How To Give A Lady An Orgasm

Personally, I’ve always been a sexual person and feel it is a good expression of one’s sex. All people in sales have always had higher than average sex drives, which just goes to show how powerful sexual energy is.

With that said, I’m not monogamous and don’t believe in having one sexual partner. In the past, having to repress this and act “normal” would usually get me in a lot of trouble. A lot of girls may try to change this and make me their own, however I don’t waste my time with them anymore. I like women that are open minded and accept me for who I am.

What Defines A Good Sexual Experience

One that is boring or vanilla; aka vanilla or standard missionary. A good sexual experience could be a variety of different things, however both parties climaxing multiple times is always a must.

I really enjoy group sex with multiple girls that are into each other. Or in the past, I have been hired multiple times to have sex with wives in front on their husbands as they get off on it. Nothing charges the room with sexual energy like a good orgy.

Female Orgasm Misconceptions

I think a lot of guys like to brag about how good they are at making a girl squirt or cum etc. A guy who is truly good at giving women an orgasm won’t run his mouth about it and will also always be open to learning and listening to the woman as all women are different. Some cum very quickly and others may take an hour of me giving them head to get them off with their assistance.

Women often take longer than men to climax, and a lot of guys just like to blow their load and leave. If you want to be successful as a male escort, you better make sure she has cum multiple times before you have.

Tips For Good Sex

Be open minded and honest. Be yourself. Nothing makes for better and more enjoyable sex than actually being able to click and connect with someone in a genuine way.

For guys looking to attract women, I suggest you be yourself, but your BEST self. The guys that drive the women crazy are the ones who are ambitious and always striving to improve themselves and help others. They have more important projects and goals then just sleeping with women all the time. The side effect of this? Women will be very attracted to you.

For women, being open minded and not smothering us is best. I know that when a woman tries to control me and run my life, I want to run a mile.

Also, explore! Try new things; 69, anal, adding partners, toys, public places, watching porn together etc. The possibilities are unlimited so you will never get bored!

Ways To Experiment

Experimental wise, anything goes so long as there is no homosexual activity, as I am not attracted to men. Gang bangs or threesomes with a guy and girl can be great however.

It really depends on the girl. One technique my friend showed me in a threesome to make a girl squirt is pretty full proof. He’s better at it than me, but I have made half a dozen girls squirt since implementing it:

Start by massaging the girls’ abdomen and get her as wet as possible by giving her head. Literally drenched. Keep massaging her abdomen to relax her, then take two fingers (middle finger and second to the pinky) and slide them in and out of her while your palm is rubbing up against her clit at the full depth of insertion. Then you want to curl your fingers as much as possible while inside her until you can feel a rough spot. You almost want to pump your palm at this point inside her until you feel fluid accumulate and she bursts. There will be lots of Google images demonstrating this.

Ryan Ainsley – Ryan Ainsley is a certified personal trainer and straight male escort from and residing in Canada. He has a passion for women and helping others. He started escorting after getting requests from women and couples.

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