performing

    I feel like there is nothing to really complain about as a performer. That being said, one of the biggest challenges I have noticed since the beginning is an abundance of downtime on set. So you need to stay in the right mindset and you need to feel comfortable so you can perform when the pressure is on and multiple people are watching you.

    Working as a PA on set for Maestro Claudio and Bam Visions

    Differences In Sex Between On & Off Cam

    Obviously, on camera, you have people watching you in addition to the camera. There’s also the consideration of opening for the camera so they can see the action. It’s less intimate than sex off camera for sure. There is a lot more of a mental game with sex on camera. You’re not just having sex for yourself, so for me at least it’s a totally different type of connection.


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